getting older & uglier (sucks)

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  • Опубліковано 29 лис 2024

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  • @sojuwithsarah
    @sojuwithsarah  5 місяців тому +33

    thank you everyone for all the love on episode 1!! it means so much that many of y’all resonated with the topic of opportunity cost in your 20s & i’m so excited to share more every friday 🫶 episode 2 is a longer watch but in celebration of turning 27 this past weekend, i dive a bit more into the superficial & non-superficial thoughts behind aging and getting older ✨

  • @kellymei.
    @kellymei. 5 місяців тому +34

    I love how vulnerable this podcast is :) I just turned 31 this year but i feel like i'm 25 and i don't think that will ever change! also TMJ sucks but i'm so scared of getting premature jowlss

  • @weho_brian
    @weho_brian 3 місяці тому +4

    the key is to age gracefully. Nobody can stop the hand of time, but you can greatly slow it down with excercise, sleep, and nutrition

  • @_kyrie_01
    @_kyrie_01 5 місяців тому +9

    i'm a guy but I appreciate the atmosphere and vibe you built along with the subject matters you talk about. don't worry about the views, you're just starting out but keep going. this type of calm, reflective content is what's needed right now for a lot of young people

  • @harshibar
    @harshibar 5 місяців тому +14

    happy birthday, sarah!! loved the section on aging gracefully! in my early twenties, i hated the idea of getting a year older (and all that comes with that). for me, the turning point was when i started training for half marathons (at the cost of making more youtube videos 😅) -- and now i actually feel more physically fit and "young" than i did 5 years ago!

  • @kalliopilyviaki
    @kalliopilyviaki 5 місяців тому +9

    so happy I found you today through the first episode ✨ here for both of your channels ❤‍🔥 kisses

  • @Pottapatri21
    @Pottapatri21 5 місяців тому +6

    I felt the physical changes section. Great episode once again. Looking forward to the next one.

  • @hersheyka
    @hersheyka 5 місяців тому +7

    The reddit thread thing was the cutest 🥹
    Also happy late birthday sarah!

  • @claudiagranata5559
    @claudiagranata5559 18 днів тому

    this is so beautiful. Thank you for creating this

  • @jonesdoe1
    @jonesdoe1 5 місяців тому +3

    I am still on the physical changes as you grow older section and I found it kind of cute to think about what my dominant physical trait will be as I grow older too.
    One thing it reminded me of is a discussion I had with my wife recently about our parents and how their personality as they grow older seem to become more extreme versions of themselves. Almost a “caricature” of themselves. It’s neither good or bad but something that we thought about and wanted to guard ourselves from as we also grow older.

  • @luoul
    @luoul 5 місяців тому +4

    i don't comment often on youtube videos, but i really enjoyed eps 1-2 of your podcast, i hope you continue making them! happy belated birthday ♡

  • @TheAudreyHong
    @TheAudreyHong 5 місяців тому +3

    Gawh! I love how chill and cozy and witty this podcast is *u*

  • @pineappllesta
    @pineappllesta 4 місяці тому +1

    This train of thought I think is a pretty good one - we shouldn't look at aging as a curse. It's an absolute beautiful blessing!!! It's amazing and difficult to make it, alive, that long. Like. Idk it just feels weird, aging is normal and natural. You gain so much across a long life. It's absolutely a blessing. Please don't ever look at it as a curse or something bad. It's an achievement and should be celebrated as such. All the things in the world that could take someone out suddenly - it's crazy and chaotic and so. If you're lucky enough to become old enough to gain grey hairs and wrinkles? Congratulations!! That's amazing!

  • @ipignatari
    @ipignatari 5 місяців тому +1

    I always loved so much the way you talk Sarah, makes me feel like I'm with a friend

  • @klaudia5145
    @klaudia5145 5 місяців тому +2

    New favorite podcast alert 🚨🚨

  • @shel_ee
    @shel_ee 4 місяці тому

    I randomly discovered you a few days ago and now l've gone through all the episodes? Please keep them coming 🙇🏻‍♀️

  • @ahdnei
    @ahdnei 5 місяців тому

    Your voice is so calming and eloquent! Even though I'm a few years older, I really respect your mature thoughts.
    Discovered you through your podcast and binged them all while spring cleaning :)

  • @AraJade
    @AraJade 4 місяці тому

    Loving the atmosphere of soju with sarah! Thanks for such interesting and engaging topics and thoughts

  • @briannafernandez9271
    @briannafernandez9271 4 місяці тому

    I loved this you and your partner are so cute and love the realness in this series

  • @christineee444
    @christineee444 5 місяців тому

    loving the podcast! feels like I’m listening to a close friend chat 🫶🏼 happy belated birthday as well Sarah!! 🥳🎂💫 I’m approaching 30 this year and I used to think it was such an “old” age, but I feel young and so excited for my thirties

  • @methariuss
    @methariuss 2 місяці тому

    you guys are soo cute

  • @strawberriesandcream2863
    @strawberriesandcream2863 5 місяців тому

    you look great! i feel you about comparing yourself to other women, particularly in nyc. it's hard out here but i always try to maintain my confidence.

  • @hialysshan
    @hialysshan 5 місяців тому +1

    Gemini antics are real! 🙋🏻‍♀️June 13th baby here. Side note that when you get older 30s are the hardest but from experience all my friends in their 40s reverse aged!!!

  • @Danbin_Luo
    @Danbin_Luo 5 місяців тому

    Happy birthday sarah! Cute birthday cake! While listening to this episode, I had a sudden realization. I've always been interested in managing my appearance and health, maybe almost as if I'm seeking a sense of control. I hope that the traces of time are something that consciously happen to me, rather than waking up one day and realizing I've changed unexpectedly.

  • @spicysummernoodle
    @spicysummernoodle 5 місяців тому

    YAYYY i didn’t know you created this channel!! vid popped up on my explore page :) i’m excited about this and all your future convos to come 🫡❤️💐

  • @vbrattyc
    @vbrattyc 5 місяців тому

    I’m soo happy you have the podcast now! I love listening to you talk! Congrats 🍾🙂 looking forward to more episodes

  • @vidhiwadhwani841
    @vidhiwadhwani841 5 місяців тому +7

    I think this podcast again hit really close to home. As a med student approaching her mid-twenties, I often think about this arbitrary number of years that every one of us has set in our minds about being 'old', like okay I'm 26 now, I'm "old" and my body is going to change in ways I've only feared. I think as 20-somethings we're stuck with this notion that being 'old' is 'bad' and will cause 'bad' changes because the first time we experienced it (puberty) it wasn't the way we expected it to be, it never is. My b**bs are too small, I stink or I have big teeth, I can go on and on writing down every single insecurity I've encountered yet, but I won't cause I grew out of it and now I'm FINALLY comfortable in my skin... and for what? To experience another change... again? Cause when I think of it, I didn't like it when I changed the first time, and I had heard 'good' things about it, so how could it be good when about this change (getting 'older') -- all I've heard are negative things.

  • @Aquailan
    @Aquailan 5 місяців тому

    100% recommend biting the bullet and getting a night guard at the dentist. I have terrible gum recession from grinding and the guard has helped a lot

  • @estebanzapata1735
    @estebanzapata1735 5 місяців тому

    i like the podcast coach. I just randomly found ur podcast, never seen ur main channel stuff. but i enjoy your podcast. thanks!

  • @neonvibes895
    @neonvibes895 5 місяців тому +5

    this is my new favourite podcast!

  • @wulantsabita9843
    @wulantsabita9843 5 місяців тому

    I would love a column section!!!

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 5 місяців тому +1

    More Time for Dreams and Hobbies is my best when aging❤

  • @iJay1985
    @iJay1985 5 місяців тому +1

    Nothing is wrong with you, God always Blesses You & we ALL know your Absolutely Gorgeous Girl 🥰🫶🏻💯

  • @YourALife
    @YourALife 5 місяців тому +6

    OMG the pulling out your phone every few minutes to write down ideas when you're trying to sleep is SO relatable 😭

  • @PrincessSakuno
    @PrincessSakuno 5 місяців тому

    Resonate with the title so much

  • @RoseanneRanada
    @RoseanneRanada 5 місяців тому

    Happy Birthday Sarah! And aww, I think you're super pretty! Wish I was pretty as you lol. Gained weight especially after covid. haha. But I feel you. I think when I was younger I was happy with how I looked and as I got older as well as experienced when my ex cheated on me, I started to compare myself a lot with other people. But in the end.. we need to be happy & content with ourselves first and it'll show on the outside as well. 😊
    Enjoyed another episode~ You and James are so funny. 😂

  • @Ana-xq3yr
    @Ana-xq3yr 5 місяців тому +2

    Not gonna lie, getting older sucks. 18 and 19 year olds now look perfect and beautiful

  • @heyklau
    @heyklau 4 місяці тому +1

    james is dope. new man crush

  • @Fernandamariaal
    @Fernandamariaal 5 місяців тому

    Hi you! Im just here to support the channel and your project!! ❤ thanks ❤ 🎉🎉

  • @solace-bambi
    @solace-bambi 5 місяців тому

    Glad I discovered you xo

  • @LouisLuzuka
    @LouisLuzuka 5 місяців тому

    Thank you 😢❤

  • @aprylchiem
    @aprylchiem 5 місяців тому +3

    I volunteered at fashion events and saw how different everyone is in real life. I agree that a lot of people won't care about you unless you offer them something or have a high following. It sucks and kind of pushed me away from the fashion industry.

  • @janhavi9266
    @janhavi9266 5 місяців тому +3

    it would be such a good idea to make one episode/video of you solving coding problems on leetcode

  • @shillyy02
    @shillyy02 5 місяців тому

    Recipe Idea: ✨finance✨

  • @BelleKindaReads
    @BelleKindaReads 4 місяці тому

    I like you girl 🩵

  • @paulyang582
    @paulyang582 5 місяців тому

    im curious if anyone knows what mic shes using its so good

  • @Jibril_Abdulkadir
    @Jibril_Abdulkadir 5 місяців тому

    💕💕💕

  • @mtownz6215
    @mtownz6215 5 місяців тому

    You didn't mention your age..

  • @TheFatNooblet
    @TheFatNooblet 4 місяці тому

    You’ll age better by not consuming alcohol