FINALLY GOING TO THE SALON AFTER MIELLE ORGANIC DAMAGED MY HEALTHY LONG HAIR
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i don't know why people are trying to downplay her own experience. it's perfectly reasonable to be upset that a product destroyed your hair you spent years growing out
WHO EVER THIS STYLIST IS.. IS DUE A SHOUT OUT... SHE BROUGHT YOUR HAIR BACK TO LIFE... PLEASE POST HER BUSINESS FOR OTHERS.. SHE DID A GREAT JOB♡♡
Facts!
The fact that she said it’s not quality not perfect,damaged, trashy… but I’m super, super super grateful… pissed me off.. I’m sorry this stylist work a miracle..
Dang I thought I was vain!!!
Exactly! We all need to celebrate her. And I need to know her. I got some hair issue too
Hope she tipped well cause I damn sure would’ve just cut it myself and got it over with lol. My hair is past my shoulders too. I’m not sleeping w tangles in my hair for 3 days let alone ONE!
If she doesn't respond to any other comment, she needs to respond to yours. This hair stylist deserves recognition for her efforts and her success.
I don’t like how so many people are minimizing her feelings about her attachment to her hair or saying that others lose their hair from illness so she shouldn’t complain. It’s traumatic regardless of what caused it. My daddy died from cancer and lost all of his hair before passing. If my hair fell out or broke off terribly, I’d still be absolutely distraught lol. Her feelings from her experience are valid, even if it’s “just” hair that can grow back. It’s her physical appearance and natural hair is hard work. Her feelings about her hair shouldn’t be invalidated, in my opinion.
Good thing ur opinion isnt valued
I agree! ♥️
THIS 👏👏👏
I understand her… all my hair vane out as well😢
I definitely agree
The stylist deserves an award. She’s amazing!!!
Yes she was....very attentive to detail.
Awesome beautician 💚💚💯💯💯💯💯🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Absolutely… I’m so disappointed in this young lady… she is vain!
This was protein overload. It can happen with relaxed or natural hair. You were divinely guided to someone who understands hair care not just styling. She did a phenomenal job. Simplify your hair care routine. Go back to this woman on a regular consistent basis. You should be fine. So happy it ended well. 😊😊😊
Amen ✨️ ALL of those products has protein in them, And she was using them every single week it's no wonder her hair get mad at like that.
You can't use proteins on a weekly or by weekly bases every month too much protein and your hair will ruin your hair everyone is thinking about hair growth instead of Healthy.
This is what happens.
Yes I was thinking the same thing, protein overload
@@siobhanair2659 Absolutely because a lot of people think about growth more so than the health of their hair and use these products in a wrong way and then they think it's the product it's not the product it's how you use the product that's a good product I know a few people that use it but they don't use it every week or every other week they use it every once in a while maybe 3 months or so and there is healthy So she used it the wrong way
I just don't buy into this being "protein overload" .... But ok.
@@Eveningbreeze721 it really is, look it up on UA-cam, you will see it for yourself.
The beautician is the LIFE SAVER. For her to take on such a complex project, yet being extremely careful and gentle speaks volume of her. The beautician is a true ROCKSTAR!!!
👏👏👏👏👏
A year later she was right! Yall owe her an apology
@@Aniexo_ 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Especially since so many said your damage was due to it being relaxed smh
@@tamarashaircareI really wish I would’ve seen your video a year ago! I had the EXACT same thing happen to me 😭 However, I had already been using the rosemary line so I wasn’t able to link the sudden extreme hair damage to the products. I thought it was hormonal 😫
The stylist was detangling your hair the proper way so she was able to help you much better than you were doing alone. I’ve been following your situation and in all the videos you kept combing from the top (root) down, resulting in more tangling, when it should always be from the bottom, up. But you were understandably upset and frustrated. I’m happy you were able to receive the help you need and look forward to watching your journey on recovering thick hair. ✨
I thought the same exact thing. It honestly hurt my feelings so much her in pain the way she was when in reality she wasn't detailing properly. I just had to click off cause I wanted to help so bad. But she is relaxed. Naturals realize that detailing from top down is a death sentence smh. Just a learning curb is all.
I agree. If I was in this situation I would be frustrated too and would jus be combing from top to bottom knowing damn well I always start at the bottom.
You are sooo right...I'm in my late 30s & JUST learned that!
I also had to cut it off. She was in so much of a panic. I kept yelling at the screen. Combing from the roots down, combing in big sections and especially combing it without any slip products like oils or detangling conditioners was a big fail. I've seen ppl take out dreadlocks without cutting. So I know a lot more of her hair could've been salvaged.
But at least she didn't go completely bald. Her hair will grow back.
I love this comment.. people are being so mean to her..
I lost all my hair doing 8 rounds of chemo. My eyelashes my eyebrows even my private space just BALD. I also lost a few other things because cancer just sucks. Your hair WILL grow back and it WILL come back healthy. I understand the grief and your feelings are totally valid! It sucks to work hard at growing healthy hair and then you gotta get rid of it. Now you know what not to do and your stylist did great. You look amazing!! Thank you for taking us on this journey with you. We support you!
Also is it fair to say it wasn’t just Mielle products but more just your hair reacting to so much protein or whatever?
Hi Kris I was reading your comment on Cancer, and I'm sorry for all you went through. I do a lot of research on natural cures. There are plenty on Cancer. This one product called Jobelyn comes in capsules is a remedy for Cancer and much more. A man in Africa discovered this product. It may cost around 40 bucks but will be worth it. I pray 🙏 for you also.
Hello, Kris. I just want you to know that JESUS loves you. Much more than you, or me, or everyone in this world could ever hope to comprehend. HE loves you! HE died for you! Let it be today that you accept HIM into your heart and start a relationship with HIM. Let HIM give you love and peace beyond any and all understanding. HE can and will complete you more than you ever thought possible if you let HIM!
I had 6 rounds of Chemo, & lost everything you did too. But my hair did grow back, but it is thinner.
Thank you for your compassionate response. I wish you all the best in your life. 💖
The cosmetologist is an amazing woman. There aren’t many like her.
Do people just not have empathy? She is *grieving.* She lost something that she put a lot of care and love into. Of course she needs to cry and mourn over this for a bit; it's all part of the healing process.
I've seen videos of white girls getting emotional over having to cut off their hair-for various different reasons-and their comment sections are never filled with women saying things like, "wow, you're just so OBSESSED with your hair," or "you may need some psychological help, you're just too attached to your hair."
The amount of projection and gaslighting in these comments is bizarre 🥴
💯
It's just wickedness, jealousy and hatred. Talk about a bunch of psychos, they all sound crazy. No wonder Black folks can't be unified and lift up one another. And you're right, White women never have oddball comments like the ones I've seen here by a bunch of lunatics.
Absolutely & it's mostly from jealous spirits..🤷🏾♀️
I was thinking the same thing. No empathy.
Honestly!
I love that you didn't go bald too. I also love the patience the salon lady took to detangle your hair. I'm so happy for you.
I'm happy for you and that you got the main problem solved. I don't think it looked trashy at all afterward. She did a fantastic job of saving your hair, and I'm glad that she was able to help and make you feel better. I know it's hard for you not to be attached to your hair and hopefully, after going through this you can relax your mindset and realize that you can grow your hair back even when it seems impossible. Thanks for the update. 💜
Clarify and moisturize! Your hair will shake back. I’ve been a beautician over a decade. Minimal to no protein until it’s no longer dull and dry. Can’t wait to see how beautiful it will be again ❤
Big up to the hair style list she is really a hair professional God blessed her hands ✋ and everything she settest her hand to do.
This happened to me 2months ago, I had healthy relaxed bra length hair,it got mated after a shampoo.I was so upset but girl I just had a good cry and chopped it off to a cute bob and moved on.Some people have cancer others are dying,I was just not willing to let my hair hold me back.I do understand though and I followed your journey, I’m so happy you had a happy ending after all.❤
Wow which shampoo made your hair get matted this
Omg something happened to me. I have thyroid disease and just accepted my hair would continue with the excessive shedding, nothing worked. Then it started to get extremely matted after washing no Matt the shampoo or conditioner but it was still growing last year it was past my bra strap now it’s past my shoulders and paper thin. I finally came to realize I survived thyroid cancer twice and I have always had long thick hair, it’s ok. It’s just hair. I am not my hair I have made peace with it. I am over fighting to detangle it and the anxiety. If it grows back great if it doesn’t great.
Bless your resilience
@@tarnishermack94 I pray in the ALMIGHTY name of JESUS CHRIST that you are completely healthy in JESUS' name!
Same I cut it very short and just relieved myself from the tension of hair breakage and fall
People ! Women are allowed to care about their hair, their looks and the health of their hair ! I see nothing wrong with taking pride in appearance and taking pride in taking care of yourself.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 thank you very much !!!!!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’ve been battling Cancer for 8 years and all I want is to be made whole again. I understand the pain but for a woman who has consistently loss her hair due to chemotherapy I really value you my life and family over my hair. Obsess over Jesus and not your hair. Hair grows back.❤
I agree with you (although I don’t think anyone should obsess over anything or anyone). My good friend has cancer and lost all of her hair, so it made me upset watching this woman make such a big deal out of this.
May God bless you!
My cousin lost her hair to cancer. And I see so many people, young people, developing cancer these days. I love my hair. I think it's beautiful and it makes me very happy. But I have to humble myself whenever I'm in the mirror admiring it or paying too much attention to it. I realize I could lose it at anytime just like my cousin did. We can practice balancing self love and enjoyment of beauty or even sadness or disappointment, without obsession. All while remembering none of it REALLY matters at the end of the day.
Obsess over Christ Father. This is what Jesus would tell you🤷🏿♀️
You all need to really put the focus On COMING TO KNOW OUR GOD RELATIVE TO HIS SON JESUS CHRIST AND WORRY ABOUT THAT DOCTRINE OF THE DEVIL KNOWN AS THE TRINITY AND ON THESE PASTORS and PREACHERS PEDDLING FALSE TEACHING.
CHRISTENDOM IS IN TROUBLE AND THIS OUGHT TO BE YOUR FOCUS AND GETTING THE TRUTH AS WRITTEN IN THE BIBLE. YOUR PASTOR AND PREACHER ARE THE ONES YOU ALL TO BE WATCHING OUT FOR. CHRISTENDOM'S FOCUS IS ON THE WRONG THINGS.
AND MANY ARE SERVING, PRAYING TO AND WORSHIPING CHRIST JESUS OUR Lord and Savior, OUR MIGHTY GOD
💎ISAIAH 9:6., THE SON OF THE MOST HIGH 💎 LUKE 1:30-35, THE SON OF GOD 💎HEBREWS 4:14, THINKING AND BELEIVING HE IS OUR FATHER, CREATOR AND HEAVENLY FATHER, ALMIGHTY GOD
💎GENESIS 17:1; 35:11 WHOSE NAME BY THE WAY IS JEHOVAH (JAH for short)🤷🏿♀️.
JAH is who Jesus Christ told Satan the Devil to worship at
💎MATTHEW 4:10; 💎LUKE 4:8.
JESUS DID NOT TELL SATAN TO WORSHIP HIM. WHY? BECAUSE CHRIST KNOW HE HAS A FATHER WHO IS GREATER THAN HIMSELF 💎JOHN 14:28 AND HIS FATHER, WHO HE TAUGHT HIS DISCIPLES and US TO PRAY TO AND WHAT TO PRAY FOR
💎MATTHEW 6:9-14, IS THE ONE WHO DESERVES ALL THE HONOR, GLORY AND PRAISE
💎REVELATION 4:11. HENCE THE REASON JESUS CHRIST, ALMIGHTY GOD’S SON SAID WHAT HE SAID AT 💎JOHN 14:12-14, 21, 23, 24, 30, 31🤷🏿♀️.
NOT SURE WHAT CHRISTENDOM AND THESE CHURCHES ARE TEACHING YOU ALL, BUT THE WARNING IS SEARCH THE SCRIPTURES AND PRAY FOR HOLY SPIRIT FROM THE ONLY TRUE GOD WHO IS JEHOVAH, AND NOT CHRIST HIS SON FOR THE TRUTH TO BE REVEALED TO YOU ALL IN THESE CHURCHES WHERE LIES PREVAIL, BECAUSE JESUS CHRIST, THE SON OF THE LIVING GOD, THE SON OF THE MOST HIGH SAID 💎JOHN 17:3. AND AS TRUE FOLLOWERS OF CHRIST WE ARE TO MAKE THE DECLARATION FOUND AT
💎ROMANS 10:9🤷🏿♀️.
I SUGGEST YOU ALL READ THE ENTIRE CHAPTER OF THESE CITED SCRIPTURES FOR FULL CONTEXT AND UNDERSTANDING AND ALSO READ 💎1 JOHN 2:15-18. WHO DOES THE SCRIPTURE SAY IS THE ANTI-CHRIST?
YUP! THE ONE WHO DENIES BOTH THE FATHER AND THE SON.
YOU ALL DON'T KNOW ALMIGHTY GOD, THE FATHER, THEN IT IS FAIR TO SAY YOU ALL DON'T KNOW HIS SON, OUR MIGHTY GOD, THE ONE HE SENT EITHER 💎JOHN 3:16; 💎1 JOHN 4:9, 10; 💎ROMANS 8:32. WHY BECAUSE JESUS CHRIST WHO YOU ALL ARE SUPPOSED TO BE IMITATING AND WALKING IN HIS FOOTSTEP...OUR EXAMPLE AND MODEL 💎 1 PETER 2:21 SAID
💎JOHN 6:44, 65; 💎JOHN 14:6🤷🏿♀️. DIDN'T JESUS CHRIST TELL US HE CAME FROM GOD 💎JOHN 8:42? ARE YOU "CHRISTIANS" IN CHRISTENDOM LISTEN TO CHRIST JESUS OR THE FALSE TEACHING OF THE TRINITY DOCTRINE (DOCTRINE OF THE THE DEVIL) AND THE MINIONS SATAN IS USING TO DECEIVE THE MASSES?
💎1 CORINTHIANS 8:6
💎1 TIMOTHY 2:3-6.
READ 💎JOHN 12:44-50.
KNOW WHO THE ONLY TRUE GOD IS AND SERVE HIM AND FOLLOW AND IMITATE HIS SON WHOM HE SENT AS OUR MODEL AND EXAMPLE KEEPING IN MIND 💎MATTHEW 7:13, 14, 21
CONSIDER YOURSELVES WARNED ⚠️
LET THOSE WHO HAVE EARS LISTEN AND HEAR 🙏🏾🚨🚩
Jesus has a Father. Worship and pray to him🤷🏿♀️
@@Eveningbreeze721 Ditto!
I'm happy to see that your hair is detangled. It will grow back even better!
Girl, I LOVE my hair, too. I’m so happy you were able to salvage a great portion of your hair. Don’t listen to those who are judging you for loving YOUR hair. It’s because you love your hair and treat it so well is why it’s so beautiful. Ignore them all and keep loving on your hair.
👏👏👏👏👏👏 EXACTLY WHAT AM DOING SWEETIE .... THANK YOU !!!!!
I was expecting the worst but I’m glad you were able to salvage your hair. It will be back in no time.
I had a bleach accident several months ago that melted like 40% of my hair off and absolutely destroyed it after finally having it healthy and doing a big chop etc. I was absolutely devastated because I’ve never experienced something like that in my life. The initial shock is crazy and you don’t have to be obsessed with your hair or be vanity driven to be upset by an unexpected situation. To those in the comments filled with ego and ridicule using your ideologies and even the name of God under the guise of “care” to say she is obsessed with her hair or vanity driven… how she feels is 1000% fair because any unexpected inconvenience at any time would make anyone feel upset!!!!! I hope all is well with you and with consistency and the right care your hair will be great. Blessings 💜
People are free to share what they feel about God and their opinion in spite of what you may feel.
@@janeeseaustin3035 read my comment again dear. I made no implication at all stating we cannot. What I am saying is that it isn’t right to use God to falsely judge people and make negative comments about their character. We can properly judge based on God and his word. But the comments I have seen are not that at all. Thank you and have a good day.
@@janeeseaustin3035 she is free to share what she thinks about what people feel about god In spite of what you may feel.
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@@janeeseaustin3035 she never said otherwise
Now 2024 and everyone seeing that she wasn’t exaggerating 😢
Aw Tamara so happy for you! I watched all 3 videos I hope you continue to document your re-growth journey. Another UA-camr “Curlyhaircrisis” went through something similar 2 years ago and that setback launched her haircare business ! Wishing you the best
Your hair is still healthy it's not thin. Praise GOD for working through the stylist!!! This is a testimony hunn in the making 💯
I think it’s perfectly okay to obsess over your hair while you have it! Your hair is beautiful and i hope it’ll get back to that point again ❤
She truly did an awesome job. That ball of hair after she finished detangling was a lot less than I expected when I saw the matts. God bless her 🥰.
In comparison to what could have been, this is a very favorable outcome. The stylist did a great job ✨
P.S. This is also a great example of why it’s important for to address your deepest insecurities at some point in your life. For your mental health and your self preservation. ❤ Here’s to internal growth 🥂
Amen! And the stylist was so caring and gentle. 🙌🏾
No quality product will leave your hair looking like this, period. I'm rolling my eyes at the patronizing tone of some of these folks "correcting" your experience, when they can't solve their own personal issues. These products shouldn't be bought for healthy hair long term. There have been several scandals with them. Thanks for sharing your experience, and props to your Hairstylist. I'm sure with the lesson you've learned you'll get an even better crown in no time 🧡
EXACTLY!
I bought the whole Mielle line during Black Friday sale in 2021 and was not impressed with them. My hair was left rough and dry from most of it and I still had it all sitting underneath the cabinet almost 2 years later. These products are not “natural” and can really damage hair.
Exactly, it's just a cash grab for them. Anything over $6 is put in the suspicious category by me.
Her hair is in protein overload. That can’t happen from one or two uses. It’s repeated use with a product that isn’t made for that. The reason I know is because it happened to me a few years ago. Learned my lesson so I fixed my problem. She also has used castor oil daily under a wig and that oil is not supposed to be left on your hair ie scalp.
I agree. I have been natural since 2009 and my hair is waist length. I used Mielle once and it did not agree with my hair. I was one and done!
Yes, God bless the stylist! She did an amazing job. I hope that before you put Miele on blast, that you thought about what you or someone who treated your hair previously used. I have been using Miele and never experienced any matting. However a friend did experience matting but she did not use Miele but had put a protein treatment in earlier. I am glad the stylist was able to save your hair. Please don’t let your hair define you. The pieces you picked up off the floor you need to throw them out. Immerse yourself in something other than your hair.
Whew, it’s not as bad as it had seemed. She helped so much. Bwoy thank the lord for her patience and commitment. Now it’s to heal from the trauma and rebuild, which you can do again. Thank you for sharing the journey as painful as it has been for you. I’m looking forward to the updates along the way. I’m still trying to recover mine from having babies back to back and breastfeeding for more than 4 years. The hormonal changes wrecked my hair. It’s now growing back in, much thinner because of the shedding and drier but I’m working at it. You did good girl. Oh and just a bit of advice, I would shorten your stretch times during this recovery time. As stretching the hair can be more fragile and you’re going to be needing to baby it so much during this time.
How is ur hair now
Losing hair can be traumatic but at least you didn’t lose it because of health reasons. You have no bald spots, your hair is still thick, look on the bright side of things. As you get older or even menopause can make you lose hair. I’m not saying don’t love your hair but don’t have unhealthy attachment to where it’s your whole life . When other things happen in your life hair will be the last thing in your mind. God bless
Menopause hair loss is temporary and plenty of older people still have long thick beautiful hair. It's all about how the hair is cared for.
@@sayitloudblcknproud for some it temporary for others it’s not. Hormones play a big role, no matter how much your care for it. I work with a lot of older women who lost their hair. It’s either not as long or is thinning, everyone is not the same & I never said older women can’t have long hair
@@Thequeen_leo this is true, I’m a stylist & care for my moms hair. She always had a long head full of hair but during menopause she lost a lot of hair. I know we may not get as long as it use to be & I take real good care of her hair. Yes some Women are blessed not to experience hair loss but some most definitely do
@@Miss.S Exactly & that’s my point, I’m telling her other things can happen in life that cause us to lose hair & not to have a unhealthy attachment
@@Thequeen_leo Exactly, I am experiencing it right now and have been for a few years. Fibroids, heavy periods, premenopausal and my hair was always thin, so losing any of it is stressful. You dwell on it even though you know that there are way more important things going on in life, but it can be stressful.
I just started using Mielle products last month and just washed my hair today, everyone has their own experience with it. I’m sorry you experienced this hair trauma but I have to say it’s making my super thick, very dense, coarse, 4c hair feel amazing so far! I use the rosemary line, shampoo, mask, leave in conditioner, and growth oil. I will be closely monitoring my hair as time goes on but so far your experience has been very different than mine! Edit: I’m 100% natural and have been since my big chop in September 2014. I see a hairstylist maybe twice a year right now and do my own braids and hair when I don’t. I barely put heat on my hair and try my best to drink lots of water and practice healthy habits. My hair is on a plateau so trying these products has been an effort to get a fresh start.
I love them. Her issue is protein overload. You have to do research on ingredients and companies need to start just putting protein. On the other hand people probably won’t read it.
How is ur hair doing now with mielle ?
Can we have an update on your hair since you started with Mielle? I’ve been thinking of using this line but this video put me off.
Girl it's the music for me.
She did an amazing job and she conserved most of your length yasssssss she’s a bomb stylist psa: your hair is still really long also my hair got matted and tangled a few years back the stylist cut my hair off so short I cried so I understand how you feel but your stylist is the mvp I really love stylist who are not scissor happy and are willing to conserve length
Hi Tamara! I've been following your journey. Just want to say I've been relaxed since 2015. I've cut my hair about 4 times since then due to damage or whatever other reason. Just letting you know I know how daunting it can be to have to start a haircare journey all over after investing so much time energy and money. But in the same breath (and this is not to minimize your experience because like I said I understand), it really is just hair. It will grow back love. And consider it a blessing that it can grow at all! I'm glad the stylist was able to help you detangle it. Just be patient, it will grow back.. you are not your hair nor are you defined by it and maybe there is a morale to be found in this entire situation.
I'm so happy you were able to find someone to give you the proper care for your hair.
Never make anything your God except God. Jesus Christ. He alone is our everything . It’s a painful yet beautiful lesson. It’s hair baby it will grow back. Some people don’t have the ability to grow hair so consider yourself blessed my dear. You’re beautiful and your hair is as well.
Amen, Jesus is the truth, the way and the life
When you put things before the Most High, He will take it way from you. You will lose what you prize.
🙏🏾
I was thinking that when I saw this video
You all full of shit your body is your temple an you need to care for it what that have to do with anything full of it yes jealous much.
She did goood!! I’m happy you didn’t lose all your length! Happy hair journey, I know you’ll bounce back ❤
Your hair does not look like trash. It’s a bit shorter than it was before but it still looks good. Your beautician did a fantastic job. I love her vibe. Her hand motions are so competent and soothing. I think I’d fall asleep in her chair.
This stylist really deserved a shout out or a tag in the video or the description. At the very least a mention in a pinned comment. When someone goes above and beyond to help you, it is nice to try to return the good will. She could gain more clientele from all of these views. Just a suggestion ❤
Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable part of your hair care journey with us.
Yeah that’s the line I use and I don’t relax my hair …haven’t since the early 90’s. This is definitely for NATURAL hair only and works well for me…good luck on your journey getting your hair back ❤
Yes but it still has protein in it. I use the product but I will be approaching it with caution for now on.
God has truly blessed that woman’s hands♥️ I’m sorry this happened to you! May yourself as well as your hair continue to thrive
Healthy Hair is the key. And sometimes we overthink when it comes to our hair. I don’t think it was the products I think it was from matting . Which can easily happen whether it be natural hair or relaxed hair. And it’s always best to stay under a licensed cosmetologist. Side note idk why so many women idealize their hair. I’ve had long hair and short hair and it’s just hair. Two years ago I battled breast cancer I lost my hair. But it wasn’t my focus. It’s just hair and now I simplify my life. Cancer free and loving life! Bottom line girl it’s just hair!!!! It will grow back.
I'm so glad you can finally be on your road to recovery. I rejoice with you too. Just stick to those products that have been working for you and in no time you can get to your Happy place
Learn from the stylist on how to properly detangle, as I said in your last video you were detangling all wrong. You’re suppose to start from the bottom up. You were at the top, also when wash do not scrunch the hair but comb through with your fingers. Happy to see that it worked out, with care your hair will strive again. You have your health your hair will grow back
I agree. The constantly wetting her hair, detangling incorrectly and scrunching her hair whilst washing really made the tangles worse
She did really good on your hair
Phenomenal hair stylist! She did a fantastic job of detangling and cutting your hair. I want to encourage you to be patient and enjoy this journey of growing your hair. You have and possess a lot of knowledge; life is about trial and error with a side of know better and do better. I look forward to watching your hair transformation.
OMG..just found your video and it brought me to tears! I've been experiencing the same issues of matting, excessive hair fall & texture change (very dull, dry, straw-like). Your video brought me to tears because I continued using the Mielle products thinking my issues were Covid related. Before using Mielle, my hair was healthy, shiny, easy to comb and had a beautiful curl pattern... all that is gone!! I'm so unsure of how to remedy my hair beyond no longer using Mielle! 😢
To everyone saying her hair was previously damaged and it was due to her relaxer & color….please watch the first video again. Prior to washing, her hair was fully detangled and you literally saw the transition as she shampooed (at which point it wasn’t so bad yet), then put that mask on. THAT is when it became matted….right before our eyes. Regardless of this product working for so many other women, it didn’t work for her. Aside from scrunching the ends of her hair, this was not an issue of lack of proper care.
Some people here are so patronizing, with all the answers too everyone's issues. I agree with you. That was HER experience. HER hair was very healthy and detangled. She did nothing wrong, the product didn't work for her. And personally I'm not buying ANYTHING that could lead any hair to look like this. Doesn't scream quality to me.
@@chillbeauty7989 Me neither. Then folks using this as a way to bash relaxers….her hair was visibly healthy so that isn’t the reason. It was the product.
@@chillbeauty7989 it definitely wasn't the product it's called PROTEIN OVERLOAD!!! So many others under this post had no problems 🤷🏿♀️
Here a year later….there’s a lawsuit against MIELLE and many are natural. So this had nothing to do with a relaxer. I hope Tamara can get in on the lawsuit.
Your hair looks beautiful! She did a great job on it. In the future. Don't use too much protein on your hair. it's NOT the products. It's how we use them. You can't use protein every week or bi-weekly. It will damage your hair. Hope this helps, God-bless you 🙏🏽💓
What do you mean by protein? What ingredients are considered protein, please explain?
Our hair should never be our idol. Things happen and we should learn from them. 😊
I agree. 28:55
She definitely worships her hair smh. How attached would she be if it were short 4c?
I'm trying to figure it out? How is loving your hair or any part of who you are created to being compared to worshipping it. All I see her do is appreciate what she is blessed with..and give tips to others about how they can maintain their hair..her hair probably got into that condition because of evil eye and bad mind..
@@DG-nc6cp it's hair. It will grow back. Does she just love her hair because it's long? Is her self confidence exclusively tied to the length of her hair? Many black women have had to big chop to go natural... not the end of the world. The girl even said she kept the remainders of her cut hair 🙄
@Magna what is your self-confidence tied to? Oh, you don't have a channel, so no one can see.. right.. Her channel is about hair. And if you feel she loves what she's been blessed with more than she should.. move along to a channel with a person who has your similar vibrations..
Wow! I thought more was going to have to get cut off. I’m happy she was able to save as much as possible. I used Mielle shampoo once and knew my hair did not like it. You got this 💕
I feel your pain, I had an ex ray on my head for two hours to fix an aneurysm, I lost half my hair, I have natural curls, it takes hair to make a nice curl all I have is frizz now. It will grow back they tell me. Praying for you and for me.
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Please don’t let anyone shame you about your beautiful hair I’ve started my haircare journey almost a year ago and am experiencing extreme jealousy as well as hair envy from my colleagues 😢
She's the only one shaming herself
Just be thankful. She tried and she delivered. That stylist deserves a shout out. Some people are going through chemo and is unable to grow their hair back. You have a full head of hair. You hair looks good. Again Be thankful.
Ur gorgeous
The fact that she was able to get the knots out. Omg she’s good!!! Girl I thought you would need a big chop!!
I’m sorry this happened to you. In the Milady Standard Textbook, it is recommended to use shampoos formulated for chemically treated hair (relaxed, permed, colored, etc). Usually they’re labeled “color repair”. I hope this helps you along your hair journey! Btw your hair still looks beautiful, a nice style can change your mood✨
So happy you were able to find a stylist who knew exactly what to do. I know it hurts when you look at the hair you've lost but the stylist was able to save most of it. This happened to me and I didn't even try to detangle I just cut 8in off I cried and cut every inch that was matted. I was becoming obsessed with my hair and that experience taught me a lesson. Your hair turned out beautiful it will grow back longer than before.
The end result looks good. I'm happy that you were able to keep some of your hair. It was also good to see you smiling
I wonder how a product made your hair get so tangled like that so quickly. That’s so crazy! But I’m glad you got it taken care of. I’m praying for a smooth, beautiful, and speedy recovery for your hair. You got this queen 👸🏾
Protein overload
@@thejdoll1 That makes perfect sense!! Mielle brand is really for people with corse dried and thick hair.
@@BlackQueenMagic I use that line and I have no issues. I love it. Plus I use protein once a month to avoid the damage she did to her hair.
@@janenemcintosh8050 I wanted to try Mielle but her incident scared me away! I may give it a try. I want to try their Sea Moss collection!
- Long story short 😩 About 4 years ago I shaved my head the scalp then I tried the rice water rinse for 3 days. I left it on my hair overnight so it caused it get protein overload. My hair was so badly damaged I had to cut my hair once again.
Look at the curly hair crisis, it also happened to me before when I first big chopped, it’s called protein overload. My hair turned into a full blown dreadlock in the matter of seconds. I literally had to air dry completely and take some oil and go strand by strand to pull it out of the giant dread.
i will be following to see what u do or use to grow your hair...please dont forget to share your products used
I was waiting for this video from watching Part 1! Your hairdresser did a fantastic job. She was super gentle too. What products did she use to detangle. Other people may have similar problems and need help. Your hair has been through alot, but believe it or not, it still looks pretty good considering. I know you will give it alot of TLC to restore it fully. I am here for the journey!
Wow, I'm so happy she was able to help you. You really need to thank her.
That was so nice of her to try, and compassion is what led her to do so. She did a wonderful job.
I understand how you feel, but your hair still looks beautiful & thick. Everything will be alright ❤️
Try shampooing your hair in sections from now on, no matter what product you use and, with the exception of scrubbing your scalp, work in a downward motion. Shampooing it all at once causes more tangling.
It was a probably a good idea to detangle your hair while it’s dry. Wet relaxed hair is extremely fragile.
So happy you could save your beautiful hair and dear it’s not as bad as it could have been Thank GOD.. your hair will get back to normal in no time..❤🙏🙏🙏
I'm sure the stylist would appreciate you showing the name of her salon & contact info to build her business, esp. since she did such a wonderful job saving your hair.
I'm sad too, but it's because my daughter was killed in a car accident, not because my hair fell out
Condolences and prayers 🙏🏾
@@SLOwens thank you... much bigger things going on in life besides our physical appearance (although I understand too a certain degree)
My sincerest condolences to you and your family ❤
I think it’s weird how people are inserting their trauma in her comment section. She is sharing her experience. She is grateful for what she has omg
I'm so pleased you managed to get it sorted hunni. I'll defo be following this journey. My heart goes out to you 💔 I lost my hair 4 yrs ago due to bleach burn. I shaved my hair off 🤪
The detangling process look like it went really well, glad the kind woman was able to help you.
Shout out the stylist’s details, she deserves the recognition for a job well done..
Unpopular opinion: I'm not saying Mielle products didn't damage your hair, but it is highly unlikely that these products did this kind of damage in only a few minutes. That is... unless you already had some other products, heat damage, chemical process, or internal issues happening within your body. I think this is click bait.
While I'm glad you're on the road to recovery with your hair, it's important to keep things in perspective. The hair loss you experienced isn't even as much as I've seen with people who are detangling from braids. Traumatic, maybe for someone who is obsessed with their hair; but I think you're being overly dramatic. You have a beautiful head of hair, and while you're recovering from some kind of hair issue, you still have enviable hair, my dear. Keep things in perspective.
I’m here to vouch for her, I used there oil product for the first time in after 24hrs I woke up with a bald spot in my head. Now I’m having to wear a wig and I only use it once. I ended up doing research on the product in found out there are multiple people that this is happening to after using it.
If it makes you feel any better, your hair is still longer and thicker than mine after everything lol! I’m so glad you didn’t give up. I really believed you would not have to cut everything. It will be back long and healthy in no time. And you will have new hair content on your channel with your new journey!❤
Here in sept 2024 after a lot of women have come forward including myself about mielle products and the possible class action suit.
Same! I had the exact same thing happen to me in the beginning of 2023. Four huge clumps of hair fall out during my regular wash day routine. My hair was absolutely unmanageable. It took me over an hour to detangle my hair with conditioner 😭 And that was only after I sat there for a an hour trying to come up with a plan of action to get some sort of control on my hair. I’m so glad this situation is coming to light because I was really struggling to determine what was wrong with my hair.
Tamara your hair is still beautiful after all that has happened. Continue to do what you've been doing. That's how you got the health and length that you had. Remember, if it ain't broke, don't fix it. I am so happy for you.
Yesss, I agree and also let’s add that it’s great her hair was saved a bit but her attitude regarding her hair should be a lot different this go around especially if God alloys her to save it.
😍 I'm so happy everything turned out well for you after all! I love your hairdresser, she did a great job, not just with the detangling but also the fact that she managed to get you back smiling and laughing again and forget the whole (or at least for a little while) traumatic Mielle debacle for a little bit. I'm telling you, she's a gem 💎!
I hope you recover from the traumatic experience soon and get enthusiastic about the growth proces again. ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
If you grew it once you can do it again thank the Lord for your GIFT Amen
Stay strong hun. This had been so upsetting to watch. I can relate to being attached to your hair. You've been so brave and transparent with us. Make no mistake...you will rise above ! Keep smiling and stay beautiful ❤️
Btw, your daughter gave you a heads up when that bottle broke !!!
Make sure to follow up with a moisturizing shampoo and super moisturizing treatment mask and deep condition for at least an hr or two. Do that every few days for like a week or so and your hair will bouncy back. Make sure to apply downward and not in a ball since that encourages tangles. Good luck
I wonder if someone who specializes in taking out dread locs would have been a better avenue to go down
They can be combed out
Bring back real hair stylists like this! 🙌🏾 thank the heavens for her ❤
You know how to retain length so your hair will be back to it's original length in no time. Happy healthy hair journey!
She did a wonderful job on your hair. So glad that she was able too work every thing out for you. WoW beautiful on you you rock it
Thank you dear , I was overly grateful
Honestly she did great! You’re going to bounce back, deep conditioning with mainly moisture and not much protein is going to help
Praising God to see you happy again! The beautician did a great job. I wouldn't use anything else outside of what I normally use after this overwhelming experience! I'm glad all is well! God cares for you!
The way you’re emotional with your hair, it seems like you place all your value of who you are within your hair. It's ok, hair gets damaged we all have stories, learn whatever you needed to learn, dust yourself off and continue your healthy hair journey.
I was saying the same thing. It’s hair and I will grow back. Geez
Yes. It is hair. But, it's a part of her. She uses her hair to provide for her family. She is a human. For y'all to tell her that her value lies in her hair because she is emotional is crazy!! Your body is all you have that is truly yours. Once pieces start to go. No matter how small to others it seems. It's still parts of your life and history that goes with losing it. If you give zero cares about your hair or health. So be it. But, do not kick someone who is down because what you value differs. Why waste your breath and seconds of your life to make someone feel low? Empathy goes a long way! 🤯💪🏾
@@missmorrison3687I hear you. You are speaking the truth. I see where you both are coming from.
I can relate to her....my hair care is a huge part of my self love. I look forward to my wash day and plan my treatments. When I pull down my natural hair of 4 years and it cascades to 17 inches it makes me very happy to see the results of all my efforts. I would be devastated if it got damaged. I know it's just hair but it's mine....
@@streetsofgold514 I have never seen her show any signs of having ANY spiritual issues. Yes, Spiritual Discernment is real. I am a witness to it. I do not see her being *lost* in her hair. I see someone who was hurt and in shock. Never once did she click or wanna throw hands or even show signs of any demons nor negative energy within her when she vented or showed her with video receipts. So, again. Her walk with God has nothing to do with her response to having something he gave her almost be taken away. Also, if she is so lost and needs to ask God to free her mind and the hold of worrying about her hair! That spirit hair demon. Then maybe you and she and he should not be watching someone *so lost* since you all can see the relationship someone shares with God by a few videos. 🙄🤔🤯🤯🤯🤯🤗 I am done speaking about it. If you or anyone feels you need to get the last word. So be it. Maybe you need to pray more for your own journey to true discernment than focusing your time on correcting the next. 😉
I used that product also and did not know that it was that product that changed my hair pattern, made it fall out, break off and thin. I am going to get a lawyer and sue that company because my hair was so beautiful before I used that product. I recently found out about these cases online from people that used this product. I have receipts from the store that I bought this from and I still have the products that I put in a bag to store for my lawyer. This is not right what that company is doing to customers but I am not going to let them get away so sister you need to sue also
I feel so sorry for you because your hair is so beautiful and pretty 😍
I use these products as directed, and I've never had a problem. I also do not bother my hair, so there's that. I found that with our hair either relaxed or natural, it's best to keep it simple and basic. Your attachment to your hair is extremely unhealthy. You are so beautiful. And it's not because of your hair. 💛
Hows your Hair now ?
She's just sharing her journey, not asking for advice. It should be left at that. Most people are just repeating what she's already realized and acknowledged.
I'm glad that you're getting back on track with your journey to healthy hair.
She posted in a public forum and has to be prepared for what the public will say.
@@junecat1597No, stop punish people just because they have a UA-cam channel. They are still human.
It happen to me, I cried too, I did a big chop, it was a horrible experience, I'm glad you found someone to help, I have alopecia so I needed the hair to cover spots, it's grown back, I'm all natural now, but I'm very careful now when it comes to trying new things in my natural hair.
She did a EXCELLENT job 👏
I 've used Mielle organics for 2 years and have never had a problem with the products. It's possible that the Rosemary line was too strong as it does say "strengthening" and has amino acids and proteins in it. I stick to moisturizing products and only occasionally use a protein based conditioner when my hair looks like the curl pattern is gone. Even if you're relaxed, ALWAYS shampoo in loose braids and don't scrunch your hair during the wash process.
Yes between the protein, scrunching and shaking around it will create tangles. My daughter did this to her hair and it turned out the same way. We stayed up all night for hours while I continually wet and detangled the hair. After that hair washed in loose braids no more tangles.
How is ur hair now ?
Your stylist did a great job!
But I say this with no disrespect, 25:52 was worrying ❤
29:01 Atleast she knows and acknowledges 🤷🏾♀️ I’d be more worried if she was clueless.
ReMinds me of that episode of MTV: TrueLife I’m addicted to alcohol, where a girl was trying to drink spilled vodka off the floor or carpet…no shade we all have unique life challenges some of us learn about the lesson of obsession from failed romantic relationships. My heart shattered during my first couple breakups. Hopefully She will be able to look back some time in the future and help someone else or look back and realize that being obsessed with superficial attributes isn’t the most healthy mindset to have especially since we are getting older everyday and that our youth and beauty can fade because it’s a shallow representation of who we are.
When we learn that it’s healthier to not put so much stock or self worth on our hair or looks, we can have real self esteem, real self worth, and real beauty rooted in things that can’t be erased by shaving our heads or that doesn’t get erased because of acne or weight gain.
Also when she realizes that there are so many beautiful bald women that rock the short cut beautifully of all hair types maybe she’ll stop making jokes about looking like a monk or going bald. Sometimes the things we fear the most are the same things we attract. I wonder why she’s sooooo afraid of being bald like bald isn’t beautiful. She speaks of being bald like it’s the worst thing in the world. Reminds me of people who are afraid of getting a tan. They will obsess over not getting darker like being darker is the worst thing in the world to be.
@@leighm and? She loves her long hair as she should, how one feels about their own skin and hair should have no bearing on you.
@@caelabrinks2250 never has never will. I just felt like sharing some wisdom I pick up along the way on my journey that I continue on each and everyday.
I use to have all the smoke for girls who get pregnant out of wedlock. I called them irresponsible and couldn’t imagine being a single mom on purpose, I couldn’t understand why keke was flaunting her baby belly, how thatgirljaycole got pregnant so fast… now look at me 👀 35 and knocked up lol what we fear we attract. God showed me that I’m not here to judge anyone because I don’t know the details of their story. It’s easy to judge from the outside. That’s why I said NO SHADe. That doesn’t mean that single motherhood is the absolute most responsible thing to do. Just means everyone’s situation and life path is uniquely theirs and I can’t group people into one category and then make judgements.
Have a good day
She did such a beautiful job and showed such tender loving care while doing it.
HAIR GROWS BACK SIS!!! I say this with love as someone who lost their hair and it hasn't grown back the same texture.. maybe God took yu through this journey to show yu that yur MORE than yur hair.. may the most high keep yu and give yu peace
I just found your channel and watched the videos. I’m so sorry that you went through that trauma with your hair!!! My daughter had a similar experience. It turned out to be the PH of the products. When the hair is straight-relaxed higher ph products work well because they keep the cuticle smooth. Natural hair products have a much lower ph which is why they help with defining curls. The lower the ph the more the hair is encouraged to curl. Her hair was a tangled disaster. 😢 She had to have her hair cut and had several reconstructor treatments and thankfully her hair has recovered. Don’t give up. It’ll get better. We’re here supporting you. 👍🏽
I know how it feels to start again, my hair was super thick (natural 3b/3c) and I enjoyed looking after it and seeing how it fell around my face but I went through a bad time in 2022 and didn't brush my hair for a year straight. It was matted up even worse than this, it was a literal hard hat on my head like a hair net, nothing fell or moved. Just everything was in one place on my head.
But a few months ago, I just went for it. I sat down for a full day, conditioned the hell out of it with Garnier banana hair food (it works so instantly for me, immediately smooths) and literally picked it out strand for strand.
Hair is amazing, It actually came out, the matting went away completely and my hair didn't look completely bad. It's a lot thinner and shorter though, I remember the stress made me lose a lot of it even when it was matted, it would fall out from anxiety. But even my mum and sister who helped me were surprised it still looked like decent hair :s
But after a few more conditioning sessions and some time later, it feels soft again and the strands are smooth/don't have that rough bamboo feeling anymore. I'm getting my curl pattern back too
My ends are very dead though I can see it go from curly to absolutely limp like a rat's tail, I'm afraid to go outside to a salon and get it cut but I know I have to so I can end this and move on. I'm not sure if it's worth doing it myself instead.
One thing I learned was to separate the health of my scalp from the health of my hair. They require different attention for me. My partings were very wide and I was so scared I was developing baldness on my temples but I found an oil that I massaged into my scalp and thankfully my parting is nice and thick and new baby hairs are filling my temples in just a few months.
Also since I don't go outside or eat much, I'm severely Vitamin D deficient and anaemic. Vit D plays a big role in hair follicles , I'm on 50,000IU and blood test monitoring to catch up on it. The over the counter limit is 4,000IU so you can imagine how low mine is to be on that strength. Even the doc said they were shocked. Clearly it's an important vitamin since now my skin is clearing up, my joints were on fire but they're starting to feel better, I really hope I haven't made myself susceptible to early arthritis or something. I hope things get better for all of us starting over
Hello, Johnny. I just want you to know that JESUS loves you. Much more than you, or me, or everyone in this world could ever hope to comprehend. HE loves you! HE died for you! Let it be today that you accept HIM into your heart and start a relationship with HIM. Let HIM give you love and peace beyond any and all understanding. HE can and will complete you more than you ever thought possible if you let HIM!
Wow I see how is your hair doing now ?
@@rahamanawelenje9955 It's a weird coincidence you ask because I've developed what I think is possibly fungal infection on my face and scalp.
I knew something wasn't right for a while now but since I'm black it's hard for my doctor to see the rashes and told me he can't see anything.
But it's a lot worse now even the people around me are asking why I'm 'blushing', it's clearly a rash, it hurts all day and burns so I'm going to put my foot down and make them look properly.
Dr Google says I need some medicated products. Since it's a fungal infection, regular cleansers aren't working.
My miserable life continues but wish me luck lol
I use Mielle products. The rosemary mint line only has one product that works for my hair and it is the oil. I use the rice water line and babasu lines. They have different lines for different hair types. I notice if you don’t use the right one for your hair that it will make your hair tangle. The rosemary mint line worked well for others in my family so what I realized is that it just wasn’t for me. So sorry to watch the awful experience that you had & glad you found a beautician who helped!!
Ur beautiful