"My Loveless Marriage" On Your World with Creflo

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  • @willsims2009
    @willsims2009 5 років тому +13

    She shouldn’t be in a relationship until the divorce is final!

  • @feleciagreen-x2j
    @feleciagreen-x2j 3 роки тому +4

    I really needed to see this, recently I came home from work and my husband had moved all his things out, come to find out he’s been seeing another woman for 4 months... I’m numb and hurt because he never came to me about any issues in our marriage💔💔

  • @mlakeidra
    @mlakeidra 5 років тому +5

    The divorcing process is going to really hurt. I pray God will restore and bring healing!!!!

  • @jerrybassey9357
    @jerrybassey9357 2 роки тому +2

    I'm in a loveless marriage...each day I feel lonely and don't know what to do. The connection isn't there. Please help me.

  • @virtuoussoulhealer3644
    @virtuoussoulhealer3644 5 років тому +4

    What are her scriptural reasoning for divorce

  • @godsknight2022
    @godsknight2022 4 роки тому +3

    Woah! I thought she married him without loving him... she decided to leave him, she is involved with another man yet she’s the offended one??
    I’m at a loss right now...

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 4 роки тому +1

    I’m listening to you Dr. Dollar, your words are very encouraging for me. I think she should really take heed, to your words. Thanks for this awesome video😊

    • @sidneyhill7064
      @sidneyhill7064 Рік тому

      He was probably telling you but you probably couldn't or didn't hear him

  • @fernadrobarnes5964
    @fernadrobarnes5964 2 роки тому +1

    How is this about what he has done? I missed something. It sounds like he was being a good husband but she didn’t want him.

  • @22addict40
    @22addict40 6 років тому +2

    I wish I could have a one on one with Dr Dollar, I have been watching him since he started his ministry! I am having emotions and feelings of sadness and sorrow I have never felt in my life, I have never cried until this...idk, I'm flooded with emotions!

    • @awofidipeayodeji6174
      @awofidipeayodeji6174 6 років тому +1

      Yes it's much better

    • @ms.fortune2957
      @ms.fortune2957 Рік тому +2

      I did not watch this but Just seek GOD for instructions, not man. GOD wants you to run to him not a man. GOD can and will heal and help you! GOD loves you and wants you to lean on HIM!

  • @22addict40
    @22addict40 6 років тому +10

    Before listening to this I will comment; I have been in a 19 year relationship with a woman I adore and love so much! She unfortunately had a stroke in August 2017 at work, she had another after they released her from our local hospital, she called her dad to come get her one state over to get medical treatment a a popular hospital that has excellent Drs and creditably, she refused treatment for a couple months but then finally did, all this time I have our 17 year old daughter raising her, I lost or sold just about everything we had to pay bills and just live, which was fine if she was getting good medical treatment, we talked on the phone(stroke affect her speech) that did not bother me, we texted, we FaceTime 'd, she Really didn't remember me or our daughter but was getting memory back daily, she told me she was about ready to come home just a few weeks ago and I agreed with her and her Drs, she wanted me to come get her, I agreed, little did I know almost everything she said was a lie, she had recovered pretty good but was living with another guy(a drug addict by his Facebook page) and he had 4 kids of his own, only 1 he could see cause she was a newborn and the mother was still doing paperwork to take away his visitations like the other mothers had already done because of his drug use, I am so heartbroken and sad and have Prayed to God what to do, so far I'm just keeping my daughter away from them per her own request not mine! She is heartbroken and in shock, her mother gave us up for drugs or the addict, we don't know for sure yet! I know God will guide us and comfort us but I'm divided on divorce or not, she hasn't mentioned it yet and neither have I, does anyone have any suggestions? Should I file and go on or wait and see if her brain fully recovers? She texted or called me every night to tell us she loved us and was getting better to come home and then showed up out of nowhere wanting to take our daughter, daughter was like I'm not leaving dad alone, you left us and have a ready made family, her words and she's legal to stay wherever she wants and she chose her home, they tried kidnapping her but I handed that! Guys, I'm in love but lost on this! I have cried myself silly trying and Praying for answers and God to guide me! Thank You and sorry so long....Jason R.

    • @moritimolapo4576
      @moritimolapo4576 6 років тому +5

      22Addict Attentively listen to the Holy Spirit or take the decision based on where your greatest peace comes from.

    • @awofidipeayodeji6174
      @awofidipeayodeji6174 6 років тому +2

      This is so serious
      I think on this matter you don't need man and you don't even need yourself. The only person you need now is GOD to put you through

    • @Tanyhdz
      @Tanyhdz 6 років тому +1

      God sees what your going through, depend on him entirely and surrender all your burdens to Jesus Christ. He has ALL the answers you need! Pray, when you pray, speak to God, and you will hear his voice, he lives inside you, you have the strength to get through this and have victory over the devil and his lies!!!! God bless you! Remember Jesus LOVES YOU & CARES FOR YOU!

    • @sericar6178
      @sericar6178 6 років тому +1

      Jason! I speak Peace into your circumstances. And I pray the Lord will Guide you. Jason Pray and ask Holy Spirit for his Guidance and wisdom. Trust me he will lead you. Just ask him for his counsel. I’m praying for you and your daughter ❤️

    • @ParrisM1992
      @ParrisM1992 5 років тому

      Wow

  • @michelebrehmer1364
    @michelebrehmer1364 2 роки тому

    My husband has recently told me he wants a divorce. I have not given him the love and respect he deserves and I don’t understand why cause I only want to be with him

  • @bettyboopityboop8555
    @bettyboopityboop8555 6 років тому +3

    This is how my husband feels about me he's very abusive verbally and mentally and everyone tells me to stick it out especially his side of the family I feel controlled.. We're in turmoil.been married for 7 years and 5 children..he controls all the money I have to ask for everything he talks to other women I believe he has cheated yet no proof but there are signs I'm seeking divorce but I'm too afraid because I don't work I'm a stay at home mom I have no money no car no family..i feel like a slave I do all the house work I care for the kids I cook and clean all days he comes home and goes to sleep or hangs out with friends til 9 in the morning and then goes to church on Sundays.. I'm sick of being sick and tired

    • @katheryneturner7314
      @katheryneturner7314 6 років тому +2

      Abusive marriage, one needs to seek God and remove themselves from the relationship until their deliverance and healing is done. Never stay in chaos and abusive. I pray for wisdom and peace to abound with you.

    • @onlythebrave4655
      @onlythebrave4655 5 років тому +1

      Leave

    • @nshanti4998
      @nshanti4998 5 років тому +1

      Praying earnestly is the only best way.ask God what to do.nd then join a local church where they will pray fr u.nd attend church regularly,participate in worship.read the word in this area.ps 91 read every morning.God will give u victory surely.read the word day nd night meditate.Joshua 1:8.

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 Рік тому

      Awe, poor Thang, why is it hard to find a job? Why do you not have any skills outside of being a parent and slve, basically? Why do women continue to put up with this type of treatment? Why should other women feel sorry for you? I hope you can muster up the courage to leave the abusive release and focus on yourself.

  • @Caprivlogs
    @Caprivlogs 5 років тому +1

    Just so you know guys, the guest.,melody is replying to your comments. Sometimes her response is kind, sometimes it's not. What I find interesting is that although she is replying she is not telling us whether or not she divorced him or not.

  • @chinneynz7861
    @chinneynz7861 4 роки тому +2

    Oh yeah, preacher - kids, we always struggle because we are always idealistic and our daddies forget to remind us that the "real world" is still real and our human needs are necessary.

  • @christthelord91
    @christthelord91 4 роки тому +1

    Counseling session, for all of us to see

  • @katheryneturner7314
    @katheryneturner7314 6 років тому +2

    How do one get in touch to be on the show. I was married with children in abusive marriage, where my ex listen to Creflo Dollar and used to tell me how evil I was. So when I left he changed to say how much he loved me but I was wrong for leaving and left for another man when that isn't true.

    • @SRoseBlog
      @SRoseBlog 5 років тому +2

      Seek christ sis not creflo dollar

    • @ms.fortune2957
      @ms.fortune2957 Рік тому +1

      @@SRoseBlog Amen. People are still lost and it's so sad.

  • @merlemitch46
    @merlemitch46 4 роки тому +2

    I'm in a loveless marriage

  • @princedarius7224
    @princedarius7224 5 років тому +6

    Okay the scripture is very plain, if a woman is divorced from her husband or separated she has to remain unmarried. what she's doing is dangerous and if she goes through with the divorce and seeks to be with another man she's going to die and go to hell for the sin of Adultery

    • @shelleygreyrealtor
      @shelleygreyrealtor 5 років тому +3

      This is the second dumbest thing I've heard this year.

    • @princedarius7224
      @princedarius7224 5 років тому +2

      @@shelleygreyrealtor God's Word is dumb? 10And unto the married I command, yetnot I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: 11But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

    • @princedarius7224
      @princedarius7224 5 років тому +1

      @@shelleygreyrealtor Yes i believe God STONED people. Jesus had mercy and DIDNT STONE but said go and sin no more.
      If there is no repentance from sin, "ye shall perish in your sins". Jesus said that.

    • @shelleygreyrealtor
      @shelleygreyrealtor 5 років тому +1

      @@princedarius7224 It is not up to you to kill people for their sins. If that's the case someone should kill you for yours. Although I think your concept of religion has been bastardized, no man should stone you for your sins and beliefs.

    • @princedarius7224
      @princedarius7224 5 років тому +1

      @@shelleygreyrealtor I respect you. Did you actually read my comment. I said God commanded people in the OT to be stoned. I said in the NT Jesus proveded grace and forgiveness.

  • @Stephan__o.x
    @Stephan__o.x 6 років тому +3

    Were there children involved?
    It is always tragic to see/hear of a divorce, it seemed like she named a few factors that led to the end. but the two that stood out to me was the whole ‘business partner’ -thing it’s always good to be on the same level but business partner thing already sounds like a chore. (Not to say it doesn’t work for everyone)
    And not having a ‘church home’ (5:23)sounds shocking too! Was the church you had married in not able to help?

    • @melodyedwards2416
      @melodyedwards2416 6 років тому

      Yes...we have a son. A factor that also weighed heavy.

  • @JesusAndLiliana
    @JesusAndLiliana 6 років тому +24

    Creflo is aging good

  • @contehal
    @contehal 3 роки тому

    sad that it’s only the non christians that so appreciate this counsel from Dr. Dollar and wish they could have had this advice. it’s the so-called Christians that are criticizing him

    • @ms.fortune2957
      @ms.fortune2957 Рік тому +1

      So GO pray and ask GOD why? smh GOD instruct him 20-plus years ago not to even have a talk show. Stay in the spirit. If you agree with the Pastor and not the scriptures you will "FALL" every time. My JESUS CHRIST...Smh

  • @reginasvoice9569
    @reginasvoice9569 Рік тому +1

    📢 IT'S REALLY SAD THAT THIS WOMAN IS SITTING HERE WHO IS AN ADULTERER WHO'S HAVING AN AFFAIR CREFLO DOLLAR IS NOT TALKING ABOUT THE SINS THAT SHE IS CONTINUING TO LIVE THE BIBLE SAYS FORNICATORS ADULTERERS HOMOSEXUALS WILL NOT ENTER INTO THE KINGDOM OF GOD. AND THESE PEOPLE CONTINUE TO CALL THEMSELVES CHRISTIAN. THE BIBLE SAYS LET NO MAN DECEIVE.

  • @willsims2009
    @willsims2009 5 років тому +8

    Move on and be single for a awhile work on yourself

  • @inthezonenews
    @inthezonenews 6 років тому +3

    How are you going to know you going to be compatible in the bedroom when you not supposed to have sex before you married

    • @moritimolapo4576
      @moritimolapo4576 6 років тому +4

      MzQueen G Based on the spiritual , mental and emotional connection you have with the person. If that is intact you know that the physical part will just be a cherry on top.

    • @LauralieMafolo
      @LauralieMafolo 6 років тому +4

      The Spirit of the God will lead. It's all about you yielding to the Holy Spirit and in your relationship with Him, he will amaze you.
      Great question, by the way!

    • @johnsondangles1033
      @johnsondangles1033 6 років тому +1

      River Moon Sex in our world has been sold via pornography as a physical, visual act. It’s supposed to be a spiritual connection. That’s why Christians are to wait until marriage to have sex. Marriage is a spiritual institution. God knows your every need and desire. Put your full trust into Him, try your very best to eliminate your sin, be redeemed in His love. He will provide you what you want and more importantly what you need.

    • @johnreed9050
      @johnreed9050 6 років тому

      It's a lie sold by Christian females to restrict sex even before marriage as a way of control.They are not just going to suddenly open their just because she's now married. They have conditioned their minds and bodies to say no to sex their whole lives and that doesn't change overnight. It's just like the bait and switch that secular females use with the only difference being that the secular females let you sample before you buy

    • @shelleygreyrealtor
      @shelleygreyrealtor 5 років тому +1

      That's the problem. My husband and I waited to have sex til after we were married. Come to find out he has an extremely low sex drive and E.D. I never even knew men could have a low sex drive. Now I feel stuck in a sexless marriage. If I ever remarry I will not be waiting til after we get married to have sex. It is an important part of a marriage. And there is no way to know if you are sexually compatible without having sex with them.

  • @troilenewithers2003
    @troilenewithers2003 6 років тому +2

    i like the look on her face when she said, "our marriage is over.." LOL She's beautiful and has nice personality ...
    good advice from pastor Dollar too: "there are people who can smell hurt women so they will test you out and play games.. no one has the right to devalue you."" # good episode

    • @melodyedwards2416
      @melodyedwards2416 6 років тому

      Thank you for the sweet compliment!! #LoveandPrayers

    • @sidneyhill7064
      @sidneyhill7064 Рік тому

      You right and course there are women who can smell hurt men and take advantage of him also, it go both ways and really hurt people hurt people

  • @stevebarclay3599
    @stevebarclay3599 4 роки тому +1

    So true you have to know who your marrying I'm listening to God ,God found eve Adam didn't God knows what you need

  • @tanyacampbell8076
    @tanyacampbell8076 6 років тому +5

    Love her....Keeping it REAL

  • @mlakeidra
    @mlakeidra 5 років тому +3

    This definitely doesn’t give any hope

    • @stevebarclay3599
      @stevebarclay3599 4 роки тому

      Any hope about what? if you marry outside God will it a up hill battle the bible have to be the foundation of both partner if the word is the foundation of one partner that partner have to pull the other partner up the hill if it truly love meaning, if they cheating you have to be faithful

  • @cahokia33
    @cahokia33 6 років тому +8

    Well if you saw A.B.C.
    then you are also A.B.C.
    IF YOU want the "full alphabet"
    Then you have to be it as well

  • @kennybranshaw7526
    @kennybranshaw7526 5 років тому +1

    it will come to a head.

  • @ms.fortune2957
    @ms.fortune2957 Рік тому +1

    Oh my good LORD GOD ALMIGHTY!! This is very disturbing to me Pastor Dollar because you said you were instructed by GOD to NOT have a "talk show" and you now have a "talk show"? Smh GOD SAID he did not call you to have a talk show. Smh So did GOD change his mind? But he said: I AM the Lord your GOD I CHANGE NOT...
    My LORD JESUS! I'm confused about this. So what makes these guests on your talk show more important than your active members who serve countless hours weekly in the ministry that they get to have one on one counsel sessions with you? (Respecter of person?) I have not even watched this yet. Smh Smh Smh Smh I am so happy I obeyed GOD! Smh This is extremely disappointing REPENT

  • @karenjantzi7662
    @karenjantzi7662 5 років тому +5

    She’s married. Married people do not date. How awful this preacher would even have a conversation with a woman who needs counsel about being saved and living in obedience to Christ. Typical.

    • @melodyedwards2416
      @melodyedwards2416 5 років тому +2

      So pastors can't have conversations with people you consider to be living a life of sin?? Is the only time a pastor can speak when they are in a scheduled counseling meeting or the pulpit? Can they still not give SOUND and SOLID advice without beating people over the head with scripture? Well, you let me know when you open your counseling business and I'll be your first client since your way is THE way.

    • @dbrooks255
      @dbrooks255 5 років тому +4

      I agree about her dating is not good but he can still talk to her about it although i was surprised he talked to her so easily about divorce, in addition, hes promoting this concept of being in love, people are attracted to others and can't keep their hands off each other and still divorce in the end its about putting in the work.

    • @sweet_southern_gal
      @sweet_southern_gal 5 років тому +1

      This lady clearly seems broken and hurt. I think he was trying to meet her where she is emotionally. She already feels bad, though she is attempting the brave front.

    • @nshanti4998
      @nshanti4998 5 років тому +2

      Dollar is a great man of God.he is such a dedicated preacher.the efforts he puts in,the way he talks so loudly with all his heart nd mind nd soul nd body is not an easy task.Great men like andrew wommack appreciate him nd value him.like Jesus he is showing unconditional love to all in his church nd who wish to join his church.so to councel melody, is what he did with a cheerful heart.Jesus councelled people almost all the days of his life on this earth.melody is still a child nd yes any one can make a mistake.there's no difference, all have sinned nd come short of the glory of GOD.bible says.praise God,that she got the help in the correct time.thro the pastor.GOD bless dollar.

  • @ms.fortune2957
    @ms.fortune2957 Рік тому +1

    WOW Come on Pastor Dollar. How is it you didn't correct this young woman? My My WOW according to the scriptures she can NOT marry again period unless her 1st is no longer alive. This is not the Pastor I once knew. This woman is so out of GODS order, dating another man while married and you don't correct that is NOT GOD! This was a therapy session NOT biblical principle counsel. She need to heal and stay married since she was the issue. This woman left thinking it's okay to divorce & marry again and that's going to lead her straight to hell. Smh WHEN did you start counseling someone married without BOTH spouses present?????? What does the WORD say? JESUS made it clear divorce is not GOD'S original order and just because GOD allows divorce does NOT mean we can RE-MARRY! WOW not once did you ask this woman did she pray and seek GOD before making her decision. NOW I understand why so many will be LEFT BEHIND. I need to seriously PRAY for you Pastor because this is a dangerous road you are on. Yes I'm going to pray. smh

  • @nechelewatts9127
    @nechelewatts9127 6 років тому +1

    Awesome Advise!

  • @princedarius7224
    @princedarius7224 5 років тому +7

    The Advice given will send her TO HELL. She is BOUND by the law of her husband untill death.

  • @drecreep
    @drecreep 4 роки тому

    I really respectfully disagree,this woman is totally at fault and Dr.Creflo is Def letting her believe she's not at fault. This is fluff.

  • @veronicaojan2219
    @veronicaojan2219 5 років тому +1

    damnn I thought marriage was a fairytale

  • @fernadrobarnes5964
    @fernadrobarnes5964 2 роки тому

    She had a good husband. That is not what she wanted. She wanted a Pookie and Ray Ray to stroke her down. This man was in love with her. She wasted his time and wants sympathy!

  • @videobrownsville
    @videobrownsville 6 років тому +3

    I dont get it, you dont love him, you see someone else, so what marriage? Get the legal divorce. You are already divorced.
    Woman can be very deceiving, she likes the pitty of being divorced.

  • @dianecooper-ur3zw
    @dianecooper-ur3zw Рік тому

    Creflo dollers 😊you are not telling her the truth about marriage ,she can't get married again her husband must be dead before get another husband .married is good with your own husband ok😂😢😮Del

  • @MNIGN56
    @MNIGN56 3 роки тому

    Brother Dollar you enable her with her sin. She was the one that didnt really love the guy and yall badgering him and taking pity on her. I love how you teach the Word but this here is a no no for you