honestly the wholesome, transparent, genuine vibes in this video really calmed my anxiety. thank you for being so thoughtful and sharing your wisdom with us
Wholesome vibes? I had no idea bringing children into broken homes without fathers is wholesome, what a wonderful "vibe" indeed! Learn how to close your legs, do us ALL a favour!
Also, "wisdom"? WHAT wisdom does this stupid woman have!? How to be a harlot and open your legs popping out kids into fatherless homes? Wow, what a role model, let's CONTINUE to encourage young girls to sleep around and get pregnant, HELL YEAH WHOLESOME AF!
@@munsonswife4747 spammail is clearly trolling, however the woman in this video is NOT incredible, she's a scumbag, for bringing two children into a broken fatherless home
I was raised by a single mom and I constantly had different partners of hers coming in and out of my life. It really eroded my trust in men and made me feel like I couldn’t rely on her to put me above her boyfriends. Thank you Cam for putting your kids first and I think your approach is a really great way to go.
Your trust in men ended, because of your stupid mother who would have s#x with random men? As well as choosing an unsuitable man to get pregnant by when she had you! Your mother was a disgrace for bringing her child into a broken fatherless home, as is the woman in this video, stop praising her poor life choices, there's nothing strong about this woman spreading her legs without protection, when she can't provide her children what they need, A LOVING FATHER!
Your girls are so lucky to have such a strong independent mom who isn’t rushing out to find love and instead putting your girls first and that’s what’s important. I was only 3 when my parents broke up and since then my mom has been in and out of relationships and she married a man who became my stepdad and now I have two younger siblings and couldn’t be happier. Your such an inspiration to all ❤️
Girl…. SO bloody proud of you!! Been following for years now… it’s so beautiful to see your growth through so much heartache. Nearly 39 here and amazed to see you’ve already learnt so much for your age. Maybe that’s a good thing. It takes many people a long time to learn what you have already. And yes, you deserve the world and anything less for you and your babies is not acceptable. But have fun along the way. 😊 love this video and your down to earth chats. You got this!!! 😊💜 Never been so proud of someone I haven’t met before! 🥹 Almost twice your age but you still inspire me. We all get pretty lost at times but you’re doing an awesome job of finding your way. 😊 Much love to you and you beautiful girls.. From south Australia. 🇦🇺
I can't believe the amount of praise you're giving this disgusting woman, talking about HER heartache? ONLY her kids are victims, they get to grow up in a broken home now without a loving father, because their stupid mother couldn't keep her legs closed or use birth control, picking unsuitable men to have unprotected $#x with is NOT strong or brave, it's absolutely revolting and abusive to any kids who are forced to grow up in this broken household! This is the type of behaviour you're proud of? You're proud of children growing up without their father? You are truly vile!
Watching you talk is amazing. You're so wise for your age. I just got out of a relationship and lost a lot of my confidence. Hearing you speak about how you won't accept anything less than someone who feels lucky to have you and your girls and knowing your value has made me feel so much better! You're amazing Cam. Thank you for helping so many people! ❤
My current partner had a 7 year-old when we started dating. He didn't introduce me to her until about 8 months in and same, I slept over when she was at her mom's house and very occasionally do something with them all together. By the time she was 9, she knew I was his girlfriend, but we didn't move in together until she was almost 11. She is 15 now and while it was very slow, I have an amazing relationship with my stepdaughter. I adore her and she comes first for both me and my BF. Your decisions are very wise Cam. I am your parent's age and it took me a Hell of lot longer to learn this stuff!
Thank you for being so open Cam. You truly inspire thousands of teens, young adults, single parents, queer people, and so many more. You’re such an incredible person and you truly help so many people. Thank you Cam.
@@CJsCornerMCU Okay then tell me her story? Are you telling me the father of her children died? It wouldn't make a difference to my point, because 99% of single moms are irresponsible, and force their children into broken fatherless households, this behaviour needs to be SHAMED, NOT ENCOURAGED!
@@thernfoster2387 Yeah, he did die. And she has become a beautiful mother in his absence. Maybe you should watch a few videos before judging based off stereotypes.
@@CJsCornerMCU I have no regrets for ANYTHING I've said, because I see so many single mothers being praised and treated like a victim, when they themselves are JUST as bad, if not WORSE than the father! This story isn't inspiring for teens, why do teen girls need inspiration from a single mother? Also, it's NOT a stereotype, I judge single mothers based on what 99% of them do, which is get themselves pregnant by a thug, or any kind of unsuitable man, and then getting praise and sympathy from people around them, mostly other women, which encourages them to CONTINUE sleeping around with thugs, and popping out more fatherless children, single motherhood needs to be SHAMED, NOT PRAISED!
@@thernfoster2387 Again, you do not know her sorry. I’m sorry if you have a bad experience with single moms. Not every mother is the same. That is not who Cam is. If you watch some of her videos, including this one you will see she is very different.
Got i wish more mothers were like you. Im so glad your daughters have a attentive mother like you. I found you through tragedy but im so glad i stuck around to watch your channel and family grow, we are all very proud of you!
You are being really kind to yourself, and you deserve that. I would not even introduce a guy to the girls for quite a few months. The right guy will respect your choice. Don't rush the situation, just take your time. A man who wants to be with you, in the long run, will allow you to set the pace. There's a great man out there, ready to love you and support your dreams. You are a woman now. You've lived through hell and come back better. You deserve the cream of the crop.
i hope you know how inspiring and mature you are! you’re so well spoken and just say all the right things, almost as if you think the same way I do haha, the mentioning the preparing them for life vs sheltering them was so beautiful to hear, you’re doing amazing 💖
I mostly agree with what you've said, but I do have one thing to add about the way you plan on introducing a new partner as "mommy's friend" first. Speaking as someone who experienced their parent dating a lot as a child/young teen, children sense the difference between a platonic friend and a 'friend' that you introduce as such but is actually more. They just sense it. So it might be best to be completely honest and introduce them as "someone you are getting to know" so that your children don't feel like you're holding something back from them. :)
I just wanted to stop and take a moment and tell you how amazingly proud of you, I tend to be. I am much older and started watching your videos about 2 years ago. To see who you were then to now is such amazing and beautiful growth. There's only up from here! Keep growing, Love. Congrats ♡♡ 11:45 I had to come back and comment and congratulate you! I am a adult that lost her father at 5, also tragically. What you have done here and what the man you dated did, was amazing! Thank you for making it a point to say "Goodbye" except maybe (if there ever was another next time" maybe try its NOT goodbye, goodbyes are final, it's see you later ♡♡♡♡ once again, super proud of you ♡♡♡
I can't believe the amount of praise you're giving this disgusting woman, talking about HER heartache? ONLY her kids are victims, they get to grow up in a broken home now without a loving father, because their stupid mother couldn't keep her legs closed or use birth control, picking unsuitable men to have unprotected $#x with is NOT strong or brave, it's absolutely revolting and abusive to any kids who are forced to grow up in this broken household! This is the type of behaviour you're proud of? You're proud of children growing up without their father? You are truly vile!
@@thernfoster2387 wooow, you are awfully triggered by this woman. My opinion doesn't have to be yours but you can keep your VILE, degrading, ignorant opinions to YOURSELF! Bless your heart
@@mamapandas5740 Triggered? On the contrary I take satisfaction for calling out vile people like this woman AND YOU, people who throw around the word 'triggered' as a first line of defence, are the ones who are triggered themselves lmao! My statement was NOT an opinion, it was a FACT, you're proud of this woman bringing up two children without a father, because she doesn't know what birth control is, and she chose to behave irresponsibly by sleeping around with a man who wasn't a suitable father
@@mamapandas5740 LMAO, yeah that's what I thought, can't bare to read the truth and get educated, no one cares? Yet I've met MANY people that DO care, and if you didn't care you wouldn't be here ranting and replying with your anger and stupidity, single moms are a plague, and that includes YOU! Stay mad to the truth!
we are in a very similar phase of life and have similarities going on (similar age, i’m recently divorced, have two sons, starting to date). i really needed to hear this. thank you for talking about it.
Ur videos have helped me alot for the past 3 years as we have some of the same life situation of losing a partner and having a child I hope u all the best
This entire video has been So helpful for me as a person battling with chronic pain and chronic illness. Dating is definitely hard for me with these, my doctors always told me I must tell my partner immediately about what is going on inside my body and I believed it was the right way, but you opened my eyes about vulnerability and that I don't owe anyone to be an open book right from the first second of me talking to them. Thank you for also enlighting me that dating not to marry can be just as good and beneficial as dating for marriage is.
I came here to say the exact same thing. I battle chronic pain and chronic illness too and the whole video I kept thinking how vulnerable we really are and how we go about dating ourselves. I haven’t for a while now, I don’t trust people to be around me while I’m so vulnerable yet because I’m often screaming in pain and I don’t want ppl there to see that ya know. That was an example of many things but yeah basically I second this 100%
@@tahliajayde261 actually same, I feel you. Been screaming in pain all day today, I know exactly what you mean by not wanting anyone, not even family to see/hear sometimes or most of the times, let alone a boyfriend. That's why I have also chosen to remain single for years now but when I'd 'allow' a guy into my life, I'd feel obliged to immediately reveal everything and degrade myself, which is just so wrong and I only realized that today.
@@sissi3342 it’s so shit isn’t it. We shouldn’t feel this way. Yeah same regarding fam, when I’m at my worst I demand to be left alone. God I’m sorry I hope your okay… I couldn’t get out of bed for hours yesterday morning and screamed and cried the whole time. These illness’ are awful!
@@tahliajayde261 they truly are, and I am so sorry for you too, we shouldn't have to be going through this 🥺 However, we are strong enough & we got this, don't we 👊🏻❣️
It is also quite alright to remain single for a long while. I was a very young mom, I had my son when I was in middle school. He's almost 16 now. My best friend helped me parent my baby until he suddenly died when my little boy was a toddler. I tried entering into a relationship when my son was 8, but my little boy had a hard time and I chose my son's happiness over mine. I have not dated since because my child is my passion. My goodness, I get a bit lonely sometimes, but I know I am doing the best for my son and he is such a wonderful boy. I think a same sex relationship would be a quite wonderful fit for your family dynamic. I wish you the best ❤️.
I have a dating profile but I don’t put the specifics (my kid’s name, photos, gender, or age) into my bio. I do include that I am a parent and that I’m extremely dedicated to parenthood. Once I start chatting with them and we are hitting it off, I will tell them more. It is hard dating as a single mom, and more so with people who don’t have kids of their own.
Yea I feel the “probably won’t date a man again” sentiment, I’m dating the person I’ll be marrying but if we ever broke up I’d definitely explore with women
@@kynslieburke2049 She chose that man to have unprotected relations with, plus have we heard his side of the story? NO! So for all we know, he could've told her before they had hanky panky that he didn't want kids, and perhaps she lied about being on birth control, or went ahead and got pregnant anyway against his wishes for the child support most likely, regardless, women need to be more responsible who they choose to spread their legs for, because women are the ones who give birth, give consent AND they have over 10 forms of contraception, start holding single moms accountable for their poor life choices! Most marriages fail, marriage is a con against men!
Well I think it shouldn’t be something you should have to hide , you should wait a bit see how things go and if you generally want to be with the person then kinda tell the or mention at some point not straight up and if they don’t support you then they’re not the one for you
Yes! I live by this philosophy as well. They can't navigate those hard emotions if they don't have an example to go by. You go girl! Wise beyond your years. Much love from Dallas
As a person your age that only dates to marry, I kinda envy people that can be with someone despite that awareness that it's not going to last. Once I get that feeling, that realization you described, I just can't enjoy anything anymore. Although I still love that person, I just feel like the more I keep going the more it's going to hurt once it ends, and that just ruins it. I can't "live in the moment", I need to see a future with this person. And talking about your future together with your significant other is one of the best things in a relationship in my opinion. Feeling at home with somebody is just something else. Having said this, I totally support your choice. Good luck Cam! You're amazing and deserve to be happy!
Your voice is so soothing and you are truly wise beyond your years. With a father who constantly brought women in and out of my life starting at just two years old, your words truly showed me again how a loving parent should behave like.
And once men(or women in some cases)find out that the immediate intent of the first party is marriage right from the first date, the other party should cut it off. Unfortunately it makes the other party look bad. Women especially will say,"then he's not the man for you, he's a dirtbag for dumping you just because you have kids, etc." Not true at all. And if someone doesn't want someone with kids already, there's nothing wrong with that. Some people never want kids, and that's fine.
You go girl, I know you can get through your definitely a tough cookie. Even though you have experience a rough roller coaster in Life at a young age. But I was a little shocked when you was hinting Girlfriend and then eventually told Us you was Quire aka Bi, which personally I accept any LGBTQ+ Community and Members. I have Best Friends who I went to school with who are even just the few of them was my first actual friends in Middle School. But feel like Religiously that Landon sadly was struggling through Depression & Etc. toughly which I also deal with it as well; but also God is allowing Doors to open & close in your Life. Just even Imagining the Heavy Grief with Acceptance his Gone to become Okay with it. But also, seeing you become the Happiest you ever been but like you said your 2 Girls as your first Priority so seeing them also to. But just keep staying True to yourself while making you Happy and also taking it safe & Slow bc that is most important in a Relationship as well. But so Glad you are doing Good right now, and have also Amazing Talent to Speak your Thoughts but the Truth of what you Believe in. I have been watching you since we was about the age of 14 years old. I’m currently 20 years old to, I have a June Birthday. But looking forward into going to College soon, I have been taking a Gap Year or 2 since I Graduated and believe that was a good choice to also Grow myself personally and get to know about me more to. But love your Videos their so Inspiring to me but also their so calming just to hear you speak tbh.
Word of advice from a kid who mom has nothing but causal relationships. You never want to bring that person into your kids life's. Make it REAL love Lasting marriage love and yes it's fine bring kids in. But just something casual you just don't bring your kids into that. especially if you're just looking to have fun as an adult woman without children involved. You're a great mom. And your kids are awesome. In fact some of us went through the same thing you did. Only I didn't handle it half as easily as you did in the public eye. You made everything okay and I didn't mean like it was easy for you to. I was starting when my fiance killed himself two days before our wedding. He hung himself in our bathroom. I think I was a wreck until I was almost 40. I didn't date for 10 years. And 3 months after a little boy was born he passed away with the brain aneurysm. You were 18 had two kids and you had to go through this grieving.. you are very much an adult and you are very much an adult when you fell in love at 14
Amazing Video! I love your channel keep up the good work girl Cam your Stunning Collette Is pretty!!! Deliah Is just drop dead gorgeous!!!!! I Love You With All My Heart!!!!!!
I am happy dating a single mom. I wanted a family, and she was looking for a rightful person to be a father to her kids. Kids loved me more than my fiancee. Yes, we are engaged.
If you're doing online dating, being forthcoming about having children can help you find someone who can relate and who could potentially be really worth it. It's almost like a way to filter out people who just aren't willing to entertain the idea if dating a person with children. Having vulnerabilities is a personal thing that is really up to you to tackle in your life.
The thing is though, It’s also very dangerous bc α lot of predators look for people who put single parent in their bio so that way they can use the parent to get tp the child after theyre together and get comfortable. They also can groom overtime
Hi Carmyn I love watching your vlogs your girls have grown so much Dee is getting so big man kids grow up so fast I hope you are enjoying your fall so far I wasn't quite ready for fall I hope you are enjoying this cool weather well you get cooler weather then anyone else around the USA I hope you are having a wonderful day I was the same way I dated a guy in high school then covid happened and after this craziness happened we broke up and now he is with another girl I will never find another guy like him and I will never be married I am not pretty enough for any guy how are you Carmyn?
I love you so much Cam I love your videos they are so true, remember everyone God loves us all no matter what repent and be kind and check on people you never know what someone is going through Amen ✝️💞(not trying to force my religion)
as a woman sweetheart its best to a another man away fromm your children. you just hurt him in some way because of obligations. You should your child or children around family not even friends because poeple are mentally ill and don't know what they are doing all the time. Be careful. Unfortunately i saw when i drop off mines at school the others from a different location their was a man who sexual harass a child be aware of what you are doing most time. Having another man around your children is a most likely an red flags why because its not their father. please don't confuse your children.. its all protection at all costed
Hi I’m new to this channel and this is the first vidio I’m ever watching on this channel I’m about to which it though I was wondering why the girls don’t go stay at there dads house if someone could answer me I would love that ❤
Single parents should date other single parents step parenting is a huge mistake and I regret ever putting myself through that situation never ever again would I ever date a woman with kids already regardless of the age of the kids . Its a package deal with single mothers 99% if not 100% want financial support and not the man.youre still sort of young but have red flags especially when you are willing to stay in a bad relationship just for the experience of it that is very concerning
It should be on your profile and it should be said on the 1st date or even better in the first few texts being send.... you dont want someone to be excited about you and then when you tell them and they dont want that type of relationship then it would be a bummer for them.... find someone who will accept your kids aswell right of the bat
@@Brittanywithaney no one said she should say shes alone. But be right of the bat . Why would you not want to tell the person about your greatest joy from the start
@@moniquejoubert4363 exactly the reason I just said. Context clues would be easy to understand that I live alone with my children. Not saying it outright, but dangerous people know what they're doing. I'm protecting them. I don't need to brag, in the nicest way possible. For exactly the reason she said. They are a vulnerable part of your life, the most vulnerable.
@@moniquejoubert4363 why would she not want to tell the person about her greatest joy from the start? Because she doesn't want to invite predators by letting them know she has children, you tard! Use your head!
I just woke up, turned on this vid, still beeing partly in my sleep, I thought "Wow Coco has gotten so big!" And then I realised it is you.🤣🤣🤣 You girls look so alike. I love how you speak. It is so good to hear you. 🤍
Good video, I think it's good that children don't know all your relationships. Then when the relationship is longer/and strong, it's good to bring a new person into their lives. I have no children. It is good to remember that those who have, do not automatically make them mature/wise. Have good days🫂😋
honestly the wholesome, transparent, genuine vibes in this video really calmed my anxiety. thank you for being so thoughtful and sharing your wisdom with us
Wholesome vibes? I had no idea bringing children into broken homes without fathers is wholesome, what a wonderful "vibe" indeed! Learn how to close your legs, do us ALL a favour!
Also, "wisdom"? WHAT wisdom does this stupid woman have!? How to be a harlot and open your legs popping out kids into fatherless homes? Wow, what a role model, let's CONTINUE to encourage young girls to sleep around and get pregnant, HELL YEAH WHOLESOME AF!
Same
Also, I paused the video at 22:22 when I read this, and I just felt like I had to point that out
You're an incredible mom and woman. Don't let anyone tell you differently.
@SPAM MAIL get a life and stop whining ❤️
What's incredible about bringing children into broken homes without fathers? This woman is a dreg
@@munsonswife4747 spammail is clearly trolling, however the woman in this video is NOT incredible, she's a scumbag, for bringing two children into a broken fatherless home
I was raised by a single mom and I constantly had different partners of hers coming in and out of my life. It really eroded my trust in men and made me feel like I couldn’t rely on her to put me above her boyfriends. Thank you Cam for putting your kids first and I think your approach is a really great way to go.
Your trust in men ended, because of your stupid mother who would have s#x with random men? As well as choosing an unsuitable man to get pregnant by when she had you! Your mother was a disgrace for bringing her child into a broken fatherless home, as is the woman in this video, stop praising her poor life choices, there's nothing strong about this woman spreading her legs without protection, when she can't provide her children what they need, A LOVING FATHER!
Your girls are so lucky to have such a strong independent mom who isn’t rushing out to find love and instead putting your girls first and that’s what’s important. I was only 3 when my parents broke up and since then my mom has been in and out of relationships and she married a man who became my stepdad and now I have two younger siblings and couldn’t be happier. Your such an inspiration to all ❤️
Girl…. SO bloody proud of you!! Been following for years now… it’s so beautiful to see your growth through so much heartache. Nearly 39 here and amazed to see you’ve already learnt so much for your age. Maybe that’s a good thing. It takes many people a long time to learn what you have already. And yes, you deserve the world and anything less for you and your babies is not acceptable. But have fun along the way. 😊 love this video and your down to earth chats. You got this!!! 😊💜 Never been so proud of someone I haven’t met before! 🥹 Almost twice your age but you still inspire me. We all get pretty lost at times but you’re doing an awesome job of finding your way. 😊 Much love to you and you beautiful girls.. From south Australia. 🇦🇺
I can't believe the amount of praise you're giving this disgusting woman, talking about HER heartache? ONLY her kids are victims, they get to grow up in a broken home now without a loving father, because their stupid mother couldn't keep her legs closed or use birth control, picking unsuitable men to have unprotected $#x with is NOT strong or brave, it's absolutely revolting and abusive to any kids who are forced to grow up in this broken household! This is the type of behaviour you're proud of? You're proud of children growing up without their father? You are truly vile!
Watching you talk is amazing. You're so wise for your age. I just got out of a relationship and lost a lot of my confidence. Hearing you speak about how you won't accept anything less than someone who feels lucky to have you and your girls and knowing your value has made me feel so much better! You're amazing Cam. Thank you for helping so many people! ❤
My current partner had a 7 year-old when we started dating. He didn't introduce me to her until about 8 months in and same, I slept over when she was at her mom's house and very occasionally do something with them all together. By the time she was 9, she knew I was his girlfriend, but we didn't move in together until she was almost 11. She is 15 now and while it was very slow, I have an amazing relationship with my stepdaughter. I adore her and she comes first for both me and my BF. Your decisions are very wise Cam. I am your parent's age and it took me a Hell of lot longer to learn this stuff!
Thank you for being so open Cam. You truly inspire thousands of teens, young adults, single parents, queer people, and so many more. You’re such an incredible person and you truly help so many people. Thank you Cam.
@@thernfoster2387 …have you watched her videos? Cause that’s not her story?
@@CJsCornerMCU Okay then tell me her story? Are you telling me the father of her children died? It wouldn't make a difference to my point, because 99% of single moms are irresponsible, and force their children into broken fatherless households, this behaviour needs to be SHAMED, NOT ENCOURAGED!
@@thernfoster2387 Yeah, he did die. And she has become a beautiful mother in his absence. Maybe you should watch a few videos before judging based off stereotypes.
@@CJsCornerMCU I have no regrets for ANYTHING I've said, because I see so many single mothers being praised and treated like a victim, when they themselves are JUST as bad, if not WORSE than the father! This story isn't inspiring for teens, why do teen girls need inspiration from a single mother? Also, it's NOT a stereotype, I judge single mothers based on what 99% of them do, which is get themselves pregnant by a thug, or any kind of unsuitable man, and then getting praise and sympathy from people around them, mostly other women, which encourages them to CONTINUE sleeping around with thugs, and popping out more fatherless children, single motherhood needs to be SHAMED, NOT PRAISED!
@@thernfoster2387 Again, you do not know her sorry. I’m sorry if you have a bad experience with single moms. Not every mother is the same. That is not who Cam is. If you watch some of her videos, including this one you will see she is very different.
Got i wish more mothers were like you. Im so glad your daughters have a attentive mother like you. I found you through tragedy but im so glad i stuck around to watch your channel and family grow, we are all very proud of you!
Cam you just made me cry that is beautiful how he loved your kids just as much as you did and he always put them before both of you 🥺❤😭
You are being really kind to yourself, and you deserve that. I would not even introduce a guy to the girls for quite a few months. The right guy will respect your choice. Don't rush the situation, just take your time. A man who wants to be with you, in the long run, will allow you to set the pace. There's a great man out there, ready to love you and support your dreams. You are a woman now. You've lived through hell and come back better. You deserve the cream of the crop.
i hope you know how inspiring and mature you are! you’re so well spoken and just say all the right things, almost as if you think the same way I do haha, the mentioning the preparing them for life vs sheltering them was so beautiful to hear, you’re doing amazing 💖
I love your confidence in who you are as a mother❤️
I mostly agree with what you've said, but I do have one thing to add about the way you plan on introducing a new partner as "mommy's friend" first. Speaking as someone who experienced their parent dating a lot as a child/young teen, children sense the difference between a platonic friend and a 'friend' that you introduce as such but is actually more. They just sense it. So it might be best to be completely honest and introduce them as "someone you are getting to know" so that your children don't feel like you're holding something back from them. :)
I'm so proud of you for how far you've come cam!!❤️
I agree with this and this should go for friendships too!
I love your videos. Dating as a single mom is definitely an experience and a half. 💞💞
I just wanted to stop and take a moment and tell you how amazingly proud of you, I tend to be. I am much older and started watching your videos about 2 years ago. To see who you were then to now is such amazing and beautiful growth. There's only up from here! Keep growing, Love. Congrats ♡♡ 11:45 I had to come back and comment and congratulate you! I am a adult that lost her father at 5, also tragically. What you have done here and what the man you dated did, was amazing! Thank you for making it a point to say "Goodbye" except maybe (if there ever was another next time" maybe try its NOT goodbye, goodbyes are final, it's see you later ♡♡♡♡ once again, super proud of you ♡♡♡
I can't believe the amount of praise you're giving this disgusting woman, talking about HER heartache? ONLY her kids are victims, they get to grow up in a broken home now without a loving father, because their stupid mother couldn't keep her legs closed or use birth control, picking unsuitable men to have unprotected $#x with is NOT strong or brave, it's absolutely revolting and abusive to any kids who are forced to grow up in this broken household! This is the type of behaviour you're proud of? You're proud of children growing up without their father? You are truly vile!
@@thernfoster2387 wooow, you are awfully triggered by this woman. My opinion doesn't have to be yours but you can keep your VILE, degrading, ignorant opinions to YOURSELF! Bless your heart
@@mamapandas5740 Triggered? On the contrary I take satisfaction for calling out vile people like this woman AND YOU, people who throw around the word 'triggered' as a first line of defence, are the ones who are triggered themselves lmao! My statement was NOT an opinion, it was a FACT, you're proud of this woman bringing up two children without a father, because she doesn't know what birth control is, and she chose to behave irresponsibly by sleeping around with a man who wasn't a suitable father
@@thernfoster2387 I'm not reading your pointless rants. You're going on and on and on and still the only thing that remains rhe same is no one cares.
@@mamapandas5740 LMAO, yeah that's what I thought, can't bare to read the truth and get educated, no one cares? Yet I've met MANY people that DO care, and if you didn't care you wouldn't be here ranting and replying with your anger and stupidity, single moms are a plague, and that includes YOU! Stay mad to the truth!
You and the ex-boyfriend did a great job of explaining to Cocoa about him not coming around. It's not easy trying to explain that to a little girl.
we are in a very similar phase of life and have similarities going on (similar age, i’m recently divorced, have two sons, starting to date). i really needed to hear this. thank you for talking about it.
Ur videos have helped me alot for the past 3 years as we have some of the same life situation of losing a partner and having a child I hope u all the best
Wow you inspire me so much! Strong Woman 💪🏼 i Love how you raise your Kids and what they mean to you
This entire video has been So helpful for me as a person battling with chronic pain and chronic illness. Dating is definitely hard for me with these, my doctors always told me I must tell my partner immediately about what is going on inside my body and I believed it was the right way, but you opened my eyes about vulnerability and that I don't owe anyone to be an open book right from the first second of me talking to them. Thank you for also enlighting me that dating not to marry can be just as good and beneficial as dating for marriage is.
I came here to say the exact same thing. I battle chronic pain and chronic illness too and the whole video I kept thinking how vulnerable we really are and how we go about dating ourselves. I haven’t for a while now, I don’t trust people to be around me while I’m so vulnerable yet because I’m often screaming in pain and I don’t want ppl there to see that ya know. That was an example of many things but yeah basically I second this 100%
@@tahliajayde261 actually same, I feel you. Been screaming in pain all day today, I know exactly what you mean by not wanting anyone, not even family to see/hear sometimes or most of the times, let alone a boyfriend. That's why I have also chosen to remain single for years now but when I'd 'allow' a guy into my life, I'd feel obliged to immediately reveal everything and degrade myself, which is just so wrong and I only realized that today.
@@sissi3342 it’s so shit isn’t it. We shouldn’t feel this way. Yeah same regarding fam, when I’m at my worst I demand to be left alone. God I’m sorry I hope your okay… I couldn’t get out of bed for hours yesterday morning and screamed and cried the whole time. These illness’ are awful!
@@tahliajayde261 they truly are, and I am so sorry for you too, we shouldn't have to be going through this 🥺 However, we are strong enough & we got this, don't we 👊🏻❣️
You are so wise Camryn omg
It is also quite alright to remain single for a long while. I was a very young mom, I had my son when I was in middle school. He's almost 16 now. My best friend helped me parent my baby until he suddenly died when my little boy was a toddler. I tried entering into a relationship when my son was 8, but my little boy had a hard time and I chose my son's happiness over mine. I have not dated since because my child is my passion. My goodness, I get a bit lonely sometimes, but I know I am doing the best for my son and he is such a wonderful boy. I think a same sex relationship would be a quite wonderful fit for your family dynamic. I wish you the best ❤️.
I have a dating profile but I don’t put the specifics (my kid’s name, photos, gender, or age) into my bio. I do include that I am a parent and that I’m extremely dedicated to parenthood. Once I start chatting with them and we are hitting it off, I will tell them more. It is hard dating as a single mom, and more so with people who don’t have kids of their own.
Yea I feel the “probably won’t date a man again” sentiment, I’m dating the person I’ll be marrying but if we ever broke up I’d definitely explore with women
Normalize “relationships that don’t work out” wow Cameron I got to give you that one I’ll never forget that😢❤ we are all in different phases of life👏🏻
Don't take advice from revolting single mothers, more fatherless kids growing up to become future criminals or drug abusers
@@thernfoster2387 marriage isn’t always happy if it was her husband wouldn’t have did what he did.
@@kynslieburke2049 She chose that man to have unprotected relations with, plus have we heard his side of the story? NO! So for all we know, he could've told her before they had hanky panky that he didn't want kids, and perhaps she lied about being on birth control, or went ahead and got pregnant anyway against his wishes for the child support most likely, regardless, women need to be more responsible who they choose to spread their legs for, because women are the ones who give birth, give consent AND they have over 10 forms of contraception, start holding single moms accountable for their poor life choices! Most marriages fail, marriage is a con against men!
Cam you are way beyond your years! Actually, more so then many middle aged and older people I know!
Well I think it shouldn’t be something you should have to hide , you should wait a bit see how things go and if you generally want to be with the person then kinda tell the or mention at some point not straight up and if they don’t support you then they’re not the one for you
Aswell you have to be careful with your kids , get to know how the person is around chidlren first because you don’t want any creeps or anything
A good opportunity to learn that people come and go. Some people don’t stay forever and that’s just a part of life
Yes! I live by this philosophy as well. They can't navigate those hard emotions if they don't have an example to go by. You go girl! Wise beyond your years. Much love from Dallas
As a person your age that only dates to marry, I kinda envy people that can be with someone despite that awareness that it's not going to last. Once I get that feeling, that realization you described, I just can't enjoy anything anymore. Although I still love that person, I just feel like the more I keep going the more it's going to hurt once it ends, and that just ruins it. I can't "live in the moment", I need to see a future with this person. And talking about your future together with your significant other is one of the best things in a relationship in my opinion. Feeling at home with somebody is just something else. Having said this, I totally support your choice. Good luck Cam! You're amazing and deserve to be happy!
Your voice is so soothing and you are truly wise beyond your years.
With a father who constantly brought women in and out of my life starting at just two years old, your words truly showed me again how a loving parent should behave like.
I like hearing what you have to say about things, we have a similar way of thinking/living life
And once men(or women in some cases)find out that the immediate intent of the first party is marriage right from the first date, the other party should cut it off. Unfortunately it makes the other party look bad. Women especially will say,"then he's not the man for you, he's a dirtbag for dumping you just because you have kids, etc." Not true at all. And if someone doesn't want someone with kids already, there's nothing wrong with that. Some people never want kids, and that's fine.
You are so wise for being a young mom of two amazing girls. You will find a special person to love and respect you and ur girls. 🥰
You go girl, I know you can get through your definitely a tough cookie. Even though you have experience a rough roller coaster in Life at a young age. But I was a little shocked when you was hinting Girlfriend and then eventually told Us you was Quire aka Bi, which personally I accept any LGBTQ+ Community and Members. I have Best Friends who I went to school with who are even just the few of them was my first actual friends in Middle School. But feel like Religiously that Landon sadly was struggling through Depression & Etc. toughly which I also deal with it as well; but also God is allowing Doors to open & close in your Life. Just even Imagining the Heavy Grief with Acceptance his Gone to become Okay with it. But also, seeing you become the Happiest you ever been but like you said your 2 Girls as your first Priority so seeing them also to. But just keep staying True to yourself while making you Happy and also taking it safe & Slow bc that is most important in a Relationship as well. But so Glad you are doing Good right now, and have also Amazing Talent to Speak your Thoughts but the Truth of what you Believe in. I have been watching you since we was about the age of 14 years old. I’m currently 20 years old to, I have a June Birthday. But looking forward into going to College soon, I have been taking a Gap Year or 2 since I Graduated and believe that was a good choice to also Grow myself personally and get to know about me more to. But love your Videos their so Inspiring to me but also their so calming just to hear you speak tbh.
Word of advice from a kid who mom has nothing but causal relationships. You never want to bring that person into your kids life's. Make it REAL love Lasting marriage love and yes it's fine bring kids in. But just something casual you just don't bring your kids into that. especially if you're just looking to have fun as an adult woman without children involved. You're a great mom. And your kids are awesome. In fact some of us went through the same thing you did. Only I didn't handle it half as easily as you did in the public eye. You made everything okay and I didn't mean like it was easy for you to. I was starting when my fiance killed himself two days before our wedding. He hung himself in our bathroom. I think I was a wreck until I was almost 40. I didn't date for 10 years. And 3 months after a little boy was born he passed away with the brain aneurysm. You were 18 had two kids and you had to go through this grieving.. you are very much an adult and you are very much an adult when you fell in love at 14
So good to see you
You are a wonderful person, and you'll probably find the lesbian path soothing and mindblowingly soft for your soul. Happy journey !
You just have a way with words❤️ I could listen to you for hours! Lots of love all the way from Germany!
Younger than me.. still I learn from u alot Cam! Thank you 💙💙
The wisdom in this video 😤
If you were wondering what courage looks like. That's it.
Amazing Video! I love your channel keep up the good work girl Cam your Stunning Collette Is pretty!!! Deliah Is just drop dead gorgeous!!!!! I Love You With All My Heart!!!!!!
I love your Channel I've been watching you since Colette was first born
I am happy dating a single mom. I wanted a family, and she was looking for a rightful person to be a father to her kids.
Kids loved me more than my fiancee. Yes, we are engaged.
You are an amazing mother!💕
You are looking very handsome today:) also I love your talking videos
I think you have outgrown the intro. Personally.
Go girl
You grow more beautiful and wise all of the time.
Good talk 🥰
If you're doing online dating, being forthcoming about having children can help you find someone who can relate and who could potentially be really worth it. It's almost like a way to filter out people who just aren't willing to entertain the idea if dating a person with children. Having vulnerabilities is a personal thing that is really up to you to tackle in your life.
The thing is though, It’s also very dangerous bc α lot of predators look for people who put single parent in their bio so that way they can use the parent to get tp the child after theyre together and get comfortable. They also can groom overtime
i love thinking about the future
finally a video, been waiting all day
love you cam!💗
You’re amazing !! , I hope you find your forever :)
I still believe maybe Landon was and maybe there is an afterlife and you will meet again , if there is that would be amazing
I love your channel
CAM I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. YOU ARE AN AMAZING MOM TAKE CARE
i love how honest you are❤
God damn your so wise😍
i live for a good tea time with cam!!!
I’m sorry ❤️
Very early nice to see u again after what happened on the first lover💟
So proud of you for giving priority to your girls…
miss you cam ❤❤❤
I feel as tho we are soul sisters ❤
Hi Carmyn I love watching your vlogs your girls have grown so much Dee is getting so big man kids grow up so fast I hope you are enjoying your fall so far I wasn't quite ready for fall I hope you are enjoying this cool weather well you get cooler weather then anyone else around the USA I hope you are having a wonderful day I was the same way I dated a guy in high school then covid happened and after this craziness happened we broke up and now he is with another girl I will never find another guy like him and I will never be married I am not pretty enough for any guy how are you Carmyn?
you are the BEST mum putting them first at every opportunity 🤍
I love you cam
Would you prefer to date someone with kids? Because they have a better understanding of being a parent?
Yes you are frickin awesome!!!
I just know we would be such great friends. You have come so far. You’re a beautiful woman Cam ❤️ dare I say I have the biggest crush on you
Omg not me saying I have a crush on you before you get to the part about sexuality AND this video having 11k views in 11 hours…. Hello soulmate?!?!
I lost my dad in the same way you lost Landon… idk maybe I’m crazy but I think we might be soulmates. 😂❤
And I’m a mom too lol BONUS MOM INDEED ❤
I would say a year into the relationship, when you are deciding whether or not that this will last a lifetime, is the time to meet kids.
Best of luck
wao u said "CHAI"
Good for you
I love you so much Cam I love your videos they are so true, remember everyone God loves us all no matter what repent and be kind and check on people you never know what someone is going through Amen ✝️💞(not trying to force my religion)
Hello Cam!
as a woman sweetheart its best to a another man away fromm your children. you just hurt him in some way because of obligations. You should your child or children around family not even friends because poeple are mentally ill and don't know what they are doing all the time. Be careful. Unfortunately i saw when i drop off mines at school the others from a different location their was a man who sexual harass a child be aware of what you are doing most time. Having another man around your children is a most likely an red flags why because its not their father. please don't confuse your children.. its all protection at all costed
you're so incredible Cam
Off topic but I love that top
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Hi I’m new to this channel and this is the first vidio I’m ever watching on this channel I’m about to which it though I was wondering why the girls don’t go stay at there dads house if someone could answer me I would love that ❤
Um, because he died.
Bro
I’m so sorry I had no idea❤
Single mothers shouldn’t date that’s pathetic. You should stick to be raising your kids. Your kids are your happiness.
Single parents should date other single parents step parenting is a huge mistake and I regret ever putting myself through that situation never ever again would I ever date a woman with kids already regardless of the age of the kids . Its a package deal with single mothers 99% if not 100% want financial support and not the man.youre still sort of young but have red flags especially when you are willing to stay in a bad relationship just for the experience of it that is very concerning
You are awesome
Heyy
My mother was a teen mom she got pregnant with me at 16 she abandoned me at birth.
I posted this to get tea😊😊
It should be on your profile and it should be said on the 1st date or even better in the first few texts being send.... you dont want someone to be excited about you and then when you tell them and they dont want that type of relationship then it would be a bummer for them.... find someone who will accept your kids aswell right of the bat
Her reason is valid and her family's safety matters more than someone's feelings.
No offense but I'm not telling someone I hardly know I'm alone with 2 children all the time.
@@Brittanywithaney no one said she should say shes alone. But be right of the bat . Why would you not want to tell the person about your greatest joy from the start
@@moniquejoubert4363 exactly the reason I just said. Context clues would be easy to understand that I live alone with my children. Not saying it outright, but dangerous people know what they're doing. I'm protecting them. I don't need to brag, in the nicest way possible. For exactly the reason she said. They are a vulnerable part of your life, the most vulnerable.
@@moniquejoubert4363 why would she not want to tell the person about her greatest joy from the start? Because she doesn't want to invite predators by letting them know she has children, you tard! Use your head!
Hey
I just woke up, turned on this vid, still beeing partly in my sleep, I thought "Wow Coco has gotten so big!" And then I realised it is you.🤣🤣🤣 You girls look so alike. I love how you speak. It is so good to hear you. 🤍
Hey I’m Brad what’s up Cam :)
Heaven 💯 nice 👍🏿 your awesome
Good video, I think it's good that children don't know all your relationships. Then when the relationship is longer/and strong, it's good to bring a new person into their lives.
I have no children. It is good to remember that those who have, do not automatically make them mature/wise.
Have good days🫂😋
Are you still friends with Yasmyn Switzer!!!!!!
Glad I’m 21 with no kids and never getting married 😊