I had post partum depression after my pregnancy Cause I kept thinking “what if my baby died”-Bam Bam

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  • @amaka3632
    @amaka3632 Рік тому +160

    Hmm this is my story 8 and half yrs ago with pre-eclampsia too ,very high blood pressure, blood in the urine, emergency delivery, epidural did not work 😢 cut me open life and direct,during this process seizures happen,enter coma,baby stop breathing, after waking up for some days I lost my voice because of over .
    screaming ,
    Hmm my story long abeg but we give Jehovah the Glory ,we're all alive today.
    All mothers are Heros🎉❤.

    • @Ohhvida
      @Ohhvida Рік тому

      Congratulations
      I’m proud of you

    • @NonyeEke-s5r
      @NonyeEke-s5r Рік тому +1

      You are a strong woman

    • @chinaza6143
      @chinaza6143 Рік тому

      Thank God for your life dear

    • @Peace-tx7fc
      @Peace-tx7fc 11 місяців тому

      😢 wow! Am glad it ended in praise ❤

    • @sophiaerih1391
      @sophiaerih1391 2 місяці тому

      Thank God for you

  • @debbyfadoju7976
    @debbyfadoju7976 11 місяців тому +53

    I love how she speaks, so pretty!

  • @gideonharuna6675
    @gideonharuna6675 Рік тому +115

    I don’t think many people understand what women go through during and after pregnancy. I’m happy that she’s happy and her babies are doing well. Credit to her husband as well. Kudos to all mothers.

  • @BeautyUncut1
    @BeautyUncut1 Рік тому +219

    I could listen to this woman speak a whole day.

  • @maryannodeh3387
    @maryannodeh3387 Рік тому +101

    Bambams voice can literally put anyone to sleep....I admire her a lot .she's so soft spoken .gosh I wish

  • @SolaAyoola-fu7ug
    @SolaAyoola-fu7ug 11 місяців тому +38

    Yoruba have a saying that translates into Thank God you came out of the danger of child birth .This is the reason why because child birth is not an easy experience.

  • @novemberchizurumoke9556
    @novemberchizurumoke9556 Рік тому +52

    I've experienced pre-eclampsia thrice. Birthed all three kids via emergency CS and two of them were premature (33 and 31 weeks). Also had to struggle with PPD. So I can totally relate to this story.
    If you've had it easy in pregnancy, don't think everyone's experience is the same as yours.

  • @goldenwealthpodcast
    @goldenwealthpodcast Місяць тому +18

    Guys this lady(Bambam Ola ) have 3 movies on omoni oboli tv , a case of the heart, love style and other things ,betting on love ❤you will love

    • @Lucirose_Daniel
      @Lucirose_Daniel 13 днів тому +1

      And now , seasoned with love now showing on omoni oboli tv as well.

  • @mummytriplets3115
    @mummytriplets3115 Рік тому +75

    Highly classified boss lady. We love you, Bambam

  • @OguNora-f9o
    @OguNora-f9o Рік тому +46

    I didn’t change much but my then husband treated me like shit I went through depression I can relate 😊I hv moved on and am happy

    • @Adaibeh44
      @Adaibeh44 16 днів тому

      You deserve the best. God bless you and give you peace always

  • @mummytwins6752
    @mummytwins6752 Рік тому +59

    Same thing happened to me wen I was pregnant with my twins, but God came through 🙏.

  • @Tari-ann
    @Tari-ann 2 місяці тому +28

    My precious gift is 8 months old now and I'm going through depression still. Holding on for better days!!it's not easy, God bless all mamas!!❤

    • @BeamsUrban
      @BeamsUrban 2 місяці тому +1

      Sending you hugs sis. Just hang in there❤ you will be fine

    • @chukwu93chelsea40
      @chukwu93chelsea40 Місяць тому +1

      I pray you heal soon sis. Please do you take your vitamins?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann Місяць тому

      @@chukwu93chelsea40 shamefully no, I took the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. I've honestly neglected myself, so busy with the baby. Are there any particular vitamin supplements you would recommend sis?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann Місяць тому

      @@chukwu93chelsea40 I continued taking the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. I've just been so busy with the baby, neglecting the 'caretaker' me.
      It feels like there isn't enough time in a day for me to fit myself in. Are there any particular vitamins you would recommend?

    • @Tari-ann
      @Tari-ann Місяць тому +1

      I took the supplements I was on while pregnant for some time after giving birth and that's it. Everything has just been about my little bundle so much so that I've honestly neglected myself. Are there any particular vitamins you would recommend?

  • @Onyii_Charles
    @Onyii_Charles 2 місяці тому +29

    Chei. The baby is a miracle. Pregnancy is no joke

    • @Osatotv
      @Osatotv 2 місяці тому

      Exactly

  • @oputapretty8771
    @oputapretty8771 Рік тому +32

    Your birth story made me teary and just brought memories when I was scheduled for an emergency surgery.
    Thank God for his mercies

    • @Osatotv
      @Osatotv 2 місяці тому

      Am telling you 😢

  • @Omah_jhay
    @Omah_jhay 2 місяці тому +11

    My sister went through the process but the baby didn't survive because of Lack of hospital equipments and facilities...Thank God for her life honestly

    • @BrendaD4041
      @BrendaD4041 18 днів тому +1

      Aww so sorry 😢❤thank God for your sister's life.

    • @Omah_jhay
      @Omah_jhay 18 днів тому +1

      @BrendaD4041 thank you

  • @jprettyawani6989
    @jprettyawani6989 19 днів тому +4

    I am ready to listen to Bambam over and over again, just love her

  • @NgoziAsonye
    @NgoziAsonye Рік тому +14

    First time watching Chude cos of Bam.This lady has grown over the years.love it.

  • @ibrahimashantewa2380
    @ibrahimashantewa2380 10 місяців тому +4

    Well spoken and beautiful, thank God for your husband and babies ❤

  • @FavourEbong
    @FavourEbong Рік тому +22

    I could literally just listen to this lady speak all dey, she knows really how to hold intellectual conversations.., I love you Bam Bam.., and to Chude, you're such an amazing personality in content creation, keep up the good work 👍

  • @ibifuroabiotonye4670
    @ibifuroabiotonye4670 Рік тому +15

    Jesus!!!
    Every woman’s pregnancy story is different.
    You know the entire process of pregnancy till safe delivery is the reason Pastors pass the mic to mothers during dedication because What we go through before ,during and after pregnancy is What Most Mouths can’t say out.
    Congratulations Bam Bam

  • @nuratjinadu3860
    @nuratjinadu3860 2 місяці тому +6

    Awwwwnnn my darling BAMBAM 😻
    The accent though 👌🏿👌🏿❤️🤧😍😍

  • @patriciakasenge9927
    @patriciakasenge9927 Рік тому +12

    Bam is just a beautiful person, God bless you and the family ❤

  • @enyojochristianahabu6621
    @enyojochristianahabu6621 11 місяців тому +38

    When you are pregnant that’s when you will see your partners true color

  • @promiseukpong9043
    @promiseukpong9043 Рік тому +16

    You are such a lovely personality. I enjoyed listening to you and could do so all day❤

  • @umadumawangempela6098
    @umadumawangempela6098 10 місяців тому +3

    Bamike you're still very beautiful in your body God is indeed good to you

  • @BukolaRY_TV
    @BukolaRY_TV Рік тому +17

    She's gorgeous and calm 👏👏👏👏

  • @KetchaBlandine-p8b
    @KetchaBlandine-p8b 4 дні тому

    Bambam’s eloquence my gosh
    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @meddyalaka6314
    @meddyalaka6314 2 місяці тому +7

    This is just my exact story. Preclampsia is just a whole sensitive case. Went for my last antenatal and got checked and diagnosed of preclampsia so they refused me going back home and asked my husband go pack our bag while I run down few other tests and get ready for emergency delivery(one week early than my due date)
    Lastly, I ended up with CS. I give it to oyibo people sha, so intelligent ! If not, I for kpai cus before then, I was always feeling light headed and numbness on my fingers for long time. Y’all take your ante-natal serious.

  • @abubakarabatcha882
    @abubakarabatcha882 2 місяці тому +2

    She speaks so well, I enjoyed every bit of her movies ! She has done well for herself

  • @PrincessOgbonna-nh1tz
    @PrincessOgbonna-nh1tz Рік тому +11

    I had to come here from Instagram just to hear this lady speak
    She's so beautiful 😍

  • @AjiAcq
    @AjiAcq 13 днів тому

    Whoever did the editing/color grading deserves a raise, the audio and video production is amazing …

  • @MiracleEbube-uo1ev
    @MiracleEbube-uo1ev 3 години тому

    The way she speaks ❤

  • @folusobankole5786
    @folusobankole5786 Рік тому +12

    This is my story a year and half ago. Thank God for hood doctor and good hospital. They literally inform me that i can't go back to the office. Was just summoned to emergency CS immediately.

  • @UpendoChisiza
    @UpendoChisiza 9 днів тому

    Been through somewhat a similar journey... In conclusion God is GOOD❤

  • @dominicdaisy1824
    @dominicdaisy1824 18 днів тому

    I can totally relate with the whole situation, post partum depression needs to be more emphasized.
    Thank God for always coming through for women.

  • @allenamegina
    @allenamegina Рік тому +2

    Gorgeous, strong and calm Bam Bam ❤😍. You are so beautiful in and out . God bless you and your family 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇. Well done Chude 👍.

  • @firioluwahart3298
    @firioluwahart3298 Рік тому +3

    Wow! Just an emotional birth story 😢 I literally teared up 😢

  • @princessizedike4865
    @princessizedike4865 Рік тому +14

    So classy with great diction! Go Bambam💃🤩🤩

  • @victoriaokoro3028
    @victoriaokoro3028 Рік тому +22

    I always tell people I add when I'm stress they always doubt me like it's food 😊 at least I'm not crazy hearing this from someone else😊

    • @obodonkem8092
      @obodonkem8092 Рік тому +2

      I know for a fact that I add weight wen am stressed and the weight is an unhealthy one

    • @rosemaryoffor
      @rosemaryoffor 11 місяців тому +1

      Me too but they kept on saying it was food 😢

    • @BrendaD4041
      @BrendaD4041 18 днів тому

      It's not crazy one friend of mine add when stressed too

  • @josephineaboyewa1158
    @josephineaboyewa1158 4 дні тому

    Emclampsia is high blood pressure. Placental previa is Placental detachment before baby birth from uterus wall.

  • @ayoolahalimat9944
    @ayoolahalimat9944 Рік тому +9

    We love you the way you are BamBam😊❤🎉

  • @olasunkanmi5200
    @olasunkanmi5200 Рік тому +5

    This was actual story of my baby too
    Thank God for a gud hospital and my doctor was the best🤗

  • @naa-imwinwononuah4126
    @naa-imwinwononuah4126 2 місяці тому +4

    After a year of birth, I still feel terrible. I feel like I’m a bad mother. I have people tell me I’m not a good mom and her grandma and auntie are better mothers than I can ever be. My Partner isn’t supportive towards me but a great dad to our baby. I can’t talk to anyone. I’ve gotten to the point where my brain sabotage myself. I don’t know if this is post P depression 😂. My body has gone through a significant change. If anyone is going through the same thing, I hope we grow past it. Motherhood should be a course to be studied.

    • @ItunnuAdebola
      @ItunnuAdebola 2 місяці тому +1

      You are a great person , don't let others opinions matter

    • @BrendaD4041
      @BrendaD4041 18 днів тому

      You are a great mama no one absolutely NO ONE has a right to tell you anything okay cheer up sis you will be fine❤

    • @BrendaD4041
      @BrendaD4041 18 днів тому

      ​@@ItunnuAdebola❤❤

    • @ItunnuAdebola
      @ItunnuAdebola 4 дні тому

      ❤❤❤❤😊❤😊❤❤😊😊❤❤❤, happy new year in advance​@@BrendaD4041

  • @Mamakheboiz
    @Mamakheboiz 2 місяці тому +2

    So happy to see this girl,I love her facial expressions,any reccommendations of dramas she is in?

    • @debbie__jimmy
      @debbie__jimmy Місяць тому +1

      Watch Case for the Heart - Omoni Oboli TV

    • @BrendaD4041
      @BrendaD4041 18 днів тому

      Seasoned with love latest hit of hers from Omoni Oboli ❤

  • @elizabethoyiza4272
    @elizabethoyiza4272 Місяць тому +1

    I can watch bambam all day

  • @jessicaoseafiana4821
    @jessicaoseafiana4821 14 днів тому

    Mothers are superheroes tbh
    I celebrate you bambam

  • @onuhhappiness6554
    @onuhhappiness6554 Рік тому +17

    You look amazing ma ❤

  • @eno-obonggodwin7057
    @eno-obonggodwin7057 5 днів тому

    Sorry baby girl 😔 thank God you are fine now

  • @agbikimiamen1875
    @agbikimiamen1875 Місяць тому +1

    I can totally relate.....was almost in thesame situation with my baby. Childbirth is a whole oda level honestly

  • @aminamusa7629
    @aminamusa7629 Рік тому +8

    Bam bam with class ❤❤

  • @shikaamenyedor8815
    @shikaamenyedor8815 2 місяці тому +1

    The shoe size is so real!!

  • @elasygondwe4999
    @elasygondwe4999 2 місяці тому +1

    Is the name BAMTEDY from Big Brother Naija still trending? bcoz whoooo I loved it 😊

  • @Ebere6365
    @Ebere6365 2 місяці тому +2

    Her movie is one of the best for me ❤

  • @esthylizuko1992
    @esthylizuko1992 2 місяці тому +1

    She’s a strong woman

  • @adakunnadimele5755
    @adakunnadimele5755 10 днів тому

    Only experience will make you understand cos i know, experienced it and came out stronger all glory to God for life

  • @BukwaraNgu
    @BukwaraNgu 2 місяці тому +1

    I have the same ..this is 2 years after the child birth but am still not over the post partum

  • @rosemaryolumekor
    @rosemaryolumekor 11 днів тому

    Bambam for a reason❤

  • @thatgirltiatee
    @thatgirltiatee 20 днів тому +1

    I had severe Preeclampsia in both my 2 pregnancies. It wasn't good. I lost my baby in the first pregnancy, though she was born alive. My second, it was all God, I call her my Miracle baby because, it was harrrrddd and I was so scared that I might loose her too.

  • @OluwatosinBammeke
    @OluwatosinBammeke 2 місяці тому +1

    I love how she speaks. But who’s she🥱

  • @MaryNSilasN
    @MaryNSilasN 2 місяці тому +2

    She is so beautiful

  • @NaomiIsingoma
    @NaomiIsingoma 2 місяці тому

    Bam ......soooo Graceful......I love her alot lot lot❤❤❤❤

  • @gloryuroh347
    @gloryuroh347 2 місяці тому

    Thank God for the quick intervention of the doctor, but I like the chubby BamBam she looks prettier than the slim Bambam

  • @Iam_OdinakaN
    @Iam_OdinakaN Рік тому +1

    My Bammy, such a fresh breath👌

  • @teesmedia1
    @teesmedia1 Рік тому +6

    BamBam looking all pretty❤

  • @cocktailofissues3317
    @cocktailofissues3317 6 днів тому

    I put on too when I’m stressed

  • @violetadih2164
    @violetadih2164 Рік тому +9

    Luv u Bam Bam❤❤

  • @joyhabila5214
    @joyhabila5214 2 місяці тому +1

    I just love her ❤

  • @huldahangbashim
    @huldahangbashim Рік тому +3

    Wow the devil came late I love to hear Bambam’s voice ❤

  • @Beeinpurpose
    @Beeinpurpose Рік тому +6

    Bambam you're prettyyyyyy!

  • @peacenwachukwu3234
    @peacenwachukwu3234 Рік тому +1

    We thank God for life...nice❤

  • @preciousjoe922
    @preciousjoe922 2 місяці тому

    I think have started liking you already.. How are you bam bam!? ❤❤

  • @missblessedbellablessed
    @missblessedbellablessed Рік тому +1

    I fear motherhood...I have a 6year old and I can't imagine another one😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @Dr_Chizzy_Spikey
      @Dr_Chizzy_Spikey Рік тому

      Do ivf and born all at once

    • @emmyknowsbeauty810
      @emmyknowsbeauty810 11 місяців тому +3

      There is nothing wrong with one dear lots of people have only one child. Love on your baby and yourself.

    • @paulinekerubo2800
      @paulinekerubo2800 2 місяці тому

      My second born is 5 I wanted three kids but am like wait a minute I don't think am ready for this.

  • @kathymbabazi780
    @kathymbabazi780 3 дні тому

    My exact story with my baby.pre eclampsia is terrible

  • @EstherEbube-ds8ix
    @EstherEbube-ds8ix 16 днів тому

    Thank you Lord🎉

  • @angelahsikute8590
    @angelahsikute8590 Рік тому

    Love you bam bam from Zambia.❤❤

  • @anitabisong2383
    @anitabisong2383 6 місяців тому

    Bam Bam is so lovely.

  • @ifeyinwaokolo1246
    @ifeyinwaokolo1246 Рік тому +12

    Thank God for every but, I would not credit the hospital. How was her urinalysis done after she left? Did they run out of strip? I've had three babies and urinalysis is done before you get to the doctor's office. So this sounds so wrong.

    • @petronellambuyu7025
      @petronellambuyu7025 Рік тому +6

      True. For our set up here in Zambia especially from the facility I work at, we do urinalysis even before the palpation. Like before going into any details with the antenatal visit, we check all vitals, then urinalysis, every month. Very important. Maybe they just didn't have strips otherwise, it surely sounds wrong especially if they had already noticed that her BP was very high, why even allow her drive? We thank GOD for grace otherwise this was wrong and anything could have happened. Thank GOD for grace I'll say it again!

    • @MagLifestyleTv
      @MagLifestyleTv 2 місяці тому

      True

  • @abdulcutekid8868
    @abdulcutekid8868 Рік тому

    She speaks nice🥰🥰

  • @dianebrown7054
    @dianebrown7054 6 днів тому

    I just love herrrr

  • @kolejoanu7648
    @kolejoanu7648 2 місяці тому

    Bam bam my new fav❤

  • @mariahugbashi8964
    @mariahugbashi8964 Рік тому +1

    Class!!! ❤

  • @Borlartar
    @Borlartar Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤Love you Bambam

  • @yehodaskitchen3401
    @yehodaskitchen3401 Місяць тому

    That was postpartum anxiety.
    Depression leads more towards baby rejection

  • @precioustv6124
    @precioustv6124 Рік тому

    I have always love you Bam
    So much love

  • @oluwakemiatanda2636
    @oluwakemiatanda2636 Рік тому

    I love you so much bambam❤

  • @cocktailofissues3317
    @cocktailofissues3317 6 днів тому

    Bam Bam 🥰

  • @Chef_maraa
    @Chef_maraa 11 місяців тому +11

    I thought i was the only one who puts on weight when I’m stressed 😩 it’s not just funny

    • @queenobioma78
      @queenobioma78 2 місяці тому

      Nope you're not alone

    • @maryannokojie7404
      @maryannokojie7404 2 місяці тому

      We are on the same WhatsApp group

    • @GiftUzoma-hj2ds
      @GiftUzoma-hj2ds 2 місяці тому

      I'm here too 😁
      I literally put on weight when i am stressed

    • @isiguzorichard641
      @isiguzorichard641 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@GiftUzoma-hj2dsI don't understand......do people really gain weight when stressed??🤔🤔🤔

    • @GiftUzoma-hj2ds
      @GiftUzoma-hj2ds 2 місяці тому

      @@isiguzorichard641 yes they do

  • @gugungcobo328
    @gugungcobo328 Рік тому +2

    Bam Bam I hope one day you had a sit down with #Shella. I still do not understand her motive for throwing stones at them knowing very well that she also lived in that bb glass house. She was super judgemental at #Shella forgetting that we still remembered that Teddy A was with someone the mother of his son to be specific, but had no problem going PG18 on continental TV. In a nutshel she broke a family. She judged people who connected from day 1 people who exercised restrain for 9 weeks. Yes they are married they have kids blah blah blah but still a family was broken and internet still have their PG18 tape

  • @amutuheirerahumat2019
    @amutuheirerahumat2019 15 днів тому

    I thought am the only one who gain weight when am stressed😥

  • @Olivia22431
    @Olivia22431 2 місяці тому +1

    God is wonderful. Wait.. did she say she puts on weight when she’s stressed? I love it😅

  • @larasanni5550
    @larasanni5550 9 місяців тому

    My bambam❤

  • @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses
    @Adebayobamidelealfredmoses 2 місяці тому

    Whao !
    Interesting !

  • @adejokeomotolani3703
    @adejokeomotolani3703 Рік тому

    Whr can I watch full video or this is the only clip 🥺

    • @WithChude
      @WithChude  Рік тому +1

      The full video is up on UA-cam or Please visit watch.withchude.com for the full interview and listen.withchude.com for the full podcast. You can also catch up with older episodes on both platforms.

  • @FosterAmponsahBoahene
    @FosterAmponsahBoahene 2 місяці тому

    My mon died sake of pregnancy 😢
    RIP

  • @sheis_aries
    @sheis_aries Рік тому

    She speaks so well

  • @purplechocho
    @purplechocho 2 місяці тому

    Thank God I wasn't this lucky cos of funds I lost my baby unfortunately 🥺🥺👆

    • @yomide_naturals
      @yomide_naturals 2 місяці тому +1

      So sorry about your loss 🥺 may God almighty give you double for your trouble.

  • @DestinyDivine-v1j
    @DestinyDivine-v1j 11 місяців тому

    I just recover from that weared thing called postpartum

  • @LuluPrecious
    @LuluPrecious 2 місяці тому

    My BamBam 😍

  • @lilianmartinaamakyi689
    @lilianmartinaamakyi689 2 місяці тому

    My bam bam

  • @blissbodynmind
    @blissbodynmind Рік тому +1

    I am the 11th to comment on your video. All the best.