Tripp: I love your videos and you have been a LOT of help to me since I started watching yours and similar videos and listening to related audio books this past year. Question: what advice/methodology have you used in the past to help men who have Asperger's Syndrome or other issues of Autism Spectrum Disorder? These are men who have ingrained, genetic INABILITIES to interact "correctly" in social environments with both men and women. Thanks!!
It's not an inability. They said I had that as a kid and I was really strange and awkward for years. But social skills can be learned and today I'm basically normal. Just follow the tips and believe you can change. If you don't think you can change in the first place then you're just wasting your time.
David: Thanks for your reply. I'm actually 45 yo and married for almost 16 years now (I consider it a miracle I met this wonderful woman who sticks with me in spite of all my crap). Back in Feb of this year I started watching these videos in order to find a way to become more socially intelligent (not because I'm planning to go pickup girls and cheat on my wife). These videos have done FAR more for me than 13 years of seeing doctors, but I need a lot more. The problem right now is most of my "treatment" is based on my OWN research and not what the docs have done. I believe the best description of my issues since early childhood is Asperger's Syndrome (now just Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)). When I bring this up with docs they don't even want to discuss it and simply tell me I don't fall into that category. I'm simply not buying it - and they can't come up with any other answer to why I have lifelong social interaction issues along with a plethora of related issues (lack of attention, concentration, memory issues, chronic depression, etc.). With my latest LSCW I've certainly brought up the idea that maybe it's not a behavioral health specialist I need, but a life coach similar to Tripp and others in this field to teach me how to properly act in social situations and identify social cues. The videos have helped a lot so far but I need more professional help.
Avoiding the sadness is somewhat needy. Sadness is a part of human life, and I honestly believe the perfect day would constitute some time to cry, as well as time to laugh. Sadness is a part of human life, and the reason they included a sad question was because by going through a sad moment with her, you actually bond much greater than if everything was only happy. A better way to do it would be to ask the last time they cried, and if it was sad you might bond with her or share your own thing, and then before it gets awkward hook it back in by asking "Now when is the last time you cried of joy?" showing that you can handle feeling sadness without it fucking everything up.
I reckon a good one to ask that is similar but different to the treasured memory one, is to ask at what stage of her life was she happiest and wishing that that time would never end. It could be a phase of her life over days/weeks/months/years, or just say over a few minutes while listening to a particular song at a live concert or something like that where it was just an amazing feeling that she wished would never end.
What's the best way to introduce these questions? I'd like an answer if she's wondering why I'd ask these questions. Number 4 and 5 I can imagine some girls not wanting to respond to such a personal question unless the connection's already there.
Nah, they aren't that personal, they don't have to actually tell you anything that's super personal, many girls will be able to come up with a treasured memory that's not too private and the crying one is ok because he said ask about crying due to sheer joy not sadness
#4 is very sneaky! I have always asked something similar to this with a bit of #2 mixed in: "What was the best day of your life?" - it allows you to ask them about all the little details about why it was special and get them back in to that state they were in on the day itself. Really powerful! Don't underestimate it! The followup part you mention is also golden, although I've never tried that. It could be electric if done right.
the way I see it, it's only guys, men, who need to learn how to get a date, how to get a girlfriend, not the other way around, I don't see how women need to learn dating skills when it simply "just happens" for them
Yeah but most girls want something real, not just meaningless one-night stands or fuck buddies. Yes some girls do, and even the kind of girls that are looking for a relationship still like sex too and often have their share of one-night stands...BUT many girls reach a point sooner than later that theyre tired of the fuckboys. They'll never have trouble finding guys that chase them but they WILL have trouble finding guys that are worth their time in the long run. In other words, girls don't need help getting dates but they do need help filtering out the guys that are only interested in one thing.
@@tzuffkretzu6486 she didn't answer directly, and I jz let it flow to whatever she replied. moved to a new topic. Basically not around the question anymore. Basis small talk.
@@wellstang well small talk does not work for long. and when you are gonna ask one of these main questions you should make sure she is up for it, by asking "can i ask you a question?" or you could say "i have been thinking about this for a while now and i still can't figure out what is the best superpower to have" BTW some girls just aren't into some guys so this might be it. i hope this help :)
The problem with the dating coaches is that they focus on attracting females regardless if they're of value to a man or not, they dont focus on screening and qualifying women of value.
Yo Tripp, I said on your another video more magic moves. Wanted let you know that I want more infield breakdowns too. Vince is pretty good at that and I really enjoy that. Thanks.
A lot of these questions are also interestingly tied to the big 5 personality scale. For exacple, if she says the books super power, she's probably interested in ideas, so trait openess (related to creativity & being open to new things), does she not want to be famous? She's low in extraversion if that's true (low in positive emotion & dominance). I recomend you learn the big 5 scale well & find where you fall on it as well, long term relations are made and broken on it.
I was with a check yesterday I've been talking to her for about five months and we finally actually got to hang out and I sort of asked her a question like this I asked her if she can have her dream house what would it look like would it be a castle like a big huge doll house and then I started talkin about the movie blank check where the kid gets the check and puts his own amount on it and by the big ass house she loved it
Tripp, these are good questions to ask women, but my question is how can you tell if they are honest or not? Maybe you can get advice from your girl as well. The last thing I want is a woman not being honest. Keep up the good work.
I’m 14 and I have a girl friend but I want them make her feel like here is nobody else hat will make her as happy as I would I will test these questions out and based on the reasons why these questions work the reason Tripp explained I think they would want to very well
I know right, just make a seperate video (if you really want us to watch all that other stuff in this video) that includes everything that doesnt have to do with the title in it. People click on these videos for a specific reason.
Nice videos man! Love the editing, providing us with information and making them also touristy but not too much! What I was going to ask was something that I thought in consequence of the last question: When was the last time you cried of hapiness? If she, by any chance, says she never did I think the follow-up question could be: In what situation do you imagine yourself crying with joy? Perhaps, subconsciously, she might think of a future situation with the guy asking the question :) Do you agree? Cheers man!
Sir, I need your help. I really really like a girl. We last met in 2011. After so many yrs I found her on fb 4-5 days ago. I msgd her and she replied sweetly. We were chatting nicely. But yesterday I msgd her but she didn't replied. After this I didn't msgd her till now. But she didn't msgd me. . I m waiting for her msg from yesterday but she didn't msgd. Plz help me sir. I really really like her, rather we can say I love her a lot. Plz help me sir.
i don't understand and will never understand how women attraction works even though tbh I've been watching your vids tripp and many other puas and so on but women are just weird like i know that men are shallow or superficial for liking girls mostly due to their looks but at least we don't need so much damn effort to get attracted or invest in somebody ...like why the hell these questions would help a girl like mee?
Tripp: I love your videos and you have been a LOT of help to me since I started watching yours and similar videos and listening to related audio books this past year. Question: what advice/methodology have you used in the past to help men who have Asperger's Syndrome or other issues of Autism Spectrum Disorder? These are men who have ingrained, genetic INABILITIES to interact "correctly" in social environments with both men and women. Thanks!!
It's not an inability. They said I had that as a kid and I was really strange and awkward for years. But social skills can be learned and today I'm basically normal. Just follow the tips and believe you can change. If you don't think you can change in the first place then you're just wasting your time.
David: Thanks for your reply. I'm actually 45 yo and married for almost 16 years now (I consider it a miracle I met this wonderful woman who sticks with me in spite of all my crap). Back in Feb of this year I started watching these videos in order to find a way to become more socially intelligent (not because I'm planning to go pickup girls and cheat on my wife). These videos have done FAR more for me than 13 years of seeing doctors, but I need a lot more. The problem right now is most of my "treatment" is based on my OWN research and not what the docs have done. I believe the best description of my issues since early childhood is Asperger's Syndrome (now just Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)). When I bring this up with docs they don't even want to discuss it and simply tell me I don't fall into that category. I'm simply not buying it - and they can't come up with any other answer to why I have lifelong social interaction issues along with a plethora of related issues (lack of attention, concentration, memory issues, chronic depression, etc.). With my latest LSCW I've certainly brought up the idea that maybe it's not a behavioral health specialist I need, but a life coach similar to Tripp and others in this field to teach me how to properly act in social situations and identify social cues. The videos have helped a lot so far but I need more professional help.
watching this in 2020, thinking it was made recently, then realising it was made 2017 :D
Same!
Me too!
4:11 you're welcome
Hero
Legend
Blessed
Thank you. I fuckin hate these videos where half of it is just them doing something we don't give a shit about.
Wait this video is 2 years old...
Yeah I noticed that too. What? Plus that mask is really modern. Like made for COVID.
I made a girl cry because she said that no guy made her feel as good as I did. 😇
Zero Hour fr it work???
Alex Adam Just compliment her. Tell her she's beautiful and if she's ever looked in a mirror before, etc.
aaaaah this is so sweet
AJ K - SSB4 don’t listen to this guy
Awwww. That's so sweet.
Avoiding the sadness is somewhat needy. Sadness is a part of human life, and I honestly believe the perfect day would constitute some time to cry, as well as time to laugh.
Sadness is a part of human life, and the reason they included a sad question was because by going through a sad moment with her, you actually bond much greater than if everything was only happy.
A better way to do it would be to ask the last time they cried, and if it was sad you might bond with her or share your own thing, and then before it gets awkward hook it back in by asking "Now when is the last time you cried of joy?" showing that you can handle feeling sadness without it fucking everything up.
I reckon a good one to ask that is similar but different to the treasured memory one, is to ask at what stage of her life was she happiest and wishing that that time would never end.
It could be a phase of her life over days/weeks/months/years, or just say over a few minutes while listening to a particular song at a live concert or something like that where it was just an amazing feeling that she wished would never end.
Tripps, here, he was ahead of the pack with buying a face covering mask for health reasons.
What's the best way to introduce these questions? I'd like an answer if she's wondering why I'd ask these questions. Number 4 and 5 I can imagine some girls not wanting to respond to such a personal question unless the connection's already there.
Nah, they aren't that personal, they don't have to actually tell you anything that's super personal, many girls will be able to come up with a treasured memory that's not too private and the crying one is ok because he said ask about crying due to sheer joy not sadness
#4 is very sneaky! I have always asked something similar to this with a bit of #2 mixed in: "What was the best day of your life?" - it allows you to ask them about all the little details about why it was special and get them back in to that state they were in on the day itself. Really powerful! Don't underestimate it! The followup part you mention is also golden, although I've never tried that. It could be electric if done right.
Wow! This video is made for 2020.
Quality content bro
I appreciate your words
Does the first 3 questions need to me asked in a particular order ?
Where is the guy who lists the tips
This is probably my favourite video so far.
the way I see it, it's only guys, men, who need to learn how to get a date, how to get a girlfriend, not the other way around, I don't see how women need to learn dating skills when it simply "just happens" for them
Not true. You just don’t hear about it
They watch make-up tutorials so better men will go after them
Yeah but most girls want something real, not just meaningless one-night stands or fuck buddies. Yes some girls do, and even the kind of girls that are looking for a relationship still like sex too and often have their share of one-night stands...BUT many girls reach a point sooner than later that theyre tired of the fuckboys. They'll never have trouble finding guys that chase them but they WILL have trouble finding guys that are worth their time in the long run. In other words, girls don't need help getting dates but they do need help filtering out the guys that are only interested in one thing.
Nice editing!!
Nice, I'm an American living in Hanoi and your advice is always helpful!
Thanks man!
Chào bạn
That background music on the hotel at 8:55 on the video sounds really catchy
Great stuff Trip. I always walk away with new knowledge when I watch your videos.
Trip Had Corona First
can i use all them on one day
You have dope music in your vids!!
Tried some deep questions like happy moments or memorable movies, and she replied, you make it sound like a interview :X
Did you follow up on her answers? Making an actual conversation out of these questions?
@@tzuffkretzu6486 she didn't answer directly, and I jz let it flow to whatever she replied. moved to a new topic. Basically not around the question anymore. Basis small talk.
@@wellstang well small talk does not work for long. and when you are gonna ask one of these main questions you should make sure she is up for it, by asking "can i ask you a question?" or you could say "i have been thinking about this for a while now and i still can't figure out what is the best superpower to have"
BTW some girls just aren't into some guys so this might be it.
i hope this help :)
Lol yup
Hey trip. What kind of watch is that
Very useful tips bro... please keep updating
This is gold dust. I used always be stuck for these questions.
This video is gold, 🔥
are you still in vietnam? if you are can i meet you in person for some tips, it could seriously be game changing
7:35 ocean drive 🎶
The problem with the dating coaches is that they focus on attracting females regardless if they're of value to a man or not, they dont focus on screening and qualifying women of value.
Love your videos like this... great one thanks Tripp!!!!!
U are the best bro! 👌
No...YOU are the best.
Tripp Advice Videos of yours changed my way of thinking about life and everything,u are so inspiring person,may God give u health 😊
What's that song at the end of the video? I need it! Badly!
*Saigon
Tripp knew something we didn't a whole 2 years ago huh
Yo Tripp, I said on your another video more magic moves. Wanted let you know that I want more infield breakdowns too. Vince is pretty good at that and I really enjoy that.
Thanks.
More infield videos on the list.
A lot of these questions are also interestingly tied to the big 5 personality scale. For exacple, if she says the books super power, she's probably interested in ideas, so trait openess (related to creativity & being open to new things), does she not want to be famous? She's low in extraversion if that's true (low in positive emotion & dominance). I recomend you learn the big 5 scale well & find where you fall on it as well, long term relations are made and broken on it.
Trip over there sick but still out here stylin
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Hey tripp what if she is very shy and doesnt really like talking?
Then its your fault for being boring
Flirtatious looks if youre still interested in her
Tripp , will you come to Hanoi
I followed you just today.. Loved your videos
I dead ass thought this was made in 2020
Whats that song at 2:08 with the piano?
Mæson - Hi
I was with a check yesterday I've been talking to her for about five months and we finally actually got to hang out and I sort of asked her a question like this I asked her if she can have her dream house what would it look like would it be a castle like a big huge doll house and then I started talkin about the movie blank check where the kid gets the check and puts his own amount on it and by the big ass house she loved it
Yo Tripp Great 5 questions!
Iam surely gonna try these questions....
Damn I miss Saigon street scooter madness
Where can I find these 36 question,?,,???
ua-cam.com/video/5O88ANq8JRc/v-deo.html
Great content 🔥
Thanks man I appreciate that...
Hey, Tripp you cool...they really work ..thanks tripp
Kamal Alsina fr
Great job!
I'm really excited for tomorrow now
wow man u know real shit...thanks for the tips xD
Awesome man!! Love the mask
Tripp, these are good questions to ask women, but my question is how can you tell if they are honest or not? Maybe you can get advice from your girl as well. The last thing I want is a woman not being honest. Keep up the good work.
Trip is the best
You da best.
What is your treasured memory?
If she brings up her Ex what to do?
Depends how. Maybe she is still into him.. Than run! Maybe she is just mentioning it to clarify that she is single or or or
Gtfo
1:25 Trivago
Cool video!
You post this on 2017, well you predict the future dude
I’m 14 and I have a girl friend but I want them make her feel like here is nobody else hat will make her as happy as I would I will test these questions out and based on the reasons why these questions work the reason Tripp explained I think they would want to very well
Are all the, 'You look drunk' comments filtered out or what?!
Haha. Not drunk...
U wonder why people write the questions in the comments but it video didn't start till 4 minutes in.
I know right, just make a seperate video (if you really want us to watch all that other stuff in this video) that includes everything that doesnt have to do with the title in it. People click on these videos for a specific reason.
he's like that one nerd who grew up to be an alpha.
I like these questions. The only this is, I don’t think I know some of the answers for myself, like “what would my perfect day be.” Not sure.
Time to go inward...
Stanford’s 36 intimacy questions?
Bro I need a private help 😢😢
These are corny ass questions but I'll give it a whirl😂😂😂
Looks like anthony bourdain
Who's the scientist?
As usual, your video doenst start until at least 2.5 minutes in
Ahead of the trend! 2 years early.
When was the last time that you cried when you were happy?
"when he finally asked me out."
0.0 how dp you come back from that?
Burberry mask dope af
Right???
Hey trip got annything on how to be more fun
Nice videos man! Love the editing, providing us with information and making them also touristy but not too much!
What I was going to ask was something that I thought in consequence of the last question: When was the last time you cried of hapiness?
If she, by any chance, says she never did I think the follow-up question could be: In what situation do you imagine yourself crying with joy? Perhaps, subconsciously, she might think of a future situation with the guy asking the question :)
Do you agree? Cheers man!
Pleaseeeeeeee make a vlog channel come on it's not really that hard pleazzzzze??!?!?!!!! :)
Sir, I need your help. I really really like a girl. We last met in 2011. After so many yrs I found her on fb 4-5 days ago. I msgd her and she replied sweetly. We were chatting nicely. But yesterday I msgd her but she didn't replied. After this I didn't msgd her till now. But she didn't msgd me.
.
I m waiting for her msg from yesterday but she didn't msgd.
Plz help me sir. I really really like her, rather we can say I love her a lot.
Plz help me sir.
So far nobody has done ✅ it
Hey
8:20 I hear blonde all cried out
Take care of your health tripp...
Haha he looks like a ninja.
i don't understand and will never understand how women attraction works even though tbh I've been watching your vids tripp and many other puas and so on but women are just weird like i know that men are shallow or superficial for liking girls mostly due to their looks but at least we don't need so much damn effort to get attracted or invest in somebody ...like why the hell these questions would help a girl like mee?
You predicted the covid lol
Where in China is this guy?
Vietnam, bra
first case of coronavirus lol
Wtf this dude been wearing a mask since 2017
You look like you're about to land Mars and that's your oxygen mask.
Right?
Who is ya daddy? And what does he do?
Notification $qaud.....
Wearing a mask sure ain't going to impress the women hahaha
Hackey AF...
Sub Zero... Tripp
The Five Questions are:
.... watch the video :p
Wow. Finally :)
TheDuckSneezes Truly right