It is time to slow down - dealing with a burnout

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
  • It is time to slow down. So yes, it seems I am dealing with a burnout. How did it happen, and what to do next?
    In the old days we had to run away from lions. Adrenaline would be released to get a rapid heartbeat, faster breathing and tunnel vision. We don't have to run away from lions anymore. But in stressful situations adrenaline still gets released.
    Filmed with:
    - Nikon D780
    - iPhone 12 Pro Max

КОМЕНТАРІ • 36

  • @samsimpson120
    @samsimpson120 Рік тому +4

    Wonderful to know that you are looking after yourself and destressing. A magic cure is to take a bike ride without all the cameras and not worrying about vlogging. Just breath and empty out all those stressful thoughts. Hope you have a wonderful festive season and all my best wishes for the New Year.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому

      Good advice. I do swim twice a week, without any cameras (not allowed ;)) and it always feels great.

  • @NottinghamshireMadness
    @NottinghamshireMadness Рік тому

    Wonderful from you heart, thank you for sharing x

  • @viktorkathi9871
    @viktorkathi9871 Рік тому

    Happy to see you back! Best wishes!

  • @frits1954X2
    @frits1954X2 Рік тому

    Zorg goed voor je zelf je bent zeer kostbaar
    Mvg
    Frits

  • @waynecallister2236
    @waynecallister2236 Рік тому +1

    Wow, what a year you've had! I am sure your renovation will turn out beautifully in time. Thank you for continuing to post videos in spite of everything. Don't worry about posting regularly, take good care of yourself first. We will be here whenever you are ready to post. And please never forget- YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH! You and your videos are actually pretty great.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому +1

      Thanks Wayne. 🙏 Really sweet. The renovation is getting there, living room is finished, soon I’ll have a beautiful office as well.

  • @user-nm2kg8zm9l
    @user-nm2kg8zm9l Рік тому +1

    Cool video, you're very funny.

  • @anneliesdehaas
    @anneliesdehaas Рік тому

    Bedankt voor de video. Ik hoop dat je een goede balans in je leven kunt vinden.

  • @thomashosch930
    @thomashosch930 Рік тому

    Sorry for your loss. Hope you feel better. I'm praying for you.

  • @stefaanvanbiervliet338
    @stefaanvanbiervliet338 Рік тому

    Duidelijk filmpje en de lichtomstandigheden waren prima 😉. Geniet van de dingen die je energie geven en laad de batterij op. Hopelijk is de batterij vlug terug opgeladen en kan je in de toekomst beter doseren dat is de key die we allemaal dikwijls vergeten.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому

      Ik heb speciale filmverlichting in huis gehaald ;). Die wel af en toe knipperde. Maar erg blij mee. En ja, ik ben lang niet de enige die wel eens de balans totaal kwijtraakt, ik krijg erg veel reacties van ervaringsdeskundigen. Gek eigenlijk, dat het toch een lastig gespreksonderwerp blijft. Verandert gelukkig wel steeds meer…

  • @edwin_slager
    @edwin_slager Рік тому

    Vind het een heel duidelijk verhaal, waarin ik me gedeeltelijk ook wel herken. Ik hoop dat vlot van de “ leeuw “ af bent.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому +1

      Dankjewel. Velen van ons hebben wel eens met de leeuw te maken, merk ik aan de reacties. Het herkennen is de eerste stap.

  • @clivespicer7763
    @clivespicer7763 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your feelings, and well done for making the step to seek professional help to get your life back on track. I can only comment your video content, i can't (yet) read your dutch press articles. Your cycling videos contain excellent content of which you should be immensely proud. Put those doubts aside, there are so many cycle blogs on UA-cam, but yours are amongst the most inspirational. After watching each of your video trips I feel an instant need to plan another trip on my own Idworx. It's a fickle career you are carving out for yourself in the media but you impart passion and a great sense of fun in your work. I sincerely hope that you can find an equal balance for the other aspects of your life. Hold your head high Jessica, you are cherished.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому

      Wow Clive, that’s a great thing to hear. ❤️ Thank you so much. Means a lot.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому

      And: great bike ;).

  • @MYoutube8
    @MYoutube8 Рік тому

    Welcome to life. Its sucks and its amazing.

  • @timkuik7019
    @timkuik7019 Рік тому

    Beterschap Jessica! Ik mis je fietsvlogs. Maar je gezondheid gaat voor.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому

      Dankjewel, er komen snel weer fietsvlogs aan! 🚴🏼‍♀️ Genoeg gefilmd, nu nog editten.

  • @Traveltoppereu
    @Traveltoppereu Рік тому

    Inderdaad Jessica, zo nu en dan moet je luisteren naar je eigen lichaam. Ik hoop dat het al beter gaat met de gezondheid. Ik blijf je volgen. Groetjes van Eddy / That's right Jessica, every now and then you have to listen to your own body. I hope that your health is getting better. I keep following you. Greetings from Eddy

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому

      Dankjewel Eddy! Alleen al toegeven dat het zo niet langer gaat, is al een flinke stap, en ik voel me sindsdien steeds wat beter. Blijven luisteren naar mijn lijf dus, en nu toch ook echt eens mijn emoties…. Ik ben een beetje beduusd van alle lieve reacties, betekent echt heel veel. ❤️

    • @Traveltoppereu
      @Traveltoppereu Рік тому

      @@Fietsvlogger Graag gedaan, en hou je goed hoor

  • @johnlindsay6270
    @johnlindsay6270 Рік тому

    Hmmm! Very interesting vlog. Thank you. I am a retired 75 year old from UK living in Austria. Suffered a couple of burnouts/nervous break downs during my working life, and thought I was pretty relaxed about everything now. However, I recognise several of your listed symptoms in my here and now! Have to see how this ski season goes and then cycle a bit more come the spring.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому

      Bad habits are hard to beat. Take it easy this ski season, and enjoy the beautiful surroundings! I love the mountains of Austria.

  • @julielovegrove4899
    @julielovegrove4899 Рік тому

    We all tend to put on a front so it’s brave to open up and share how you really feel, wishing you much health and happiness 😊

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому +1

      Thanks! UA-cam made me realize so many people go through the same things in life - and talking about it with each other feels like such a big relief.

  • @redsorgum
    @redsorgum Рік тому

    Fibromyalgia is a tuff beast to wrestle with, I know, because I have it. I’m doing much better at excepting my limitations. Don’t feel bad when you feel you need to slow down, it’s just what it is. ✌️

  • @peteshelton5005
    @peteshelton5005 Рік тому

    Find your passions and follow them. You will often never know the people you touch in a positive way and that may be your place, even if you don’t get direct affirmation. One day at a time - both on the bike and in life.

    • @Fietsvlogger
      @Fietsvlogger  Рік тому +1

      One day at a time, sounds good. It used to be my motto, trying to get there again.

  • @alafenetre81
    @alafenetre81 Рік тому

    Maybe you're trying too hard, you put too much pressure on yourself? Anyway, nice video, try to relax, we cannot control everything :-)

  • @DeeBeezy-bf3fb
    @DeeBeezy-bf3fb Рік тому

    Yup.