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Selena Gomez, benny blanco - Younger And Hotter Than Me (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубліковано 21 бер 2025

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  • @bananafish2419
    @bananafish2419 День тому +9150

    She seems to have found the emotions she has been missing for years. She is loved, valued and treated with respect within the relationship.
    I hope you will always be very happy, Selena.

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +13

      always she makes this trash type of music

    • @jayvaughn21
      @jayvaughn21 День тому +114

      ​@@opinionsandfaxc yet you're here 10 seconds after it's released
      Edit: you guys ignore the flop and go check out my cover of 'scared of loving you' and 'call me when you break up' 😆

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +9

      @@jayvaughn21 nope more like 45 minutes or so...270x the amount that you said

    • @jayvaughn21
      @jayvaughn21 День тому +29

      @@opinionsandfaxc I said 100+ comments and ur subscribed so go get a job bruh

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +5

      @ you clearly said 10 lmfaoo..and nice projection..I hope you find a job you like..

  • @notsotropical
    @notsotropical День тому +7250

    As a 30year old I definitely feel this song. You realize life is passing by and the things youve kept in your mind for the last decade since you've entered adulthood

    • @margaretjohnston7320
      @margaretjohnston7320 День тому +89

      Yes, you get it. It is like the lyrics are different. But you get what it means.

    • @ElliotAlderson-cg2qk
      @ElliotAlderson-cg2qk День тому +80

      I'm 30 too. Still in shock

    • @busratz
      @busratz День тому +91

      Well i will be 26 this year. Mourning my childhood/younger years.

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +20

      you dont need a trash song to tell you that basic thing

    • @lee5071
      @lee5071 День тому +59

      Yes , I had a lot of realization after 30. It’s like my 20 is my prime and the time of doing everything and experimenting things in life. But now we are on our adulthood with more responsibilities and lots pressure.

  • @mcblaloc
    @mcblaloc 10 годин тому +457

    The way she seems "trapped" on the lot is so symbolic. She never changes clothes, never steps foot outside of the studios. She sleeps there. Benny comes to visit her, but even though she clearly loves him, she still looks so sad, and she cannot leave with him.
    She's stuck there. Forever.
    It's clearly an illustration of how she feels mentally and emotionally, having worked in the industry since she was like 8 years old. It's actually heartbreaking. I hope she is able to find happiness even still.

    • @isabelles.quiroga7398
      @isabelles.quiroga7398 10 годин тому +26

      Yes exactly!! And the lyrics when he leaves and she is standing there say “ sometimes i wish i never loved you” was 100% about her being in the industry

    • @mcblaloc
      @mcblaloc 9 годин тому

      @isabelles.quiroga7398 exactly!!!

    • @courtneywalker7409
      @courtneywalker7409 6 годин тому +7

      Exactly and it’s showing us that it’s hard for to get away from a character she portrayed as a teen everyone always knows her as Alex Russo which she clearly loves playing the character but I just think it’s an amazing symbolism ❤

    • @melissacostin4464
      @melissacostin4464 3 години тому

      Stunning voice .. must have been hard being close to JB who was fighting to hide his industry trauma too dt diddy .. i hope you both find closure and are not kept captive and distracted by an opportunist .. both of you

  • @morkmeinyourheartt
    @morkmeinyourheartt 17 годин тому +49

    she finally found the perfect vocal range for her im a sucker for her lower tone omgggg

  • @gabrielaqueiroz7714
    @gabrielaqueiroz7714 День тому +6844

    the way Benny is doing an immersive therapy on Selena, this album is pure soul. the two are geniuses together, I couldn't be happier!

    • @elijah0208
      @elijah0208 День тому +9

      Gomez, blanco, saldana n gascon will surely buy enough copies of this album to get it to top12😂😂😂

    • @sherenehenry9991
      @sherenehenry9991 День тому

      ​@@elijah0208people like you will always be miserable

    • @AngelicaEstherxo
      @AngelicaEstherxo День тому +3

      Right!!

    • @abbied
      @abbied День тому +6

      @@elijah0208 Karla doesn’t like her apparently (or at least from her past tweets it would appear that way)

    • @CaseyLoveTalks
      @CaseyLoveTalks День тому +42

      I saw a video of Sza saying that Benny made her express suppressed feelings and it was like therapy in her previous album. Definitely see that in this work, pretty cool.

  • @laxyathakuri
    @laxyathakuri День тому +5209

    benny is healing smth he never destroyed , love u bothh

    • @miscervate
      @miscervate День тому +86

      this is such a beautiful way to put it

    • @RachelTsTime
      @RachelTsTime День тому +68

      Beautifully said! But I think she’s doing it on her own and she finally has a supportive partner ❤

    • @lovelifelaugh2727
      @lovelifelaugh2727 День тому +13

      How I feel about my husband ❤

    • @nolanj123
      @nolanj123 День тому +3

      She’s Hella mid

    • @muvaash
      @muvaash День тому +15

      But he basically was there to see it … him & Justin was really close like brothers so around that time he knew what was going on ! even went to their wedding

  • @416Shorty
    @416Shorty День тому +2846

    What a vulnerable song and a beautiful video. Such a relatable feeling especially as we’re getting older 😭

    • @Losercarnist
      @Losercarnist День тому +7

      Amen

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +3

      vulnerabilty isnt good.

    • @finalGirl1397
      @finalGirl1397 День тому +3

      So true

    • @IloveJesus777j77
      @IloveJesus777j77 День тому +9

      @@opinionsandfaxc That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
      10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.

    • @nolanj123
      @nolanj123 День тому +1

      She’s Hella mid

  • @JuliaRaquelDaulton
    @JuliaRaquelDaulton 10 годин тому +176

    Selena was always too good and pure for that industry.

    • @JuliaRaquelDaulton
      @JuliaRaquelDaulton 10 годин тому +5

      So happy she is healing. Beautiful work. Immediately on my playlist.

  • @chelsigermain
    @chelsigermain 23 години тому +1466

    feels like this is Selena's raw and emotional letter to the industry about the internal struggle with fame, growing older, and the pressure of wanting to stay relevant in a world that worships youth. it's like she both loves the industry but hates how it also made her feel disposable. she wishes the industry was somehow "different". The line "we're not getting any older but your girlfriends seem to" is such a poignant commentary on how the industry spotlight ALWAYS moves on, leaving her (and other Disney stars) feeling like they're constantly replaced and in the shadows. the visuals in the music video also show this sense of "entrapment" - Selena waking up and going back to sleep on the WOWP set, Benny visiting but having to leave her there... kinda symbolizes the disconnection between her past self and present. she probably felt stuck in a loop.. never fully able to break free from the identity the industry imposed on her. its such a heartbreaking song but its so important; for childhood stars and even women and how we feel in society today :(

    • @Tr3yLoco
      @Tr3yLoco 21 годину тому +23

      So very Accurate, thank you for your comment! ❤

    • @ruthrivera6199
      @ruthrivera6199 21 годину тому +17

      Truly enjoyed you comment.

    • @ailenr11
      @ailenr11 21 годину тому +3

      Excelente comentario, muy real lo que mencionas.

    • @marinaortiz7414
      @marinaortiz7414 20 годин тому +3

      Es muy cierto su comentario

    • @Nina-fv1mp
      @Nina-fv1mp 20 годин тому +9

      Wow…your explanation makes so much sense!!!

  • @propertyofyourbeloved
    @propertyofyourbeloved День тому +1353

    the way at the end 3:00 everyone went back to their homes and left the set, except her, she stayed there cuz that's where she was raised, sel started working since she was a kid, so even if she wanted to leave, she can never escaped her true self

  • @onlyfacts5701
    @onlyfacts5701 День тому +1155

    Honestly she feels so comfortable and loved by Benny. Even them sitting and eating is so genuine and pure. So far the best man she’s ever been with.

    • @renatamioto1218
      @renatamioto1218 День тому +13

      Verdade! Revela encantadoramente um amor ❤ ao qual eles dois podem contar. 🎉Seja muito feliz Selena.
      Estou nesse momento na Califórnia assistindo esse clip maravilhoso 💕.
      Parabéns Selena Gomes e Beny Blanco.

    • @MinhÁnhNguyễn-i3l
      @MinhÁnhNguyễn-i3l День тому +6

      Beautiful ❤❤❤

  • @angiefuentess
    @angiefuentess 18 годин тому +214

    She woke up on the wizards of waverly place house couch😭 and the wand being pulled out from the cupboard😭 im sobbing this whole album is GOLD

  • @yamanuel
    @yamanuel День тому +3431

    I've heard a thousand times that behind every good man, there's a woman who supports him. But in this case, behind a woman who continues growing, healing, and creating, there's a guy like Benny Blanco. He is definitely the best thing that has happened to her.
    I don't know them personally, but their relationship feels so down-to-earth. That's something to be admired and even a little envious of.

    • @cheniesinthangmusic
      @cheniesinthangmusic День тому +23

      True🎉

    • @ferciegarez
      @ferciegarez День тому +35

      I agree, their relationship is so cute and stable and I feel so grateful to see them happy. We don't deserve less in a partner 💗

    • @lauraarreolaponce9174
      @lauraarreolaponce9174 День тому +19

      Selena is back I'm tearing up

    • @btsarmy0787
      @btsarmy0787 День тому +19

      truly, everyone talked a lot about them, but to me it shows how selena truly found someone who loves for who she is fully, and isn't that what we are all looking for and lucky to even find in this lifetime

    • @AK-jw7rx
      @AK-jw7rx День тому +13

      You don't know them or what goes on behind closed doors. This is still Hollywood and she's an actress. Don't be envious of celebrities you don't know, focus on your own life and the blessings in it

  • @valen9177
    @valen9177 День тому +2562

    she's talking about her relationship with the industry!!!!!!! so good

    • @aluicious2421
      @aluicious2421 День тому +91

      Thank you I was very confused. I was like I thought her & Benny were good lol

    • @salemmariex
      @salemmariex День тому +57

      She’s talking about guys from her past

    • @obliviate1953
      @obliviate1953 День тому +18

      Wait, that makes so much sense

    • @Suzanne-ds7wq
      @Suzanne-ds7wq 23 години тому +4

      Noooooooo she is not

    • @Suzanne-ds7wq
      @Suzanne-ds7wq 23 години тому

      ​@@obliviate1953no it does not

  • @oliviak.7977
    @oliviak.7977 День тому +2952

    Benny, I hope you read this: Thank you for showing us women how to be loved right. This album is truly phenomenal. The way he takes ownership of her emotional well-being is beyond sexy, it’s rare to see something so masculine in such a pure and caring way. Not even mentioning his wonderful talent. Hollywood is full of losers who don’t know how to treat a woman, but you’re showing them how it’s done and making them all look like amateurs. I’m so touched by how a man with a good heart can bring out the very best in a woman. You are THE man! Truly, this album is something else.

    • @Omavia-o9x
      @Omavia-o9x День тому +53

      oh my god yes, he is very confident and emotionally intelligent, truly very very masculine and attractive

    • @thefoodiebinh
      @thefoodiebinh День тому +14

      I'm a big fan of Selena for a long time. I'm so happy for Benny and Selena. . They look so cute and happy together. Benny, you are truly an amazing gentleman. ❤

    • @yorecherry
      @yorecherry День тому +2

      🥹❤️

    • @bbbbbbounce
      @bbbbbbounce День тому +2

      yes!!!!

    • @yasmined16
      @yasmined16 День тому +1

      🥹❤

  • @lourdesheartalfinso3426
    @lourdesheartalfinso3426 8 годин тому +15

    Now i realize How genuine Benny Blanco is.. Selena had to Heaaaal waaaaay more. Baby girl, you keep doing it. You deserve the world coz you're part of a good instrument of God to make a good impact to the world.

  • @bianca.barcelar
    @bianca.barcelar День тому +1108

    She managed to convey the feeling of many of us that we are reaching 30' or have already arrived. The feeling of no longer fitting into the environments as before and also the fear of being exchanged for someone else 💔

  • @Agustin133
    @Agustin133 День тому +3528

    The wizards of waverly place house... life really passes by...

    • @deanatroha-g6r
      @deanatroha-g6r День тому +142

      and her wand… 😭😭

    • @Bluecatxxxxx
      @Bluecatxxxxx День тому +10

      Really? which time stamp you see this?

    • @kimberlyL8939
      @kimberlyL8939 День тому

      @@Bluecatxxxxxat the beginning when she wake up on the couch, it’s the house and she pulls her wand out the cabinet before her toiletries bag

    • @amylopez1
      @amylopez1 День тому +28

      @@Bluecatxxxxx0:18

    • @jazzinikki01
      @jazzinikki01 День тому +6

      😢 memories

  • @deblina19
    @deblina19 9 годин тому +18

    Feels like she waited a long time to sing this song. Happy for her.

  • @Tectonicia
    @Tectonicia 2 дні тому +5619

    Selenators please we have to make this album chart to show Selena how grateful we are ❤

  • @snowwolfieplays9978
    @snowwolfieplays9978 День тому +494

    The love Benny has for Selena makes me cry, it's so pure and gentle and genuine. May this kind of love find us someday. We all deserve this kind of love that cares for us.

    • @melissacalderon1515
      @melissacalderon1515 День тому +4

      Pray we all find that love and that we wait on Gods perfect timing ❤️

    • @sofiavillanueva4647
      @sofiavillanueva4647 День тому +3

      Sameee im so happy for her 🥹 fr makes me like a happy sad lol (tears of joy for her)

    • @dennisehatfield8174
      @dennisehatfield8174 День тому +1

    • @longstrangetrip1992
      @longstrangetrip1992 День тому +1

      It will girl I promise. My man is my Benny (healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in) they’re out there!! ❤

  • @CallmeAryvlogs
    @CallmeAryvlogs День тому +1679

    I think this about Selena reminiscing on how someone or maybe everyone is in love with her younger self and she’s frustrated that everyone compares her to the girl she was when she was « younger and hotter »

    • @CallmeAryvlogs
      @CallmeAryvlogs День тому +164

      Pictures of you at the movies looking younger and hotter than me, she’s talking about herself and how she’s frustrated with that version of her that doesn’t exist anymore because she’s changed so much and lived so much more, she also mentions how she hates the way she dressed, she’s just evolved and moved on from that and grown as a human being

    • @CallmeAryvlogs
      @CallmeAryvlogs День тому +62

      I love Selena this is beautiful and so true 🥺 you just want people to love you for the most current version of yourself, not a version that doesn’t exist anymore

    • @iamchrispaezjr
      @iamchrispaezjr День тому +73

      I got that message too. She’s getting older. And I’m sure she reminiscences a lot of the past, but also accepts the future. She posted a video of her younger self on Twitter doing a speech when Wizards ended and saying how grateful she was. She references it in the video I think. The wizards living room at the beginning, and I think she pulls out Alex’s wand in the shelf.

    • @adrianasalazar9718
      @adrianasalazar9718 День тому +23

      ⁠@@iamchrispaezjromg! I didn’t even catch that it was in the set of wizards!! Lol I was wondering why she was at a set

    • @ferlor
      @ferlor День тому +11

      Cuando dicen cosas como" Selena Prime" 🙄

  • @KyCandicee
    @KyCandicee 10 годин тому +32

    Benny is so healing to her omg

  • @luludrewanz3181
    @luludrewanz3181 День тому +310

    Since I've been here since 2011, this clip was a million sensations of growth, and some things I understood in the clip: she spends most of her time on the covered set because 'Wizards of Waverly Place' is over. When she opens the closet, she first takes her wand and then grabs her makeup bag. As she walks around the set, everyone looks at her because they remember, but they don't stop. When she enters the bathroom, she finds the new star of the moment, but it also reminds me of the scene in 'Who Says' where she goes to the bathroom to take off her makeup; now she’s going to put it on because she has a makeup bag. Benny makes her laugh and feel happy. In the end, before getting in the car, he says, 'I love you,' and they're in front of the 'sunset' parking lot, maybe an idea of their first date. It’s incredible to see Selena’s growth and her understanding that she can have everything she wants, regardless of getting older; after all, she will always be the queen! I won’t say 'welcome back' because you’ve never left my playlist! Love you. Kisses from Brazil

    • @دلالاحمد-ش1ز
      @دلالاحمد-ش1ز День тому +3

      31 she still young

    • @hereliesmyreputation2559
      @hereliesmyreputation2559 День тому +4

      This was so beautifully written

    • @luludrewanz3181
      @luludrewanz3181 День тому +4

      @@دلالاحمد-ش1ز
      "I know!!! I’m just saying that she is not 16 anymore. She has been working since she was 6, so it’s a lot of years of career, and she’s a woman now, not a 16-year-old girl.

  • @ItsBÉlla-x5y
    @ItsBÉlla-x5y День тому +266

    Their relationship feels so genuine, like she’s finally found someone who cherishes her for who she is.

  • @cafe.atlantis
    @cafe.atlantis 13 годин тому +20

    I didn't get these two before but this album makes so much sense, the way he's not only loving but also healing her. Pushing her out of her comfort zone and she finally broke out of her shell becoming more and more daring and authentic with her music

  • @Esthy
    @Esthy День тому +606

    Finneas - you don't even have to sing on the songs you write, I still hear you immediately 🤍bravo

    • @KYLETISZAI
      @KYLETISZAI День тому +3

      Omg

    • @evette8558
      @evette8558 19 годин тому

      Fineas didnt write this song tho

    • @Esthy
      @Esthy 18 годин тому

      @ if you go the song on Spotify, tap on the 3 dots next to song on the right and click on ‘View Song Credits’ you can check credits for any song :)

    • @brigittewilliams2038
      @brigittewilliams2038 17 годин тому +2

      @@evette8558yes he did

    • @brigittewilliams2038
      @brigittewilliams2038 17 годин тому +3

      I love his music so it kinda makes sense why I liked this song right away

  • @charlotteemmahegele
    @charlotteemmahegele День тому +1335

    As someone who gave him my entire 20s, to have him break up with me and date someone who was the age I was when we had first met- this song really hits.

    • @krushhearts
      @krushhearts День тому +24

      this!!!! 💔

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +8

      more context needed.

    • @MiniSpears
      @MiniSpears День тому +53

      Honestly the same thing happened to me. 😢 he took my entire 20s and early 30s then dumped me as soon as I turned 32 just to date someone 10 years younger than me and he was 3 years older than me.

    • @ferwoodz
      @ferwoodz День тому

    • @Loryxvwmwke
      @Loryxvwmwke День тому

      @@opinionsandfaxcoh shut up

  • @kyanaboily
    @kyanaboily День тому +618

    the line "I wished I never loved you" resonated so hard with me

    • @NVmusic09
      @NVmusic09 День тому

      Yeah and also I just started a channel these are some songs I made please check it out too guys❤
      ua-cam.com/video/o0x0cJrbsE4/v-deo.htmlsi=tz7YKLbcVeJe4fGO

    • @ferwoodz
      @ferwoodz День тому +1

      Fr

    • @Paula-fm1xc
      @Paula-fm1xc День тому +4

      what does it mean in this context?

    • @anjolara9568
      @anjolara9568 День тому +4

      Im thinking that this song is for justin may something

  • @itshanieafshar
    @itshanieafshar 17 годин тому +23

    tbh I totally get it. I would love Benny too. He seems to have a heart of gold, ears to listen, shoulders to cry on, talent, appreaciation, honesty and a sense of fashion and ability to cook!

  • @risslivi9915
    @risslivi9915 День тому +519

    It is so hard to be a woman who is maturing when youth is so glorified.... we live under so much pressure to stay preserved forever... I turn 40 in a few months and this hit different

    • @lacil8895
      @lacil8895 День тому +22

      Same as 36 year old.. I LOVE who I am now. I've become wonderful. So strong and mature. I'm a but smarter and so much funnier. And older and a bit bigger..but I find it beautiful. I like my reflection when I'm at home and in peace. But the world is already discarding me this way. The world doesn't like the best version of me. Simply because I'm not young and naive with a slimmer body. What a sick world. Be proud of yourself anyhow. Humans are the most deeply flawed species on the planet, because we don't value maturity. All best.

    • @Sandra-fc8pc
      @Sandra-fc8pc День тому +2

      I think that if you are secure in yourself, and really love yourself you don’t have a problem with growing old. But you need to get unconditional love from your parents growing up, to be secure and really love yourself. I know it from myself, and it’s a struggel everyday to feel good enugh. Selena has all these succeses and work hard and is a billioner. But she is just like me on the inside. Both your parents need to love you, your fathers love is most important for a girl, to have a healty picture of what love is. Love your kids, the most important thing for their future happiness! ❤

    • @Sandra-fc8pc
      @Sandra-fc8pc День тому

      I think that if you are secure in yourself, and really love yourself you don’t have a problem with growing old. But you need to get unconditional love from your parents growing up, to be secure and really love yourself. I know it from myself, and it’s a struggel everyday to feel good enugh. Selena has all these succeses and work hard and is a billioner. But she is just like me on the inside. Both your parents need to love you, your fathers love is most important for a girl, to have a healty picture of what love is. Love your kids, the most important thing for their future happiness! ❤

    • @WalkingMysteries
      @WalkingMysteries День тому +2

      Well said. I'll be 59 this year, but I FEEL 39. We all need to simply embrace aging.

    • @phoebeknyx
      @phoebeknyx День тому +2

      40 in August 💗

  • @davidw0271
    @davidw0271 21 годину тому +331

    This is so Lana actually love it in Selena’s tone

  • @MaximBordyug.
    @MaximBordyug. День тому +94

    I still feel like I’m dreaming. I never thought she’d return to music. Thank you, Benny!

  • @nadyaanismahesyadewi5568
    @nadyaanismahesyadewi5568 13 годин тому +12

    2:53 listening to it makes you restless and deeply sad.. the peak of emotions that can be felt 😢

  • @kabirrajbanshi_
    @kabirrajbanshi_ День тому +1539

    WELCOME BACK QUEEN SELENA.

  • @bezrela
    @bezrela 2 дні тому +3096

    THE WAY THIS SONG IS ABOUT TO BREAK US MORE THAN LOSE YOU TO LOVE ME DID 😭❤️‍🩹

    • @komarockbunny
      @komarockbunny 2 дні тому +21

      True😭

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc 2 дні тому +11

      the sneak peek of the song in the bts sounded like trash

    • @nstflorin5564
      @nstflorin5564 День тому

      ​@@opinionsandfaxcYet you are here hater

    • @Diana-of9kq
      @Diana-of9kq День тому +126

      ​@opinionsandfaxc don't you have a child to take care of Hailey?

    • @logynehanna3207
      @logynehanna3207 День тому

      Why you are always leave discussing and hait comment everywhere? Are you hb or KJ or JB because you are not normal i​@@opinionsandfaxc

  • @swiftie_13_love
    @swiftie_13_love День тому +452

    This song broke me. I am currently sobbing. I've watched Selena since I was a small child. From Barney, to Wizards of Waverly Place and Princess Protection Program, to now Only Murders in the Building, she's grown a lot. I always thought "wow, she's so perfect, I wish I was like her" and didn't think about what she had to go through on her end. Selena, I'm proud of you and where you've come now. Let's make it our mission to make this album and song chart.

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +2

      jaja why are you crying😂

    • @skypefan100
      @skypefan100 День тому

      She has way more sadder realistic songs then this cheap fake relation💩 enough with the bullS, Open your eyes man or girl

    • @Mehmehidk
      @Mehmehidk День тому +4

      Girl, same! I waited this moment for a long time… to see her happy just fills my heart. I don’t even know her but God I am so happy to see her smiling and be loved from the right person.

    • @angy_5712
      @angy_5712 День тому +1

      ❤❤❤

    • @tigraithelandofqueenofsheba
      @tigraithelandofqueenofsheba День тому

      Wow 🎉

  • @glow10272
    @glow10272 17 годин тому +30

    The whole time she's living there. Wakes up there, brushes her teeth, has breakfast, lunch, dinner and then says goodbye to Benny and she sleeps there on her old set of Wizards of Waverly Place. Bravo! I got it only at the end. Nice symbolism. Everyone leaves and she stays cause it's all she's known. 👏🏽

  • @Bunnyheaddarling
    @Bunnyheaddarling День тому +213

    Love Benny for holding her hand and being there for her as she gets to express her feelings in music. Feelings are hard to navigate especially when trying to heal. 🥂 to more growth for the couple

    • @gloriaShikanov
      @gloriaShikanov День тому +1

      Yes 😢😢❤ true love benny and selena.

  • @weissauras
    @weissauras День тому +149

    I hope this song gets the attention it deserves because it's soulful, it's genuine, raw, emotional and beautiful. Undoubtably one of my top 5 favourite songs of Selena.

  • @maxcarter3453
    @maxcarter3453 День тому +681

    Selena's voice has aged like fine wine

  • @LBC.criccc
    @LBC.criccc 15 годин тому +4

    Benny’s deep, therapeutic approach with Selena’s music is unreal-this album feels so raw and full of soul. Their collaboration is pure magic, and I’m absolutely loving it!❤‍🩹

  • @SoldByRebeccaGarcia
    @SoldByRebeccaGarcia День тому +86

    For everyone on their 30’s like myself, this hit home. We love you Selena! Thank you Benny! I myself found the loml after so many years of wanting this type of love. ❤

  • @KB-eu5xi
    @KB-eu5xi День тому +407

    Genuinely wasn’t a Selena fan before but this new era is truely art.

    • @luiszambrano1769
      @luiszambrano1769 День тому +7

      if u like this song, you should try listening to Lose You to Love Me it’s similar 😊

    • @AngelicaEstherxo
      @AngelicaEstherxo День тому +2

      Facts

    • @bouncyshak
      @bouncyshak День тому +3

      I just came here to comment this! I am looking forward to a Selena album now wtf

    • @psychedelicyeti6053
      @psychedelicyeti6053 11 годин тому

      Same

  • @YyujiZone
    @YyujiZone День тому +114

    2:05 why this part makin me emotional lol i can feel some passion of deep emotion between them like they are bestfriends willing to heal and protect each other

  • @brigittewilliams2038
    @brigittewilliams2038 17 годин тому +21

    The production was 10/10

  • @joerenzapata
    @joerenzapata День тому +255

    2:18 when benny mouthed "I love you" SAFEEESSSTTT MORE SECUREEEEED FEEELING MY GODD

    • @kifflom4032
      @kifflom4032 День тому +8

      This!!!! Please, everyone, stop the Benny hate train.

    • @meariijenkins7205
      @meariijenkins7205 День тому +2

      That man is so in love with her it hurts 😢❤

  • @riasrivastava5526
    @riasrivastava5526 День тому +94

    This is giving the Revival era. All the stuff she has been through during that time. We love you Selena

  • @minhtu5059
    @minhtu5059 22 години тому +116

    Felt like this song was so short, but it's more than 3 minutes. Maybe it shoulda been 5? I love this genre with Selena's voice so much!!!

    • @mattstevens7601
      @mattstevens7601 15 годин тому +2

      Yea it needs a big orchestra to stretch it out in the bridge or something

  • @Shyyannek
    @Shyyannek 6 годин тому +8

    Wait wait wait….the set Selena’s waking up in is literally the retired living room set from Wizards of Waverly place 😱 the creative direction is genius ❤️💯🫶🏽

  • @BlueMoon-io9eh
    @BlueMoon-io9eh День тому +290

    The song is so beautiful. I immediately clocked that it was about her relationship to her fans & music career reworked as a romantic relationship storyline.

    • @katherinesilva622
      @katherinesilva622 День тому +3

      Yes! I got that too

    • @mashalimtiaz7971
      @mashalimtiaz7971 День тому +6

      can you elaborate?

    • @dutchess8566
      @dutchess8566 День тому +1

      Can u explain the set also?

    • @LivingAsTasha
      @LivingAsTasha День тому

      @@dutchess8566the set is the old wizards of Waverley place set, I think Her sleeping on the sofa references to an interview she said recently that she used to sleep on the sofa in between takes and also lately when she said she u would watch old episodes as an adult to help her sleep at night, so maybe something to do with home comforts and safety?

    • @PenguinHoilday
      @PenguinHoilday День тому +3

      @@dutchess8566it’s definitely how her fans loved her role but she’s no longer that

  • @jennyrose8449
    @jennyrose8449 День тому +89

    I’m CRYING! THIS SONG IS SO BEAUTIFUL 😭 AND HER VOICE SO ANGELIC. I literally cried when lose you to love me premiered and this song hit me the same way. BENNY THANK YOU FOR BRINGING OUR GIRL BACK 🥹

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +1

      her voice is angelic??? her voice sounds like a dying cow...theres something called autotune. she sucks without it.

  • @araceliflor5
    @araceliflor5 День тому +293

    I think this is so relatable to woman in their 30s and 40s. I love her so much. Beautiful song.

    • @mexifrida
      @mexifrida День тому +15

      Yep. Turned 30 and suddenly I started having thoughts like the ones she has in this song. It’s so relatable to hear someone as successful as her talking about still feeling that

    • @abbied
      @abbied День тому +1

      @@mexifrida I’ll be turning 30 this year and I’m dreading it 😣😣😣😣

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 День тому +1

      ​@abbied 30 is still young

    • @waffanabilas
      @waffanabilas День тому

      ​@@priscillajimenez27 how old r u now?

    • @priscillajimenez27
      @priscillajimenez27 День тому

      @@waffanabilas 35

  • @ashleighcleaver9009
    @ashleighcleaver9009 15 годин тому +7

    I've been a fan for 19 year's this hits so hard ❤️ thank you Selena ❤

  • @magdad48
    @magdad48 День тому +57

    1:34 looking for something to tell you, looking for reasons to speak… this is so moving and beautiful 🥹🥹

  • @lililolita6154
    @lililolita6154 День тому +318

    2:30 this part makes me so emotional. As a 30 years old it feels like all my Younger memories are fading away. 90’s kids love you all, we were the best generation ❤

    • @lisa-yu1sn
      @lisa-yu1sn День тому

      Homophobia, fatphobia, bullying, misogyny? Y’all 90s twerps loved that shit so um, no.

    • @michellegifford91
      @michellegifford91 День тому +6

      33 here and yes the 90s were the best time to be a kid ❤

    • @Edna.J-210
      @Edna.J-210 День тому +7

      35 and I now get so emotional at reminiscing the great times lived in the 90s and early 2000’s things my children unfortunately will never get to experience. 😢

    • @Letitbe91
      @Letitbe91 23 години тому +4

      34 next month no lies told my friend

    • @secretservices1317
      @secretservices1317 23 години тому +5

      30 is still younhhggg

  • @Armagejhn
    @Armagejhn День тому +119

    I've love too many artists, but pretty much no one touches my soul like Selena with her voice, I'm so glad she's back, and feeling confortable enough to share more about how she feels, like this feels genuine like her, I'm so excited for the album and for what's to come. Here since day 1 🤩

  • @raimemcelveen7077
    @raimemcelveen7077 День тому +64

    the parallel between the girl in the bathroom and how she was wearing a pink ball gown and tiara like selena wore in wizards of waverly place for the quinceañera episode really got me🥺

  • @remorseofemotion
    @remorseofemotion 13 годин тому +3

    Not gonna lie, this is my favorite song so far from the album. It speaks volumes to me and I wish there were slowed versions of this song. Tysm and love you both ❤

  • @gregoryhoang2113
    @gregoryhoang2113 День тому +810

    THIS IS TRULY A COMEBACK OF THE DECADE

    • @philipperez712
      @philipperez712 День тому

      Did u just start doing meth

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +6

      what comeback?? she never left..she lied to you guys about quitting music

    • @gregoryhoang2113
      @gregoryhoang2113 День тому +12

      @@opinionsandfaxc it is the comeback bc the last album was 2020...

    • @STasugx
      @STasugx День тому +1

      Uhh, she was featured in Calm Down which won awards lol. Comeback from what exactly?

    • @gregoryhoang2113
      @gregoryhoang2113 День тому +8

      @ thats a feature. We're talking about the whole album

  • @Beansprout.2131
    @Beansprout.2131 День тому +70

    Benny is making Selena shine from within. I can see them grow old (in love) together.

  • @melaniepratt3116
    @melaniepratt3116 День тому +151

    WE ARE READY SELENA AND BENNY! Thank you soooooo much for loving our girl and making her feel safe! 🎹🎼🎤🎭🎧🎸🎟️🎫

  • @xavianjiron8691
    @xavianjiron8691 14 годин тому +2

    Literally is on the set of wizards of waverly place in the living room pulls out the wand in the kitchen….. imma cry out of nostalgia. ❤️

  • @sophiakaitlyn9487
    @sophiakaitlyn9487 День тому +94

    I’m 23 and totally lost my personality/sense of self in being a mother and wife. This album reminds me of when I was 16 in my room, making Spotify playlists! I would look for all the underground artists with this exact vibe, and hearing this now for the first time since, I feel like I remembered who I am❤️ thank you for this emotional, love-sick, hopelessly romantic album!!! You’re amazing😊

    • @lexierose2124
      @lexierose2124 День тому +6

      I will be 23 this year and I have also lost myself in being a wife and mother of 2. In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever found myself. I don’t even know who I am. I went from family to family growing up and they kept me sheltered from the world then when I got away from all that I got pregnant with my husband and now that’s my focus. Reading these comments make me realize how fast life really goes and now I see that I haven’t even been allowed to live my childhood but it’s too late it’s all gone now. Now my 20s are going by so fast and all my time and energy is going to my family. When will I ever find out about myself? I have so much potential. I have so many things I think I could be good at but I’m scared I’ll never get the chance to find out. When will I be able to give myself the time to have even just one hobby to help discover who I am? I’m just a mom. That’s all I know right now. If I die right now what will they say about me? Lexie enjoyed… what did she enjoy? Who was she?

    • @lexierose2124
      @lexierose2124 День тому

      Don’t know where all those emotions came from it just all poured out and j used this comment section to record it. And now it’s somehow 3:54 in the morning and my face is covered in tears being all in my feels. I have to go to bed🥲

    • @Sigmaslime
      @Sigmaslime День тому

      Still got lots of time. You just gotta get out there and experiment and try new things ​@@lexierose2124

    • @aslifilmss
      @aslifilmss День тому +3

      @@lexierose2124 i hope you actually see your potential. 22 looks way too young to me to start a family. that is a MASSIVE resposibility. (for example im not ready at all). im 25 and i still say that i need more to do and experience, i hope you break free from all your problems/ dark thoughts and stop sheltering yourselves.

    • @mouse1329
      @mouse1329 День тому +2

      @@lexierose2124 do not wish away this time in your life. The only constant is change. They are growing each day as are you even if you don't feel it. This too shall pass and your little ones will be older and different people than they are now. They will remember these years different from you but core memories are being made all the time. Enjoy this season in your life. Embrace being a young mom and wife. These short years will be gone and you will be looking back wishing you were right where you are right now. Blessings to you and your family!

  • @nirliptapanda9386
    @nirliptapanda9386 День тому +100

    what the fuck have you done.. now I am lying on my bed, crying my eyes out at 10:00 am in the morning. my day is at halt and I cant stop listening to this.. Thank you selena..for showing the rawness of how deep the depression can drag you and how everything hurts.. we are here for you gurl the way you are here for us.. but the majority will never understand this vedio..

  • @gabrielaa.8552
    @gabrielaa.8552 День тому +147

    This may seem dramatic but today listening to your album and this song in particular I found myself crying. Not in a sad way but nostalgic ...I've grown up with you, watched your journey and cried with you. So many years being a devoted fan, I think of you as a family and wish you nothing but happiness and peace. Seeing you shinning as bright as ever after some time and so in love makes me so emotional. You DESERVED to be happy.

    • @skypefan100
      @skypefan100 День тому

      Grow up! It’s not even that deep

    • @yerrgurt549
      @yerrgurt549 День тому +2

      @@skypefan100you’re the one under Selenas comment section telling someone expression their love for the song to shut up. So I think you’re the one that should grow up

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +2

      weird wtf

    • @skypefan100
      @skypefan100 День тому

      @ so you saw that freak 2 right! And what are you even saying, expressing! And who did I say shut up 🤐 too, you need to grow a pair and start acting man..... or a women 😐

    • @littlecupcake24
      @littlecupcake24 День тому

      Same ❤

  • @pratyushs7339
    @pratyushs7339 12 годин тому +6

    Aahaa !this song has a absolute FINNEAS touch in it❤️.love them all.

  • @emipaschoal
    @emipaschoal День тому +47

    Thank you, Benny Blanco, for loving her. I'll forever be grateful. This album is such a masterpiece, and it wouldn't be this good if she didn't feel secure about herself.

  • @mithilya184
    @mithilya184 День тому +46

    the buildup at 2:25 got me floating omg chills

    • @Amylove1
      @Amylove1 15 годин тому

      Seriously, me too

  • @run9184
    @run9184 6 годин тому +3

    Benny、私の愛するSelenaと出会ってくれてありがとう。2人を愛してます💭💕💜🩷💜

  • @lenacenteno9686
    @lenacenteno9686 День тому +22

    This shows that no matter how hard someone understands and loves you, you will always question your selfworth behind closed doors. She looks at Benny in a content way trying to be happy for him Infront of him but she doesn’t feel that way when she’s alone. As a 30 year old woman this one hit me in the chest.

  • @lisacaruso4860
    @lisacaruso4860 День тому +111

    She has clearly met the right person! He is cathartic for her, this album is so emotionally charged. I’m in love with it!

  • @KalyEadlyn
    @KalyEadlyn День тому +227

    Not Benny going back to his car, parked in front of "Sunset" 🌇 ".
    He was just waiting for her ❤

    • @xYnpRq
      @xYnpRq День тому +11

      I didnt realize the first time, but it's trueee! What a scene, loved it!

    • @miguelangelbeleno6992
      @miguelangelbeleno6992 День тому +4

      I don't get it, what does sunset means in this context? or the car parked there?

    • @queenofwinter19
      @queenofwinter19 День тому

      @@miguelangelbeleno6992sunset blvd is the location of the restaurant selena and benny went on their first date.

    • @daisysunshine7852
      @daisysunshine7852 23 години тому

      ​@@miguelangelbeleno6992 Sunset Blvd, that's one of the songs on their new album

    • @psychedelicyeti6053
      @psychedelicyeti6053 11 годин тому

      Sunset boulevard?

  • @rhiclay4696
    @rhiclay4696 17 годин тому +3

    I've always admired Selena, even though I’ve never had her music on my playlist. However, her newer music resonates with me much more; it has a depth and complexity that I love. Additionally, her style has evolved, and she is absolutely slaying it with her recent looks! 🎼

  • @mikeel6172
    @mikeel6172 День тому +395

    Why am I crying 😭 please protect selena and benny ❤

    • @Geadaya-h1j
      @Geadaya-h1j День тому +1

      She is old, protecting from what? 😂

    • @Test_749
      @Test_749 День тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @rogue3143
      @rogue3143 День тому +1

      😬

    • @AlyshaKiehl
      @AlyshaKiehl День тому +2

      Aamiin

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +4

      your crying because you're weak..crying over a trash song is crazy

  • @IAMASELENATOR92
    @IAMASELENATOR92 День тому +226

    Selena and Benny’s harmony in the chorus 👌🏻

    • @CASADELSOULVIDMIXTV
      @CASADELSOULVIDMIXTV День тому +1

      Sublime

    • @abbied
      @abbied День тому

      Wait, Benny sings too? (I didn’t know that) 😮😮😮😮

  • @Gnarlie420
    @Gnarlie420 День тому +24

    "For thinking you were different, wish i never loved you" just stab me in the heart...

  • @Melissandrel
    @Melissandrel 12 годин тому +2

    The visual story here is so beautiful on top of the lyrics, you did great Selena, this is such a great piece of work. PS to the young people here, someone coming to get you your lunch is what true love is about, look for that, it's super precious and you might not recognize it right away but it's worth it.

  • @a_speck_in_the_universe
    @a_speck_in_the_universe День тому +79

    Something about this song is so melancholic yet soothing. Brought tears to the eyes. Thank you for this Selena & Benny.

  • @boom.malenkova
    @boom.malenkova День тому +30

    For me, this means that we often dwell on the past. When our future is so close. Choosing to stay in "comfort"

  • @PiaMia2000
    @PiaMia2000 День тому +27

    Man this nature era of selena is so beautiful! The video is soo soothing no unrealistic drama! She talks about real problems through her creativity! I have never seen her so happy for the past 10 yrs!

  • @Mis-Services-Inc
    @Mis-Services-Inc 10 годин тому +1

    Selena’s vulnerability in this track is everything. It’s raw, real, and deeply relatable for anyone who’s ever felt replaced or overlooked. Benny’s presence feels like quiet reassurance. What a powerful collaboration. 🔥💔

  • @zukibetancourt8488
    @zukibetancourt8488 День тому +121

    Is that the set of Wizards of Waverly Place? 😭 covered up and her leaving .. omgggg the symbolism it’s 💯 😭 Love this album

    • @robertags
      @robertags День тому +1

      Yesss

    • @xan5645
      @xan5645 7 годин тому

      Yes plus the younger girl wearing a crown is her I remember she wore a pink gown for her birthday

  • @didizne8735
    @didizne8735 День тому +46

    This is amazing, I've never seen a music video with this Hollywood Studios background theme. And Selena is the perfect person to represent this. I love that she did this.

    • @didizne8735
      @didizne8735 День тому +2

      I've always dreamed of this and Selena is "the star" for me. I love that she shows the conditions of this life. And it's pretty amazing because I'm going to LA tomorrow. The timeline is pretty crazy. And the melody carries me.

    • @didizne8735
      @didizne8735 День тому +1

      (I go LA but I from Paris) and I go alone

  • @sajanchitaura4001
    @sajanchitaura4001 2 дні тому +72

    The album is SOO GOOD. Hands down your best work. So proud of you Selena THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO FOR US!! 🥹❤️❤️

    • @opinionsandfaxc
      @opinionsandfaxc День тому +1

      its not that good lmaoo..all the same "oh poor me" "im a victim" 😂she needs to leave Justin Bieber, Abel tesfaye and Nicholas Jonas alone.

  • @BriNguyen
    @BriNguyen 4 години тому +1

    I feel this song isn’t about a person but her view on the industry and her trying to keep up with the new girls coming in and looking back on her own journey.

  • @btsarmy0787
    @btsarmy0787 День тому +27

    Why did my heart ache, like being here since Who Says, I love this girl with all my heart. Her fans see through all the narratives they say about her. This song made me think how even more time will pass and new girls will arrive with their fresh faces, and this is how Selena must feel a sadness of getting older, cause letting go of what once was if the hardest thing to do.

  • @NarruGrippMusic
    @NarruGrippMusic 2 дні тому +115

    been a selenator for over a decade now, i love you, i always have and always will!! it’s so good to see you found yourself shining again

  • @bm-bn4tq
    @bm-bn4tq День тому +31

    The atmosphere, the calm, it's just incredible and so peaceful to listen to it and feel it too.

  • @BeatriceBond
    @BeatriceBond 3 години тому

    The way she appears "trapped" on the lot is highly symbolic. She never changes her clothes or leaves the studios. She sleeps there. Benny pays her a visit, but despite her obvious feelings for him, she appears depressed and is unable to accompany him.
    She's stuck there. Forever.
    It's a clear reflection of how she feels mentally and emotionally after working in the industry since she was about eight years old. It is actually heartbreaking. I hope she can find happiness even now.

  • @carestillsainz
    @carestillsainz День тому +13

    This feels saying goodbye to her younger self. As someone who grew up with Selena, this mv is making me so emotional. It's been such a pleasure to grow up and have you as an inspiration, Sel. May this new chapter of your life treats you better. 🤍✨

  • @atusmusic9999
    @atusmusic9999 День тому +123

    Selena Gomez has never disappointed me.

  • @jhassvmusic2657
    @jhassvmusic2657 22 години тому +31

    They say the right one will help you heal, walk with you to remind you how beautiful you are and will love you through thick and thin.

  • @yunika7787
    @yunika7787 12 годин тому +5

    When she mention waiting outside the apartment....I started to cry....Just a couple of minutes ago the guy that I love was banging on the door and I wouldn't let him in. It hurts cause I know I love him but he doesn't love me. We are just friends until yesterday when he hurt my feelings. I always rushed to the door when he rang the bell

    • @young580
      @young580 11 годин тому

      Sorry about that how are you feeling now

  • @iamkamolof
    @iamkamolof День тому +58

    “Selena and Benny, you guys never miss! The song is pure magic-smooth vibes, catchy melody, and full of emotions. And knowing you’re a couple makes it even more special! Love this duo!❤❤❤❤

  • @kabirrajbanshi_
    @kabirrajbanshi_ День тому +226

    Selena has been through so much since she was young. Seeing her feel this way breaks my heart, but I’m so proud of how strong she is and how far she’s come. And Benny, we’ll always be thankful for you.

  • @shashucherie
    @shashucherie 2 дні тому +191

    I remember a year or two ago Selena posted a picture of herself when she was younger and it captioned "I've accepted that I'll never look like this again". I believe that picture inspired this song. I can already feel me getting chocked up about it but I spent about 9 years looking back at my younger pictures before I became a mother. Thinking... How on earth did I let myself go. I became unrecognizable. I simply didn't feel beautiful or attractive anymore. But then it took this year for me to realize that version on me is gone and it's time that I celebrate and embrace who I am now. I say this to say, celebrate all the different versions of you and love every version of them. Give yourself permission to grow and evolve. Be gentle with you. I know that this song healed a part of Selena and Benny they didn't know they needed. But I'm sure it will do just that with us. I'm sending so much love 💛 healing energy 🌬️🍃🙏🏽 and peace of mind to who ever is open to receiving it.

    • @ThEBiShBriannaAmissi
      @ThEBiShBriannaAmissi 2 дні тому +13

      This is comment is so beautiful, especially dealing with a new body after motherhood.. ❤

    • @saturnsinterlude
      @saturnsinterlude 2 дні тому +6

      i thought i was the only one who remembered!

    • @shashucherie
      @shashucherie День тому +5

      ​@@ThEBiShBriannaAmissi I'm sending you so much love 💛🌻✨ You are absolutely beautiful don't ever forget this!

    • @olliemarin1823
      @olliemarin1823 День тому

      😪💞

    • @annahearts
      @annahearts День тому +1

      Thank you for your beautiful message ❤️ It truly resonates with me! I have come to the same realisation and it opened a whole new wonderful, more accepting way of living my life. We can't be the same "perfect" versions of ourselves forever. We are allowed to evolve, to change shape, to take time out from the never ending race... Every version of us is beautiful and worthy of love.

  • @RunAwayFromBrown
    @RunAwayFromBrown 17 годин тому +3

    Never imagined this . Makes me cry. I see you girl.❤

  • @NicoleMoonyt
    @NicoleMoonyt День тому +26

    Sitting here at 30 listening to this song in tears. I get it. This video is beautiful, it captures the feeling of getting older while the rest of the world seems to stay young and is constantly changing. I know Sel and Benny have just been having the time of their lives with this album and I’m so so in love with this. 🥹🤍

  • @sayedyusuf9641
    @sayedyusuf9641 День тому +53

    ALL THE SONG IN THIS ALBUM ABSOLUTELY INSANE😭