@@hamzaahmed5436 his evidence is common sense Allah always looks at effort not result so just think more effort more struggle then Allah will increase iman A lot if that person leaves that sin.
Block ALL means to it. Switch from a smartphone to a brick phone. NEVER allow yourself to be alone with a device whether that means locking your laptop in a safe and giving someone else the key or whatever. If you can't access it then you can't watch it. Remember that as with other addictions, once you get past the 'withdrawal phase' then it will be much easier, in sha Allaah.
that is not the solution. You have your free will and you do it because you want to do it deep down, even if you tell yourself otherwise. You will have to work on the decision making and change your internal processes for your outer world and behaviors to change
@@Mkmkm534 Not much to say, a man who can live in his own place can marry the righteous woman without his parents's approval. If he can't live outside his parents house then he wouldnt be able to marry her. That's it
Assalamulaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu my concerned brothers! Thank you for your comments about my haircut in this video, I actually did not get qaza as I got my hair cut at a 0.5 grade and not a skin fade. However due to the lighting in the video it appears as though my skin can be seen. I appreciate and admire the concern you brothers have and thank you for advising with politeness and gentleness
"Find the right one the right way" is better because it speaks in positive terms, whereas if you use words like 'without' and 'guilt' you might not realise but you're reminding people of negative things which often pushes people away cus they subconciously don't want to be reminded of those things
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله I found the last part of the podcast very beneficial, may Allah bless you and reward you. I think it's refreshing for sisters to understand the man's perspective as we have to come to a day an age where both genders are finding it difficult to understand each other and tolerate each other, may Allah guide us. Especially the part about movies and books, I believe anime and mangas would possibly go under the same category as they have become a very trending fitnah in the youth, especially because people seem to be justifying it as they think that it's not real life, rather it's drawn images. May Allah aid our ummah and keep us firm upon the haqq.
Jazakum Allahu khayran brothers, could you upload these new podcast series on the podcast streaming apps just like you did with "Chai with my bhai" I think a lot of people, including myself, would prefer that and more people would benefit !
I am not just single man but also the only member from my family living abroad. Life is very difficult and I wish I could marry a girl but in the absence of my family is almost impossible .May Allah make it easier for all those who are struggling to get married.
Alonein Leeds u can get married without your family you can tell them but if they refuse there’s no blaming you islamically on judgment day your family is not gonna safe you
let's not disrespect eachother okay? if u don't like the man, say no. period. no need to rant online. only reason the ummah is like this is cuz we let go of the Quran and Sunnah. let's pay the price quietly.
Yes thats True. Last time i was listening to the first episode whiles sitting in the train where’s, obviously a lot of traffic noises and I could barely hear their podcast properly.
Important question I need to be answered is that if I do righteous actions and pray night prayers. But in seclusion. If I do a sin only cuz It’s an addiction but Other sins I don’t do. Will my deeds be nullified
I'm not sure myself what the way is on that but in my opinion if your doing more good deeds then bad it's okay plus always good to ask for forgiveness to Allah.
In this comment space he said that he cut his hair at a X0.5 hair grade instead of a skin fade,so I would suggest that that is the minimum length of hair needed in order for it to not be haram.
No such thing as 'right one' in the dunya just the suitable one. Tagline should be 'Find the suitable one for you in the most suitable and halal way!' Up to you!
Yes, if people keep thinking that they need to find the perfect spouse, then the second there's difficulty there will be doubt and one will think their spouse wasn't the right one.
His fault too tho, I mean every one with the minimum of intelligence can distinguish someone who's naturally beautiful and someone who has excessive make up.
I knew a couple who just got divorced because the husband cheated on his wife. And as far as I know the couple had regular physical intimacy..... When we asked that husband why did you cheat or does he fell in with love the woman with whom he was cheating, he said he doesn't love her at all... And there is no reason for him to cheat, its just that he fell into temptation while his wife was more beautiful, wise and playful (according to him).... So My question is why they had divorce then if there was intimacy between husband and wife? Why did the husband fell into the temptation? Oh and there was no porn between them, I can assure you that...
I honestly think we can live really beautiful lives both working ful time jobs at minimum wage but my parents want me to get a degree make some serious money to live lavish
Think it depends really. Most good careers they want a degree or specific qualification. You also want to make sure if say you and your partner were earning minimum wage would you be able to afford rent or a house in your area and have disposable income to enjoy things in this dunya. Several Muslim girls I knew from school got married around 20 and either left uni or didn't go uni and are now stay at home mums married to their cousins who lived in their country and now migrated to the UK. Not saying that's bad or anything but in places like London for example it might be difficult to afford rent if only one person is working. Be careful too with that cultural stigma parents follow as I mentioned about friends I knew from school. Personally better to qualify yourself and insha'Allah get into your career which has a good career ladder where you can start to be earning a decent wage then settle down and get married 👍. At least then you and even your partner hopefully have a good job and wage to financially support each other
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The bigger desire you have for a sin the bigger your iman is if you leave it. :)
Woah, subhanallah
Rlly how do u know and what’s ur evidence for it
@@hamzaahmed5436 his evidence is common sense Allah always looks at effort not result so just think more effort more struggle then Allah will increase iman A lot if that person leaves that sin.
@@hamzaahmed5436 this is a statment from shiekh ibn uthaymeen rh
@@zemphz barakallahu feek akhi Jazakhullah khair
Block ALL means to it. Switch from a smartphone to a brick phone. NEVER allow yourself to be alone with a device whether that means locking your laptop in a safe and giving someone else the key or whatever. If you can't access it then you can't watch it. Remember that as with other addictions, once you get past the 'withdrawal phase' then it will be much easier, in sha Allaah.
that is not the solution. You have your free will and you do it because you want to do it deep down, even if you tell yourself otherwise. You will have to work on the decision making and change your internal processes for your outer world and behaviors to change
I’m about to go through the marriage process. May Allah make it easy for all of us. جزاك اللهُ خيراً for the video.
Ameen my brother
May Allah grant you a righteous spouse.
@Esmâ not well 😕
Rejection from the parents when you are trying to get married is maybe a good concept to talk ab in the next episode. Jazakkallah❤
@Shaikul ! Naa i am not gonna marry anytime soon but I thought maybe it would be a great beneficial topic to talk about.
@@Mkmkm534
Not much to say, a man who can live in his own place can marry the righteous woman without his parents's approval. If he can't live outside his parents house then he wouldnt be able to marry her. That's it
Eraser so true my brother
Great idea and pint you have made Cihan
@@abzrahman2309 thanks akhi❤
Assalamulaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuhu my concerned brothers! Thank you for your comments about my haircut in this video, I actually did not get qaza as I got my hair cut at a 0.5 grade and not a skin fade. However due to the lighting in the video it appears as though my skin can be seen. I appreciate and admire the concern you brothers have and thank you for advising with politeness and gentleness
Some scholars say even if one part is shorter than the other not just shaved but allah knows best
@@slaveofthemostmerciful7855 difference of opinion between different schools of thought
Is the hadith don't leave one side longer than the other/either cut it comply or leave it?
And can we can Dawah man's knowledge on this please @Abbas Wavy
If thats not a skin fade then I'm Malcolm X
it's hard, very hard in this fitna filled generation and times... i avoid going to town on weekends because it's too much
Masha Allah, keep it up. Keep yourself protected and safe.
cheering for you brother. May Allah preserve you. Ammen.
‘He jumps in the bed and he farts’ idk why I couldn’t stop laughing 🤣 but this is all so useful to the youth respect to you both!
You couldn't stop laughing coz it's damn funny.
"Find the right one the right way" is better because it speaks in positive terms, whereas if you use words like 'without' and 'guilt' you might not realise but you're reminding people of negative things which often pushes people away cus they subconciously don't want to be reminded of those things
Very good points brother, even I agree with Imran’s tag line
@Fbi OpenUp No it's the Based Muslim Man meme
@Fbi OpenUp You a girl or what
@Fbi OpenUp Based on the hardware that's installed in it
Fbi OpenUp Stfu u gay boy, man just called a guy handsome 😂
The time stamps are extremely useful! Jazakallahu khaira.
Yeah, so true
Imran’s tagline is so much better
Trust
I vote Imran’s tag line
Thanks lol بارك الله فيك
whats tag line?
poil trier “Find the right one, the right way”
@@MayaM-fv3sb Ahh thanks
Same for me sister Meena
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله
I found the last part of the podcast very beneficial, may Allah bless you and reward you.
I think it's refreshing for sisters to understand the man's perspective as we have to come to a day an age where both genders are finding it difficult to understand each other and tolerate each other, may Allah guide us.
Especially the part about movies and books, I believe anime and mangas would possibly go under the same category as they have become a very trending fitnah in the youth, especially because people seem to be justifying it as they think that it's not real life, rather it's drawn images.
May Allah aid our ummah and keep us firm upon the haqq.
Ameen my brother
Man sed “so good I thought it was haraam”. Wallahi I have that feeling rn if I was intimate if I ever had a wife I loved
These are very informative.
And very relatable for most of our Muslim brothers and sisters
I’m starting to get sold on sunnah match👀
Man said no driving lessons 😂😂😂😂😂 oh allah that made me laugh hard 😂😂😂
Very nice top Dawah man! Looking very good. Masha Allah
Jazakum Allahu khayran brothers, could you upload these new podcast series on the podcast streaming apps just like you did with "Chai with my bhai"
I think a lot of people, including myself, would prefer that and more people would benefit !
Alhamdulillah for brother Imran!! Muslim man in Thobe Rocks!!!!💪👊🤲
"SHE DON'T LOOK LIKE THAT" 💀😭😂SubhanAllah facts
if you in uni you need to listen to this
36:00 Akhi the concept you're looking for is called the 'hedonic treadmill'
I am not just single man but also the only member from my family living abroad. Life is very difficult and I wish I could marry a girl but in the absence of my family is almost impossible .May Allah make it easier for all those who are struggling to get married.
Ameen brother, are you able to find a woman from your family’s country so it can suit both of you
@@abzrahman2309 Brother, I am trying and it doesn't matter which country she belongs to but she must be Muslim.
Alonein Leeds u can get married without your family you can tell them but if they refuse there’s no blaming you islamically on judgment day your family is not gonna safe you
@@salamkala14 Thanks brother! I will try my best.
Shoutout to these two brothers@ Allahumma bariki
Imran doesn’t let mrwavey speak😭🤣
He doesn't let imran speak
Alham happy to be amongst the first who watched this video
i really like this podcast i like it longg so i can do things while listening
ok but make sure to finish ur homework on time. don't get too distracted. we want to make sure you graduate middle school
I'm searching audio form(this podcast)
I advise all the bums out there, if you are planning on getting married plesse find a job.
@Sarah Smith I work get out me on Instagram chingy real
@@NaseemOG bruv, seems like you are preaching feminism while accusing the other person feminist.
@@NaseemOG you are preaching feminism she isn't. What you have said is totally unislamic.
@Sarah Smith daaaamn sis who got u this madd are u currently in this situation urself
let's not disrespect eachother okay? if u don't like the man, say no. period. no need to rant online. only reason the ummah is like this is cuz we let go of the Quran and Sunnah. let's pay the price quietly.
LOL, the pigs on the thumb nail on the laptop. Hahaha!
I really enjoyed the podcast, very beneficial all the way through.
But a I find the audio to be very low🤔.
Yes thats True. Last time i was listening to the first episode whiles sitting in the train where’s, obviously a lot of traffic noises and I could barely hear their podcast properly.
Barakallahu fiikum ya brothers
7:08
29:01
36:31
39:51
52:23
You need to fix up the description guy akh 😂 Ain't done half the requests you said
Masha Allah Fine the right one in the right way...
Do you have this in podcast version as in only in Audio?
Love this series
May Allah forgive us all and grant us all Jannatul-Firdaus. Ameen
Ameen
Find the right one the right way. All the way 👍☝ Masya Allah.
do you have these podcasts on spotify?
سلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
I like find the right one, the right way
و عليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Important question I need to be answered is that if I do righteous actions and pray night prayers. But in seclusion. If I do a sin only cuz It’s an addiction but Other sins I don’t do. Will my deeds be nullified
I'm not sure myself what the way is on that but in my opinion if your doing more good deeds then bad it's okay plus always good to ask for forgiveness to Allah.
JazakAllah khair.
Man Like Abbas!
But shouldn’t we also feel shy when having sec sins Allah is all seeing?
If I am physically disabled but not mentally disabled, can I get married?
Go talk to a scholar
Abdulbari Hussein don’t worry you will find a good woman who loves you
Just Don’t be too fussy
Nothing wrong with being disabled! Why even ask such a question?
Find the one the right way
Why it looks like you guys did this podcast in long time?
Where can I find this book by Imam syuti that u speak of in the beginning of the podcast
Mashallah brother not trying to judge you but the haircut the guy on the left has i heard that it is haram if am not mistaken
I think there’s difference of opinion depending on how far the fade is . Allah knows best
I was also thinking the same
In this comment space he said that he cut his hair at a X0.5 hair grade instead of a skin fade,so I would suggest that that is the minimum length of hair needed in order for it to not be haram.
@@abzrahman2309 I always cringe when people give themselves fatwas
Ya ustad.. we need english subtitle
Its in english
I know. English is not my language. Can't understand well if just heard by voice.
You can turn on English close captions
da 29:15 fino a 35:20
da 36:46 fino a 39:29
Whats the book called
الأشباه و النظائر by Imam Suyūti
Assalamu alaikum, is there an english copy of al-Ashbah wa'l-Naza ir?
Nope.
No such thing as 'right one' in the dunya just the suitable one.
Tagline should be 'Find the suitable one for you in the most suitable and halal way!' Up to you!
Yes, if people keep thinking that they need to find the perfect spouse, then the second there's difficulty there will be doubt and one will think their spouse wasn't the right one.
Legit MHx very right point
Your tag line is quite long and confusing to remember brother
@@LegitMHx yeah, it’s never the right one, she becomes the right one… love is developed not definitive
I wish someone could put Arabic subtitles so that my loved one can understand everything.
54:40 - He wasn't expecting something unreal. Rather it was said that she didn't look like that when they met, so he was clearly misled.
His fault too tho, I mean every one with the minimum of intelligence can distinguish someone who's naturally beautiful and someone who has excessive make up.
Assalaamu alaikum
The volume is quite low
I agree
Alhamdulilah
Find that one the right way
Nice thobe
Indeed
Say Allah Huma barek
Guys shout out to Imran
Please put the microphone closer to your mouth next time
Yep brother imran had very low sound
Subhanallah
So we have to watch porn because otherwise sex would become martial?
I knew a couple who just got divorced because the husband cheated on his wife. And as far as I know the couple had regular physical intimacy..... When we asked that husband why did you cheat or does he fell in with love the woman with whom he was cheating, he said he doesn't love her at all... And there is no reason for him to cheat, its just that he fell into temptation while his wife was more beautiful, wise and playful (according to him).... So My question is why they had divorce then if there was intimacy between husband and wife? Why did the husband fell into the temptation? Oh and there was no porn between them, I can assure you that...
TEAM IMRAN 🤷🏻♂️👌
Women's need education before they gone married first course confidentiality learning
Doing all the duas u can in ur head 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@36:50 hahahha
I honestly think we can live really beautiful lives both working ful time jobs at minimum wage but my parents want me to get a degree make some serious money to live lavish
Think it depends really. Most good careers they want a degree or specific qualification. You also want to make sure if say you and your partner were earning minimum wage would you be able to afford rent or a house in your area and have disposable income to enjoy things in this dunya.
Several Muslim girls I knew from school got married around 20 and either left uni or didn't go uni and are now stay at home mums married to their cousins who lived in their country and now migrated to the UK. Not saying that's bad or anything but in places like London for example it might be difficult to afford rent if only one person is working. Be careful too with that cultural stigma parents follow as I mentioned about friends I knew from school.
Personally better to qualify yourself and insha'Allah get into your career which has a good career ladder where you can start to be earning a decent wage then settle down and get married 👍. At least then you and even your partner hopefully have a good job and wage to financially support each other
30:00
Brother how come the only things you talk about is sex or anything regarding sex
No he does not. He talks about more than just sex..
the dunya thinks all about it why ask it’s just rhetorical brother.