"I Regret Not Picking the Good Guy…Biggest Mistake Of My Life!”

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  • @itsgreat7150
    @itsgreat7150 Місяць тому +44

    Let’s be honest. She picked the bad boy because he was dangerous and he made her “Box” tingle.

    • @sweetland1001
      @sweetland1001 Місяць тому

      Exactly... pookie and ray ray ''pretty face bad boys.'' Get the BOX Wet, Remember they pay nothing. But you, You, you are going to pay for used up BOX. Lol, i am in another country watching the dumpster fire called the United states. I cry in the airport bathrooms everytime i have to head back there. But i already have my return trip planned again. Exhale i truly do not care for the females of the west.

    • @markbrunner7793
      @markbrunner7793 Місяць тому +3

      YAHTZEE! Not hard to figure this one out!!

    • @dave3987
      @dave3987 Місяць тому +4

      Like a moth that flies into the fire just as a modern woman chases dangerous men. A humming bird is attracted to nectar just as nat seeks vinegar.

    • @markbrunner7793
      @markbrunner7793 Місяць тому

      @@dave3987 They believe that the knucklehead bad-boy is the alpha male UNTIL she grows up & see, NOPE(!) they’re not. That knucklehead bad-boy ends up working for the square boring ‘nerd later on

    • @Fadetranada
      @Fadetranada Місяць тому +1

      @@dave3987thats a janet jackson intro 😂😂😂

  • @paulallen286
    @paulallen286 Місяць тому +33

    Take it from a former Chad people. If she was raised in the west, do not keep her around too long. Have your turn and return her to the dealership at the end of the lease period.

  • @johnserosanguineous1886
    @johnserosanguineous1886 Місяць тому +24

    *60% single, childless, and middle class*
    "Naaa... I want that one. Yea the one waaay in the back talking to the police."
    The one getting arrested?!
    "Yup! Him."

  • @levarmoody6309
    @levarmoody6309 Місяць тому +26

    Not wanting to be with someone and having multiple kids with them is egregiously absurd

  • @coachc125
    @coachc125 Місяць тому +18

    6:33 If you're having constant regrets about your past decisions. Then you're living in the past ma'am....stop lying to yourself because you're not fooling us!

  • @joewilliams2234
    @joewilliams2234 Місяць тому +21

    So sad they believe it’s ok to b a mother before a wife smh they just refuse what is better for society especially black culture speaking as an older black smh we r so lost we r losing in the west smh again u try to tell them but they refuse to listen leave these women alone protect your peace above all !!!

  • @Kevrob1850
    @Kevrob1850 Місяць тому +31

    She would have cheated on the good guy and then filed for divorce

  • @alphapeters3474
    @alphapeters3474 Місяць тому +58

    When you show a woman that you love her, she would find you boring, but if you treat her like a dog, she would do anything to please you

    • @targetegrat
      @targetegrat Місяць тому +11

      Thats why they have the saying 'treat them like dirt and they will stick around like mud'

    • @Costar1982
      @Costar1982 Місяць тому +4

      The number one truth

    • @Closedeyewilly
      @Closedeyewilly Місяць тому

      ​@@targetegratdamn that's deep

    • @amariantiquity8543
      @amariantiquity8543 Місяць тому +3

      Treat her like a celebrity, and she'll treat you like a fan.

    • @duanewilson8222
      @duanewilson8222 Місяць тому

      I know bruh

  • @TheTruthHurtsAPTTMH
    @TheTruthHurtsAPTTMH Місяць тому +36

    Ray Ray and Pookie are undefeated 😭🤦🏿‍♂️🎯💯

    • @user-hy3vp5kp1o
      @user-hy3vp5kp1o Місяць тому +3

      When these women are in their 20's Pookie and Ray Ray look so attractive to them, it's only after they hit the wall 🧱🧱they realize they should have chosen the hard working guy with a steady job.

    • @delite7DFG
      @delite7DFG Місяць тому

      The tingles those non quality men give are undefeated

    • @semperaudio
      @semperaudio 29 днів тому +1

      And so is The Wall.

    • @TheTruthHurtsAPTTMH
      @TheTruthHurtsAPTTMH 29 днів тому

      @@user-hy3vp5kp1o 🎯💯

  • @smitht1988
    @smitht1988 Місяць тому +6

    She would have ruined that man’s life. She picked based on her tastes.

  • @KRYME9
    @KRYME9 Місяць тому +9

    "Don't get it twisted"
    Sis stop 😂😂

  • @isaiahj5324
    @isaiahj5324 Місяць тому +9

    Winter is here and we shall rejoice as we drink the tears of the strong black female!

  • @cedmiller3883
    @cedmiller3883 Місяць тому +8

    She says she wish she would've known then what she knows now by picking better men...U did know because ur parents told u by ur own admission...U made a conscious decision to not listen to them...Im pretty sure the good guy wanted u but u ignored him,Ur parents already warned u,But thinking u know what was best, Here u are having regrets.

  • @Charleston843-k1p
    @Charleston843-k1p Місяць тому +3

    A lot of single women in thier 30's and 40's regret turning down the nice guy now they past their prime and majority of men aint approaching them

  • @setiset516
    @setiset516 Місяць тому +9

    If someone wish they could go back in time to choose someone else,they are disloyal and bad in character..stay away from people like this..

  • @christopherlewis2194
    @christopherlewis2194 Місяць тому +14

    This is fake accountability and it only take one to have a baby My body my choice go out the window when it's time for accountability

    • @whiteranger79
      @whiteranger79 Місяць тому +1

      She never says she is getting with a good man now and she is attractive. Kind of like a broke person talking saving in the past but still not saving.

  • @extendedfilmproject6789
    @extendedfilmproject6789 Місяць тому +5

    You attract who you are. You chose wrong because you were not in a good place in your life at the time. Accept it and become a better person…

  • @JeffOfTheMountains
    @JeffOfTheMountains Місяць тому +17

    Sounds like a personal problem she needs to work on.

  • @Milan-yz8hl
    @Milan-yz8hl Місяць тому +14

    (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) 💕 😛 💋 ❥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪♫ ღ ☆* ♡ ℒℴѵℯ 💕 Women DO NOT live for the future. MEN DO. Women live for the here and now. There is nothing as beautiful as seeing an 80+ year old woman surrounded by her husband, her children, her grandchildren and her great grandchildren.....LEGACY

  • @UrbanSipfly
    @UrbanSipfly Місяць тому +6

    The truth of the fact is that that woman's bad dating choice is the man that she selected is sitting inside another car right next to her and mouthing the same exact sentiment about her too.
    Why complain about a situation that can be changed by one simple decision to leave? 😮

  • @anthonywarren1317
    @anthonywarren1317 25 днів тому +2

    Fellas! Dont be fooled....if she got with a good guy she would have gotten bored and cheated and left. On the other hand Pookie and Ray, Ray would of stayed digging/dogging her out until she got fed up ..either way fellas just dont play the game ..cause good guys actually finish last, but to the good he has peace, heald and is aware of how simpish he use to be.

  • @TsarOfRuss
    @TsarOfRuss 29 днів тому +3

    Atleast she admitted her mistakes, lets hope young girls will learn from her mistakes

  • @allenbarrow4904
    @allenbarrow4904 Місяць тому +3

    Regret is a BITTER Pill to swallow but i know from previous experience in my immediate family!!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @reggieh1455
    @reggieh1455 Місяць тому +2

    I can say this is common in Western Culture, I agree BMS, I give her props for holding herself accountable, due to a lot of women that have done this still think they are the "Diamonds in the Rough" for a man (which we know they aren't), and the thing is in her case she had both a mom and dad that tried to encourage her earlier on, but the trill of having either a "Bad Boy" or just a lower level guy was so intriguing, but one thing is for sure she cannot blame her childhood for her terrible decisions...

    • @averagejoehere9126
      @averagejoehere9126 25 днів тому +1

      @@reggieh1455 matter of fact after reading this again it makes sense the way you wrote it originally my fault.

    • @reggieh1455
      @reggieh1455 25 днів тому +1

      @@averagejoehere9126 No a problem bro💯💯💯👍

  • @alphapeters3474
    @alphapeters3474 Місяць тому +4

    She was enjoying the pookie and ray ray carousel, by the time she realised its too late

  • @J2Fresh247
    @J2Fresh247 Місяць тому +1

    I'm glad she's taking accountability.

  • @Avembe
    @Avembe Місяць тому +2

    Obviously she lives the IDEA of a family but she has no clue of aaaaaaaall the work,the mess,that goes with ...cant wish for the rain and refuse the mud that comes with(of something close )....FEMINISM is such a good thing right ....

  • @Voltron21
    @Voltron21 Місяць тому +5

    Ray Rays and Pookies only take Ls in life, not with the chicas 😂

  • @LanierHale-oq3dr
    @LanierHale-oq3dr Місяць тому +1

    After more mileage than a retired Moon Lander they want Tyrone/Brad 2 "rescue" them and transfer their mileage into a Chevy dealership from the 1930's

  • @reemosama1
    @reemosama1 Місяць тому +2

    In the end, they always say i chose wrong. I should have been more careful, and i wish i didn't they act if they couldn't have a thrill with a good guy

  • @dakotaseven947
    @dakotaseven947 15 днів тому

    My way is emphatically simple. The women I date/friends, they work at The Dollar Store, Saint Vinnies, Goodwill, volunteer at Churches because they are at the income/attitude that fits my personality. Low income women appreciates a man no matter is monetary status. They are down to earth, fun, real and most importantly they look real and natural without the drama of being materialistic and particular.

  • @jeancarbonneau6966
    @jeancarbonneau6966 29 днів тому

    This first woman is talking about how she wasted her youth chasing the bad boys in the block without realizing that, after hitting the wall, she regrets what she has done.
    I'm sure that she had help in choosing guys properly yet she never listened to the advice and probably decided to follow her friends.

  • @AlMoton
    @AlMoton Місяць тому

    At this point it's important for everybody to remember that in order to keep this stuff from happening it's going to take women to actually stand up and say I was wrong or I shouldn't supported my sister or auntie. Can we make them feel totally uncomfortable quote unquote admitting defeat then they're never going to teach the next generation of females not to do the same thing... Just like young man always see is the fun and only a little bit of the danger and very little of the outcome... It's important not to lose sight of why we even comment and have frustration with these things even though it's not our lives

  • @marqsmith3187
    @marqsmith3187 Місяць тому +2

    I hate when people say “i hate to say it but they were right”…why you hate to say it? Cuz you don’t like listening is why…dummy!

  • @alfredcyprianjr.4341
    @alfredcyprianjr.4341 26 днів тому +2

    She said a lot and nothing at the same time

  • @marcedwards2464
    @marcedwards2464 22 дні тому

    Not about that never do nothing that you going to have regrets about

  • @ratswagger
    @ratswagger 25 днів тому +1

    Ladies..... Please listen to your parents whenever it comes to picking a man.

  • @Genius.E
    @Genius.E Місяць тому

    5:33 It’s going to be tough for it to end with people insisting on voting as many Liberal politicians into office as they can.

  • @lyndonmurray3669
    @lyndonmurray3669 18 днів тому

    Where did you get this video from? Is it on Tik Tok or UA-cam?

  • @TubaAbdullah-bi6iy
    @TubaAbdullah-bi6iy Місяць тому

    trusting this over the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening

  • @marcedwards2464
    @marcedwards2464 22 дні тому

    It's too late I believe it's too late

  • @Milan-yz8hl
    @Milan-yz8hl Місяць тому +1

    (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) 💕 😛 💋 ❥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪♫ ღ ☆* ♡ ℒℴѵℯ 💕 (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) and Vivica Fox wish she had settled down and made a family future for herself.

  • @dorannelson9161
    @dorannelson9161 Місяць тому

  • @NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s
    @NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s 25 днів тому

    You did you picked the one you wanted

  • @markbrunner7793
    @markbrunner7793 Місяць тому +2

    So much respect for her taking accountability for her decisions 💪👊👊

  • @JudahsRedEyeLion
    @JudahsRedEyeLion Місяць тому

    Salute BMS

  • @SheritaAcker
    @SheritaAcker Місяць тому

    why stick to surface-level stuff when the ebook Magnetic Aura hits you with the real truth

  • @owenhenry400
    @owenhenry400 6 днів тому

    Who cares woman just do you and live your life with what you love, and it's not a good man. You're a bit late now. Men have moved on.

  • @AleshiaCrisp
    @AleshiaCrisp Місяць тому +66

    not saying this is bad, but ebook Magnetic Aura makes it look basic

  • @tiktokviral6218
    @tiktokviral6218 Місяць тому +4

    Destiney Childs has ruined my generation of woman with toxic songs like soldier and independent woman

  • @michaelwatson4531
    @michaelwatson4531 Місяць тому +1

    She sounds stupid wishing on star.

  • @BURTONFranklin
    @BURTONFranklin Місяць тому

    you’re missing out if you ain’t read the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it breaks it all down