Hi Aba & Preach! Thanks for reacting to my video. Since there were some unanswered questions about their background, these girls are all between the ages of 23-30. A lot of them weren’t fully comfortable answering details about their upbringing but I can confirm not all of them come from affluent backgrounds. One thing that has become clear to me from doing these interviews is that so many are unaware of the stats and reality. We just shot another video this weekend with a new group of girls so stay tuned lol
It’s abysmal the view these girls have on life, the men they want are at least aged 50…yet they would refer to such men as predators when they are surrounded by younger women 🤦🏾♂️
world class surgeon, CEO of top 5% companies, world class soccer players, wprld class muscicians, movie directors, actors, ......literally the top 0.5% of any field. Most likely these people are very famous too
Can we all agree that we would love to have the same women that say this be interviewed in 10-20 years ? I don’t even mean this rudely, just to see the outcome of this thought process.
Because all these women bring to the table is pum pum. So they expect to get a man with that alone. They also think their pum pum is worth 650k, delusional !
Let’s be real here. How many multi-millionaires are married to women who were making even close to what they make prior to marriage? There’s no shame in manifesting a wealthy man because wealthy men do not care for a woman’s money the same way an average man would. I hear what you’re saying, but it means nothing really because a woman making $650k still wants a man making the same.
Hoping? Lmao you don't have to hope. Absolutely no top 1% guy would go for any of these average chicks, hence why they will all end up either single, or "settling" with a husband and then ultimately divorcing
@@TheJarlath9 nah they don’t - Most of these women are 7s at best and rich dudes don’t date these gold digging tramps. They can go to Eastern Europe get a 10 that doesn’t have demands like this.
I recently dated a girl with two surgeons for parents. It was literally impossible to please her as a guy making 60K. She wanted to go on trips every month, wanted to go shopping at expensive places & go out to eat every day. I just couldn’t keep up, that’s just not a reality I can live in. I grew up poor (family went bankrupt twice), it was way too much for me.
My biggest thing in a partner (after religion and kids) is similar financial goals, future, aspirations, and PROGRESS! If she wants an early retirement or high income but isn’t on track because she spends her least dollar she isn’t for me. Trust me you’ll see how many marriages end because the wife is a spender and then when things get bad she’ll go into debt, hide it, then leave the husband on the hook for it and take half of his assets.
Eating out everyday is a good way to wreck your health. That girl is going to get obese and wrinkle quickly because restaurant food simply does not have the nutrition to support your health and maintain your youthful skin. It's good you left her, she was going to get fat and wrinkled anyway. Health is more important than wealth.
I'm a women myself and listening to these women is mind blowing. Make your own money but not spend it on the family? wtf who brought these people up. I can't believe people like this exist.
TV and the internet brought these people up. Eventually, everyone in the tv show Friends had a really high paying job at some time. Oh, sure, Rachel waitressed at a coffee house for a few seasons making $20k per year but then she magically became a Buyer for a major clothing cooperation and probably made $200k. And her clothing choices or spending habits never changed except for that one episode.
"Manifest a husband" I guess husband's come on Yugioh cards. These women are pretending to special summon the husband of their choice while in reality they are sacrificing good men into the shadow realm.
I sacrifice average man A, broke bum A, and average man B to tribute summon top 1% Tyrone! Top 1% Tyrone Level: 10 ATK: 3000 DEF: 1500 Special Effect: out of most women’s fuckin league but they don’t even know that.
@@adrianchatman5734 Quick spell: pootang - prevents men from activating spells/traps and summoning. Effect backfires if man is playing field spell "Bullshit, I'm out".
I'm a woman in my thirties and make median income and these women are HIGHLY unreasonable. LOL. I genuinely didn't think anyone my age thought like them.
As someone who grew up in poverty, Aba was speaking factual on the idea that you can't even conceptualize what it is like to have money. My current roommate makes over 60k a year and to me the first year or so it felt like he was the richest person to me because he could do things like simply buying things he wanted, getting food from fast food restaurant casually. Mf when I was a kid, getting fast food was like eating at high end restaurant that you did every now and then when you came in with "some money" for it. Even now after my last job and realizing how little I would of made working full time a whole year, I realized that if I just simply made 50k a year I would living living and be making more money than any of my family members have ever made. I'm now trying to get there. These women just want to live like rich people with other people's money because they are used to it. Just as the saying goes, once you go up you don't want to go back down.
Same. My first job out of college was $25k. I was barely breaking even with rent and commuting costs. Going from that to $55k in just 2 years felt like I was rich. Already making what my parents did combined. I was saving cash and having everything I needed. At 6 figures in my early 30s now and I buy crap I don't even need. Even to this day I don't really conceptualize more than what I make. The kind if shit these girls want and their 'lifestyle' would be too incompatible with what I want or raising a family. When someone says they want to be a stay at home mom and their ideal car is NOT a minivan......their priorities are fucked and coming from a place of insane privilege - butlers and maid servants kind of privilege. Like you can't even fit groceries in a Ferrari lol
Frfr. My first job out of college make a little ove 60 and I was ecstatic. I make close to 100 now (that’s with bonus) and I live very comfortable but to them I am broke? I have no consumer needs; I’ve bought all that I’d want to buy and could buy basically anything else I want but what I DONT want is buying labels and eating at fancy gimmicky spots. I’m good with some high quality Calvin Klein jeans and a dinner at a local Simple Mexican restaurant.
My sisters fiancée family comes from money, and they were upset she didn’t buy gifts for her grown ass adult kids who are all over 30. Like we don’t come from money, we grew up very poor. Shit we had candles and blankets for when the light would go out. Like people need to humble themselves. Not everyone comes from or into money. I thought family would be a more important value but to some I guess money over family.
My ex wife did this. She also got more credit cards and lines of credit with higher limits to hide her spending habits. Was giving loans to family members. Etc etc etc. She said she has divorced herself from money. What she really meant is she didn’t want to work and I was good at my job so I could provide. We were short? I should go make more. It was disgusting. The amount of extra debt I uncovered in the divorce was amazing and more than upset me. Don’t get taken for a ride lads.
I know a woman personally who said and I quote, "If a man before the age of 27 isn't making over a hundred mil a year, that's not a man. That is a child." She's 34 and single. Still lives with her parents, and let's just about anyone hit.
I grew up in a household with a SAHM and dad bringing in approximately $200k and I didn’t have half of these expectations when I got married. I like nice things, but I recognized what it meant for my dad to have to work 12 hour days and be super stressed so we would have good things. I dated a man making $150k and all he ever did was try to buy me, but it wasn’t a genuine relationship. It was like he was waiting for me to be impressed by his money and felt no need to connect with me as a woman. I married a wonderful Christian man making average money and I’m sooo happy with him. People who emphasize this need for money are often very empty inside. They want to make up for everything they are missing internally by getting things. I had a lot of things and I can guarantee that if you cannot be content without them, you won’t be content with them. Also, I had a great relationship with my dad growing up. I wanted to marry someone like him way more than I wanted to marry someone with money. We should look at these girls relationships with their parents and see whether they’ve been fulfilled in any of their family relationships.
Shout out to Courtney for trying to educate this young women and bringing them back down to earth. I hope you guys can collaborate with her and ask her some questions.
Agreed. The problem is super obvious, it's the women. They are ignorant. They all say the same answer no matter what podcast, show, channel you go to. Delusional
@@lucasbello117 And still not even understand that they should have been tradtional women, and should be traditional women if they want anything close to that.
She gives great advice, but to think she is educating her _friends?_ Anyone can google any statistic and have a reality check. It's not like her or any of her friends will learn since there has been countless videos on a plethora of related topics - do they learn? No.
It’s honestly so sad the state of the dating world in 2022. And for people thinking this is an exaggeration it’s not. I make 160k a yr and I’m a software engineer in NYC. Even in an expensive city like NYC I’m a top 7% earner. Dated a girl for 2 months who thought I wasn’t being ambitious enough and should strive to make 500k. Dated another one who said 300k income is needed every year. These standards are ridiculous and it’s destroying the concept of romance and relationships.
Same, I'm a cloud engineer in Colorado and slightly over the 6 figure mark but women here are like "you should easily be at 200k" I'm like....lady! You ain't even at 60k!! Come on now 😂
Not just money and finances but how about also teaching emotional intelligence and shattering the concept that partnering up with someone for life is the norm. We should teach our children about surviving alone and not depending on some partnership.
Watching this video is crazy as a daughter of a working class man. I remember as a little girl, hyping myself and getting mentally prepared to marry a poor man and endure a lot of years of barely making ends meet. Because thats what my mom did to marry my father. And I want some one like my father, he is the best man I know. My father is an upstanding, hardworking, loving man. He sacrificed so much for his family and I am grateful for everything he gave us. I knew that if I wanted that type of man, he would probably be where my father was which is among the hardworking men around me. Not in the wealthy men that care more about making it then making a family. If I found a good man and he was well off, then praise the Lord. But if I found a good man who was barely making ends meet, then praise the Lord. I won’t have to worry because he will take care of me. My dad had to go through a lot of work before his small business was doing well enough to support a family. I was ready as a little girl to the same thing my mom did which was stand by my man. Women like the ones in the video just seem so shallow to me.
You weren't born under Disney movies and didn't have parents who sold you lies and fake dreams. They thought you well and you learned well, that's the more important part, because you parents could have teach you everything they could and still you could have gone bad. And some of these girls probably have a hard working father, but him and mommy have spoiled modern women so much they are delusional and think they deserve way above the place they were born and raised.
Yup, my reaction as well. Stay-at-home mom: Wonderful! Her choice, I 100% respect that! 3-4 bedroom house with 2 bathrooms: Absolutely! You need for you and your family some space, and there are reasonably priced houses. A Pagani BC: What...? Not only is that 2.5 million dollar car, but it's also not even meant for families. Especially when you live in the US and you need to drive your kids to certain events. And the jump to that makes no sense.
Just ended a 29 year marriage. Money was a big problem. I made $100k annually and my ex makes $200k (lawyer). She was deeply resentful that she couldn’t stay home while at the same time living in a $5 million house. I got tired of the resentment.
@@hc7092 Don’t understand the argument. I didn’t get annoyed that she didn’t boost her income. She avoided the partner track ‘cause she didn’t want the hassle. Boosting income is different from making enough for her to stay home while enjoying an expensive lifestyle. Nobody can argue we didn’t make “enough”. This is an issue of entitlement.
There is a huge difference between a stay at home mom who takes care of 99% of the cooking, cleaning and childcare (or more depending on your property) and a woman who wants to work full time and also not contribute anything. She's keeping all of her money, not doing anything around the house and expecting everything from him. I put in at least 60 hours a week of straight up getting things done as a stay at home mom who homeschools. But I also don't expect the stuff these women do. We live humbly, well within our means. Our newest vehicle is a 2014, my car is a 2000. It's the sacrifices we make to have me home raising our kids. He definitely doesn't make anywhere near 100k and I'm okay with that.
If I'm the one paying for everything, she's not doing 99%, she's taking care of 100% of everything. If I was married to a wealthy woman and we could live off of her income, I would be doing 100% of everything too. She wouldn't have to touch anything dirty or go hungry. I don't see how people can want someone to pay ALL of their bills, take away their necessity to work these dry jobs out here (which is the worst part of life), and not be willing to do 100% of everything else around the house. You literally have no need for a job thanks to your spouse, you owe it to them for them to not have to do anything when they get home.
I think you understand the bigger picture. having a limit of 100k plus will make it unlikely to achieve the other criteria. guys who make that much plus, want a woman on their program and not a partnership. each to their own.
I'm with Preach. Been married 14yrs. If there's any advice I can offer younger ppl like these, it's that your respect should be built around your partner's effort, not their paycheck. My dude's a hard worker. At 25k or at 125k, he has a dªmn good work ethic, and my respect for him and his efforts have carried me through times when the warm fuzzies of love did not.
😌 i appreciate your words and I agree 1100% I have almost always known that finding someone with money is easy, but finding a compatible character with my ethics and values is far harder. Alas the material is the first thing people see(its hard to see character from a far), and sort people out by. It has made Dating so frustrating that for the longest time I had a pretty aggressive attitude, or was made kinds depressed because of it . Hearing these responses, and remembering my own interactions has me definitely feeling some kind of way
100%, you go for the moral, ethical aspects of the personality and double down on potential, success is a road, hard long bumpy road. Those who wait to harvest what they didn't plant, will always harvest a big disappointment.
Sometimes I think that I'm a bad person. Entitled. Lazy. Selfish. Then you watch these brats and immidiately realize, no, you're alright. Could be worse.
I ran into this once, and the girl was shocked like I had just told her her entire family were dead, when I said "okay bye". She called me a loser, then later on switched gears and started begging (it was point of no return for me, she gave money of mine to a relative because I can "always just go make more money"). I found out two years later she was with another guy, and they were looking for anyone who could let them live with them for a few weeks "while they get on their feet financially". This was a woman in her 30's at the time, dating a man in his 30's. How long you need to "get on your feet", I was paying my own way entirely by age 17 FFS.
The only time in life that's acceptable is when you're a child, but it should end in your teens already. You wanna go out every weekend? Get a damn job.
imo its fair for the man to pay for his wife, but that means she should do the majority of the housework and take care of the kids. He's the alpha in the situation. If she wants more independence, she gotta pay more (50/50 and they got equal say but ofc the wife naturally has to take care of the kids to a certain degree)
If you live in a 1st World Country, you're going to need TWO paychecks to become middle-class, depending on occupation. Cost-of-Living is real. Don't bring your 3rd-World Economic fantasies into 1st World Economic truths then get all butt-hurt when you're poor.
"The man needs to be 100% the supporter but I'm still gonna work and have my own business." That means she intends to keep her money while spending yours.
Even with a degree, amazing portfolio, etc...I was still making like $30k or less after college (2011). These ladies are in for a rude awakening. I also think choosing a partner based on income is kinda sad. I jar wanted someone who was independent (a job, car, own place) and I found the best partner in the world bc I chose for love
Unfortunately there is no rude awakening for these kinds of women. At worse they just lower their physical standards in exchange for meeting financial standards. Nothing stops them from cheating once they have it, either.
My father makes a lot of money, and that made my standards too high (when I was younger). We're not rich (or so I thought, because almost all my friends appear to be way richer than me). So, to me, I thought what my father makes is the average or something. When I started working my salary was always way lower than my father's and only then I understood the reality. My father is rich. I lived a rich lifestyle that most people don't, but I didn't know that growing up. It's really crazy to realise that, because in my eyes being rich is owning lands and mansions and expensive cars and brands. But I didn't realise that owning two houses and 4 cars while raising a family of 6 and taking them all to lower cost vacations every year *is* already rich. Now I know I'm not rich, my salary is very humble "to me" (it's still way above average). My boyfriend's salary is more than mine but still way lower than my father's. I now realise that I'll never be able to live the lifestyle I had with my family. Which is a bit sad to be honest. But what's crazy is that to other people, my current lifestyle is still pretty good and above average but to me I lowered my standards. Perspective matters a lot.
What part of the country? I'm west coast and 30k is pretty much unlivable considering cost of living. 50k is barely making it, 60k is having some ability to save for some luxurious things. These women are delusional
My wife used to spend more than we made. Then she started a fight and we split our finances. Now she spends all of her money and I have a built-up Jeep and several firearms I've been wanting and a savings account full enough to not worry about a whole year of mortgage and utilities. Equality feels good
Problem is if you get divorced she has spent all her money Probably racked up a ton of debt and still gets half of your money and you are on the hook for half her debt unless you setup legal protections for yourself.
People are becoming more and more delusional. Some people think "manifesting" shit without putting in the WORK is gonna MIRACULOUSLY give them the shit they be trying to manifest... EDIT: I just have to add one more thing... THIS IS A SIIIIICKNEEES!!
There’s 7 Billion people in this world… for some perspective, if you make more than $40,000 per year you are among the top 1% richest humans to EVER LIVE. That figure includes the byzantines, the ancient Roman’s, and even all the way back to the creation of money itself. Just consider that. 40k. And you have more money than 99.9% of all humans to ever live.
The hilarious part about women who say their man should make 6 figs, is that most of those women don’t want an older man who’s 10 or 20 or 30 years older… but are they that disconnect from reality to honestly expect a man in his 20/30s to make that much money? Smh
Very very true... women tend to like men within a few yrs of their own age not realizing those 20 somethings are bums financially 😂.... the real money is with guys like me in our late 30s+++ and surprise surprise who has the home and career? Us older guys. Women should automatically date guys 8-15yrs older it's in their best interest
10 years isn't too bad in term of age gaps but 20+30 years?!?why expect them to date someone old enough to be their parent? That is a bit unrealistic just like their expectations of a certain salary.
@@aliciai I think that's the point Alicia, the expect way too much in salary and that expectation cant be met by most people within the 20s and early 30s in some cases.
You know what making “good money” is? Being able to pay your bills, pay for food and clothes on your back, save some money and having something left to either get something nice for yourself sometimes (I don’t mean something extravagant necessarily, but if you save up for something sure!) or save it to go on a vacation perhaps with people you want to make memories with. I don’t mean extravagant vacations either btw. That’s, to me, a good amount. And bills and other expenses are being taken care of by both, not just the man, unless you have other agreements. You don’t need extremely high incomes to be happy. It makes finances easier, but it sure will not make you happier. And I personally don’t want to spend my life making money, i want to enjoy my time. Making money to live instead of living to make money.
Jordan Peterson quotes research that found that happiness increases until about US$ 60k, but doesn't increase past that point, which holds your statement true. From my own personal experience, every word you said is spot on. As a child I was oblivious that we were raised with a substantial amount of welfare and charity. Having to sit with another class all day because we couldn't afford the school excursion my classmates were on is not a pleasant day. I'd say $60k is enough to save a child from that embarrassment. My clothes were always clean though. Holy shit I just remembered my mother used to save the first rinse water from the washing machine into buckets to save on laundry detergent.
@@iamamodel7 Jordan Peterson is a very smart man. I don’t always agree with what he says, but he has a lot of points I definitely agree with. I do think there is one flaw which is that his statement is based on a certain part of the world, so it won’t apply to everyone exactly. I also remember some of the hardships, but I also remember how value was completely different back then. Playing a board game with the family and enjoying quality time, instead of being sucked into a phone all day. We needed different things back then, just like the need is different in other parts of the world right now. 60k might be a fortune to some, otherworldly, while in other parts it might be barely enough. That’s why I didn’t state a number. I think your believes on what you desire are a grand part in your happiness. If you always want above your means, you will never be truly happy. The part where embarrassment became a problem is when the school planned trips above people’s means. There was a time when we all depended on each other to live. When did that become something to be embarrassed about, because we still depend on each other. Yet we now make it a competition to see who makes more money and who has the nicest things, while true connection is something we forgot how to accomplish. It’s a strange world. I remembered sharing a book and being excited to work closely with my mate and we had a blast playing in the fields and climbing trees, making little cabins with wood we could find. We didn’t need anything. Ofcourse my parents were worried, because they had to pay the bills and pay for food, but they also were present. I dare say that those were one of the happiest times though and right after when we were Financially stable. I honestly miss those times today.
Found the research. Daniel Kahneman. Figure is 75k in 2008, wow. Other research in Australia found similar results. The level is higher than the median in both cases but nowhere near what most of these ladies are asking.
I grew up in a home that raked in about 45k a year and I thought I was blessed because some of my friends didn’t even have money for food. The delusion of these women is quite sad. I’m about to start a job making 70k a year and honestly I feel like I’m gonna to be living a dream.
Mannnnn, my current goal is to work a job that lets me clear 60k CANADIAN, around 30 dollars an hour. (so like 45k American. Jesus Christ, I just realized how weak our dollar is. God damn). I just passed an interview for a job that would put me at 18.75 an hour after being stuck working a job that's barely above the minimum wage of my province. After a year of searching for a better job (150+ applications). Seeing this shit damn near blackpills me and makes me just go further down my newfound hobby of firearms, hunting, and sports shooting. I know full well I ain't gonna make it, may as well just learn and develop the skills for going solo now.
@Flozo thank you for these kind words sir, good to know there's still people who support men in their struggles still. I wish you the best as well. We will make it!!!
As a person who is a child of immigrants who came here with nothing and is now studying Econ in college. This entitlement and disconnect from reality is honest unbelievable. Your point on the failure of the parents is unbelievably true. But the fact that they choose to ignore reality is crazy to me
Fellow Econ major? Neat! The information you uncover in those courses would definitely be enough to kill some of their delusions of grandeur. Luckily, they don’t represent everybody.
Woah, I literally did the jaw dropped, eyes wide open, loud exhale out of my lungs when she said $650,000. Like damn! I think, if I made that kind of money, I would run from a woman like this!
@@Cugastratos That's what you'd think you'd do. Most likely wouldn't end up that way. Firstly because of the taxes in that income bracket. Second, because you usually have to spend money on equipment, material, employees, etc when you're making that much money. Third, vehicles and housing, and when you're making that much money you're probably not going to want to live in a one bedroom apartment because you can afford better. And a bigger nicer house means more upkeep costs, a higher electric bill, etc. You'd have to be spending more because you're making more. At 650,000? The income tax rate is 37%. Let that sink in. More than 200,000 of what you're making is just gone. In my state, the annual median property tax is about 4K. But as you'd be making bank, we'd assume double that at 8K and then for business expenses.... The average estimate for the first year of a small business is 40K. So at least 20K- if not more. I'm guessing you'd have to pay 50% or more just to be earning that much and living well enough. It's literally impossible to be making 650K and only spend 40K without committing tax fraud. Honestly? More income isn't exactly all that much better. I mean... Fuck. 37%? That's insane. It's 12% if you're making under 90K when filing jointly. Above that it jumps up to 22%. Which... Actually is really bad for some households, if they end up making more than 90K... Suddenly having 10% more money taken away.... That can be absolutely crushing if they have a large family or a mortgage, or are still paying off a loan or something. Our tax system is fucking weird.
@@plzletmebefrank You are talking about running a business, not how much is made in paid income for an individual after all is said and done. Those who learn how to manage money properly in poverty find it much easier to keep living expenses low (if they so choose) in wealth. Even if someone is making 6 figures in annual income, if their after tax take home pay is over $200k+, one can still live frugally and save 75% of their income.
I make £20k and my partner makes around £40k annually, after tax. we spend around ~15k on bills living in a studio flat in central London, so that leaves us with around 3k a month. we eat like KINGS (spending around £120/week on groceries), and we go out to movies and eat out twice a week, travel often, save tons, and support our families. i am incredibly appreciative and happy with my lifestyle, because I know MOST people cant afford living like this. and knowing that these women think of my lifestyle as a complete life failure and think it’s poverty, makes me furious. what do they need the ~20k a month for?? most families live and raise kids on lower income than ours. they dont need to get uber eats everyday, they dont need a cleaner, they dont need to go to five star restaurants once a week, spend hundrets on cocktails every Friday night, or have designer clothes to be happy.
Respect, not Many people understand that money on its own doesn't equate to happiness it's the memories and experience gained through the hard work is what makes it rewarding, or at least in my opinion, you can't appreciate the value of money when you have never struggled.
I think aba and preach's theory is correct they are just rich. Honestly, that one girl disgusted me. Is it like she is detached from our reality. It is like she looks down on a life where your daddy does not own his private yacht and where your mommy is not getting weekly massages from a male model... I try not to take these people seriously their version of happiness is my nightmare. Just get a partner you can have fun with. Someone you actually want to spend your time with. That is more than enough. You Sir/lady are living the dream i want to have someday.
The British pound is almost worth a dollar, it's worth $1.03 to the pound. You guys are about to collapse from borrowing. If you can afford, leave before it gets worse, or prepare for the worst, it's coming... Renting a bed, you share a room with 2 other people is $500 a month. It's bad, be prepared
I’m in dublin and even with the housing crisis we living in now, if there are more than 50/60k in a house a couple can live comfortably, like eating good, do 2/3 holidays a year and all
We don't need it actually. If you really look into the subject those high earning men get hung out to dry all the time. They don't vet their women and get half their assets jacked in the divorce.
What makes them think they’d make good “stay at home moms?” When you’re that self-centered and have the audacity to think you can take care of kids smh
Imagine average guys being asked these questions, and all of them saying casually. "Oh she has to be a Victoria secret model" as if they think there's millions and millions of Victoria secret models.
This is crazy. My father raised me to be independent and not to rely on a man in life to support me. I work hard and feel happy contributing to my family. I have a wonderful husband and he is an excellent father. Neither of us grew up with money and now we are comfortable and respectful Of each other’s contributions. Nothing is wrong with being a stay at home mom but these ladies are giving off materialistic vibes. You should not spend more than your income and put that stress on your partner. Super unhealthy.
Funny thing is, the women expect their man to make $650,000/year and if he dared to expect that she cooks dinner (not breakfast or lunch) simply dinner 5-7 days a week he would be enforcing the "patriarchy". As if making that much money doesn't require time in the office with a lot of late nights.
Great point. People that make that kind of money at any age just live to work. These women expect a 30 year old to have that much wisdom to be able to do a job like that.
As always ..those same women would eventually complain their men aren’t spending enough time at home and are working too much, I’ve seen this way too much
$650k a year??? I am waking up 3 or 4 in the morning to cook a royal breakfast, pack a worthy lunch and make sure there are snacks in between and a dinner EVERYDAY!!! Also get an army of Roombas to help me manage the floor cleaning, and I will be detail cleaning that house while he is making that dough, Also gardening... I love gardening. Then again I was taught to manage the household by age 5... by 6 I was brooming, mopping the floors, whipping furniture and statues, etc, cleaning walls and curtains, and scrubbing toilets. Completely different culture and generation. These young ladies were spoiled. At age 2 my mom was like, "You can walk? You can broom. Here..." 😵🤐
@@Dnfdnu He was speaking and talking about the airheaded bimbo women in the video. 😂 The superfical skanks. You and I are not part of the skank bimbo women group. We are consider by most men as high value due to the quality of care and love we give our men through demonstrations of care and attention in the tasks we do and offer them. The OP wasn't talking about us. Much blessings... Ase!
Funny story. A couple of years ago I used to work at a gym and this older man would come in to workout, in his 60s but was ripped. We ended up talking and he told me he was a retired dietician and physical therapist for 30 years. He even said he worked for the LA dodgers and Lakers for a while in the early 2000s. Had a house in Brentwood. Finally I ask "Hey, how much did you make before retirement?" And he said oh the most was around $550,000 annual. This was a man who was early 60s, had multiple college degrees, his own medical office AND worked with professional athletes. And these girls want a man who makes MORE? IT IS A SICKNESS
Lot of delusional women out there. 2009, I went on a dating site, listed my age and stated age range of no less than 5 years younger than me, not more than two years older than me. So they were I think 36-43 range? These women were posting faked up pictures, old pictures from when they were younger, their profiles basically said "I'm a goddess and require worship", and were up front about requiring 250K or higher annual income. I found a profile of a woman wearing a chicken costume, and she was at a costume party choking some guy dressed up as a 1920's looking gangster, very little other data but I was intrigued. We dated, we were struggling at the time both making okay money in So-Cal. We're now 10 years married and are very well off. I'm gonna guess most of those "goddesses" from 2009 are drinking boxed wine and arguing with cats.
@mikeg3728 Those goddesses are still on dating apps waiting for Prince Charming. Personally, I think it's great for them to display their red flags out to the public
“Strong, independent women” work jobs making $50-80k and think they’re big and bad. I met women making upwards of $200k and women like her-by far the most down to earth women I ever met. Great personalities and all. They also came from rough backgrounds as well.
What isn’t often discussed is the personality characteristics and the personal discipline and sacrifice over decades that it takes you to reach that level of income ($250k plus). Could these women even handle the personality or the expectations that would come with being with someone that earned that kind of income. You want a 0.01% man in the areas that matter to you but are you a 0.01% woman in the areas that matter to him? As KS used to say, “Want what you want but buy what you can afford.”
No they couldn’t handle all that comes with it 😂😂😂. I mean look at Meghan Markle. If she knew all that was going to happen she probably would have though twice about marrying Harry. Death threats, paparazzi and public embarrassment. Yeah that’s what happens when guys start making that much.
as long as there are idiots out there who marry these bimbos, unfortunately they dont have to understand any of this. they will simply file for "no-fault" divorce and take half as soon as they are challenged or as soon as the ink is dry... then monkeybranch to the next. bimbo life simulator 2022.
I love how Courtney Ryan exposes how out of touch they are. This is what happens when you have a generation of people raised on social media. “They need to make $650k for me to be comfortable.” LOL
Out of touch for regular people but these women feel like they come from families with money. They already grew up with people with big houses and fancy cars, so it’s not crazy for them.
Is she exposing women or is she vetting for them to get content that feeds the algorithm and helps her channel grow? I'm always a little skeptical of these videos, in this day and age when it's somebody's job to make money by getting clicks and views.
@@MildChunkySalsa Yeah, and it's funny because back when they grew up in those comfortable homes, the household salary might've been just 100k. That can easily lead to "people with big houses and fancy cars", especially if you live in a low cost of living area.
Courtney Ryan is great. She’s fairly reasonable in her vids and tries her best to stay objective to both genders. I’m glad she does videos like this to call out delusional women
This whole part of the internet with these women is mind boggling to me. The topic of salary has never occurred to me. Where I'm from you're doing well if you're making 50k a year. 😂
When I met my husband I made almost 3x his $20k salary. He had no motivation to make more, but when we met he started having aspirations to have a family, home, and long term stability. In less than a year, he more than doubled his income to $46k and grinds and evaluates his situation to make more so we have an even more comfortable life. I love him and could never imagine my life without him. No amount of money could make me happier than I am with a husband I love and who loves me.
@@zukodude487987 yes he made her happy because he was making more but because he wanted MORE WITH HER. reading comprehension is crucial here, he wanted a life with her so that motivated HIM to MAKE more. thats some shit i could respect as a man but you wanted to be dumb about it smh
Thank you for these wonderful men❤ I'm a women and grew up poor and my jaw literally hit the floor...why are there so many people in this world that think that way... Money isn't everything... In a way I appreciate my childhood because it has humbled me...
Well can you stop her? My mom spent 20k of my dads money and he stopped her and corrected it. They are now doing well financially and have been married 42 yrs and counting. If you can work it out that would be better than throwing in the towel.
That was the first thing I was. I remember one of my first girlfriends who's mom was "different" was spending her husband's money like water. She was buying stuff like microwaves for random people like stocking stuffers. They were divorced not that long after it seems. You could tell she was oblivious and entitled.
The irony is that each one of these “stay at home” moms are hiring a nanny day 1 that baby comes home. If they’re looking for this kind of money, they’re not looking for responsibility.
A lot of stay at home moms don't hire nannies, or they are the babysitter or nanny for relatives or neighbors so they don't have to leave their kids in daycare.
or they will have to be traditional wifes. It really shows the mental gymnastics they have in their head but they still haven't worked out that the Man in the 1% has more options than they ever will. They are just realizing that there is competition for this man and that he is rare they have yet to even realize that when they meet said man they have nothing to offer him. They may think their vajajay is worth 1million but no most 20 dollar toys are better than some women and a man with options has had his fill if not better Vajajay than theirs but they still think their box is golden without even considering the idea that bed room fun won't be enough to hook that man. I'd love to see that idea put in their heads and watch them melt or the rage build as their lifestyle/atm man they felt entitled to since birth was never really in the cards
@@jackhhun2698 as a woman I agree. I don’t care what anyone says I’m proud to be a career woman that works for her $$$. These women scream desperation. It’s embarrassing.
I agree in a relationship there should be intimacy expected. I am a stay at home mom and have my business but my hubby is our 1 contributor. He has MUCH pressure and as a wife it is my job to love him and provide him a sound home.
My parents are divorced and when I was younger they both were individually making around 350k. I remember my dad showing me what he made one year in the car picking me up from school and it was around 345k after taxes. I told my mom recently what percentage income earner someone making 350k was and she was surprised because she didn’t realize she was in the top 4% of earners for a lot of her life. She thought making that kind of money was a lot more common, I suppose because of the environment she was in. Had I not known the statistics I woulda thought it was much more common too and been walking around delusional. My mom still doesn’t think one million dollars is a lot of money and I suppose that’s a good mindset to have if you plan on being a high earner. Anyway it was interesting to gain some perspective on my childhood and appreciate what I got.
Not a great mindset if you want to also have some grounding in the reality of most people. Especially when a big element is prior connections or luck. Yeah, a part of it could also be attributed to talent and the pursuit/dedication to grow a brand/business or establish a career, but somewhere down the chain there is still going to be a worker who is working harder than a CEO for relatively little pay - whether its picking your food or working in a factory job to make your car upholstery. I think innately people know though, if a million dollars isn't a lot of money to your mum, why doesn't she hire a cleaner and pay her that. Would she tip the mechanic half a million?
So women are just naturally uncurious beings. That's what I get from this story. It's shocking how little modern women understand economics. And we're going into a recession with them.
I have been working my way up the ladder since age 18 in the same industry and I hit 180k a year at 41 years old. And I walked away from that job because I felt like I was selling my soul. These chicks are crazy.
Well an overworked man who is never at home is probably their ideal men. They never see him or have to do anything for them and can go have fun with his money or cheat on him.
Yeah, just gonna leave this here: ”Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil All the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, And she WILLINGLY WORKS with her hands. She is like the merchant ships, She brings her food from afar. She also rises while it is yet night, And provides food for her household, And a portion for her maidservants. She considers a field and buys it; From her profits she plants a vineyard. She girds herself with strength, And strengthens her arms. She perceives that her merchandise is good, And her lamp does not go out by night. She stretches out her hands to the distaff, And her hand holds the spindle. She extends her hand to the poor, Yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of snow for her household, For all her household is clothed with scarlet. She makes tapestry for herself; Her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, When he sits among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, And supplies sashes for the merchants. Strength and honor are her clothing; She shall rejoice in time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, And on her tongue is the law of kindness. She watches over the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates.“ Proverbs 31:10-31 NKJV GIRL, do something. This love of money and riches will have you lazy. You take your womanhood and you use it as a scapegoat for a get-rich-quick scheme, essentially. You’re not interested in loving your husband, you’re interested in what he can do for you. Make marriage an actual covenant, not a business transaction.
It's weird how independent women are looking to be carried through life. Like the lack of just sense to be saying this while themselves have no such things is head spinning. He needs to provide for me things I have no capacity whatsoever to attain myself.
It's crazy how they look at the guys on their level as way beneath them but want a partnership with the guys that could literally have a dozen of them.
They say that stats prove they are better off without men and are happier alone yet say they want a man to contribute 100% financially to their relationships, subreddits like AskMen, Dating and Dating Advice is filled with women asking questions about dating men and they are loads of single women in their 40s and 30s online Whining about having no man I work with a woman in her 40s and she use to constantly be miserable when she was single and whine about having no one. Yet met a fire fighter and started being in a relationship with him and now she's one of the happiest people at work Men and woman (At least straight men and women) want one another. Humans are social animals. I don't think many men or women want to grow old and die alone
That’s exactly the reason Aba was saying they must come from money. Because their thought processes is that of “having money= I can afford to be carried and not work.” They’re clearly used to being able to live in such a manner that they’re not able to fathom what the majority of people actually earn or how they live.
“You have to manifest the lifestyle you want to have” instead of “You have to work for the life you want to have” key difference is one is a dream and one is a reality
It is very hard for me to fathom just how delusional some people are Edit: some of you are so pressed😂let me be clear: most people who think like this are female, but there is at least 1% of men who think like this, so no, I'm not gonna say only WOMEN. Just like Aba&Preach I think that people, not only one gender or the other, should be held accountable. Have a good day everyone.
Women confuse sex with commitment because they project their own thinking patterns. Women think that because they can get a man to have sex with them that can get them to commit. Men don't commit through sex. Men commit through their attention and resources. Sex is as trivial as taking a piss for men.
As a stay at home mom and wife, these women are delusional. They're going to be very surprised when they find out how much work it is being a stay at home mom and wife.
They're so indoctrinated by feminism that they're probably making 50k but also think that they make 82% of what men make. So they're definitely making more than the average young man and yet also think they make less than men.
Theyre just gonna ask for a cleaner nd cooks to be hired, so they can focus on their "hobbies and self care". Women who talk like this don't want tk have to do anything let alone cook and clean lol
I'm gonna be honest, I don't think many people know what their parents' make. It was always kept kind of a secret from me, personally. Even after I got what I thought was a halfway decently paying job, all I got from my dad about my salary was "That's a lot more than me" I had absolutely zero idea how much we were living off of, even throughout my college career, and so I could see how it's hard for these young women to identify or understand what's high and what's low in terms of income
I'm the opposite. My father makes a lot of money, and that made my standards too high. We're not rich (or so I thought, because almost all my friends appear to be way richer than me). So, to me, I thought what my father makes is the average or something. When I started working my salary was always way lower than my father's and only then I understood the reality. My father is rich. I lived a rich lifestyle that most people don't, but I didn't know that growing up. It's really crazy to realise that, because in my eyes being rich is owning lands and mansions and expensive cars and brands. But I didn't realise that owning two houses and 4 cars while raising a family of 6 and taking them all to lower cost vacations every year *is* already rich. Now I know I'm not rich, my salary is very humble "to me" (it's still way above average). My boyfriend's salary is more than mine but still way lower than my father's. I now realise that I'll never be able to live the lifestyle I had with my family. Which is a bit sad. But what's crazy is that to other people, my current lifestyle is still pretty good and above average but to me I lowered my standards. Perspective matters a lot.
Never knew until they were in their late 50's... then Pop's got COVID and sent to the ER and had to learn the entire estate's finances... they make a lot but less than I thought; turns out I made more, but that's generational wealth in a nutshell and means they did their job's correctly.
It was more taboo in US society around the recession when I grew up for some reason for people to talk about money and salary but now its different. You should be discussing salary and money to get advice but also see if you're being short changed for your position and experience.
0:13 “You have to manifest a husband girl” shawty must think this is a Disney movie. Women like this be throwing around terms like *“6/7 figures”* like they’re talking about a Wendy’s 4 for $4🤦🏾♂️.
This is what social media and simps has made women into. They all think they're the shit, big ass egos with little to no evidence to justify it. Why would a man that makes 6/7 figures even want something (other a quick fuck cus he's bored) from someone this entitled that most likely has more miles than a 90's toyota? I get better investment deals in times of a Recession than when dealing with women like these. ROI is better even.
Ya she's lessening to some good old con called Joel Olsen. See he and others thinks they are gods. Or they are God is a prostitute and they are His pimps. Sick manifest what delusional these people are not delusional they are sick. If this was a reality for most people how come they are not making that kind of money?. a woman talking about a family car that seats only two Adults. Over 2 million.
I met my husband when he was barely making ends meat in an internship while in his last year of college. When we were first married we barely made 42k together. 7 years later + 3 kids later, he is now making enough where we are paying off debt, own a house and I am a stay at home mom who homeschools our kids. You better believe I appreciate that man and he doesn’t do a damn thing except get to enjoy time with the kids when he gets off. That man has not cooked or cleaned in years and when he does do Saturday morning breakfast or a random dinner it is something I had already prepped the night or day before so he doesn’t have to stress or try to figure out something. These ladies are nuts, especially if they see his money as theirs but not theirs as his.
I grew up in a household that brought in less than $30k a year, usually closer to $16k. This shit is completely incomprehensible to me. What do you even spend all that on?
I had a conversation about this with my younger sister. She is a recently graduated teacher making less than 30 K. She wants a man who makes around what I make but is her age. I’m seven years older than her and I make 200K. But I’ve worked for the last 10 years to strategically put myself into this position.
Yeah, just keep up conversations with her to keep a more realistic perspective. What a good man she needs is very different than a fantasy man (unattainable) she wants.
I’m gonna throw this out there: i agree with Preach. As a stay at home mom with a husband who runs his own business, i am fully willing to give him the goods whenever he wants it. He is respectful to me and doesn’t push it if he can see it’s not a good time, but i never turn him down if he really wants it. In fact, there are times i come to him to offer it, even if I’m not in the mood, to make sure he’s getting his needs met. S3x matters, y’all.
I can't speak for every man, but I will honestly say that physical intimacy with my lady deepens my passion for her and fuels my desire to protect and provide for her. The more wanted I feel the more I want to stoke that flame. The minute the passion begins to wane in the bedroom, it starts to spill over into others.
@@ralphfraz yes, that’s how I feel! We go weeks at a time without it because i keep having babies and getting sick for the first trimester, and I feel more distant than he does. He takes it in stride because he’s grateful for the babies, but I know sincerely that our intimacy brings us closer and without it, we would just be best friends. Which is fine, but the intimacy is such a wonderful connection, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’ve told him before that if either of us suffered from an accident or illness that took s3x out of the picture, I would still be committed but something would be missing and I’d find another way to make up for it. That bond matters!
Not a stay at home mom but I didn’t realize how important/necessary sex was to my husband until recently and we’ve been together 8 years. And even if I don’t want it, I understand that it’s not about me. And that I need to fulfill his needs the same he would fulfill mine even if he didn’t feel like it at the moment. It’s all about a little give and take.
@@xtiphuny89 "... But I know sincerely that our intimacy brings us closer and without it, we would just be best friends." exactly why I lost my ex-girlfriend whom I had a long distance relationship with. She viewed us as friends after months apart because we couldn't be intimate. While I would look at things logically, she would turn to her feelings immediately and felt she needed to call things off instead -- eventhough I tried to reason with her about why she felt the way she did. Most frustrating situation of my life.
The financial illiteracy among most of the young women is crazy. Even the video where the uni girls were asked what their ideal partner should make, they all answered 100k. One went so far to say 400k and anything above. Sky is the limit. Then when they were asked, what profession they were studying for, most of them answered economics. Like, how can you study about money and be so illiterate about it?
I find it astounding as well. If they can't grasp the standard income in the US, then how can they remotely assess the affordability of anything. Average income is the standard by which all expenses would be determined and they have no frame of reference.
@@jfkst1it's really mind boggling. Even in a country like the US they're looking for the top 1% most of the times. Do they not know that the median income in the US is roughly 20k a year (the GDP per capita (PPP) is 70k)? The delusion is unreal!
A lot of people are in love with this 6 figure fantasy but they aren't aware of how much time and effort goes into making just 100K. You will miss A LOT of family time, a lot of time with friends, and a lot of personal time. Its crazy that they think it's feasible to even live like that.
I think this disconnect has a lot to do with where privilege meets entitlement. I grew up with quite a bit of financial privilege but I also understood that I had to work to support myself. The moment you see how hard it is to make money and how undervalued our labor is, it really puts things in perspective
Exactly. I think that's why even women with middle class upbringings will have this perspective bc even though they had less privilege, they had a high level entitlement that was never snuffed out by responsible parents. It's "daddy's princess syndome" imo.
I think another huge part of it is everyone on social media giving the illusion of wealth bleeding into real life expectations. People get on all these websites, construct a fantasy lifestyle to compete over who’s more successful with people they’ll never meet in real life. And then forget all the people they fallow online are just as fake as they are.
My father makes a lot of money, and that made my standards too high (when I was younger). We're not rich (or so I thought, because almost all my friends appear to be way richer than me). So, to me, I thought what my father makes is the average or something. When I started working my salary was always way lower than my father's and only then I understood the reality. My father is rich. I lived a rich lifestyle that most people don't, but I didn't know that growing up. It's really crazy to realise that, because in my eyes being rich is owning lands and mansions and expensive cars and brands. But I didn't realise that owning two houses and 4 cars while raising a family of 6 and taking them all to vacations every year **is** already rich. Now I know I'm not rich, my salary is very humble "to me" (it's still way above average). My boyfriend's salary is more than mine but still way lower than my father's. I now realise that I'll never be able to live the lifestyle I had with my family. Which is a bit sad to be honest. But what's crazy is that to other people, my current lifestyle is still pretty good and above average but to me I lowered my standards. Perspective matters a lot.
Do you think it’s really a lack of financial literacy that should be standard in middle schools to high school, as well as college? If people were watching channels like minority mindset would they get a grasp better or do we need these viral videos to clap back at these standards?
I knew a spoiled woman who grew up rich and she's almost 40. She has good looks going for her because she's so desperate for a rich man she used dating sites and even expensive matchmakers. She works a minimum wage job, has her expensive NYC apartment paid for by her rich parents and their rich parents. She has only 1 sibling so its not like the money is split around a bunch of spoiled kids at once. And she refused to go into high paying jobs like the rest of her family cause she thought she could cruise through her entire life on her family's money and then later her husband's. She wants a man who makes at least 350k a year, has dated a millionaire, but flopped the date by being quick to ask for marriage and he realized she's just trying to gold dig.
She’s called a “left over woman”. I’m surrounded by colleagues and fiends in their 40’s who make an excess of 300K+ most of which were married in their 20’s and early 30’s. Almost all of them met their wives either in university or through work. The single ones (myself included), would never consider anyone over 30.
@@hardware20x Usually what is said about the type of men who don't go for women over 30s is that they either aren't looking for something serious, or just want a young woman they can control financially into being however he wants her to be. Those relationships don't last at all without chemistry and compatibility involved, just like a normal relationship. Unless ofc you guys decide to do an open marriage when you get miserable. I've also seen some men who also wouldn't go for women over 25 end up going for women over 25, stuff happens, plans can change.
A teacher of mine once snapped and said something like that. She said that was the problem to raise your daughter with the mindset that she is a princess and she deserves all. I am too stupid to say it is right or wrong, but every time I see those ratings of 10/10, I remember those words.
nope my father raised me to be a princess he is well off financially but he also taught me what the meaning of money is. when i married and fell in love with my husband he had nothing literally. but i didn't care what i did care about was seeing a fight in him now years later he makes more money than my father does. so raising your daughter to be a princess isn't wrong but raising her to be an airhead about the world is.
Kate Middleton, who married into the British Royal family... she can raise her daughters with that mindset, cos the British public will continue to finance their lifestyle for the foreseeable future. Everyone else, better wake up and realize they aren't getting married to the heir to the throne.
She's not wrong tho. A lot of women with that mindset did grow up spoiled. By spoiled i mean they never had to work for anything and they get their egos inflated by their parents.
@Jessicaro he might have used the word princess but he obviously was instilling actual values in you. Thats not "daddy's princess syndrome" imo. He just taught you your worth and while you may have gotten spoiled, he didn't allow for ignorance.
I come from an upper middle class family but i dont expect my boyfriend to make a lot of money, my mother has taught me to be humble and 3 meals a day and a roof over your head is the best life i can think of with a man i love.
If you want a husband who can make 150,000+ a year, you need to say goodbye to vacations. And having him around often. Mine goes to work at 5 am and often doesn't get home until 9pm. 6 days a week. Vacations happen once a year, for 3 sometimes 4 days tops. Because he has to work in order to make that money. And our vacations are not glamorous. We go camping, because he likes camping ( i do not, but it's HIS vacation and I want him to enjoy it)
Seconded, exact same situation with my partner. Oh and he finds it hard to relax and emotionally connect with people (it took us a long time) because his work is so high power and he is on all the time. It’s a lot but I care about him a lot; plus I have my own well paid career!
cue the divorce, that you initiate, where you are being "emotionally neglected" therefore you need access to half of his money and possessions for the rest of your life.
What's really telling is that to manifest her lifestyle and her vacations they never think what do I have to make or what career I should choose. It's someone else's responsibility to give her the lifestyle she wants. Someone else has to sacrifice and work hard for her dream life.
I said 60k on two incomes to this guy and he gasped and told me. This is the first time I heard of a reasonable woman with common sense. Mind you he owns his own business but I think he was really impressed. Little does he know I work with numbers and companies comparing the cost of living. These young ladies are insanely naive.
Well if you listen to what they said they grew up spoon fed and want to continue getting spoon fed. You on the other hand probably grew up with seeing your parents go through hardships and you as well as an adult.
Sounds strikingly similar to "ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country" In your defense though, it's a common theme
Hi Aba & Preach! Thanks for reacting to my video. Since there were some unanswered questions about their background, these girls are all between the ages of 23-30. A lot of them weren’t fully comfortable answering details about their upbringing but I can confirm not all of them come from affluent backgrounds. One thing that has become clear to me from doing these interviews is that so many are unaware of the stats and reality. We just shot another video this weekend with a new group of girls so stay tuned lol
Oh lawd. Thank you for clarifying
@aba
I got offered 38k for my first job outta college in 2020. Yet, these gals think six figures is normal.
Thank you for making these kinds of videos Courtney!
It’s abysmal the view these girls have on life, the men they want are at least aged 50…yet they would refer to such men as predators when they are surrounded by younger women 🤦🏾♂️
Can we start asking them to name 5 careers...not sectors....careers/job titles that make the money they're asking for?
world class surgeon, CEO of top 5% companies, world class soccer players, wprld class muscicians, movie directors, actors, ......literally the top 0.5% of any field. Most likely these people are very famous too
theyd be like 'DOCTOR, LAWYER, DRUG DEALER, SCAMMER, ARTIST'
Courtney Ryan does this in the original video. It gets rough.
@@MrSub132 I'm pretty sure you'd have to be a criminal mastermind to even be the top 5.0% to have that much money when you scam ppl
@@MrSub132 how would a scammer or drug dealers annual income be calculated? You doughnut
Can we all agree that we would love to have the same women that say this be interviewed in 10-20 years ? I don’t even mean this rudely, just to see the outcome of this thought process.
Finally, sociology majors will have something useful to study!
we will. because there will be so many of them.
An equivalent of the 7 up series. Would be beautiful.
A cohort study, yes 🙌
A cohort study, yes 🙌
This delusion is a SIIIICKKNNNESSSSS. 🥴
SICKKKKKKKNESSSSSSSS ABA VOICE 😂
IT IS DEVIANT!!!!!
Of the highest order
And HIGHLY CONTAGIOUS🤌✨😂
@@woodside4life AND THEREFORE WE DONT WANT IT
These women are confusing stay at home mom with trophy wife.
This needs to be pinned 📌
Trophy wives don't ever get a say in the relationship. They still want a say while bring very little.
underrated comment
*They were probably chosen for not having a mom in their lives.*
A couple of these are instagram models. They might be making a little money for a super short career but they'll be out of that soon.
Imagine putting effort into manifesting a man that makes 650K, but not manifesting to make that yourself.
Because all these women bring to the table is pum pum. So they expect to get a man with that alone. They also think their pum pum is worth 650k, delusional !
This is the best comment so far
God daaaaayum 🤌🏻
She needs to manifest a gym membership. If you want to throw out those numbers, you better be top of the line
Let’s be real here. How many multi-millionaires are married to women who were making even close to what they make prior to marriage?
There’s no shame in manifesting a wealthy man because wealthy men do not care for a woman’s money the same way an average man would. I hear what you’re saying, but it means nothing really because a woman making $650k still wants a man making the same.
Im hoping any man that makes this much doesn’t get with women like these.
XD they do saddly
Hoping? Lmao you don't have to hope. Absolutely no top 1% guy would go for any of these average chicks, hence why they will all end up either single, or "settling" with a husband and then ultimately divorcing
@@TheJarlath9 no we dont
@@TheJarlath9 nah they don’t - Most of these women are 7s at best and rich dudes don’t date these gold digging tramps.
They can go to Eastern Europe get a 10 that doesn’t have demands like this.
@@halcyon7018 we?
😂😂😂😂 650k!!!?? She’d be fortunate to get a supervisor at AT&T with benefits.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😭 uhhhhh chiiiiile lmfao
I recently dated a girl with two surgeons for parents. It was literally impossible to please her as a guy making 60K. She wanted to go on trips every month, wanted to go shopping at expensive places & go out to eat every day. I just couldn’t keep up, that’s just not a reality I can live in. I grew up poor (family went bankrupt twice), it was way too much for me.
My biggest thing in a partner (after religion and kids) is similar financial goals, future, aspirations, and PROGRESS! If she wants an early retirement or high income but isn’t on track because she spends her least dollar she isn’t for me. Trust me you’ll see how many marriages end because the wife is a spender and then when things get bad she’ll go into debt, hide it, then leave the husband on the hook for it and take half of his assets.
Eating out everyday is a good way to wreck your health. That girl is going to get obese and wrinkle quickly because restaurant food simply does not have the nutrition to support your health and maintain your youthful skin. It's good you left her, she was going to get fat and wrinkled anyway. Health is more important than wealth.
That's why they say date in your league she was out of your league you got to date someone poor try the Philippines 🤣
Go be a surgeon then
@@mimi.w667 such insightful advice, thank you for sharing such thought provoking wisdom
I'm a women myself and listening to these women is mind blowing. Make your own money but not spend it on the family? wtf who brought these people up. I can't believe people like this exist.
No the dad
TV and the internet brought these people up. Eventually, everyone in the tv show Friends had a really high paying job at some time. Oh, sure, Rachel waitressed at a coffee house for a few seasons making $20k per year but then she magically became a Buyer for a major clothing cooperation and probably made $200k. And her clothing choices or spending habits never changed except for that one episode.
Welcome to our brave new world. This is what a lot of us have to deal with out here. Smdh....
A selfish woman on the fringe, in my understanding does not represent women as a whole
The Kardashians, Instagram, OF’s, Cardi B & Nikki Minaj brought them up 😂
"Manifest a husband" I guess husband's come on Yugioh cards. These women are pretending to special summon the husband of their choice while in reality they are sacrificing good men into the shadow realm.
Before ending up with one of those they go voluntarily to the shadow realm. To hide from them
I sacrifice average man A, broke bum A, and average man B to tribute summon top 1% Tyrone!
Top 1% Tyrone
Level: 10
ATK: 3000
DEF: 1500
Special Effect: out of most women’s fuckin league but they don’t even know that.
🔥🔥🔥
Now I activate my trap card: DIVORCE and I take half!!
@@adrianchatman5734 Quick spell: pootang - prevents men from activating spells/traps and summoning. Effect backfires if man is playing field spell "Bullshit, I'm out".
I'm a woman in my thirties and make median income and these women are HIGHLY unreasonable. LOL. I genuinely didn't think anyone my age thought like them.
most don't.
oh they do
Time to recognize…modern western women are the reason passport bros exist.
Its not unreasonable. Its a patriarchal society, men need to step up and provide for women.
@@paulinejackson5861 Women are doing just fine in their own. EQUALITY is amazing
As someone who grew up in poverty, Aba was speaking factual on the idea that you can't even conceptualize what it is like to have money. My current roommate makes over 60k a year and to me the first year or so it felt like he was the richest person to me because he could do things like simply buying things he wanted, getting food from fast food restaurant casually.
Mf when I was a kid, getting fast food was like eating at high end restaurant that you did every now and then when you came in with "some money" for it. Even now after my last job and realizing how little I would of made working full time a whole year, I realized that if I just simply made 50k a year I would living living and be making more money than any of my family members have ever made. I'm now trying to get there.
These women just want to live like rich people with other people's money because they are used to it. Just as the saying goes, once you go up you don't want to go back down.
you're absolutely right. let's keep working hard so can get there soon. to a place of stability 🙏
Same. My first job out of college was $25k. I was barely breaking even with rent and commuting costs.
Going from that to $55k in just 2 years felt like I was rich. Already making what my parents did combined. I was saving cash and having everything I needed. At 6 figures in my early 30s now and I buy crap I don't even need.
Even to this day I don't really conceptualize more than what I make.
The kind if shit these girls want and their 'lifestyle' would be too incompatible with what I want or raising a family.
When someone says they want to be a stay at home mom and their ideal car is NOT a minivan......their priorities are fucked and coming from a place of insane privilege - butlers and maid servants kind of privilege.
Like you can't even fit groceries in a Ferrari lol
Frfr. My first job out of college make a little ove 60 and I was ecstatic. I make close to 100 now (that’s with bonus) and I live very comfortable but to them I am broke?
I have no consumer needs; I’ve bought all that I’d want to buy and could buy basically anything else I want but what I DONT want is buying labels and eating at fancy gimmicky spots. I’m good with some high quality Calvin Klein jeans and a dinner at a local Simple Mexican restaurant.
Preach man.
My sisters fiancée family comes from money, and they were upset she didn’t buy gifts for her grown ass adult kids who are all over 30. Like we don’t come from money, we grew up very poor. Shit we had candles and blankets for when the light would go out. Like people need to humble themselves. Not everyone comes from or into money. I thought family would be a more important value but to some I guess money over family.
My ex wife did this. She also got more credit cards and lines of credit with higher limits to hide her spending habits. Was giving loans to family members. Etc etc etc. She said she has divorced herself from money. What she really meant is she didn’t want to work and I was good at my job so I could provide. We were short? I should go make more. It was disgusting. The amount of extra debt I uncovered in the divorce was amazing and more than upset me. Don’t get taken for a ride lads.
I hope u didn't end up losing half ur stuff from divorce. U know how biased divorce laws r towards women.
glad you escaped man
@@CarefulHowYouStep I will be paying off that crap for years. I guess I escaped before it got far far worse.
Yikes! So sorry man, that's terrible.
Wow, yeah guys say they don’t want an independent woman but there’s benefits to it.
I know a woman personally who said and I quote, "If a man before the age of 27 isn't making over a hundred mil a year, that's not a man. That is a child."
She's 34 and single. Still lives with her parents, and let's just about anyone hit.
What country does she live in to think 100 million is normal? Zimbabwe?
😂
Christ, it’s like they double/triple/quadruple down on their delusion as they get older
She must’ve been drunk
oh wait, 100 mil?! Dafuq?
I initially read that as thousand.
I grew up in a household with a SAHM and dad bringing in approximately $200k and I didn’t have half of these expectations when I got married. I like nice things, but I recognized what it meant for my dad to have to work 12 hour days and be super stressed so we would have good things. I dated a man making $150k and all he ever did was try to buy me, but it wasn’t a genuine relationship. It was like he was waiting for me to be impressed by his money and felt no need to connect with me as a woman. I married a wonderful Christian man making average money and I’m sooo happy with him.
People who emphasize this need for money are often very empty inside. They want to make up for everything they are missing internally by getting things. I had a lot of things and I can guarantee that if you cannot be content without them, you won’t be content with them.
Also, I had a great relationship with my dad growing up. I wanted to marry someone like him way more than I wanted to marry someone with money. We should look at these girls relationships with their parents and see whether they’ve been fulfilled in any of their family relationships.
That’s an excellent point. These ladies with these expectations might not have grown up with supportive/protective parents.
Shout out to Courtney for trying to educate this young women and bringing them back down to earth. I hope you guys can collaborate with her and ask her some questions.
my money is on the fact they will still expect a guy to earn a shitload of money for em
Agreed. The problem is super obvious, it's the women. They are ignorant.
They all say the same answer no matter what podcast, show, channel you go to.
Delusional
I like her channel. She gives sound advice.
@@lucasbello117 And still not even understand that they should have been tradtional women, and should be traditional women if they want anything close to that.
She gives great advice, but to think she is educating her _friends?_ Anyone can google any statistic and have a reality check. It's not like her or any of her friends will learn since there has been countless videos on a plethora of related topics - do they learn? No.
It’s honestly so sad the state of the dating world in 2022. And for people thinking this is an exaggeration it’s not. I make 160k a yr and I’m a software engineer in NYC. Even in an expensive city like NYC I’m a top 7% earner. Dated a girl for 2 months who thought I wasn’t being ambitious enough and should strive to make 500k. Dated another one who said 300k income is needed every year. These standards are ridiculous and it’s destroying the concept of romance and relationships.
Same, I'm a cloud engineer in Colorado and slightly over the 6 figure mark but women here are like "you should easily be at 200k" I'm like....lady! You ain't even at 60k!! Come on now 😂
Once you date women outside of western feminist countries, you will never want to go back.
Meanwhile she barely a 6 while expecting 6s
i live in nyc too! dating here sucks. everyone seems so confused about how to date...
I totally agree 💯. You make a great income and for women to turn you down is crazy to me.
For all the parents out there, please teach your children about money and finances. This is ridiculous and hilarious at the same time.
Not just money and finances but how about also teaching emotional intelligence and shattering the concept that partnering up with someone for life is the norm. We should teach our children about surviving alone and not depending on some partnership.
No.
Agreed. Freaking nuts
@@napalmsf should we encourage them to not have a family?
@@napalmsf Partnering for life should be the norm. Being alone for too long is unhealthy.
Watching this video is crazy as a daughter of a working class man. I remember as a little girl, hyping myself and getting mentally prepared to marry a poor man and endure a lot of years of barely making ends meet. Because thats what my mom did to marry my father. And I want some one like my father, he is the best man I know. My father is an upstanding, hardworking, loving man. He sacrificed so much for his family and I am grateful for everything he gave us. I knew that if I wanted that type of man, he would probably be where my father was which is among the hardworking men around me. Not in the wealthy men that care more about making it then making a family. If I found a good man and he was well off, then praise the Lord. But if I found a good man who was barely making ends meet, then praise the Lord. I won’t have to worry because he will take care of me. My dad had to go through a lot of work before his small business was doing well enough to support a family. I was ready as a little girl to the same thing my mom did which was stand by my man. Women like the ones in the video just seem so shallow to me.
So like, this was written by ChatGPT...right?
You weren't born under Disney movies and didn't have parents who sold you lies and fake dreams.
They thought you well and you learned well, that's the more important part, because you parents could have teach you everything they could and still you could have gone bad.
And some of these girls probably have a hard working father, but him and mommy have spoiled modern women so much they are delusional and think they deserve way above the place they were born and raised.
@@docmadhattan I feel a bit validated that I'm not the only one who got slapped by the uncanny valley
Hey babe gal...did you find that man....?
I make 70k a year, hit me up lol
“I want a 3 bedroom 2 bath house”
That sounds good, I’d love to liv-
“And a pagani”
…
Yup, my reaction as well.
Stay-at-home mom: Wonderful! Her choice, I 100% respect that!
3-4 bedroom house with 2 bathrooms: Absolutely! You need for you and your family some space, and there are reasonably priced houses.
A Pagani BC: What...?
Not only is that 2.5 million dollar car, but it's also not even meant for families. Especially when you live in the US and you need to drive your kids to certain events.
And the jump to that makes no sense.
She said in an ideal world she would have a pagani, the Ferrari is what shocked me bc she said that’s more realistic😂
I had to look up what a pagani was.
I’d never heard that word before.
Imagine that goofy bint trying to get in a Pagani, let alone drive it.
@Kicking Back, Punching Cones you work for ferrari?
Just ended a 29 year marriage. Money was a big problem. I made $100k annually and my ex makes $200k (lawyer). She was deeply resentful that she couldn’t stay home while at the same time living in a $5 million house. I got tired of the resentment.
Fair enough. Did you make efforts to try and boost your salary? That’s probably what annoyed her
@@hc7092 Don’t understand the argument. I didn’t get annoyed that she didn’t boost her income. She avoided the partner track ‘cause she didn’t want the hassle. Boosting income is different from making enough for her to stay home while enjoying an expensive lifestyle. Nobody can argue we didn’t make “enough”. This is an issue of entitlement.
@@hc7092 will he kill himself? Some people may just be happy with what they have
Females can't date down and they are unwilling to understand that. Or else their slay queen society would crumble
@@hc7092 dude is making 100k! Why tf should he have to "boost his salary"? Some yanks really are slaves to money. There's more to life than that.
If your wife spend more than you make you need a new wife.
There is a huge difference between a stay at home mom who takes care of 99% of the cooking, cleaning and childcare (or more depending on your property) and a woman who wants to work full time and also not contribute anything. She's keeping all of her money, not doing anything around the house and expecting everything from him. I put in at least 60 hours a week of straight up getting things done as a stay at home mom who homeschools. But I also don't expect the stuff these women do. We live humbly, well within our means. Our newest vehicle is a 2014, my car is a 2000. It's the sacrifices we make to have me home raising our kids. He definitely doesn't make anywhere near 100k and I'm okay with that.
you the last of a dying breed 😪
If I'm the one paying for everything, she's not doing 99%, she's taking care of 100% of everything. If I was married to a wealthy woman and we could live off of her income, I would be doing 100% of everything too. She wouldn't have to touch anything dirty or go hungry. I don't see how people can want someone to pay ALL of their bills, take away their necessity to work these dry jobs out here (which is the worst part of life), and not be willing to do 100% of everything else around the house. You literally have no need for a job thanks to your spouse, you owe it to them for them to not have to do anything when they get home.
Wealthy people have maids.
I think you understand the bigger picture. having a limit of 100k plus will make it unlikely to achieve the other criteria. guys who make that much plus, want a woman on their program and not a partnership. each to their own.
gods work, your doing things that will have immeasurable value in the long run, especially your kids, power to ya.
I'm with Preach.
Been married 14yrs. If there's any advice I can offer younger ppl like these, it's that your respect should be built around your partner's effort, not their paycheck.
My dude's a hard worker. At 25k or at 125k, he has a dªmn good work ethic, and my respect for him and his efforts have carried me through times when the warm fuzzies of love did not.
😌 i appreciate your words and I agree 1100%
I have almost always known that finding someone with money is easy, but finding a compatible character with my ethics and values is far harder.
Alas the material is the first thing people see(its hard to see character from a far), and sort people out by.
It has made Dating so frustrating that for the longest time I had a pretty aggressive attitude, or was made kinds depressed because of it .
Hearing these responses, and remembering my own interactions has me definitely feeling some kind of way
This is solid advice.
there's always one of you in every comment section of a video like this.
Unfortunately that's not what young people value these days.
100%, you go for the moral, ethical aspects of the personality and double down on potential, success is a road, hard long bumpy road.
Those who wait to harvest what they didn't plant, will always harvest a big disappointment.
Sometimes I think that I'm a bad person. Entitled. Lazy. Selfish. Then you watch these brats and immidiately realize, no, you're alright. Could be worse.
Factssss
Same lmfao like I'm lazy, but I have a job and expect to pull my weight in a relationship. I'm just looking for an equally lazy guy lol
I'm still entitled, lazy, and selfish.
I just have a lot of competition.
They make me feel physically unwell.
You're right, you could be a woman.
I ran into this once, and the girl was shocked like I had just told her her entire family were dead, when I said "okay bye". She called me a loser, then later on switched gears and started begging (it was point of no return for me, she gave money of mine to a relative because I can "always just go make more money"). I found out two years later she was with another guy, and they were looking for anyone who could let them live with them for a few weeks "while they get on their feet financially". This was a woman in her 30's at the time, dating a man in his 30's. How long you need to "get on your feet", I was paying my own way entirely by age 17 FFS.
The idea of wanting an extravagant lifestyle COMPLETELY funded by someone else is truly a SIIIIICKNEEEESS
sickening as well hahahah
It truly is next level delusions
The only time in life that's acceptable is when you're a child, but it should end in your teens already. You wanna go out every weekend? Get a damn job.
Lmaoooo imagine im sitting like dam i wanna drive Ferraris and live in a penthouse because thats the lifestyle id like. Women would lose their mind.
@@Fabrizio7171 Bruh I’m over here like I’m in the wrong line of business!
So... we want equality but... Look after me?
imo its fair for the man to pay for his wife, but that means she should do the majority of the housework and take care of the kids. He's the alpha in the situation. If she wants more independence, she gotta pay more (50/50 and they got equal say but ofc the wife naturally has to take care of the kids to a certain degree)
This is what makes women look bad.
@@waleedaslam9702 Majority is not how you spell all.
If you live in a 1st World Country, you're going to need TWO paychecks to become middle-class, depending on occupation. Cost-of-Living is real. Don't bring your 3rd-World Economic fantasies into 1st World Economic truths then get all butt-hurt when you're poor.
@Waleed Aslam agreed, I'll pay all the bills and a little for her to buy stuff she wants, but she's looking after the house and kids
"The man needs to be 100% the supporter but I'm still gonna work and have my own business." That means she intends to keep her money while spending yours.
💯
And even use your money to MAKE her terrible business ideas
New title: Women that haven't worked a day in their life judge all men based on their income.
Even with a degree, amazing portfolio, etc...I was still making like $30k or less after college (2011). These ladies are in for a rude awakening. I also think choosing a partner based on income is kinda sad. I jar wanted someone who was independent (a job, car, own place) and I found the best partner in the world bc I chose for love
Unfortunately there is no rude awakening for these kinds of women. At worse they just lower their physical standards in exchange for meeting financial standards. Nothing stops them from cheating once they have it, either.
My father makes a lot of money, and that made my standards too high (when I was younger). We're not rich (or so I thought, because almost all my friends appear to be way richer than me). So, to me, I thought what my father makes is the average or something. When I started working my salary was always way lower than my father's and only then I understood the reality. My father is rich. I lived a rich lifestyle that most people don't, but I didn't know that growing up. It's really crazy to realise that, because in my eyes being rich is owning lands and mansions and expensive cars and brands. But I didn't realise that owning two houses and 4 cars while raising a family of 6 and taking them all to lower cost vacations every year *is* already rich.
Now I know I'm not rich, my salary is very humble "to me" (it's still way above average). My boyfriend's salary is more than mine but still way lower than my father's. I now realise that I'll never be able to live the lifestyle I had with my family. Which is a bit sad to be honest. But what's crazy is that to other people, my current lifestyle is still pretty good and above average but to me I lowered my standards. Perspective matters a lot.
What part of the country? I'm west coast and 30k is pretty much unlivable considering cost of living. 50k is barely making it, 60k is having some ability to save for some luxurious things.
These women are delusional
ain't no rude awakening if they stay asleep
@@Dertro EXACTLY.
My wife used to spend more than we made. Then she started a fight and we split our finances. Now she spends all of her money and I have a built-up Jeep and several firearms I've been wanting and a savings account full enough to not worry about a whole year of mortgage and utilities. Equality feels good
She is better now right? In the sense of being better to you and appreciation of your sacrifice?
If your marriage is still rocky, hopefully you are hiding some of those savings. Like buying gold coins and keeping them hidden from her type f thing.
If I were you I would start spending mine aswell because saving yours doesn’t make it yours when she takes you to court for a divorce , be wise
Problem is if you get divorced she has spent all her money Probably racked up a ton of debt and still gets half of your money and you are on the hook for half her debt unless you setup legal protections for yourself.
stop the cap, no way in hell
People are becoming more and more delusional. Some people think "manifesting" shit without putting in the WORK is gonna MIRACULOUSLY give them the shit they be trying to manifest...
EDIT: I just have to add one more thing...
THIS IS A SIIIIICKNEEES!!
worst thing is 'I work hard so It will happen to me'.
You can work your ass off and still not earn 6 digits.
People think "manifestation" is a skill. They don't know work
It’s like praying without actually trying too. You can just pray for a house or a job without making the necessary steps to get there
EXACTLY! Wtf is manifesting without work! Wishing?!
@@MrSub132 yeah but most people who work hard know they won’t make six figures but at least we aren’t entitled
There’s 7 Billion people in this world… for some perspective, if you make more than $40,000 per year you are among the top 1% richest humans to EVER LIVE. That figure includes the byzantines, the ancient Roman’s, and even all the way back to the creation of money itself. Just consider that. 40k. And you have more money than 99.9% of all humans to ever live.
The hilarious part about women who say their man should make 6 figs, is that most of those women don’t want an older man who’s 10 or 20 or 30 years older… but are they that disconnect from reality to honestly expect a man in his 20/30s to make that much money? Smh
Very very true... women tend to like men within a few yrs of their own age not realizing those 20 somethings are bums financially 😂.... the real money is with guys like me in our late 30s+++ and surprise surprise who has the home and career? Us older guys. Women should automatically date guys 8-15yrs older it's in their best interest
10 years isn't too bad in term of age gaps but 20+30 years?!?why expect them to date someone old enough to be their parent? That is a bit unrealistic just like their expectations of a certain salary.
Fair points for both sides here
Yes, they are that disconnected from reality.
@@aliciai I think that's the point Alicia, the expect way too much in salary and that expectation cant be met by most people within the 20s and early 30s in some cases.
You know what making “good money” is?
Being able to pay your bills, pay for food and clothes on your back, save some money and having something left to either get something nice for yourself sometimes (I don’t mean something extravagant necessarily, but if you save up for something sure!) or save it to go on a vacation perhaps with people you want to make memories with. I don’t mean extravagant vacations either btw. That’s, to me, a good amount. And bills and other expenses are being taken care of by both, not just the man, unless you have other agreements. You don’t need extremely high incomes to be happy. It makes finances easier, but it sure will not make you happier. And I personally don’t want to spend my life making money, i want to enjoy my time. Making money to live instead of living to make money.
Jordan Peterson quotes research that found that happiness increases until about US$ 60k, but doesn't increase past that point, which holds your statement true. From my own personal experience, every word you said is spot on. As a child I was oblivious that we were raised with a substantial amount of welfare and charity. Having to sit with another class all day because we couldn't afford the school excursion my classmates were on is not a pleasant day. I'd say $60k is enough to save a child from that embarrassment. My clothes were always clean though. Holy shit I just remembered my mother used to save the first rinse water from the washing machine into buckets to save on laundry detergent.
@@iamamodel7 Jordan Peterson is a very smart man. I don’t always agree with what he says, but he has a lot of points I definitely agree with.
I do think there is one flaw which is that his statement is based on a certain part of the world, so it won’t apply to everyone exactly.
I also remember some of the hardships, but I also remember how value was completely different back then. Playing a board game with the family and enjoying quality time, instead of being sucked into a phone all day. We needed different things back then, just like the need is different in other parts of the world right now. 60k might be a fortune to some, otherworldly, while in other parts it might be barely enough. That’s why I didn’t state a number.
I think your believes on what you desire are a grand part in your happiness. If you always want above your means, you will never be truly happy.
The part where embarrassment became a problem is when the school planned trips above people’s means.
There was a time when we all depended on each other to live. When did that become something to be embarrassed about, because we still depend on each other. Yet we now make it a competition to see who makes more money and who has the nicest things, while true connection is something we forgot how to accomplish.
It’s a strange world. I remembered sharing a book and being excited to work closely with my mate and we had a blast playing in the fields and climbing trees, making little cabins with wood we could find. We didn’t need anything. Ofcourse my parents were worried, because they had to pay the bills and pay for food, but they also were present. I dare say that those were one of the happiest times though and right after when we were Financially stable.
I honestly miss those times today.
Geez you type fast, LOL. Again, agree with every word. I quoted JP quoting 'some study' just so I have at least some basis in the 60k figure.
Found the research. Daniel Kahneman. Figure is 75k in 2008, wow. Other research in Australia found similar results. The level is higher than the median in both cases but nowhere near what most of these ladies are asking.
That is probably what means to be poor for these brats.
I grew up in a home that raked in about 45k a year and I thought I was blessed because some of my friends didn’t even have money for food. The delusion of these women is quite sad. I’m about to start a job making 70k a year and honestly I feel like I’m gonna to be living a dream.
Mannnnn, my current goal is to work a job that lets me clear 60k CANADIAN, around 30 dollars an hour. (so like 45k American. Jesus Christ, I just realized how weak our dollar is. God damn). I just passed an interview for a job that would put me at 18.75 an hour after being stuck working a job that's barely above the minimum wage of my province. After a year of searching for a better job (150+ applications).
Seeing this shit damn near blackpills me and makes me just go further down my newfound hobby of firearms, hunting, and sports shooting. I know full well I ain't gonna make it, may as well just learn and develop the skills for going solo now.
Nah bro you’re being proactive with your life. You’re gonna make it my man.
@Flozo thanks bro. I hope I can make it but this shit frustrates me to no end : (
@@dankmemes8619 You've still made it this far, you have this community backing you up friend.
@Flozo thank you for these kind words sir, good to know there's still people who support men in their struggles still. I wish you the best as well. We will make it!!!
0:57 took me tf out!!!
As a person who is a child of immigrants who came here with nothing and is now studying Econ in college. This entitlement and disconnect from reality is honest unbelievable. Your point on the failure of the parents is unbelievably true. But the fact that they choose to ignore reality is crazy to me
Fellow Econ major? Neat! The information you uncover in those courses would definitely be enough to kill some of their delusions of grandeur. Luckily, they don’t represent everybody.
i feel like some are Choosing to ignore reality, they want to seem like theyre shocked that theres people making less than 100k a year out there lol
Right bro
Woah, I literally did the jaw dropped, eyes wide open, loud exhale out of my lungs when she said $650,000. Like damn! I think, if I made that kind of money, I would run from a woman like this!
If I made that kind of money, I would only live off of $40,000 a year or less... and find a traditional, down to earth woman overseas.
Don't worry, 338k is also ok😂
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@@Cugastratos That's what you'd think you'd do. Most likely wouldn't end up that way. Firstly because of the taxes in that income bracket. Second, because you usually have to spend money on equipment, material, employees, etc when you're making that much money. Third, vehicles and housing, and when you're making that much money you're probably not going to want to live in a one bedroom apartment because you can afford better. And a bigger nicer house means more upkeep costs, a higher electric bill, etc.
You'd have to be spending more because you're making more. At 650,000? The income tax rate is 37%. Let that sink in. More than 200,000 of what you're making is just gone. In my state, the annual median property tax is about 4K. But as you'd be making bank, we'd assume double that at 8K and then for business expenses.... The average estimate for the first year of a small business is 40K. So at least 20K- if not more.
I'm guessing you'd have to pay 50% or more just to be earning that much and living well enough. It's literally impossible to be making 650K and only spend 40K without committing tax fraud.
Honestly? More income isn't exactly all that much better. I mean... Fuck. 37%? That's insane. It's 12% if you're making under 90K when filing jointly. Above that it jumps up to 22%. Which... Actually is really bad for some households, if they end up making more than 90K... Suddenly having 10% more money taken away.... That can be absolutely crushing if they have a large family or a mortgage, or are still paying off a loan or something. Our tax system is fucking weird.
@@plzletmebefrank You are talking about running a business, not how much is made in paid income for an individual after all is said and done. Those who learn how to manage money properly in poverty find it much easier to keep living expenses low (if they so choose) in wealth.
Even if someone is making 6 figures in annual income, if their after tax take home pay is over $200k+, one can still live frugally and save 75% of their income.
I make £20k and my partner makes around £40k annually, after tax. we spend around ~15k on bills living in a studio flat in central London, so that leaves us with around 3k a month. we eat like KINGS (spending around £120/week on groceries), and we go out to movies and eat out twice a week, travel often, save tons, and support our families.
i am incredibly appreciative and happy with my lifestyle, because I know MOST people cant afford living like this. and knowing that these women think of my lifestyle as a complete life failure and think it’s poverty, makes me furious.
what do they need the ~20k a month for??
most families live and raise kids on lower income than ours. they dont need to get uber eats everyday, they dont need a cleaner, they dont need to go to five star restaurants once a week, spend hundrets on cocktails every Friday night, or have designer clothes to be happy.
Respect, not Many people understand that money on its own doesn't equate to happiness it's the memories and experience gained through the hard work is what makes it rewarding, or at least in my opinion, you can't appreciate the value of money when you have never struggled.
I think aba and preach's theory is correct they are just rich.
Honestly, that one girl disgusted me. Is it like she is detached from our reality.
It is like she looks down on a life where your daddy does not own his private yacht and where your mommy is not getting weekly massages from a male model...
I try not to take these people seriously their version of happiness is my nightmare.
Just get a partner you can have fun with. Someone you actually want to spend your time with.
That is more than enough.
You Sir/lady are living the dream i want to have someday.
You speak nothing but facts! 👏🏾
The British pound is almost worth a dollar, it's worth $1.03 to the pound. You guys are about to collapse from borrowing. If you can afford, leave before it gets worse, or prepare for the worst, it's coming... Renting a bed, you share a room with 2 other people is $500 a month. It's bad, be prepared
I’m in dublin and even with the housing crisis we living in now, if there are more than 50/60k in a house a couple can live comfortably, like eating good, do 2/3 holidays a year and all
9:23 absolutely love the way she said “we wouldn’t be able to live the lifestyle ‘I’ wanted” emphasis on the “I wanted” 🤦
We need a video of dudes who make the money they're talking about react to this and break down why that likely won't happen for them.
His name was Kevin Samuels and may he rest in peace
@@emiliolachappa2135 I mean this video directly. People need to hear it from the mouths of the men these women are looking for.
Men who make that kind of money have much more important things to do
We don't need it actually.
If you really look into the subject those high earning men get hung out to dry all the time. They don't vet their women and get half their assets jacked in the divorce.
Ask the top 10 richest women all of them got their money through the divorce
What makes them think they’d make good “stay at home moms?” When you’re that self-centered and have the audacity to think you can take care of kids smh
"Some hobbies" like what? Watering f'n plants all day?
@@adrian-dragosbalaban6401 😂😂💀 foreal smdh
I guess they need the high incomes to pay for the nannies, cleaners, gardeners, cooks...
@@iamamodel7 lol right? fucking delusional
With their thought process a stay at home home is put the kids off on the nanny
Imagine average guys being asked these questions, and all of them saying casually. "Oh she has to be a Victoria secret model" as if they think there's millions and millions of Victoria secret models.
She has to be a size zero w d cups lol
Have you talked to the average guy? I would be perfectly fine with the girl from the local convenience store let alone Victoria's Secret model.
"a traditional virgin victoria secret model" lol.
@@RollingStride101 yeah hes making a example, but agreed most average guys go for average girls
@@naydd9459 wanting a man who's financially stable and wanting their man to earn 300.000 dollars per year are *totally* different things
Best advice I’ve ever received was from my WW2 grandfather. “Don’t waste time, money and effort on somebody else’s wife.”
This advice is going to go over so many people’s heads!
This is crazy. My father raised me to be independent and not to rely on a man in life to support me. I work hard and feel happy contributing to my family. I have a wonderful husband and he is an excellent father. Neither of us grew up with money and now we are comfortable and respectful Of each other’s contributions. Nothing is wrong with being a stay at home mom but these ladies are giving off materialistic vibes. You should not spend more than your income and put that stress on your partner. Super unhealthy.
a lot of parents grow their daughter in the “if he cant do anything for u leave” already setting her up for failure mindset
Funny thing is, the women expect their man to make $650,000/year and if he dared to expect that she cooks dinner (not breakfast or lunch) simply dinner 5-7 days a week he would be enforcing the "patriarchy". As if making that much money doesn't require time in the office with a lot of late nights.
Great point. People that make that kind of money at any age just live to work. These women expect a 30 year old to have that much wisdom to be able to do a job like that.
As always ..those same women would eventually complain their men aren’t spending enough time at home and are working too much, I’ve seen this way too much
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$650k a year??? I am waking up 3 or 4 in the morning to cook a royal breakfast, pack a worthy lunch and make sure there are snacks in between and a dinner EVERYDAY!!! Also get an army of Roombas to help me manage the floor cleaning, and I will be detail cleaning that house while he is making that dough, Also gardening... I love gardening. Then again I was taught to manage the household by age 5... by 6 I was brooming, mopping the floors, whipping furniture and statues, etc, cleaning walls and curtains, and scrubbing toilets. Completely different culture and generation. These young ladies were spoiled. At age 2 my mom was like, "You can walk? You can broom. Here..." 😵🤐
@@Dnfdnu He was speaking and talking about the airheaded bimbo women in the video. 😂 The superfical skanks. You and I are not part of the skank bimbo women group. We are consider by most men as high value due to the quality of care and love we give our men through demonstrations of care and attention in the tasks we do and offer them. The OP wasn't talking about us. Much blessings... Ase!
Funny story. A couple of years ago I used to work at a gym and this older man would come in to workout, in his 60s but was ripped. We ended up talking and he told me he was a retired dietician and physical therapist for 30 years. He even said he worked for the LA dodgers and Lakers for a while in the early 2000s. Had a house in Brentwood. Finally I ask "Hey, how much did you make before retirement?" And he said oh the most was around $550,000 annual.
This was a man who was early 60s, had multiple college degrees, his own medical office AND worked with professional athletes. And these girls want a man who makes MORE?
IT IS A SICKNESS
Calm down, you’re being dramatic. It’s just ignorance.
@@evaphillips2102 hey guuuyyyy
Lot of delusional women out there. 2009, I went on a dating site, listed my age and stated age range of no less than 5 years younger than me, not more than two years older than me. So they were I think 36-43 range? These women were posting faked up pictures, old pictures from when they were younger, their profiles basically said "I'm a goddess and require worship", and were up front about requiring 250K or higher annual income.
I found a profile of a woman wearing a chicken costume, and she was at a costume party choking some guy dressed up as a 1920's looking gangster, very little other data but I was intrigued. We dated, we were struggling at the time both making okay money in So-Cal. We're now 10 years married and are very well off. I'm gonna guess most of those "goddesses" from 2009 are drinking boxed wine and arguing with cats.
@mikeg3728 Those goddesses are still on dating apps waiting for Prince Charming. Personally, I think it's great for them to display their red flags out to the public
they don’t want husbands.. they want rich fathers😵💫
“Strong, independent women” work jobs making $50-80k and think they’re big and bad. I met women making upwards of $200k and women like her-by far the most down to earth women I ever met. Great personalities and all. They also came from rough backgrounds as well.
Lemme guess, she’s married?
If you think that’s average you’re lying
@@Ratgodx what are you talking about..?
@@andrewrogers3067 A few were. Most had not been married yet.
"What a failure on the parent's behalf". Nailed it.
What isn’t often discussed is the personality characteristics and the personal discipline and sacrifice over decades that it takes you to reach that level of income ($250k plus). Could these women even handle the personality or the expectations that would come with being with someone that earned that kind of income.
You want a 0.01% man in the areas that matter to you but are you a 0.01% woman in the areas that matter to him?
As KS used to say, “Want what you want but buy what you can afford.”
No they couldn’t handle all that comes with it 😂😂😂. I mean look at Meghan Markle. If she knew all that was going to happen she probably would have though twice about marrying Harry. Death threats, paparazzi and public embarrassment. Yeah that’s what happens when guys start making that much.
as long as there are idiots out there who marry these bimbos, unfortunately they dont have to understand any of this. they will simply file for "no-fault" divorce and take half as soon as they are challenged or as soon as the ink is dry... then monkeybranch to the next. bimbo life simulator 2022.
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KS died a divorced single father.
@@hotpockets69 don't change his words! But please continue talk I'll about the dead. There will be some boomerang stuff for you as well
I love how Courtney Ryan exposes how out of touch they are. This is what happens when you have a generation of people raised on social media. “They need to make $650k for me to be comfortable.” LOL
Out of touch for regular people but these women feel like they come from families with money. They already grew up with people with big houses and fancy cars, so it’s not crazy for them.
Is she exposing women or is she vetting for them to get content that feeds the algorithm and helps her channel grow? I'm always a little skeptical of these videos, in this day and age when it's somebody's job to make money by getting clicks and views.
@@MildChunkySalsa Yeah, and it's funny because back when they grew up in those comfortable homes, the household salary might've been just 100k. That can easily lead to "people with big houses and fancy cars", especially if you live in a low cost of living area.
Courtney Ryan is great. She’s fairly reasonable in her vids and tries her best to stay objective to both genders. I’m glad she does videos like this to call out delusional women
This whole part of the internet with these women is mind boggling to me. The topic of salary has never occurred to me. Where I'm from you're doing well if you're making 50k a year. 😂
When I met my husband I made almost 3x his $20k salary. He had no motivation to make more, but when we met he started having aspirations to have a family, home, and long term stability. In less than a year, he more than doubled his income to $46k and grinds and evaluates his situation to make more so we have an even more comfortable life. I love him and could never imagine my life without him. No amount of money could make me happier than I am with a husband I love and who loves me.
and yet you became more happy when he started to earn more...
@@zukodude487987 should she be sadder because of it?
Everyone wants more money as long as it does not come with pain.
Scooby dooby doo
@@Africafactsguy If his income went back to old levels then do you think she would be sadder because she was poorer or because woman cant date down?
@@zukodude487987 yes he made her happy because he was making more but because he wanted MORE WITH HER. reading comprehension is crucial here, he wanted a life with her so that motivated HIM to MAKE more. thats some shit i could respect as a man but you wanted to be dumb about it smh
Thank you for these wonderful men❤ I'm a women and grew up poor and my jaw literally hit the floor...why are there so many people in this world that think that way... Money isn't everything... In a way I appreciate my childhood because it has humbled me...
Thank you for being so considerate ❤😂 I mean it
If my wife spends more than I make, I’m finding a new wife 😂
Or just don't get married because now you'll be supporting a new woman and paying your ex alimony 😂
Well can you stop her? My mom spent 20k of my dads money and he stopped her and corrected it. They are now doing well financially and have been married 42 yrs and counting. If you can work it out that would be better than throwing in the towel.
That was the first thing I was.
I remember one of my first girlfriends who's mom was "different" was spending her husband's money like water. She was buying stuff like microwaves for random people like stocking stuffers.
They were divorced not that long after it seems. You could tell she was oblivious and entitled.
SIMPer
@@purplegirl8036 thats actually really nice. Congrats to your mom to and dad for sorting it out.
The irony is that each one of these “stay at home” moms are hiring a nanny day 1 that baby comes home. If they’re looking for this kind of money, they’re not looking for responsibility.
A lot of stay at home moms don't hire nannies, or they are the babysitter or nanny for relatives or neighbors so they don't have to leave their kids in daycare.
No worries, they’ll just turn into single, 50 year-old women with 5 cats that drink wine every day.
These are daughters of CEOs without anything of value they just never realised how life works yet
Exactly
@@ofekmizrahi3079 they finna understand in a decade or two
The look on their faces when they realise that if they want a luxury lifestyle, THEY'LL have to make the money 😂😂😂
or they will have to be traditional wifes. It really shows the mental gymnastics they have in their head but they still haven't worked out that the Man in the 1% has more options than they ever will. They are just realizing that there is competition for this man and that he is rare they have yet to even realize that when they meet said man they have nothing to offer him. They may think their vajajay is worth 1million but no most 20 dollar toys are better than some women and a man with options has had his fill if not better Vajajay than theirs but they still think their box is golden without even considering the idea that bed room fun won't be enough to hook that man. I'd love to see that idea put in their heads and watch them melt or the rage build as their lifestyle/atm man they felt entitled to since birth was never really in the cards
nobody makes 650k working a job that i know. The only way you get to that is through investing that money and seeing it grow over the years
Why someone just give it to them tho? CaUsE ThEy ArE PrEtTy
-Gents you is gonna tell them?...
@@alexchainger we all know about sugar mama's thats an age of winter
@@jackhhun2698 as a woman I agree. I don’t care what anyone says I’m proud to be a career woman that works for her $$$. These women scream desperation. It’s embarrassing.
I agree in a relationship there should be intimacy expected. I am a stay at home mom and have my business but my hubby is our 1 contributor. He has MUCH pressure and as a wife it is my job to love him and provide him a sound home.
My parents are divorced and when I was younger they both were individually making around 350k. I remember my dad showing me what he made one year in the car picking me up from school and it was around 345k after taxes. I told my mom recently what percentage income earner someone making 350k was and she was surprised because she didn’t realize she was in the top 4% of earners for a lot of her life. She thought making that kind of money was a lot more common, I suppose because of the environment she was in. Had I not known the statistics I woulda thought it was much more common too and been walking around delusional. My mom still doesn’t think one million dollars is a lot of money and I suppose that’s a good mindset to have if you plan on being a high earner. Anyway it was interesting to gain some perspective on my childhood and appreciate what I got.
What do they do?
Not a great mindset if you want to also have some grounding in the reality of most people. Especially when a big element is prior connections or luck. Yeah, a part of it could also be attributed to talent and the pursuit/dedication to grow a brand/business or establish a career, but somewhere down the chain there is still going to be a worker who is working harder than a CEO for relatively little pay - whether its picking your food or working in a factory job to make your car upholstery. I think innately people know though, if a million dollars isn't a lot of money to your mum, why doesn't she hire a cleaner and pay her that. Would she tip the mechanic half a million?
So women are just naturally uncurious beings. That's what I get from this story. It's shocking how little modern women understand economics. And we're going into a recession with them.
What do they do? Tech? Engineering? Finance?
What does your parents do for living??
Imagine thinking making hundreds of thousands of dollars is more realistic than someone making 45 k a year 😭
Aye you said it not me 🤣
They're sick and need help
I have been working my way up the ladder since age 18 in the same industry and I hit 180k a year at 41 years old. And I walked away from that job because I felt like I was selling my soul. These chicks are crazy.
What did you do ?
@@lavonnealexander6936 asking the real questions I see😆
@@sethsamuel3023 😂😂😂😂I gotta know the story
They'll be surprise when they meet the real world. . . Money is not easy to earn!!!
Well an overworked man who is never at home is probably their ideal men. They never see him or have to do anything for them and can go have fun with his money or cheat on him.
Yeah, just gonna leave this here:
”Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil All the days of her life. She seeks wool and flax, And she WILLINGLY WORKS with her hands. She is like the merchant ships, She brings her food from afar. She also rises while it is yet night, And provides food for her household, And a portion for her maidservants. She considers a field and buys it; From her profits she plants a vineyard. She girds herself with strength, And strengthens her arms. She perceives that her merchandise is good, And her lamp does not go out by night. She stretches out her hands to the distaff, And her hand holds the spindle. She extends her hand to the poor, Yes, she reaches out her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of snow for her household, For all her household is clothed with scarlet. She makes tapestry for herself; Her clothing is fine linen and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, When he sits among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, And supplies sashes for the merchants. Strength and honor are her clothing; She shall rejoice in time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, And on her tongue is the law of kindness. She watches over the ways of her household, And does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates.“
Proverbs 31:10-31 NKJV
GIRL, do something. This love of money and riches will have you lazy. You take your womanhood and you use it as a scapegoat for a get-rich-quick scheme, essentially. You’re not interested in loving your husband, you’re interested in what he can do for you. Make marriage an actual covenant, not a business transaction.
It's weird how independent women are looking to be carried through life. Like the lack of just sense to be saying this while themselves have no such things is head spinning. He needs to provide for me things I have no capacity whatsoever to attain myself.
It's crazy how they look at the guys on their level as way beneath them but want a partnership with the guys that could literally have a dozen of them.
One of them women said they wanted to be a stay at home mom, but also have her own money and business??
They say that stats prove they are better off without men and are happier alone yet say they want a man to contribute 100% financially to their relationships, subreddits like AskMen, Dating and Dating Advice is filled with women asking questions about dating men and they are loads of single women in their 40s and 30s online Whining about having no man
I work with a woman in her 40s and she use to constantly be miserable when she was single and whine about having no one. Yet met a fire fighter and started being in a relationship with him and now she's one of the happiest people at work
Men and woman (At least straight men and women) want one another. Humans are social animals. I don't think many men or women want to grow old and die alone
That’s exactly the reason Aba was saying they must come from money. Because their thought processes is that of “having money= I can afford to be carried and not work.” They’re clearly used to being able to live in such a manner that they’re not able to fathom what the majority of people actually earn or how they live.
@@joeAnon796this is why they have a dozen of them.
PREACH: "That wasn't Uganda, that was South LA"
ABA: "There was still a lot of black people"
🤣🤣🤣 I almost lost my shit!
Yooo Lmao tht was too funny.!
Lol
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“You have to manifest the lifestyle you want to have” instead of “You have to work for the life you want to have” key difference is one is a dream and one is a reality
Yeah girl u manifest girl, you go girl
It is very hard for me to fathom just how delusional some people are
Edit: some of you are so pressed😂let me be clear: most people who think like this are female, but there is at least 1% of men who think like this, so no, I'm not gonna say only WOMEN. Just like Aba&Preach I think that people, not only one gender or the other, should be held accountable. Have a good day everyone.
Stop the cap. You act just like these girls and want the same things
@@torachan23 bffr, most people aren’t that outlandish in their desires because they understand the reality of the world we live in.
Women confuse sex with commitment because they project their own thinking patterns. Women think that because they can get a man to have sex with them that can get them to commit. Men don't commit through sex. Men commit through their attention and resources. Sex is as trivial as taking a piss for men.
@@briannaroper5965 let him/her/them be delusional as well, it is, after all A SICKNEEEESSS
@@briannaroper5965 mmmm alot are. But that person has a poor judgment of who is and who isnt.
It sucks being reduced to a wallet.
Truly makes you lose trust for many women
You people own wallets? That means you actually have money to keep😖
@@tonyvinga nah only bills
Women are sex objects, men are success objects
If I make a half million a year I'ma have a backup apartment in the hood and a Nissan Altima. They will only see those till we hit 1 year dating 😂
@@ponternal it's objectification from men to women and commodification of men from women
As a stay at home mom and wife, these women are delusional. They're going to be very surprised when they find out how much work it is being a stay at home mom and wife.
They're so indoctrinated by feminism that they're probably making 50k but also think that they make 82% of what men make. So they're definitely making more than the average young man and yet also think they make less than men.
Theyre just gonna ask for a cleaner nd cooks to be hired, so they can focus on their "hobbies and self care". Women who talk like this don't want tk have to do anything let alone cook and clean lol
Right?!
@@cevapipapi8920
Exactly they r gonna want a maid as soon as they move in and a nanny as soon as they give birth
EXACTLY!!! Holy, I was thinking, not one of these girls SEEMS to know half of what it's like to be a stay at home wife/mom.
A sickness of THE HIGHEST ORDA...💀💀
I'm gonna be honest, I don't think many people know what their parents' make. It was always kept kind of a secret from me, personally.
Even after I got what I thought was a halfway decently paying job, all I got from my dad about my salary was "That's a lot more than me"
I had absolutely zero idea how much we were living off of, even throughout my college career, and so I could see how it's hard for these young women to identify or understand what's high and what's low in terms of income
I'm the opposite. My father makes a lot of money, and that made my standards too high. We're not rich (or so I thought, because almost all my friends appear to be way richer than me). So, to me, I thought what my father makes is the average or something. When I started working my salary was always way lower than my father's and only then I understood the reality. My father is rich. I lived a rich lifestyle that most people don't, but I didn't know that growing up. It's really crazy to realise that, because in my eyes being rich is owning lands and mansions and expensive cars and brands. But I didn't realise that owning two houses and 4 cars while raising a family of 6 and taking them all to lower cost vacations every year *is* already rich.
Now I know I'm not rich, my salary is very humble "to me" (it's still way above average). My boyfriend's salary is more than mine but still way lower than my father's. I now realise that I'll never be able to live the lifestyle I had with my family. Which is a bit sad. But what's crazy is that to other people, my current lifestyle is still pretty good and above average but to me I lowered my standards. Perspective matters a lot.
But when you apply for financial aid, it ask for your parents income. How do people not know (with an assumption that they go to college)?
@@lisahoang3880 My parents took over and filled out their own information 🤷
Never knew until they were in their late 50's... then Pop's got COVID and sent to the ER and had to learn the entire estate's finances... they make a lot but less than I thought; turns out I made more, but that's generational wealth in a nutshell and means they did their job's correctly.
It was more taboo in US society around the recession when I grew up for some reason for people to talk about money and salary but now its different. You should be discussing salary and money to get advice but also see if you're being short changed for your position and experience.
0:13 “You have to manifest a husband girl” shawty must think this is a Disney movie. Women like this be throwing around terms like *“6/7 figures”* like they’re talking about a Wendy’s 4 for $4🤦🏾♂️.
its hilarious, she's like a 6/10 at best knowing men dont look at her like that hence why she has to 'manifest' aka pray for one XD
Hey man I love me some Wendy's 4 for 4s
@@sniperpronerfmods9811ong
This is what social media and simps has made women into. They all think they're the shit, big ass egos with little to no evidence to justify it.
Why would a man that makes 6/7 figures even want something (other a quick fuck cus he's bored) from someone this entitled that most likely has more miles than a 90's toyota?
I get better investment deals in times of a Recession than when dealing with women like these. ROI is better even.
Ya she's lessening to some good old con called Joel Olsen. See he and others thinks they are gods. Or they are God is a prostitute and they are His pimps. Sick manifest what delusional these people are not delusional they are sick. If this was a reality for most people how come they are not making that kind of money?. a woman talking about a family car that seats only two Adults. Over 2 million.
I met my husband when he was barely making ends meat in an internship while in his last year of college. When we were first married we barely made 42k together. 7 years later + 3 kids later, he is now making enough where we are paying off debt, own a house and I am a stay at home mom who homeschools our kids. You better believe I appreciate that man and he doesn’t do a damn thing except get to enjoy time with the kids when he gets off. That man has not cooked or cleaned in years and when he does do Saturday morning breakfast or a random dinner it is something I had already prepped the night or day before so he doesn’t have to stress or try to figure out something.
These ladies are nuts, especially if they see his money as theirs but not theirs as his.
Keep it up...
GODD WIFE👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
Wholesome
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that homeschool is definitely right
I grew up in a household that brought in less than $30k a year, usually closer to $16k. This shit is completely incomprehensible to me. What do you even spend all that on?
I had a conversation about this with my younger sister. She is a recently graduated teacher making less than 30 K. She wants a man who makes around what I make but is her age. I’m seven years older than her and I make 200K. But I’ve worked for the last 10 years to strategically put myself into this position.
I hope she has more realistic expectations after this conversations and congrats on working to get to this level. Well done!
Why her age? Isn’t realistic and no benefit imo
Whats your profession may I ask?
Yeah, just keep up conversations with her to keep a more realistic perspective. What a good man she needs is very different than a fantasy man (unattainable) she wants.
that would honestly just make dating for her worse, because now shed never date anyone who makes below that level of money.
I’m gonna throw this out there: i agree with Preach. As a stay at home mom with a husband who runs his own business, i am fully willing to give him the goods whenever he wants it. He is respectful to me and doesn’t push it if he can see it’s not a good time, but i never turn him down if he really wants it. In fact, there are times i come to him to offer it, even if I’m not in the mood, to make sure he’s getting his needs met. S3x matters, y’all.
I can't speak for every man, but I will honestly say that physical intimacy with my lady deepens my passion for her and fuels my desire to protect and provide for her. The more wanted I feel the more I want to stoke that flame. The minute the passion begins to wane in the bedroom, it starts to spill over into others.
@@ralphfraz yes, that’s how I feel! We go weeks at a time without it because i keep having babies and getting sick for the first trimester, and I feel more distant than he does. He takes it in stride because he’s grateful for the babies, but I know sincerely that our intimacy brings us closer and without it, we would just be best friends. Which is fine, but the intimacy is such a wonderful connection, I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I’ve told him before that if either of us suffered from an accident or illness that took s3x out of the picture, I would still be committed but something would be missing and I’d find another way to make up for it. That bond matters!
@@ralphfraz preach my brotha 😂
Not a stay at home mom but I didn’t realize how important/necessary sex was to my husband until recently and we’ve been together 8 years. And even if I don’t want it, I understand that it’s not about me. And that I need to fulfill his needs the same he would fulfill mine even if he didn’t feel like it at the moment. It’s all about a little give and take.
@@xtiphuny89 "... But I know sincerely that our intimacy brings us closer and without it, we would just be best friends." exactly why I lost my ex-girlfriend whom I had a long distance relationship with. She viewed us as friends after months apart because we couldn't be intimate. While I would look at things logically, she would turn to her feelings immediately and felt she needed to call things off instead -- eventhough I tried to reason with her about why she felt the way she did. Most frustrating situation of my life.
The financial illiteracy among most of the young women is crazy. Even the video where the uni girls were asked what their ideal partner should make, they all answered 100k. One went so far to say 400k and anything above. Sky is the limit. Then when they were asked, what profession they were studying for, most of them answered economics. Like, how can you study about money and be so illiterate about it?
it's the country where they grew up.
it's not known for people having great intellect. it's known for great arrogance.
I find it astounding as well. If they can't grasp the standard income in the US, then how can they remotely assess the affordability of anything. Average income is the standard by which all expenses would be determined and they have no frame of reference.
@@jfkst1it's really mind boggling. Even in a country like the US they're looking for the top 1% most of the times. Do they not know that the median income in the US is roughly 20k a year (the GDP per capita (PPP) is 70k)?
The delusion is unreal!
That's Western education for you
@@personnenesticiit’s not western education. It’s Americans. The commonwealth countries are still somewhat reasonable.
“Doesn’t Batman drive one of those” 😂😂🤣
A lot of people are in love with this 6 figure fantasy but they aren't aware of how much time and effort goes into making just 100K. You will miss A LOT of family time, a lot of time with friends, and a lot of personal time. Its crazy that they think it's feasible to even live like that.
Alice in wonderland they be living in
Unless you're a "communications expert" working at twitter pre Elon lmao
it genuinely angers me.
Social Media skews so many expectations
Yep and they dont realize they dont even NEED that much for what they even want
Single life has been my best living and these women remind me why I'm in no rush to find anyone.
Holy hell
Tell me about it... these women are batsh$t nuts
The last thing anyone should take away from this video is the assumption that all women are like this. We're not.
@@jozigalm8159 what percentage are not?
There’s nothing a wahmen can offer for my peace and quiet.
3:47 It’s the fucking sign for me! 😭😂
I think this disconnect has a lot to do with where privilege meets entitlement. I grew up with quite a bit of financial privilege but I also understood that I had to work to support myself. The moment you see how hard it is to make money and how undervalued our labor is, it really puts things in perspective
she gets the same girls on her channel all the time to answer her questions and they always give terrible answers
Exactly. I think that's why even women with middle class upbringings will have this perspective bc even though they had less privilege, they had a high level entitlement that was never snuffed out by responsible parents. It's "daddy's princess syndome" imo.
I think another huge part of it is everyone on social media giving the illusion of wealth bleeding into real life expectations.
People get on all these websites, construct a fantasy lifestyle to compete over who’s more successful with people they’ll never meet in real life. And then forget all the people they fallow online are just as fake as they are.
My father makes a lot of money, and that made my standards too high (when I was younger). We're not rich (or so I thought, because almost all my friends appear to be way richer than me). So, to me, I thought what my father makes is the average or something. When I started working my salary was always way lower than my father's and only then I understood the reality. My father is rich. I lived a rich lifestyle that most people don't, but I didn't know that growing up. It's really crazy to realise that, because in my eyes being rich is owning lands and mansions and expensive cars and brands. But I didn't realise that owning two houses and 4 cars while raising a family of 6 and taking them all to vacations every year **is** already rich.
Now I know I'm not rich, my salary is very humble "to me" (it's still way above average). My boyfriend's salary is more than mine but still way lower than my father's. I now realise that I'll never be able to live the lifestyle I had with my family. Which is a bit sad to be honest. But what's crazy is that to other people, my current lifestyle is still pretty good and above average but to me I lowered my standards. Perspective matters a lot.
Do you think it’s really a lack of financial literacy that should be standard in middle schools to high school, as well as college? If people were watching channels like minority mindset would they get a grasp better or do we need these viral videos to clap back at these standards?
I almost fell down the steps when she said 650k 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Please have a seat when you watch these ridiculous videos. 😂😂😂
I knew a spoiled woman who grew up rich and she's almost 40. She has good looks going for her because she's so desperate for a rich man she used dating sites and even expensive matchmakers. She works a minimum wage job, has her expensive NYC apartment paid for by her rich parents and their rich parents. She has only 1 sibling so its not like the money is split around a bunch of spoiled kids at once. And she refused to go into high paying jobs like the rest of her family cause she thought she could cruise through her entire life on her family's money and then later her husband's. She wants a man who makes at least 350k a year, has dated a millionaire, but flopped the date by being quick to ask for marriage and he realized she's just trying to gold dig.
wow tell me more
She’s called a “left over woman”. I’m surrounded by colleagues and fiends in their 40’s who make an excess of 300K+ most of which were married in their 20’s and early 30’s. Almost all of them met their wives either in university or through work. The single ones (myself included), would never consider anyone over 30.
@@hardware20x Usually what is said about the type of men who don't go for women over 30s is that they either aren't looking for something serious, or just want a young woman they can control financially into being however he wants her to be. Those relationships don't last at all without chemistry and compatibility involved, just like a normal relationship. Unless ofc you guys decide to do an open marriage when you get miserable. I've also seen some men who also wouldn't go for women over 25 end up going for women over 25, stuff happens, plans can change.
she’s in panic mode cause those looks aren’t gonna last her long 😂😂
As men, we are fvcked if this what is out there. Divorce isn't even an option, it's just when.
The Consistency from you guys is much appreciated 😊 , Love you guys from Somalia 🇸🇴 ❤
A teacher of mine once snapped and said something like that. She said that was the problem to raise your daughter with the mindset that she is a princess and she deserves all. I am too stupid to say it is right or wrong, but every time I see those ratings of 10/10, I remember those words.
Infantilization, its been happening forever.
nope my father raised me to be a princess he is well off financially but he also taught me what the meaning of money is. when i married and fell in love with my husband he had nothing literally. but i didn't care what i did care about was seeing a fight in him now years later he makes more money than my father does.
so raising your daughter to be a princess isn't wrong but raising her to be an airhead about the world is.
Kate Middleton, who married into the British Royal family... she can raise her daughters with that mindset, cos the British public will continue to finance their lifestyle for the foreseeable future. Everyone else, better wake up and realize they aren't getting married to the heir to the throne.
She's not wrong tho. A lot of women with that mindset did grow up spoiled. By spoiled i mean they never had to work for anything and they get their egos inflated by their parents.
@Jessicaro he might have used the word princess but he obviously was instilling actual values in you. Thats not "daddy's princess syndrome" imo. He just taught you your worth and while you may have gotten spoiled, he didn't allow for ignorance.
I come from an upper middle class family but i dont expect my boyfriend to make a lot of money, my mother has taught me to be humble and 3 meals a day and a roof over your head is the best life i can think of with a man i love.
Amen, amen
@@MsElizaRae❤
most women are reading a lot of fiction book that the main character is super rich and they are chosen by the main character
If you want a husband who can make 150,000+ a year, you need to say goodbye to vacations. And having him around often. Mine goes to work at 5 am and often doesn't get home until 9pm. 6 days a week. Vacations happen once a year, for 3 sometimes 4 days tops. Because he has to work in order to make that money. And our vacations are not glamorous. We go camping, because he likes camping ( i do not, but it's HIS vacation and I want him to enjoy it)
That’s not a husband that’s just a robot
Seconded, exact same situation with my partner. Oh and he finds it hard to relax and emotionally connect with people (it took us a long time) because his work is so high power and he is on all the time. It’s a lot but I care about him a lot; plus I have my own well paid career!
@@donebyalessandra what does he work in? I don’t see the point of earning a very high amount if you can’t enjoy it
@Mohsin Ali Bro men don't normally work just for themselves you also support the family. Sometimes its about sacrificing so others can have a way..
cue the divorce, that you initiate, where you are being "emotionally neglected" therefore you need access to half of his money and possessions for the rest of your life.
What's really telling is that to manifest her lifestyle and her vacations they never think what do I have to make or what career I should choose. It's someone else's responsibility to give her the lifestyle she wants. Someone else has to sacrifice and work hard for her dream life.
I said 60k on two incomes to this guy and he gasped and told me. This is the first time I heard of a reasonable woman with common sense. Mind you he owns his own business but I think he was really impressed. Little does he know I work with numbers and companies comparing the cost of living. These young ladies are insanely naive.
Well if you listen to what they said they grew up spoon fed and want to continue getting spoon fed. You on the other hand probably grew up with seeing your parents go through hardships and you as well as an adult.
0:57 BOTH yo asses got knocked tf down LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Their reaction of the 650k, made me burst out in laughter, in front of everyone in the lunch room at work
650K is the minimum, obviously she wants you to improve once you get kids
@@tonyvinga 💀ohhh gosh delusion at it’s finest!
“You must think about what u can offer to the world and not what the world can offer to you”
Words to live by
😊
Offering things is how you get stuff offerred to you anyway.
Food for thought (I don’t agree with this)
“The best thing a woman can be in this world is a beautiful fool” -Marilyn monroe
Sounds strikingly similar to "ask not what your country can do for you but what you can do for your country"
In your defense though, it's a common theme
"I'm a strong independent woman, but I also want a man who provides for me 100% and I put 0% into it."
Let these girls say it again...but slowly.
Lol
Factssssssssss
Repeat until you understand...
Make it make sense
They still won’t see anything wrong with it. This really is a sickness.
I love starting my mornings off with your videos!
If this scares you, remember that there are people in the decision-making that are unaware of how most citizens live.