Fantasia - Free Yourself (VIDEO)

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  • Опубліковано 2 жов 2009
  • Fantasia's official music video for 'Free Yourself'. Click to listen to Fantasia on Spotify: smarturl.it/FantSpotify?IQid=F...
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    Lyrics:
    Baby you don't pay me no mind
    You act like you don't love me no more
    Maybe you need space or some time
    Your attitude is unpredictable and I don't want to make you unhappy
    If your not happy then you're free to go on cuz I don't want you stayin around if I make you so Miserable
    If you don't want me then don't talk to me (if you don't want me then don't talk to me)
    Go ahead and free yourself (go ahead and free yourself)
    If you don't want me then don't talk to me (if you don't want me then don't talk to me)
    Go ahead to someone else (go ahead to someone else)
    If you don't want me then don't talk to me (if you don't want me then don't talk to me)
    Go ahead and free yourself (go ahead and free yourself)
    If you don't want me then don't talk to me (if you don't want me then don't talk to me)
    Go ahead to someone else (go ahead to someone else)

КОМЕНТАРІ • 10 тис.

  • @drikat8418
    @drikat8418 3 місяці тому +336

    Anyone still playing this in 2024 !.🎉❤

  • @TheLeah2344
    @TheLeah2344 5 років тому +5911

    This hits different when you grow up and actually experience this. 😩

  • @yahswarrior1879
    @yahswarrior1879 6 місяців тому +197

    “I’m sorry, but I had to take it there, cause I’m tired.”
    Classic line. 🙏🏾❤️💛💚

    • @user-jr4lu9mx2x
      @user-jr4lu9mx2x 6 місяців тому +1

      Um. Halo.

    • @Labingoo.lk0524
      @Labingoo.lk0524 5 місяців тому +2

      HELLOOOOO🗣️🗣️

    • @flipflops-ed5xq
      @flipflops-ed5xq 3 місяці тому +2

      Yeah because it escalates and ruining both lives. Its better to put a stop immediately or things get so hard. VERY difficult. One of us could have a terrible record worse case you guys can beat the hell out of one. It really sucks because shit just happens. U never decided or designed ur relationship with your best friend. However. I do believe in miracles. After the hate is gone. Somehow someway you see the day as simply stupid. Omg i shoulve never go have a smoothie talm bout what happpened to us. True story. 50% was my fault. Also being misunderstood is such a pain in the ass!!!

    • @preciouspearl487
      @preciouspearl487 2 місяці тому +1

      and 'I'm tired tired.."

    • @IWONTBEPSYOPED
      @IWONTBEPSYOPED Місяць тому +2

      truth... you hope you don't get so tired that you need to speak while your weary in well doing however it's about to roll off my tongue

  • @June-po3ov
    @June-po3ov 3 місяці тому +80

    If you hear me playin this JUST KNOW that house gone be CLEAN! 😅 🕯

  • @aprilsteward5563
    @aprilsteward5563 2 роки тому +2655

    Years ago, when this song first came out, I played it everyday... And, I was singing this song in the car one morning while driving my daughter to day care, and my 3 year old daughter broke down in tears saying, " I DO LOVE YOU MOMMY... I ALWAYS TALK TO YOU"... and my daughter's words made me realize that no one would ever love me more than my children...

    • @myradee114
      @myradee114 2 роки тому +48

      💯👶💞

    • @dldown7543
      @dldown7543 2 роки тому +118

      ​@@myradee114 Ok so U making me cry. LOL The words of this song are very powerful. Laughingly your daughter took it literally

    • @derricksmith37
      @derricksmith37 2 роки тому +53

      No she doesn't get enough credit she has a beautiful voice and when she Saying you can feel it

    • @morrickushuff4477
      @morrickushuff4477 2 роки тому +43

      How can you expect love from a man, when most men don't even love themselves at all, because if men really love themselves they would understand they that have no real value in a woman eyes in thus staying out the way of most women due to his self love and understanding that most men are only tolerated not celebrated. And so if you're only tolerated why would you deal with that if you have self love, But most men obviously don't.

    • @ajwalker7337
      @ajwalker7337 2 роки тому +34

      This touched me❤️

  • @swedmerson90
    @swedmerson90 2 роки тому +2175

    The simplicity of the song is immaculate.
    "If you don't want me than don't talk to me. Go ahead and free yourself"
    That's it.

    • @savagetothestreetsmovies9370
      @savagetothestreetsmovies9370 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/aLIRWKmDmcw/v-deo.html

    • @PeytonFan1816
      @PeytonFan1816 2 роки тому +53

      Exactly!!! Nothing more to say!!!👌🏾

    • @tararichardson7835
      @tararichardson7835 2 роки тому +34

      I'm going through this right now,😔

    • @Daizyonceagain
      @Daizyonceagain 2 роки тому +2

      @@PeytonFan1816 1

    • @JoseRamirez-ln9ni
      @JoseRamirez-ln9ni 2 роки тому +22

      I think also from a guy point of view the song talk about how a guy is in a toxic relationship and refuses to leave it while been toxic at the same time and not knowing how to let go of it without violence

  • @bajanprincess8796
    @bajanprincess8796 2 роки тому +190

    This song is so everything R&B should be. Felt every word!! Her voice is a blessing to my soul!!!

    • @meahlovely9027
      @meahlovely9027 Рік тому +2

      #313 #Meah #5 #8 #E #Single #Happy 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎💪💝💯💯💯🙏🏻🙏🙏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🏼💔😤😼😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹😹✌🏻🤟🏽🤷🏼‍♀️🦸🏼‍♀️🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🎉🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟💝💝💝💝💝✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @adanmatitus6487
    @adanmatitus6487 Рік тому +15

    I wish more men would take heed to words in this song, this would save many women a lot of heartache. 😞

  • @rochellwhitehead9077
    @rochellwhitehead9077 8 років тому +4712

    her voice so raspy so pure so heavenly gosh this woman doesn't get the credit she deserves

    • @TubularOfficial
      @TubularOfficial 8 років тому +55

      +Rochell Whitehead i personally couldn't agree more with you

    • @abbep9238
      @abbep9238 7 років тому +50

      Tubular Sometimes a woman have to say, enough is enough!! Let it go.......

    • @nicolehartman-blane944
      @nicolehartman-blane944 6 років тому +17

      Rochell Whitehead yes yes yes yes yes...... for the raspy painful voice👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @k.b.3683
      @k.b.3683 6 років тому +28

      her voice makes me cry...she should definitely be bigger

    • @aprilwilliams6755
      @aprilwilliams6755 6 років тому +2

      Rochell Whitehead institute

  • @javontejohnson7295
    @javontejohnson7295 4 роки тому +2084

    My mom used to love this song! Rest in paradise Mommy! In loving memory of Charmaine Johnson - Simmons...Feb 8, 1976 - Feb 16, 2020. I love you forever 💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊💜🕊

    • @NiyahRenaye
      @NiyahRenaye 3 роки тому +30

      Javonte Johnson sorry to here r.i.p

    • @charlkiachaneyevans912
      @charlkiachaneyevans912 3 роки тому +25

      🙏 rest up

    • @keishadonald5448
      @keishadonald5448 3 роки тому +24

      I am so sorry for your loss❤🙏🏾❤🙏🏾❤🙏🏾

    • @k.k8000
      @k.k8000 3 роки тому +37

      R.i.p to your mom and blessings to you. It's hard but baby hold tight to your faith.

    • @javontejohnson7295
      @javontejohnson7295 3 роки тому +8

      @Shiquilla Bell 😥💔

  • @siverinao8720
    @siverinao8720 7 місяців тому +35

    14 years later. American Idol change ppls lives. Bring back artist development. Fantasia deserves everything! 👏

    • @NateTheNoble
      @NateTheNoble 4 місяці тому +3

      Close to 20 years…this was huge summer 2005

  • @kimberlysnow6109
    @kimberlysnow6109 8 місяців тому +24

    All of her songs have so much emotion. U can tell she has been emotionally hurt in past relationships😢

  • @jabrayaillebarnes2854
    @jabrayaillebarnes2854 3 роки тому +2883

    She should’ve won a Grammy off this song man 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Huszysymone
    @Huszysymone 5 років тому +3266

    “If you don’t want me then don’t talk to me” I felt that on a spiritual level.

  • @santanafernandez5040
    @santanafernandez5040 4 місяці тому +8

    One of da REALEST SONGS EVER

    • @ChrishonSmith-bk2bp
      @ChrishonSmith-bk2bp 2 години тому

      That's a cold song I'm sending y'all ladies it hurts my feelings.

  • @christopherwoods891
    @christopherwoods891 Рік тому +52

    This girl has perservered through so much. Every song she sees is from the soul.

  • @moniquewilson6161
    @moniquewilson6161 4 роки тому +665

    Being in a relationship feeling unappreciated and listening to music like this made me feel like i deserved better and now I'm happy

  • @nittygrittywithcarlton2203
    @nittygrittywithcarlton2203 2 роки тому +212

    As a man I almost came to tears hearing a woman's pain.they just want us to love them

  • @jadenalston7489
    @jadenalston7489 Рік тому +64

    I just saw her perform at the DPAC in Durham North Carolina. She blew the house down. One of the best singers of R&B music!❤❤

    • @tarasydnor5624
      @tarasydnor5624 10 місяців тому

      One of the best voices to grace this planet !

  • @Troy-hv5kx
    @Troy-hv5kx Рік тому +18

    The part that got me was, “If you don’t want me don’t talk to me. I’ll be alright! GO AHEAD TO SOMEONE ELSE!” That right there freed my soul… 🙏🏾👏🏾👐🏾🙌🏾

  • @tylerclarke5580
    @tylerclarke5580 5 років тому +645

    I had no Idea Missy Elliott wrote this song and did the backing vocals,she definitely put that pen to work 🙌🏾❤️🔥

    • @arbitrarylib
      @arbitrarylib 4 роки тому +2

      Mhm

    • @ccrdcd38
      @ccrdcd38 4 роки тому +19

      I didn't missy wrote this song either wow missy got skills this is my song

    • @Elevatedstatus
      @Elevatedstatus 4 роки тому +17

      And Jazmine Sullivan

    • @teahoney15
      @teahoney15 4 роки тому +17

      I was today years old when I learned this.

    • @MishaLilly
      @MishaLilly 4 роки тому +23

      You can hear missy in it if you listen hard

  • @solianascott1908
    @solianascott1908 5 років тому +2073

    I used to love this song when I was younger but hearing as an adult ... THIS BUMP DIFFERENT!!! Over here banging my steering wheel😂

  • @ValiantVisions314
    @ValiantVisions314 Рік тому +22

    What... I cannot believe it. I have always like this song period as a man. SHE KILLED THIS WITH A REAL VOICE. Now that I find out that she had TWO G'S (Missy Elliot, Jasmine Sullivan) singing background makes this song even better. Just reminds me of how artists used to work heavy together and you wouldn't even know. It wasn't about the shine. It was about the song, the music.

    • @anwulifly479
      @anwulifly479 2 місяці тому

      My young adult son was bumping this when I was in the car with him recently. I was like “Okay, I see you, Music Taste.” 😂

  • @omarthompson3957
    @omarthompson3957 Рік тому +20

    As a pianist....... I hear music in my head ... I studied music theory........ took lessons ........ Teenager ..... I play my own unique style.!...... No one can copy anyone's brilliance..... Ms. FANTASIA ???? IN A CLASS BY HERSELF........ NO ONE CAN DUPLICATE HER !!!!! NUFF SAID ..... 💯💯💯
    I picked Fantasia as well as many others from AI..... I know talent more than Simon Cowell..... If it was based on metaphorically????? My Queen 👑 Goddess Fantasia would of made me on betting stakes ???? A MILLIONAIRE !!!!!!
    Real talent spawns from Church narratives....... Plus she's a Christian ........ You can't stop what Jehovah God has planned ........ MS . DIVA FANTASIA......... THE BEST !!!!!
    ✌🏿❤️

  • @chardaishanta9313
    @chardaishanta9313 4 роки тому +4430

    So I was today years old when I found out that Missy Elliott & Jazmine Sullivan did background vocals on this song & now I can’t unhear it 😳😅

    • @haimac9500
      @haimac9500 4 роки тому +92

      Same lol

    • @annbesthangingout2010
      @annbesthangingout2010 4 роки тому +214

      REALLY!!!!!!! NEVER KNEW THAT.....

    • @mykejohnson582
      @mykejohnson582 4 роки тому +160

      Can't lie all this time in listening to this song, and never knew until just now " They always say you never notice things when its sitting right in front of you"....dam thats the truth.

    • @mykejohnson582
      @mykejohnson582 4 роки тому +42

      @@annbesthangingout2010 Tasia bad now and this beat go hard, reminds me of some Anthony Hamilton, classic.

    • @shemecamoss4483
      @shemecamoss4483 4 роки тому +43

      What?? Now I can't unhear it

  • @bernardthomas843
    @bernardthomas843 4 роки тому +4843

    I don't care what nobody say she has one of the best voices ever she killed this

    • @melvincampbell827
      @melvincampbell827 4 роки тому +53

      Amen

    • @boobaharper6171
      @boobaharper6171 4 роки тому +61

      She can sing.

    • @mykejohnson582
      @mykejohnson582 4 роки тому +27

      Oh yeah Carolina in tha House!

    • @pamelabraden5176
      @pamelabraden5176 3 роки тому +39

      YESSSSS! I was a big fan the first time I heard her open her mouth and audition for American Idol. Fantasia had that certain something that said "STAR". God bless her. Love her spirit. She is a true Super Star. She exudes passion and so much soul when she sings and that stage presence is unbeatable.

    • @markd523
      @markd523 3 роки тому +13

      It’s so Human that it’s inhuman! I don’t know how else to describe it

  • @lisastrange9618
    @lisastrange9618 2 роки тому +8

    Hi Mrs. Fantasia! Every word in this song is where I am and I sing it loudly right now … I just did my workout as usual just to feel good.I’ve bee in a relationship for eight years now and I’m 59 .?I’ll be 60 on June 6th and I’m
    Just working and trying my best to take care of me!!! Thank you for those vivid words and feelings. Only god will help me through this time in my life. Be blessed my sister! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️😁🏡🐚🌗🎤🎶🎧

  • @criticalthinking1592
    @criticalthinking1592 Рік тому +12

    All that natural beauty not being ruined with tattoos everywhere. Chocolate 🍫

  • @ashleighcannady7402
    @ashleighcannady7402 2 роки тому +1945

    She needs her flowers while she's still here! She's simply brilliant!

  • @whatupgigi
    @whatupgigi 2 роки тому +834

    Missy Elliot and Jazmine Sullivan did that on the background vocals and Fantasia put all that raw emotion into every lyric. Goosebumps every time!

    • @mscotchery9861
      @mscotchery9861 2 роки тому +54

      didnt know! wow

    • @ForWhatItsWorth_
      @ForWhatItsWorth_ 2 роки тому +44

      I heard Missy's vocals but I didn't notice Jasmine Sullivan.

    • @20062bMinnieSmooth
      @20062bMinnieSmooth 2 роки тому +12

      Nisan on the drums

    • @blackempress2040
      @blackempress2040 Рік тому +25

      "Girl shut yo mouth!😱 I never knew that,but I know professional background singers when I hear it! I love this song even more!!! Thanks for sharing!

    • @SippiGirl_256
      @SippiGirl_256 Рік тому +8

      @@20062bMinnieSmooth yep Nissan Stewart

  • @ainabrooks3408
    @ainabrooks3408 Рік тому +10

    Coming from a woman who has went through this let him go sis. You will feel so much better in the end. Free yourself don’t wait on him. There is somebody for everybody.

  • @FinessesTouch
    @FinessesTouch 2 дні тому +1

    “Baby don’t you know that I tried, but the love I had inside has died”……that’s deep deep

  • @planet-juicy
    @planet-juicy 4 роки тому +292

    She had me trying to free myself from a relationship I never was in 😂🤷🏾‍♀️❤️

  • @joanoliverlewis7882
    @joanoliverlewis7882 2 роки тому +846

    She sang this song with so much feelings, knowing that it came straight from the heart. You go woman. Enough is Enough.

  • @veriaaubre6986
    @veriaaubre6986 10 місяців тому +6

    Omg, FANTASIA DID THIS SONG.. SHE DEFINITELY should have gotten a GRAMMY!!🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎💯🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎

  • @Thatgurlg2024
    @Thatgurlg2024 2 роки тому +12

    3:05 - She killed that!

  • @grantbrown8312
    @grantbrown8312 2 роки тому +297

    “If you don’t want me, then don’t talk to me”.
    This song will always be my motto on relationships. ✅ Not stressing.

  • @myarodriguez255
    @myarodriguez255 6 років тому +329

    This song on repeat for months finally gave me the strength to leave my abusive boyfriend....best decision i ever made.it's been 4 years😊

    • @EclipseOfNite1
      @EclipseOfNite1 5 років тому +10

      Bravo for your strength and courage. You knew your self worth and knew that you deserved better.

    • @saraimoregreen
      @saraimoregreen 5 років тому +7

      Hope you're in a better place. Congratulations on your strength.

    • @msdanyelle1
      @msdanyelle1 5 років тому +2

      Congrats

    • @julsteablog3677
      @julsteablog3677 5 років тому +3

      I commend u sweetheart!! Dont matter how long it took you did it b4 it was too late!!!

    • @tanishajenkins6181
      @tanishajenkins6181 5 років тому +2

      Im glad u left!! U deserve to happy!!!

  • @stohandmadejewelrycraftcorner
    @stohandmadejewelrycraftcorner 9 місяців тому +11

    I have been listening to Fantasia’s music 🎶 all week long. It’s amazing how The Most God in Christ will send you what you need at the right time. When these songs originally were released, I was in the throws of try to work through a situation in a very toxic relationship for sake of our children. It took many years to see and learn that I should have left many years ago. Now, I have freed myself from that toxic situationship. I am free to be me, heal, and thrive. I am grateful for Fantasia. She’s a blessing to me.💕🙏🏾💕🙏🏾💕

  • @user-cr4cy2tr8c
    @user-cr4cy2tr8c 4 місяці тому +6

    2024 & still listening to fantasia I grew up listening to her. Wish she would come out with new music❤

  • @RChanelleDavis
    @RChanelleDavis 7 років тому +560

    She. Sang. The. Fuck. Out. Of. This. Song. I Feel It.

  • @Navyblue0785
    @Navyblue0785 8 років тому +2371

    It's crazy how time can change things...That song used to mean nothing to me..Today I feel it..

  • @SnowTa004
    @SnowTa004 2 роки тому +41

    So blessed I grew up with her music. I get chills every single time. People who didn’t experience fantasia missed out on alot

  • @treyjones1958
    @treyjones1958 7 місяців тому +7

    Attention everybody don't miss Fantasia in the Color Purple musical movie which will be in theaters worldwide on Christmas Day

  • @damienj5378
    @damienj5378 4 роки тому +1559

    this is a anthem for everyone in 2020

  • @adrinikaatkinson5342
    @adrinikaatkinson5342 5 років тому +1426

    Who still listening in 2019?

    • @MRoe-jf6su
      @MRoe-jf6su 5 років тому +5

      Adrinika Atkinson me chile...I’ll never get tired of Fantasia

    • @chatrianshields7471
      @chatrianshields7471 5 років тому +2

      Adrinika Atkinson 🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @deewells4259
      @deewells4259 5 років тому +3

      On May 17th...I AM 🙋🏾‍♂️

    • @neidrasingleton3274
      @neidrasingleton3274 5 років тому +1

      Yes!! Love It!!

    • @bobbylarkin6139
      @bobbylarkin6139 5 років тому +2

      make sure yall support her new single called "Enough" available now on iTunes and make sure u keep her new video called "Enough" on repeat so we can help get this song played on the radio

  • @juicyjuicee1658
    @juicyjuicee1658 2 роки тому +10

    "YOU PLAYING GAMES, IF YOU DON'T WANT ME, DON'T TALK TO ME"
    I FELT THAT LINE

    • @sancm8898
      @sancm8898 Місяць тому

      I felt it to especially when she said baby if you don’t want me then don’t talk to me I’ll be alright

  • @justiceguru100
    @justiceguru100 Місяць тому +4

    Sad as well as revolutionary. The message is to end relationships that do not move righteously. This is a wakeup banger!

  • @Kenabootskie
    @Kenabootskie 5 років тому +828

    These lyrics are real AF. This song got me through one of my toughest breakups

    • @trakenamccray1020
      @trakenamccray1020 5 років тому +1

      U have part of my name And Kena is my nickname love this song

    • @xiomorekatrice
      @xiomorekatrice 4 роки тому +2

      Same.....

    • @pickleberry6668
      @pickleberry6668 4 роки тому +1

      Girl I feel you

    • @gregpitts5157
      @gregpitts5157 4 роки тому +10

      KenaSunshine J. I’m a guy. I love this song. Play in my gallery all the time. Men go through it also.

    • @jaquanaadams1289
      @jaquanaadams1289 4 роки тому +3

      KenaSunshine J. She’s helping me now!!!!!!!!

  • @tamishagordon4144
    @tamishagordon4144 5 років тому +713

    2019 Still going to be a Hit...👌🏾😘👌🏾😘😘

    • @staleikagriffin5772
      @staleikagriffin5772 5 років тому +2

      😘😘😘

    • @mistaduke3574
      @mistaduke3574 5 років тому

      Tamisha Gordon Exactly ‼️

    • @darrellthompson9640
      @darrellthompson9640 4 роки тому

      DFT 🙌💋💋💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🖤💯💋💯💋💯♥️💛🖤♥️🖤💋❤️❤️💯❤️👹☠️ ❤️💯❤️💯💯🖤♥️💛💛💛💛♥️💛♥️

  • @gigiwashington8167
    @gigiwashington8167 6 місяців тому +4

    WHEN GOD HAS SOMETHING FOR YOU NO ONE CAN TAKE IT!IT BELONGS TO U ITS PROMISE TO ONLY YOU!!!!💯🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @tmichelle9669
    @tmichelle9669 2 роки тому +51

    “This love thing is full of scandals,” will forever hit

  • @CasshyTee
    @CasshyTee 3 роки тому +558

    “Cus I had to take it there, I had to take it there cus I’m tiredddd,” that part always gets to me

    • @MsLolaTaylor
      @MsLolaTaylor 3 роки тому +6

      Tuh💯

    • @prestonwysingle4139
      @prestonwysingle4139 2 роки тому +1

      Natasha ShawniQue' "#caliluv" Wysingle!
      This is to and for "c-knote" of San Diego, California via "mamarita'$ 1st n born,birthed, created,celebrated,hated,ellavated,illuminated by self love and a box of Newport cigarettes.

    • @kenya_j461
      @kenya_j461 2 роки тому +2

      💯💯❕.

    • @sbella6719
      @sbella6719 Рік тому +1

      My mama always said when you're sick n tired of being sick n tired, you'll get up and do something about it. Don't think she's tired yet if she's telling him to free himself

    • @luckyluchia1987
      @luckyluchia1987 Рік тому +1

      Every single time

  • @keabetswebokaba4144
    @keabetswebokaba4144 8 років тому +630

    After so much pain, I've managed to free myself. No more drama for me.....I deserve BETTER!

    • @luaskar77
      @luaskar77 8 років тому +15

      Congrats, I'm proud of you :)

    • @terrancepurnell741
      @terrancepurnell741 8 років тому +7

      amen

    • @MzVocalz
      @MzVocalz 8 років тому +2

      yesss 💯💯💯

    • @danabennett7338
      @danabennett7338 8 років тому +10

      I understand where she coming from cause my boyfriend does the same thing he do

    • @elle4738
      @elle4738 7 років тому +2

      Keabetswe Bokaba listen to the song Deserve Better by Kehlani it will speak your story ❤️

  • @michaeljstrickland863
    @michaeljstrickland863 8 місяців тому +8

    2023! And I never get tired of this song 🎵

  • @Laura_toggsgirls
    @Laura_toggsgirls 4 місяці тому +5

    Her voice heals the soul

  • @cheriamor4683
    @cheriamor4683 4 роки тому +878

    For those of y’all saying Cardi brought you here y’all need step y’all music game up 😩😩🤣🤣

    • @ladygemini5967
      @ladygemini5967 4 роки тому +21

      jan cheri can I get an Amen

    • @PaisleyMoon2022
      @PaisleyMoon2022 4 роки тому +29

      Exactly! 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @kaylamccain
      @kaylamccain 4 роки тому +22

      Right. I've been coming here for year's.

    • @darrellthompson9640
      @darrellthompson9640 4 роки тому +7

      DFT 🙌💋💋💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🖤💯💋💯♥️💛🖤💛💛🖤💛💛🖤♥️💛🖤💛💛🖤💛💛

    • @kaylarobinson9667
      @kaylarobinson9667 4 роки тому +1

      @@PaisleyMoon2022 yesssssss

  • @nicoleharrington7329
    @nicoleharrington7329 3 роки тому +282

    When it hurts. We recover. Forgiveness is not for us it is for them. Let go Let God.

  • @ladrefrancis5828
    @ladrefrancis5828 Рік тому +10

    Two words. REAL MUSIC!!

  • @knight9k
    @knight9k Рік тому +7

    She was going thru it at the time....and she put it into words....plain, and simple "If you don't want me just don't talk to me, go ahead, and free yourself"....I love it,!!

  • @Fayesweet39
    @Fayesweet39 5 років тому +350

    You're attitude is unpredictable! Meaning, you're unstable in all of your ways. Conversation Dry...if you don't want me than don't talk to me! Missy Elliot is a beast! She's a sick writer.

    • @tabathahomeister2385
      @tabathahomeister2385 4 роки тому +9

      Fayesweet39 no, your attitude is unpredictable means she don't know when he's going to hit her

    • @thehealer9738
      @thehealer9738 4 роки тому +13

      In had no idea Missy wrote this..but I can actually see it in the way it's written.

    • @bernardthomas843
      @bernardthomas843 4 роки тому +6

      Plus she picked the perfect person to sing the lyrics she wrote

    • @darrellthompson9640
      @darrellthompson9640 4 роки тому

      DFT 💯♥️♥️♥️♥️💛♥️♥️♥️♥️💛💛🖤🖤💛🖤💛🖤🖤💛🖤💛🖤🖤💛🖤🖤🖤💯♥️💛🖤♥️💛🖤♥️🖤💋❤️💘💘💋💯♥️♥️♥️♥️💛♥️

    • @mykejohnson582
      @mykejohnson582 4 роки тому

      @@thehealer9738 Dayumm she wrote this and sang the vocals along with Jazmine S. wow mind blowing!

  • @fatimahmayse8772
    @fatimahmayse8772 6 років тому +453

    She song the hell out of this song

  • @faithbrown3138
    @faithbrown3138 2 роки тому +40

    Listening to this on repeat as I’m literally living this song out! I used to sing it when I was younger but it hits home now.

  • @hopetruzy498
    @hopetruzy498 9 місяців тому +7

    Love this song❤️ Fantasia, Missy Elliott and Jazmine killed it!!!!

  • @theskeptic8489
    @theskeptic8489 7 років тому +414

    she could not hide her pain recording this

    • @KBrogsmom
      @KBrogsmom 5 років тому +37

      You can hear every woman's pain in this song

    • @darryleverett641
      @darryleverett641 5 років тому +2

      Chris Allen funniest thing ive read all day!!😍😍😁😆

    • @aiialaina5674
      @aiialaina5674 5 років тому +10

      Missy Elliot wrote it

    • @sunbeam123
      @sunbeam123 5 років тому +15

      @@KBrogsmom you can hear mine and i aint even singing the shit

    • @lashawnnfosihxishdiziuaiow3482
      @lashawnnfosihxishdiziuaiow3482 5 років тому

      +SaKeya Stubbs gjoh

  • @corneliacummings7640
    @corneliacummings7640 5 років тому +363

    She telling the truth. I feel her pain. Need an part 2 of this song

    • @leatricebrown1874
      @leatricebrown1874 5 років тому +2

      Cornelia Cummings right

    • @twanabonnet7996
      @twanabonnet7996 4 роки тому

      Yesssss... come through part 2....

    • @chrisnelson6266
      @chrisnelson6266 4 роки тому +2

      Yes, titled Since we haven't been talking or I don't have s#it to say, LMAO 😅

  • @destinypeterson270
    @destinypeterson270 Місяць тому +4

    Still here 2024🎉

  • @mlssmaya
    @mlssmaya 7 місяців тому +4

    i’m 23, i didnt understand why my mom would replay this CD- specifically this song so much but now that i’ve had my own experiences and grown up i GET IT now!! 😂 beautiful song though, i adore this album to this day. thanks to my mama for introducing me to it ❤️

    • @redred6349
      @redred6349 6 місяців тому

      Yeah you gotta go through it to grow through it!

  • @skip031890
    @skip031890 7 років тому +2116

    Fantasia, Jennifer Hudson and Jazmine Sullivan need to collaborate together. That would def be a good show.

  • @ninadickson8363
    @ninadickson8363 8 років тому +1285

    she song the HELL out of this song

  • @toniciariley1466
    @toniciariley1466 4 місяці тому +2

    Missy Elliott is a GENIUS for writing this👑💕

  • @sharonkeyes105
    @sharonkeyes105 Рік тому +6

    Her best song PERIOD. DOT DOT TIMELESS

  • @alwaysonpoint7776
    @alwaysonpoint7776 6 років тому +3200

    If you still here in 2018 let me know I'm not alone y'all.

  • @MiamiPush2theLimit
    @MiamiPush2theLimit 4 роки тому +507

    Why men still want to talk after they say they’re not ready for a relationship? There’s nothing more to talk about, bruh.

  • @Papi.Pharaoh
    @Papi.Pharaoh 4 місяці тому +5

    Fantasia has probably one of the greatest singing voices of all time. Her music has a way of touching you deep down in your soul. She makes some of the most beautiful songs ever. Unfortunately R&B would never be this good ever again. The early ‘00s was such a great time for R&B music.

  • @glamapproved
    @glamapproved Місяць тому +3

    The love I had inside has died….😢2024

    • @rootzrock6842
      @rootzrock6842 12 днів тому

      Baby it’s deeeaaaayeayeayeayeayeayeayead!!!

  • @ThisIsMissyExclusive
    @ThisIsMissyExclusive 5 років тому +707

    Missy Elliott & Jazmine Sullivan did excellent on the backup vocals! Ever notice when Missy produces & writes for other artists she never uses her typical futuristic beats. This glorious hit for example and others: Whitney Houston ("Oh Yes"), Mariah Carey ("Babydoll"), Christina Aguilera ("Car Wash"), Angie Stone ("Think Sometimes"), Monica ("Dozen Roses"). Underrated effin' genius! Love Missy!

    • @Hairwoolskinbrass
      @Hairwoolskinbrass 5 років тому +49

      ThisIsMissyExclusive damn thanks for the info, I never knew that. Now since you said it I can actually hear Missy!!!! Love Missy❤️

    • @LonerBecause
      @LonerBecause 5 років тому +24

      I learned something new

    • @Tricee2000
      @Tricee2000 5 років тому +20

      Now that you mentioned it, I can hear it!

    • @kacy1787
      @kacy1787 5 років тому +12

      I never knew that, thanks for informing me

    • @deewells4259
      @deewells4259 5 років тому +13

      I didn’t know they did BackUp Vocals...🤭

  • @LadyK007
    @LadyK007 3 роки тому +286

    TASIA ATE THIS TF UP!!!!‼️‼️‼️ Such an anointed, strong voice🙌🏾

  • @GolliClarkson
    @GolliClarkson 11 місяців тому +4

    I don’t know why but this song makes me feel different can’t explain it.

  • @flowerb.4700
    @flowerb.4700 10 місяців тому +2

    I remember listening to this song on repeat while I was driving from Los Angeles to Seattle back in 2006. I was dealing with this dude and this trip was a good distraction while I moved my brother from medical school to back home once he was done. I had so much to think about and analyze, and this song said everything I was feeling, so I just contacted the guy and ended things.

  • @dorothyhill708
    @dorothyhill708 3 роки тому +618

    This song hits different when every word she said is exactly how you feel, like how you in my thoughts?

  • @MUSICLOVER79100
    @MUSICLOVER79100 5 років тому +490

    Fantasia sings with soul! Little known fact: KC & Jo Jo from Jodeci are her first cousins. Now, you see where she got that hollering from. lol... Go Fanny!!

  • @boomchicaboomboom
    @boomchicaboomboom 2 роки тому +9

    Love that she gave love to High Point and NC in this video! One of NC's finest singers!

  • @terrelberry2592
    @terrelberry2592 19 днів тому +3

    May 2024…we in here!

  • @1ofthelastkings
    @1ofthelastkings 5 років тому +656

    U know it's real when a man can feel this... Us men go thru it too

    • @robertmosley2717
      @robertmosley2717 5 років тому +44

      yea homie... it hurts to have our heart smashed when we thought we have found the right girl and turns out, they turn their backs and walk away!! it doesnt feel good!! smh..

    • @cheetahgirlfan32
      @cheetahgirlfan32 5 років тому +4

      🖤🖤

    • @antoinqueen8261
      @antoinqueen8261 5 років тому +9

      @@robertmosley2717 yep say ot louder..now thts real life...!period

    • @lisalucus5043
      @lisalucus5043 5 років тому +3

      @@antoinqueen8261 b

    • @ezraisrael4392
      @ezraisrael4392 5 років тому

      Lmaooo wah

  • @southerngirlchef5886
    @southerngirlchef5886 4 роки тому +271

    Who’s listening in 2020🙋🏾‍♀️

  • @charlesc.b2435
    @charlesc.b2435 11 місяців тому +3

    This whole album SLAPS!!!!!!!!

  • @MrRev9
    @MrRev9 2 роки тому +8

    The voice the expression !!! Kills me every time

  • @blessings4eva863
    @blessings4eva863 7 років тому +754

    Fantasia its like you're crying with melody the emotions are so raw and powerful. This song touches me to the core

  • @lowki5573
    @lowki5573 4 роки тому +415

    Mood all 2020
    Stop Wasting people’s Time!

  • @maylee-ki2yd
    @maylee-ki2yd Рік тому +17

    This song gives me chills,this gal can sing her ass off, beautiful voice from,that she was bless with, with a voice like that she can touch a lot of people through her music,god given talent 👍👍

  • @laciejavonne352
    @laciejavonne352 5 місяців тому +2

    People can be very much Flip Floppers!!!

  • @deirdrasj1
    @deirdrasj1 9 років тому +156

    All the years of loving this song and I never even knew that was Missy Elliot in the background!

    • @RoshondaHicks
      @RoshondaHicks 8 років тому +2

      Sounds like her

    • @deirdrasj1
      @deirdrasj1 8 років тому +26

      Ummm okay....but that's Missy she wrote the song and said herself that it's her vocals....but carry on lol

    • @RoshondaHicks
      @RoshondaHicks 8 років тому +14

      This person is crazy ^^ im kinda scared

    • @shirleythomas86
      @shirleythomas86 8 років тому

      Missy!

    • @TheDroShow
      @TheDroShow 8 років тому

      +deirdrasj1 wwoooooww i did not know that! now that you mention it, that really does sound like her! thanks for the tidbit

  • @Tinnyyyy
    @Tinnyyyy 4 роки тому +499

    2020 and I’m here screaming “ if you don’t want me then don’t talk to me “ 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @miltoncalvin16
    @miltoncalvin16 День тому +1

    Who’s here in 2024??

  • @jesuschristiscomingsoon2426
    @jesuschristiscomingsoon2426 10 років тому +165

    YOU HAVE TO LET GO,IF THAT PERSON AINT TREATING YOU RIGHT AND YOU HAVE TRYED TO MAKE IT WORK OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND STILL NO BETTER LET THE RELATIONSHIP GO. I RATHER CRY YOU OUT MY SYSTEM SO I CAN START FRESH THEN TO BE WITH YOU AND KEEP CRYING, & BEING MISERABLE LET THE RELATIONSHIP GO AND LET GOD, JESUS CHRIST,& THE HOLY SPIRIT FILL YOUR VOID IN YOUR HEART PS LADIES. IF HE AINT CHANGE AFTER ALL THESE YEARS HES NOT GOING TO CHANGE. STAY STRONG LADIES

    • @petuliasemaie8237
      @petuliasemaie8237 10 років тому +6

      GOSH......THANK YOU...TEARS!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @purpetwins65
      @purpetwins65 10 років тому +2

      say that , free myself of misery, especially when you have tried over and over again taken person back again over and over again but still don't work, what a fool should have never let came back, and her goes some more tears..

    • @jchidi
      @jchidi 10 років тому +4

      Really needed to hear this!! Now just need to apply it...

    • @Audaciouss1
      @Audaciouss1 10 років тому +4

      Whew say it again sometimes it is hard. Put sometimes you run across post like this that gives you that extra push to being free. Thanks I needed to hear this like 100 times but I got it now hard part is getting out.

    • @petuliasemaie8237
      @petuliasemaie8237 10 років тому +4

      Audacious Bade your so so right...i got up this morning and i told him i dont know what to do...is like the more you try the more hurt you get...but i have made up my mind i need to free myself from him.....not gonna wait for him to go free himself...cuz it ent gonna happen.....i prayed this morning after a long long time....now i feel free in my soul....it is so hard to leave..hurt or not am gonna i need to i have to leave.

  • @Bigmorenaaa
    @Bigmorenaaa 7 років тому +260

    when your relationship of 5 years ends and the person acts like you never matter. broken. love this song.

  • @MnyMar
    @MnyMar 11 місяців тому +1

    I was unaware that’s Missy on the background vocals 🔥

  • @Labingoo.lk0524
    @Labingoo.lk0524 5 місяців тому +1

    I’LL BE ALRIGHT!!! 🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @Brend.0
      @Brend.0 Місяць тому

      Maybe not right now. But in time.

  • @dchilds7437
    @dchilds7437 5 років тому +212

    Fantasia has a beautiful.voice. it is so easy to see why she won American idol.

    • @n0nenone257
      @n0nenone257 5 років тому +1

      This is my girl....so BEAUTIFUL and her voice and songs LOVE😍😘💕💞...get out of town 💋