Having a baby is super hard work and some days I'm totally over it and long for silence and alone time but most of the time I love her to pieces and can't imagine my life without her. My heart swells whenever she learns something new or calls me mama !💕😊
Aw hell yea. The first thought I had when I saw my husband was “that’s the father of my children right there.” Definitely did not tell him that til much later in the relationship 😂
It happened to me too. Never wanted kids, met someone, we got married, we still didnt want children until fairly recently that we started considering it (6 years into the marriage) ... I knew he was the one to spend my whole life with... But now i think we'd make good parents
It is beautiful to find someone and feel that you whant to create life with him.. it changes your life, you start to think not just in yourself but in the most inportant thing in the World, your children.
Please do a video on CMV positive pregnancy. Its so confusing being IgG positive and IgM negative and everything in between. The information out here feels so technical, it sounds like i need to freak out. Help out please ❤
I’ve met a lot of women that are convinced they never want kids and I completely respect that! But I wholeheartedly believe some of them just haven’t met the man they see themselves having kids with… once you meet him, your mind can completely change.
I was 100% the same way! I was in a relationship with my high school sweetheart for 8 years.. was ADAMENT that I didnt want kids.. I ended up leaving him after some abuse. Still dont want kids... I met my now husband and after a few years im like "you would be such a great dad and maybe I want to have a baby with you" so we tried for awhile.. had one miscarriage, tried again and then eventually gave up after testing and the whole deal.. and guess what... he still loves me anyway, with or without kids and thats how I know hes the one.
My husband probably would never have had kids or married if we hadn't met, but we talked about a timetine for marriage and kids during our first date seven years ago, and now have one on the way 😂
totally agree with everything she said. I never even imagined children until i met my wife. Summing up your dating life as a “career” though… red flag. I’m glad she found one that made her feel the feels 😊
Spoiler alert 🚨 there is no such thing as “the one”. You will work this out in 5 or 6 years into your relationship and you realize you have to work hard to make it work. All relationships are the same
Pretty sure a strong desire to not have kids is not the same as kinda ...meh... not wanting kids. If someone seeks out a doctor who will do it, listens to the full pros and cons of sterilization, and still forks up the cash to get sterilized, they are strong in their own understanding of their desires and wants. Saying no to an adult choosing what to do to their own body... sus. Calling women girls... also shows your preconceived notions. Unless you mean actual girls and in that case, they aren't getting sterilized without a very strong health reason.
Damn. Dudes so G she said. I want his babies 😂😂
Having a baby is super hard work and some days I'm totally over it and long for silence and alone time but most of the time I love her to pieces and can't imagine my life without her. My heart swells whenever she learns something new or calls me mama !💕😊
You're so right!. When you meet the one that's meant for you all the sudden everything changes and contrary to popular belief men do know to.
Aw hell yea. The first thought I had when I saw my husband was “that’s the father of my children right there.” Definitely did not tell him that til much later in the relationship 😂
Aww same girl. Currently pregnant with our first
Same here.😂 Met my husband and my uterus se alborotó. Had my baby at 35.
whatever you say lol. never wanted one, met the perfect man, still don’t and neither does he!
I was going to say, all those relationships where the couple seems genuinely happy together and childless must be fake.
The right person makes you want everything that's possible for you
My husband turned me into a big-time crier too 😂❤
It happened to me too. Never wanted kids, met someone, we got married, we still didnt want children until fairly recently that we started considering it (6 years into the marriage) ... I knew he was the one to spend my whole life with... But now i think we'd make good parents
It is beautiful to find someone and feel that you whant to create life with him.. it changes your life, you start to think not just in yourself but in the most inportant thing in the World, your children.
The same was with me. In two months in relationship I was like...this is the father of my children
Same! Except I wanted kids and knew right away that he was the one I wanted to have children with.
Please do a video on CMV positive pregnancy. Its so confusing being IgG positive and IgM negative and everything in between. The information out here feels so technical, it sounds like i need to freak out. Help out please ❤
That’s how I was too!! I swore no kids. Then I got with my husband and we’re going on baby #2😂
Yep When you find the one you want a mini version too ;)
I’ve been married for a while now and I’m still moved by the idea of being with him ❤
I’ve met a lot of women that are convinced they never want kids and I completely respect that! But I wholeheartedly believe some of them just haven’t met the man they see themselves having kids with… once you meet him, your mind can completely change.
I was 100% the same way! I was in a relationship with my high school sweetheart for 8 years.. was ADAMENT that I didnt want kids.. I ended up leaving him after some abuse. Still dont want kids... I met my now husband and after a few years im like "you would be such a great dad and maybe I want to have a baby with you" so we tried for awhile.. had one miscarriage, tried again and then eventually gave up after testing and the whole deal.. and guess what... he still loves me anyway, with or without kids and thats how I know hes the one.
Same here. Try number 3 on our 1st baby😂🎉
I don’t really need one 😂😂😂
My husband probably would never have had kids or married if we hadn't met, but we talked about a timetine for marriage and kids during our first date seven years ago, and now have one on the way 😂
That's also what I want can't carry just any guys baby.
Cool!
Hopefully he is the one I hope the best for you guys but for some reason beliefs change over time not sure why tho
totally agree with everything she said. I never even imagined children until i met my wife. Summing up your dating life as a “career” though… red flag. I’m glad she found one that made her feel the feels 😊
Or just a slip of the tongue from a professional woman? Jump to conclusions much ?
@@phoebesmith9089 totally plausible. i didn’t realize my comment was so incendiary. My apologies for hurting your feelings Phoebe.
Out of curiosity, about how old were you when the switch happened? The last time I heard someone say this she was like 22
Don't have kids until your 5 years into your marriage.
Eh, I disagree. Not everyone can or wants to wait that long.
SAME!!!
Women know right away. Men you are just a place holder ( if she is luke warm). She will be all over you if you are the one-no Luke warm.
Same wanted a baby with my husband ASAP
Let’s get one thing straight though, YOU don’t deliver babies. The mothers do.
Spoiler alert 🚨 there is no such thing as “the one”. You will work this out in 5 or 6 years into your relationship and you realize you have to work hard to make it work. All relationships are the same
Spoiler alert, all relationships are different. Different people have different chemistry. Quit projecting.
No hate but That's why doctors can come in the room n tell u to give up your kid no problem n walk out cuz lots of them don't have kids
Live together 5 years and get back to us ...
After she married him, THEN she decided he was the one?
I don't think that's what she meant. He wasn't her husband at that time but he is now so she calls him husband.
This makes me think of the girls who want to be sterilized young. What if this happens to them later?
Pretty sure a strong desire to not have kids is not the same as kinda ...meh... not wanting kids.
If someone seeks out a doctor who will do it, listens to the full pros and cons of sterilization, and still forks up the cash to get sterilized, they are strong in their own understanding of their desires and wants. Saying no to an adult choosing what to do to their own body... sus. Calling women girls... also shows your preconceived notions. Unless you mean actual girls and in that case, they aren't getting sterilized without a very strong health reason.
@@naomiwiegand8042 I'm not pretty sure about that as I changed my mind on that and many other things
That's how true love, marriage and opposite sexes compliment each other.
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