WHY WE REGRET GETTING MARRIED YOUNG
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- 🐥GOOD MORNING GUYS 🐥 In todays episode we tackle some hard emails you guys have sent in! Should you let your husband go to the strip club? Should you leave him even if you have 2 kids? If you enjoyed this episode, leave a review and make sure you subscribe!
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Guys, I told my husband i wasnt going to move out my house until i was married. 🥰This guy literally proposed the following week! We got married and moved in 4 months after we got married! 7 years later aqui andamos expecting our first baby boy!❤
Great video, thanks for sharing. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, Really love him so much, i can’t stop thinking about him. I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him.
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@bartholetbay412 Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him/her?
@@nikascupcakebar her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer
@@bartholetbay412 Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.
Girl leave it in gods hands sometimes something that isn’t good for you leave’s because god has something better for you. I learn that from my own experience. Something better is out there for you let go and move on ❤his loss not yours. 😊
I can identify with Blanca so much on this one. This is why us mom’s NEED to make sure to instill self love and values into our daughters. Also, as mothers and fathers we need to teach our sons to read the Q’s and respect our feelings and desires. Sometimes we are too young, naive and are looking for the gratification we feel we don’t have in our own home and do things to gratify men even when we might not have been ready. I speak for myself I gave that up to a person that I did not marry, i didn’t have children with, i have nothing to do with anymore whom I thought at the time I wanted all of that with. Everything is so new exciting you sometimes feel like you will be with that person forever because it’s new to you and are feeling so much “love” but then you grow up and have that realization that you should of followed your gut, whether you end up with the person long term or not, that sentiment of not respecting and following your own inner feelings (even though your physical body might think otherwise) will forever be with you.
i think a lot of influencers ( not all but some) move in, get married and have babies really fast bc of their following. they start a relationship and share it on social media and all their followers say “omg yall are so cute! when are you getting married 😍 when are you having kids❤️” so the influencer feels pressured to do so to keep relevant
A huge piece of advice i have for you guys or more specifically Blanca is: if you married Jonathan its because you love him and the man he has BECOME. You need to let him parent/discipline Franco in which ever way he believes best (with exceptions of course) WITHOUT getting in the way / without stopping him no matter how much you disagree because this will be a downfall in your marriage. You need to trust that Jonathan wants to raise Franco to be an ever better man than he is.
if your partner is doing something you don't like them doing, you don't do it too lol. That's toxic. We are not in 5th grade. You have a serious conversation about boundaries or end the relationship.
its true getting married or even getting pregnant you are never ready till it happens.
I feel like our generation doesn’t put up with disrespect. Many of our parents who came from another country didn’t have the option to leave their marriage because they had no one nearby
True, but also they break up/divorce for everything instead of working things out!!! Unless it's cheating!!
Agreed! This goes hand in hand with society transitioning into a more egalitarian stance as well. Women are more validated in this point in life therefore women are able to do more without the approval of men.
I feel like y’all are honestly the most transparent couple! No one ever would be this open!
I love when you guys do therapy sessions !, que bonito que cuenten sus historias del pasado. Me da mucho gusto that you guys are still together till today ❣
thank you Paola, means a lot❤️
Me and my husband got married young too. Got pregnant @18 and basically had a shot gun marriage. But, 5 years later we are still madly in love ❤️
If your reading this you are amazing. Good things are going to bless you and your family. Never give up.
I love this ! I love how raw this podcast is , you guys went through a lot & it’s beautiful to see some part of what relationships really are like in reality.
I love Jonathan no filter, honesty 😂 Such a good podcast!
Poor blanca she was in a toxic relationship. But I'm glad Jonathan changed now and they are both happy.
I have never commented before, but I love you guys! I’m lmao over here with Jonathan’s answers 😂😂 I love the transparent and open and blunt relationship you guys have!! Have an awesome weekend!! Love to guys ❤❤
Damn I missed Johnathans Old haircut when you guys first started 😂😎🔥💯
Yesss it’s much more flattering
ayyyyeee you a real one 🙏🏼
@@spillthebeanspodcast1760 Saludos Desde La Finekera El 602 😎🙏🏼🔥 Hopefully you guys can give me a shoutout in the next video 🙏🏼❤️
I love how Jonathan recognizes that after giving a man 20 years of your life and cared for their children while they made a career for themselves deserve alimony. ! But I love how u guys are so young and yet already are so mature about having kids! Prioritizing your mental health and not only that but being able to give your best to your child n give them the best life! Instead of having so many kids at once and possibly causing some Type of trauma to them because it’s too much to have many kids at once n not being able to give enough attention to them!
Johnathan is giving me emo vibes lol I loved this episode and learning about your views. Happy Friday! It’s my spring break!
lmao!😭🤣
Siempre una buena platica con ustedes. I love how mature you guys are and the advice y’all give is real life advice! ❤
I loved this one 🤍🤍 marriage is huge!
Love you guys. I hope God continues to bless you always 🫶🏻
thank you so much girly ❤️
I always enjoy listening/watching you guys❤...
Btw This has nothing to do with the podcast but can someone tell me what happened to the cave podcast? 😕 I loved there videos also. 😔
Yayy! So happy you guys uploaded! Excited to see the UA-cam version since I heard the audio yesterday!!! Love you guys!
love the support 😭
Listening to this while getting ready for Disney!
aweh! have lots of fun!❤️
Loveddd this!!! Im 19 but i got educated on this episode and definitely gonna take notes!!! Love ya🫶🏻
When jonathon said if you see me in Tijuana, mind your business 😂😂😂
Jonathan I like your haircut, you were looking like oso there for a wile😂
haha!🤣
Jonathan looks good! Respectfully! He looks like hes lost a lot of weight, good job! & Blanca beautiful as always girly!
Love you guys!❤️ have a great weekend!
thank you! have a great weekend 🙏🏼💙
at 13:14 there's like a drop of something hanging off of Jonathan's beard and it keeps moving when he talks LOL
Me coming back to this podcast, not Jonathan saying that's why he isn't going to have a daughter lmao. Diosito te escucho 😂❤
YES! Talk about every potential (good/bad) scenario.
My now husband & I got married less than 3 after meeting. And many people looked down at us for it. BUT honestly we used to do these type of questions here and there after we FELT we wanted to get married. Best decision.
Of course, people grow and change. But if you start on mutual grounds, you are most likely to grow together and changer to become a better duo.
I loved this episode!!! Happy Friday see you next week!!! 👍🏼💖🫶🏽
U can start to see the weight loss on Jonathan
thank you! 🙏🏼💙
@Spill the Beans Podcast thanks to both of u for motivating me start my weight loss journey also !
Love the pod but im sorry jonathans take on “if ur partner does something u dont like u do it back” was not it lol, that gave me majoooorrr ick. that is so childish … we are not in middle school we are grown adults you communicate and establish boundaries first above all else cmon now!!!!! 😅
❤️happy Friday💕 when is Blanca going to share her skincare routine lol 😅
omg soon girl 🥹❤️
LMFAO not Jonathan saying she wants parents 10 feet away from him not inside the house 😂😂💀💀
Buenos dias!!! Happy friday guys!! Love yall! It makes my fridays when ever theres a podcast❤❤❤❤
aweh thank you so much ❤️
Ok Jonathan we see you! The weight lost is showing!!!!! Proud of you!
thank you! 🥳🙌🏼
Lmaooo she said you don’t know nothing boy 🤣🤣🤣
I love y’all Blanca, love hearing the podcasts and watching your vlogs! 🫶🏼🤎
thank you so much, we appreciate you🥹❤️
BBLs are out of style now. I feel like you would regret it later. You’re already super skinny and look great!
I wish these couple therapy podcasts were in Spanish 😭 they’re so good!! Pero mi novio no habla inglés ♥️
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩moment she admitted that she belives she married you too young.
If the intentions were to be married eventually why does age matter at this point?
Unless she belives more options have opened up and now kinda regrets being married.
Take youre losses jonathan, and move on.
😂😂😂 dang
It’s not even about being careful on what you post with your kids, those parents were just odd and fucked up for treating their kid like a toy. 🤦♀️ shit I would’ve had a panic attack if I was wrapped like that 😮
exactly 😨
I got married at 18 and my husband and I are still very in love 15 years later with 3 kids. But we had to go through alot... But still going strong.
To me preparing for the worst is not the best way to look at a marriage in that way. My believe in marriage has a strong believe in God before anything that will always be the best way to move through a marriage.
If y'all get your primary resources and information from Tik Tok.... red flag
why? there are doctors, therapist, etc with tiktok accounts now trying to spread their knowledge? you want me to get it from the newspaper still or what?🤣
@@scrap12103why? They have experienced marriage and having a child.
Good Friday having a blast 💥 with the podcast had some topics that were interesting love 💕 j&j keep it up🙌🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼💛💛💛💛💛💓💓💓💗💘💘🤎🤎💝💝💝💝💙💙💙💕💕💚💚💖💖❤️❤️🧡🧡🧡🧡❤️❤️❤️❤️💖💖💖💚💚💕💕💙💙💕💕💚💘💘🤎💝💛💛💓🤎💘🤎💕
Thank you 🙏 🫶🏼💓
Hahah that’s crazy you said not to tell the priest. You are right! I went to our priest before I got divorced for some advice, Mind you I told him I was getting beat, rape ect ect and he this man tells me to stay married and to forgive 🤦🏽♀️🤨 of course I didn’t listen to staying married but I did forgive but for me to move forward …..so ya Don’t take priest advice 🤣
Good morning ❤
Getting ready for work and watching y’all 😊
I look forward to fridays ❤
May God bless you guys saludos desde San Bernardino CA 🥰
saludos! love ya ❤️
Didn't Jonathan live in Blanca's parents house?
Yeah
Thank you so much for this podcast love you guys keep giving us advice ❤💖
Dang y’all were toxic that’s crazy haha pero Mira cómo son las cosas now y’all have a beautiful marriage and and Franco 💙
loving the podcasts!!
I love the honesty of your relationship in the past ! ❤️
Buenos días happy Friday.. Always looking forward for Friday for the Podcast.. Love hearing you guys.. ❤❤❤❤💫✨
Bruh the hair/ lint reflecting off Jonathan’s black shirt is 🥹
Great podcast sesh!!!❤
Marriage is work if you go into marriage without god in the center it will fail. When people put god first your marriage will last no marriage is perfect there’s ups and downs there’s no perfect marriage. Before I got with my husband we started as friends then moved in and we were together for 7 years before he proposed but in the beginning we let each other know what we wanted and didn’t want in a relationship now we’re married and we been together for 8 years I’m 32 and his 28. He was 19 and I was 23 when we met. When you get married you become one your suppose to let go of your parents and unite as 1
Love ❤ this podcast so many good questions and different point of views . 👍
Believe it or not my husband now (29) me (27) nos juntamos when i was 14 so i was already echando lonche at 14 doing Señora stuff and going to school, now we have 3 babies and we are thriving i thank god for my marriage so much! ♥️ i FORSURE got married TOO young but do not regret it one bit! ♥️
Jonathan I hope you see this but no you can tell the weight loss in your face so don’t be discouraged!!
thank you!🥹💙
I loved this podcast 🥺 one of the best
Jonathan’s toxic side is trying to come out and play 😮
Not at all
That’s not true , I all reality . It seems like Blanca is more toxic …
Specially, when she explained how she created this “persona” so that Jonathan can like her , her not admitting that was her issue , she keeps blaming in it on Jonathan. She said , you made me create this persona …
Idk I think Jonathan sounds like he’s done a lot of work in himself and has always been real .
Happy Friday! I hope you guys have an amazing weekend! ❤
Good morning!you too!❤️
First! ❤ finally lol and I got married young too! And been loving it ❤
❤️🥹❤️
Love the communication between the both.Blanca all girls are like that trust me most girls say noI don’t care but tbh we all love harder no matter what we say no te sientes asi por que not all girls will admit it but trust me we all are like that.
A good one would be about healthcare and vaccines.
Awww.. me and family have big cheeks and I have round face 😂always been insecure even though I was 20 pounds lighter( 3-4years ago)😂 I still look fat. My son has that same insecurity and he is fit more square face big cheeks. Looks good doesn’t like face pics😣we have to be happy with how we were created❤️ good looking couple btw ❤️ 🙏
love ya!❤️
Checkout the book 'Saving your Marriage Before it Starts'!
I didn’t know Blanca was vegan! That’s so cool!
Me tooo🤔 i was confused on that part but she’s probably trying it out before sharing it??🤷🏻♀️
I super loved this podcast, love you guys, omg when Blanca said they got married young not me casándome at 19🤭
Butt I really agree with you
These are SO good. Jonathan, I wish I could run long distance but I’m flat footed y me duele correr! I commend you. Love you guys🫶🏻✨
love ya! ❤️
& Jonathan i actually see a huge difference in your face with the weightloss !
You are such mature young couple 😊
@ 59:44 Blanca "aww really you put concealer on for me?" What we do for love 🥰
All facts!! Loved this podcast!
I love when people talk about running 🏃♂️
He sounds like my husband! Wants muscle but not be buff. His ultimate goal is when baby boy is old enough to start playing soccer that he can catch up, and they can run marathons together Im 19 he’s 21 and baby will be here june! Lol
aweh congrats!🥳❤️
Blanca!! I think we both went thru the same thing with our bfs in high school lmao they way yalls relationship was thats how ours was too! Here we are 9 yrs later about to just move in together 🥹 been dating since freshman yr!!
Like always loved it my favorites ❤
Only podcast I listen to religiously ❤
I have to disagree on some of the questions because for example before I had my baby I would say of yea I want 3 kids and I want them to grown this or that y way but now that I have 2 kids I'm like nope I was totally wrong
I don’t think 21 it’s too soon to be married, I think it all depends how both partners are. If there is love, respect, and both are working together to make the relationship work. You could be 20-45 and if you have those qualities your marriage would have a better chance
I was like... que se hizo Jonathan? 🤔
His hair, he straightened it.
🤣🤣🤣
Love this episode 👌
Did your immigration status also influence you guys from getting married early?
Okay guys don’t roast me😂but about the marriage thing. I’m 4 yrs in my relationship and have 2 babies already, but I still wanna get married and call him my husband cause I mean come on how lame is it to still introduce him as my bf😂 and even if I wanna be like Blanca showing the ring finger for every lil thing that he expects from me I don’t wanna be like hey aver pa cuando 💍😂
Ur feelings r valid and if that's Important to you it's important to you!! Period!!
happy friday💕
Did you guys live together before marriage?
Oh he meant it like that Blanca😂he said what he said he even said🤣💀 I wouldn’t want my parents or my mans parents living with us either it’s just to much I actually like Jonathan’s idea and just give them their own space 😁
Get that thing where they inject your jaw! I forgot what it's called find it on tiktok!
i was born and raised in Leadville i feel like no one knows about it unless you are into running 😂
Love this video ahaha
Definitely think twice before you post something on social media especially regarding your children. But since it was a military family involved CPS definitely got Involved super fast rather than if it was a civilian family you see all these actual cruel cases involving children that don’t even get justice.
Time for a new car alansito🤗
Love you guys 🫶🏼🥰
Jonathan please come back to timestamp 43:40 😂😬💀
Hi perfect way to start the morning while I get my little one ready for school ❤
aweh hope you guys have a great day today🫶🏻❤️
Thank you so much 😊 gracias a Dios
hope you guys have great day as well
My day had been made 100x better thanks to your positive vibes and caring for us
I agree with Jonathan %100 I don’t want my I laws living with us when they need care but a in laws quarters or caring for them in there house would be more ideal, it’s a lot of time and pretty much takes up most of your day. Not that I don’t love them I just want to be able to live still