Don't Be A Good Woman, Siz; Be A Good Man; Red Flags, Drown The Butterflies.

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  • @estherndunge4696
    @estherndunge4696 Місяць тому +42

    This girl is excellent. Very few will understand her. 😂

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 Місяць тому +1

      I'm understanding her fully because she believe what I believe

    • @agneswainaina6361
      @agneswainaina6361 12 днів тому

      She is smart and bold😍

  • @esthernyambura6005
    @esthernyambura6005 Місяць тому +21

    A lot of wisdom for those who understand her

    • @okellonjaramba9412
      @okellonjaramba9412 Місяць тому +4

      We are exactly of the same school of thought. Colonialism rs manifested fullyi in Christianity. Okello Nyakwar Jaramba Nairobi Kenya

    • @tebogosenna3435
      @tebogosenna3435 Місяць тому +1

      Me too,I concur…& I am not even afraid to say this at church ..I am the bravest .

  • @tebogosenna3435
    @tebogosenna3435 Місяць тому +12

    She is opening the most avoided subjects..,she is saying the most uncomfortable bold truth and she has cared long enough about what people would say that she got her purpose..this woman is me …

  • @graceoketch5937
    @graceoketch5937 Місяць тому +12

    She really speaks pure truth that rubs in deeply but I still love her since LNN.

    • @kamaafaye1264
      @kamaafaye1264 Місяць тому +1

      You just made me look for the interview 😂😂

  • @George-z1g
    @George-z1g Місяць тому +1

    Great lesson learned, much appreciated your work and finding author Oyuga. I am an African woman born and raised in Kilimanjaro, resides in south London. I can resonate with this topic, this sort of dialogue and education is immensely important and supportive.

  • @jopurchase
    @jopurchase Місяць тому +5

    I loved this conversation. Felgonah is really a wonderful guest and I hope her intentions are well received.

  • @SirKevin.
    @SirKevin. Місяць тому +7

    haki these conversations bwana they are sooo good. please Jagero, dont stop the good work

  • @tems2410
    @tems2410 11 днів тому +1

    My kind of woman❤❤
    God bless you for your wisdom and boldness.l

  • @odindomonica4557
    @odindomonica4557 11 днів тому +1

    She had me at
    What do you bring to the table
    Good table manners❤

  • @Ochicho_Nyase
    @Ochicho_Nyase Місяць тому +3

    Felgonah is funny😆and dropping profound insights while at it. Her courage is something else, what!
    Bwana gals waendele kwenda shule, it's good.

  • @ichooseviolence2532
    @ichooseviolence2532 Місяць тому +4

    I've run to the comment section and I see women cheering. It means they are being told things that they like to hear

    • @njagiwanjiru4735
      @njagiwanjiru4735 Місяць тому

      Your name is clearly violence 😂

    • @MasikoGerald
      @MasikoGerald Місяць тому

      They love unrealistic conversations

    • @BaileyTots
      @BaileyTots Місяць тому

      You don't want peace,you really want to prove to us the real meaning of your name

  • @judyrono2456
    @judyrono2456 11 днів тому

    ❤ she’s speaking the truth!! Women and men keep it quiet.

  • @yvonneokeyo3285
    @yvonneokeyo3285 Місяць тому +1

    We cannot just be there in 2024.We must be bold.

  • @berylanyango1232
    @berylanyango1232 Місяць тому +1

    😂😂😂 I've loved Filgona ever since i met her on your podcast..and i feel she carries part of me.Be blessed beautiful woman ❤

  • @vmariita
    @vmariita Місяць тому +5

    good discussion

  • @gentygentie5092
    @gentygentie5092 Місяць тому +2

    New and amazing perspective to look at life. Amazing

  • @doctrine_ridge_Ke
    @doctrine_ridge_Ke Місяць тому +3

    6:49 he wants us to follow in his footsteps but doesn't want us to kill.

  • @EstherAkullu
    @EstherAkullu Місяць тому

    Thank for being bold and standing out. I love this conversation.

  • @eveo7085
    @eveo7085 Місяць тому +1

    This women, you've summarised everything tht is wrong with the society, the society was mostly designed to degrade and exploit and judge women harshly. Uzuri we woke up. Kudos gal.

  • @Irenewk
    @Irenewk 9 днів тому

    I love this conversation so much and resonate with all her points on a personal level! I would love to read her book💯

  • @sharonayere9010
    @sharonayere9010 Місяць тому +2

    She is so beautiful. Much love madam all the way from Uganda.

  • @lucynyawira7054
    @lucynyawira7054 3 дні тому

    Awesome

  • @elizabethanindo3683
    @elizabethanindo3683 Місяць тому +1

    Amazing talk and most of all amazing woman..very interlect.

  • @maureenmengich7587
    @maureenmengich7587 24 дні тому

    God bless you for speaking up Soo boldly on behalf of Soo many women . Cheers gal

  • @ruthratemo416
    @ruthratemo416 Місяць тому +3

    She sounds rude and dramatic and she might be but everything she is saying is pure truth and it's what women are experiencing today

  • @elizabethanindo3683
    @elizabethanindo3683 Місяць тому +1

    Omg! Jagero 😊😊😊😊 I love these discussion s! ..i love your controversial talks..the best and please don't stop

  • @mercymars786
    @mercymars786 13 днів тому

    Very smart woman..I’ve learnt a lot.

  • @sonofthenile-warria
    @sonofthenile-warria Місяць тому +6

    A good man is a good thing to be. Go for it Felgonah!

    • @okellonjaramba9412
      @okellonjaramba9412 Місяць тому +2

      Jagero bring this lady back for more insight. Okello Nyakwar Jaramba

  • @chaniawillow
    @chaniawillow Місяць тому

    I love this conversation. Very empowering. I will only clarify that African women are also small. We come in all sizes and that doesn't make petite African ladies less African. Yes typically the frame may be bigger but the key is to know and love ourselves as we are.

  • @wanjirus4809
    @wanjirus4809 17 днів тому

    I bring good table manners 😂😂😂. What a statement!!

  • @deekinja
    @deekinja Місяць тому

    i am looking forward to reading this book!

  • @susankagwii3027
    @susankagwii3027 Місяць тому

    You are an amazing woman. Well said and keep it up darling.

  • @harrietkamau6710
    @harrietkamau6710 Місяць тому +1

    Very intelligent lady in matters reality.
    Rethinking religion sounds interesting. I like the way you question on our traditional versus imported Christianity. I find myself wondering along same lines. God is everywhere and unless one worships idols or satan, communities should worship their God. There's a meeting point cos God is a spirit and reveals himself to every community. The beauty here is that there's no discrimination, no dividing lines, no saved and unsaved people. Just do the right things everywhere. I like that.

  • @RabeccaMutune-nw5vm
    @RabeccaMutune-nw5vm Місяць тому +2

    A conversation of special interest,must digest slowly

  • @yvonneokeyo3285
    @yvonneokeyo3285 Місяць тому +1

    True.Try feeding a man and he will always leave to be with another woman

  • @maryachieng1665
    @maryachieng1665 Місяць тому

    We love you Felgona ❤❤

  • @lynnelle-y2x
    @lynnelle-y2x 12 днів тому

    We need her and Dr Zippy and Jagero,..... it will be fire

  • @muthonisphyllis7935
    @muthonisphyllis7935 4 дні тому

    I see me in her. We have so much in common on views about marriage and relationships. Where can I buy that book?

  • @clairewere
    @clairewere Місяць тому

    Loooove her. So many gems

  • @naomikahuthu9656
    @naomikahuthu9656 19 днів тому

    This adorable soul, you are so bold and informed. You are saying things that just the way they are! I love you big time. How can i get the book?

  • @teclakagai754
    @teclakagai754 Місяць тому

    Pure truth ❤❤❤👏👏🙌🙌

  • @Esther_254
    @Esther_254 Місяць тому

    God is just what your description of vulnerable is Truth and I believe you be yourself all others are negative toxic society stereotypes which I refused from my day 1 even after 26years of marriage

  • @marymuthoni6815
    @marymuthoni6815 12 днів тому

    So so beautiful a conversation.
    Yes, christians and their 'God' can be very dramatic...
    God is universal, we were told in our primary, can't fit in the many boxes christians have created.
    Wow!
    Sure , women should be and men too - vulnerability
    I've no problem fighting, thanks
    Waiting to read that book

  • @tebogosenna3435
    @tebogosenna3435 Місяць тому +3

    I had an ex who told me in early days .that he doesn’t like my belly,I looked for something in him that he is conscious with,I hid him when he was least expecting ,he never came back from mine…aaaaah aaah I will protect myself.

    • @michaelkamasia63
      @michaelkamasia63 Місяць тому

      What is wrong with your belly?

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Місяць тому +2

      What if he was just sincere with you and told you the truth??

    • @jeanotemah
      @jeanotemah 2 дні тому

      @Tebogo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @loicechesang9373
    @loicechesang9373 Місяць тому +2

    Only men are offended in this comment section, you must be very right, enjoyed this empowering conversation and you speak so beautifully. ❤

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Місяць тому +2

      No man is offended, men can just see and smell b's from a distance

  • @agnesmwangi3227
    @agnesmwangi3227 Місяць тому

    I have really enjoyed this conversation 💯

  • @edinnahkyarikunda1524
    @edinnahkyarikunda1524 Місяць тому

    ❤ unfortunately most people can't understand you but you are so right🎉

  • @harrietkamau6710
    @harrietkamau6710 Місяць тому

    The whole truth. Do not kill yourself because you can't control his behaviour. Poor woman dying to please a person who can never be tamed.

  • @gloriachelangatmmari-advoc1133
    @gloriachelangatmmari-advoc1133 17 днів тому +2

    Weuh interesting discussion. I almost stopped listening after the intro when she said she doesn’t believe in the Christian God. I hope you get to truly understand who God is. Happy Holidays!

  • @mwambimwandoe6510
    @mwambimwandoe6510 Місяць тому +2

    Interesting guest, a nice person to have a conversation with, I must say her level of awareness is very energizing.. however there's a lot of double speak one cannot decide to be traditional only when it is convenient for them and all those nice things that you're talking about we cannot have them just by desiring them, they have to be created somehow... Since you have a woke mind as a reflection point "remember we do not get what we wish for but we attract what we are"

  • @concordsecurity8444
    @concordsecurity8444 8 днів тому

    The lady is intelligent

  • @lydia7770
    @lydia7770 Місяць тому

    Great discussions..

  • @lennywilliams9675
    @lennywilliams9675 Місяць тому +2

    My sista, they say that good mem come in last in the race of life. Hmmmmm

  • @ElizabethSimbowo
    @ElizabethSimbowo Місяць тому

    👏👏👏👏👏👏facts

  • @maryowino9403
    @maryowino9403 23 дні тому

    You are right. Women hurt each other start from some mother in law ,sisters in law... the list can be endless your boyfriends aunties.....

  • @theresianthambi2663
    @theresianthambi2663 Місяць тому +2

    Few will understand this lady men will call her all sorts of names

  • @geraldineochieng3840
    @geraldineochieng3840 Місяць тому

    well done Felly. T'was about time someone interviewed you, crazy mama! 🤣

  • @NewBeginnings2.0
    @NewBeginnings2.0 Місяць тому

    Shouter!!! Louder for the people at the back!!

  • @tiberiusmaiko743
    @tiberiusmaiko743 Місяць тому +1

    Most women nowadays think they're different she thinks shes unique and shes a unicorn in what she believes but from her talking you can tell 😅😅

  • @giselleiman6212
    @giselleiman6212 Місяць тому

    How can we follow her i love her wisdom, she's awake and aware

  • @maryowino9403
    @maryowino9403 23 дні тому

    True when a man lacks money his ego is damaged and the first victim is usually the woman he so" loved". So the money factor affects men negatively in relationship n it doesn't matter how supportive his wo.an will be or is
    The fact is, expect the emotional Sahara desert almost instantly!!!

  • @MohammedAli-yu7zr
    @MohammedAli-yu7zr 10 днів тому

    wow just wow Felly.. #BoldWman

  • @Alchemist944
    @Alchemist944 Місяць тому

    "Good table manners"..😂😂😂😂

  • @The_Conquest
    @The_Conquest Місяць тому +2

    So Filgona want a traditional man who does everything but doesn't want to be a traditional woman. Interesting..

  • @emnthesh
    @emnthesh Місяць тому

    I love her 😅

  • @njorogedaisy1564
    @njorogedaisy1564 Місяць тому

    She's speaking the Naked truth

  • @tebogosenna3435
    @tebogosenna3435 Місяць тому

    And yes a teacher and mentor ,we want people whom God has been busy teaching them things,so that they teach me those things,his experience is not the same as mine,he has something to teach me even though I may sound clued up.

  • @MutukuVaati-lm3wf
    @MutukuVaati-lm3wf Місяць тому +2

    1.01.28😂 Jagero

  • @Alchemist944
    @Alchemist944 Місяць тому

    45:52....👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @MutukuVaati-lm3wf
    @MutukuVaati-lm3wf Місяць тому +1

    so what happens to poor men?This one is insinuating poor men are inherently lazy but in CAPITALISM it is not

    • @Mike_Ogana
      @Mike_Ogana 23 дні тому +1

      Men are found in the extremeties of life. Among the richest are more men, among the poorest are more men. Among the vagabonds are more men and among the most philanthropic are more men.

  • @Alchemist944
    @Alchemist944 Місяць тому

    Then I am a good man😂😂😂😂

  • @Cyrus-og1dj
    @Cyrus-og1dj Місяць тому

    You don't want to be a good woman but do you want a good man 😅😅 that's the question

  • @augustekangwe6364
    @augustekangwe6364 Місяць тому

    Boxing women, we are not the same please

  • @julietnalubega5599
    @julietnalubega5599 18 днів тому

    I loved listening to her

  • @nginakatono7546
    @nginakatono7546 29 днів тому +1

    Combine huyu na zippy
    Ni hivyo tu😉

  • @rosegallus4048
    @rosegallus4048 Місяць тому +2

    I feel like the host asks from a judgemental point of view and not understanding.

  • @koolqwackerz6968
    @koolqwackerz6968 Місяць тому +1

    Jagero I ordered your book a month ago, my credit card was charged and the book hasn't been delivered. I am in the UK. Should I still expect it?

    • @george1528
      @george1528 Місяць тому

      Would be better if you got his email or phone number

  • @tiberiusmaiko743
    @tiberiusmaiko743 Місяць тому

    I knew she doesn't know what she's saying when she said missionaries introduced God to us 100yrs ago when they came she doesnt know the God existed before that and even in Africa because even Egypt is in Africa and its written in the Bible...

  • @moureentrizer3993
    @moureentrizer3993 Місяць тому +2

    Immediately a woman tries to move around not being a"traditional woman" she contradicts herself and in the end she ends up loosing purpose. People may have different opinions and diagree with so much but at the end men and women can never be equal and we both depend on each other

    • @maryowino9403
      @maryowino9403 23 дні тому +1

      Really? Women evolved while men stayed the same with equated old expectations. That's where the trouble is..the modern-day woman has to face the old traditional man in a younger coat!

  • @emmanuelondiek3714
    @emmanuelondiek3714 Місяць тому

    Chuny mamani ok ler kataa matin she repeats we are not in a compe like thrice there is something she is hiding , jagero ask her next time now that the woman is empowered where should she take the money .. the canon said we are adding alot of pressure on ourselfs thats why marriage are not working

  • @wueehke
    @wueehke Місяць тому +4

    One of the most confused women on this show

  • @tebogosenna3435
    @tebogosenna3435 Місяць тому +1

    Crazy unfortunate fellow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tiberiusmaiko743
    @tiberiusmaiko743 Місяць тому

    She lacks some logic information about men to have these deep conversations about men

  • @SirKevin.
    @SirKevin. Місяць тому +1

    women dont know what they want and if they know what they want then its all about them (egocentric) and selfish. there is nothing like feminism bro

    • @TalkingMoneyWithNozi
      @TalkingMoneyWithNozi Місяць тому +6

      We know what we want. Heal.

    • @Muthonie
      @Muthonie Місяць тому +2

      Thanks for speaking for a whole gender. We feel well represented

  • @kandikirui938
    @kandikirui938 Місяць тому

    I stopped watching when you talked negative about God

    • @salomekirimi852
      @salomekirimi852 4 дні тому

      Hahaha he didn't speak bad. He acknowledged God. God who existed before white man brought Christianity

  • @jobaterah1454
    @jobaterah1454 Місяць тому +2

    Nishakupea view kama nimeenda.... can't listen to the crap vile ameanza.....

    • @daisyolondo1574
      @daisyolondo1574 Місяць тому

      Huyu ni the one Jobu ama?😂😂😂😂