I just want to add how TRAGIC this song is. She had already gone through the BS with John Mayer. AND the heartbreak from All too well😭 when he told her “if we had been closer with age, we would’ve been fine” so she goes for a young guy closer to her age and he turns around goes to date OLDER women in their 30s after her. That’s why she used the word “maiden” then he went through a string models. Imagine what that did to her self esteem. Guys treating her like an inexperienced girl, a kid to them😭 even that 18 yr old made her feel that way. She didn’t deserve to go through all this. Plus the slut shaming from the media and the cancel culture from Kanye. The world has treated her so cruelly. And all she’s ever wanted is to feel that she belongs somewhere. I hate that it didn’t work out with Joe. Poor girl.
@@Veronik_23 Joe Jonas said this: "For those who have expressed concern over the '27 second' phone call," he said (via People), "I called [Swift] to discuss feelings... Those feelings were obviously not well received. I did not end the conversation. Someone else did. Phone calls can only last as long as the person on the other end of the line is willing to talk."
Maybe she was very inexperienced. After all she didn't go through the normal last two year of high school let alone college. So much of the early years was dominated by her career. We get the idea from the John Mayer events that she just wasn't ready for what he was looking for. Clearly this wasn't the case by 2012 and the Syles relationship. But she was more at the 18-year level. Syles was not ready to settle down and didn't have the idealist view of the lover that she came into it. She writes in her diary dated Jan 6, 2014: Dating is awful Love is fiction/a myth. I'm over it all!
@@Chirality452 that’s so true. She had a hard time making friends in school. I saw a video when she talked about how she called up all her friends to hang at the mall and everybody had excuses. So she asked her mom to go with her. She saw all her friends hanging out at the mall without her 😭. She would also hide I. The bathroom stalls at lunch time because she had nobody to sit with.😭 I relate. I would do that too. I would hide in the bathroom in lunch time 😭
This is really the exact facial expression every Swiftie had listening to this for the first time! Great analysis from you once again, you really know all the lore!
The 300 takeout coffees/ later also appears to be a tie in to Clean (10 months sober) - 1 takeout coffee a day x 30 days a month x 10 months. Like she still wanted to hear Harry say what she needs, "months and months of back and forth" (Clean), "but no" (Is It Over Now?) it still didn't work out, so when she was drowning that's when she thought she was finally clean from their on-off relationship, but she isn't really sure still if it's over.
Clean is the end. She writes in her diary on Jan 6, 2014 "Love is fiction/a myth. I'm over it all." She is with Imogen on Feb 9, 2014, the collaborator on Clean. "Is it over now?" gives a more in-depth look. By the way that was what I thought at the end of high school.
Pls pls pls do now that we don’t talk next. I’d love for you to also do two ghosts, I think that one is possibly about Taylor if you listen to lyrics closely.
I haven’t seen anyone else say it yet, so I will. I think the “jumping off of very tall somethings” line can also be interpreted à la Bella’s cliff diving in New Moon. Further solidifying this theory? Harry’s middle name is.. you guessed it. Edward.
lmaoo I didn't see the twilight connection! I love that line though, it's so relatable to want to do something totally reckless just to have the person you want show up and tell you what you mean to them
What I love about Taylor is that she tells us exactly how she felt. She has the right to do that. All of us have in our lives times we just went crazy for love. We thought about revenge, about hurt, about self destruction, about blaming others for our hurt, about self estime issues,..... I can go and go. That sometimes helps us to process our feelings. It's just how she felt.
She's so spicy in this song. I LOVE it! I am HERE for it! And thank you for the message about staying. Because some days that feels incredibly difficult.
There’s also a one direction song called something great that came out in 2013, and I think her word choice of using something greater really played off of that lol
She literally said in an interview that the song “style” was about that person that might interrupt your wedding, you picturing it at the end of the video is 😮 you so on point alwaaaaayssss ❤
CW: disordered eating I interpret the “only rumors ‘bout my hips and thighs” to be about her ED-her weight was different when they dated and afterward was when it sounds like the ED started/became more severe (based on what she said in Miss Americana); her saying she just let the “she’s too thin!” headlines and rumors about her go unanswered as a way of almost (from her perspective) protecting him from speculation about the end of the relationship. Since he started dating a lot of models and she befriended a lot of them around this time too, I would think it’s reasonable to infer all of those things at once worsened her ED. Maybe I’m the only one who feels this way, but I don’t think Harry (who I know nothing about!) is angry and my gut says she let him hear them. This is the story from her perspective of events from a decade ago. He was very young, she’d had a couple really rough heartbreaks which probably stunted her emotional development in some ways, and it sounds like they had a connection that meant something to them both and maybe they’re both taking accountability and telling their side of what happened ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Also-like other commenters, I picked up on the “300 takeout coffees later” connection to “clean”… but I think that lyric and “in a world of boys he’s a gentleman” tie back to “begin again” and sitting with someone IN a coffee shop and him pulling her seat out for her, etc. (I know that’s not for sure for sure about him, but I noticed those parallels, and if that IS the case, then it’s even more understandable why she fell fast and hard for him because of the contrast and the intensity of the relationship she had with JG). I wish TS lyric analysis were a career! 😂
I read in an interview (of course can't find it now!) that for I Wish You Would, it came about from talking to an ex about what happened/went wrong in their relationship. Harry bought a house in her neighborhood and told her that he used to either drive by her house sometimes or think about driving by her house sometimes. She said that it was a first for her, talking things over with an ex and putting some of that into the song. I think of them as college-age sweethearts who are good friends now and I love that for them. I wouldn't be surprised if he heard the vaults before they came out.
The production of the intro/ first verse reminded me of "Labyrinth" the moment i heard it. This song feels like a combination of "Out of the Woods" and "Labyrinth" to me
I did a mashup of IION and OOTW inspired by her putting the OOTW bridge in it for a surprise song at Eras. I always heard (my brain wanted to hear?) something of the little sounds in Labyrinth in this, so I put them in the first part when I did the mix. I don't know if I can put a link on here, but it is on my channel if you want to listen.
The first time I knew Taylor was making s.u.1.C.1d.E intrusive thoughts references was on the Anti-hero song, where she sings "one day I'll watch as you leaving and life will lose all its meaning FOR THE LAST TIME" I heard that line and I was like: OMG, Taylor, are you okay? Then, with Is It Over Now? I realized she might really have thought of jum off of very tall somethings because of the this is me trying verse you just said or the hoax verse "stood on the cliffside screaming: give me a reason" which I think the end of that line could perfectly be: give me a reason not to jump right now. So, I guess with all of the damange in her life she could perfectly have this kind of thoughts, just like everyone else. At the end of the day, she's as human as we are
This song is #1 at the moment for a very, very good reason. imo, and others it would seem, this is the best Vault track on 1989 (TV). I would say by a country mile as well. I would almost go as far as to say it's the best track on the whole of 1989 (TV) when taken with Out Of The Woods. However back then she could never have got away with including both it and OOTW on the original. Also sometimes what she writes she might not want to actually make it to record, but just vent her feelings.
You have an INSANE ear. Or better speakers haha. I've never heard "I miss you" until you said it and I closed my eyes. I think I've listened to this song 200 times already. So cool to see these types of fresh reactions (as if the song isn't already fresh, but you know what I mean)!
I honestly feel bad for Harry. He grew up in an abuse environment even tho it wasn't from his family. Just knowing what was happening to 1 direction at the time it really sad. Also them being long distance, the accident, and in public eye just way too much was happening too soon for them to succeed. If I remember in Britain turning 18 is like turning 21. I'm not surprised that he made bad decisions and was somewhat spineless. I wonder when Harry turned 22 did he ask himself if he would date an 18 yet old and what the answer was.
i do think she knew that and that’s why she never said anything about it apart from the songs she had already released. and like she said, the vault songs aren’t about the person she wrote but about the experience of the taylors version. and she was just getting out of a string of bad relationships too, so i feel like both of them got into it with the wrong foot and they were doomed from the start
saw someone on tiktok say that "300 take out coffees later" that could be 300 days x 1 coffee, which is 10 months... "10 months sober" from clean!!!!!😱😱😱
I think your assessment is spot on and your inner Swiftie coming out for the Out of the Woods reference really got me because mine did too! I can remember thinking when I first heard this that it may not be so much about not communicating the end as there not being enough closure, so like this seemed like the aftermath for me. The attempt to move on by both parties, when they are still thinking about that past relationship. Was it over when she laid on your couch or when he opened my blouse - they may have both been trying to move on and still been hung up on each other, which made it so much more of a betrayal that he's out there sharing his new found maiden to the world, right? I have some respect for her in regards to addressing the jumping off of tall somethings. I felt it to my core from past experiences. That wondering if I should even be here, does he even care if I go. I have even more respect for you addressing it because people need to hear that. Stay. This will pass. It's gonna be okay. Thanks so much for showing us your perspective!
The twisted love scenes were so normal. But also crazy! Like her knowing he was playing around and her retaliating, doing the same thing. But they lay in bed together questioning. (And she’s wondering if she’s more special than them with: would he come running to her rescue)
This actually leads to her anxiety in Delicate. "Do the girls back home touch you like I do?" I think when her new relationship started with Joe (ignoring all kinds of rumours about their breakup) she still had that anxiety if she's worth being the "only one" of someone's life
MOTHER i love your analysis so much and i just love you a lot in general. the way you talk about things and analyze everything, it's all easy to understand and i always learn something new out of your videos. also Mere in french means Mother so you really are a mother to us. Love you so much.
The hips and thighs line is meaning she kept her private life out of the public and all they kept talking about was her weight. It's the time when they started saying she was gaining weight and she was having body image issues.
I really love your videos and how you explain each lyric line. Emphasize and understanding the song as a whole 💯 thank you for your videos. Love your content ♥️
I love the expressions, this was ALL of us. I agree with the fantasy of jumping of of tall "somethings" to get a dramatic reaction. Also, they were on-again-off-again for a while, so that's where the grey area and nebulous lines come from. Like, weren't we trying again? Then who is this girl (reference: "I heard you've been out and about with some other girl?" Style)
YES!!! I am only a few minutes into your review and I am on the same wave length as you 😊 the beginning is similar to either Sweet Nothings or Labyrinth. Can't remember right now, but I think it's Sweet Nothings. And YES, I absolutely agree that Little Freak is about Taylor. I also think Two Ghosts from his debut solo album is about her. Luckily the age gap wasn't terribly for the few months that they dated, despite him being so young. But yeah, I'd say he has always had a really healthy attitude towards women, even before these two dated, so context here is important.
have you seen travis making face when he was ask if taylor swift is a big fan of a tight end? how do you interpret please? it's in their podcast new heights last wednesday, nov 29.
so my gf recently broke up with me about a month ago and the worst part is that we still love each other so f much… her main reason to do this is cause her family is homophobic and she doesn’t want to lose them once she tells them that shes bi and dating a girl… but she doesn’t understand that i dont mind that shes not out, i care for her happiness no matter what… i find it really hard for us to get back together but im just lost now… she is the loml and i just looking for ways to cope this, im so down rn
i feel hurt for her like, they were on his couch taking polaroid pictures and confessing their love and then he had another girl on the same couch damn
The difference in maturity between a woman of 22-23 and a boy of 18-19 is HUGE! At least in my home country in Scandinavia 🤔 No woman should use words like "lying traitor" about a teenage boy who is just trying to figure out life in the spotlight. If this song is really a bit about HAYLOR, I wish people would just take it as a cool pop song, not as a reason for hating on Harry. They seem quite friendly meeting at award shows. They could just avoid each other, but they talk and smile, so .... 😏 Anyway, when I was 21 and knew a gorgeous Parisian, I met him by chance in the city 6 months after our amicable break up, I had to smile seeing his new gf was practically my clone. I felt those lines.
I don't see anyone hating Harry really (I don't spend all day on Twitter tho) "Lying traitor" could just be something she said in a fight back then. She didn't publicly say that about a teenager at the time. It wasn't released until 2023, it's not going to ruin him, and I know Harry is smart enough to realize she's not trying to. Most of the original 1989 and even some of the vault are positive/longing songs about the relationship. Like you said, they're friendly, so neither "side" should be moralizing about it
a 22 yo is probably not the best emotional regulated person either haha no one is hating on harry from what i saw, we’re just having fun. she probably wrote this while really angry (people can get unreasonably angry) and thats why stayed on the vault for so long
My one issue with this Harry obsession is he was 18/19 in the largest boy band in the world on permanent tour for 5 years and she expected commitment and to say I love you. She was 4 years older… what did she expect. 🤷🏻♀️. She had already gone thru her Mayer & Gyllenhaal relationships…. Had she learned nothing. I love her but she really is so much of a hopeless romantic that she always jumps in with her whole body instantly, starts wearing their style/clothes… I had hoped after such a long relationship with Joe, who really was the more mature one in that relationship, she would stop that pattern… but she did it with Matty and now Travis. Sigh. Oh well. But I hate people hating on Harry who was just a deer in the headlights at this point…
Wow, the misogyny of this comment. You are really calling the gaslighting, bitter Joe Alwyn mature...🤮Taylor is clearly more mature than Joe and especially more emotionally inteligent. It is mind-boggling how some of you project your own feelings onto her and think she is this naive little girl or damsel in distress... Thankfully she left him and is finally more secure and happy not having to deal with his constant gaslighting the last few years, she realised she wasn´t so insecure it was him , not her. And now her self confidence and self love is shining through regargless of her dating someone or not.
no one is hating on harry. from what i saw people are just having fun. not even john mayer got a lot of hate with speak now. they both were just young adults that got into that relationship with the wrong foot
I think we need to go back and count the number of times you inadvertently used a lyric while speaking- you did it on purpose a few, but forgot after that, lol You know, as time goes on, I am beginning to think that Blondie is going to have a hard time with anyone past the 7 year mark, if she can even get there. She really doesn't have many stable relationships in her life of any kind, beyond her core family that have lasted longer, and we can only go so far in saying it is the other people, because she is the common denominator in all of the relationships. She has her work crew, which has remained fairly consistent, but she pays them well, even off of tour, and I love Blondie, I am just thinking she may be putting some unrealistic expectations onto people, that no one will be able to live up to over time, and it gives her an out, or they do get tired of it and leave, at least emotionally. I don't know. I don't know how she will ever know who she can trust, and who is after her money and access, that would make you a touch paranoid, as would the things people have done to her. Also, being her age, now, with the resources she does have, gives her the power to walk if she has the slightest displeasure. She will never be part of a starting out couple who need each other to make it, and build a life together. I have always thought Evermore was autobiographical, and parts of Folklore, and Midnights, of course. SHe seems to have always wanted just to have something which, quite honestly, her fame and status has put out of reach for her- which is normalcy. Listen to interviews with Stevie Nicks, Christine McVie, Gaga, Look at Madonna, Christina, Britney, although she tries, bless her, Cher- they have short-term relationships, that's it. Pink is the one-of, but she talks about the fighting, breaking up, and how hard it is, and how much she puts up with. I don't see Taylor being willing to do that. I also think that she has probably flirted with the idea of suicide more than once, not that she would, but the pressure on her has got to be so immense. I don't know if she has anyone to talk to, other than her mother....... Anyway- as strong as she is, we all have our breaking point. She is to the point, almost of over-saturation, which concerns me for her, and I wish she would concentrate on finishing this tour, and not Travis, and all the other things she is doing- from March on, her schedule is crazy......---SDK
The song refers to two different people. 300 coffees later refers to days.. 300 days =10 months, 10 months sober 'clean'. She was with someone else. Harry was a pr relationship and obviouslya part of her song references their pictures/story... but he was not the person whom she truly dated
"This is a message that you should stay." You have no idea how desperately I needed to hear that today. It's nearly 5am and I've been up all night trying to make the most monumental decision of my life, secretly hoping for a sign. So thank you. ❤🩹
Hi, I don't usually comment but, I wanted to say that I get how hard it can be. Our brain tells us lies. I'm glad you decided to take Mere's message as I sign to stay.
It was not random, that message was meant for you to hear. I know how hard it can all be and how dark it can get where that seems like the only option but I promise, you are destined for more. Nothing can stay the same, things will get better. Stay here. I love you.
I just want to add how TRAGIC this song is. She had already gone through the BS with John Mayer. AND the heartbreak from All too well😭 when he told her “if we had been closer with age, we would’ve been fine” so she goes for a young guy closer to her age and he turns around goes to date OLDER women in their 30s after her. That’s why she used the word “maiden” then he went through a string models. Imagine what that did to her self esteem. Guys treating her like an inexperienced girl, a kid to them😭 even that 18 yr old made her feel that way. She didn’t deserve to go through all this. Plus the slut shaming from the media and the cancel culture from Kanye. The world has treated her so cruelly. And all she’s ever wanted is to feel that she belongs somewhere. I hate that it didn’t work out with Joe. Poor girl.
I also forgot Joe Jonas breaking up with her in a 27 second phone call 😭
Talking about a bad love life eh
@@Veronik_23 Joe Jonas said this: "For those who have expressed concern over the '27 second' phone call," he said (via People), "I called [Swift] to discuss feelings... Those feelings were obviously not well received. I did not end the conversation. Someone else did. Phone calls can only last as long as the person on the other end of the line is willing to talk."
Maybe she was very inexperienced. After all she didn't go through the normal last two year of high school let alone college. So much of the early years was dominated by her career. We get the idea from the John Mayer events that she just wasn't ready for what he was looking for. Clearly this wasn't the case by 2012 and the Syles relationship. But she was more at the 18-year level. Syles was not ready to settle down and didn't have the idealist view of the lover that she came into it. She writes in her diary dated Jan 6, 2014: Dating is awful Love is fiction/a myth. I'm over it all!
@@Chirality452 that’s so true. She had a hard time making friends in school. I saw a video when she talked about how she called up all her friends to hang at the mall and everybody had excuses. So she asked her mom to go with her. She saw all her friends hanging out at the mall without her 😭. She would also hide I. The bathroom stalls at lunch time because she had nobody to sit with.😭 I relate. I would do that too. I would hide in the bathroom in lunch time 😭
This is really the exact facial expression every Swiftie had listening to this for the first time! Great analysis from you once again, you really know all the lore!
The 300 takeout coffees/ later also appears to be a tie in to Clean (10 months sober) - 1 takeout coffee a day x 30 days a month x 10 months. Like she still wanted to hear Harry say what she needs, "months and months of back and forth" (Clean), "but no" (Is It Over Now?) it still didn't work out, so when she was drowning that's when she thought she was finally clean from their on-off relationship, but she isn't really sure still if it's over.
Clean is the end. She writes in her diary on Jan 6, 2014 "Love is fiction/a myth. I'm over it all." She is with Imogen on Feb 9, 2014, the collaborator on Clean. "Is it over now?" gives a more in-depth look. By the way that was what I thought at the end of high school.
Taylor says: your new girl my clone
Harry says: Woke up the girl who looked just like you
I almost said your name
Pls pls pls do now that we don’t talk next. I’d love for you to also do two ghosts, I think that one is possibly about Taylor if you listen to lyrics closely.
I haven’t seen anyone else say it yet, so I will.
I think the “jumping off of very tall somethings” line can also be interpreted à la Bella’s cliff diving in New Moon.
Further solidifying this theory?
Harry’s middle name is.. you guessed it.
Edward.
lmaoo I didn't see the twilight connection! I love that line though, it's so relatable to want to do something totally reckless just to have the person you want show up and tell you what you mean to them
What I love about Taylor is that she tells us exactly how she felt. She has the right to do that. All of us have in our lives times we just went crazy for love. We thought about revenge, about hurt, about self destruction, about blaming others for our hurt, about self estime issues,..... I can go and go. That sometimes helps us to process our feelings. It's just how she felt.
as an artist, these are the things that triggers her to make music and it's understandable.
She's so spicy in this song. I LOVE it! I am HERE for it!
And thank you for the message about staying. Because some days that feels incredibly difficult.
There’s also a one direction song called something great that came out in 2013, and I think her word choice of using something greater really played off of that lol
She literally said in an interview that the song “style” was about that person that might interrupt your wedding, you picturing it at the end of the video is 😮 you so on point alwaaaaayssss ❤
I’ve been in a really dark place and hearing you say “if you are seeing this video, this is a message to you to stay” really hit. ❤
I’m sorry you’ve been in a dark place and I am grateful that you got your message to stay. We need you 🤍
CW: disordered eating
I interpret the “only rumors ‘bout my hips and thighs” to be about her ED-her weight was different when they dated and afterward was when it sounds like the ED started/became more severe (based on what she said in Miss Americana); her saying she just let the “she’s too thin!” headlines and rumors about her go unanswered as a way of almost (from her perspective) protecting him from speculation about the end of the relationship. Since he started dating a lot of models and she befriended a lot of them around this time too, I would think it’s reasonable to infer all of those things at once worsened her ED.
Maybe I’m the only one who feels this way, but I don’t think Harry (who I know nothing about!) is angry and my gut says she let him hear them. This is the story from her perspective of events from a decade ago. He was very young, she’d had a couple really rough heartbreaks which probably stunted her emotional development in some ways, and it sounds like they had a connection that meant something to them both and maybe they’re both taking accountability and telling their side of what happened ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Also-like other commenters, I picked up on the “300 takeout coffees later” connection to “clean”… but I think that lyric and “in a world of boys he’s a gentleman” tie back to “begin again” and sitting with someone IN a coffee shop and him pulling her seat out for her, etc. (I know that’s not for sure for sure about him, but I noticed those parallels, and if that IS the case, then it’s even more understandable why she fell fast and hard for him because of the contrast and the intensity of the relationship she had with JG).
I wish TS lyric analysis were a career! 😂
It totally could be ED! I completely missed that one!
I agree also because my whispered sighs sounds like SIZE without reading the lyrics, which I think is maybe intentional
I read in an interview (of course can't find it now!) that for I Wish You Would, it came about from talking to an ex about what happened/went wrong in their relationship. Harry bought a house in her neighborhood and told her that he used to either drive by her house sometimes or think about driving by her house sometimes. She said that it was a first for her, talking things over with an ex and putting some of that into the song. I think of them as college-age sweethearts who are good friends now and I love that for them. I wouldn't be surprised if he heard the vaults before they came out.
The production of the intro/ first verse reminded me of "Labyrinth" the moment i heard it. This song feels like a combination of "Out of the Woods" and "Labyrinth" to me
I did a mashup of IION and OOTW inspired by her putting the OOTW bridge in it for a surprise song at Eras. I always heard (my brain wanted to hear?) something of the little sounds in Labyrinth in this, so I put them in the first part when I did the mix. I don't know if I can put a link on here, but it is on my channel if you want to listen.
I heard someone say the noise at the beginning is seagull noises.
That’s what I thought when I heard it.
The first time I knew Taylor was making s.u.1.C.1d.E intrusive thoughts references was on the Anti-hero song, where she sings "one day I'll watch as you leaving and life will lose all its meaning FOR THE LAST TIME" I heard that line and I was like: OMG, Taylor, are you okay? Then, with Is It Over Now? I realized she might really have thought of jum off of very tall somethings because of the this is me trying verse you just said or the hoax verse "stood on the cliffside screaming: give me a reason" which I think the end of that line could perfectly be: give me a reason not to jump right now. So, I guess with all of the damange in her life she could perfectly have this kind of thoughts, just like everyone else. At the end of the day, she's as human as we are
“I can’t stop with the Taylor Swift lyrics.”
Girl, it’s a sickness, we know. 😂
This song is #1 at the moment for a very, very good reason. imo, and others it would seem, this is the best Vault track on 1989 (TV). I would say by a country mile as well. I would almost go as far as to say it's the best track on the whole of 1989 (TV) when taken with Out Of The Woods. However back then she could never have got away with including both it and OOTW on the original. Also sometimes what she writes she might not want to actually make it to record, but just vent her feelings.
You have an INSANE ear. Or better speakers haha. I've never heard "I miss you" until you said it and I closed my eyes. I think I've listened to this song 200 times already. So cool to see these types of fresh reactions (as if the song isn't already fresh, but you know what I mean)!
Im dealing with getting over my partner and the line "i think about jumping from very tall somthings just to see you come running" hits me everytime
That's the line that made me question that meant like unaliving
I honestly feel bad for Harry. He grew up in an abuse environment even tho it wasn't from his family. Just knowing what was happening to 1 direction at the time it really sad. Also them being long distance, the accident, and in public eye just way too much was happening too soon for them to succeed. If I remember in Britain turning 18 is like turning 21. I'm not surprised that he made bad decisions and was somewhat spineless. I wonder when Harry turned 22 did he ask himself if he would date an 18 yet old and what the answer was.
i do think she knew that and that’s why she never said anything about it apart from the songs she had already released. and like she said, the vault songs aren’t about the person she wrote but about the experience of the taylors version. and she was just getting out of a string of bad relationships too, so i feel like both of them got into it with the wrong foot and they were doomed from the start
also im pretty sure that they both laughed about the song before it was released, she probably showed to him beforehand
saw someone on tiktok say that "300 take out coffees later" that could be 300 days x 1 coffee, which is 10 months... "10 months sober" from clean!!!!!😱😱😱
I wish I could of been a fly on the wall when Taylor told Harry about this song 😅
This is my favourite song from the vault! Can you also do “you’re losing me”? ❤️
She did it 5 months ago
I thought the hips and thighs line was also to do with talking about how the media was constantly talking about her weight.
I think your assessment is spot on and your inner Swiftie coming out for the Out of the Woods reference really got me because mine did too! I can remember thinking when I first heard this that it may not be so much about not communicating the end as there not being enough closure, so like this seemed like the aftermath for me. The attempt to move on by both parties, when they are still thinking about that past relationship. Was it over when she laid on your couch or when he opened my blouse - they may have both been trying to move on and still been hung up on each other, which made it so much more of a betrayal that he's out there sharing his new found maiden to the world, right?
I have some respect for her in regards to addressing the jumping off of tall somethings. I felt it to my core from past experiences. That wondering if I should even be here, does he even care if I go. I have even more respect for you addressing it because people need to hear that. Stay. This will pass. It's gonna be okay. Thanks so much for showing us your perspective!
THAT’S THE FIRST TIME I HEARD THE “I miss you-“ echo!!! Good catch!
I always said: Taylor's music is not for ages or genres.....just for the Ones who has Lived the Most !! Nice reaction!!!
The twisted love scenes were so normal. But also crazy! Like her knowing he was playing around and her retaliating, doing the same thing. But they lay in bed together questioning. (And she’s wondering if she’s more special than them with: would he come running to her rescue)
This actually leads to her anxiety in Delicate. "Do the girls back home touch you like I do?" I think when her new relationship started with Joe (ignoring all kinds of rumours about their breakup) she still had that anxiety if she's worth being the "only one" of someone's life
MOTHER i love your analysis so much and i just love you a lot in general. the way you talk about things and analyze everything, it's all easy to understand and i always learn something new out of your videos. also Mere in french means Mother so you really are a mother to us. Love you so much.
We gotta stop with this mother thing…
The jumping off of very talk something’s also reminds me of the OOTW
The hips and thighs line is meaning she kept her private life out of the public and all they kept talking about was her weight. It's the time when they started saying she was gaining weight and she was having body image issues.
Omg u r right u said that it sounds like i miss u i miss u i can hear it too now
I really love your videos and how you explain each lyric line. Emphasize and understanding the song as a whole 💯 thank you for your videos. Love your content ♥️
you have really advanced in ur Taylore. love u so much!
I love the expressions, this was ALL of us. I agree with the fantasy of jumping of of tall "somethings" to get a dramatic reaction. Also, they were on-again-off-again for a while, so that's where the grey area and nebulous lines come from. Like, weren't we trying again? Then who is this girl (reference: "I heard you've been out and about with some other girl?" Style)
YES!!! I am only a few minutes into your review and I am on the same wave length as you 😊 the beginning is similar to either Sweet Nothings or Labyrinth. Can't remember right now, but I think it's Sweet Nothings.
And YES, I absolutely agree that Little Freak is about Taylor. I also think Two Ghosts from his debut solo album is about her.
Luckily the age gap wasn't terribly for the few months that they dated, despite him being so young. But yeah, I'd say he has always had a really healthy attitude towards women, even before these two dated, so context here is important.
I actually think this song might be about how she wants the media to stop speculating on every person she knows
I love your facial expressions so much HAHAHA
‘Wilt of the rose’ - beauty and the beast, he didn’t say I love you?
Omg wowwww. Your mind!!! 🤯
have you seen travis making face when he was ask if taylor swift is a big fan of a tight end? how do you interpret please? it's in their podcast new heights last wednesday, nov 29.
Not you saying she wanted him to Speak Now!!!
Legit my first thought was this was a Midnights track. This is my favorite one but no chance it’s not a midnights holdover
Midnights is basically 1989 but more mature so it’s no surprise that the songs sounds like midnights because midnights sounds like 1989
I've enjoyed this so bad! You're wonderfull
Do listen to From the dining table and two ghosts by harry styles, it is possibly about Taylor as well
so my gf recently broke up with me about a month ago and the worst part is that we still love each other so f much… her main reason to do this is cause her family is homophobic and she doesn’t want to lose them once she tells them that shes bi and dating a girl… but she doesn’t understand that i dont mind that shes not out, i care for her happiness no matter what… i find it really hard for us to get back together but im just lost now… she is the loml and i just looking for ways to cope this, im so down rn
Hmm I wonder why you're commenting this on a video like this one? Seems a bit out of place...
The sound makes me think of seagulls…
your reaction to the jumping lyric at 5:52 is so funny to me 😭😭😭😭
I’m almost hearing a crow, as if it to evoke the images of crows circling and what that usually means with blood and wounds. The unease. Thoughts?
It’s actually a seagull
I never heard the I miss you befor but I could kinda hear it.
Awesome ma'am.. Love from India.. ❤🇮🇳..
Pls do suburban legend next
The blue dress on a boat was when he ditched her for a party and she sat on a boat in that dress alone. :(
The sound also sounds like the labyrinth elephants
omgg love this!!! ❤😍
The fact that she jump of a cliff in the out of the woods music video 😅
Taylorrr
Hey Mer, can you tell if there're plans to publish your book in other countries (Poland to be specific)?
I'd like to have it in Poland, too
YESSS PLS DO LITTLE FREAK ❤
Taylor swift led me here❤ just curious: have you done the song Marjorie? It really opens the flood gates 😅
Yes!!
thank you i love you
i feel hurt for her like, they were on his couch taking polaroid pictures and confessing their love and then he had another girl on the same couch damn
He goes out and gets a drastic haircut....so something happened. Ugh. I still like him, he was really young. But this song... 😢
Hope you are well
I request you to do the reaction to “High Infidelity” by Taylor, my fav song off Midnights.
She has already done it. ❤
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I love this reaction so much
Hi there 😊
The difference in maturity between a woman of 22-23 and a boy of 18-19 is HUGE! At least in my home country in Scandinavia 🤔
No woman should use words like "lying traitor" about a teenage boy who is just trying to figure out life in the spotlight. If this song is really a bit about HAYLOR, I wish people would just take it as a cool pop song, not as a reason for hating on Harry. They seem quite friendly meeting at award shows. They could just avoid each other, but they talk and smile, so ....
😏 Anyway, when I was 21 and knew a gorgeous Parisian, I met him by chance in the city 6 months after our amicable break up, I had to smile seeing his new gf was practically my clone. I felt those lines.
It's just how she felt. But it is a great song. I made the comment on X the other day that John Mayer got a song Harry Styles got an album.
I don't see anyone hating Harry really (I don't spend all day on Twitter tho)
"Lying traitor" could just be something she said in a fight back then. She didn't publicly say that about a teenager at the time. It wasn't released until 2023, it's not going to ruin him, and I know Harry is smart enough to realize she's not trying to. Most of the original 1989 and even some of the vault are positive/longing songs about the relationship.
Like you said, they're friendly, so neither "side" should be moralizing about it
It's just how she felt. He wrote songs about her too. She once said that writing music always helped her process her feelings.
a 22 yo is probably not the best emotional regulated person either haha no one is hating on harry from what i saw, we’re just having fun. she probably wrote this while really angry (people can get unreasonably angry) and thats why stayed on the vault for so long
I would love a reaction to you’re losing me
My one issue with this Harry obsession is he was 18/19 in the largest boy band in the world on permanent tour for 5 years and she expected commitment and to say I love you. She was 4 years older… what did she expect. 🤷🏻♀️. She had already gone thru her Mayer & Gyllenhaal relationships…. Had she learned nothing. I love her but she really is so much of a hopeless romantic that she always jumps in with her whole body instantly, starts wearing their style/clothes… I had hoped after such a long relationship with Joe, who really was the more mature one in that relationship, she would stop that pattern… but she did it with Matty and now Travis. Sigh. Oh well. But I hate people hating on Harry who was just a deer in the headlights at this point…
Wow, the misogyny of this comment. You are really calling the gaslighting, bitter Joe Alwyn mature...🤮Taylor is clearly more mature than Joe and especially more emotionally inteligent. It is mind-boggling how some of you project your own feelings onto her and think she is this naive little girl or damsel in distress... Thankfully she left him and is finally more secure and happy not having to deal with his constant gaslighting the last few years, she realised she wasn´t so insecure it was him , not her. And now her self confidence and self love is shining through regargless of her dating someone or not.
But it made such a great album!
no one is hating on harry. from what i saw people are just having fun. not even john mayer got a lot of hate with speak now. they both were just young adults that got into that relationship with the wrong foot
I think we need to go back and count the number of times you inadvertently used a lyric while speaking- you did it on purpose a few, but forgot after that, lol You know, as time goes on, I am beginning to think that Blondie is going to have a hard time with anyone past the 7 year mark, if she can even get there. She really doesn't have many stable relationships in her life of any kind, beyond her core family that have lasted longer, and we can only go so far in saying it is the other people, because she is the common denominator in all of the relationships. She has her work crew, which has remained fairly consistent, but she pays them well, even off of tour, and I love Blondie, I am just thinking she may be putting some unrealistic expectations onto people, that no one will be able to live up to over time, and it gives her an out, or they do get tired of it and leave, at least emotionally. I don't know. I don't know how she will ever know who she can trust, and who is after her money and access, that would make you a touch paranoid, as would the things people have done to her. Also, being her age, now, with the resources she does have, gives her the power to walk if she has the slightest displeasure. She will never be part of a starting out couple who need each other to make it, and build a life together. I have always thought Evermore was autobiographical, and parts of Folklore, and Midnights, of course. SHe seems to have always wanted just to have something which, quite honestly, her fame and status has put out of reach for her- which is normalcy. Listen to interviews with Stevie Nicks, Christine McVie, Gaga, Look at Madonna, Christina, Britney, although she tries, bless her, Cher- they have short-term relationships, that's it. Pink is the one-of, but she talks about the fighting, breaking up, and how hard it is, and how much she puts up with. I don't see Taylor being willing to do that. I also think that she has probably flirted with the idea of suicide more than once, not that she would, but the pressure on her has got to be so immense. I don't know if she has anyone to talk to, other than her mother.......
Anyway- as strong as she is, we all have our breaking point. She is to the point, almost of over-saturation, which concerns me for her, and I wish she would concentrate on finishing this tour, and not Travis, and all the other things she is doing- from March on, her schedule is crazy......---SDK
The song refers to two different people. 300 coffees later refers to days.. 300 days =10 months, 10 months sober 'clean'. She was with someone else. Harry was a pr relationship and obviouslya part of her song references their pictures/story... but he was not the person whom she truly dated
"This is a message that you should stay."
You have no idea how desperately I needed to hear that today. It's nearly 5am and I've been up all night trying to make the most monumental decision of my life, secretly hoping for a sign. So thank you. ❤🩹
Hi, I don't usually comment but, I wanted to say that I get how hard it can be. Our brain tells us lies. I'm glad you decided to take Mere's message as I sign to stay.
You are needed here, don’t ever go 🩵
It was not random, that message was meant for you to hear. I know how hard it can all be and how dark it can get where that seems like the only option but I promise, you are destined for more. Nothing can stay the same, things will get better. Stay here. I love you.
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