I knew a girl back in 1990 that did what this one did in the bar. Her boyfriend got knocked out as he was a teenager, and the guy that did it was in his early 20s. He walked off, saying, "I don't hit chick's". Avoid lippy women that run their mouths to get their guys in fights.
Because they know we can't smack them to shut them up, that's why. If we were allowed to discipline them, i assure you they would not behave the way they do.
My ex-wife was this way, I was gentle with her and avoided unnecessary connotations. The Marine Corps taught me the discipline to choose my battles, or a Special Court Martial did....
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@romanfedotov1152 so have I and I'm just like now y'all bout to get cuffed and charged. I can see if it was on purpose because then I'll see it as an attack on my person,but a lot of people have no chill
@J.P_INC. I mean in my country if you go to club/bar and drink too much this happens But even there will be fight men in Russia don't call the police.Bar fight usually ends with broken nose and then everyone goes drink together.
What this woman doesn't realize is that altercations between men can turn deadly and douche bags for some reason always want to fight a big dude that isn't trying to fight.
No, his reaction was what the termagant should have seen coming, Well done would have been picking up one of the girls at the bachelorette party right in front of the ex-GF.
Have to pick your battles, Not all of them are worth getting into a knockdown drag out over. ALSO NEVER confuse kindness for weakness.. He put up with her far too long, he hit his limit and that was it.
Not allowing to cut in front of you isn't gonna cause a scene (most likely). All it takes is "hey man, the line is back there" or even a "please don't cut the line."
The main thought that came to my mind was that if she was so put out by any of these incidents, why didn't she say something? Why is she always pushing him into conflicts? Because she is a horrible, mean-spirited person and appears to be bit of a head-case. He did extremely well to keep a modicum of control and walk away.
Men, no matter the situation, are about PEACE. We KNOW, ESPECIALLY AS ADULTS, about Escalation. So many things AREN'T WORTH fighting over. And a MAN KNOWS WHEN HE "MUST" STAND UP FOR HIMSELF. There are a Lot of petty Small Men out there who'll do stupid shit to make THEMSELVES feel BIG. Real Men can spot these Asshats immediately and NEVER give them what they want...UNLESS THEY NEED TO BE. Understand?
An excellent story, though I do have to say I don't see how the way he shut her down was "with style." With assertiveness, sure. You might even call it with "aplomb" - whatever that means. Or, you could say it was "with the strength she'd been looking for but never truly saw." But "style"? Not sure that's what I'd have called it. Style would've been something like him letting out a sigh before saying "I've told you time & again that I pick what I'm willing to fight for. And now, it seems, it is no longer worth fighting for this relationship. Good evening to you all." in a calm voice while giving everybody seated at their table a small bow & THEN leaving the bar. THAT would have shown some style! In MY opinion, anyway.
A real man isn't afraid of being called a coward. Never provoke a man who is tightly controlled to the point of losing control ; once he loses it, he may do far more than is warranted. Is having a joke at his expense worth losing your life over? Yeah, 99% of the time he'll stop short of that, but I'm not inclined to play You Bet Your Life with someone trying to suppress his anger issues. "Never draw unless you're prepared to kill." implies prudence, not cowardice. Chances are your partner won't attack you for repeatedly humiliating you, just throw the trash out and find a classier partner. But isn't it easier to just leave if that's what you want?
Drunk French guy at a party slapped my face because he thought I was chatting up a French girl he liked. Girl was going out with an English friend and I was married and not a cheater. He tried several more times and I blocked him each time, then said 'try once more and you are going down'. He quit. I went outside to have smoke and my friend (the one going out with the girl) came out and said 'why didn't you smash him, I would have' - I said 'You see my hands are shaking? you think that's fear? You are not drunk, you try slapping me and find out why I am shaking' He went quiet then said 'I forget you are Irish sometimes' ....
@@patrickkelly6691 You don't need to be Irish to lose control in a fight and do more damage than you intended. An Adrenalin rush makes precisely metered retaliation difficult if not impossible. My compliments on your self control.
Why in God’s name did he even bother with this mean, spiteful, cruel woman. Why would you spend one moment with this hateful person. If he got into a physical altercation it would have resulted in his arrest on a criminal charge.
Lack of communication is a relationship killer. "Dearest, your jokes at my expense are not making me laugh. Desist, because it is a form of disrespect. " You say that early in a relationship.
This woman has a bad attitude and alcohol just intensifies it. And you know what they say when you add alcohol it intensifies their attitude but I say yes but what if they're a total a$$hole?
Some people know how strong they are and what can happen if they lose their temper so they hold back. That's not weakness, that is strength.
I knew a girl back in 1990 that did what this one did in the bar. Her boyfriend got knocked out as he was a teenager, and the guy that did it was in his early 20s. He walked off, saying, "I don't hit chick's". Avoid lippy women that run their mouths to get their guys in fights.
What's so SAD is MANY WOMEN KNOW when they've Taken it TOO FAR, but for some reason they ALWAYS Double Down.
Because they know we can't smack them to shut them up, that's why. If we were allowed to discipline them, i assure you they would not behave the way they do.
My ex-wife was this way, I was gentle with her and avoided unnecessary connotations. The Marine Corps taught me the discipline to choose my battles, or a Special Court Martial did....
Brian is so lucky that he didn't marry this brat
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And why would he fight someone for bumping into him and spilling beer on him on accident
Dude I've seen dozens of this situations
@romanfedotov1152 so have I and I'm just like now y'all bout to get cuffed and charged. I can see if it was on purpose because then I'll see it as an attack on my person,but a lot of people have no chill
@J.P_INC. I mean in my country if you go to club/bar and drink too much this happens
But even there will be fight men in Russia don't call the police.Bar fight usually ends with broken nose and then everyone goes drink together.
@romanfedotov1152 yes, but as we all know, Russians are weird.
Simple. Just add alcohol.
She had awakened a sleeping giant.. it's about damn time.
I love how she gets mad at the friends at the end as if she wasn't the one who encouraged them to join in.
The female Kryptonite - Accountability - they avoid it like the plague, whatever that costs them or anyone else.
She was bringing him down. He was a pushover for his GF until he was pushed too hard.
What this woman doesn't realize is that altercations between men can turn deadly and douche bags for some reason always want to fight a big dude that isn't trying to fight.
@@davenunyabusiness4893 Exactly, not to mention an assault charge coming your way.
@@davenunyabusiness4893 Or she doesn't care.
Some women like this don't know peace, understand it, nor do they want it. Some people can't resist stepping in their own shit.
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No, his reaction was what the termagant should have seen coming, Well done would have been picking up one of the girls at the bachelorette party right in front of the ex-GF.
Weakness compels strength
MAYBE, but not likely, she actually learned something and might think twice with her next relationship.
Have to pick your battles, Not all of them are worth getting into a knockdown drag out over. ALSO NEVER confuse kindness for weakness.. He put up with her far too long, he hit his limit and that was it.
Brian was very close to Hulking out
Eh, guy brought it on himself. If you allow disrespect, you'll get more disrespect. That's how humans work.
A lot of people mistake kindness for weakness.
No. That is on the horrible person looking down on others. Just perpetrating her attitude with the blame shifting rather than calling it out.
@Dustin81 lol no he's right, don't be a doormat if you don't want people to walk all over you.
Right. I give the same energy to these types right from the start so they know that I will not spare their feelings at all.
Not allowing to cut in front of you isn't gonna cause a scene (most likely). All it takes is "hey man, the line is back there" or even a "please don't cut the line."
The main thought that came to my mind was that if she was so put out by any of these incidents, why didn't she say something? Why is she always pushing him into conflicts? Because she is a horrible, mean-spirited person and appears to be bit of a head-case. He did extremely well to keep a modicum of control and walk away.
The Man knew peace, and they hate that.
Men, no matter the situation, are about PEACE. We KNOW, ESPECIALLY AS ADULTS, about Escalation. So many things AREN'T WORTH fighting over. And a MAN KNOWS WHEN HE "MUST" STAND UP FOR HIMSELF. There are a Lot of petty Small Men out there who'll do stupid shit to make THEMSELVES feel BIG. Real Men can spot these Asshats immediately and NEVER give them what they want...UNLESS THEY NEED TO BE. Understand?
You should never let people walk all over you.
An excellent story, though I do have to say I don't see how the way he shut her down was "with style." With assertiveness, sure. You might even call it with "aplomb" - whatever that means. Or, you could say it was "with the strength she'd been looking for but never truly saw." But "style"? Not sure that's what I'd have called it. Style would've been something like him letting out a sigh before saying "I've told you time & again that I pick what I'm willing to fight for. And now, it seems, it is no longer worth fighting for this relationship. Good evening to you all." in a calm voice while giving everybody seated at their table a small bow & THEN leaving the bar.
THAT would have shown some style! In MY opinion, anyway.
A real man isn't afraid of being called a coward.
Never provoke a man who is tightly controlled to the point of losing control ; once he loses it, he may do far more than is warranted. Is having a joke at his expense worth losing your life over?
Yeah, 99% of the time he'll stop short of that, but I'm not inclined to play You Bet Your Life with someone trying to suppress his anger issues.
"Never draw unless you're prepared to kill." implies prudence, not cowardice.
Chances are your partner won't attack you for repeatedly humiliating you, just throw the trash out and find a classier partner. But isn't it easier to just leave if that's what you want?
Drunk French guy at a party slapped my face because he thought I was chatting up a French girl he liked. Girl was going out with an English friend and I was married and not a cheater.
He tried several more times and I blocked him each time, then said 'try once more and you are going down'. He quit.
I went outside to have smoke and my friend (the one going out with the girl) came out and said 'why didn't you smash him, I would have' - I said 'You see my hands are shaking? you think that's fear? You are not drunk, you try slapping me and find out why I am shaking' He went quiet then said 'I forget you are Irish sometimes' ....
@@patrickkelly6691 You don't need to be Irish to lose control in a fight and do more damage than you intended. An Adrenalin rush makes precisely metered retaliation difficult if not impossible. My compliments on your self control.
Why in God’s name did he even bother with this mean, spiteful, cruel woman. Why would you spend one moment with this hateful person. If he got into a physical altercation it would have resulted in his arrest on a criminal charge.
She didnt realize brian was in his mother fucker stage and paid the price
Lack of communication is a relationship killer.
"Dearest, your jokes at my expense are not making me laugh. Desist, because it is a form of disrespect. "
You say that early in a relationship.
I figure not being a horrible person just goes without saying.
This woman has a bad attitude and alcohol just intensifies it. And you know what they say when you add alcohol it intensifies their attitude but I say yes but what if they're a total a$$hole?
Cutting me in line in a coffee shop will make your left ear bleeding and some of your ribs broken 😜
And you arrested for being an out of control whack job.
Ah, yes. The normal response of a caffeine addict.
And you arrested for assault
Yes, because that'll calm the situation right down.
That’s a dumb reason to be fighting to me honestly but to each they’re own I guess
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