"If you want to change your life, you need to focus on who you are, not what you want." This is such a profound reminder, Zoe! When you align your actions and mindset with a strong sense of 'self', the results naturally follow. My goal for 2025 would be to land a job in a field that I've been working hard to break into for some time now.
That sounds exciting, I’ll be keeping my fingers crossed for you! And thank you, it’s a reminder that I’ve needed for myself and hope it may resonate with others too😊
My goals are to read more books and watch more films! Thank you for your recommendation of "Der Steppenwolf", it was a masterpiece on the subject of the shadow self as well as how controlling and negative your shadow could be if let rampant. Seeing Harry eventually try and control it even towards the books final act had me excited to read the next page. Thank you truly!
I did enjoy the video. I don't have any new year's goals or resolutions. I believe if you really want to change something you can start anytime of the year. I was able to stop smoking weed a few months ago. Of course, we are all different and some things can be harder to change.
2 things. 1) You have such impeccable hand writing that I can’t read it. Thank you for pointing to your words. 2) This is the exact thing I need to do, but don’t want to do, but have to do, & know I should do to take my life where I’m avoiding. You uploaded this just in the nick of time. I’m going to go smoke & pace for a moment while I get over myself. It’s wild how simple it is to solve the challenge of developing self image(concept), yet it’s the very thing that I know I’ve neglected in developing myself to live the way in supposed to be. I appreciate you Ms.Winter, have the best year of your life.
Funny that you mentioned her writing. My first thought was that she wrote it in Elvish. The advice is great, but that makes it seem especially profound.
Thank you very much for every single thing that you had said in this video. I mean, I really need them and you video just came to me at the right time so, thank you. By the way, love your top. The purple colour suits you well, it makes you look prettier and brighter. :x
This self-concept loop is an almost exact match to John Boyd's OODA loop (observation - orientation - decision - action). Experiences = observation; beliefs = orientation; thoughts = decision; actions = action. So there's a whole body of theory in OODA about how to use this kind of loop to create change, and what the mechanics of it are. The OODA loop is designed to create change during a military conflict, or 'outer conflict.' Whereas I suppose this loop could help you create change in the presence of 'inner conflict.'
OODA is a best strategy to fit in 'Complex' inside the Cynefin framework which divided works into 4 category: Simple/Complicated/Complex/Chaotic. OODA's strategy is about the same as "Probe-Sense-Response" model towards a piece of Complex work. This is a good approach.
As per usual, this is an amazing video. I appreciate how well you put this together. It echoes great content from some of your other videos and brings it together in an important ultimate point. I am not ashamed to say parts of me have grown exponentially recently, and content like yours has not only directly helped, but also serves as an affirmation that my ideas of next steps might just be correct, especially if all that you say here is true. Also, I feel affirmed that I am making positive progress, as I can see the results of my efforts that I desired, and that you say are desirable. Keep up the great work and thank you!
Thank you, I really appreciate this☺️ I'm happy to hear it resonates and that you're seeing positive growth in yourself! I've always thought amelioration is the best kind of happiness✨
For me, I bypass concepts and go straight for the love - more specifically, unconditional love for myself, my inherent worth, my intrinsic value. I then ask myself: which signature vibration best represents who I am deep down inside? Is it peace, love, joy, bliss, grace, ease, or flow? For me, it's flow, and so I embody that, day after day after day 🙂
Another amazing video Zoe! You brilliantly articulate why our dreams reside within us and outline clear steps on how one gets there. Please keep sharing your ideas! With love & admiration, Alex (rocktraveller) 🤙
What if it's not thoughts that I am lazy or can't do it but that I'm doing it and outside factors like a car breaking down, being laid off, or getting injured keeps kicking me back. Or disappointing situations like discrimination or abuse are kicking me back? Can you do a video that explains how outside factors can play into this and how to also build a system to manage those outside factors.
Thoughts Actions Experiences Beliefs B E A T but upward. Make professional thoughts that create ACTIONS that lead to EXPERIENCES that prove to yourself that you hold the BELIEF that you are in your dream life. BEAT down your old beliefs. BEAT up your new beliefs. ❤🎉😅☯️📘
"If you want to change your life, you need to focus on who you are, not what you want."
This is such a profound reminder, Zoe! When you align your actions and mindset with a strong sense of 'self', the results naturally follow. My goal for 2025 would be to land a job in a field that I've been working hard to break into for some time now.
That sounds exciting, I’ll be keeping my fingers crossed for you! And thank you, it’s a reminder that I’ve needed for myself and hope it may resonate with others too😊
I hope you enjoy this video☺✨ What are some of your goals & resolutions for 2025?
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I will enjoy your new video~
My goals are to read more books and watch more films! Thank you for your recommendation of "Der Steppenwolf", it was a masterpiece on the subject of the shadow self as well as how controlling and negative your shadow could be if let rampant. Seeing Harry eventually try and control it even towards the books final act had me excited to read the next page. Thank you truly!
I did enjoy the video. I don't have any new year's goals or resolutions. I believe if you really want to change something you can start anytime of the year. I was able to stop smoking weed a few months ago. Of course, we are all different and some things can be harder to change.
I aim to quit smoking, eat healthier and get out of my comfort zone more often and intentionally. I have optimism for the first time in awhile
This is one of the best and most didactic videos I've ever seen on youtube! Thank you so much for posting it!
I hope your account continues to grow 💫
3:07 Just paused the video but girl. Your handwriting looks amazing.
This is interestingly quite clear of an explanation. Also your speaking is very calming. Nice work hope you'll keep progressing
2 things.
1) You have such impeccable hand writing that I can’t read it. Thank you for pointing to your words.
2) This is the exact thing I need to do, but don’t want to do, but have to do, & know I should do to take my life where I’m avoiding. You uploaded this just in the nick of time.
I’m going to go smoke & pace for a moment while I get over myself. It’s wild how simple it is to solve the challenge of developing self image(concept), yet it’s the very thing that I know I’ve neglected in developing myself to live the way in supposed to be.
I appreciate you Ms.Winter, have the best year of your life.
Funny that you mentioned her writing. My first thought was that she wrote it in Elvish. The advice is great, but that makes it seem especially profound.
You're very bright. Thanks for making this tutorial.
Thank you very much for every single thing that you had said in this video. I mean, I really need them and you video just came to me at the right time so, thank you. By the way, love your top. The purple colour suits you well, it makes you look prettier and brighter. :x
This self-concept loop is an almost exact match to John Boyd's OODA loop (observation - orientation - decision - action). Experiences = observation; beliefs = orientation; thoughts = decision; actions = action. So there's a whole body of theory in OODA about how to use this kind of loop to create change, and what the mechanics of it are. The OODA loop is designed to create change during a military conflict, or 'outer conflict.' Whereas I suppose this loop could help you create change in the presence of 'inner conflict.'
This sounds really interesting, thank you!! I’d love to check this out😊
OODA is a best strategy to fit in 'Complex' inside the Cynefin framework which divided works into 4 category: Simple/Complicated/Complex/Chaotic.
OODA's strategy is about the same as "Probe-Sense-Response" model towards a piece of Complex work. This is a good approach.
Known -> self -> be -> true
Watching your vids now along with healthygamergg I’ll be unstoppable
Everything you do is art.
This is such a wonderful compliment, thank you💗
As per usual, this is an amazing video. I appreciate how well you put this together. It echoes great content from some of your other videos and brings it together in an important ultimate point. I am not ashamed to say parts of me have grown exponentially recently, and content like yours has not only directly helped, but also serves as an affirmation that my ideas of next steps might just be correct, especially if all that you say here is true. Also, I feel affirmed that I am making positive progress, as I can see the results of my efforts that I desired, and that you say are desirable. Keep up the great work and thank you!
Thank you, I really appreciate this☺️ I'm happy to hear it resonates and that you're seeing positive growth in yourself! I've always thought amelioration is the best kind of happiness✨
For me, I bypass concepts and go straight for the love - more specifically, unconditional love for myself, my inherent worth, my intrinsic value. I then ask myself: which signature vibration best represents who I am deep down inside? Is it peace, love, joy, bliss, grace, ease, or flow? For me, it's flow, and so I embody that, day after day after day 🙂
Another amazing video Zoe! You brilliantly articulate why our dreams reside within us and outline clear steps on how one gets there.
Please keep sharing your ideas! With love & admiration, Alex (rocktraveller) 🤙
I'm happy to hear it resonates! Thank you so much for the kind words, Alex☺️✨ Take care!
This helped me a lot!! Thanks very much!!!
I’m happy to hear that, thank you😊✨
Great as always!
Thank you!😊
just found your channel and its great. Thank you
Welcome! And thank you so much😊✨
What if it's not thoughts that I am lazy or can't do it but that I'm doing it and outside factors like a car breaking down, being laid off, or getting injured keeps kicking me back. Or disappointing situations like discrimination or abuse are kicking me back? Can you do a video that explains how outside factors can play into this and how to also build a system to manage those outside factors.
Thoughts
Actions
Experiences
Beliefs
B E A T but upward.
Make professional thoughts that create
ACTIONS that lead to
EXPERIENCES that prove to yourself that you hold the
BELIEF that you are in your dream life. BEAT down your old beliefs. BEAT up your new beliefs. ❤🎉😅☯️📘
BEAT- I love that haha😄 You’ve written it out perfectly, thank you😊
Sweet
I’m Me ❤
Is shadow work and the integration of anima/animus part of the process of individuation?
I'm literally him fr 13:43
I can see this time the video quality is not as good as before, is my computer got problem? anyway good video to learn more.
I'm so sorry to hear that, I initially had some trouble with the video quality as it takes a bit to sort itself out-- is it any better for you now?
Have you looked into Objective Personality and getting typed?
Ohh this sounds really interesting- I’ve never heard of it before but love all things typology so I will definitely check it out!! Thank you😊
good shitt
Are you Albanian?