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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • Abba and Mkhanyakude answer questions that have been sent by viewers. They discuss a multitude of issues and and provide insights and wisdom. This is their Unpopular Opinion which goes against conventional wisdom.
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  • @BeaconOfLight_1997
    @BeaconOfLight_1997 6 місяців тому +15

    Whenever I see these two in one room, I fix my ears and open my mind real quick ❤

    • @thatochabeli4303
      @thatochabeli4303 6 місяців тому +1

      Listening to these two is like eating fish, make sure you don't swallow the bones

  • @palesamokoena1283
    @palesamokoena1283 6 місяців тому +12

    Very insightful episode, there's so much we're getting wrong because of egotrips, power trips and misinformation fed to us by these western patriarchal ideologies designed to further divide bakwantu. We are unlearning to re learn and re-member ourselves. Sankofa 🙏🏿 we give thanks for the sharing of light

  • @sibusisonhlapo-nn2dh
    @sibusisonhlapo-nn2dh Місяць тому

    i can,t get enough of this channel and i hate they dont release anymore

  • @sophe.nelly777
    @sophe.nelly777 4 місяці тому

    Oh I love when they get scientific 😍

  • @thoughtist101
    @thoughtist101 6 місяців тому +4

    I love the topics there already... I can't wait.

  • @Khanyisilelehoka
    @Khanyisilelehoka 6 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much for tackling the topic of neuro developmental disorders Baholo. Food for thought 🙏🏾.

  • @kaykaysaint8891
    @kaykaysaint8891 6 місяців тому +2

    Bless to my two favorite Brothers. Another stimulating segment, really interesting. A conversation that is well needed in our culture. A student of Theology and Psychology, I so understand your comments. Keep doing what you do, brilliant minds all the time. As a female, hint hint I do understand but never understand the mental concepts of a lot of females. They don't understand their positions as females and they want to control every thing expect their position. Keep the segments. Need to be in your tribe ❤❤❤🎉

  • @lehlohonolomogadime6161
    @lehlohonolomogadime6161 6 місяців тому +2

    This gentleman were spitting fire! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @ntombebhongongqandu6090
    @ntombebhongongqandu6090 6 місяців тому +2

    Yhoo you guys just touched on my thoughts. I was just thinking about these mental institutions and how we don't need them.

  • @zintlemboki2606
    @zintlemboki2606 6 місяців тому +2

    "Who are we to decide what a person does with their feelings of insignificance"
    Wow

  • @zaneleradebe
    @zaneleradebe Місяць тому

    Love the last bit of the conversation/Q&A. Awasiyeke th8na lama feminist! 😂

  • @SiphokuhleMzalamba
    @SiphokuhleMzalamba 5 місяців тому +2

    Can you please touch on the rainbow gang in an African perspective and what a boy child's roles is in terms of expanding his father's name. And aslo the role of a girl child. Thank you.

  • @99cham1
    @99cham1 5 місяців тому

    Abba that last part almost made me cry. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @GlenNkuna-eu6xk
    @GlenNkuna-eu6xk 6 місяців тому

    Super super session....very insightful 👏 👌 👍 🙌

  • @zazampongoma7677
    @zazampongoma7677 6 місяців тому

    What a good start of my research. Thanks for giving us an opportunity to learn

  • @RM-fw6mj
    @RM-fw6mj 6 місяців тому

    Saubona. The traditional homestead design was sophisticated and practical with a number of differentiated units within the homestead. The woman of the house, had her own hut/room separate from the man as was the practice. As for flats, townhouses, townships, with limited or no yard to even accommodate 2 cows, 2 goats and chickens, at the very least...kunzima

  • @ramosediisaacmohari1469
    @ramosediisaacmohari1469 6 місяців тому +1

    Can't wait

  • @nomalungelomthimunye9579
    @nomalungelomthimunye9579 6 місяців тому +1

    I can't wait!

  • @nattymahlangu4966
    @nattymahlangu4966 6 місяців тому

    I love this topic

  • @BeaconOfLight_1997
    @BeaconOfLight_1997 6 місяців тому +5

    This conversation needed a woman to be involved🤞🏽 a devil's advocate

  • @BeaconOfLight_1997
    @BeaconOfLight_1997 6 місяців тому +5

    When it comes to the part whereby they believe that people receive idlozi lamathonga only from their father's side, in MY OPINION, I beg to differ there

    • @thandekamlangeni5341
      @thandekamlangeni5341 6 місяців тому +1

      I agree with you

    • @Cypher-bo3pb
      @Cypher-bo3pb 2 місяці тому

      Can you explain how do you receive from your mother side if you not of your mother but your father?

    • @BeaconOfLight_1997
      @BeaconOfLight_1997 2 місяці тому

      @@Cypher-bo3pb how am I not of my mother? Can you care to explain that? Coz the last time I checked, without the egg there's no baby, without the uterus/womb, there's nothing, let's not even get to the cellular and genetic level coz men eventually lose... I'm a hardcore egalitarian who happens to be a qualified scientists in this matrix, so I truly don't buy this patriarchy BS the systems sells us

  • @user-Nkunzi_fitness
    @user-Nkunzi_fitness 6 місяців тому +1

    Can you please explain a proper African funeral, what to avoid and what should be done and also people's role in that situation uncles and so on..... Maybe you might have explained this in previous episode I have missed can you please touch on this, Give thanks ✨

    • @RM-fw6mj
      @RM-fw6mj 6 місяців тому +1

      @user-Nkunzi_fitness. Check the first conversation btw Abba n Thau Thau. They touched on death n funeral customs, although it would be great if that topic was revisited.

  • @OTGCAP
    @OTGCAP 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for this episode bafethu..

  • @Inini289
    @Inini289 6 місяців тому

    tjo! hand writings!! mine is so bad at times i cant read it i always joke that "one needs to be able to read hieroglyphs to understand what i write" or "i have Egyptian blood" i actually have a mini panic attack when im handed a pen and paper. i love to learn but ddnt like attending classes nor writing notes yet id remember what was being taught and i made it through school and college exams, with high grades, by recalling what was said in the lesson. my teacher would tell me "the faintest pen is better than the sharpest memory" yet my memory has a thing that i can recall, relive what has passed to the point that i will re-feel the emotions

  • @SiphokuhleMzalamba
    @SiphokuhleMzalamba 5 місяців тому

    Nilungisa ilizwe madoda

  • @bonganongena6111
    @bonganongena6111 5 місяців тому

    I can relate xym there's something about that I don't forget anything I still remember things In grade 2 I don't forget and when I'm in class I understand in first 10 minutes and get bored the whole class and I hate tests and exams

  • @leimelabusi1456
    @leimelabusi1456 6 місяців тому +1

    THANKS SO MUCH GUYS AN TAKE CARE

  • @HermanMaseko
    @HermanMaseko 6 місяців тому +1

    Shayingwe Mbona,,,

  • @gugupearlxaba259
    @gugupearlxaba259 6 місяців тому

    Hello. Siyabonga for this beautiful and informative show!
    Mina my question is about vaccines . My 1 year old son got admitted to hospital because he had a “ temperature “ and we stayed there for a couple days. What I observed was a lot of sick kids ☹️izingane ezincane ziyagula, zi phathwa izifuba, they have these persistent coughs. These kids get admitted to hospitals every other 3 months- and their parents have made it seem normal. The most common thing about all these kids ukuth they are vaccinated. Koda they are getting sick. Mina , my question is, are these vaccinations good for our kids? Would you please please please touch base on vaccinations ! Ngiyakucela. Ngyabonga 🙏🏽

  • @theoneness1944
    @theoneness1944 6 місяців тому

    Great interview

  • @thulanimkhwanazi1976
    @thulanimkhwanazi1976 6 місяців тому +1

    Tell them Abba

  • @nanakgiba26
    @nanakgiba26 6 місяців тому

    "They want to isolate and abuse us" 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lebohangputini8869
    @lebohangputini8869 6 місяців тому

    Umlobola kanjani untokazi kade ebhejwa nge grocer in her varsity years. Kudingeka leliwisa aliphethe umhlonishwa uMkhanyakude, sibaphohloze ngalo labafana amakhanda sibaphe ukukhanya.

  • @ankimoore
    @ankimoore 5 місяців тому

    Me at work 😭😭😂😭

  • @lolomjoks9586
    @lolomjoks9586 6 місяців тому +4

    I was hoping that one of the questions would be around homosexuality and African culture. Is homosexuality a natural phenomena or a mental disorder? Also curious to me is the sexual perversion with some sangomas.. please unpack that at some point

    • @RM-fw6mj
      @RM-fw6mj 6 місяців тому

      @lolomjoks9586 I view homosexuality as a hormone imbalance re estrogen vs testosterone levels; but then others seem to choose that lifestyle...??

    • @bophelolepita
      @bophelolepita 6 місяців тому

      Mental disorder? Haybo! 😂😂😂

  • @kuhlengam
    @kuhlengam 6 місяців тому +3

    what is the epistemology for the word lobola

  • @user-cf7gj7qp9m
    @user-cf7gj7qp9m 6 місяців тому +1

    So called Egyptian calendar jwang? Why build that Adam's calendar? Confusion

  • @mncubemngomezulu7528
    @mncubemngomezulu7528 6 місяців тому +2

    But why taking so many questions from one person. She must do research and read.

  • @bonganidlamini5309
    @bonganidlamini5309 6 місяців тому +2

    Hi Abba, I hope you good.
    Can you please explain in a very simplest way what is idlozi cause your explanation confused me in one of your podcasts.

  • @BeaconOfLight_1997
    @BeaconOfLight_1997 6 місяців тому +2

    Why is it the lady that has to go live away from home? Why isnt it the man?
    I believe two people, should both leave their families and start their own thing, both away from their families, nobody sacrificing their identity, this part of "africanism" confuses me and I'll never understand it no matter how hold it could be

    • @raseverything6372
      @raseverything6372 6 місяців тому +3

      In his poem Abba Ayalew Amlak said We are slaves to unseen worlds of westernisation, so I understand your misunderstanding because we must free ourselves from this slavery, first things first

    • @BeaconOfLight_1997
      @BeaconOfLight_1997 6 місяців тому

      @@raseverything6372 patiently waiting for that person/being that will make me understand/convince me

    • @Jah-Fitti
      @Jah-Fitti 6 місяців тому

      Blessed love brothers. May your light shine brighter and brighter to illuminate the path of seekers on their way.

  • @imangenikani1126
    @imangenikani1126 6 місяців тому

    Molweni . Ndinombuzo , ukuba wenzwelwa ibeleko kunyanzekile yenzelwe komama? Ndibuza ngoba ndikhe ndive ngento yoba ubuhlanti kulo mama uyakwazi ubolekwa uthethwe nezinyanya kwenzele kuzokwenza ibeleko kodwa uyenzelwa for abantu bakulo tata? Ndiyavakala?

  • @Thandolwethu-ds3ch
    @Thandolwethu-ds3ch 6 місяців тому

    Lerato ke mang Abba😂😂

  • @jamesyencey3438
    @jamesyencey3438 6 місяців тому +1

    Unique🖤🤎💜💙

  • @lindelanimqambeli7605
    @lindelanimqambeli7605 6 місяців тому

    Ndicela uke ufumane ababantu babekade bengabefundisi eUNIVERSAL CHURCH, bazibuza nge UNIVERSAL CHURCH EX PASTOR. Kunenyani efuhlwayo .

  • @moniquemoeti5614
    @moniquemoeti5614 6 місяців тому +2

    The episode needed a woman. 😢

  • @Truly_Unbreakable
    @Truly_Unbreakable 6 місяців тому

    19 minutes. He admits that he is not okay in the head... but I'm not going to say that I told y'all.

  • @BeaconOfLight_1997
    @BeaconOfLight_1997 6 місяців тому +2

    And that was her initial question, which you ignored, "why does society favour men?"... "why are women forced to lose their identity but not the men?" If Siban'esibright rules are followung us wherever we go, what about the women's clan's rules?
    Let's be practical and eliminate misogyny and double standards here, as it's been said, during lobola both families should contribute, and during child making, both parties are involved, even during kukhuliswa komtana, both parties are involved, then why are women's voices and power of life/background oppressed?