I Don't Think I'm The Drama! (Am I The A**hole?)

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024

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  • @Swirlingflame
    @Swirlingflame 2 роки тому +2440

    I wish Noah was here with every single one. He has such a balanced way of looking at things, and he doesn't care if the chat or viewers think badly of him because of his opinions. He's awesome. The others hold back, you can see it sometimes.

    • @xerxesmontes9828
      @xerxesmontes9828 2 роки тому +49

      True. Noah is an amazing addition to thiz.

    • @cosodesign8953
      @cosodesign8953 Рік тому +38

      Facts. I find the others pretty boring because my favorite part of AITA posts is hearing the persons perspective and opinion on it which Noah is the only person who really gets into it

    • @terry10tnj
      @terry10tnj Рік тому +19

      Yeah I would love to see him do one with Rachel she always has the absolute worst takes

    • @Theunloved1738
      @Theunloved1738 Рік тому +20

      @@terry10tnj but at least Noah explains his reasoning and admits that he’s an asshole. Rachel literally kept defending a dead beat without any real reasoning why, just the fact that he was their father and that’s why his kids should live him.

  • @Jamie_Jewel
    @Jamie_Jewel 2 роки тому +475

    “Much more physically demanding profession.”
    You fix toilets, she’s GROWING A WHOLE HUMAN BEING.

    • @xLostInFirex
      @xLostInFirex Рік тому +79

      AND still working as well and from what it looks from his text and attitude, probably also being basically the only one taking care of 3 kids and household chores while growing that human inside her lmao

    • @KingOfGaymes
      @KingOfGaymes 11 місяців тому +46

      Also he LEAVES his job every day, she can’t just take a break from being pregnant

    • @aFoolsMartyr
      @aFoolsMartyr 10 місяців тому

      Not defending him, he sounds like an enormous douche nozzle. But I think he was comparing their actual jobs, because this man 100% doesn't recognize what actual labour pregnancy is.

    • @dancesmokesmile344
      @dancesmokesmile344 9 місяців тому +19

      AND she’s an engineer

    • @lemonadec0re
      @lemonadec0re 9 місяців тому +13

      AND she feeds him and the rest of her family

  • @Lockz1111
    @Lockz1111 2 роки тому +923

    For the credit card story, from personal experience as someone who has worked in the service industry, we literally do not fucking care who pays, whose card it is, etc. We don't look, it's not our job to check. We just want people through our lines as quickly and peacefully as possible and anyone who causes a scene, especially out of some sense of self-righteousness, is going to be getting looks and eye rolls

    • @thaloblue
      @thaloblue Рік тому +48

      That customer was a Karen and a snitch tbh.

    • @kr3atorrr
      @kr3atorrr Рік тому +12

      @@thaloblue yeah but i bet her dad dint say "go ahead and blow my entire creadit card" and the price was over 4 digits. even her FRIEND questioned her. you should't be spending that much on her parents credit card. that person was NOT the asshole and that daughter needs to learn how to NOT make her parents go BANKRUPT over a pair of BOOTS. i hope she got in big trouble and her parents found out. they need to give her a budget.

    • @afckingegg7585
      @afckingegg7585 Рік тому +81

      ​@@kr3atorrr sorry to break this to you, but some people are rich and spending 4 figures on a pair of boots isn't a big deal to them. I know teens who do this, although with their own credit cards and not their parents. It's very weird to assume literally everyone is in the same income bracket as you. They can always return the boots, since it's credit it won't instantly bankrupt them. Either way threatening to call the cops on a teenager because you don't approve of the purchase they're making is an AH move. In the US that could get someone killed. At the very least OP would have been banned from the store. Would you do the same thing if it was an adult with their spouse's card, Karen?

    • @kr3atorrr
      @kr3atorrr Рік тому

      are you calling me a karen for sharing MY opinion? yes they sould'nt have said anything, but really that much for bots you can probably get from MARSHALLS for $20@@afckingegg7585

    • @michaelka3071
      @michaelka3071 Рік тому

      @@kr3atorrr and? its still her family lmao you are an outsider you dont have the right to discipline other people's children stop being an idi.ot and think that you have the moral obligation to educate someone else like its your job or somesh.t so what if her father didnt give her permission? she will suffer the consequences of her actions and that doesnt give you the right to be the one to give justice. YOU are a STRANGER YOU DO NOT have the RIGHT to MEDDLE in SOMEONE else's life, you get it now? i emphazised the words that should get through that head of yours since i assume you are a dumb mo.ron and needs special attention, now you understand that the OP was a fcking as.shole? let the parents do the disciplining not a goddamn stranger at a mall.

  • @kashinimeyo
    @kashinimeyo Рік тому +564

    With the Karen the narc situation- my mom would always give me her debit card to go clothes shopping with my friends. If it’s your parent’s card, more than likely you got permission and if you go above what they find is reasonable, that’s up to the parents to reasonably set expectations and fitting punishment. Anything else is digging into someone else’s business way too much and is shaming them for some sort of projection much like what OP did in this sense.

    • @stevievaughan5096
      @stevievaughan5096 Рік тому +59

      yeah honestly. if she stole the card do you think she’d be bragging about how she isn’t paying? i’d probably be hiding the fact that i committed a crime

    • @Cambie
      @Cambie Рік тому +44

      Ever since I’ve been able to drive I’ve had my moms credit card. As soon as I could drive I was on grocery shopping duty lol. I’ve also built up a lot of trust. The Narc here doesn’t know the situation! Maybe the dad is fine with that kind of spending, maybe she’s using his card so he gets the points and then she pays him back! We don’t know the situation and she should have totally left them alone

    • @truebornseeker9767
      @truebornseeker9767 Рік тому +59

      She’s also *not their fucking mom*
      It is quite literally none of her business, just because she would never let her son use her credit card doesn’t mean no other parent ever should/could ever think about doing so

    • @mintyhippo8125
      @mintyhippo8125 Рік тому +25

      Also, if she could afford it with her own card, then I guess she didn’t spend too much? Plus, even if she did use her card, the dad still might pay for it

    • @erima4270
      @erima4270 Рік тому +3

      Unpopular opinion, anauthorized user card with the child's name on the card is an option. Cashier had wrong motivations ("I need to teach this child a lesson") but I don't think she was wrong for not wanting to be responsible for a high-ticket transaction dispute later, especially since the way the girl was talking made it sound like she actually didn't have permission to use her dad's card.

  • @megspositiveoutlook5772
    @megspositiveoutlook5772 2 роки тому +206

    The one with the guy saying we’re BOTH pregnant makes me laugh. Between plumber and engineer the wife 1000% is the breadwinner unless Mr Man owns his plumbing business.
    She was cooking dinner when he made his shitty comment too. Of course there’s no way to prove it, but if I was the breadwinner of the family, cooking dinner, pregnant, AND trying to wrangle 3 other kids while my supposed husband lays on his ass I’d be livid too.

    • @megspositiveoutlook5772
      @megspositiveoutlook5772 2 роки тому +35

      I don’t care if he “works longer hours”, having a family is a team sport, and if you can give the breadwinner more time to work rather than watching kids, it’s a benefit to the whole family because there would be more money coming in and childcare has to happen.

  • @smiley2bb
    @smiley2bb 2 роки тому +416

    This is proof they need to bring back Smosh & Order and make Noah a lawyer, after seeing this I now know it was a CRIME to not have him ever play a lawyer before (though judge Betty will always be iconic)

  • @DemonFireRain
    @DemonFireRain 2 роки тому +3527

    I love Noah so much. Man is a goldmine of comedy and opinions.

    • @Arkainum
      @Arkainum 2 роки тому +53

      Noah is easily the best color commentator in this series. XD

    • @LegacyFlash15
      @LegacyFlash15 2 роки тому +4

      Idk about that. He’s boring in almost every video he’s in. A blind squirrel finds a nut once a day.

    • @DemonFireRain
      @DemonFireRain 2 роки тому +82

      @@LegacyFlash15 hard disagree but you do you.

    • @wheeinsdimple926
      @wheeinsdimple926 2 роки тому +26

      @@LegacyFlash15 quoting dempsy I see. but idk what you're saying, Noah is the most witty, intelligent, and entertaining member of smosh imo

    • @guessan154
      @guessan154 2 роки тому +3

      I love Shayne’s reactions lmaoooo

  • @smtyson14
    @smtyson14 2 роки тому +253

    I was so excited to see Ian "Out-of-Pocket" Hecox and Noah "Literally-Knows-Everything" Grossman. They absolutely did not disappoint.

  • @gigimarie6465
    @gigimarie6465 2 роки тому +76

    Okay but the fact that the guy with the pregnant wife is complaining that her VOMITING keeps HIM up at night, is horrendous. Like dude, do you think its not keeping her up too?! Youre not even the one doing the actual vomiting!

  • @gr1mreap3rz15
    @gr1mreap3rz15 2 роки тому +405

    on the first one: it's happened a few times where my mum has given me her card to go buy stuff on special occasions, or even just go grocery shopping on her behalf. nobody has ever checked, nothing had has come of it, and i had her explicit permission to do so. sure, there's a chance that girl stole her dad's card without permission, but there's ALSO a chance that he gave it to her as a treat or something - so yeah, i'd say it's a total dick move to do that. it was none of op's business.

    • @notinurpocket
      @notinurpocket 2 роки тому +103

      and if she did steal the card and it was in the 4 digit price range like the kid said then the parents will DEFINITELY NOTICE and can handle the situation with the kid at home. there was no point of getting involved except for op to look like an asshole who cant mind their own business.

    • @wadedove9972
      @wadedove9972 2 роки тому +65

      @@notinurpocket not only that, if the dad actually give her permission and abused it, its not like he couldnt easily return the items bought, may be a difficult and annoying process but most stores dont have a final sale no return policy

    • @notinurpocket
      @notinurpocket 2 роки тому +34

      @@wadedove9972 exactly!! there are easy ways to fix this problem (if it even was a problem) that didn’t involve some random lady to make an awkward public situation.

    • @wadedove9972
      @wadedove9972 2 роки тому +42

      @@notinurpocket exactly, plus the girl was able to afford the items herself so i dont think money would've been a problem for the dad, the random lady was ta

    • @notinurpocket
      @notinurpocket 2 роки тому +45

      @@wadedove9972 and if the girl could pay for it on her own card i imagine she was telling the truth about her dad letting her use it for award points + it could’ve been a gift/clothing for an upcoming occasion or school. op shouldve just minded her own business.

  • @Earthbender1
    @Earthbender1 2 роки тому +244

    “Talk shit, get hit.” lmaoo! Never agreed more with Noah. Especially since I don’t agree with his taste buds 😂

    • @18Hongo
      @18Hongo Рік тому

      A more appropriate idiom would have been "Fuck around and find out".
      Because she did.

  • @hats4pigeons132
    @hats4pigeons132 2 роки тому +571

    I could listen to Noah talking about his views on morality for hours. He is so well spoken and has some great advice. He really flipped my opinion on the art post in just a couple minutes AND taught us something.

    • @lexmcdufflepants4332
      @lexmcdufflepants4332 2 роки тому +63

      I was really glad when he pointed that out because it's what I was thinking from an "artist" (not professional or any good) standpoint. There was no contract. She has no claim on the money. It helped show that hey, you can make more money than what you charge. It can definitely be seen as rude, but not AH

    • @mannyeatsdirt
      @mannyeatsdirt 2 роки тому +17

      like when you buy something, you can do what you want with that product. i guess it just makes them a bad friend for not telling the artist beforehand. but id say the artist is in the wrong for demanding the money but is entitled to being offended by their friends actions

    • @ColFlustered
      @ColFlustered 2 роки тому +11

      @@lexmcdufflepants4332 it's not the OP's problem that the friend was underpricing their work and wouldn't listen. The artist was given a real life example of how they could make money on their art, but they didn't seem to want to put in the work, they just wanted to take the "free" money their friend made. 🤦‍♀️

    • @lexmcdufflepants4332
      @lexmcdufflepants4332 2 роки тому +3

      @@ColFlustered just to clarify... are you agreeing with me..? Or against?

    • @ColFlustered
      @ColFlustered 2 роки тому +3

      @@lexmcdufflepants4332 with! Sorry I realize the first part came off defensive and a bit aggressive, but not directed at you. 😋

  • @SweetiesSys
    @SweetiesSys 2 роки тому +263

    There is NO way that the “both of us are pregnant” poster is serious, that’s GOT to be satire, please be satire, oh my god-

  • @Wolfylink
    @Wolfylink Рік тому +368

    Tbh the girl who called her friend stupid for getting pregnant is not the asshole. People need to start owning up to their decisions and stop acting like there are no consequences after actions.

    • @abbie_joan
      @abbie_joan Рік тому +81

      yep, she took absolutely no precautions even if she didn't care about getting pregnant she was still super irresponsible and being way too trusting that the guys she's with are clean or that she's clean

    • @sin3358
      @sin3358 Рік тому +19

      I agree. Especially when you're fed up with it

    • @dogski2822
      @dogski2822 Рік тому +38

      If she perhaps wasn’t properly educated on their importance, or she couldn’t access contraceptives for financial issues or something like that, it would be different. However, context seems to imply the opposite: she was fully aware of the risks she was taking and got unlucky, which is her own fault and she needs to accept it.

    • @Wolfylink
      @Wolfylink Рік тому +12

      @@dogski2822 yea she was gonna be a lawyer? Very well informed

    • @islagurney3272
      @islagurney3272 Рік тому +10

      I 100% agree, if I was in the same situation with a friend I'd honestly say the exact same thing.

  • @rmdcade1717
    @rmdcade1717 2 роки тому +201

    "I'm a plumber. She's an engineer." Editors throwing their own shade with those overlays

  • @dragu_la
    @dragu_la Рік тому +310

    100% agree with Noah on the pregnancy one. if you're upset about getting pregnant after doing it multiple times without protection... yeah. she brought that on herself LOL

    • @chantlirmccorvy4180
      @chantlirmccorvy4180 Рік тому +31

      Exactly she literally f*cked around and found out

    • @KingOfGaymes
      @KingOfGaymes 11 місяців тому +10

      Legit like what did she expect 😭

  • @bexxa4837
    @bexxa4837 2 роки тому +17

    First girl must not know that some parents trust their kids with cards. Especially rich parents

  • @littlepirat1
    @littlepirat1 2 роки тому +131

    The guy with the pregnant wife is an absolute asshole and Alan is a sweetheart, he was considerate and tried to fix it 🥪💕

  • @Claireannette77
    @Claireannette77 Рік тому +304

    The breast reduction was hilarious and they can get over it lol

    • @chickennoodlesoup3301
      @chickennoodlesoup3301 Рік тому +17

      Yeah I really don't think there was that big of a problem. Even though I personally don't get the humour in it it's not as bad as they're making it seem. I think it would've been a problem is he acted like it was the worst thing in the world. Like if he was angry or upset about it, or overtly happy. THAT would have been bad. But he didn't, he just sent a photo of a gravestone LMAO.

    • @megan9377
      @megan9377 Рік тому +14

      also just a super weird message to send in a classmates group chat in the first place

    • @drea94
      @drea94 Рік тому +19

      If the girl herself was offended, that's her business and she has every right to feel that way. Idk why others in the gc were getting mad on her behalf unless she said she felt uncomfortable.

    • @Claireannette77
      @Claireannette77 Рік тому

      @@drea94 🪦

    • @galarstar052
      @galarstar052 Рік тому +8

      @@drea94 in fairness she did already make a similar joke herself, getting mad at someone for joking in the exact same way she did would be unreasonable.

  • @AJFilms14
    @AJFilms14 2 роки тому +48

    15:10 I kind of feel like this is body shaming in my opinion. Imagine if a woman was asked to put on a sweater because you can see the silhouette of her boobs. Once I was asked to put a shirt on at the gym because my midriff was showing and I think that’s fucking crazy lol.

    • @DaHolyCanadian
      @DaHolyCanadian 2 роки тому +6

      Thats what I was thinking, as long as people are not trying to show it off like they said and they are just minding their business then everyone else should mine their business, no need to stare. Most sports wear is tight when it comes to the gym anyways, at least thats what most people wear now, its far more comfortable

    • @DarkKnightTrinity
      @DarkKnightTrinity 2 роки тому +4

      I mean, compression shorts are pretty much underwear. It's not the same at all. Most gyms specifically have policies to cover genitals completely as well. And pretty much everywhere. If it's bulging out, it's not covered at all.

    • @AJFilms14
      @AJFilms14 2 роки тому +6

      DarkKnightTrinity You’re not wrong. Idk I have mixed thoughts about it. Usually people wear shorts over them don’t they, but I can’t help but compare it to wearing sports bras by themselves.

    • @VeginMatt
      @VeginMatt 2 роки тому +2

      I don't know how small compression shorts are but I figure as long as the privates are covered and not touching equipment then it's all good. Wear what will help you maintain a healthy lifestyle best.
      People who are easily offended by the sight of others bulging body parts....probably shouldn't be going to gyms.

    • @AJFilms14
      @AJFilms14 2 роки тому

      MsMatt yeah see that’s how I feel about it, I bet there’s plenty of camel toe going on too.

  • @MelanieKingdom
    @MelanieKingdom 2 роки тому +245

    Have to say I disagree with Shayne on the last one. I don't think the guy in the last one's an asshole. But, mostly, because I'm in his same situation, kind of.
    Growing up, and for the rest of my life, I share a birthday with my twin sister, and we share our "party" with our Mom, whose birthday is 5 days later. I love my sister, and I love my mom, but I actually cried when I got a birthday cake with just my name on it last year.
    Unfortunately, this guy has never gotten to get a day just for himself since it falls on Christmas. And, like they sort of touched upon, at this age his kids don't give a shit about Christmas. Yeah, have some Christmas gift opening in the morning. But once it's done, let the man play his COD and celebrate himself. Everyone deserves to be a bit selfish on their birthday.

    • @Irishrebel092
      @Irishrebel092 2 роки тому +38

      this. I honestly hope his wife or friends have at some point ignored that it was charismas and just gotten him a birthday gift and/or card.

    • @DatFrenchBoi
      @DatFrenchBoi 2 роки тому +15

      I agree with you, he's really not an asshole.

    • @bitteralmonds2614
      @bitteralmonds2614 2 роки тому +23

      Honestly as long as he spends time with the kids until they eventually crash and sleep I don’t see a problem

    • @DynastyFade
      @DynastyFade 2 роки тому +17

      Yeee, I don't think he's an asshole. With no other context, he and his wife should've had an easy compromise here. There's just not enough information. It's strange that his wife had such a strong reaction (throwing his xbox outside) so I'm assuming that gaming has been a strain on their relationship rofl.

    • @Konpekikaminari
      @Konpekikaminari 2 роки тому

      in a rare twist, he's probably much less an asshole than he made himself sound like

  • @parisfelton614
    @parisfelton614 2 роки тому +24

    I agree with Noah, talk shit get hit! 😂😂 Don't play about being pregnant than ball your eyes out when it actually happens 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @TyliesHoe
    @TyliesHoe 2 роки тому +5

    15:36 NTA, us women always complain about men at the gym looking at us and judging what we wear but it's okay for us to do it them? The double standard. Don't look at the moose knuckle if it makes you uncomfortable 🙄

  • @goncalobernardes7896
    @goncalobernardes7896 2 роки тому +62

    I love these AITA episodes, keep bringing them!

  • @charlessimmons223
    @charlessimmons223 Рік тому +6

    Double homicide is probably Ian's funniest joke ever.

  • @faithmoreno1142
    @faithmoreno1142 Рік тому +6

    So my little (adoptive) sister’s mom was a close friend of my mom and was chronically pregnant. She always lost her mind when she would find out. Four times she went through with the pregnancy and at least three times she took the little abortion pill thing and made a big deal out of “why does this keep happening” and eventually my mom just had to say “you know why this keeps happening and there are ways to keep it from happening instead of letting it happen and then getting upset” so personally, while I do think the girl in the story could have worded it better, I don’t think she’s the a hole.

  • @kitkat6442
    @kitkat6442 2 роки тому +11

    I want to see more Noah and Jackie!!! I would also like to see Damien react to some!!! This is literally the perfect thing for Noah to shine bc he always has a unique perspective and says whatever he thinks in the most comedic way, even if it isn’t the most favorable thing. So if everyone else is busy, at least have Noah on bc it’s guaranteed content gold 🤣🤣🤣

  • @mythelven7603
    @mythelven7603 2 роки тому +15

    This series is so much fun! Please do more! I honestly love Alan, he’s a Legend.😌👌🏼He was being reasonable in the end even offering to buy food for everyone.

  • @pecanpistachio1052
    @pecanpistachio1052 2 роки тому +1

    Whenever you reach out for an apology, stuff like, "I'll apologize of it makes you feel better" or "it sounds like you need a resolution more than I do" that person truly does not care about how you feel. Or about what they did.

  • @mr.adrian867
    @mr.adrian867 Рік тому +7

    The way Ian just casually said double homicide is so funny

  • @adun336
    @adun336 Рік тому +2

    I love how absolutely unhinged Noah is in the episode, would love to see him on future episodes

  • @AlecDouglas
    @AlecDouglas 2 роки тому +7

    That sandwich story has to be one of the funniest things I've ever heard

  • @Kat-pr9nv
    @Kat-pr9nv 6 місяців тому

    For the story where the woman who sold her friend's art- the friend didn't have access to an art gallery where people were willing to pay those prices, op had access to that resource already

  • @FBI_42069
    @FBI_42069 2 роки тому +1

    That friend is in the wrong for sure.
    If Purchaser sells the Artwork, Purchaser shall pay to Artist a resale royalty of 5-10 percent of the amount of such sale, as required by the Resale Royalties Act if they were in California but in every other state
    You are allowed to copy anything you want. A copy of an artwork may not be sold, publicized or published unless the owner of the copyright has given permission. Furthermore, it is illegal for an original work of art to be published and sold. so what that friend did is completely illegal and she could sue him/her for infringement of copyright knowing she made it she has the copyright for it and she clearly did not give him/her permission to sell it and know that friend is refusing to give her the money from that sale not only is he/her commiting theft but on top of that he/her is commiting copyright infringement.
    With artworks or paintings, it remains with the artist unless they sign it over to the new owner of the painting. Buying the physical painting does not give someone copyright of the painting; you (or your agent) have to transfer copyright to the new owner in writing.

  • @jhandle900
    @jhandle900 2 роки тому +10

    I love that you guys are releasing these as videos! I could never make the stream with my schedule so this is awesome 😁

  • @possumbly8045
    @possumbly8045 2 роки тому +2

    oh my goodness, noah is such- wow, he just articulately explained the artist part. i love this series!

  • @benis9965
    @benis9965 2 роки тому +7

    noah is A FUCKING LEGEND LET HIM BE HERE MORE OFTEN PLSSSSS

  • @Nyx_the_Dragon18
    @Nyx_the_Dragon18 2 роки тому +4

    The one with Alan and the sandwich, the only person who we know for sure that was upset was the girlfriend. As no one else seemed to care about the sandwich at the party, it makes me wonder how if the sister who texted him lied about everyone being upset

    • @erikbrownla
      @erikbrownla 2 роки тому +1

      Also, what did she mean by get his shit together? Not eat food??

  • @Turtle_Inc
    @Turtle_Inc Рік тому +2

    16:00 i don't know why this even needs to get discussed. If there was a woman who was nipping through her sports bra, you would be an asshole if you went up and said "hey, you gonna put a shirt on?" It's the same exact thing. Just puts in perspective how men are viewed though. (Shane going, "well as long as he didn't do these things") why are they being scrutinized more?

  • @tannerc43
    @tannerc43 2 роки тому +3

    I feel so bad for that guy having his birthday on Christmas 😂 the wife needs to understand that you can’t mess with COD TIME WITH THE BOYSSSSSSSS

  • @DavidsWeirdMedia
    @DavidsWeirdMedia 2 роки тому +4

    There needs to be an episode with Ian and Noah together.

  • @montypython203
    @montypython203 2 роки тому +1

    As someone who is quite slender but loves food, I'm totes behind Alan - wait for a bit of time to pass, then if the sub's still there then dig in. I might have stopped prior to 3 feet, but the same might not be said of my husband...

  • @greghawkins59
    @greghawkins59 Рік тому +2

    Ok but I love the first person, glad they got that girl to spend her own money rather than her dads 😂

    • @siaantimoney9621
      @siaantimoney9621 Рік тому

      Is it really that big of a deal? It’s none of your business people need to mind their own fucking business away from people’s lives and what they do.

  • @cindieagle2008
    @cindieagle2008 Рік тому

    T the host had was almost spot on. I helped start our local gallery stemming from our local arts council and in our case the percentage was 80%[artist]-20%[gallery]. Of course the fair price is to be determined by involved parties in a cafe/coffee shop arrangement. My 2 cents is merely to brace this new artist for expectations vs negotiations. Do your due diligence before business.

  • @CrystalNibarger
    @CrystalNibarger 2 роки тому

    Okay the music in the background of the first story is that the Candy Mountain song from Charlie the Unicorn?
    Also you are correct most cashiers don't even look at the card anymore and most of the time we don't get paid enough to care.

  • @mariasoto1837
    @mariasoto1837 Рік тому

    Is the rule to NBTAH is
    1. You offer to rectify.
    2. You go out of your way and it's not appreciated/ acknowledged.
    3. You did not provoke or insult with malicious intent.
    4. You had good intentions and their was clearly rude/to insult/ignore.

  • @UnicornzRreal92
    @UnicornzRreal92 Рік тому +2

    This whole episode almost was people that DONT KNOW HOW TO MIND THEY OWN DAMN BUSINESS 🙄🙄

  • @vindifference
    @vindifference Рік тому

    I swear people's mindsets just be getting in their own way. Like how do these people end up in situations where their own wants just clash with what they've done in life?
    Doesn't like pampering pregnant wife; has 4 kids.
    Wants to spend Xmas playing CoD; has a wife and kids.
    Guys...figure yourselves out.

  • @localmenace3043
    @localmenace3043 Місяць тому +2

    Nobody actually gives a shit if people come in with their parents’ cards. I’ve shopped with my parent’s card so many times and nobody cares. Like, if she said it’s because her dad gets the points, she should’ve just dropped the issue. Card Narc needs to learn how to mind her damn business.

  • @NaudVanDalen
    @NaudVanDalen 2 роки тому

    "I do chores sometimes, so I'm also pregnant."

  • @mads4457
    @mads4457 2 роки тому +1

    shayne: macy’s
    ian: yeah, macy’s (small laugh)

  • @AveryXIII
    @AveryXIII 2 роки тому

    The courtroom background edit really brought me back to the days of Smosh & Order

  • @hails1136
    @hails1136 11 місяців тому

    the first story is so mind boggling... has OP never considered that people just don't do the same things as them? OP also sounds absolutely insufferable

  • @colton8269
    @colton8269 2 роки тому +9

    "We will do anything you tell us to do." Try to get Anthony back for at least one vid or make a vid about trying to get him in one

    • @kylekinsey2624
      @kylekinsey2624 2 роки тому +1

      I was really hoping he would be in the interviewing Ian's exes video.

  • @supafunkytown1439
    @supafunkytown1439 2 роки тому

    God if I was Allen, I’d never go to a party of theirs again 💀

  • @caffeinatedkatie4696
    @caffeinatedkatie4696 Рік тому

    I gotta say NTA for the COD dude. He just wants to play some games with his bros on his birthday.

  • @MicDropOfficial
    @MicDropOfficial Рік тому

    Ian: FOURTH CHILD!!! Me: being the oldest of seven.....

  • @SteveSampsonMusic
    @SteveSampsonMusic 2 роки тому

    It's so good watching these live but the videos are great too. Glad my 2 gravestones comment made the edit hahaha

  • @ashashaya7353
    @ashashaya7353 2 роки тому

    I literally just wanna give Alan a hug u feel so bad

  • @avsambart
    @avsambart Рік тому +2

    I agree with the pregnancy shaming one. I'd have the same reaction of "well you brought this on yourself". Call me an a-hole but I stand by it.

  • @CheyTozzi
    @CheyTozzi 2 роки тому +2

    Please never stop doing these 😂😂

  • @slickricky769
    @slickricky769 2 роки тому

    As an Artist myself, I do not think that OP is the A... OP warned her friend about the value of her artwork, the artist friend did not listen, and was perfectly happy with the prize she sold it for...

  • @Matthy1995
    @Matthy1995 2 роки тому

    Man, I've been watching smosh for about a decade and still sooooo happy that Ian still just comes at us with his politically incorrect and insensitive humor. Lot of respect to you man, we need more people like you

  • @pandapuffzee8255
    @pandapuffzee8255 Рік тому

    The girl had enough on a card to buy it herself as a teen. Her dad would not GAF

  • @annec8127
    @annec8127 6 місяців тому

    Shayne: "Ian!" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @becca53444
    @becca53444 Рік тому

    COD guy needs to just celebrate his birthday on a different day. That’s what most adults do when our birthday is on a weekday.

  • @FBelletati
    @FBelletati Рік тому

    Listening your comments is great because then I notice that sometimes I'm too understanding and forgiving with people who are actually huge a-holes

  • @laylamarch3810
    @laylamarch3810 2 роки тому +2

    lol Shaynes hands at 0:18

  • @Galiant2010
    @Galiant2010 2 роки тому +15

    I love how Noah gets into the nuanced technicalities and won't make straight up yes or no answers to people being assholes. That's my biggest issue with AITA subreddit. Too many people go all in on one side or the other without acknowledging the mistakes made on both sides.

    • @mavisanya6969
      @mavisanya6969 2 роки тому +4

      "the problem with the subreddit where the entire point is to take a side, is that people take sides" 💀

  • @squeaky_moths
    @squeaky_moths 2 роки тому +7

    I've had it before where we were on vacation and my grandmother gave me her card to grab alcohol for the trip. The store still wouldnt let me use it despite me being well over 21 and sharing the same last name. And I'm a literal fucking cop lol

  • @angelomordini6779
    @angelomordini6779 2 роки тому

    0:25 oh yeah? DO A FLIP- anyone 🤣

  • @bigred1502
    @bigred1502 2 роки тому

    6:33 as a man that grew up in an Later day saint household, me and my 4 brothers can confirm this stereo type to be true, as we were a smaller family in our ward growing up

  • @nevermindmeijustinjectedaw9988

    pregnancy one: i'd LOVE to just have to prepare some foot baths and go shopping for my wife wtf...the puking sounds way worse

  • @yohxannaforever1
    @yohxannaforever1 2 роки тому +3

    You sometimes really need a friend like Noah who would tell you how it really is. Keeps you humbled 😂

  • @tonythejessiemuellerstan9426

    Imagine if a man walked up to a woman in the gym and told her to put a shirt because she had a low cut shirt. Everyone would lose their shit and say he was sexually harassing her. Enough with the double standards

  • @brett8259
    @brett8259 Рік тому

    With the artwork story, I think it comes down to how you define an asshole. Did they legally do anything bad? No, they had every right to do that. But were they an asshole on a personal level? Yeah, kinda. It makes your friend feel less like you bought the pieces because you cared about them and more that you did so to make a profit and prove a point.

  • @danwg3368
    @danwg3368 2 роки тому

    Noah is the best person to have commenting on AItA posts

  • @onygma
    @onygma 2 роки тому +1

    'damn, double homicide' had me laughing for a whole minute god

  • @sourwitch2340
    @sourwitch2340 5 днів тому

    4:13 what's wild is that there's a moment where she mentions the cashier agreeing with her, but then the rest of the story this cashier who's a major part of the interaction does nothing in her telling of it.

  • @hotsexyangel
    @hotsexyangel Рік тому +1

    About the pregnancy shaming one: was your friend irresponsible? Yes. Does that give you the right to be a jerk to them when they’re going through a hard time? Absolutely not. They could’ve comforted their friend and later gently mentioned that they should be more careful in the future. They could’ve not been the asshole if they just handled the situation better. ALSO, let’s remember abortion is traumatizing. It’s one of the hardest things pregnant people have to go through if they don’t want their kid. It’s not an easy or light task by any means. Being so insensitive to your friends crisis is so icky. Yes, they were irresponsible but you’re their friend, don’t be a jerk.

  • @thobsss
    @thobsss 2 роки тому +4

    "Light black man" is so funny to me. The husband is lightskinned... not light black

    • @jessicap.8114
      @jessicap.8114 2 роки тому

      I think that's being pretty picky about wording. If someone just said lightskinned I would think white. They were probably just trying to be clear.

  • @smeyely
    @smeyely Рік тому

    You smoke cigarettes and get cancer... "what did you expect???" Them: 🫨

  • @citrus-eater
    @citrus-eater 2 роки тому +2177

    “Double homicide” literally hit me right in the face, the delivery was so good.

    • @MisaKeiJune
      @MisaKeiJune Рік тому +26

      In the face? So like....Did it motorboat you or-? 😅

    • @hotsexyangel
      @hotsexyangel Рік тому

      YAS misogyny is so funny 😍😍

    • @J.Blazer
      @J.Blazer 5 місяців тому +1

      Shayne missed his "hat trick" joke

  • @rachelharris2962
    @rachelharris2962 2 роки тому +5418

    Poor Alan, I feel bad for the dude. It sounds like he was trying to fix it but the person just wanted to make it into a problem. I hope he's doing okay.

    • @RoKer13
      @RoKer13 2 роки тому +340

      She literally turned everyone against him, she’s the asshole in the situation lol

    • @sarahh4537
      @sarahh4537 2 роки тому +687

      Alan needs better friends.

    • @whateverworksmate.721
      @whateverworksmate.721 2 роки тому +646

      They really blew it out of proportion. Should've just laughed it off and let him order the pizza. Jeez.

    • @opiemurray
      @opiemurray 2 роки тому +146

      You've really gotta read his replies in that thread. He, uh, does not come off well.

    • @becauseimafan
      @becauseimafan 2 роки тому +47

      @@opiemurray Ohh, I see. Yeah imma go read that

  • @JahlisMan
    @JahlisMan 2 роки тому +8039

    I'm actually impressed with Noah's takes. this just once again confirms to me that he's a very practical and honest guy. he'll say it like it is, even if some may think it's harsh. I respect that:)

    • @pearlygirl88
      @pearlygirl88 2 роки тому +43

      Same.

    • @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181
      @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181 2 роки тому +100

      It's that Yaweh blood. We speak plainly, and hold no licks. People often need to be reminded of the most base of truths in this era of babylon.

    • @Critical_Cabbage
      @Critical_Cabbage 2 роки тому +93

      This video made me like Noah even more

    • @lexmcdufflepants4332
      @lexmcdufflepants4332 2 роки тому +128

      He knows when you should be honest and when you should shut up. I like that about him.

    • @hadinasrallah8928
      @hadinasrallah8928 2 роки тому +45

      yeah now i know where those sudden burns come from lmao noah is such a legend beneath the quirky hair

  • @la4251
    @la4251 2 роки тому +1254

    The "We're pregnant"-guy (6:03) sounds like such a great guy, HE can even bear LISTENING to the sound of his wife puking her guts out, wow...

    • @mothl.9709
      @mothl.9709 Рік тому +5

      Is this real?💀

    • @elizabethannuk
      @elizabethannuk Рік тому +94

      ​@@mothl.9709 They are clearly being sarcastic

    • @crownclowncreations
      @crownclowncreations Рік тому +24

      @@himenyx153 I mean, yeah, many people on the Autism spectrum have a really hard time with things like sarcasm. But it's not like it's their fault. That's why people sometimes use indicators like /s (sarcastic) and /j (joking). Even neurotypical people can misread sarcasm when it's written out instead of spoken.

    • @itsOZone
      @itsOZone Рік тому

      yea i couldnt imagine how hard it is for neuro divergent people when its p hard to tell in general@@crownclowncreations

    • @littlefirecracker1289
      @littlefirecracker1289 Рік тому +7

      I can't imagine how hard it must be for him, my thoughts out to the poor hero

  • @thejaneplane
    @thejaneplane 2 роки тому +2780

    Noah's opinions on morality are wild journeys from start to finish

    • @victorious8315
      @victorious8315 2 роки тому +58

      His really dark sense of humor and being a bully of the Smosh makes him ideal person to comment if someone is actually an asshole

    • @pearlygirl88
      @pearlygirl88 2 роки тому +231

      I was 100% on board with Noah’s take on the irresponsible pregnant friend. That being said, I had a similar situation and said something similar. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Practice safe sex people.

    • @CrazyAuna94
      @CrazyAuna94 2 роки тому +70

      But I totally agree with Noah 100%...

    • @renatal.129
      @renatal.129 2 роки тому +66

      @@pearlygirl88 yeah and the person respected their friend too, they didn't say it to her when she was panicking, only when she was joking about her own situation

    • @JeremyTheGraten
      @JeremyTheGraten 2 роки тому +16

      They seem sensible and straightforward to me.

  • @IAmZamber
    @IAmZamber 2 роки тому +2103

    MOREEEEEE! MOREEEEE …. Please. These are so fun and I love hearing the cast’s opinions. I would even love a ‘game show’ type format to guess what level of assholeness that twitch chat gave the post. It’s so addictive to watch this

    • @BoredomSeemingly
      @BoredomSeemingly 2 роки тому +2

      Yess

    • @balyss4833
      @balyss4833 2 роки тому +7

      OMG I did not expect to see you here!!! ❤️

    • @20Tresten
      @20Tresten 2 роки тому +1

      Trueeee, but deff need the Shayne and Jackie Synergy. Was so gold in the first time they did this

    • @jakekunz5168
      @jakekunz5168 2 роки тому +1

      can i double like this

    • @Official_Rz
      @Official_Rz 2 роки тому +1

      I'm sorry but your channel is literally just reaction content, posting entire full episodes of anime with nothing to add. I can't respect that.

  • @sharkbait3944
    @sharkbait3944 2 роки тому +2214

    I love this series!! Dude with the pregnant wife is an absolute asshole and for sure deserves some kind of karma

    • @eggiene
      @eggiene 2 роки тому +164

      ikr he was like "it's so annoying to go to the store to get snacks" like bitch that's the BARE minimum. it's literally an excuse for u to get food too. this guy doesn't understand how difficult pregnancy is.

    • @FightForRyu
      @FightForRyu 2 роки тому +59

      I second that.. she must really love kids and be a Beast! Cause i def wouldnt be able to handle having more kids with a man like that haha

    • @erinbirdyy
      @erinbirdyy 2 роки тому +20

      Like I cannot allow myself to believe that that was a true story. Sounds like some purposefully fishing for rage.

    • @eggiene
      @eggiene 2 роки тому +14

      @@erinbirdyy unfortunately there are some real asshole husbands that treat their wife like shit even if she’s pregnant

    • @atalacus43
      @atalacus43 2 роки тому

      I was going to like, but it's at 666. I agree with you.

  • @Scrofar
    @Scrofar 2 роки тому +1593

    As an artist, I have nothing but respect for Noah. He explained the most ideal transaction process so cleary while keeping his stand perfectly balanced and neutral. Not only a comedic genius, but he is a well-spoken individual.

    • @AtomicFlounder42
      @AtomicFlounder42 Рік тому +47

      I expected Noah to be angry artist's about it, but he told it how it is, they bought, with money, the prints, it is there's now to do whatever they want with it, unless they signed something that said they're not allowed to resell

    • @kaitlynmorgan4613
      @kaitlynmorgan4613 Рік тому +5

      it isnt neutral to say one or the other is the AH lol

    • @artorhen
      @artorhen Рік тому +7

      Actually, it is illegal to buy and sell copies of prints if the original belongs to the artist or the art print contains copyrighted material. If he bought the original and sold prints of it then it would be fine.

    • @MiroDaisuke
      @MiroDaisuke Рік тому +32

      ​@Rhen I think you might be talking about prints like printing someone's art from the internet and selling that? But I'm pretty sure if the artist sells you a print you're allowed to sell that forward. You're not allowed to make copies of it and sell those, sure, but the actual print you have, you can sell. Compare it to buying a book. If I buy a book from a bookstore, I can't make copies of the book and sell them, but I can sell the actual copy I own for whatever price I and the buyer agree on.

    • @artorhen
      @artorhen Рік тому +4

      @@MiroDaisuke yes, that is what I said. In the video, it sounded like he mentioned that he made copies of the prints. Also, it's fine to resell the prints so long as you don't buy them and resell them for more as a business. Either way, it's not the smartest demonstration and if he were to continue doing it, it would become a legal problem.

  • @bluedreamkush2392
    @bluedreamkush2392 2 роки тому +693

    Imagine being ostracized from your friend group and potentially not being friends with them anymore because you ate sandwiches. Sheesh. I mean, 3 foot is a lot to eat but is it serious enough to not talk to the person because it ruined that one night? Damn, I would stop being their friends if that’s all it took to distance themselves from me.

    • @paigethedork9693
      @paigethedork9693 Рік тому +89

      "it's from a friends work place" which means you got it CHEAPER, right?? so the dudes offering to spend up to double the amount to replace the food and got refused, and that sandwich was sitting out for hours at that point. if he didn't eat it no one would have. i'm calling it that the girl only asked because it was gone, i doubt she would have eaten any/much of it. best guess, was that she'd have put it in the fridge so SHE could eat the last of it over the next couple of days.
      extremely petty thing for the friend group to kick him out over.

    • @SymphoSyrup
      @SymphoSyrup 8 місяців тому +7

      Idk. If I have guests over, and someone really likes the food, it makes me happy. He sounded like a good guy anyway; it’s not like he maliciously scarfed the thing down lmao.

  • @Lilalien1994
    @Lilalien1994 2 роки тому +2266

    I agree with Noah, there’s reality and there’s human feelings.

    • @RokkaBillie
      @RokkaBillie 2 роки тому +64

      It's a huge problem that we have, that people tend to react more than just think rationally. Like instead of people taking accountability and understanding themselves and their mistakes they instead would rather shift blame onto someone and be victim to it all.

    • @elianjoensen2756
      @elianjoensen2756 2 роки тому +38

      I mean you can do things like that, but then you’re gonna have to weigh 300 dollars against your friend. I personally think a compromise would have been the best solution. the situation really depends on what their financial situation is.

    • @inste10300
      @inste10300 2 роки тому +73

      For the artist one it's more morality and legality. The redditor went behind the artist's back to prove a point and make money when they could've just told them about the coffee shop. They took advantage of their friend's insecurity as an artist instead of encouraging the friend. The artist should do what Noah said to grow their business but they absolutely should not stay friends.

    • @goose6619
      @goose6619 2 роки тому +2

      And it usually ends with a lot of people thinking one person is in the wrong when in reality they are the ones in the wrong

    • @CedricBassman
      @CedricBassman 2 роки тому +57

      @@inste10300
      How did the Redditor took advantage?
      They told their Friend that the Price could go even higher, but fell on deaf ears. They then proceeded to buy the Art for the Price the Artist was apparently very comfortable with. Not their fault if they resell something they bought for a higher Price.
      The Artist has no business being mad or demanding Money. If a Friend seriously tries to help you make even more money and you ignore him, you lose the right to be mad if he takes the opportunity instead. And it's not like the Redditor stole the Art, they paid the price the Artist saw fit apparently.

  • @teeheehello9019
    @teeheehello9019 2 роки тому +1924

    The sandwich one upsets me so much. If they genuinely cared about this guy's food issues, they wouldn't berate him. This guy has likely experienced a lot of this stuff in his life, he shouldn't have to cop it from friends :(

    • @elianjoensen2756
      @elianjoensen2756 2 роки тому +160

      yeah, texting him saying all that shit after too!? it was a sandwich!!! no, but in all seriousness, they are all probably 16 (no more than 17) with his twin sister talking about how he embarrased himself. alternatively: it’s fake.

    • @23RAD
      @23RAD 2 роки тому +112

      It was sad that he was AWARE that he was in fact a TOKEN friend,thats says a lot of a dynamics in a group,and the story tells a bit what kind of friends they are to him...its just sandwich

    • @dontmisunderstand6041
      @dontmisunderstand6041 2 роки тому +48

      He even admits that they're not actually his friends in the post, they're just people who tolerate him.

    • @evin3806
      @evin3806 2 роки тому +16

      Yeah. I imagine they would have reacted differently if the guy who ate it were hot

    • @_owiee_
      @_owiee_ 2 роки тому +46

      As an overweight man bullied most of my life for food stuff, this comment right here sums it up the best.

  • @notinurpocket
    @notinurpocket 2 роки тому +696

    the cashier card one is so dumb. you dont know that kid or their parents relationship. if its in the 4 digit the parents will notice that and if its a problem it will be dealt with in private. god what a freak.

    • @freethemg1
      @freethemg1 2 роки тому +93

      Fr that lady is insane

    • @Kanjo_Bazooie
      @Kanjo_Bazooie 2 роки тому +73

      Right? And then to type all that out looking for someone to agree with her lmao.

    • @notinurpocket
      @notinurpocket 2 роки тому +85

      @@Kanjo_Bazooie that whole situation is embarrassing and after both the cashier AND HER OWN HUSBAND making her feel like an asshole (which she is) she should’ve kept that to herself and maybe think twice about getting into other peoples business that is not harming her/anyone else.

    • @Kanjo_Bazooie
      @Kanjo_Bazooie 2 роки тому +42

      @@notinurpocket I know. I honestly think this lady just has no self awareness. It almost makes it excuseable, but then when you really think about it, it makes it worse 😂. There is no hope for this lady

    • @freethemg1
      @freethemg1 2 роки тому +48

      @@Kanjo_Bazooie I like how she tries to play it off like she has empathy for the other parent or some shit like she's not the exact type of lady to flip the fuck out if someone else tried to parent her kids.

  • @FeFeVtuber
    @FeFeVtuber 2 роки тому +323

    “We’ll do whatever you tell us to do” IN THAT CASE shayne when’s the DoorDash version of eat it or yeet it lol

    • @dest-125
      @dest-125 2 роки тому +2

      Oh, hi FeFe

    • @dantesilvesta
      @dantesilvesta 2 роки тому +2

      That dude really got some intense taste buds we neeed moaaaar

  • @madisonkay46
    @madisonkay46 Рік тому +129

    As someone who’s birthday is on Christmas, the last guy was NTA… He deserves to enjoy his birthday. They can open presents in the morning and then he can play with his friends.

    • @alijd6287
      @alijd6287 Рік тому +33

      there was also an update where op shared that for much of his life , chrismas was spent going to church for 12 hours then getting maybe a pair of socks for a present. and that he was planning on gaming at like 12 which like in my experience after 12, unless you have something planned, christmas day is doing a whole lot of nothing and playing with toys you just got lol but as long as he helped his wife clean up, i agree. NTA

    • @cierrad1
      @cierrad1 10 місяців тому +17

      Yeah. A holiday birthday thats about everyone else BUT you tends to wear on your spirit a bit.

  • @Sharpino1990
    @Sharpino1990 2 роки тому +612

    I think this is what this channel needed: a shot of realism and comedy fused together. Love Eat it or Yeet it and TNTL but this just makes everyone seem more human, by their reactions to real-life scenarios. Very funny and will continue to watch this.

    • @EliasMorals
      @EliasMorals 2 роки тому +7

      Same!!! Even if this isn't the most popular series on here, I will 100% watch these!

    • @caitlinwilliams3707
      @caitlinwilliams3707 2 роки тому +1

      the twitch is so good to see them more casually- i love it

    • @evin3806
      @evin3806 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah. I used to listen to their podcast where they talk about personal stuff but they don't do that anymore. I like this series cause we get to see their more normal side and learn more about the cast

  • @freethemg1
    @freethemg1 2 роки тому +612

    Bro I thought the pregnancy guy was gonna have like bigger complaints to make us see his side but go to the store and run a foot bath? That's like the most basic shit that any pregnant lady would ask for...

    • @Just-Michael
      @Just-Michael 2 роки тому +99

      Easy advice for that guy is stop having god damn kids. XD

    • @chaoticallyneutral5043
      @chaoticallyneutral5043 2 роки тому +140

      also "i can deal with her puking in the morning" is such a flag to me
      idk why

    • @sebbychanforever
      @sebbychanforever 2 роки тому +127

      @@chaoticallyneutral5043 it's def a flag because he's indirectly complaining about something she literally can't control and is hard for her to endure as if it were something trivial

    • @lexmcdufflepants4332
      @lexmcdufflepants4332 2 роки тому +43

      Exactly... I can see it being too much if she is like asking for a store run EVERY DAY cuz you do have to realize that even if you're pregnant, the world shouldn't run to your whim, but I didn't quite get that vibe. He doesn't even cook (you can tell from the complaining about meatloaf for the third time). A foot bath isn't hard. My dad runs a bath for my mom before she gets home so she can relax, and she isn't even pregnant! He "works harder" (not really) and still actively loves my mom. OP needs to learn how to love through action to help regrow some of that real love for the lady birthing their freaking fourth kid.

    • @codynoth4183
      @codynoth4183 2 роки тому +1

      @@chaoticallyneutral5043 Because it was designed as a troll post to showcase how quick people are to excuse women for anything period even though he dropped plenty of hints that he was in an emotionally abusive relationship but no one picked up on those signs.

  • @Cfinch1792
    @Cfinch1792 2 роки тому +412

    Ian’s “Okay, Latter-Day Saint” made me laugh so hard. I felt called out but he isn’t wrong, haha

    • @sebbychanforever
      @sebbychanforever 2 роки тому +23

      as someone with three siblings, I feel like 4 kids isn't THAT many lol Do most people consider 4 to be a lot? I would say thinking about giving birth 4 times seems like a lot, but just thinking of 4 kids isn't

    • @BluefrostOfSageclan
      @BluefrostOfSageclan 2 роки тому +11

      My sister in law has 6 kids. And omg I feel like that's a LOT of kids! But it's pretty normal as a Latter Day Saint! Out of the norm here with just 2.

    • @stevenclark5173
      @stevenclark5173 2 роки тому +13

      @@sebbychanforever I would say 4 is bordering on a lot. Like 7 or 8 is clearly too many. Even if they are spread out there's no way those kids are going to get enough attention and care. Older siblings will likely be forced into the responsibility of partially raising them. 5 or 6 is kinda the grey area where it depends on the situation.

    • @abbyg5794
      @abbyg5794 2 роки тому +12

      @@sebbychanforever i think it was more a matter of them already having 4 kids at 27 and 28, which is pretty young

    • @ColFlustered
      @ColFlustered 2 роки тому

      @@stevenclark5173 I came from a blended family with 6 children. My parents got married and didn't want any more kids, then I showed up. 🙃 6 kids is fairly normal for a mormon family and especially considering we're blended so my mom only gave birth to 4. While there are lots of families who give plenty of love to this many kids, I can confirm I felt pretty given up on while growing up. I mean, there's a lot that went into feeling not cared for, but the amount of kids really wasn't the issue.

  • @charlieharteg5935
    @charlieharteg5935 2 роки тому +178

    The one about the sandwich guy is so upsetting. I'm a big guy who's been big his entire life and has been ridiculed for it on many occasions. Fat shaming does nothing to help anyone. That GF and the twin are the assholes. Stay strong alan

    • @thaloblue
      @thaloblue Рік тому +17

      Seriously! The fatshaming was so egregious and hurtful. I'm not big but I wouldn't accept my friends being spoken to that way... especially when he offered to resupply more food.

    • @caincosplays
      @caincosplays Рік тому +4

      I too have been shamed for eating too much food in public many times in my life. It’s so embarrassing and upsetting. We’re already embarrassed that we’re still hungry, the fat shaming in his thread was horrific to read.

    • @Lucarioguild7
      @Lucarioguild7 Рік тому +6

      As a fellow big dude, god damn the tracking how long the food has been out with no one touching it is so fucking relatable lol