I Wish Melisa The Best! She'll Do Great On Her Own!! Answering Your Questions.

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  • @fureveryoungfarm3752
    @fureveryoungfarm3752 4 роки тому +196

    Why are so many hating so bad? She tried it, it wasn't for her. Jason gave her and opportunity she probably never would have gotten. Although there were issues they helped each other. Like he's said 5000 times they weren't a couple. Friends help friends and move on.

    • @TheCrockers
      @TheCrockers  4 роки тому +67

      Unfortunately people don't like to hear what they don't WANT to hear. Thanks for understanding!

    • @RVBadlands2015
      @RVBadlands2015 4 роки тому +3

      FurEver Young Farm
      But they do communicate.

    • @TheSeper
      @TheSeper 4 роки тому +8

      @@RVBadlands2015 Just because they communicate does not make them a couple

    • @Anti_SoShell
      @Anti_SoShell 4 роки тому +8

      We're hating because Mel seemed to be in it just for the fame. Jason promoted her and her new channel, it takes off, she leaves. It was moving way too fast anyway (even if they were "just friends").

    • @markthomas4992
      @markthomas4992 4 роки тому +9

      They showered together - but you say ‘just friends ‘ lol 😂

  • @erikrenner
    @erikrenner 4 роки тому +290

    Never wait on others Jason. Build. If someone wants to learn, they will be there. If not, they won't. You just keep building.

    • @kastnostones
      @kastnostones 4 роки тому +14

      Live YOUR life and let's move past this!! Let's build before I get distracted and waunder off! Stay focused Jason!

    • @AmysArea
      @AmysArea 4 роки тому +3

      The REEL Matt Crocker, Right! 😂

    • @surviving8316
      @surviving8316 4 роки тому +1

      @@ReelinGrillinChillin 😂

    • @maryjemisonMaryjay1936
      @maryjemisonMaryjay1936 4 роки тому +1

      The REEL Matt Crocker you nailed it 😂

    • @johnhawk9321
      @johnhawk9321 4 роки тому +1

      Thats cool

  • @robinelkins6172
    @robinelkins6172 4 роки тому +23

    Thank you Jason for letting us know what was going on with your situation. You are a very generous person. Keep doing what you are doing. Just be YOU!

  • @ryanhenderson519
    @ryanhenderson519 4 роки тому +163

    1.) Their adults, 2.) It was a mutual friendship , 3.) He can wear what shirt he wants, it’s America , 4.) Their not tripping on anything , so why should any of us? CHILL. 😎

    • @TheCrockers
      @TheCrockers  4 роки тому +57

      Wait... someone actually GETS IT!!! I'm impressed! Haha best comment ever

    • @ryanhenderson519
      @ryanhenderson519 4 роки тому +17

      Haha, I stand by all of your guys channels.. If it’s a Crocker video from anyone of y’all, I watch through thick or thin. You guys stay on shuffle in my house hold. You guys made the videos that got me through night shift and gave me inspiration.. AND I WATCH THE ADS 😅

    • @WayneWatson1
      @WayneWatson1 4 роки тому +11

      Exactly. 👌

    • @simpletruth9977
      @simpletruth9977 4 роки тому +20

      Hey man , I'm just here for some laughs. Y'all grown and don't have to explain yourselves to me. 👍

  • @ladyjoann1957
    @ladyjoann1957 4 роки тому +63

    I think it is the right decision to stay apart because she does need to figure it out. You are fine by yourself, you have the best circle of friends there and yes you have all the help (just ask)!

  • @debbiebown3972
    @debbiebown3972 4 роки тому +99

    Jason...you're to kind. Your parents raised you well. Sawyers are true friends....

  • @christenholbrook7097
    @christenholbrook7097 4 роки тому +32

    I'm glad that y'all are still friends. That's awesome at how comfortable you wanted her to feel staying there. If Melisa wants to travel a van or bus sounds like a good idea. I love how transparent you are with us viewer's when you really don't have to be.

    • @TheCrockers
      @TheCrockers  4 роки тому +20

      That's how I want my channel, open and honest as always!

    • @marymarysmarket3508
      @marymarysmarket3508 4 роки тому +11

      Seems a bad time to think of driving around the country

  • @stephshields8839
    @stephshields8839 4 роки тому +108

    I wish Melisa well and hope she finds what she’s looking for and in the meantime Jason you are stuck with us 😘 onwards and upwards x

  • @jerrygibs8120
    @jerrygibs8120 4 роки тому +53

    Jason, appreciate your sharing about everything. Can't speak for everyone but, there are those like me that feel your business is your business. Praying for you as you grow. Communication IS important with special friends in your life. Special people are players and stayers. Some will only be acquaintances. Any of that can change with time. Do appreciate your communicating how things are going. Learning to wait or move on is a grand part of becoming mature. Blessings brother ☝🙏💪👉...

  • @deborahcline3745
    @deborahcline3745 4 роки тому +18

    Jason you said from the get go you all were friends helping one and another. You both were good for each other. Stay friends sweetie. You’re Granny’s sweet boy. We love you honey and only want the best for you. We love the Crockers. We are here for you...❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ab1duett
    @ab1duett 4 роки тому +35

    It's good she realized it wasn't for her before she sank money into a tiny house. Your a good man for understanding. Keep up with the tiny house. Will be following both you channels.

  • @territn8871
    @territn8871 4 роки тому +33

    Hey sweet Jason, I'm not going to beat around the bush and just say what I think. I have been a faithful subscriber of yours ever since Dutch and Daniel had that meetup last spring or whenever it was. Haven't missed a single podcast since then cause I love you Crocker boys! I've watched the work on Jared's home as you finished, watched the 100 days at the ranch (and loved that), watched the sadness of a marriage end, and now watching you pickup the pieces and starting a whole new chapter in your life. I'm 66, and the mother in me doesn't want to see you hurt or disappointed after your marriage ended (cause after a 36-year marriage my husband walked out on me and our 18 yr old son, and I know the brokenness it leaves in your heart). I'll be honest, the first vid when Melisa arrived, there was something unsettling to me. Here again, the mother in me didn't want another hurt. I never felt she would stay. I grew to like her a lot, all the while I had a feeling she wasn't staying and that one of her trips back to Texas would be the last. I think she needs more time to grow and mature and, until that happens, she won't be converting a van or building a little home of her own. This day and time, a young pretty woman is not safe traveling the country alone. I hope she realizes that. I unsubscribed to her channel because I only subbed in the first place because of you. I admire you for helping her start her channel, but am pretty sure there's nothing there of interest to me now. You are who I'm proud of and love watching! I have to say this though, I really like Katilyn Maus and really hope someday she will come back in your life. I liked her a lot and still am subscribed to her channel. She's the outdoor type and seems to have more things in common with you! I know this is a lengthy comment, but I just wanted you to know how much I admire you and am proud of you! All 3 of you boys are great and I know your mom and dad are very proud of you. I can't wait for you to start the finishing work on the inside of your house! Hope you do the countertop in concrete like you did at the ranch!!! 👋❤

  • @SimpleLifeReclaimed
    @SimpleLifeReclaimed 4 роки тому +10

    Im super excited for your bathroom build man! :D
    Its okay that shes gonna be out there doin her own thing. You have been ROCKIN IT doin your own thing too. No harm no foul. Lessons learned. Keep pressing forward and being amazing, like we know you will. ;)
    Cant wait to see your video tomorrow man. Hope you have a great night!

    • @SimpleLifeReclaimed
      @SimpleLifeReclaimed 4 роки тому +4

      @@ReelinGrillinChillin Hahaha! Matt we friggin LOVE you man! You're the last Crocker Brother we have yet to meet IRL. Gotta change that one day!
      I know youre busy, but if ever out west again while we are still here - YOURE ALWAYS WELCOME IN THE HOUSE ;) Nothin but love for our next of kin.. ALLLLLLL The Crockers

  • @debbienarkansas1926
    @debbienarkansas1926 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you Jason...Is was a little concerning watching the Coffee with Crockers, I remember saying a little Scattered. Like what is up? So It did answer a few questions for me. But yeah, Dive back into it. Bless your heart. Looking forward to your achievements!! Thank you for sharing!

  • @garyhunter6030
    @garyhunter6030 4 роки тому +17

    Hey you did all you could to help her. You can hold your head up, so just tell her was great to have known you, good luck on your next adventure.

  • @heavenly-dreamsdairygoats
    @heavenly-dreamsdairygoats 4 роки тому +1

    Just do what you need to do. Build your tiny house. If help is there great. If not keep going forward. You have cake along way since I joined you as a subscriber. Thank you for letting us all know. Drive safe. God Bless

  • @sharonc.cooper9367
    @sharonc.cooper9367 4 роки тому +5

    I think you made a good choice to address the situation Jason for your viewers. You handled it very well. I wish you both the best no matter what.

  • @humesteadhomestead3620
    @humesteadhomestead3620 4 роки тому +6

    So glad you are supporting each other and are living out your own dreams! Excited to see what you have gotten accomplished this week!

  • @sharonnowlin2297
    @sharonnowlin2297 4 роки тому +6

    So glad that you cleared up what was going on with Melisa. When I saw her video last night it blew me away! You guys were so good together. But you cleared it up about the deal that you two had. She had mentioned often that she wanted to travel, lots of us did when we were young and some love it and others find out that it is not what they thought it would be almost immediately! The only way Melisa will know for sure is to give it a try, or years later she will always wish she had. As far as you being lazy, everyone should know that is not true. But you work for yourself and no longer have to answer to a boss!! I wish you two the Very Best!!!!

  • @nextpagepj9058
    @nextpagepj9058 4 роки тому +3

    Been here since before 1,000 subs and have seen this channel go thru a lot of YT growing pains, and offshoots have grown from this channel: Jaylena's, Jareds, your folks, the REEL Matt, and now Melissa... I'm subbed to you all and I'm going to stay that way. I think you're all GOOD people who's lives are taking different journeys, it's just you're all living them out on camera. Enjoy your journey Jason, this is just another turn in the road! (And so the adventure continues.) Thank you for taking us along for the ride! Hugs, -PJ

  • @carolynmesser7199
    @carolynmesser7199 4 роки тому +12

    I have always liked you , but I have never been prouder of you than now , your a real super guy , who had a fine upbringing with a huge heart ❤️💕🌞

  • @chrissyd6423
    @chrissyd6423 4 роки тому +13

    I think having the sawyers come help at this point is the best idea. You're great friends and work well together.

  • @starlenekalinski5633
    @starlenekalinski5633 4 роки тому +23

    Jason, I love watching both of you. I feel that she should have talked to you before she made the video. Both of you are good people and I don't judge either of you. Now, you know where it stands. God Bless you and her.

  • @DearMe2u
    @DearMe2u 4 роки тому +3

    I'm glad to see you can get back on track. Its not a good time for distraction, not until you finish with your tiny house. I admire your honesty and filling us in on what is going on. Your doing just fine, God Bless

    • @DearMe2u
      @DearMe2u 4 роки тому

      Lol that was supposed to say "distraction" not "destruction"

  • @marcofonseca4511
    @marcofonseca4511 4 роки тому +8

    Good for you my friend... move forward.. it’s your journey.. be friends and continue with your dreams...

  • @francesbolen257
    @francesbolen257 4 роки тому +3

    Wow, you are the sweetest kindest guy! Communication is key!! You were her boss and a teacher she sould have communicated better! You are a good friend.

  • @tomarbo8084
    @tomarbo8084 4 роки тому +5

    You’re right there’s no sides to pick I’m gonna watch your channel every time you post I’m gonna watch her channel every time she post you guys are great I enjoy it thank you thank you for being so transparent

  • @lunamesser9756
    @lunamesser9756 4 роки тому +1

    Hi Jason if people hate anything you do they do not have to watch your channel. Its not their life its yours ,and I thank you for sharing it with me . You take care and I'll keep watching !! I really enjoy watching you build things .

  • @Patty747
    @Patty747 4 роки тому +27

    She should have given you a heads up, prior to putting that video out. It's a hell of a way to find out someone's change of plans in that way.

  • @gailrowland1672
    @gailrowland1672 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you Bud for letting us know. Everything makes sense now.

  • @mickeygibson5919
    @mickeygibson5919 4 роки тому +15

    You're a good person Jason you kept everything respectful and to the point can't wait to see you start working on tiny house again have a great day be safe out there God bless you all and your family's and friends from Tucson Az💖👍🤗

  • @Heisstrong
    @Heisstrong 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks for clearing the air Jason. Now you can get to work on your tiny house!

  • @gailhotaling2960
    @gailhotaling2960 4 роки тому +82

    The Sawyers are the best

  • @lauriewind6366
    @lauriewind6366 4 роки тому +1

    Anyway it was a chance for both of you. You coming out of your build depression and Melisa to get a chance and learning a lot from you, so what its all about? It is very nice to see the progress in your house - new roof over the porch, windows and the start of the bathroom.....well done, Jason, don't think you have to explain everything.....keep the good work going.

  • @lourdesmariaatkinson
    @lourdesmariaatkinson 4 роки тому +51

    She's great but I subscribed for her channel for the building part, not really into van travel, done that and it is hard lonely and can be dangerous for lone single girl.

    • @tamib711
      @tamib711 4 роки тому +4

      Can be VERY lonely if you're not a loner. I traveled for the last 6 years alone and not having someone to share the experience with sucks and intensifies the loneliness. Break downs and blowouts suck too. Better have a nicely built savings and steady income. If you aren't fully off grid it gets expensive. And those surprise maintenance issues rack up too

    • @lorikodama8212
      @lorikodama8212 4 роки тому +4

      This! I give Melisa credit for having the courage to follow her dreams, however the world we live in today can be a very dangerous place for anyone, especially a pretty, young woman traveling alone. I hope shes packing a pew pew, and knows how to use it. If my daughter wanted to do the same thing, I honestly wouldn't be able to sleep at night because I'd be worried 24/7 about her.

    • @cabinlifeatedensprings1710
      @cabinlifeatedensprings1710 4 роки тому

      I can enjoy a van build but ladies traveling alone not the safest. If I were single I would do a class B van and have land / home base. But I’m married and have a shed cabin up by the river. I loved my husband so much. So glad God opened a door for us to meet. Leslye

    • @vcalvete1
      @vcalvete1 4 роки тому +1

      Can you share her channel?

  • @rethamoore4282
    @rethamoore4282 4 роки тому +21

    Jason , I will never bash either one of you . Friends do not do that to each other. Old Nanas ( grand mothers ) do not do that . Just continue to be yourself and you don't have to explain everything to everybody! You don't have to explain ANYTHING period ! Enjoy your life bud.

  • @donnadunlop
    @donnadunlop 4 роки тому +11

    I am glad i saw this video, it was smart to make this a working relationship, Melissa did her few weeks and realized it was not really her thing and i am delighted you gave it to her to try and see if that is what she wanted. I understood the dental thing, makes perfect sense but when she came back she was different, I guess she had time to reflect. What i did not think was kind was not telling you as a friend or as a business associate that she had changed her mind and you had to find out on the channel you encouraged her to start. I like Melissa very much and wish her well in her new adventure, i am no longer subbed on her channel as i only joined at your request as i have done with many channels you have asked us to sub. I will miss her on your channel, she was a hard worker and a fast learner and a bonus for you, but i is your channel that i enjoy. You are a kind person with too big a heart and i applaud you.

  • @sherrybrown4064
    @sherrybrown4064 4 роки тому +43

    I know she was alot of help and good company. But you don't need no one..You got this. But hopefully she will come back and visit.

    • @WayneWatson1
      @WayneWatson1 4 роки тому +1

      @@smilemoney kinda like smilemoney. City boy that likes to watch other people work 😁

    • @WayneWatson1
      @WayneWatson1 4 роки тому +2

      @@smilemoney lol

    • @cabinlifeatedensprings1710
      @cabinlifeatedensprings1710 4 роки тому +5

      I will say a woman in love would. Because it’s just a matter of time and Jason will have all the luxuries of any home. I have a shed house. I love it. And if it was all my husband and I had I would live there no problem. A woman who loves a man will drop everything and travel with him or live in a tent if need be.

    • @arnoldromppai5395
      @arnoldromppai5395 4 роки тому

      @@stevethomas9194 living in a tent, is the start of finding out what one is made of, if she can take living in a tent she can take on anything, my ex never loved me, she seen me as a cash cow. and took everything i worked for all my life

  • @SaleanaC
    @SaleanaC 4 роки тому +75

    I wanted to say from the moment you introduced her to us that this wasn't a good idea. I just didn't want to be negative. Something never sat right with me. Maybe it's just because she had a gypsy soul 🤷🏾‍♀️. I wish you both the best.

    • @TheCrockers
      @TheCrockers  4 роки тому +18

      Everyone has their opinions, and that's ok. Some people are right, others are wrong. But we're friends and I know she'll do great things!

    • @gailhotaling2960
      @gailhotaling2960 4 роки тому +9

      See how things go. She now has a channel courtesy of you and your fans

    • @tammywragg6254
      @tammywragg6254 4 роки тому +9

      @@gailhotaling2960
      Yea so,j support her still and I'll support Jason just as much,and always will,and the rest is between her and jason,people just have to learn to lay off,I'm happy for both of them,and it is what it is,hes encouraged many to start their own channel,so what..life goes on,

    • @sandravanlankvelt7975
      @sandravanlankvelt7975 4 роки тому +7

      Well hope for the best don't look for the worst in people. The word gypsy in itself to me means a wanderer never satisfied in one spot very long that's why the original gypsy's traveled most of their lives and never really settled down part of their makeup maybe and heredity possibly. If that's the case then makes sense she chose the name "gypsy" can't hold that against her free spirit just the way it is sometimes.

    • @paultotten2838
      @paultotten2838 4 роки тому +2

      My thoughts exactly , wish you the best Jason

  • @cban95
    @cban95 2 роки тому

    Wow! I didn't realize these older videos existed! Jason, you are truly transparent and very helpful to see people succeed! I love watching your channel old and new! You definitely inspire people!
    Hope all is well!
    Cindy
    Cleveland, Ohio

  • @margaretfrosst575
    @margaretfrosst575 4 роки тому +4

    JASON your one classy man. Love the way you handle the whole situation.

  • @scotttreloar3278
    @scotttreloar3278 4 роки тому

    Started watching you build after seeing past videos of you and your brother building the shed-to-house. Fascinated and impressed at your pioneer attitude. You seem like a great guy, Jared. Many blessings to you for having a servant's heart - you're parents are to be commended. Looking forward to the next video.

    • @scotttreloar3278
      @scotttreloar3278 4 роки тому

      @@South_Texas_Roots Honestly, I think the fact that I am 50 and now acting like my parents had me curious as to what this tattooed young guy had to offer the world. I have been fascinated with the tiny house movement, especially as I left Florida for Tennessee in a quest to be more self-sufficient. One day I'll get to the mountains but I guess all you UA-camrs living your dreams is my motivation to keep pressing on. Keep up the good work!

  • @jujugypsyjourney3826
    @jujugypsyjourney3826 4 роки тому +14

    I love the way you simply put your cards on the table for everyone to see when you need to! Truth i& honesty is always the best foundation & is obviously yours. Communication is a life skill that takes practice to master. Some are better at it sooner others later in life some never are good at it! That's what makes relationships work or not whether platonic friendships or lovers or brothers sisters or neighbors. You keep it simple & real~ the Crocker way~ 💕✌️

  • @AvaPotterfieldandFriends
    @AvaPotterfieldandFriends 4 роки тому +1

    Awe man. Hang in there. Things will work out. You're awesome and a sweet man.

  • @Gina-zn1dv
    @Gina-zn1dv 4 роки тому +33

    Damn...sorry Jason. I personally think it stinks she wasn't soild with you. She is 29 not 19...time to grow up. Blessings Jason 💖🙏

  • @susanbernard343
    @susanbernard343 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks for clearing everything up Jason, it keeps people from jumping to conclusions, hopefully..lol...Excited to see your progress on your tiny house.😁

  • @donnajoyner1474
    @donnajoyner1474 4 роки тому +120

    You are right, no harm, no foul...put that money on your tiny house.

  • @KatahadinKookingMamaHomestead
    @KatahadinKookingMamaHomestead 4 роки тому +1

    I loved seeing her and the help you got. it was moving, very uplifting. and the energy was amazing. I am glad your both friends and you both helped each other.

  • @blessedmombudgets8400
    @blessedmombudgets8400 4 роки тому +23

    Glad to hear you’re going to stay focus and not let nobody distract you from what your goal is to finish up your house that’s the best thing you could do for you’re self..

  • @mizzkathryn7
    @mizzkathryn7 4 роки тому +1

    Jason, I picked up on what you are talking about right away within days. So just do your thing and move on and remember people who don't seem to know what they want to do will always be that way you can see the signs when your older believe me! One more thing when someone says they are going to be at a place at a certain time and they are not more than once that is such a clear sign! Don't wait on anyone just do your thing. Hope she does well on her journey too.

  • @mdmitrieff1
    @mdmitrieff1 4 роки тому +4

    You are an awesome guy Jason.. We love you because you are genuine, kind, caring, loving, person.
    Exited to see your next video. xox

  • @poloniaadams4057
    @poloniaadams4057 4 роки тому +1

    Hello, Jason, Keep Strong,Have Faith, KEEP ON!!! God Bless you :)

  • @raymondhuber6306
    @raymondhuber6306 4 роки тому +13

    It was great while it lasted, you both will be fine. Stay friends. 👍

  • @taresamorales8088
    @taresamorales8088 4 роки тому +1

    Your a good guy. I enjoy watching you & your journey. Don't worry about negative comments. Love the tiny house & don't get distracted. God bless & just keep building.

  • @robertyouker3168
    @robertyouker3168 4 роки тому +63

    Don't let communication bother you been with same woman 25years still don't know what's she's dooin tommaro

    • @TheCrockers
      @TheCrockers  4 роки тому +13

      Hahaha I hear that

    • @Weaver1202
      @Weaver1202 4 роки тому +1

      Bahahaha isn’t that the truth! 🤣🤣

    • @sandravanlankvelt7975
      @sandravanlankvelt7975 4 роки тому +8

      Yup we always keep yah boys guessing I think maybe that way we might have your attention once in a while??? LOLOL

    • @debbiemartin9639
      @debbiemartin9639 4 роки тому +2

      All we can say is its never the same boring day lol surprise hubby lol

    • @displacedyooper9987
      @displacedyooper9987 4 роки тому +5

      Yup, same here. Never know day to day what the wife has going on, only thing that bothers me is when I get in trouble because she doesn’t tell me what’s going on and she gets upset when she says you ready to go, and I’m like uh where we going. Happens so often that she thinks she told me but didn’t.

  • @shazakaacutehugsenglish6215
    @shazakaacutehugsenglish6215 4 роки тому +2

    Never wait on anyone Jason. She should have said something to you. You are not Lazy hun. I love your channel and will continue to do so. I thought it was a weird vlog to be honest.. You really do find out who true friends are. I get the feeling she's very confused and doesn't know what she wants. You are a great guy. From Sharon in the 🇬🇧 UK. Xx

  • @richardweiss8401
    @richardweiss8401 4 роки тому +53

    I feel that Melisa was home sick. So I hope she can make her van/bus work out. I believe she won't even do that.

    • @free4u881
      @free4u881 4 роки тому +7

      I don't think she will do anything...

    • @KenJ-61
      @KenJ-61 4 роки тому +3

      She wont

  • @ValeriaVincentSancisi
    @ValeriaVincentSancisi 4 роки тому +1

    All what you said is really reasonable.. each of you have given a lot to each other's development and dreams, all good! thank you for sharing your life so openly.. The tiny is looking amazing..

  • @dayleeclaton9219
    @dayleeclaton9219 4 роки тому +25

    I was shocked when I saw her video too... I thought wow, we really thought she would stick it out and she was a great help and fun. When I said she was a keeper, I meant only in the working side of it all, she is strong, knowledgeable, and she learned quickly. She was a great asset for you, but she not once made us think that there was something more going on, neither did you, but some think if a man and woman are friends, they are sexually involved. Makes me sick that is the mentality of people nowadays. I was hoping you would get the things done that require 2 people at least to get done toward your tiny house. I got concerned you were trying to tackle too many projects at a time, several times I wanted to tell you to finish one project before starting another...still think you should. Best to you Bud...still hoping you get that little house dried in and insulated and livable by the time cool weather sets in. Hey, if anyone wants to come up and camp out at your place for a while, they should pitch in and help build those other little houses you are speaking of building...:D

  • @deeproffitt2013
    @deeproffitt2013 3 роки тому

    So nice of you to put out this video. Best wishes for the future!

  • @tomwitherow7770
    @tomwitherow7770 4 роки тому +25

    Dude I wouldn't worry about her she don't know what the hell she wants just went through a divorce she's got a long ways to go stay strong just don't let her get to you

  • @kimcortina266
    @kimcortina266 4 роки тому

    Thank you for being honest and letting all of us hear from you on this issue. You stay focused and follow your dreams. Having a homestead and liv I ng off grid is my dream and hopefully this year it will come true. Just have to recover after surgery.

  • @qismyfavoriteuncle9856
    @qismyfavoriteuncle9856 4 роки тому +20

    Her being paid 2 help out, puts a different outlook on the situation. Just with any job, U can quit anytime. Everyone goes gunho & excited when starting a job, then that excitement wears off.
    I didn't see excitement when she came back from her tooth situation. Hey better 2 know now than a few months in2 a shed payment.
    Sawyers R stable & dependable & I say stick 2 those who r loyal😁

  • @Annes44
    @Annes44 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks for the clarification because I didn't know what to think. I always thought she came up because she wanted to learn. Didn't think or know you paid her. Yes, you both need to concentrate on yourselves. Thank you for clarifying things!!

  • @normacousley8770
    @normacousley8770 4 роки тому +17

    I didn't know she would just get up and leave you without an explanation. You have a good heart

    • @TheCrockers
      @TheCrockers  4 роки тому +4

      She didn't up and leave without telling me. It was just a lack of communication when she wasn't here

  • @lynnmurray4584
    @lynnmurray4584 4 роки тому +1

    Jason I've watched your channel for quite a long time. I think you are absolutely awesome, I love that you are living your dream. It is absolutely wonderful what you did to help Melissa. You gave her an opportunity to learn how to do something that is going to change her life.... you helped her start a UA-cam Channel. You're teaching her how to build so she can build her own van..... you can't put a price tag on that.
    I really do hope that in the future you to do a few more videos together. I do enjoy watching both of you and I would hate for you to lose your friendship. Much love💜❤

  • @straydogsrock
    @straydogsrock 4 роки тому +30

    i wish melisa the best but, i'm glad to see her gone. i was taking offense with her referring to your place as our place. come in and take over much? lol sorry

  • @sandypratt8951
    @sandypratt8951 4 роки тому +3

    Don’t wait on her or anyone, just do your thing. Your place is so cool,. Keep up the good work.👍

  • @jemmiestone5731
    @jemmiestone5731 4 роки тому +24

    I am glad that you did this video Jason. You are honest about everything, and now some people can quit assuming things. Lack of communication does make things hard for people. I understand that. I understand that Melisa is in a spot in her life that she may not know exactly what she wants. You two are remaining friends, all is good. You have people that will come and help you, and that is such a blessing. Be safe going down to Dallas and come back safe and sound. You are doing great. God Bless You.

  • @lorikodama8212
    @lorikodama8212 4 роки тому +1

    Jason, you are truly a class act. Thank you for your honesty and for keeping us up to speed with your current situation. I've been a faithful follower of your channel since you won Dutch's contest and have felt your highs and lows up till now. I've always tried to not to annoy you with well intentioned, unwanted opinions. I just wanted to let you know that you are handling this with class and maturity. You are both going to be fine. Melisa arrived after you finished the bulk of your build, so you should be able to handle most of the rest by yourself, if not, you have friends that can help. Take care and thank you for sharing your life with us.

  • @gailhotaling2960
    @gailhotaling2960 4 роки тому +9

    One door closed another door will open. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vanillasprinkles82
    @vanillasprinkles82 4 роки тому +2

    Yes! Show us the bathroom!! 🤗 Love seeing your progress! 👏🏻

  • @stevecoffren1773
    @stevecoffren1773 4 роки тому +5

    I totally understand everything you and melissa have said and I respect that. I wish nothing but the best for the both of you. I'm going to keep watching you and melissa's videos

  • @lorriescott7036
    @lorriescott7036 4 роки тому +1

    Can't wait to see the bathroom and thank you for being so upfront and honest with us. Would not expect anything less from you🙂

  • @margaretwagener8304
    @margaretwagener8304 4 роки тому +65

    I think she needs to grow up a little, the fact that she is not communicating with you is immature. I hope she fulfills her dreams but she is a flaky. Just do your thing and don't wait on others. I think you explained things very well, but move on and you do you and let her do her.

    • @Jkaye13
      @Jkaye13 3 роки тому

      Well said Margaret.. I agree, she was all over the map, and clearly doesn't know what exactly she wants.

  • @DaddyGoodstick
    @DaddyGoodstick 4 роки тому +2

    You are a kind and fair minded man...good for you !! You handled the entire situation like an adult :-)

  • @janesecaraway3995
    @janesecaraway3995 4 роки тому +4

    I am personally glad knowing what we know now...that she is gone. You are better without her jason ! Focus on your self! You have plenty of good friends there in Oklahoma for that help!! We love ya Jason! From Montgomery Alabama

  • @131dyana
    @131dyana 4 роки тому +1

    Yes get done before Winter. You and the dogs need a warm place to live.

  • @living6a916
    @living6a916 4 роки тому +25

    Yeah it sucks but you will be fine, just think what’s the next experience/venture going to hold. I’m with ya !

  • @BlueW0lf68
    @BlueW0lf68 4 роки тому

    Jason, I think it's great what you have done for Melisa. I can see why others thought there was more between the two of you. You gave Melisa a lot of roads in life to investigate and the opportunity to get some experience in building and vlogging. To me, that's a great friend! More people need friends like you in life. I'm looking forward to seeing what else you're doing on the tiny house. Keep on being you, Jason.

  • @mainemagic2351
    @mainemagic2351 4 роки тому +49

    Jason...You are a gentleman, even though your investment into her needs did slow your tiny house from the getgo. She is flighty, insecure and mostly a sad disappointment in that she
    didn't finish what she wanted to learn about building...sorry, but being honest is a small part of being an adult. Cheers from Maine.

    • @free4u881
      @free4u881 4 роки тому +5

      Exactly..

    • @Will7981
      @Will7981 4 роки тому +12

      Well put. However, she did stick around enough to manage to get a big boost in subscribers by her short stint on The Crockers.🤔. Anyone that wants to live the "van life" is a big red flag for instability.

    • @thisoldgoat3927
      @thisoldgoat3927 4 роки тому +8

      I think he got played. She gets her UA-cam career off the ground. Good riddance.

    • @scoutmcgee6385
      @scoutmcgee6385 4 роки тому +7

      I thought right from the beginning she was playing him

    • @thesun-N-moon8885
      @thesun-N-moon8885 4 роки тому +1

      Even though I enjoy watching him build this male screams narcissistic personality! 💯💯

  • @shumakerwoodworking4093
    @shumakerwoodworking4093 4 роки тому +3

    Good luck bro! Keep on working hard and forget about it! I have 6 kids and a wife that would all be willing to help you build your shed.

  • @Goodmorningbre
    @Goodmorningbre 4 роки тому +25

    She seemed a little flakey from the get go, not saying she isn’t a good person. Glad you are continuing with your tiny house! Love your realness and your content!

  • @estellaknox4488
    @estellaknox4488 4 роки тому +1

    Good you still friends, hope she find her way ,Jason you a real friend you can do it you do not need anyone.

  • @Chefsantatravels
    @Chefsantatravels 4 роки тому +28

    Spoken like a true gentleman I take my hat off to you buddy👋👋👋👋👋👋 stay safe stay strong stay healthy god bless and enjoy life✌❤👨‍🍳🎅🚌s👍

  • @dlaney4275
    @dlaney4275 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the honesty! When it is needed you always come through. Both of you have had unsuccessful marriages and are trying to not do that again. You both are needing to heal and rethink things. You have an awesome support system there, hers is in Dallas. Heat also makes pain and swelling worse. She needed ice and AC -both not available off grid.
    Stay friends. Take the time you both need for necessary things. Time may bring you back together for another project.
    You gave her the gift of confidence with youtube.
    She gave you organization and companionship with drive -while she was there.
    Good luck to you both!

  • @kmac2329
    @kmac2329 4 роки тому +3

    Jason, you are a fine young man with integrity and honesty. I watch your channel because of YOU. I did subscribe to Melisa's channel because of you, however, I have unsubscribed to her channel simply because I actually have no interest in a van/bus conversion. I do think she should have let you know before posting her video. It would have been the proper thing to do. She does not know what she actually wants for herself at this time. She did gain a tremendous amount of subscribers because of you and only you. Otherwise, she would still be down with a much lower number of subscribers. Keep up the good work - I can't wait to
    see your tiny house completion.

  • @karenturner7983
    @karenturner7983 4 роки тому

    Jason, thanks for sharing and answering all the questions.
    The best to you and Melisa.
    Can't wait to see what life holds for both of you.

  • @cajunlady103157
    @cajunlady103157 4 роки тому +86

    Hey, she got something out of this. Don't feel guilty. She has a youtube channel now. You worked hard to make her feel welcome. She's nice and I wish her the best. Jason, you will be fine. God will send you the right person in His time. Enjoy your life and friends at this time. You are an great, Godly man and you have lots of friends. Some people just aren't meant to be. Remain friends, but don't let this get you down. We all love you and love your videos and what you do.

    • @Gsxrnoob
      @Gsxrnoob 4 роки тому +17

      Trust me, she knew what she was doing. It was a big opportunity for her to use him... And it worked. P

    • @Gsxrnoob
      @Gsxrnoob 4 роки тому +2

      smilemoney buy that all you want, it’s pretty obvious. The man doesn’t want to look like a fool, and i don’t blame him.. but it doesn’t take much to put this together. Oh, and many people called it from the jump.

  • @BECCASTULIP78
    @BECCASTULIP78 4 роки тому

    I have no idea who Melissa is. Just found your channel but I sooooo appreciate your attitude. There is room at the table for all. You just gained a new subscriber! 🙌🏽

  • @pilotdiana
    @pilotdiana 4 роки тому +8

    Okay I will watch the videos so you get paid. Can’t wait to see the bathroom. As I have said before buy a Coleman stove so you can make coffee and breakfast without having to get a fire started and waiting.

  • @leonanelson828
    @leonanelson828 4 роки тому

    You are such an awesome person. So caring so positive. So hard working. Such a great friend. Love listening to your attitude. Love learning your build stuff. Thanks

  • @davidforster3968
    @davidforster3968 4 роки тому +5

    I don’t often speak out but as I watched your interaction with her and as I watched her video, she confirmed what I saw between you two. She is immature, sweet but immature. She doesn’t really know what she wants but I don’t think you should wait on her any longer. You do your thing and if and when she shows up if there is anything left to do its up to you to include her or not. Consider what you want and then go for it. I enjoy your channel and I pray for you and you already know God loves you and go with that. Blessings.

  • @thor8580
    @thor8580 4 роки тому

    I’d finish the house before winter comes just video as much as you can and if you want to teach her something you can show her how on the videos. Can’t wait to see your tine house finished. Best wishes and good luck Jason.

  • @TalkingWithBob
    @TalkingWithBob 4 роки тому +25

    Yeah I think people assumed too much and thought you guys were together.
    Sorry the communication fell apart. That always sucks man.
    Excited to talk to you next Friday man.

  • @imthatsaltyjew4989
    @imthatsaltyjew4989 4 роки тому +1

    Lots of positives to take from this. Wish you both the best. Cabin is coming along nicely Jason.

  • @scottholbert1192
    @scottholbert1192 4 роки тому +8

    I think Melissa noticed that she had to push you to get anything done, and could see the further. Didn't like what she saw.

  • @sammarino9063
    @sammarino9063 4 роки тому +2

    Good on you for doing the right thing always, and good luck to her in her endeavors. Im personally excited to see you get your house built. ❤

  • @lindawilson1965
    @lindawilson1965 4 роки тому +42

    I had a bad feeling when she started coming around. I really don't believe the whole dental thing either!! You need to concentrate on your tiny house and not get distracted by trying to help other people out!! Do you and she can do her!! Enjoy the day!!

  • @danaoneal6772
    @danaoneal6772 4 роки тому +2

    You are a great guy! You can be honest without telling everything and its ok. You deserve some privacy also. Hang in there, finish your tiny house. We can't wait to see what all you are gonna do with it. It looks so good so far!