This man deserves a king who treats him like he’s the world. Tony, you deserve yourself a stable, mature and wise individual who loves you thoroughly and provides you with energy instead of absorbing it from you.
Young man, your heart is lovely I am sure you will find love If a person doesn't know themselves by 50 or have maturity by 50....I don't think they ever will.
I love all my exes because I learned as long as I self care for myself first I can be pleasant & sensual with all. They all teach us something about ourselves!
Tony! You remind me of how I used to feel. Turned out I had a lot to learn about boundaries. I was pretty codependent. Do you know Lisa A. Romano? Her videos helped me so much. I hope they’ll help you too. Take care! 💙
I think you try and fix people so that way you don't have to focus on fixing yourself. It keeps you busy and makes you feel better about yourself but that feeling is temporary. This isn't a dig towards you as a person. I like you and you're videos. Hope it all gets better and you find your actual happiness.
Honey you dodged a bullet x but you know this already ☺️... no other ASMRtist is as raw, humble and open as you are - your just so so reassuring in your videos x I love how you connect with us
Sounds as if you had a lucky escape. You are an intelligent and sensitive person. When someone is a heavy drinker it's like dealing with five other people all at once. Which is far to many! Something beautiful will happen to you soon I'm sure. I love these personal videos. I wish you all the best and all your poopsies are here for you xxxxx
"end agreement" WTF?! I wish you all the happiness in the world. Sounds like you have a good eye for red flags though and definitely aware of what you want and don't want which is very mature and self aware!
I can say honestly, I have been in your exact spot. I'm sorry, I know how much that hurts. Its taken years with my spouse to fix the damage it did. Dont be scared to be alone, and give yourself the room to be happy with someone who is emotionally stable. Best wishes Tony!
Mom Channel well if you’ve listened to the video and the one a couple of weeks back her tells us ... I like him but he’s just a toxic as these other guys , they don’t make videos taking about him tho 🙄
Time for Tony to do Tony! You don't need that type of mess in your life. Your fans agree and we love you. Dry your tears and look for the best within. Let go what doesn't serve you. Delete and block!!
Sorry to hear this Tony. But you got this. His loss. People come into our lives to either stay, or teach us a lesson. We are also condemned to repeat our mistakes until we learn from them. Trust me I know all to well. Keep your head up.
It's important to first get to know a person for some time before you get into a relationship with them imo… and don't date addicts, not even functional ones. You will always be on second thought… if you're lucky. I wish you all the best.
You are SUCH a good man. My God. You have so much self-understanding which gives you great insights into other people. I also love how you take responsibility for your part in things and know what to take responsibility for. This is a great video.
People who treat others the way he treated you DO NOT love themselves. If you allowed it there is a part of you don’t doesn’t fully love yourself either. That’s not criticism, just an observation. I’m sorry Tony. I’ve been in your shoes....
Tony it is so scary that every time I watch one of your videos I have a very similar situation happening in my life. This video really helped me honestly 😌
You’ve been there in a way I’m sure he now appreciates in hindsight. When someone has internal stuff happening, they could just be keeping you around to feel nurtured and ‘not alone’ or to deflect their issues on. It 10/10 isn’t you, it’s actually them. With him being 50 and older, he is in a different life space and mindset given the way he hasn’t dealt with his own life. To you, this was intended to be pure and you put in fresh energy you merely wanted reciprocated. I wish you the better ❤️❤️
This man doesn't represent all Tauruses! Glad you're out of the situation Tony, gives you the opportunity to find someone who deserves and matches your energy :)
Damn... that sucks but, everything happens for a reason and loving your self is important. Also remember that You can’t force a person to be on the same frequency as you. Ever. Sometimes you gotta let them go. Stay strong❤️
I am so sorry you went through all this. Tony, you gotta have a strategy for dating. Some basic rules and principles you must follow. Treat dating like you are recruiting someone. Be mentally strong and willing to walk away whenever someone disrespects you, your time, or your boundaries. 1. Don't take their word for it. Look at the pattern. 2. You don't owe your loyalty to someone unless someone commits to you. 3. Your time is too precious. Don't waste it on just hope. 4. Don't just date one person unless you are in a committed relationship with them. Always keep your options open. Weed out people who don't match your requirements. 5. If they want you in their life they will make time for you.
I broke up with my ex about 2 years ago coz I always felt put down by him. Been single ever since and haven’t really wanted to date as there’s many things I need to heal from. Dating is not easy anyways. I feel like people start to show interest but can pull away and ghost out just as quickly. Happened to me after I fell for someone who I thought was the one. Not even an explanation. People don’t even have enough decency to give closure. Still hope to find the right one but there’s so much work I need to do on myself first. I hope you find someone that treats you right.
Tony we love you no matter what! You deserve someone who will treat you like a king 👑 Thank you for sharing and being so open with us. Keep doing you and someone worthy will come along ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍
Sounds like the guy had emotional or mental issues that he was going through. It probably has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his health mental , physical, emotional.
Here’s my thought about this: most people do not know that alcoholics will not change for anything, because of the brain fog and everything else, you can’t physically change anyone into who you want them to be. They have to do it themselves.
Tony I’m a Virgo just as you are, and I was always the giver just as you are. I got hurt in a lot of relationships because I always put myself last and did everything for my partners but they didn’t do the same for me. Today I’m with a younger Virgo & it’s weird to also receive but I couldn’t be happier! Never been with the same sign as me but we work so well and he treats me like a queen. Get you another Virgo honey!
Oh my gosh bb I am so so sorry 😩😥 I hope you find healing and tranquility within yourself, the grace you have during this shows the beautiful soul you truly are inside and out and I pray that after you heal and can trust someone with your heart again you find that in someone else as well, you deserve the peace you give given back to you and it's ok to take time to heal and love yourself, take all the time in the world you need to find that peace again!! On another note! When you said "this tea is piping hot just like the tea I'm about to spill" I can't help it I lost it 😭😘💜💚💜💚 Much love from Kentucky!!
I love being called weird. I love weird ppl...and I ❤️ you Tony. You da shit. You’re gone find your person I promise. I’m 41 and finally found mine 3 years ago. Nvr been happier and he loves the fuk out of me and soooo affectionate.
I am watching this and listening to learn to seek the red flags beforehand. I am sorry to hear this Tony. This individual was not meant for you and you deserve better. I understand the "boredom" you had during that time but I also know that it's toxic on yourself to "waste" time with another person. The time you could be spending on yourself and healing yourself. I had to go through the same cycle to get better. The most important part is to learn from your mistakes and do better next time and love yourself a little more.
It’s already 25 days into the new year, and these dummies are already out here treating quality people like crap??? Smh nice to see things haven’t changed🙄
I’m so sorry about this Tony, you’ll soon find someone who treats you right. Love and care for yourself, and thank you for helping me sleep tonight 😴❤️
I love you soooo much Tony. I’m going through a very similar & parallel scenario. I feel for you, my heart goes out to you. You deserve the world. I appreciate you. As a hypnotherapist as well, I so feel you when you said “I can’t be that for everyone in my life. People have to heal in their own life...” ❤️😭💋💯 REAL TALK
He may be borderline, or some other personality disorder or issue. That's why all of the confusion you experienced. Plus an addiction makes it way worst or toxic. I'm sorry, take care of your heart.
You're still hurt, just take some time to heal, and meditate. You feel some sort of way towards him still and that's ok, take some time to just do you. You're strong, you're smart, and amazing this is only a bump in the road.
I'm so sorry, Tony. I was hoping you could meet a decent person but I am still holding hope for you. In the meantime, keep loving yourself. Keep that glow.
You need to heal first before jumping from one man to the next. They know you are vulnerable, so why not pick on Tony. NO MORE! Start focusing on Tony......and you will meet a good guy! You believe anything they say ................sure.
Hi Tony, I am really sorry to hear about this but take this as a good thing. You need to love yourself more and you will find someone much better. Don't forget we attract what we feel. He sounds like someone who needs a lot of help and you cannot help him. He needs to help himself. Also, never let a man degrade you or anyone for that matter you deserve so much more. You are worthy of happiness and love.
Hes talking about genital herpes. I'm pretty sure there is still a risk even if you take medicine for it. There was a guy who had it who i went on a date with and he told me the first date. Which i appreciated but couldn't handle that.
Gosh Tony, that's awful. You really deserve someone that is considerate, appreciative, and caring. That guy was a taker and you were just giving and giving.
Have you thought of joining an LGBTQ meetup where you can meet and get to know others through different activities? The other option maybe go to a professional dating company where they can give you specific options of exactly what you are looking for.
This man deserves a king who treats him like he’s the world. Tony, you deserve yourself a stable, mature and wise individual who loves you thoroughly and provides you with energy instead of absorbing it from you.
Absolutely, or a queen cause I be 45 going on 25!
Hang in there. It happens. Plenty of fish in the sea, go out and out and cast your net.
TirarADeguello I look at you as the father of asmr
Young man, your heart is lovely I am sure you will find love
If a person doesn't know themselves by 50 or have maturity by 50....I don't think they ever will.
Hi Lynne you're very beautiful
Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Give yourself time to heal & when you least expect it, the right guy will come along. Thanks for sharing, Honey.
I love all my exes because I learned as long as I self care for myself first I can be pleasant & sensual with all. They all teach us something about ourselves!
Tony! You remind me of how I used to feel. Turned out I had a lot to learn about boundaries. I was pretty codependent. Do you know Lisa A. Romano? Her videos helped me so much. I hope they’ll help you too. Take care! 💙
🔥☕"...this tea is piping hot just like the tea I'm getting ready to spill..." love you, Tony!☕🔥
I watch u for over 3 years now and oh my god ur my favorite person on earth snd this hurts me sm. ur an angel pls remember that
I think you try and fix people so that way you don't have to focus on fixing yourself. It keeps you busy and makes you feel better about yourself but that feeling is temporary. This isn't a dig towards you as a person. I like you and you're videos. Hope it all gets better and you find your actual happiness.
I had an ex who did all those things. Glad that trash is gone. He’ll never be happy with anyone.
Honey you dodged a bullet x but you know this already ☺️... no other ASMRtist is as raw, humble and open as you are - your just so so reassuring in your videos x I love how you connect with us
People can be so cruel and you deserve SO much more!! I’m sending all my love and support❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤❣️💕💞💓💗💖💘💝🖤❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Damn. I'm really sorry this happened to you, Tony. I hope everything gets better for you.
Sounds as if you had a lucky escape. You are an intelligent and sensitive person. When someone is a heavy drinker it's like dealing with five other people all at once. Which is far to many! Something beautiful will happen to you soon I'm sure. I love these personal videos. I wish you all the best and all your poopsies are here for you xxxxx
"end agreement" WTF?! I wish you all the happiness in the world. Sounds like you have a good eye for red flags though and definitely aware of what you want and don't want which is very mature and self aware!
Mary Thurlow eh? A good eye for red flags? He dated him for 3 months
I can say honestly, I have been in your exact spot. I'm sorry, I know how much that hurts. Its taken years with my spouse to fix the damage it did. Dont be scared to be alone, and give yourself the room to be happy with someone who is emotionally stable. Best wishes Tony!
We need to find Tony a nice young man who will treat him right.
Macrochelys Red I’m afraid Tony needs to focus oh himself , well I’m not saying that he’s not been treated badly he also treats guys badly too
Or a nice older man lol
How do you know how he treats guys
Mom Channel well if you’ve listened to the video and the one a couple of weeks back her tells us ... I like him but he’s just a toxic as these other guys , they don’t make videos taking about him tho 🙄
@@COYBIG1967
He's treating them badly by talking about their toxic behavior? Okay Captain America.
Tony , you do deserve nothing but the BEST.
When you finally meet that person he’s treat you so special ♥️ we love you ♥️
sometimes we step on a landmine. Stepping off is toughest, good thing you are out of that situation...
Time for Tony to do Tony! You don't need that type of mess in your life. Your fans agree and we love you. Dry your tears and look for the best within. Let go what doesn't serve you. Delete and block!!
unrelated but the eyebrows are sickk like best i’ve seen them
Sorry to hear this Tony. But you got this. His loss. People come into our lives to either stay, or teach us a lesson. We are also condemned to repeat our mistakes until we learn from them. Trust me I know all to well. Keep your head up.
It's important to first get to know a person for some time before you get into a relationship with them imo… and don't date addicts, not even functional ones. You will always be on second thought… if you're lucky. I wish you all the best.
Dang, First Jeffree now Tony?? 2020 sucks so far 😔😔
Ikr
Vanessa Hudgens and her bf broken up too
Live your life like kris jenner my heart 😭😭😭
Then corona
And bushfires :(
You are SUCH a good man. My God. You have so much self-understanding which gives you great insights into other people. I also love how you take responsibility for your part in things and know what to take responsibility for. This is a great video.
Aw. I’m sorry Tony. I hope you feel better soon. You are a lovely person and all of your subscribers appreciate you so much! 💕
People who treat others the way he treated you DO NOT love themselves. If you allowed it there is a part of you don’t doesn’t fully love yourself either. That’s not criticism, just an observation. I’m sorry Tony. I’ve been in your shoes....
This worldview is so so toxic
Sadly, I can relate more than you could ever know. Luckily we moved away and on. Toxic AF.
I'm sorry you're going through that. I just broke up with my fiance because he was cheating. 7yr relationship gone...
Tony it is so scary that every time I watch one of your videos I have a very similar situation happening in my life. This video really helped me honestly 😌
The older the man, the harder it is for him to be willing to adjust to anyone else.
It’s so right
You’ve been there in a way I’m sure he now appreciates in hindsight. When someone has internal stuff happening, they could just be keeping you around to feel nurtured and ‘not alone’ or to deflect their issues on. It 10/10 isn’t you, it’s actually them. With him being 50 and older, he is in a different life space and mindset given the way he hasn’t dealt with his own life. To you, this was intended to be pure and you put in fresh energy you merely wanted reciprocated. I wish you the better ❤️❤️
Where do you find these gremlins!?
Hello poopsie, sorry to hear that you two broke up, you deserve happiness wherever you go. Plus have a good week as well. Lots of love: butterfly ✨🎈🎉🎊
I’m glad this one sided abusive relationship is over. Glad you’ve moved on.
This man doesn't represent all Tauruses! Glad you're out of the situation Tony, gives you the opportunity to find someone who deserves and matches your energy :)
Damn... that sucks but, everything happens for a reason and loving your self is important. Also remember that You can’t force a person to be on the same frequency as you. Ever. Sometimes you gotta let them go. Stay strong❤️
didnt even know he was in a relationship, sorry to hear about it tho tony
Please chat about low vibrational people and situations - how to identify them and how to react to them
I am so sorry you went through all this.
Tony, you gotta have a strategy for dating. Some basic rules and principles you must follow. Treat dating like you are recruiting someone. Be mentally strong and willing to walk away whenever someone disrespects you, your time, or your boundaries.
1. Don't take their word for it. Look at the pattern.
2. You don't owe your loyalty to someone unless someone commits to you.
3. Your time is too precious. Don't waste it on just hope.
4. Don't just date one person unless you are in a committed relationship with them. Always keep your options open. Weed out people who don't match your requirements.
5. If they want you in their life they will make time for you.
I broke up with my ex about 2 years ago coz I always felt put down by him. Been single ever since and haven’t really wanted to date as there’s many things I need to heal from. Dating is not easy anyways. I feel like people start to show interest but can pull away and ghost out just as quickly. Happened to me after I fell for someone who I thought was the one. Not even an explanation. People don’t even have enough decency to give closure. Still hope to find the right one but there’s so much work I need to do on myself first. I hope you find someone that treats you right.
I felt this 🥺
Tony we love you no matter what! You deserve someone who will treat you like a king 👑 Thank you for sharing and being so open with us. Keep doing you and someone worthy will come along ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍
Early but I’m sorry that happened to u and I hope your gonna feel better soon.
5 days ago dating tips 101 and now this.
Damn Tony, I wish I could be sitting there sippin' that tea with you! ☕ Thank you for sharing your story 💕
Sounds like the guy had emotional or mental issues that he was going through. It probably has nothing to do with you and everything to do with his health mental , physical, emotional.
This story was mesmerizing. You are always the giver. You need someone to take care of YOU
I guess my only question is, why spend so much time and resources on someone who you acknowledge didn't appreciate you?
It's more common than you think and it's complicated. It happens to the strongest of people.
Here’s my thought about this: most people do not know that alcoholics will not change for anything, because of the brain fog and everything else, you can’t physically change anyone into who you want them to be. They have to do it themselves.
Once again.. Perfect timing Tony! Thank you so much for everything. Take care sweet angel.
Tony I’m a Virgo just as you are, and I was always the giver just as you are. I got hurt in a lot of relationships because I always put myself last and did everything for my partners but they didn’t do the same for me. Today I’m with a younger Virgo & it’s weird to also receive but I couldn’t be happier! Never been with the same sign as me but we work so well and he treats me like a queen. Get you another Virgo honey!
Oh my gosh bb I am so so sorry 😩😥 I hope you find healing and tranquility within yourself, the grace you have during this shows the beautiful soul you truly are inside and out and I pray that after you heal and can trust someone with your heart again you find that in someone else as well, you deserve the peace you give given back to you and it's ok to take time to heal and love yourself, take all the time in the world you need to find that peace again!!
On another note! When you said "this tea is piping hot just like the tea I'm about to spill" I can't help it I lost it 😭😘💜💚💜💚 Much love from Kentucky!!
I love being called weird. I love weird ppl...and I ❤️ you Tony. You da shit. You’re gone find your person I promise. I’m 41 and finally found mine 3 years ago. Nvr been happier and he loves the fuk out of me and soooo affectionate.
I am watching this and listening to learn to seek the red flags beforehand.
I am sorry to hear this Tony. This individual was not meant for you and you deserve better. I understand the "boredom" you had during that time but I also know that it's toxic on yourself to "waste" time with another person. The time you could be spending on yourself and healing yourself. I had to go through the same cycle to get better. The most important part is to learn from your mistakes and do better next time and love yourself a little more.
It’s already 25 days into the new year, and these dummies are already out here treating quality people like crap??? Smh nice to see things haven’t changed🙄
I feel like I can watch all your relationship videos on repeat, lol. Soothing tea time.
I’m sorry to hear this I’m sure you will find strength somewhere in time
I’m so sorry about this Tony, you’ll soon find someone who treats you right. Love and care for yourself, and thank you for helping me sleep tonight 😴❤️
Don’t let your codependency keep you in these relationships. Drop them when you see the red flags/incompatibility!
Exactly!!!
I'm so sorry you're going through this. You go through strong, though! You're gonna go on. You dont need no one!
Been a while since a watched you but your still amazing as ever 😁
I love you soooo much Tony. I’m going through a very similar & parallel scenario. I feel for you, my heart goes out to you. You deserve the world. I appreciate you.
As a hypnotherapist as well, I so feel you when you said “I can’t be that for everyone in my life. People have to heal in their own life...” ❤️😭💋💯 REAL TALK
Hi Tony! We love you!!❤🦋
He may be borderline, or some other personality disorder or issue. That's why all of the confusion you experienced. Plus an addiction makes it way worst or toxic. I'm sorry, take care of your heart.
I’m here too early for the tea but I can’t watch till later 🥺 love you Tony!!!
Omg I love your hair like this! 👏🏻
2020 will be an amazing year for you. Dont look back... On to bigger and better things and people.
Oh Tony! I am so sorry! I wish I could give you a hug! Thinking of you and thanks for this! Love you 💜💜💜💜
You deserve so much more than what he offered you also an angel will find you and treat you offer you give you everything you deserve Tony ❤️
Life’s a journey Tony, exes are practice. Big hugs.
You're still hurt, just take some time to heal, and meditate. You feel some sort of way towards him still and that's ok, take some time to just do you. You're strong, you're smart, and amazing this is only a bump in the road.
I'm so sorry, Tony. I was hoping you could meet a decent person but I am still holding hope for you. In the meantime, keep loving yourself. Keep that glow.
It's always nice to listen to your voice! Hope you are doing well after all of that
This was so helpful even though we are on different journeys and are different demographics. Thank you for sharing.
That’s it I’m quiting 2020 take me back to 2018
I hope things get better better for you!you deserve so much better than him.
I hope all goes well. You don't know what might be waiting for you in the future. I wish you well.
I'm sorry you went through this I guess we all go through s***
If you’ve got a big heart, give that to yourself - love that 🥰
Thank you for sharing Tony.... lesson learned!
I didn't know they had rechargeable ones now! Thanks Tony!
You need to heal first before jumping from one man to the next. They know you are vulnerable, so why not pick on Tony. NO MORE! Start focusing on Tony......and you will meet a good guy! You believe anything they say ................sure.
I hope it gets better. Love you tony! ♥️
Aww Toni I hope you’re ok, I have so much love for you 😔♥️
Hold out for a healthy person who will compliment your own growth and strengths❤️ you’re awesome.
My phone is on 10% but I have to know the tea
You deserve so much more than this, Tony. I’ve been in similar situations, and my ❤️ goes out to you. xox
Hi Tony, I am really sorry to hear about this but take this as a good thing. You need to love yourself more and you will find someone much better. Don't forget we attract what we feel. He sounds like someone who needs a lot of help and you cannot help him. He needs to help himself. Also, never let a man degrade you or anyone for that matter you deserve so much more. You are worthy of happiness and love.
Tony Vaperoni
Hes talking about genital herpes. I'm pretty sure there is still a risk even if you take medicine for it. There was a guy who had it who i went on a date with and he told me the first date. Which i appreciated but couldn't handle that.
Jessica Martin or possibly talking about hiv. People who are on proper medication regimens with an undetected status can not transmit the virus. U=U
@@marshawall6603
Thank you for informing me. I had no idea.
me raised in Pennsylvania majority of my life; yeah... i don’t even know if i connect with it either tbh 😂
Love listening to you with a cup of tea
This was a lesson learned
Gosh Tony, that's awful. You really deserve someone that is considerate, appreciative, and caring. That guy was a taker and you were just giving and giving.
Tony you are such a sweetheart ❤️❤️ you deserve a wonderful man, and will get one one day! ❤️❤️❤️
This man just wants a free ticket lol
Was I the only one thinking the whole way through this video, ‘it was 3 months, if this bloke was so terrible, why date him for 3 months????’
Snooze88 I’m afraid Tony is as much to blame as the other guy . He needs to look into his own life I’m afraid
I mean he admitted he did it out of desperation
@@Amylisette74 fair point
Sounds like you need to find someone more on your leave Tony. You deserve it to yourself !
Have you thought of joining an LGBTQ meetup where you can meet and get to know others through different activities? The other option maybe go to a professional dating company where they can give you specific options of exactly what you are looking for.
I don’t even care about my shitty love life but I would do anything for tony to find someone that will treat him like the king he is!!!!!