Let’s normalize asking people if they are really doing well. Let’s show genuine care when asking such questions so they can open up to us. May he rest in perfect peace 😢
But some of them you can never see what they are going through. Just look at him, for example. How will you know if something is wrong with him? Sometimes, you also have to open up to people you can trust.
God gave u life without u asking for it and He will take it back without u asking. Never take ur life, u will give an account for it. God has kept u around even in ur difficulties for a reason, u will testify soon and never let the devil tell u that u are not worth it. u are and that is why u are still here. the value of gold is not known until it's gone through the fire .Stand firm and wait for ur season to shine.
Clement, (I'm a med Doc).. I suspect more of a medical condition that probably hit him hard when he got the diagnosis. I wouldn't want to say the exact.. Because he's not my patient.. I'm just speaking generally per what I know.. So I think you should probe more on that. That is what I think. With the surgery on his testes, it could be a problem of an underlying “infection” he probably couldn't handle..I wouldn't want to go more into details. But do your research on that. It could save the life of someone silently battling a similar condition..... Having said that, May his soul rest in peace. And may he find the peace he wanted in the lord's bossom.
@@fred5743 that’s why we should take it upon ourselves to do follow up on our patients ( with some specific conditions or when we make certain diagnosis ) and if possible refer them to a specialist that can help them handle and accept the situation as it is. May his soul Rest In Peace
A year ago my brother nearly killed himself but he a mistake and we found out. All because his wife had left him we got him help and by the Grace of God he is doing very well.
CHURCH really have alot to do. A worker or diligent server like this n he couldn't go to anyone tells alot. May we have empathy n care for our fellow human being
Are you saying God helps some people and others are on their own. Christians should stop making these statements. It makes your God partial. Suicide like salvation, is a personal decision. Leave God out of the equation.
I have seen people typing he should have talked to someone buh you see when even you have the courage to do that,those people will not even take you serious…They don’t even understand …Buh with God ,it is possible to overcome mental health issues..Asem oo😊
If you have not been there , it's easy to condemn such situations. May God help us ! This life isn't easy because some of us never open up. The battles are real and mentally draining . 😔
@@shadalinetawiah6555 , just jumped here and smiled. Thank you so much, the expression may seem as just words but you've sparked some hope in me. Grateful
The fight against depression is not easy koraa😢😢…I had to see clinical psychologist for a while even with that I’m still trying to cope…it is well..this is soo sad 😢 I feel for his family 😢..may his gentle soul rest in perfect peace 😢😢
This really break my heart💔😢Sometimes it's better to share your problems with others,their advice may comfort you and keep you safe than staying depressed😭
He was singing gospel but didn’t know the one he is singing about in his closet. May he rest in peace. If you really know God and trust in his ways with every fiber in you, suicidal thoughts will never cross your mind. To us living, put your trust in God, and no matter what you got to trust someone too. At least people you look up to.
Am Stephen Maccarthy I nearly took my life 2015 I have been suffering from Osteoarthritis since 2010 till now and am still in pain with no help, things I used to do I can't do them anymore. But psalm 23 strength me and I didn't end my life. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢Health issues are Dangerous
Very true Alot of people are going through hardship but find no one not even in the church to confide in 😢 It's really disheartening The Lord will help us all
It is not easy, but pls never ever give up. I always tell my friends or encourage ppl that always know that someone situation is worse than yours n keep trusting God. We have all been through a lot, ppl dont tell you their story but if they do sometimes you will know that you re well off. Dont ever give up, if I look back 14 years ago what I went through, to now I dont believe that I went thru that. But keep trusting in God.
I'm late anaaa, I almost took my life over a man in 2022, but I said to myself "if you are going through hard times, remember you own yourself a better and beautiful life"
Charley if something dey worry you try then speak to someone o... Because people will still move on few weeks after you die no matter how they love you. May his soul rest in peace😢
Let's learn to be there for each other. At the beginning of August, I was going through some challenges. I reached out to somone I call a friend just for him to even listen..... but he told me he was not interested in listening to me. That day I knew sɛ nipa yɛ bad and in your darkest moments the people you trust will let you down
Hmmm Clement well said a PROBLEM SHARED is a PROBLEM SOlVED but in this 21st century Society a Problem shared is is not solved but leads to MOCKERY big time . Awww May his soul Rest In Peace 😢😢😢.
I wept over this news , the way he was happy singing doesn't show he was going through anything, ah, the church leadership must wake up and do better, ah
so if he was pretending to be happy without sharing his problem how will people know and help him,people should also wake up and seek for help than pretending to be happy
@@Gracie204 well cause he had no confidence so something they rather don't, cause bibini will hear everything and say sorry and even go about spreading . The young man actions demonstrate he had no confidence In people is the society we in
@@DanielAsiedu-b6tgiving your life to Jesus is a battle in itself. You’ve got to be aggressive and violence if not the devil will take you for a ride. I went through pain, hardship,constant disappointment for years. I then decided to tak😢action, all I did was to leave my room travel to a prayer camp. I stayed there for 3months. Praying, fasting, worshipping God reading the word. Telling God to come through for me. My eyes were red that I told myself if IT WOULD TAKE THE DROP OF MY BLOOD 🩸, I will fight till the end and not give up. I was crazily determined. My brother as I am talking to you. My life is now a testimony. I am enjoying in a foreign. The singer wasn’t aggressive enough. anyway may his soul rest in peace
But he gave his life to Jesus, or the devil went and take it from Jesus?..is the devil more powerful than Jesus? Honestly u people are confusing us so kindly explain.
🚨Mental health is a serious issue and most continue to downplay it in Ghana especially in the Christian and religious sessions - a silent killer - and social media and cyber bullying is even making it worst 😢. May he rest strong
I nearly ended my life yesterday Around 11pm yesterday becuase of debt which is not even up to 10k hovering my neck and the way society is seeing and even treating me. Hmmmmm. Sometimes i even wonder if the house of God is even a save place becuase when you are in trouble is even there the gossips become plenty. I thank God my last born cried some wired crying bi. Someone who was asleep, it was through that i got saved. Hmmm. I know one day the table will turn to favor us. May his soul rest in peace. I can really feel his pains
People who haven't been through this before won't understand. I was so sick and in huge debts in 2022. Feeding was even a problem although I was working. Everything i made went into my health yet no improvement. I lost my 6 years old relationship.I didn't trust anyone to keep my predicament a secret so i didn't open up to anyone. My mom was the only one I could have opened up to. But thinking of how the news of my severe health will break her due to her bp issues, i kept it to myself and spoke to God. When i felt God wasn't helping, i thought of ending it all. Sometimes, its its not the sicknesses that scare us ooo. But rather,its the thought of going to die soon. All i can say is, lets try to be kind in how we talk and treat people.
He texted me 3days before he died.he said he’s checking up on me.and he’s just passing through.i thought it was just a Normal thing we used to say back in Accra college of education
Hmm its not easy oo I think the time we reported on Drogba’s sickness,i came to comment that ma wedding was set for November but ma guy was just diagnosed wit final stage cancer.he wasn’t sick or anything oo.It hasn’t been easy.till last Teusday when myself and another family member had to sign him off his life support machine.he is even not in Ghana,and had requested his body be cremated!Im stucked in ma room.U might not even recognize me when u see me out.but i know i need to be strong!people are going through alot and u never know!I dont even know where to start from.
I am so sorry. It must be tough going through this experience. Being strong does not mean you shouldn't cry or worry. It takes the strong to be vulnerable and to let the pain wash over them. You are strong. Cry if you must. It's good to take time to be alone but don't shut people out. Let others share in your pain and grief. Accept my condolences.
Taking his life is not the best solution.We don't live by what is seen but by faith.God is able to do all things.Jacob taking his life means he had stop trusting in God.oh Jacob may your soul rest well in the Lord.
Indeed what he did was not the best but we must understand that seeking healing for years would get one’s spirit down, this lead to depression and when not dealt with, it’s overwhelming and whosoever is suffering from it can’t see a way out.
This is the problem. The guy had mental issues and you are talking about faith? I’m a Christian but the biggest problem is that even the church pretends that suffering doesn’t and shouldn’t exist. When was the last time you heard a church going through scriptures on suffering being one of God’s providence and blessing for us? So yes, many Christians do not know how to suffer well, plus lack of infrastructure makes it worse.
I will always say this and it is my Philosophy..."THERE'S NO PROBLEM IN THIS WORLD,WE ARE OUR OWN PROBLEM, ESPECIALLY TO BE THINKING OF WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY ABOUT ME,I WILL LOOK LIKE A FOOL,THEY WILL CALL ME NAMES AND BLA BLA BLA,IF THERE'S SOMEONE YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEN LET IT BE GOD,IF YOU SHOULD PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE GOD,IT IS PAINFUL FOR GOD TO LAUGH AT YOU AND REJECT YOU MORE THAN HUMAN BEINGS WILL DO!!!!
@@tillyamegash973 it is Foolishness to expect humans to do what you want, unless you are a fool not to know that not everyone is wise... NB: am not insulting u, making a point
With prayers , communicate with God about your problems and struggles in life , even when there seems to be no way ,God cares and thinks about , just go to him in prayers and he will remeber you in his time 🙏🏾
I have said this and will say again. We don’t take mental health seriously in Ghana. We joke about it because we think if you are a Christian you can’t be Suffering with mental health😢
Mental health issues ? Mental health issue can’t make someone kill herself but rather kill others before taking their own life. People are going through a lot. Thank you
It's easy to say that Ghana as a society doesn't take MH serious, but here in England, we have different communities, organisations, helplines even medicated but almost every day, people throw themselves onto train tracks . Hmm...😢💔🤍🩶 Love life and don't live your life for someone. If you have life , you have hope. May his soul rest in peace
@@ohemaa1506 I have seen someone in London, Plaistow to be precise jumped in front of a moving train. So I know it happens but as a black person and African we play down mental health as if it’s nothing.
I went through Hell between 2017 and 2021 and suicidal thoughts was in my head always but I always thought about how my family and loved ones will feel. Now I am fine
Am not surprised…gospel singers like us go through a lot in our lonely corner…I remember crying bitterly in my hostel room after a ministration at NUGS cos I didn’t even know what I was going to eat that night but smiled all through out the program…even my fees was a problem…but ppl would have thought all was well with me if I had taken the action that came in mind…sometimes u jux forget the lyrics of the songs u sing wen the troubles come 😪😪😪…RIP bro
You can sit down quietly and draw something positive out of your situation. The positive out of the negative outweighs all negativity. We all going through a lot but find a reason to survive. Your situation is not permanent. God dey.
Whatever you are dealing with, I assure you that no condition is permanent. If you can find the strength, this phase will pass. Pls talk to someone. You will come out of it
Hmmmmm, I'm going through alot and sometimes l think of taking my life but I'm scared of leaving my daughter behind, wondering who will take care of her,Lord please send me help
Never end your life because you are precious and wealthy and killing yourself doesn't mean you will make it to heaven. Killing yourself is a sin because you did not create yourself. Sadly, this brother has battled mental health silently while he consoles others through his song ministration. May God comfort his family during these hard times.
Serious depression is real...i went into depression for years and decided to take my life...at that point you will not recognize ursef...u wnt think abt family...u will listen to anything..hmmmmm...its so sad ooooo..bit pls anytime u go through serious depression..try to open up to at least teo people..and be going out..and avoid the things that trigers the suicide..dnt stay alone..never stay alone or isolate ursef...i say thank Gid for saving my life from dying after suicide😢😢😢
God is always truthful and just. He will glorify His name no matter the situation, and at the right time, He will come through. Christians must remember that God is not swayed by emotions; we must always look up to Him. May his soul rest in peace.
In our side of the world, mental health issues are not yet appreciated as they should. I have been depressed before, nearly took my life. I was hopeless. I couldn't tell anyone what I was going through because, in our side of the world, when you try to open up about your problem, you're most likely to get 2 types of reactions: 1. People will belittle your problem, saying things like "ah, be grateful for what you have..some people have it worse than you" or "ah, a broken heart is a silly reason to be depressed" 2. The religious people will just tell you to leave it to God and he will help you. With regard to point number 1: we are all different and unique. Our bodies, our brains react differently in different situations. What you might deem as a problem may not be a problem to someone else and vice versa. With regards to point number 2: I am a Christian, trust me. But that is the last thing I needed to hear (mind you, for some people that will work. For others, it won't). A Christian knows that there is God. But when you're depressed, you start thinking that either God is punishing you, has given up on you, or just never cared about you... because why is it that I'm the only one being depressed and going through all this while my friends and family are thriving? Let's be mindful. Sometimes, all a depressed person needs is to feel loved. Sometimes, just a hug. Sometimes, just sit by them in silence. Just ask them how they'd like you to help them. Validate their feelings. Take it slow and be patient. FYI, if your friend, who was going through a lot and was depressed, suddenly looks happy and all smiley... there's a high probability they're planning their suicide. That's how it works. They'll make you think all is good so that you don't worry about them. Meanwhile, they are working on their plan. They start deleting social media, subscriptions, and their image from the world... slowly so that when they're gone it will be easy for you to forget them. They don't want to be a burden to you, even after they die. Please, take care of your mental health. And check up on your loved ones. I have been there before and it was the worst thing ever.
What ! May the Lord grant us the grace to break free from any physical and spiritual battles. Mercy Lord 🙏. If you can't face the problem alone please share it because it really hurt to loose a loved one. Hmmm
Sometimes checking up on people genuinely, being there for them , and creating an environment where they can share with you all theor problems is what matters We will be shocked just by asking someone how are you doing and how is everything will amaze you how the person will break down with tears
It’s sad to hear this. Sickness can cause a lot of mental health. Please let’s look at mental health and start talking about it. Sometimes it’s difficult and tough to open up but let’s be intentionally there for our friends, colleagues and family. May he rest in peace
This news just broke me to the core, the is no condemnation for us in Christ Jesus. I am really sad I can't just accept this guy's excuse.. ..hmmmmmmm😢😢😢😢😢😢.
Mental Health Issues Must Be Taken Seriously In Ghana 🇬🇭.
Let’s normalize asking people if they are really doing well. Let’s show genuine care when asking such questions so they can open up to us. May he rest in perfect peace 😢
Exactly sis. A lot of us are going through a lot. May God see us through
Let’s learn to be a listener and not judgmental as well
Hmmm
Not easy for them to come out cos people are now judgemental and gossips.
But some of them you can never see what they are going through. Just look at him, for example. How will you know if something is wrong with him? Sometimes, you also have to open up to people you can trust.
God gave u life without u asking for it and He will take it back without u asking. Never take ur life, u will give an account for it. God has kept u around even in ur difficulties for a reason, u will testify soon and never let the devil tell u that u are not worth it. u are and that is why u are still here. the value of gold is not known until it's gone through the fire .Stand firm and wait for ur season to shine.
Do you know what depression is?? Pray you never go through it. Never criticize what you don’t know nothing about…..
Clement, (I'm a med Doc).. I suspect more of a medical condition that probably hit him hard when he got the diagnosis. I wouldn't want to say the exact.. Because he's not my patient.. I'm just speaking generally per what I know.. So I think you should probe more on that. That is what I think. With the surgery on his testes, it could be a problem of an underlying “infection” he probably couldn't handle..I wouldn't want to go more into details. But do your research on that. It could save the life of someone silently battling a similar condition..... Having said that, May his soul rest in peace. And may he find the peace he wanted in the lord's bossom.
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@@fred5743 that’s why we should take it upon ourselves to do follow up on our patients ( with some specific conditions or when we make certain diagnosis ) and if possible refer them to a specialist that can help them handle and accept the situation as it is. May his soul Rest In Peace
Is true
A year ago my brother nearly killed himself but he a mistake and we found out. All because his wife had left him we got him help and by the Grace of God he is doing very well.
CHURCH really have alot to do. A worker or diligent server like this n he couldn't go to anyone tells alot. May we have empathy n care for our fellow human being
Church people can be too judgmental.
Church can let u go crazy sometimes and ur situation get worse.hmm
The Church of today is all about the money
The church is not a problem solver....
@@richardbentil4881 RUBBISH
May God never let us be hopeless or helpless to the extent of commiting suicide
Amen
Amen
Amen
Never Amen
Are you saying God helps some people and others are on their own. Christians should stop making these statements. It makes your God partial. Suicide like salvation, is a personal decision. Leave God out of the equation.
O God help us fight the battles of our minds for it's stronger than our strength Amen 🙏🏾
I have seen people typing he should have talked to someone buh you see when even you have the courage to do that,those people will not even take you serious…They don’t even understand …Buh with God ,it is possible to overcome mental health issues..Asem oo😊
I shock sef. Many people cant control thier mouth when people open up to them. It's sad paaa.
If you have not been there , it's easy to condemn such situations.
May God help us ! This life isn't easy because some of us never open up. The battles are real and mentally draining . 😔
@@danielarthur5545 hey I love you okay … yes the battles are , but our Hope is in God 😍
@@shadalinetawiah6555 , just jumped here and smiled. Thank you so much, the expression may seem as just words but you've sparked some hope in me. Grateful
Hmm it’s not easy right now I’m going through a lot
Life is not easy at all
God help me and anyone out there going through something
It is well with you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
God is always with you, stay strong ❤
Don’t worry u will be fine insha Allah 😢…I’m sure God will make a way for u and some of us going through serious depression it is well 🙏
At least you are abel to buy data. God will make a way
Try as much as possible to thanks to God in all your circumstances..Trust me miracles happens everyday.Stay safe and be blessed 🙌
The fight against depression is not easy koraa😢😢…I had to see clinical psychologist for a while even with that I’m still trying to cope…it is well..this is soo sad 😢 I feel for his family 😢..may his gentle soul rest in perfect peace 😢😢
I got you darling
Good evening dear madam
@@AtugubaStella Good evening too ma’m 🫠
I've got to learn that there are a lot of pain, struggle and hurt masked behind smiles and perfect appearances
Life can be so overwhelming 😢
Yes ooo 😢
Very😢
Nyame beboa yen dearies😰🙏
This really break my heart💔😢Sometimes it's better to share your problems with others,their advice may comfort you and keep you safe than staying depressed😭
Hmmmm😢😢
Found you ❤
Hmmmm
Exactly my point dear😢. Depression is real.May God see us all through
Hmm sometimes there is no trust 😢
He was singing gospel but didn’t know the one he is singing about in his closet. May he rest in peace. If you really know God and trust in his ways with every fiber in you, suicidal thoughts will never cross your mind. To us living, put your trust in God, and no matter what you got to trust someone too. At least people you look up to.
Am Stephen Maccarthy I nearly took my life 2015 I have been suffering from Osteoarthritis since 2010 till now and am still in pain with no help, things I used to do I can't do them anymore.
But psalm 23 strength me and I didn't end my life. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢Health issues are Dangerous
@@thegameoffootball4653 I pray the God who has strengthened you up to this point will continue to strengthen you
It is well dear, but still know that God is more than everything❤
@@lordinasowah7518 but in pain we bear the pain alone.
I pray God will heal you soon
Your breakthrough is on the way don't give up 🙏
He’s a friend
Jacob has broke my heart 🥹😢
Very emotional and heart breaking.Rest well man
The economic hardship is taking a serious ton on the youth . Pastors and church leadership must create a counseling team for the youth
and also financial resources
Very true
Alot of people are going through hardship but find no one not even in the church to confide in 😢
It's really disheartening
The Lord will help us all
It is not easy, but pls never ever give up. I always tell my friends or encourage ppl that always know that someone situation is worse than yours n keep trusting God. We have all been through a lot, ppl dont tell you their story but if they do sometimes you will know that you re well off. Dont ever give up, if I look back 14 years ago what I went through, to now I dont believe that I went thru that. But keep trusting in God.
Ohhh my God this is very sad! Lord grant us hope in the midst of all depressions. My heart breaks for all who are close to him!
May he find the peace he was looking for in this life , in the afterlife.
Lord have mercy
I'm here for my love ones that almighty God should guide and protect your steps throughout where you go in Jesus name
I'm late anaaa, I almost took my life over a man in 2022, but I said to myself "if you are going through hard times, remember you own yourself a better and beautiful life"
I thank God for your life, remember that you are always important to us.
Awww sorry same here
There's more to life my dear. No man is worth it. Love yourself more ❤
Thanks
Don’t take your life okay God has a special plan for you The waiting time is hard but relax wait on him he will fix it all and make a time
They will never show you love until you are dead
Try to be open up, ok
Charley if something dey worry you try then speak to someone o... Because people will still move on few weeks after you die no matter how they love you. May his soul rest in peace😢
Not everyone finds someone to talk to or even listen
@@franchescaasamoah3046people are so judgmental and have bad mouth.You don’t know who to open up to this days
How would you know what's in the mind of those who're close to you.
Y3 ne wo sere kwa oooh bro.
Eiii Clement in blue.....I love it ❤😂
Let's learn to be there for each other. At the beginning of August, I was going through some challenges. I reached out to somone I call a friend just for him to even listen..... but he told me he was not interested in listening to me. That day I knew sɛ nipa yɛ bad and in your darkest moments the people you trust will let you down
Hmmm!I tell you😢
Bro say it again, there is no trust 😢
Talk to God wae. Not easy but with God all things are possible 🙏🏾
Hmmm same here....going through touch times but no help
Hmm bro they will never show you love until you are dead
Why at all will a person sit and think that death is the only solution aaahh rest well legend but you shouldn't have ended your life like that. 😢😢😢
Hmmm Clement well said a PROBLEM SHARED is a PROBLEM SOlVED but in this 21st century Society a Problem shared is is not solved but leads to MOCKERY big time . Awww May his soul Rest In Peace 😢😢😢.
Religion is for the hopeless... Come to God.. where we are all one.. all love.
I wept over this news , the way he was happy singing doesn't show he was going through anything, ah, the church leadership must wake up and do better, ah
so if he was pretending to be happy without sharing his problem how will people know and help him,people should also wake up and seek for help than pretending to be happy
@@Gracie204 well cause he had no confidence so something they rather don't, cause bibini will hear everything and say sorry and even go about spreading . The young man actions demonstrate he had no confidence In people is the society we in
We attend the same church🥹
He slept at the church premises on Saturday night and left there on Sunday morning to commit 😢😢😢
@@akosuaagyapong8449 oww
Terrible
Hmmm
Eii
😭😭😭😭😭
Ooooo this guy was depressed. God has mercy
Even after giving his life to Jesus?
@@DanielAsiedu-b6t people are depressed but they are afraid to talk to people
@@DanielAsiedu-b6tgiving your life to Jesus is a battle in itself. You’ve got to be aggressive and violence if not the devil will take you for a ride. I went through pain, hardship,constant disappointment for years. I then decided to tak😢action, all I did was to leave my room travel to a prayer camp. I stayed there for 3months. Praying, fasting, worshipping God reading the word. Telling God to come through for me. My eyes were red that I told myself if IT WOULD TAKE THE DROP OF MY BLOOD 🩸, I will fight till the end and not give up. I was crazily determined. My brother as I am talking to you. My life is now a testimony. I am enjoying in a foreign. The singer wasn’t aggressive enough. anyway may his soul rest in peace
He's very humble ooooooh Jake I never thought of this kraaaa rest in Glory
The devil lied to this young man😊
Ikr😢
Lets deal with matters and leave the devil in peace.
@@serwaakobua7826
But he gave his life to Jesus, or the devil went and take it from Jesus?..is the devil more powerful than Jesus?
Honestly u people are confusing us so kindly explain.
Seems this your so called devil always wins at the end.
@@attaahselase1003 well exactly what rhe devil is about , send u to hell, if u sell urself to him will waste u
🚨Mental health is a serious issue and most continue to downplay it in Ghana especially in the Christian and religious sessions - a silent killer - and social media and cyber bullying is even making it worst 😢. May he rest strong
I nearly ended my life yesterday Around 11pm yesterday becuase of debt which is not even up to 10k hovering my neck and the way society is seeing and even treating me. Hmmmmm.
Sometimes i even wonder if the house of God is even a save place becuase when you are in trouble is even there the gossips become plenty. I thank God my last born cried some wired crying bi. Someone who was asleep, it was through that i got saved. Hmmm. I know one day the table will turn to favor us. May his soul rest in peace.
I can really feel his pains
Plz don't harm yourself. May God come through for you.
@@aphianyarko-sekyerehene8772Amen
May his soul find the peace he deserves 🙏💔
People who haven't been through this before won't understand. I was so sick and in huge debts in 2022. Feeding was even a problem although I was working. Everything i made went into my health yet no improvement. I lost my 6 years old relationship.I didn't trust anyone to keep my predicament a secret so i didn't open up to anyone. My mom was the only one I could have opened up to. But thinking of how the news of my severe health will break her due to her bp issues, i kept it to myself and spoke to God. When i felt God wasn't helping, i thought of ending it all. Sometimes, its its not the sicknesses that scare us ooo. But rather,its the thought of going to die soon. All i can say is, lets try to be kind in how we talk and treat people.
@@PortiaNarkie-nq4oy Hope you’re fine now ?
@@Nia-m3k yh dear. I'm fine now
@@PortiaNarkie-nq4oy We thank God
Oh this is so sad, may his soul Rest In Peace. I went to the same school with him, which is St. Thomas Aquinas, Old Toms of 2014 year group.
You are full of wisdom in your work 👍
I met Jacob on Saturday, at "THE FATHERS' OIL CONVENTION" where he ministered 💔💔
He texted me 3days before he died.he said he’s checking up on me.and he’s just passing through.i thought it was just a Normal thing we used to say back in Accra college of education
Too sad💔💔 Suicide shouldn’t be an option..always talk to people about your problems 😢
hmmm this is so sad 😢 may his gentle soul rest in eternal comfort 🙏
Hmm its not easy oo
I think the time we reported on Drogba’s sickness,i came to comment that ma wedding was set for November but ma guy was just diagnosed wit final stage cancer.he wasn’t sick or anything oo.It hasn’t been easy.till last Teusday when myself and another family member had to sign him off his life support machine.he is even not in Ghana,and had requested his body be cremated!Im stucked in ma room.U might not even recognize me when u see me out.but i know i need to be strong!people are going through alot and u never know!I dont even know where to start from.
I am so sorry. It must be tough going through this experience. Being strong does not mean you shouldn't cry or worry. It takes the strong to be vulnerable and to let the pain wash over them. You are strong. Cry if you must. It's good to take time to be alone but don't shut people out. Let others share in your pain and grief. Accept my condolences.
May you find peace
@@itzokaytobeoverwhelmed hey,thank u!
@@belindaarhin6104 🙏🙏
Stay strong Ma'am. The Lord restore your fortunes and comfort you
He thought about it and he’s happy with his decision. I respect that. God have mercy on his soul. R.I.P Jacop.
Taking his life is not the best solution.We don't live by what is seen but by faith.God is able to do all things.Jacob taking his life means he had stop trusting in God.oh Jacob may your soul rest well in the Lord.
Indeed what he did was not the best but we must understand that seeking healing for years would get one’s spirit down, this lead to depression and when not dealt with, it’s overwhelming and whosoever is suffering from it can’t see a way out.
This is the problem. The guy had mental issues and you are talking about faith? I’m a Christian but the biggest problem is that even the church pretends that suffering doesn’t and shouldn’t exist. When was the last time you heard a church going through scriptures on suffering being one of God’s providence and blessing for us? So yes, many Christians do not know how to suffer well, plus lack of infrastructure makes it worse.
I will always say this and it is my Philosophy..."THERE'S NO PROBLEM IN THIS WORLD,WE ARE OUR OWN PROBLEM, ESPECIALLY TO BE THINKING OF WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY ABOUT ME,I WILL LOOK LIKE A FOOL,THEY WILL CALL ME NAMES AND BLA BLA BLA,IF THERE'S SOMEONE YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEN LET IT BE GOD,IF YOU SHOULD PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE GOD,IT IS PAINFUL FOR GOD TO LAUGH AT YOU AND REJECT YOU MORE THAN HUMAN BEINGS WILL DO!!!!
Let’s humans stop being judgmental
@@tillyamegash973 it is Foolishness to expect humans to do what you want, unless you are a fool not to know that not everyone is wise... NB: am not insulting u, making a point
Hmmmm sometimes this thing comes to my mind may God strength we those who doesn't have a helper in life 🙏🙏🙏😔😭
If you try it, you will end up in hell I promise you
@@AbigailBoazor Amen 🙏
OH MY GOD.
HMMMM.😢😢😢
Only he knows what he was going through.
May his soul rest in peace.
Speechless 😢😢😢
I ministered with him last 2 weeks Friday at an allnight so I was heart broken wen I head the news. Am still not okay 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Hmmmm it's sad, soo sorry even I don't know him but I can't stop thinking about his death 😢
🥺 hmmm...May the songs we minister to people, minister to us as well🙏🏼The good Lord grant you rest brother🙏🏼
With prayers , communicate with God about your problems and struggles in life , even when there seems to be no way ,God cares and thinks about , just go to him in prayers and he will remeber you in his time 🙏🏾
I have said this and will say again. We don’t take mental health seriously in Ghana. We joke about it because we think if you are a Christian you can’t be
Suffering with mental health😢
Mental health issues ? Mental health issue can’t make someone kill herself but rather kill others before taking their own life. People are going through a lot. Thank you
@@ahoufecassie1372 Asem ooo
100%
It's easy to say that Ghana as a society doesn't take MH serious, but here in England, we have different communities, organisations, helplines even medicated but almost every day, people throw themselves onto train tracks . Hmm...😢💔🤍🩶 Love life and don't live your life for someone.
If you have life , you have hope.
May his soul rest in peace
@@ohemaa1506 I have seen someone in London, Plaistow to be precise jumped in front of a moving train. So I know it happens but as a black person and African we play down mental health as if it’s nothing.
Oh God, what is happening in 2024?
Have mercy ooo God
😭 😭😭😭😭
I went through Hell between 2017 and 2021 and suicidal thoughts was in my head always but I always thought about how my family and loved ones will feel. Now I am fine
At times u need to share what ever u going through.... Depression is real!!!!
Is real paa😢😢
Am not surprised…gospel singers like us go through a lot in our lonely corner…I remember crying bitterly in my hostel room after a ministration at NUGS cos I didn’t even know what I was going to eat that night but smiled all through out the program…even my fees was a problem…but ppl would have thought all was well with me if I had taken the action that came in mind…sometimes u jux forget the lyrics of the songs u sing wen the troubles come 😪😪😪…RIP bro
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People like you make life and Christianity difficult. At least share your thoughts and problems to someone is to keep it to yourself
God is in control. Your end will be beautiful,keep holding on to God
@@SalesDepart-l7u my dear even ur friends sometimes can’t be trusted..sometimes u share and regret so u turn to keep the rest
hmmmm its well
I'm saddened😢 this is exactly what I have been going through now, life is lifeless 😭
May the Almighty comfort you dearie
How can one reach out to you please?
Have faith in God, and He will come through for you 🙏
You can sit down quietly and draw something positive out of your situation. The positive out of the negative outweighs all negativity. We all going through a lot but find a reason to survive. Your situation is not permanent. God dey.
Whatever you are dealing with, I assure you that no condition is permanent. If you can find the strength, this phase will pass. Pls talk to someone. You will come out of it
May the “ ministry to celebrities “grow to impact lives in Jesus Mighty Name!!
It's really hearts broken ..RIP brother😢💔
Hmmmmm may his soul rest in perfect peace
Awww. Heartbreaking.
My condolences to his family.
Hmmmmm, I'm going through alot and sometimes l think of taking my life but I'm scared of leaving my daughter behind, wondering who will take care of her,Lord please send me help
Pls don’t okay,there can be better days ahead sending u love dear❤
It is well my sister. The Lord is your strength
Please don’t. You are my name sake. God will come through for you. You can drop your number so we reach out
Don't kill yourself if you are going through a lot, share your problems with others they're might help you more. God use people to talk to you.
This is soo sad 😢😢😢😢😢.
Taking your own life takes you straight to hell so no one should do it pls. No matter the situation pls.
He’s such a gentle soul
Aaawww.... Waiting for this update 😢😢😢😢
First in class today
It soo sad😢,may his soul rest in peace.
people are actually going a lot...fighting silent battles and thats why its very important to randomly check up on ourselves..
Never end your life because you are precious and wealthy and killing yourself doesn't mean you will make it to heaven. Killing yourself is a sin because you did not create yourself.
Sadly, this brother has battled mental health silently while he consoles others through his song ministration. May God comfort his family during these hard times.
The message was even in his song
Yes😢
Serious depression is real...i went into depression for years and decided to take my life...at that point you will not recognize ursef...u wnt think abt family...u will listen to anything..hmmmmm...its so sad ooooo..bit pls anytime u go through serious depression..try to open up to at least teo people..and be going out..and avoid the things that trigers the suicide..dnt stay alone..never stay alone or isolate ursef...i say thank Gid for saving my life from dying after suicide😢😢😢
This NPP ads koraa aden
I'm the only one seeing it, anaa
It has made me angry ɛmpo 😠
@@androidgameplay__ You are not alone
@@grace90ntsiful They haven't done anything better with our tax, and you want us to donate
Very annoying
So annoying 😂😂
So annoying
A lot is happening in this world 😢 Sometimes people who cost us pain are same people who blame us . May God judge us accordingly
God is always truthful and just. He will glorify His name no matter the situation, and at the right time, He will come through. Christians must remember that God is not swayed by emotions; we must always look up to Him. May his soul rest in peace.
In our side of the world, mental health issues are not yet appreciated as they should.
I have been depressed before, nearly took my life. I was hopeless. I couldn't tell anyone what I was going through because, in our side of the world, when you try to open up about your problem, you're most likely to get 2 types of reactions:
1. People will belittle your problem, saying things like "ah, be grateful for what you have..some people have it worse than you" or "ah, a broken heart is a silly reason to be depressed"
2. The religious people will just tell you to leave it to God and he will help you.
With regard to point number 1: we are all different and unique. Our bodies, our brains react differently in different situations. What you might deem as a problem may not be a problem to someone else and vice versa.
With regards to point number 2: I am a Christian, trust me. But that is the last thing I needed to hear (mind you, for some people that will work. For others, it won't). A Christian knows that there is God. But when you're depressed, you start thinking that either God is punishing you, has given up on you, or just never cared about you... because why is it that I'm the only one being depressed and going through all this while my friends and family are thriving?
Let's be mindful. Sometimes, all a depressed person needs is to feel loved. Sometimes, just a hug. Sometimes, just sit by them in silence. Just ask them how they'd like you to help them. Validate their feelings. Take it slow and be patient.
FYI, if your friend, who was going through a lot and was depressed, suddenly looks happy and all smiley... there's a high probability they're planning their suicide. That's how it works. They'll make you think all is good so that you don't worry about them. Meanwhile, they are working on their plan. They start deleting social media, subscriptions, and their image from the world... slowly so that when they're gone it will be easy for you to forget them. They don't want to be a burden to you, even after they die.
Please, take care of your mental health. And check up on your loved ones. I have been there before and it was the worst thing ever.
Lastly, may his soul rest in perfect peace.
What ! May the Lord grant us the grace to break free from any physical and spiritual battles. Mercy Lord 🙏. If you can't face the problem alone please share it because it really hurt to loose a loved one. Hmmm
Hmm I understand him😌
People are really going through alot and they don't have anyone to talk to ,may God have mercy on us all
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Lord have Mercy,The body of Christ ,what happened,to us ,no one couldn't notice ,Bless his ❤️💜💜
May his soul rest well 😢
Hmmm this life, only God will understand
Proud Gossipharian😭😪
Present Sir ❤
Sometimes checking up on people genuinely, being there for them , and creating an environment where they can share with you all theor problems is what matters
We will be shocked just by asking someone how are you doing and how is everything will amaze you how the person will break down with tears
Dear God, please help me to overcome this situation 😢😢😢😢Sometimes the only option is.……..
Dear Lord,please give Bea devine strength to overcome every difficult situation in her life in Jesus name 🙏
Don't do it God Loves you and have the best for ❤❤
May his soul rest in peace, i never knew him though
@@elizabethenyonamdotse8146 He committed suicide his soul won't rest in peace
It’s sad to hear this. Sickness can cause a lot of mental health. Please let’s look at mental health and start talking about it. Sometimes it’s difficult and tough to open up but let’s be intentionally there for our friends, colleagues and family. May he rest in peace
This news just broke me to the core, the is no condemnation for us in Christ Jesus. I am really sad I can't just accept this guy's excuse.. ..hmmmmmmm😢😢😢😢😢😢.
This is heartbreaking 😭💔
Awwww,this is so sad 😢😢😢
Really heart breaking 😭😭😭
In fact, I'm speechless 😢😢😢. This is too sad
This is really sad 😢May God be pleased with his soul😢
The church must wake up and be alive , looking out for each otner holding hands together on our way to heaven