It is actually a very sexist song. He says in the chorus that he's tired living alone, he wants someone to cook for him; he's tired living alone, he wants his lover to do his laundry and keep him company because he's bored. He wants a wife because he doesn't want to cook for himself anymore or do any household chores. Unfortunately, many Malawian guys think this is a romantic song since it's a given to them that a wife has to slave away for them. They're so entitled and girls are encouraged to slave away for them without expecting any sort of acknowledgement let alone gratitude. Before a lady walks down the aisle she's subjected to all sorts of tests to see if she's "wife material" ready to serve her husband and be at his beck and call. We call it "mkomya" and if you don't cook or clean after him it's reason enough to divorce you pronto. It's so hegemonized in our culture, over 90% of Malawian women will listen to this song and think that it's actually very romantic that the guy is actually confessing to wanting them to come serve him. Something is very wrong with our culture in the way it views women and the expectations placed onto their heads
The song says im tired to stay alone without a partner to help me. Actually talks about love, to stay in the house without someone to love is so painful.
Who else is here in 2024 , watching this banger? ❤❤
😂😂😂 we here
And it feels like it was released yesterday
We here
Me ✋❤❤❤
August
I am a Zambian living in Central province (Kabwe ) but I just love listening to this song for so long now, who is with me here ✋
It will never get old…… 2024 l guess we still stuck on this
Amstrong >>> onesimus day one fans gather here ❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤
2024 who is here with me
Armstrong...Onesmus.... African Butter....the guy is good 🥰
Dude been gold since day uno 🎉
I will never stop listening to this song❤❤❤
African butter doloo kwambiri 😊
komatu ndinatopadi kukhala ndekha!! luv this song and now I thank God Wachikondi wanga is now here with me!!
i dont think i will ever stop listening to this song........The Best Ever Armstrong Song To me....2016 and still sound great...
This song Eee its a Banger ❤🔥💥
Now it’s Onesmus Africa Giant 🎶🔥🔥
This is 2024 but I still come here You just can't hate Onesimus 🙌
Pano ndi a African butter . Legendary 🙌
Controller 🎮 2024 14 years down the line
11yrs down, ndekha remains the best song
2023 still listening to this masterpiece ❤
butter babe wachokela patali lol..!!!! sky is the limit my guy !!
This hit will never die listening from Mozambique
😂this guy is too good
💀listening this in 2024
Hits that stands the test of tym❤️💐
Now this is some impressive work guys, keep it up. Malawi in the building.
Good old music ❤
That's cool bro I love this song
and 2023 still my favorite song
This guy is OG 0Nesimus muzik
Love this song my current situation 😢😢
wow.. ths is gorgous especially the llycs....love 4 eva!!!! biggest fan.
Still in line with this hit
African Butter 😊
Still listening 🎧❤🎉
My favorite ❤
2019 in august,,,still jamming to this
Still a banger in 2024!!!
Here in 2024😅❤
I love this song .
I use to play this song some years back,where is this guy?this is 2023 and I can't find his songs
search onesimus he changed the name
Onesmus African Butter 🧈 🔥💥💥💥🔥
😭 the one who was giving him a drink
Uncle ben rest in peace
I can relate.....the words just hit the mark!
Very talented
pure talent, perfect song, !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2020 who is here😤😤😤
i just had to be here and listen to this track,one of the best hits of the 22nd century in M dubbz baby
Love this!!
can't stop listening to this song..
Muito boa musica! Bjs e abraços de Moçambique
I still love this song
Who is still here in 2022
Tikumverabe ife 2024 hit iyi
Still listening in November 2020.. who is with me?
big up
2022 and this song is still fire
This guy z good looking
I love to see you gyz prosper,,,,-i lovE this
Hit song
The Best Ever Armstrong Song To me😉
Butter
tune
Nice song Armstrong!
2023
true dat
i love dis track heavu
never forget this song
kanyimbo kabwino nimakavela pa tanzania
I will not stop to listen this song ♥️
Apande umkayimba
i love u Armstrong
ndatopa kukhala ndekha..
brilliant video and song
2016 and still listening...
those old days for my Bro
This is a video and a half!!!
Onemus ?
2017
I met him last year at our church ECG
Talented guy
Pano ndi a Onesimus awa big up
Thats nice
NICE!
Talent
great music, though i don't understand the language
He talks about he's tired being single.. even mosquitoes they mock and laugh at him etc lol
Lol thanks
+Reginald Phumlani are you South African Reginald? Glad u love the Malawian hit song! Ndekha means "alone" or "by myself/on my own".
He is tired to stay single wants wants to love and stay with somebody. Nice composition indeed.
It is actually a very sexist song. He says in the chorus that he's tired living alone, he wants someone to cook for him; he's tired living alone, he wants his lover to do his laundry and keep him company because he's bored. He wants a wife because he doesn't want to cook for himself anymore or do any household chores. Unfortunately, many Malawian guys think this is a romantic song since it's a given to them that a wife has to slave away for them. They're so entitled and girls are encouraged to slave away for them without expecting any sort of acknowledgement let alone gratitude. Before a lady walks down the aisle she's subjected to all sorts of tests to see if she's "wife material" ready to serve her husband and be at his beck and call. We call it "mkomya" and if you don't cook or clean after him it's reason enough to divorce you pronto. It's so hegemonized in our culture, over 90% of Malawian women will listen to this song and think that it's actually very romantic that the guy is actually confessing to wanting them to come serve him. Something is very wrong with our culture in the way it views women and the expectations placed onto their heads
Zandile khumalo
The song says im tired to stay alone without a partner to help me. Actually talks about love, to stay in the house without someone to love is so painful.
nice one
nyc1
hehehehe..kukoma nyimbo iyi..
catchy
nice
Nice
Machende anu
eh wankers song.....llol- ts cray tho
Kuti akhale onesmus chinachitika chani...mwina kufuna kukhala wa international chifukwa Armstrong amaveka kwambiri ku Malawi kusiyana ndi onesmus zosadabwitsa athu amasitha mayina awo muthu ndi phiri koma pa TikTok, Facebook , Instagram anapanga ndi dzina linaso loveka mwachisilamu mwina amakhala akuthawa chinachake