As a coach and therapist, conversations like these help us refine our skills and keep abreast of challenges that exist in communities. I suggest people make notes and pay attention to the suggestions and tips given. I'm currently on page 5 of my notes, LOL, and I'm only half way through the podcast!
Great topic to raise awareness - Besides education , I believe What’s required is emotional intelligence / healing for both men and women - know yourself, deal with the limiting patterns or beliefs you’re holding , go into marriage with better emotional regulation before starting a new relationship
To he honest, im suppose to he studying for my exam tomorrow but can't stop listening , godda finish this podcast. Its so insightful i wonder why views are no 1 million already!!
We definitely need more conversations around this topic. Good job guys. Keep it up. We definitely need the suggested courses, booklets, workshop..all of it.
Alhamdullilah, may Allah swt blessed u all for addressing the 'elephants in the room',bringing unspoken truths to the surface that will InshAllah assist communities with growing empathy, compassion to women in society 👌.
JazakAllah Ladies for discussing the issues surrounding women's challenges and trials. Much appreciated Aunty Amina and Nazrana. Thank you so much for our amazing and supportive groups. You all rock 🎉
Dunno why but i find this funniest. 😂😂 " Man has no compassion " its all about me.. Me. Imagining a spoilt prince . May Allah soften our hearts and grant us compassion to our future wives
There's nothing wrong in getting a second, a third and a fourth wife. But the way you talk and approach about this topic tells me what type of a man you are. Men who act entitled and defensive when it comes to this topic wants nothing but sex dolls as a second or a third wife. Men who understands this topic of polygamy knows the nuance and responsibilities they have on their shoulders when getting a second wife. It's the men's attitude in this regard that disgusts women. Have the right attitude and mindset, and we women will follow.
We know by now that the only legitimate basis for polygamy in the Quran is the care of orphans - if they need that care. [Quran 4:3] If you deem it best for the orphans, you may marry their mothers - you may marry two, three, or four. Note that you CAN take care of orphans without marrying their mothers. Young widows should be able to marry single available men too, there is no issue there except a cultural one. The solution to this isn’t polygamy only. Differentiate between culture, Quranic Islam and Hadith ideology. These specific beliefs can and do vary widely from one another and can cause confusion and problems like the ones stated in the video. It isn’t settled like Amina says quite resolute, polygamy is specifically for orphaned first and as a last resort if you feel you might not do them justice. It’s isn’t a one size fits all solution for young widowed Muslim women with children that shunned by their culture of marrying a single men without children. Hope this helps a bit.
Best is knowledge, a gap year after school with classes of sacred knowledge in the subah of pious scholars and a module on marriage and tarbiya of children . take the problems and turn them into knowledge classes teach them : And please remove the culture issues : a course won’t do the trick an entire year of knowledge is what is required learn your deen .Ilm on a practical scale so that they able to make aml on it so not an alim course a entire year on living Islam
Great podcast , one thing that’s not true, women are also narcissist , it’s not only men , women have lots of narcissism and many psychologists speak about it .
Great podcast , one thing that’s not true, women are also narcissist , it’s not only men , women have lots of narcissism and many psychologists speak about it .
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As a coach and therapist, conversations like these help us refine our skills and keep abreast of challenges that exist in communities. I suggest people make notes and pay attention to the suggestions and tips given. I'm currently on page 5 of my notes, LOL, and I'm only half way through the podcast!
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40:50 Narcissism
Great topic to raise awareness - Besides education , I believe What’s required is emotional intelligence / healing for both men and women - know yourself, deal with the limiting patterns or beliefs you’re holding , go into marriage with better emotional regulation before starting a new relationship
To he honest, im suppose to he studying for my exam tomorrow but can't stop listening , godda finish this podcast. Its so insightful i wonder why views are no 1 million already!!
We definitely need more conversations around this topic. Good job guys. Keep it up. We definitely need the suggested courses, booklets, workshop..all of it.
Alhamdullilah, may Allah swt blessed u all for addressing the 'elephants in the room',bringing unspoken truths to the surface that will InshAllah assist communities with growing empathy, compassion to women in society 👌.
Saw a clip of this on IG. Excited to watch the full video
JazakAllah Ladies for discussing the issues surrounding women's challenges and trials. Much appreciated Aunty Amina and Nazrana. Thank you so much for our amazing and supportive groups. You all rock 🎉
May Allah bless you all for the good work that you are doing and for being the voices of truth and reality.
Yes bring part 2!
Masha Allah, such healthy conversation covering important issues. Love this
You guys are doing amazing work. Keep going.
I liked this conversation. However, it was very difficult to follow when the men kept cutting off and talking over the ladies. Very frustrating.
Alhamdullilah jazakallah for this
Healthy conversations❤
Dunno why but i find this funniest. 😂😂
" Man has no compassion " its all about me..
Me. Imagining a spoilt prince .
May Allah soften our hearts and grant us compassion to our future wives
There's nothing wrong in getting a second, a third and a fourth wife. But the way you talk and approach about this topic tells me what type of a man you are.
Men who act entitled and defensive when it comes to this topic wants nothing but sex dolls as a second or a third wife.
Men who understands this topic of polygamy knows the nuance and responsibilities they have on their shoulders when getting a second wife.
It's the men's attitude in this regard that disgusts women. Have the right attitude and mindset, and we women will follow.
Really awesome 🎉
Prophet Muhammad and the messengers loved it, so there's no debate, simple
Without intending to reduce the impact of abuse on women, perhaps we need to try and help abusive narcissistic boys with counselling
We know by now that the only legitimate basis for polygamy in the Quran is the care of orphans - if they need that care. [Quran 4:3] If you deem it best for the orphans, you may marry their mothers - you may marry two, three, or four.
Note that you CAN take care of orphans without marrying their mothers.
Young widows should be able to marry single available men too, there is no issue there except a cultural one. The solution to this isn’t polygamy only.
Differentiate between culture, Quranic Islam and Hadith ideology.
These specific beliefs can and do vary widely from one another and can cause confusion and problems like the ones stated in the video.
It isn’t settled like Amina says quite resolute, polygamy is specifically for orphaned first and as a last resort if you feel you might not do them justice. It’s isn’t a one size fits all solution for young widowed Muslim women with children that shunned by their culture of marrying a single men without children.
Hope this helps a bit.
It's praise worthy , Allah loves pologmy
Best is knowledge, a gap year after school with classes of sacred knowledge in the subah of pious scholars and a module on marriage and tarbiya of children . take the problems and turn them into knowledge classes teach them : And please remove the culture issues : a course won’t do the trick an entire year of knowledge is what is required learn your deen .Ilm on a practical scale so that they able to make aml on it so not an alim course a entire year on living Islam
We need to redefine courtship, samoosa run.
Opinions mean nothing
Especially to close minded people 🙄
Especially to close-minded. people take what is useful to you and use the wisdom you're blessed with
Great podcast , one thing that’s not true, women are also narcissist , it’s not only men , women have lots of narcissism and many psychologists speak about it .
The nabi was more mature than you,
Great podcast , one thing that’s not true, women are also narcissist , it’s not only men , women have lots of narcissism and many psychologists speak about it .