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  • Опубліковано 24 сер 2024
  • Today I'm showing you my experience with Temu but better than that, I met one of you! Enjoy...
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  • @rxstrmom
    @rxstrmom  Рік тому +100

    👀👀 ❤PATTI HERE....I WAS NOT ABLE TO MONITOR THIS VIDEO WHEN IT WENT LIVE ON SUNDAY. I'VE BEEN HAVING COMPUTER ISSUES AND DID NOT REALIZE THE ENTIRE VIDEO DID NOT RENDER AND UPLOAD TO UA-cam. I NOTICED MANY OF YOU MENTIONED IT IN THE COMMENTS. IT STOPPED WHERE I LEFT OFF TALKING ABOUT THE FAIRY LIGHTS. I HAVE A FAVORITES VIDEO NEXT AND WILL TALK ABOUT WHAT I THINK ABOUT THEM VS THE ONES I PURCHASED FROM HSN. xo patti

    • @OhioSally
      @OhioSally Рік тому +2

      I bought these lights from a Facebook ad for my garden. I do want more, so good to know HSN has them. Anxious to hear what you say about the ones you bought. Mine work great at night, and look good. They are cheap looking during the day but I have nothing to compare them to.

    • @jayniestanley4730
      @jayniestanley4730 Рік тому +4

      Ok great. I was surprised that ur video just quit. Ur so professional, I knew something was wrong. I look forward to ur new video.

    • @antoniaromero7022
      @antoniaromero7022 Рік тому +5

      Super! I thought something might’ve gone wrong.

    • @helenjackson8422
      @helenjackson8422 Рік тому +1

      Thank you, beautiful Patti, for your video. I love those fairy lights. I’m anxious to hear any further comments you have about Temu. So far, I feel as you do.

    • @michellepaperchaser
      @michellepaperchaser Рік тому +6

      OK thanks for info - I hadn’t seen the other comments. As far as Temu goes they seem like copies of products where the originators have put money, design and time into producing quality products. To just rip off others designs with cheaply sourced materials and poorly paid workers just seems wrong on so many levels. I often wonder if it isn’t a way to launder money and sell credit card info to other nefarious entities.

  • @susiehoyle6113
    @susiehoyle6113 Рік тому +241

    I hope everyone recognizes 90% of amazon store merchandise is made through factories in CHINA, lately i have realized 90% of online stores are made in underpaid factor❤

    • @susiehoyle6113
      @susiehoyle6113 Рік тому +14

      The same goes for 1 dollar stores, Walmart,etc etc ..TEMU is a online dollar store, Walmart,target etc etc

    • @aliciabrockhurst2092
      @aliciabrockhurst2092 Рік тому +16

      So where do you shop? Even our local Mom And Pop stores carry Made In China or made in Asia items.

    • @ritageorge8748
      @ritageorge8748 Рік тому +6

      Just about all your discount stores&Amazon are buying from the same places&charges different prices All product TJs marsh&even walmart must lable made in-Pakistan very familiar also

    • @ritageorge8748
      @ritageorge8748 Рік тому +2

      Wow you look good in earrings

    • @Tootsie806
      @Tootsie806 Рік тому +2

      The difference in products from China sold in stores is that many imported items require that a tariff is paid on the import. It doesn’t change the forced labor situation, but it does help give US manufacturers some equality.

  • @MickeyC321
    @MickeyC321 Рік тому +203

    You spoke my thoughts about TEMU about Labor conditions I try to go to thrift stores ,garage sales and estate sales to cut back on my buying new from China. I can find too many lovely items at these locations that keep me from needing to go to box and chain stores. Advertising make us “want” so much more that we really don’t “need” I think about our garbage disposal sites! Seriously a major problem. BTY… I love shopping too but…my conscience 🤷‍♀️

    • @susaninsocal550
      @susaninsocal550 Рік тому +21

      I agree. Anyone who's ever walked into a consignment or thrift store knows the wonderful items you can find there. Some even new with tags! Our planet doesn't need more fast fashion ending up in landfills. Just my humble opinion.

    • @OldKetoLady
      @OldKetoLady Рік тому +6

      Well said same here repurpose reuse and do without crap you really don’t need anyway

    • @lauramcgowan3740
      @lauramcgowan3740 Рік тому +1

      I love to be able to thrift , but my life on fixed income etc

    • @ginar51
      @ginar51 Рік тому +2

      I love thrift store and much rather shop them also but ordering online is so convenient for young mothers or people that are home bound for some reason or another. I’ve seen the exact same thing on Temu as Amazon for far less. Maybe if we keep shopping at places like Temu, the US will quit charging us an arm and a leg for everything!

    • @vickiepatterson1809
      @vickiepatterson1809 Місяць тому

      I love the thrift stores. Have found so many items good brand names. Just bring them home and clean them thoroughly. That is where you save your money.

  • @UndeniablyBlond
    @UndeniablyBlond Рік тому +151

    Pattie you are the most beautiful and most interesting 79 year old I’ve ever seen! You just have that charm and charisma that make your videos a joy to watch! Keep ‘em coming 🌹🌹🌹

    • @jillh7403
      @jillh7403 Рік тому +4

      Totally agree.
      Hope everyone had a great Mother's Day. 🌷

    • @jillh7403
      @jillh7403 Рік тому +4

      barbra burns,
      You are so pretty.

    • @UndeniablyBlond
      @UndeniablyBlond Рік тому +1

      @@jillh7403
      Thank you Jill 🌹

    • @glendamurphy4294
      @glendamurphy4294 Рік тому +2

      Yes I think so to.

    • @jak9483
      @jak9483 Рік тому +2

      Ditto! Pattie is very very beautiful 😍

  • @canadiangirl5854
    @canadiangirl5854 Рік тому +537

    I’m very skeptical of Temu. I feel we need to support our own countries NOT China 🤷‍♀️

    • @janemay7181
      @janemay7181 Рік тому

      Supporting our country by buying US made is wishful thinking. Everything we buy comes from China

    • @sanityseeker
      @sanityseeker Рік тому +83

      Good luck with that, I can't name a single product in stores that is made in the USA!

    • @vickilangton620
      @vickilangton620 Рік тому +11

      Agree with you

    • @sparkygrl8557
      @sparkygrl8557 Рік тому +58

      Where do you think just about everything you buy in the stores come from??!

    • @cclarke9301
      @cclarke9301 Рік тому +40

      I read labels and product information like crazy to try and buy from the States. Sometimes it’s impossible but I try my best. It’s disheartening.

  • @catherinecarpenter4328
    @catherinecarpenter4328 Рік тому +119

    I echo Michelle's concern about our environment and purchasing gently used items from consignment stores, thrift shops, etc. In fact, most of us probably have a lot in our own closets or drawers that we need to revisit and re-style.

    • @maryriseling209
      @maryriseling209 Рік тому +2

      I'm guilty I have way to much😅

    • @SweetThing
      @SweetThing Рік тому +1

      Or donate. There are so many people in this country too that are doing without bare essentials..

    • @rebeccadale9832
      @rebeccadale9832 Рік тому +4

      This is how I avoid buying from China. I shop second hand…

    • @dalemills7926
      @dalemills7926 Рік тому

      Love thrifting and consignments..recycle products u can see and hold and buy..not anything from China will help us now except quit giving them more than they already get from us while the make their armies stronger to destroy us ..wake up

    • @gloriatagnosky5813
      @gloriatagnosky5813 Рік тому

      Temu and Shien. Do NOT pay entrance taxes to our country. They are exempt!

  • @cjsidner2502
    @cjsidner2502 Рік тому +50

    As a senior citizen , things in the USA costs have gone out of sight. Even Goodwill, Thrift stores are getting why out of sight. Need to cut cost somewhere. Sorry that’s the way it is today.

  • @jeanhoward3347
    @jeanhoward3347 Рік тому +74

    I live in UK Pattie and I try my upmost not to buy anything made in China on principle. Sometimes it is not possible but I always look to see where it is made. The rest of the world are making China rich. They have nuclear weapons and one day they will not think twice about using them. I believe in trying to buy home made produce if possible. I know it is much more expensive but I try to give our own people jobs.

  • @missbarbarajean
    @missbarbarajean Рік тому +131

    I am angry because someone got hold of my debit card and used it on Temu. I have no idea how, but they charged $135. It's been a month and Temu still won't give it back. I had to get a new card, of course. I had it in my possession all the time and have never even been on their website. You make a good point about China. What makes me mad is because we even get most of our drugs for prescriptions from there. We need to make our own here in the USA so we won't have to depend on China!!!

    • @SF-cb7ep
      @SF-cb7ep Рік тому +23

      Your debit card bank should refund that fraudulent charge. My debit card was stolen (along with the wallet) and 3 charges made using it before I realized it and cancelled it, and all refunded. The bank said without the pin it can still be used as a credit card. Of course, another card with new number was issued to me. Ive also had my visa credit card number used without the actual card being stolen, and those charges were all reversed when I contacted my credit card company. Our numbers are out there online at times because of leaks from various companies that have occurred. It's been in the news very often.

    • @anitaprzygocki9350
      @anitaprzygocki9350 Рік тому +30

      I think it’s the bank you need to talk to.

    • @sharonlatour6230
      @sharonlatour6230 Рік тому +16

      The USA owes China so much darn money, it is unreal. We will never be able to ''break up'' with them. I'm sorry you were taken advantage of, and were the victim of thievery.

    • @rxstrmom
      @rxstrmom  Рік тому +15

      I would talk to my bank for sure...this has happened to me with other websites. Recently my daughter's identity was stolen and it's been a nightmare! patti

    • @mamcc999
      @mamcc999 Рік тому +5

      FYI...I did what you suggested ...I ordered a few things to see. Their products are not great quality from my experience. A top I bought the sewing was just bad and the fabric was cheap. Unless you are buying little things...hair clips were pretty but otherwise I don't think I will buy again.

  • @user-rg9mi7ok1k
    @user-rg9mi7ok1k 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for brining the unaccaptable conditions under which people in other areas have to work into your dialogue. And ,as you point out, this is a fact not only for TEMU but many stores (online and other) also. Money, power, greed are the downfall for any society - and we are asked to live our lives loving our neighbor. So, unless we can demand (through the pocket book) changes in working conditions for ALL, we need to change our habits.

  • @cclarke9301
    @cclarke9301 Рік тому +30

    I’m very fed up with China and it’s tentacles reaching into everything. Putting that aside, the one thing I didn’t like was the sunflower earrings and necklace. The rest weren’t too bad. I liked the broach a lot! You look beautiful by the way but you always do💕👼🏻

  • @Lb-uy8yg
    @Lb-uy8yg Рік тому +44

    I am very careful about where I use my debit card and I certainly wouldn’t feel safe using it with Temu. I don’t need anything they have to offer that’s worth taking a chance with my identity or money. Thanks for the heads-up. This is the first I’ve heard of this business.

    • @beachgal1835
      @beachgal1835 Рік тому +14

      I use PayPal, so not a problem.

    • @denisemichele4178
      @denisemichele4178 Рік тому +8

      I purchase prepaid gift cards to use with TEMU, and other sites. It's safe and also gives me a spending limit. Never use a Debit card online.

    • @zaneshepherd5245
      @zaneshepherd5245 6 місяців тому

      I buy heaps of Temu I mean heaps such amazing value and NEVER had a problem - I do not work for Temu or anywhere else just letting you know they're safe !

  • @strawberryfields2680
    @strawberryfields2680 Рік тому +42

    I knew it was a company in China, so I knew then I would never order from them no matter how inexpensive these products are.

    • @CCreedUT
      @CCreedUT Рік тому +2

      I would love to find more American companies. I feel like everything is made in China. Amazon, SHEIN, Zulily, a lot of the stuff on eBay. Almost all of our appliances. Our phones. It’s disturbing. I wish it was easier to find items actually made in America :-(

  • @galady8632
    @galady8632 Рік тому +22

    Patti - Happy Mother's Day! Much respect for the way you explain your decision making process. I believe that is one of the many reasons you appeal to so many people - you are genuine, approachable, kind, non-judgmental, gorgeous ... and so much more. You could easily wear the last set of jewelry you wore in the video to dinner on a cruise and be fabulous! I never take my best jewelry on cruises, it's just too risky. (The safes in the cabins and hotels are easily hacked and of course Maintenance staff have a bypass code.) In a previous video you discussed your toothbrush and included a link. I ordered it and it is everything you said and more, my teeth feel like I had a professional cleaning. Your stamp-of-approval was well-deserved. I also ordered earrings you wore from JTV. They are not diamonds but they are gorgeous! Thank you for your honesty, integrity and for sharing your journey.

  • @loramuer9314
    @loramuer9314 Рік тому +20

    We all want cheap cheap cheap!I just have to wonder at what cost ?I guess I would like to see things made well by people that are paid well. I don’t think that exists anymore.

    • @joannefreeman3573
      @joannefreeman3573 Рік тому +4

      I so agree with you. I miss the days when items were made in the U SA and we’re not junk and rags. When are we going to wake up. 😢

    • @dianegriffith3006
      @dianegriffith3006 Рік тому

      True. Thank you.

  • @Asmrandlifewithrobinann
    @Asmrandlifewithrobinann Рік тому +15

    I always said “you get what u pay for” and sometimes u help support bad things with that savings. Stuff way be cheaper but I’d just rather not support Temu and others like it. Thx for making this video. Some stuff just needs to be said ❤

  • @collyf6010
    @collyf6010 Рік тому +3

    I seen a documentary about the shein factories in China and I will never buy from them again. The staff work horrendous hours 6 days week and the conditions are sad!!! It opened my eyes and never again.

  • @barbarashelton6709
    @barbarashelton6709 Рік тому +30

    We were cut off from the end of your video as you were talking about the fairy lights. Happy Mother Day !!

    • @jillh7403
      @jillh7403 Рік тому +2

      I know.
      Happy Mother's Day 🌷

  • @nancybarrett6266
    @nancybarrett6266 Рік тому +11

    Have ya'll heard.. some news outlets have mentioned / warning shopping with Temu. Some of the people are now having serious bank accounts issues along & with their personal information being stolen & misused. Its a scary situation now days.

  • @sede5111
    @sede5111 Рік тому +17

    In a major dept store yesterday, saw a blouse that was $69.99, identical to the $5.00 one I was wearing from Temu.

    • @sandradle756
      @sandradle756 2 місяці тому

      True for me with a number of things. Designers and high end stores buy their stuff, unlabeled, from factories in China and put their labels in them. They do it all the time.

  • @ksharm777
    @ksharm777 Рік тому +17

    "Talk amongst yourselves"......you had me laughing so hard!

    • @mamawfrancy
      @mamawfrancy Рік тому

      Could have said talk to yourself.... lol.

  • @daliladesousa8572
    @daliladesousa8572 Рік тому +102

    I am so glad you posted this video! SHEIN is another one that exploits their labor force for the benefit of western societies! Women in Central and South America plantations are similarly exploited (allowed only two bathroom breaks a day) so we may enjoy flowers, fruits and vegetables off season, all year long.

    • @Sunny-be1wg
      @Sunny-be1wg Рік тому +11

      Exactly! I would never help Shein do to this citizens the same thing I’ve come to know about Temu. These places are counting on our desire for low prices. In these cases there is a ‘ high price’ to pay for their strangely low prices. 👍

    • @SweetThing
      @SweetThing Рік тому +4

      @@Sunny-be1wg - it's just plain sinful what these countries are doing to their people with working them long hours for such low wages. I will not support those countries.

    • @pcakes122
      @pcakes122 Рік тому +14

      I don't think folks really understand the issue fully. Just because a retailer is charging you a higher price for something does not mean that their suppliers have any better labor conditions. The price you pay for something is no indication of how the labor force making that product was treated. It's actually worse that most retailers in America are sourcing their items from the SAME factories in China and charging a ridiculous markup. At least Shein and Temu are not charging that crazy mark-up. Please don't be fooled because Nordstrom charges more! 😉

    • @Sunny-be1wg
      @Sunny-be1wg Рік тому +1

      @@pcakes122 I think most people understand the issues of quality products and inferior products. Additionally it’s not difficult to research the working/ living conditions of a country etc.
      My friends first order from Temu came yesterday. She described it as “ junk”.
      I believe the majority of shoppers in this country know the level of quality, lifecycle etc of an item. We love a bargain but not at the cost of good material, construction etc.

    • @rebeccadale9832
      @rebeccadale9832 Рік тому +2

      @@pcakes122 I check the source of the product and won’t buy thins from China. I sometimes don’t get what I want or need; however, my moral compass is more important to me that a shirt or pair of shoes. I wish more people thought like this.

  • @ittybittykittymama7582
    @ittybittykittymama7582 Рік тому +9

    I must also say, Patti, that I think you are a very lovely woman! You give us 60 somethings a goal to strive for!

  • @joyfurnish8412
    @joyfurnish8412 Рік тому +18

    I personally love Temu. I have been very impressed with what I have gotten. Granted some things are cheaply made but the bulk of my purchases have been really good. I purchased a brush straightener for less then 6 or 7 dollars and another influencer I followed purchased the same thing but at a much higher price. Temu may not be for everyone but I have been very happy with this company.

    • @LoveourLord24
      @LoveourLord24 Рік тому +2

      I'm addicted and great products!!

    • @deniselachico-8823
      @deniselachico-8823 Рік тому +1

      I’m happy with Temu, you don’t have to pay for returns! And some stuff they give you credit and also tells you to keep it or give it away. 💯

    • @dianefrohwerk7494
      @dianefrohwerk7494 Рік тому

      Do you have any idea what chemicals are in the products you are buying and whether or not they are even safe to use? For all you know they could be full of toxic chemicals. But as long as you save a few bucks, all is good, right?

    • @joyfurnish8412
      @joyfurnish8412 Рік тому +1

      @@dianefrohwerk7494 Well, do we ever really know what are in the products we purchase?

    • @dianefrohwerk7494
      @dianefrohwerk7494 Рік тому

      @@joyfurnish8412 You should. On a product label, cosmetic ingredients must be listed with their International Nomenclature of Cosmetics Ingredient names. I would be very interested to know what these knock off brands have listed.....

  • @myratraney
    @myratraney Рік тому +19

    Hi Patti 🌷 I try my best to not buy from China . I will not buy from Temu or Shen & try to look where products are made ...yes, sometimes things do slip through that are made in China ...but I'm not happy about it 😢😢.. However, I make a conscious effort . Happy Mother's Day ❤

    • @SNAPVegan
      @SNAPVegan Рік тому +1

      Temu was established in Pennsylvania.

    • @summerrose4978
      @summerrose4978 Рік тому +1

      Then don't buy off Amazon, Targets, Walmart n most other stores

    • @myratraney
      @myratraney Рік тому

      @@summerrose4978 LoL

  • @babygirldixon6799
    @babygirldixon6799 Рік тому +4

    Someone said you are 79!! Your skin is just glowing like mine NEVER has!!! YOU LOOK AMAZING!!!

  • @carolm7547
    @carolm7547 Рік тому +6

    I’m older and recently moved into a cottage and I did not have a lot of the silly little odds and ends. I needed to fix and repair things. Temu has been a wonderful resource especially for things. I would only use a couple times. I’ve also ordered a lot of things for gardening that cost 10 times as much here like Velcro ties for my tomatoes. My son is going to cut down a sumac tree and couple of other 3 inch stumps for me and we didn’t have a saw. I was able to get a fabulous one for seven dollars from Temu and after that will probably never use it. I have not had the problems with ordering that I hear people talk about and I order such cheap things that I don’t even waste my time sending them back, not that I’ve had to. Only once something didn’t come and I notified them and they credited me so I’ve been very happy with Temu for my needs . I certainly wouldn’t order jewelry or clothes but for a little odds and ends around the house they’ve been wonderful. I don’t mind ordering from China because I think I’m ordering from the little man who is struggling to make it and my not ordering is not going to help them at all. Everything we buy practically is from China now. We have made them wealthy and it’s our fault. Hurting the little man is going to have no effect on that.

  • @paulahardin6002
    @paulahardin6002 Рік тому +8

    Hi Patti, I love your videos and your style! I have just learned from a friend that Temu is not a trustworthy company. I can’t put everything I learned on here because I don’t want your Chanel taken down. You are on the right track to be skeptical. Trust your gut!

  • @ursulamaurer8233
    @ursulamaurer8233 Рік тому +17

    TEMU pays for return shipping. Also, sometimes they will issue a refund and tell you to just keep the item. This has happened to me.

    • @airrodgers7277
      @airrodgers7277 Рік тому +1

      Temu will pay for return shipping per order.. that mean if you want to return 4 item from one order you must do it the same time to get the free return on all four items...

  • @shirleyrhodes3741
    @shirleyrhodes3741 Рік тому +5

    Patti, You are such a inspiration to me!! Thank you so much for all your work and love!!

  • @barbarabell8674
    @barbarabell8674 Рік тому +9

    I see Temu everywhere online! Thanks for sharing this with us! Happy Mother’s Day 💖

  • @annedugan-odonnell3134
    @annedugan-odonnell3134 Рік тому +6

    So glad you gave your honest opinion about Temu to many have not. The quality of most items just isn’t there☹️

    • @airrodgers7277
      @airrodgers7277 Рік тому +1

      Temu quality is the same as any other website as the price goes up so does the guality.. do not expect quality on cheap item..

  • @johnniekuykendall2696
    @johnniekuykendall2696 Рік тому +8

    I would wear the large multicolored earring as a brooch! I, too, have reservations about Temu. I have ordered one time. I love making junk journals and all I ordered were for journal making. Everything was decent quality. However, some of the scrapbooking papers Temu is selling are copies from other name brand paper companies. That bothers me.

  • @elainebines6803
    @elainebines6803 Рік тому +9

    Temu is making me think, do I continue watching UA-cam? I'll watch your video now as I am interested and respect your opinion

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 Рік тому

      Hi Elaine, how's your day going with you?

  • @alwaysmarcy9428
    @alwaysmarcy9428 Рік тому +5

    I love TEMU, I have had some failures, but my money was refunded without having to send it back, Their clothes are awesome, very well made and the fit is perfect

  • @LizInTheB
    @LizInTheB Рік тому +5

    Happy Mother's Day, Patti! (And to all of the other mom's here, too!) 💐💕

  • @helenwalker716
    @helenwalker716 Рік тому +36

    I’d already decided no on Temu. Thx for review

  • @barbsnyder3579
    @barbsnyder3579 Рік тому +28

    Well, I have been using Temu for at least 8 mos. The quality of what I have ordered has 90% of the time been great. I don't have much mo ey, so this has been wonderful. Customer service has also been terrific.

    • @Camille719
      @Camille719 Рік тому

      Maybe buy items Made in America. Quality vs Quantity and no child slave labor involved. Buy American and vote for a return to pride and patriotism in 2024. We only get one more chance or our country will be owned by China.

    • @sheilapike9381
      @sheilapike9381 Рік тому +2

      Same

    • @robinmorgan1757
      @robinmorgan1757 Рік тому +2

      Same

    • @lollybooth7008
      @lollybooth7008 Рік тому

      Same here. Fast delivery and the products are great quality.

    • @maryking5503
      @maryking5503 Рік тому

      Same here

  • @sandraforeman620
    @sandraforeman620 Рік тому +5

    I decided to try them. Got what I ordered in one week. I was so pleased I ordered from them again!

  • @tinalentz7479
    @tinalentz7479 Рік тому +7

    It is free to return things. They send u a UPS label and u print it out. I have ordered a lot of things and it's all been good quality

  • @LottieSue
    @LottieSue Рік тому +11

    I've ordered around 150 items from Temu and returned, "free of charge", about 70 % of the items.

    • @teenataylor4546
      @teenataylor4546 Рік тому +4

      I don't get why she keeps saying returns,you pay shipping. I have ordered several times and had to send several things back and I have never paid for shipping. And some returns i was told to keep or donate and got my money back. Where do people think the stuff from Walmart ,target, and dollar stores come from.

    • @LottieSue
      @LottieSue Рік тому

      @@teenataylor4546 Me too!

  • @barbarabraue4087
    @barbarabraue4087 Рік тому +45

    I feel the same way about TEMU and don’t even watch the videos of favorite UA-camrs but I knew you would give your honest opinion Patti. To me it looks like a bunch of really cheap junk and I’m not interested. I try to purchase from USA but will also buy from Vietnam and India. Anywhere but China and it’s really hard to do that but it does influence my decision.

    • @judithdemouth2915
      @judithdemouth2915 Рік тому +3

      They want info on you. Credit card, name address,etc

  • @netamorton4832
    @netamorton4832 Рік тому +5

    I have never ordered from Temu and I’m skeptical to do so!

  • @myliverandme
    @myliverandme Рік тому +6

    The mark-ups in most stores here are absolutely criminal. Years ago we knew a gal who had worked in a high-end department store selling wedding dresses. When she quit the place she said that many of the gorgeous wedding gowns that the place sold for thousands of dollars were bought for less than 20 bucks each, some as low as 6 dollars, wholesale. That was around 25 years ago or so. Sickening the greed. Like you mentioned, the people making the products are barely paid and work in horrid conditions. ):

  • @juanitagibbs2100
    @juanitagibbs2100 Рік тому +6

    Your makeup looks so good today ,enjoyed your show and tell. Happy Mother’s Day

  • @jenniewinchester8792
    @jenniewinchester8792 Рік тому +6

    I've gotten a few things from temu. All was ok. Returned once and free shipping even on return. But quality was crummy on the shoes I ordered. Other stuff was ok. I tend to order odd stuff cuz of prices so I'm not looking at their stuff anymore. I know viewers enjoy the hauls. But I do get tired of people sponsoring companies. I tend to skip over thise videos. Love you Patti

  • @GB-he1zc
    @GB-he1zc Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this video. You look wonderful. Temu sends a lot of advertising. So I am glad that you are doing this. My adult children tell me that it's like Wish and their items. I have seen videos with
    ladies who order clothing and shoes etc. and like the items. Good to see you. You look very good.😊❤

  • @inquiringmind2852
    @inquiringmind2852 Рік тому +5

    Patti, you make any product look appealing. You're adorable❣️

  • @cathyhanson5885
    @cathyhanson5885 Рік тому +25

    I have watched several influencers that show Temu products and they just rave about the products. I just don’t understand how the quality can be that good for the prices they charge. I have not bought anything from Temu…

    • @donnabrown5113
      @donnabrown5113 Рік тому +6

      I have purchased from them and to be honest the quality is excellent. The clothing is fantastic and very well made. I was pleasantly surprised. I was able to purchase four outfits at a price I would have paid for one at Woman Within and the quality is supervisor to WW. The wait was only nine days for delivery but shipping was free. I will order from them again.

    • @kelleyrancher
      @kelleyrancher Рік тому +3

      I haven't purchased anything from them my own self because of the China thing it just makes me feel too bad the slave labor and all of that but my girlfriend bought a bunch of jewelry and sent me a bunch of it and I really like it I've had three of these bracelets on for two solid months I wanted to try them out I was sure they would turn green on my arms or something and guess what they still look as good as the day I put them on there just wonderful want but once again I won't spend my own money on stuff from there or somebody gives me something from there I surely will keep it and use it

    • @ladywytch129
      @ladywytch129 Рік тому +3

      I was surprised at the quality, for the most part. A few things reminded me that you get what you pay for, lol. You just have to remember that if it's too good to be true, it probably is. You are not going to get "designer to fool the masses" for $1.98 no matter how good the picture makes it look 😂

    • @gabesmom5615
      @gabesmom5615 Рік тому +1

      Because there is no overhead. Most of the stuff is just that cheap to make. And chances are the exact same items you can buy around here, that has been marked way up. If you expect designer quality then you are crazy. But stuff than can be purchased at local retailers etc are the same.

  • @westernncgirl101
    @westernncgirl101 Рік тому +5

    I've only ordered from TEMU once with no problems. Not sure I'll order again.
    The pin does look vintage. My mom passed away over 50 years ago and I have her pins which I love and wear and your green pin would fit right in with my mom's pins.

  • @Lttnggo123
    @Lttnggo123 Рік тому +3

    So amusing and fun to watch you. Yes, almost anything can be flattering 100 feet away in the dark. Thanks, Patty!

  • @barblabarbera5140
    @barblabarbera5140 Рік тому +4

    I have ordered several things & several tops. I have been happy with my purchases.

  • @lindamorris9120
    @lindamorris9120 Рік тому +6

    My sister and myself have placed about 15 orders with TEMU. perhaps we were lucky but not one item was a disappointment. I have bought dresses that are exactly the same on other sites for 60-70% less and love them! We love it!

  • @evmcelroy
    @evmcelroy Рік тому +4

    I love Temu. Everything I have ordered has been excellent.

  • @cindycreateforlife
    @cindycreateforlife Рік тому +19

    One thing you need to be aware of is that jewelry can be very dangerous because of cadmium in the metal alloy they use, they do not have safety standards as we do. Clothing can also be contaminated with chemicals and dyes that you do not want leaching into your skin! This was a very long winded video but there is a lot of curiosity about Temu so you may help someone decide!

    • @annettathompson446
      @annettathompson446 9 днів тому

      I noticed clothing is spliced.Cute clothes if you don’t have to wear expensive.They will keep you ordering by giving you merchandise for almost nothing.Pattie we have something in common. I live in Ar.

  • @cortenay6832
    @cortenay6832 Рік тому +4

    Please please please keep in mind that they know who they are sending the items to. You're on UA-cam, and they know it! I've seen a very big difference in just the quality of packaging between what they send "you guys" and what they send the general public.

  • @kathycrain3459
    @kathycrain3459 Рік тому +9

    Hi Patty, I want to tell you that you truly light up my day. I just love you to pieces and you always make me feel so much better than I did before I watched you. Many Blessings to you.
    By the way, I haven't purchased anything from TEMU.

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 Рік тому

      Hi Kathy, how's your day going with you?

  • @tammygarrett9261
    @tammygarrett9261 Рік тому +4

    Temu will not stop bugging me to do review on every item. It never stops! I keep telling them NO, I don't do reviews. I even talked to someone. I've thrown most away. You can not delete it! It does not stop! You got lucky, my earrings was missing the stone.☺ I bought costume jewelry for my granddaughter to play with.

  • @louisefromNY
    @louisefromNY Місяць тому

    I am a retired 68 year old. I need to stretch my money out. Yes, I ordered from Temu. I ordered a gorgeous necklace, a gorgeous skirt, a pair of shoes, mascara and pantyhose. I never had to leave my house. I’m so happy with my things.

  • @jeani0889
    @jeani0889 Рік тому +4

    You have the best videos. So glad you shared your thoughts with us about Temu. So many UA-camrs have jumped on the Temu train. I have some of the same questions and concerns you’ve expressed today. Time will tell if Temu can sustain its popularity.

  • @catherinecarpenter4328
    @catherinecarpenter4328 Рік тому +33

    I've seen many UA-cam videos comparing products with Temu items. Hands down, the overwhelming constant was that buying quality is the smartest way to go. while many of the products looked just like the original but the quality was questionable.

    • @jeanjacobs9965
      @jeanjacobs9965 Рік тому +4

      Greetings Patti! What happened to the rest of the video? I totally agree with you about the labor force. Love and blessings ♥️🙏

    • @kathyo5971
      @kathyo5971 Рік тому

      @@jeanjacobs9965 yes, I was shocked! I’ve never seen that happen before.

    • @Pampnaylor
      @Pampnaylor Рік тому

      You look pretty in everything!

    • @gailsheppard5404
      @gailsheppard5404 Рік тому

      Very questionable when they can seriously hurt you.

  • @elainerobertson7329
    @elainerobertson7329 Рік тому +29

    I wouldn't give them my credit card for "all the tea in "China". Also, I'm highly suspect of these products.

    • @sallym9769
      @sallym9769 Рік тому

      They accept Paypal.

    • @summerrose4978
      @summerrose4978 Рік тому

      I've had more problems with USA companies with my card. Never once with temu

  • @karentrokey3852
    @karentrokey3852 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for taking a stand with who you spend your money with. If more consumers did this it would make a difference.

  • @tinadmusa
    @tinadmusa Рік тому +33

    Keep an eye on your credit information, passwords etc. Word is that Temu is fishing your information once you buy from them

    • @myrabarr7898
      @myrabarr7898 Рік тому +1

      EXACTLY what I thought. The products are just lost leaders, what they want is INFO !

    • @raaaaaaarr
      @raaaaaaarr Рік тому +1

      I went through BBB reviews when tmu first came out, and there were a lot of complaints that their card was used and shut down for fraud. I almost forgot abt that

    • @janetyamashige9573
      @janetyamashige9573 Рік тому +1

      Yep. This is the reason I have stayed away.

    • @NoseyFloridaGirl
      @NoseyFloridaGirl Рік тому +2

      Once you download the app on your phone you probably are giving them a lot of info from it. Hard pass

  • @catherinedabbs9144
    @catherinedabbs9144 Рік тому +6

    I love Temu and my experiences have been positive. Ordering online has educated me on being very careful with what I purchase

  • @lynn6095
    @lynn6095 Рік тому +20

    "I can be gaudy sometimes"
    Oh, Patti! I just love you! I think you're the greatest! 😂

    • @mt.shasta6097
      @mt.shasta6097 Рік тому +3

      I'm 72. Dressed in wool tweed jackets, wool sweaters and skirts from 1st grade to retirement. Now I wear black leggings with bright pink and turquoise scarves. It's very freeing, and the leggings feel like wearing jammies! But big, big, real gold and stone rings are my passion. It's good to be selectively gaudy. Frees the soul.

  • @activemomx
    @activemomx Рік тому +2

    Love the gold set on you!!!

  • @teri3965
    @teri3965 Рік тому +1

    I know this won’t be popular, but I’ve had good luck with TEMU. I need to stop going to the app. I’m out of control. Great video.

  • @rhondaockun3679
    @rhondaockun3679 Рік тому +15

    So proud of you Patti. Let's go America.

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 Рік тому +1

      Hi Rhonda, how's your day going with you?

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 Рік тому

      Thanks for the thumbs up, how are you spending your spare time?

  • @michellecats12
    @michellecats12 Рік тому +3

    I've ordered some items from TEMU and have been happy with most of them. I recieved my package in 10 days from the day of order. All of our stores in this country are selling everything practically from China and India. We make very little in this country unfortunately. I worked in retail for years and years in upscale department stores and Walmart,,,all of them were selling items from China. It makes me sad that most of our factories have closed. Do you remember all the clothing factories and textile factories in the 70's and 80's? So sad!!

  • @shirleyrhodes3741
    @shirleyrhodes3741 Рік тому +2

    I Have and I have ordered and I was delighted with the products.

  • @artport7
    @artport7 Рік тому +6

    I love you... you remind me of my sister... she loves jewelry... and it doesn't matter how cheap it is... if it's pretty, she loves it..

  • @rosefiacco3372
    @rosefiacco3372 Рік тому +13

    They are a 3rd party seller, I think in Boston. The products are from China but so are a lot of products we purchase from Amazon and other places we shop. The things I bought, like kitchen gadgets are the same and good quality. The clothes I sent back. The material isn’t stated and most are polyester. I sent one order of several clothing items back. On another order they didn’t want the shirt back. Unfortunately most of the items we buy are made in China. The crafting supplies I got where good. Read the reviews and decide what you will take a risk on.

    • @lizbrown7232
      @lizbrown7232 Рік тому +1

      I wish Amazon would list where every product is made. I am trying not to buy Made In China.

    • @dittohead7044
      @dittohead7044 Рік тому

      All the return labels I get are from NJ

  • @renatep.7566
    @renatep.7566 Рік тому +2

    Temu is trying to get market shares from Amazon. Buying from them is cutting out the middle man, either way we end up buying stuff from China. TJMaxx has a completely different concept, they buy up bulk from established brands from their last season or seconds. On top of that they produce their own lines and mix it with brand names.

  • @lg6041
    @lg6041 Рік тому +7

    My grandson coerced me to try Temu. I was very my disappointed. The items had a horrible chemical smell. I ordered drawer organizers and I had to take them outside for a week before I could bring them in the house. Patti, I love your eyeshadow. You didn’t mention that in your comments.

    • @gracesuarez3154
      @gracesuarez3154 8 місяців тому

      Your grandson coerced you? This is a problem.

    • @lg6041
      @lg6041 8 місяців тому

      @@gracesuarez3154 maybe I should have said convinced me. He did not coerce me.

  • @CitKat657
    @CitKat657 Рік тому +12

    Temu will “trick” you with their photos…items always look way bigger then they really are. I’ve learned how to study the pictures, check the measurements, and looks for reviews that include photos. I’ve had really good success on some items, while a few other items were duds. Too cheap and/or not what I expected. I think it’s always been a wash for me, though. And I really think I’ve saved a lot of $ on the exact items I would have seen at USA stores!

    • @VelveteenRabbit77
      @VelveteenRabbit77 Рік тому +3

      Yes SO many times the model is some 90 pound tiny woman! I’m on to them now!

    • @justinaharris1727
      @justinaharris1727 Рік тому +3

      I got a delivery.everything looks fine to me

    • @summerrose4978
      @summerrose4978 Рік тому +1

      You have to REad To see sizes or scroll thru pics

    • @sheilapike9381
      @sheilapike9381 Рік тому

      @@VelveteenRabbit77 I always look at the measurements and sometimes have to order a few sizes up. But they will promptly fife your money back or credit your account if anything is broken or you just don’t like it. I tried to get a return on a few things that I mistakenly ordered 2 of and they said to keep them! I love Temu, Light in the Box and Shien! I’ve had no issues with them at all.

    • @JNoMooreNumbers
      @JNoMooreNumbers Рік тому

      Chinese are smaller and sizing is smaller. Been like that forever online. Every store you walk into is Made In China and the same places are making it. Very little to find not made there.

  • @silverbullet4055
    @silverbullet4055 Рік тому +3

    Patty, to be honest, the “Gold” set reminds me of vintage Foil jewelry and this version is very attractive on you. Given the right outfit, it would look great on you. I would say it looks more like a reflective shiny yellow color, which to me, looks more acceptable than an attempt at being gold. I liked in on you. I could see it presenting on black, navy blue or royal blue, very well. The silver version, I see presenting very well on pure white.

  • @marilyn7772
    @marilyn7772 Рік тому +1

    The rosé earrings look great with what you are wearing.

  • @bonnielerner9648
    @bonnielerner9648 Рік тому +1

    I’ve been following a few UA-camrs and I’ve been buying from Temu before I noticed they were doing Temu hauls BUT finally I found someone who’s closer in age to me!!! You’re the first “older” woman I’ve found on UA-cam!! I think you’ve got a new subscriber!!! I enjoyed listening to you. I’m going to look for the wig video-I’ve had super thick hair my whole life but now I’m getting bald on top in front-I wear a little piece-I may need a full wig soon. Nice to see someone older on here! By the way I’m 67!

  • @maryannemerritt9770
    @maryannemerritt9770 Рік тому +6

    Great video on Temu Patti! The very last part was cut off when you started talking about the fairy lights. Oh well, we got the main idea. Anyway, I’m a bit afraid of TEMU for many reasons. I’ve heard it said that it’s just another way for the Chinese to track our information and infiltrate our bank accounts, etc. I ordered from them and received some fairly decent stuff, but then I deleted it. These websites from China, like TikTok and Temu are scary to me. Idk, maybe I’m too paranoid, but like you said I’d hate to think child laborers are working got nothing making trinkets for Americans to buy, then throw to the side. I kind of liked the necklace and earrings though. On camera, they looked great with your top! Keep up the interesting work and see you soon!❤

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 Рік тому

      Hi Mary, how's your day going with you?

  • @hardwood7955
    @hardwood7955 Рік тому +6

    I am very pleased with Temu products and their business model. They ship quickly, track products well, and the products are not cheap. We love it and have scored many great items for a cheap price. In this day and age it's a break to be able to afford such things. Everything comes from China it seems now, so Temu is just another company.

  • @barbarafrancis533
    @barbarafrancis533 Рік тому +7

    Actually the sunflowers set look good on you!

    • @sabine3769
      @sabine3769 Рік тому

      I agree love that they are not heavy

  • @mariemcgrath8681
    @mariemcgrath8681 Рік тому +4

    Yes, I Have been to China & many Asian countries, as they are close to Australia, & there
    is a lot of child labour & 'sweat shops. However, over the years. labour conditions have
    improved slightly. Big brand companies buy in 'stuff' put a new label on & it's suddenly
    Australian or US. There is no totally local manufacturer's hardly left.

    • @gabesmom5615
      @gabesmom5615 Рік тому

      Yes,you right. Most people don’t even realize that fact.

  • @lolalyle9333
    @lolalyle9333 Рік тому +5

    I have bought Ralph Lauren made in China. They pay all their help the same I refuse to buy an expensive purse clothes made in China

  • @shirleyrhodes3741
    @shirleyrhodes3741 Рік тому +3

    Everything you put on looks classy! Honey the gold looks really good on you!!

  • @janaroiscofield2810
    @janaroiscofield2810 Рік тому

    I’ve barely gotten into the Video and I’m already cracking up, LOLOLOL, you are Delightful my Friend, now back to your Video ❤️🐾 Jan & Duke

  • @mchyde9645
    @mchyde9645 Рік тому +1

    I took credit instead of sending back and they told me to keep product. So I give those away. I do like the small purses kitchen items, some clothes and some shoes that are cool to wear on hot days to church. My fall and winter shoes.cost over $100, but for summer I keep my good sandals for special times.

  • @lianeabeyta4515
    @lianeabeyta4515 Рік тому +8

    Its just click bait for people to order things they don't want or need. The quality is what you would probably expect for the price you pay. But mostly I am extremely skeptical of them having access to my credit card info. As far as retailers are concerned..its just buyer beware. But like you said... at least we can see it, feel it and make our own judgement.

  • @mrscch1057
    @mrscch1057 Рік тому +14

    I shop with temu all the time. Most items are pretty good. Returns have been free for me. I usually have them put it on the account for my next purchase. By the way those rose earrings are very cute, look very good on you.

  • @DeirdreMFox
    @DeirdreMFox Рік тому +2

    I blocked Temu on all my devices because they sent me an email actually saying Im a bad girl for not closing my order in my cart. That was enough for me, dont need some Narcists company Gas Lighting me. F Temu

  • @jilllovesbeegees70
    @jilllovesbeegees70 Рік тому +3

    We spend the winters in Naples and it’s so happens that two ladies that I follow on UA-cam live in Naples and I met both of them for lunch on separate occasions. one of them two times and the other one once. It was a lot of fun.

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 Рік тому

      Hi Jill, how's your day going with you?

  • @ciscodahkid01
    @ciscodahkid01 Рік тому +3

    Holy cow the Christmas wreath earrings almost look like a wreath for the front door, couldn't imagine wearing it!

  • @beachgal1835
    @beachgal1835 Рік тому +7

    Well I was Temu skeptic. But I usually buy from Amazon and found the exact same things from Temu for a 3rd or 4th of the price. The quality was very good too. I have purchased spatulas, tops, earrings, gardening supplies, etc all of which I'm happy with. Everything we buy here is from China since we have no manufacturing here any more. Since we buy from China at all the other stores I don't see any reason not to buy from Temu. BYW, I utilize yard sales and thrift stores also because I'd like to repurpose when I can.

    • @airrodgers7277
      @airrodgers7277 Рік тому +2

      A lot of those stuff are sold by chinese middle men so in the end if you buy the stuff from amazon you end up sending more money to China "knowing is half the battle " say GI Joe😁

  • @ittybittykittymama7582
    @ittybittykittymama7582 Рік тому +1

    Your earlobe being ripped made me remember how mine got torn. As a teen girl, I wore many of the old earrings that had the wires that fastened with little hooks in the back.
    On the beach one day, someone (a really cute guy) threw a towel over my head and playfully pulled it off. Yep, it ripped both earrings out! I had only slits in both ears! He was horrified but I was devastated!
    Fortunately, a neighbor of ours was a plastic surgeon and he sewed up the slits in my ears so skillfully, there are only slight scars.
    The worst part was that I had to wait six years before I could get my ears pierced again!

  • @joannecirincione3896
    @joannecirincione3896 Рік тому +8

    You are just a breath of fresh air! You had me laughing and giggling just listening to you. You are hilarious. I love how you talk to us like we are lifetime friends.

  • @LTWILTON
    @LTWILTON Рік тому +6

    After having my FB feed turn into Chinese yesterday, I wouldn't touch TEMU with a 10 foot pole!

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 Рік тому

      Hi Lynn, how's your day going with you?

  • @capemay03
    @capemay03 Рік тому +4

    I love Temu. Been buying from them since they started.

    • @fayjones8364
      @fayjones8364 Рік тому +1

      I bought many things they were fine market price..

  • @margaretgray4170
    @margaretgray4170 Рік тому +1

    I like them! I bought my summer wardrobe from them! Cute outfits, some two piece, dresses, etc. Amazon has a lot of the same items for more money! I bought a few jewelry items and I have to admit I was pleased. So far a couple of things came broken but they were so cheap wasn't worth returning! I bought kitchen gadgets that I use often and love them. I have no complaints with them! I'm glad they are giving Amazon some competition, Amazon caused a lot of stores to close!

  • @julies649
    @julies649 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for showing this and hopefully saving others from same mistake. I bought 3 tops and 2 dresses impulsively from “Nora-Cora” a site that popped up on my phone. Came directly from China, couldn’t even read the return info in tiny print with some Chinese lettering. I was disappointed and laughed at myself for doing something so wasteful. Nothing looked like the pictures and quality was horrible. Actually tossed it all. Let’s all try to save ourselves from the CCP!
    Patti, thank you for being you.

    • @paulohlsson27
      @paulohlsson27 Рік тому

      Hi Julie, how's your day going with you?

  • @yolandaramos9575
    @yolandaramos9575 Рік тому +3

    I looked into this company and they have a warehouse in Boston. Claiming to have cut out the middle man. I ordered mainly sewing items. Got my items within a week. China was allowed to join the World Trade Organization.