How to Write Characters Who Are NOT Like You 👀

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  • @ComicPower
    @ComicPower Рік тому +669

    Every character in your story wants something even if its just a glass of water. Competing interest clash and it writes itself based on motivation

    • @jackienicholson2990
      @jackienicholson2990 Рік тому +13

      This really helped me understand my sub characters. Thank you!

    • @najeeamurray323
      @najeeamurray323 Рік тому +21

      This is such a great reminder. I've been struggling with plot because I've been focused on what happens next instead of letting character motivation drive the story forward.

    • @_-drowsy-_
      @_-drowsy-_ Рік тому +13

      This is like Kirby when he killed several gods for a cake 💀

    • @emjayviolinart
      @emjayviolinart Рік тому +9

      yes as a matter of fact I am writing an epic eight-book saga about someone who is just struggling to get a glass of water. It's a very convoluted plot and he has to undergo extensive therapy for it 👁👄👁

    • @ComicPower
      @ComicPower Рік тому +4

      @@emjayviolinart Let me set this up for you. Your story is a supernatural horror tragic Sci-Fi story in which our protagonist finds themselves in literal hell after being a horrible person for their life. Down there They meet their uncle who warned them in life to not be a horrible person in life like he was but the protagonist didn't listen. Now our hero and uncle devise a scheme to bust out of hell looking for water to quench their thirst and a chance at redemption to get to heaven. its called AN ICE CUBES CHANCE. it writes itself.. LOL>

  • @TheEccentricRaven
    @TheEccentricRaven Рік тому +445

    I feel that the most important key to good character development is to understand people in general. It requires maturity, being observant of other people, and understanding human nature. As introvert, I would say it doesn't mean you need to be a people person, but that you will have an easier time creating characters when you understand human nature in general.

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 Рік тому +11

      But human nature is so unpredictable and often unreasonable. Completely. I've tried. There is nothing to understand. They just "wanna be bad!" LOL.

    • @soyaliovee
      @soyaliovee Рік тому +18

      @@brandic89 The most “I don’t understand human nature” comment and that was a cute lol, I think to understand human nature is not like understanding concepts like how to ride a car or cooking, there’s no step by step, but something complicatedly fascinating, and reasoning. I feel like you’re a type of person who doesn’t enjoy reading anti-heroes in stories, but that’s just a guess, I genuinely find your comment funny and that reminded me of my old self.

    • @TheEccentricRaven
      @TheEccentricRaven Рік тому +7

      @@brandic89 That's why the world has psychologists.

    • @brandic89
      @brandic89 Рік тому +3

      @@soyaliovee Yes, I guess the reasoning is still escaping me, haha!

    • @chanelwaldorf9728
      @chanelwaldorf9728 11 місяців тому +3

      I think you’re right and more pointedly, I think if you’re innately empathic you will have an easier time getting into heads and characters motivations, which goes hand in hand with being observant as you mentioned. And I would add being perceptive is helpful as well. And you’re spot on about the maturity part. I had friends and family asking me for years why I hadn’t written an actual book yet. That probably started when I was about 18, which was actually pretty annoying. My response was always, “I guess I don’t have anything to say yet.” Turns out I didn’t have anything to say until my 40’s. The words come when the maturity comes.

  • @noahhurst1021
    @noahhurst1021 Рік тому +183

    Something I’d like to add is that you should let characters recognize the importance of constraints. Example: If a two-year-old is only given one option for shirts to wear. He will tantrum. If he has 20 options for shirts to wear. He will also tantrum. The ideal is to let them choose between three options. He isn’t overwhelmed by options given to him while also not feeling forced to wear something. This can be applied in many different ways but this is the most simple example.

    • @SusieLostHerDog
      @SusieLostHerDog Рік тому +11

      The throw a tantrum about shirts thing isn’t actually accurate for most toddlers but I completely see your point!

    • @mattiOTX
      @mattiOTX Рік тому +10

      ​@@SusieLostHerDogit's about lack of freedom contrasted with no boundaries.

    • @5Gburn
      @5Gburn Рік тому +4

      As someone who took this route, I can tell you it's a bad idea. "This" or "that" should be the only choices (if that), or you'll end up in an endless argument circle--doesn't matter what the age of the child. Especially if they're very smart. Constraints are good, the "leash" should be loosened very, verrrry slowly. Then tightened again when they hotrod with your only vehicle 😂 [Editrd to add: Feel free to use this knowledge to create a delightful cereal-choosing tantrum duel in a scene set in a grocery store.]

  • @ArchLordXarnor
    @ArchLordXarnor Рік тому +339

    I think she just gave us all permission to go become hitmen to get in the mind of our assassin characters. Thanks Abbie!

    • @lynxfirenze4994
      @lynxfirenze4994 6 місяців тому +16

      This video will be my legal defense. Hopefully it goes well.

    • @nandiclaasen5732
      @nandiclaasen5732 5 місяців тому +4

      🤣

    • @erikalm6007
      @erikalm6007 4 місяці тому +6

      Why do crime novelists run out of friends? :P

    • @taliw7736
      @taliw7736 2 місяці тому

      Kinda lol

  • @Cat_Steven
    @Cat_Steven Рік тому +160

    We're writing a micro-novel in my writing classes and I've got like 6 main characters who are my friends, so I just ask them how'd they act in each scenario
    This was really helpful!

  • @elisabethcuningham3526
    @elisabethcuningham3526 Рік тому +14

    I like the whole ‘filter your character through the energy of someone else’ idea. I’ve been doing this but didn’t know how to explain it.

  • @NaveedandtheNavlets
    @NaveedandtheNavlets Рік тому +44

    So as a musician, one thing I really enjoy doing is actually composing musical themes for my characters myself! It is such a fun process

    • @Iamnotinsane264
      @Iamnotinsane264 6 місяців тому +1

      Omg that’s why im here

    • @marikothecheetah9342
      @marikothecheetah9342 6 місяців тому +2

      Since I am not a musician I choose a song for each character, like it describes their character or something they would choose to listen to.

  • @landofl4614
    @landofl4614 10 місяців тому +7

    Thanks!

  • @faithrosebrair3611
    @faithrosebrair3611 Рік тому +96

    Just in time, I really need this, this exactly what I'm struggling with.

  • @finchfry
    @finchfry Рік тому +33

    I take the MBTI test as each major character, create a mood board, and put together a short list of real-life people or characters that I want this character to remind me of, whether that means similar motivations, character traits, or other things.

  • @socialanxiety9153
    @socialanxiety9153 Рік тому +62

    I would like to provide some advice to add on to this video. It helped me a lot when I was struggling with my characters and figuring them out, so I think it’ll be useful to everyone here as well.
    I respect the idea that characters should be treated as people, but the realism of a character can only go so far. You may have heard the emphasis of the little traits about a character to get to know them more, and although there is value in knowing what your characters favorite color is or preferences of organization skills, noting down their shoe size is not that important when it comes to the purpose of your character. You see, a character is created to serve the plot and theme, so if you know everything from their family pet history to their favorite bow-ties and nothing about how they fit into the plot and affect the theme of the story, then what is the point of the character? Don’t cling to the little facts if they ultimately don’t have a purpose that serves your story for the better.
    Also, I’d like to thank Abbie. This video is very helpful! Thank you!! ❤

    • @nikkinewbie6014
      @nikkinewbie6014 Рік тому +12

      I agree with what you said about the character ideally being created to prove out your theme via a plot accordingly designed.
      While that’s true, I think what Abbie is emphasizing here is that your character can’t be so “on the nose” / obviously constructed to address the theme. Assuming you do “nail” execution of a good character arc, you still have to go beyond that with the character development. I think that’s Abbie’s point with this video.
      That’s where layering dimension onto your characters can help to obscure the fact that a character just so happens to have encountered a life circumstance that gives them the perfect opportunity to work through their specific issue 🙄😂.
      I think there’s a trade off when we make our stories matter in that way. The plot has meaning because it transforms the character but it does so in an “engineered” fashion that generally does not mimic how real life plays out…no matter how cleverly the plot is constructed.
      So we need to 3D our characters to make them so much more than their fatal flaw to help the reader look past all the author’s engineering.
      Detail = depth. Yeah we probably don’t need a character’s shoe size, but it could be a thing about her that she doesn’t ever wear high heeled shoes.
      Why? Maybe because the first time she wore some she fell and embarrassed herself in front of her high school crush and the “mean girl” squad.
      That could be a highly relatable thing to tell the reader. To make it relevant to the timeframe years later when the story occurs in her mid Twenties, maybe it’s something she can remember and still feel mortified about as she’s trying to figure out what flats look decent enough to wear with her skirt as she’s getting ready for a first date.
      I’m going to exit the weeds now - but I just think the video is all about the need to lend your story more realism by making the characters feel like they could be somebody you could meet out at a party 😂😂.
      A small detail can be “blown up” to be relevant and matter with a healthy dose of “why it tells the reader something relatable about and further develops the character.”
      Just a thought! Take care!

    • @mattiOTX
      @mattiOTX Рік тому +2

      And that is why I went with a character driven plot. In all honesty, I really have issues with doing plots because I'm a gardener and I have issues trying to direct it. My brain just works like that but that's also not a bad thing in my opinion. I just make sure I work on character growth, dialogue, and nice world building for those things to flourish.

  • @taytay1258
    @taytay1258 Рік тому +55

    One thing that I’ve been doing is making a Pinterest board, add sections for my characters, and find pins of existing characters to take inspiration from. For example, my oc Fern is based on Nick from Zootopia for how he behaves(or his MBTI), and Astrid from HTTYD for how she views the world(or her enneagram).

  • @deellaboe437
    @deellaboe437 Рік тому +14

    #3 is a writing must. I can't write anything without music. It sets the vibe. I found you a few weeks ago. And your videos have helped me so much especially character development. I appreciate you!!!

    • @brianwestbrook2113
      @brianwestbrook2113 11 місяців тому

      I just finished a short story based in a Jazz and Blues club. When I started I knew nothing about these two genres. I played jazz and blues in the background for the entire story. Music does really help. Thanks for sharing ‘dellaboe437.’ ❤

  • @marleenstukkien5384
    @marleenstukkien5384 Рік тому +40

    Really awesome video, Abbie, thank you! I myself use MBTI instead of Enneagram and it REALLY pays off to know when which MBTI-types use what cognitive function, like, when exactly would an INFP swich from depressed feeeeeeely-mode to a much more cheerful creative mode? And how would an ESFJ react to those exact same circumstances? Then, let REAL life happen to them with all its challenges and, TADAAAAAHHH! By the way, about your tip #3: one of my many characters is a guy who lived in the 40's and 50's, so I one day decided to look up a couple of songs from that era, because he might just name a few songs he grew up with. That's how I discovered Don't fence me in by Bing Crosby, which I so love now! 😀

    • @j.c.jeggis1818
      @j.c.jeggis1818 Рік тому +8

      I also like how MBTI describes each type at their best, and each type at their worst. It’s like a pre-made blueprint for character development.
      (Also I love that song!)

    • @JustClaude13
      @JustClaude13 Рік тому +3

      If I have time I run through both systems to get more info on their personality.

    • @arrynliu337
      @arrynliu337 Рік тому +10

      Characters with the same MBTI type can behave and react very differently if they don't share the same enneagram type so I would consider both at the same time if possible

  • @andrewah15
    @andrewah15 Рік тому +3

    Makes sense to embody the characters that you’re writing about, regarding dressing like them, getting involved in hobbies that they would get involved in. Great informative video. 👍🏾

  • @Philipp.of.Swabia
    @Philipp.of.Swabia Рік тому +11

    About The Activity’s, since I began writing more chapters featuring Knights and Men at arms of all sorts, I’ve began attending a fencing school, started to tailor a Chainmail Hauberk (shirt) and recently started to work on a historically accurate high medieval „Heater“ Shield together with a Carpenter.
    All of a sudden, you feel much more connected to these people, it’s great. 👌🏻

  • @k0mikaru
    @k0mikaru Рік тому +3

    i prob. binge watched ~12h of Content from you in the last 48h. Just so im able to write a "good" (decent) first story. Just wanna say: i like ur style and ur advice. thank u alot.

  • @henrykkeszenowicz4664
    @henrykkeszenowicz4664 Рік тому +3

    As a composer who does writing as a hobby, I sometimes just compose a soundtrack with character themes that really help in writing a story.
    I'm still afraid that they're all likely one-dimensional strawmen or self inserts. Like the toxic wife of my MC who is just irredeemably bad and toxic, or an adventuring aristicrat who is just a generic adventurer with little restraint.

  • @Osorochan-jp5cx
    @Osorochan-jp5cx 5 місяців тому +1

    14:37 It's a cool idea !!! I have a playlist of one of my character, but yeah i think i have to do that for all of my characters

  • @princesserika9899
    @princesserika9899 Рік тому +4

    I always wanted to make my characters unique, to have them have unique hobbies and personalities that are not my own so this helps me a lot

  • @chelseyhughes8284
    @chelseyhughes8284 Рік тому +1

    I have loved your playlists! I listen to them to help motivate me and get into the zone for different characters!

  • @jennajewel986
    @jennajewel986 Рік тому +1

    Amazing as always, Abbie! Your example of a happy-go-lucky, optimistic character is the exact character I sat down to this video hoping to further master the personality of and I look forward to trying out those character building tricks.
    As for the hacks, I adore them all!
    I use the music hack all the time and it works wonders for me. I also love the idea of the activities one, even if it's hard to accomplish at times, and have been unknowingly doing it. One of my characters plays the piano and the other loves to go sailing. I am not in the position to do either. However I love listening to piano music as I write character A (ties back to the music hack). And whenever I have the chance I snatch up the opportunity to go for a boat ride. Thinking up prose to describe the scenery around me as I'm on the water really does help me get in the headspace of that character. Great practical ideas! Thank you and God bless!

  • @hackysac4528
    @hackysac4528 Рік тому

    Why does youtube only recommend you to me through ads. Im literally subbed 😤
    Your stuff always pops back up when Im struggling in my D&D campaigns (im a DM your content really helps in making the stories and characters for me game!)

  • @echoingvoids
    @echoingvoids Рік тому +6

    Thank you for this Abbie

  • @suzu8253
    @suzu8253 Рік тому +1

    It’s crazy how I was just thinking about how to give my main characters unique voices and you drop this video.
    It’s meant to be

  • @mssamanthanagel
    @mssamanthanagel Рік тому +1

    I'm writing a dual POV novel right now, and listening to their unique playlists when I write from their POV, it really helps!!

  • @williamperryjr1324
    @williamperryjr1324 Рік тому

    I feel that being in your character's shoes would work wonders! To see what makes them tick! And also character interviews!

  • @mermakes5456
    @mermakes5456 11 місяців тому +3

    Ok, so I've tried personality tests and stuff for my characters before, but I've never tried ennagram. I went into it really skeptical, not thinking it would do much other than kinda point me in a direction, but dammmmm. It worked so well. I did it for me first, and i felt absolutely called out, so i did it for my main character, whove ive been having the hardest time with, and omg, i finally understand her now. It finally allowed me to see her arcs through 3 major plotlines. Thank you!

  • @Syd_LovesToDraw
    @Syd_LovesToDraw Рік тому +5

    I am so excited for this episode! I just realized I think all of the writers life Wednesday videos premiere at 12 on Wednesday, but I’m usually busy at that time.😭
    I’ll watch it as soon as I can, though!😅

  • @zeeshanalisoomro8862
    @zeeshanalisoomro8862 Рік тому

    Abbie, I been using the last tip you shared, for a long time. I not only weave personal experiences but also the funny moments of my life when I want to weave comedy into my drama. 😇❤

  • @unicorntomboy9736
    @unicorntomboy9736 Рік тому +18

    I am interested in what Abbie loves about writing contemporary fiction and romance stories and what about those genres draw her to them, which are the genres I feel her books fall into, in my opinion.
    I would love to see her write a fantasy or science fiction novel, like Brandon Sanderson does, who I am a massive fan of.

    • @slowmomoose
      @slowmomoose Рік тому +1

      I think that's her choice

    • @unicorntomboy9736
      @unicorntomboy9736 Рік тому +2

      @@slowmomoose I never said it wasn't

    • @akgwriting9481
      @akgwriting9481 Рік тому +1

      ​@@slowmomooseI think she just wants to know why those genres specifically as opposed to just other genres that she could've picked

    • @bellejane
      @bellejane Рік тому

      same i'd love to see her write something like fantasy

  • @ViEdits00
    @ViEdits00 Рік тому +1

    Ahhhh The Enneagram is the best thing that has ever happened to me! I love figuring out what my chraracters personality is like and how I'm going to write it like their personality... So thank you Abbie... for teaching us how to write better and how to make our author dreams come true❤

  • @SydLovesToWrite
    @SydLovesToWrite Рік тому +1

    This was such a great episode! Thank you so much once again Abbie!🥰

  • @RosiesArcade
    @RosiesArcade 7 днів тому

    I totally do this with my writing! Listen to music that reminds me of the story or a character! I’ve made so many playlists! I’m happy to hear that I’m not the only one and you’re encouraging it!! I’ve also taken martial arts to identify with my character!

  • @vtauoyctynwbrooylm6008
    @vtauoyctynwbrooylm6008 Рік тому +7

    I use the MBTI archetypes as a general layout for characters, then use the cognitive functions to describe their thought processes and decisions. When focusing on character development, I make them develop their inferior function. For example, an ESTP would start off as rather impulsive and arrogant due to dominant Se, but eventually mellow out and become more insightful (tertiary Fe and inferior Ni). However, dominant Se will still triumph over inferior Ni, but the two functions will work more in tandem rather than one overpowering the other.
    I don't recommend using the four-letter system, because that is quite limiting and doesn't go into depth like the functions do.

  • @erinhastings6679
    @erinhastings6679 Рік тому +1

    I love this video!! For me to get into my characters, I use the enneagram system along with listening to music that sounds like my characters and sometimes I take which character are you quiz from a tv show, movie or book so I can be in the mind set of who my characters are and what character traits that they have.

  • @V3NOM_K
    @V3NOM_K Рік тому +3

    For me actually i usually write characters that are similar and i have a hard time trying to make them unique. In this case i think of how they would react in a situation, example maybe getting insulting. One character might start a fight, and the other might insult impulsively. But that’s just a method that words for me!

  • @wildride_crochet
    @wildride_crochet Рік тому +2

    Your videos help me so much! I was wondering if you could do a video about foreshadowing?

  • @ninisilver
    @ninisilver Рік тому +11

    Yup, thank you for the tips Abbie. I'm writing a novel about a football player and guess who has been playing football every week now ... ⚽

  • @Wolfie_Silver
    @Wolfie_Silver Рік тому +1

    9:21 A fair amount of this so far sounds like method acting.
    Basically living as though you are the character you're about to portray.
    Obviously don't take it *too* far, but don't be afraid to really get out there either if you realistically can.

  • @Maerahn
    @Maerahn Рік тому +2

    Totally agree about the music thing; I also have a Spotify Playlist I created specifically for my sci-fi/dystopian w-i-p. Some pieces are 'mood pieces,' to help me vibe with a particular atmosphere or setting, but I also have ones I use as 'theme tunes' for my characters; music that basically sums up who they are and how they see and interact with the world. My FMC. Maggi's, theme tune is 'Still Alive' by Psycho Crusher & Michuru, while her two friends and allies have their own theme tunes as well (Ricky's is 'American Dream' by Jakatta, and Joey's is 'Broken Angel' (instrumental) by Boyce Avenue.) Not sure if it's theme tunes they'd pick for themselves necessarily, but I'd hope the songs reflect the 'essence' of who they are as characters, if that makes any sense.

  • @the.writers.oasis.podcast
    @the.writers.oasis.podcast Рік тому +1

    What I do is take that personality quiz using the traits that I want them to have and then make or use a playlist with the same type of vibe

  • @rockbandny
    @rockbandny 11 місяців тому +2

    I love doing music for it, i have one guy cliff. He loves jazz, like 1920s stage music. And then theres his boyfriend dana, who is texan, he loves country music so

  • @fwuffcat
    @fwuffcat Рік тому

    just checked my schedule and i'm so glad that this premieres during my break!! really need this especially since i'm doing my prep for nanowrimo ❤

  • @katieblaing
    @katieblaing Рік тому +42

    I have a wide range of stories! I love collecting Chinese clothes, witchy costumes, victorian inspired, 1920's. I collect tea sets because of my Alice in Wonderland inspired characters. I plan train rides, go to ballets, renaissance fairs, escape rooms, murder mystery board games, ice skating- doing what your characters do is soo much fun!😁

    • @LittleWaffle
      @LittleWaffle Рік тому +6

      Giiiirl, I don't know you but I could have written 90% of your comment 😂 that's how much I can relate to this 😂❤

    • @katieblaing
      @katieblaing Рік тому

      ​@@LittleWafflethat makes me soo happy🥹😭🫶

  • @MusicNonStap
    @MusicNonStap Рік тому +4

    I’ve been Looking forward to this video! Don’t know if this video will mention this, I would enjoy a video with tips on how to write different genders to your own or different sexual orientations.

  • @SophiaAgnew-y3e
    @SophiaAgnew-y3e Рік тому

    Great video, I haven't seen one like this before, it was really helpful. My characters have different voices and stuff, but they all seem like different parts of me, except for 2 of them.

  • @Abizzle21
    @Abizzle21 Рік тому

    I’m writing a sequel to my debut novel and this has been a big concern for me. Thank you for your help on this topic!

  • @Travelerofthesouth
    @Travelerofthesouth 6 місяців тому

    I do the music thing too 😄 It definitely helps give me ideas!

  • @Future_author_17
    @Future_author_17 Рік тому +2

    Just what I needed! Thank u so much!!!

  • @ChimanaBendor
    @ChimanaBendor Рік тому +1

    Nobody:
    Me: Runs into the forest to make up a fight scene and play it through

  • @localscriptman
    @localscriptman Рік тому +3

    The Enneagram goes so hard. What’s your type?

  • @Lucci136
    @Lucci136 Рік тому +1

    Enneagram is much easier to answer from the point of view of a character than from your own because there are no wrong answers.

  • @najeeamurray323
    @najeeamurray323 Рік тому

    I like to cast my characters and create mood boards with photos of the actors I have in mind. Watching scenes from their work also helps me if I need references for how my character could portray different emotions.

  • @snowman4821
    @snowman4821 Рік тому

    I adored this video. Especially the part about dressing like the characters because many of them have styles I'm super interested in trying lol. Maybe I could go on a "try-on," spree and take pictures. I have lots of characters that I have nothing that resembles their style, so maybe a thrift store would be a good call

  • @_-drowsy-_
    @_-drowsy-_ Рік тому +3

    Damn you didn’t have to attack me like that 😭
    My character I’m currently writing is a lawyer who’s whole thing is he constantly lies to himself 💀

  • @TooLegit2Quit84
    @TooLegit2Quit84 7 місяців тому +3

    My character is a man. I'm a woman. He's an introvert who tends to be more pessimistic (or as I refer to it - realistic). I'm the same way. However, he's married to an extrovert. I'm not. I'm married to a fellow introvert. Although, he's not quite as introverted as I am. They also live in a different state than I do. The climate is totally different. So, there are a lot of things about my character and their environment to which I don't relate. I'm hoping I can be convincing in my writing, and not like I'm cosplaying. LOL
    I'm excited about this video!

  • @littlesillybilly
    @littlesillybilly Рік тому +1

    I usually take personality test acting as my characters, it helps me understand them more.

  • @andreas9094
    @andreas9094 Рік тому

    Great audio quality!! Really good mic!

  • @r-giireactions2235
    @r-giireactions2235 6 місяців тому +2

    Figuring that many of my characters are animals, if I dressed like my character, I'd probably get arrested.

  • @booklanerecommendations
    @booklanerecommendations Рік тому +3

    I love writing characters with very different personalities from my own. I honestly find it harder to write characters who ARE like me.

  • @feelinglikecinderellanaega6359
    @feelinglikecinderellanaega6359 5 місяців тому

    THE TITLE CALLED ME OUT. Thank you for this video

  • @quillistolitch925
    @quillistolitch925 Рік тому

    Thanks Abbie I definitely needed this and didn't even know! 😂

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 2 місяці тому

    Great. So detailed and well explained Thanks Abbie

  • @Zandrozxc
    @Zandrozxc 4 місяці тому +2

    The easiest way to create a character is to take a person from the real world and make them a character in your story. You can use your friends' personalities, family members, or anyone you know who has an interesting character.

  • @johntabler349
    @johntabler349 Рік тому

    It's like method acting for writing, the character profiles form her website we're invaluable to me, especially breaking down the relationships between characters

  • @bastionbrom8927
    @bastionbrom8927 7 місяців тому

    I'm not saying that this advice wouldn't help, but so much of what you're suggesting takes so much time. For those of us with jobs and kids and lives we need to get into the nitty gritty when we have the time to write. Some of this might be better when you're brainstorming rather than writing.

  • @kristilyons4757
    @kristilyons4757 Рік тому

    Awesome advice!! This helps a lot. Some Ideas I didn't think of before. You look great Abbie in your fall colors!!!

  • @briannapeck1220
    @briannapeck1220 5 днів тому

    i love the tip about dressing like your character. I have one character who always wears mardi gras beads and whenever I put my mardi gras beads on it puts me in the mood to write her.

  • @corkscrewfoley
    @corkscrewfoley 5 місяців тому

    Abbie, a lot of this reminds me of method acting. I learnt this in high school from my drama teacher, and I tend to do the same things you are doing.

  • @dyingmoonshine
    @dyingmoonshine Рік тому +28

    Studying characters' and people's likings/things they love and dislikings/stuff they hate, and finding the reasons why they intertwine in "their minds" like cause and effects helps understanding people's reasonings too and thus elaborating the actions they would take regardless of your own opinion on the subject. Then you can get to think like them sometimes, kind of like acting. (don't overdo though... you might end up sick or completely un-you)

  • @Bubbleseatfish
    @Bubbleseatfish Рік тому +2

    I have a question that may sound stupid. How do you create character voice for each character in your story if you're writing in first person? Or do you just not because it's the narrator speaking isn't it?? Idk if this makes sense loll
    Or like not for EACH character but for your main character

  • @joshuajames1
    @joshuajames1 День тому

    "Agree on the last point: Pinterest is a great place to get visually into a character's life. Pinning things they would wear, regular places they visit, a pen they would use, words they would say, food they eat, scents they love and hate, etc. …Great content."

  • @PurpleRhymesWithOrange
    @PurpleRhymesWithOrange 2 місяці тому

    A story plot point needed me to set up in advance why a character would need to have so many hair binders. This led me to creating a new hairstyle that I now often wear myself. I find it cool when my characters teach me new things I can use in my real life.

  • @whiteluna9008
    @whiteluna9008 Рік тому +1

    What I love is that for the most part she doesn’t say “Don’t do this” or “Don’t do that”, because there are almost always exceptions to the rules and it’s how they’re used is the important part. I’m not saying she does period but that’s something I noticed ❤

  • @mommyscribbles
    @mommyscribbles Рік тому

    Thanks for this video! These are great ideas. It almost sounds like you are suggesting something kinda like method acting. Oh and where in the world did you get that awesome music for your intro? What genre is it? It sounds like drums/clapping. Love the energy it brings to your videos and I am looking for something similar for my intros. I just cant find anything like it! Thanks again for this video. You really do have great content!

  • @erikalm6007
    @erikalm6007 4 місяці тому +1

    Dressed down (pun intended) clothes tip (from forum theater): Give each character a hat. Then you can switch between the hats when writing dialog... (or if you have a lot of characters, give them one article of clothing... a hat, a scarf, a jacket, [likely not gloves... but hey, maybe some types will work... ;) ])

  • @baby_grogu
    @baby_grogu Рік тому

    Thanks for making this video Abbie Emmons. When I write my characters all sound somewhat like me and it’s hard not too but thanks for this video it really helped!

  • @lianilges_lilaconeal
    @lianilges_lilaconeal Рік тому

    I love advise 6 and of course the music hack! 🤩

  • @mr.midgardville
    @mr.midgardville Рік тому

    The part about spending time with characters made me think. Every time i watch a show for example, the characters voices in it, especially my favourite ones, get stuck in my head so i think all my inner monologue with them. Accents, mannerisms and all pretty much. But for some reason i don't remember to utilize it in this way. Really useful little trick if i did. Lol

  • @justguy-4630
    @justguy-4630 Рік тому

    Love this upload. This will definitely come in handy.

  • @Ghostrob2023
    @Ghostrob2023 Рік тому

    I enjoyed watching this video and wanted to say to you and your sister, "Happy Halloween!" And can't wait to write with you on Wednesday.

  • @Blabbermouth-w5w
    @Blabbermouth-w5w 11 місяців тому

    Don't ever change that intro. Damned snappy.

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 2 місяці тому

    Another tip is try Character AI for some ideas of what your character may act or sound like. Its like they are their own person /individual. I really like the advice to try personality tests

  • @charliedanub1756
    @charliedanub1756 Рік тому +2

    Woah Abbie, thanks so much, these are so interesting, exactly what I needed. Literally all fifteen of my current characters are just me in different clothes :P
    Shame I don't have full metal plate armor and a cool leather jacket.

  • @taylortimeless
    @taylortimeless Рік тому

    I did #4 when I was writing one of my screenplays. Listened to music from the era as well. It was set in the 1950s.

  • @Missy04
    @Missy04 Рік тому +3

    Great video, Abbie :) When I was writing my fantasy trilogy, I had two completely opposite characters as protagonists. One flowed out of my hands while writing and the other one was giving me a headache at the start because I had absolutely nothing in common with him - at least, that's what I thought. But when I got to know him better, I realised that I can relate on a deep and emotional level with him, which I have never thought would be possible. In some ways, all of my characters are a part of me, even if it's just one trait of them or a thing they do/say. This makes it so much easier to write them.
    And I love that you mentioned music and playlists. This is a big thing for me too, listening to songs that fit the characters really helps to write them better.

  • @andeeharry
    @andeeharry Рік тому +1

    8:04 Try activities your characters would do huh...well now....that would be interesting to get the feel of it all. Shame that the stuff on Terrellium doesn't exist here yet.

  • @nomiflower9707
    @nomiflower9707 Рік тому +2

    Abby: "Wear what your character would wear"
    Me, writing a fantasy: I'm writing some fictional cultures 😐

  • @goopysubject
    @goopysubject 10 місяців тому

    One thing that has helped me with writing characters that don't act like me at all is roleplaying for fun. In my case, I love to play many different games that involve creating your own character and making choices as them. It's easy to just default to making yourself in those games, but something that helps me a lot is to commit to a totally different personality. It can be dnd, the sims, until dawn, hogwarts legacy, love island or baldurs gate... just commit to a personality totally different from you and see what happens. You'll have fun and learn a lot in the process. It starts to become natural to put yourself in other people's shoes.

    • @goopysubject
      @goopysubject 10 місяців тому +1

      Usually when I do this I start very simple like "I'm gonna make someone who's too cool for anything and doesn't let drama get to them" and then before I know it, I'm thinking "when they were a kid, they had to take care of little siblings and get a job really early on, so they never allowed themself to be a kid and have fun, and now they need to learn how to let lose a little... I wonder what's gonna set this change in motion" and BOOM my character suddenly has a whole arc in a stupid reality tv mobile game lol

  • @fooruu8946
    @fooruu8946 Рік тому +1

    This feels the equivalent of method acting for writers. I understand the reasons to offer this advice but I find weird to try to channel another mind, personality and voice since "acting" skills are rather foreign to writing, at least the kind of writing I'm interested more (action driven instead of character driven).

  • @nevaehnisa
    @nevaehnisa Рік тому +17

    I'm surprised you didn't mention MBTI 😂

    • @cosmicprison9819
      @cosmicprison9819 Рік тому

      No, because she mentioned the Enneagram again, which is about the only thing more pseudo-scientific than even the infamous MBTI.

    • @jpainter7147
      @jpainter7147 Рік тому +6

      ​@@cosmicprison9819Both systems are pseudo scientific when applied to real people, but can be good stepping stones when you first start out creating a fictional character.

    • @cosmicprison9819
      @cosmicprison9819 Рік тому +2

      @@jpainter7147 Yes, but so can the Big Five. Which actually do have a scientific basis. And can be used in character creation just like your six go-to Dungeons & Dragons roleplaying stats.

    • @jpainter7147
      @jpainter7147 Рік тому +5

      @@cosmicprison9819 Exactly, there's multiple systems out there that can help you with ideas for characters. Use whichever you feel comfortable with, or none at all. It's all about getting the ideas flowing.

    • @yay29823
      @yay29823 Рік тому +2

      @@jpainter7147 I mean yes it's pseudo scientific but it's still about human psyche so it's still helpful for real people

  • @brembobrakesG
    @brembobrakesG 9 місяців тому +1

    i just do personality tests from the characters pov and copy paste the traits lol

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 Рік тому +1

    Some authors write about people they know or see in public how people interact with each other. Quentin Tarantino writes on seeing how people interact with each other. Steven Spielberg creates characters on people he knows.

  • @nnnnhhhh1234
    @nnnnhhhh1234 Рік тому +1

    I seriously needed this

  • @jessicaoberembt
    @jessicaoberembt Рік тому

    Aesthetic boards and music for sure!

  • @ceringisidors
    @ceringisidors Рік тому +2

    I don't know if it's a good way to develop characters, but being a rather complex person, I take a characteristic of mine (a quality, preferably a flaw, a fear or a desire) and start building the character from that. It's an unconscious process that makes me feel like I'm a lot like the character and yet they're a totally different person from me.
    Seems like a good method?

  • @TehAnshiTunes
    @TehAnshiTunes 6 місяців тому

    I would like to believe my characters are unique. Theyre each "Mary Sues/Stews" in their own way until they come across a major flaw. Then, even their strengths are suspect.
    Not at all cookie cutter.
    Note: 20+ years of RPing textually in different environments helped me realize how to create CHARACTERS, not other versions of ME.

  • @EvangelineHTown
    @EvangelineHTown Рік тому

    Sorry I missed the Livestream! This is a topic I have been struggling with for a long time.

  • @ngtskynebula
    @ngtskynebula 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for this content! 😊