This got intense. Guys think because she has a certain look and shape she doesn’t have standards

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  • This got intense at one point. She said a lot of guys think because she has a certain look and a certain shape that she doesn’t have boundaries or standards. They are wrong.

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  • @MarvelousJP
    @MarvelousJP Рік тому +1252

    Shoutout to this woman for winning her battle with breast cancer

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Рік тому +28

      @Rhdbdjehrvsbsjw Oh My God. That is so deep. She is now her own cancer.

    • @achannel.4619
      @achannel.4619 Рік тому +21

      Instead of beating it she joined it 😂

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 Рік тому +1

      💯💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @ericedwards2853
      @ericedwards2853 Рік тому +6

      Give praise to God I am your PC survivor brother

    • @Chocolate54Queen
      @Chocolate54Queen Рік тому +3

      🙏🏾

  • @WAYMONDsSHAME
    @WAYMONDsSHAME Рік тому +525

    Maybe he didn’t pick you up, because he wanted you to feel safe. Most women in their right mind don’t want a strange man to know where they live.

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 Рік тому +20

      or maybe she just sounded entitled and arrogant

    • @itsmampeeandmama
      @itsmampeeandmama Рік тому +21

      That was my thought! I prefer to drive so I am in control of feeling safe otw there and I can be in control of when I would like to leave if things are sketch😊 She seems to be fighting with something within herself. I kno breast cancer changing a person DRAMATICALLY and she may not be ready cause she is still very rough and defensive when Kendra is just having a regular conversation. I applaud Kendra for putting her journalistic integrity and skills to use and not get hostile or angry. Kendra has a very active spirit ❤ Idk where she gets it but it’s very active, caring, loving and patient and compassionate. It also has a Taurus side so don’t thread to hard😂 We ❤ u Kendra! The best!

    • @rdinperry100
      @rdinperry100 Рік тому +32

      If he wanted her to feel safe he wouldn't ask her to go out at 10:30 PM at night. Come on now. Dates can start in the afternoon up to early evening.

    • @saharaloveland
      @saharaloveland Рік тому +2

      @@rdinperry100 true

    • @rosierossjames9287
      @rosierossjames9287 Рік тому +5

      Right and drive their own car so they can be free to leave without depending on the date.

  • @desdior1207
    @desdior1207 Рік тому +474

    I think it’s crazy that someone with a suppressed immune system is up for causal sex with no strings attached…it’s too much going on out here for that

  • @KP-hi1om
    @KP-hi1om Рік тому +201

    Watching this podcast makes me appreciate my wife more and more everyday. She is my high school sweetheart and we have been married 31 years. Thank you baby for holding it down since the 80's.

    • @glenesehern23
      @glenesehern23 9 місяців тому +7

      So sweet ❤❤❤

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 8 місяців тому +3

      Y’all are a rarity💯👍🏻

    • @Dollsfromlondon
      @Dollsfromlondon 6 місяців тому +4

      This is beautiful💕💕Im so glad im married to the love of my life. I am so thankful I don’t have to date in this generation.

    • @Thomaticus
      @Thomaticus 4 місяці тому

      Hold on to her!!!!!

    • @hplifestylelessonsandfun9131
      @hplifestylelessonsandfun9131 3 місяці тому +1

      God bless you’ll.🙏🏽

  • @ms.helpmeet4753
    @ms.helpmeet4753 7 місяців тому +33

    Why she's single: this whole conversation.

  • @jdolo4670
    @jdolo4670 Рік тому +272

    “Pussy talk is not about Pussy” 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀 I can’t stand women

  • @TheBeautiful0620
    @TheBeautiful0620 Рік тому +491

    She got on my damn nerves

    • @invadingminds
      @invadingminds Рік тому +20

      🤣🤣

    • @TheRaynebeau
      @TheRaynebeau Рік тому +19

      😂😂😂

    • @kingtchala6832
      @kingtchala6832 Рік тому +55

      Now imagine tryna be her man lol

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Рік тому +21

      Mine too, and I try to work with everybody.
      Ladies(Men too) if you're like this, fix it!!!

    • @iwashere5956
      @iwashere5956 Рік тому +1

      But she aint care about you "picme" Peaches

  • @chocol8dread1
    @chocol8dread1 Рік тому +239

    Breast cancer survivor since 2013 🙌🏾and still going strong 🙏🏾

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 Рік тому +4

      🖤🖤🖤

    • @gdn7
      @gdn7 Рік тому

      Don't care. Keep that to yourself.

    • @lwalker2849
      @lwalker2849 Рік тому +1

      💓💓💓💓

    • @ASH_ketchum_99
      @ASH_ketchum_99 Рік тому +3

      💝

    • @yettiluch1
      @yettiluch1 Рік тому

      ​@@gdn7that's 3 times you said that dumb shit. You starting to look like a weirdo my guy.

  • @ChrissyChris10188
    @ChrissyChris10188 Рік тому +107

    Dude dodged a bullet. She’s very combative and masculine. No man wants that

    • @Geekizchic
      @Geekizchic 3 місяці тому

      Exactly! she is trash so will always attract roaches and rats

  • @caramelkimmiekim8272
    @caramelkimmiekim8272 Рік тому +151

    She had surgery two days ago and is already looking for a man😮 damn girl... Ain't no way I'll be somewhere praising the most high all day & night smh

    • @MrsRease2011
      @MrsRease2011 Рік тому +3

      Yes!

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 Рік тому

      @@MrsRease2011 Thats nothing. you got chics on here whose cooch aint even healed from their 3rd baby but they're on here looking for a husband 😂😂

    • @therenegade2660
      @therenegade2660 Рік тому

      She a clown who is full of anger,She can stay by herself

    • @monicabro0404
      @monicabro0404 Рік тому +2

      I know that's right

    • @RochellB46
      @RochellB46 Рік тому +3

      I understand tho maybe she’s got a life is short mind right now

  • @peanuthead32
    @peanuthead32 Рік тому +533

    What are 3 flaws?
    1. I have a big heart, this is not a flaw, she is complimenting herself
    2. I am hard headed, I had breast cancer so i love to get things done, this is not a flaw.
    3. Nothing
    These are her real flaws.
    1. Lack of introspection
    2. Non agreeable
    3. Non traditional woman expecting a traditional man.

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Рік тому

      Angry, doesn't listen, promiscuous, getting long in the tooth, single mother.

    • @mashenka6189
      @mashenka6189 Рік тому +32

      Spot on!

    • @asdfghj13579fly
      @asdfghj13579fly Рік тому +40

      Dude, she gave interview answers. Its was like when you say your biggest flaw is that I work too hard and put too much pressure on myself to preform.

    • @JayLawson
      @JayLawson Рік тому +23

      And boom goes the dynamite

    • @earlenecarson395
      @earlenecarson395 Рік тому +10

      Well-said!!!

  • @joeyoung6287
    @joeyoung6287 Рік тому +440

    You want a man you’ve never seen but met through social media to come to your home and pick you up? Ladies, please be smarter

    • @LadyK007
      @LadyK007 Рік тому +13

      🎯

    • @bossbabebeautea
      @bossbabebeautea Рік тому +31

      My thought exactly. Im half her age and know this. She shouldn’t even want him to get her on a first date… he could be a stalker or crazy. Not smart!

    • @dijauneaiymuan9834
      @dijauneaiymuan9834 Рік тому +11

      Yeeeah that was crazy lol I’m younger and know better lol like what if he was crazy😮

    • @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164
      @mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 Рік тому +2

      Sounds like a bum to me!

    • @joeyoung6287
      @joeyoung6287 Рік тому +5

      @@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 obviously, you’re missing the point.

  • @mikhalaa746
    @mikhalaa746 Рік тому +158

    No one wants to be with a person who loves to argue and has to have the last word.🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @ruthlindsey6655
    @ruthlindsey6655 6 місяців тому +36

    She can not listen without interrupting. She can not explain without arguing and she thinks she knows it all,but,yet she's SINGLE

  • @KnwName
    @KnwName Рік тому +50

    she’s frustrated with something & it comes across in her energy

  • @NoName-nj4mw
    @NoName-nj4mw Рік тому +584

    She argues just for the sake of arguing. Kendra is literally repeating back to her EXACTLY what she is saying and she is getting defensive. She's single because she's argumentative and nobody wants to hear your mouth. She is basically saying, I wanna be a heaux, but don't wanna be treated like one. Girl bye. Good luck with your health though

    • @ThunderKat2012
      @ThunderKat2012 Рік тому +39

      She’s 38…she’s not gonna have that body and face forever…I didn’t care for her personality…she has character flaws that come first out the gate….

    • @kirk7069
      @kirk7069 Рік тому +14

      @Rhdbdjehrvsbsjw Wouldn't be surprised if she shows up with a reply back at you, lol!

    • @gregb1374
      @gregb1374 Рік тому +26

      Once you see her page, and the things she's into, you'll understand. Yes she an attractive woman, with a sexual Ora (jazabelle spirit) all around her. Yeah many men who's still focused on kitty will always be available for her, attitude, her mouth, the way she dresses and company she keeps, won't mean nothing to a man focused on the KAT. But once men get to a certain age, or men that don't let Kat drive them....she won't get a call back.

    • @achannel.4619
      @achannel.4619 Рік тому +3

      This is most attractive women I'm glad you notice

    • @lynne4948
      @lynne4948 Рік тому

      @@kirk7069 and will 😂😂😂

  • @karon718
    @karon718 Рік тому +325

    5 minutes into this I can see why men don't call her back. Sheesh

    • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
      @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Рік тому +4

      L🤭L

    • @Opinions-galore24
      @Opinions-galore24 3 місяці тому

      E X 😂 C T L Y!!!!!!

    • @beelaparish
      @beelaparish 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes, even as a woman she would be a draining friend. Very combative for every topic. But you got your beat out here so.. get it together

  • @clearinsight2696
    @clearinsight2696 Рік тому +771

    She is definitely her worst enemy. She's angry, hostile, combative, selfish, contradictory. She literally invites men to focus on sex and then get angry when they do what she asks. Counseling NOW!

    • @RealTalk22222
      @RealTalk22222 Рік тому +30

      No.... she has boundaries and knows how to communicate. She clearly doesn't like words being put in her mouth.

    • @professionalpookie
      @professionalpookie Рік тому

      ​@@RealTalk22222 what does she like being put in her mouth???

    • @h.c3390
      @h.c3390 Рік тому +41

      I’m noticing most women are like this.

    • @LadeiPinkerton-gi7sx
      @LadeiPinkerton-gi7sx Рік тому +44

      I'm a woman and I agree 💯

    • @mercylinemoindi4815
      @mercylinemoindi4815 Рік тому +4

      This is according to your understanding tho. I'm happy you have no clue about her inside, don't be quick to judge bcos people don't know to communicate perfectly to see through

  • @Opinions-galore24
    @Opinions-galore24 3 місяці тому +10

    She’s argumentative!!!! What man wants to be with a woman like this?!!?!!????

  • @nikkirobinson9910
    @nikkirobinson9910 Рік тому +12

    Black women….we gotta calm down sometimes. 😅 Let’s practice making our point without being combative & defensive.
    She is beautiful. Wishing her the best.

  • @eckageetv
    @eckageetv Рік тому +663

    I don’t think it has anything to do with her looks, she’s extremely combative and thinks she has a pleasant personality 😩

    • @eckageetv
      @eckageetv Рік тому +19

      @@Humble_Legend not in my experience but I don’t date women 😂. Hopefully she can see what everyone else sees and work on it, she is a pretty woman with a nice body.

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh Рік тому +15

      ​@@Humble_Legend not the black women I'm around

    • @eckageetv
      @eckageetv Рік тому +3

      @@Humble_Legend ok.

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh Рік тому

      @@Humble_Legend none lol

    • @RealJonIvy
      @RealJonIvy Рік тому +15

      ​@@shanicepilton1096i was with you until that last sentence. You made a great point about not to generalize people then you proved his point... make it make sense

  • @sunnysunshine6271
    @sunnysunshine6271 Рік тому +137

    Ma'am, if you don't want be reduced to your body, perhaps don't lead with your breast.

  • @JSouth23
    @JSouth23 Рік тому +809

    She's just a prime example of women in general nowadays. She wants to talk about sex, engage in casual sex, dress provocatively, but doesn't want to be looked at or approached in that light. She wants the man to disregard all those signals to actually get to know her on a deeper level.
    A'ight

    • @MeresankhJ
      @MeresankhJ Рік тому +84

      Delusional

    • @JSouth23
      @JSouth23 Рік тому +79

      ​@@MeresankhJThe more accurate term is "cognitive dissonance".

    • @ThunderKat2012
      @ThunderKat2012 Рік тому +31

      Reminds me of that movie Alien when the android ash is talking about the xenomorph and he gives highly detailed description of the creatures nature and he says
      You still don't understand what you're dealing with, do you? The perfect organism. Its structural perfection is matched only by its hostility.
      Lambert: You admire it.
      Ash: I admire its purity. A survivor... unclouded by conscience, remorse, or delusions of morality.

    • @Natalia-hf3et
      @Natalia-hf3et Рік тому +5

      ✊🏽

    • @JSouth23
      @JSouth23 Рік тому +12

      ​@@ThunderKat2012That was the best scene. That dialogue was perfect.

  • @hudaf79
    @hudaf79 Рік тому +38

    She's exhausting... there's nothing wrong with a man asking you to meet for drinks... do you really want to give a complete stranger your address?? 🤦‍♀️

    • @cam4short
      @cam4short Рік тому +1

      EXACTLY 😂 letting men know where she lives!?

    • @Tiffany-un3hw
      @Tiffany-un3hw Рік тому +1

      Right! I’m driving to him the 1st few months of getting to know him. No way am I giving a man my address and riding in his car after just meeting.

    • @Phoenixishot
      @Phoenixishot Місяць тому

      YES there is if she TOLD HIM she doesn’t drink. 💡 He was using her as arm candy. It wasn’t a date.

  • @alfreddixon9029
    @alfreddixon9029 Рік тому +189

    She's single because she's difficult.

    • @thuandao4243
      @thuandao4243 Рік тому +11

      Exhausting to listen…. I I I mememe.

    • @prid6427
      @prid6427 Рік тому +7

      Extremely DIFFICULT!! I can guarantee you people have told her she's difficult!

    • @ranathomas3204
      @ranathomas3204 Рік тому +1

      Facts💯

    • @dfagan28
      @dfagan28 6 місяців тому

      SAY IT LOUD!!

    • @kenialee9024
      @kenialee9024 6 місяців тому

      Also agreed

  • @candace27co
    @candace27co Рік тому +168

    Wow i got triple negative breast cancer stage 3 at ,31. Im 38 now and completely grateful! U got this

  • @nmmboy
    @nmmboy Рік тому +518

    Kendra did better than anyone could have with her. That extremely long update was freaking insufferable. She’s definitely difficult for anyone to deal with. Those men saw a beautiful woman, but smashed and got the hell out of dodge when they got to know her 🥴😩

    • @WeezyJeffersonYo
      @WeezyJeffersonYo Рік тому +84

      Y'all smash and leave regardless.

    • @nmmboy
      @nmmboy Рік тому +1

      @@WeezyJeffersonYo No, men smash and leave YOU. Good quality women get wifed up, and the others get smashed and dashed..

    • @joec3703
      @joec3703 Рік тому

      @@WeezyJeffersonYo Yes, yes we do because ya'll ain't shit 😂😂😂.

    • @FaithandPurpose828
      @FaithandPurpose828 Рік тому +28

      @@WeezyJeffersonYo weezy is that you?....🤣

    • @nmmboy
      @nmmboy Рік тому +1

      @@WeezyJeffersonYo If you think all women get smashed and left, then that’s speaks to the type of men y’all attract. She leads with her breast and “pussy talk”, so it was the inevitable..

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 Рік тому +37

    On a funny note: I saw a breast cancer survivor’s tee shirt that read, “Heck yeah, these are fake; the real ones tried to kill me…”

  • @2009gradcu
    @2009gradcu Рік тому +47

    I’m glad I’m not like this. She’s arrogant. Which in this case is negative. Then she pushes her breast in the camera apologizing and makes no attempt to cover up. But makes a point to say she judged by her shape? Nah, girl you put yourself out like that. I’m glad she didn’t get the Kendra Cam, she desperately wanted the attention

  • @PSarks
    @PSarks Рік тому +587

    Every conversation with her seems like it’d turn into an argument. Highly defensive and combative.

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh Рік тому +45

      Those types are draining

    • @buffalo.blackk
      @buffalo.blackk Рік тому +26

      She’s a masculine woman. This is why gender polarity is so important. No masculine man will want this. She needs a feminine man.
      Masculine and feminine attract one another and belong together. A masculine man belongs w/ a feminine woman. A masculine woman (like the woman in this video) belongs w/ a feminine man.

    • @slayingthabullshyt6854
      @slayingthabullshyt6854 Рік тому +26

      Exactly im a woman and her double talking had annoyed me. Men , please pass her up, she not ready for anyone besides herself. She is a stereotype of a angry black woman. That don’t want a man, 🙅🏽‍♀️her words not mine, but on a show looking for a man.

    • @vincentmartin1863
      @vincentmartin1863 Рік тому +10

      I think she like to tell a man what to do want to control him

    • @zari2662
      @zari2662 Рік тому

      ​@@buffalo.blackk I wish more people would look into gender polarity

  • @SusieSue242
    @SusieSue242 Рік тому +196

    I think Kendra was extending her grace due to her illness and because they both have met before, this was hard to watch .

  • @wizardofahhhhhhz
    @wizardofahhhhhhz Рік тому +540

    These pseudo-deep people really grind my gears and they should not even be entertained. She doesn’t even realize how INSANE it is to advocate for a stranger you met on the internet to come and pick you up. Ladies, you’d better drive yourselves so that you can get up out of there should ANYTHING begin to make you uncomfortable and don’t let damn strangers from the internet know your address before even going on a first date with them. She’s just on here to try to push that podcast of hers.

    • @alp.9672
      @alp.9672 Рік тому +58

      Pseudo-deep people are the ones always starting podcast lmaoooo

    • @clearinsight2696
      @clearinsight2696 Рік тому +13

      You are spot on

    • @Cummin2hrd
      @Cummin2hrd Рік тому +33

      Agreed, ion like random men knowing my address. We need to go out few times first.

    • @speechiegal5099
      @speechiegal5099 Рік тому +4

      Facts!

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 Рік тому +1

      💯💯💯

  • @firstlast7300
    @firstlast7300 Рік тому +99

    She contradicts herself from one minute to the next: “I wanna date, I do wanna be in a relationship….I’m ‘ single cause I wanna be!. I cut him off because he was going to dinner and didn’t invite me… I don’t even eat.” and on and on. She is way too inflexible. Who cares if a man asked you to meet him somewhere he was already going. Just go and make the best of it. It’s incredibly selfish and unrealistic to expect a man to invest 100% into something he’s not even familiar with. Meaning, you’re expecting him to plan an entire day around what you like doing and you’re not even someone he knows! This is only your first time meeting! The kind of dates that she’s asking for and the level of detail and attention that she’s requiring from a man, comes AFTER dating a man for some time. I actually think meeting for drinks, coffee and little things like that is more sensible for a first date than going to dinner and rolling out the red carpet as if you two are lovebirds. but anyway, since she ok being alone, she’ll be just fine because no man is signing up for this. She doesn’t even qualify to be a fwb.

    • @aquianstanley3909
      @aquianstanley3909 Рік тому +3

      They will sign up to pump & dump like the other guy that ghosted her

    • @troyforce2
      @troyforce2 Рік тому +6

      She had her child at 17 years old-she’s stuck there mentally. When she keeps say “what’s out there..” lady you’re 38..nothing is out there for a 38 year old woman.

    • @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt
      @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt Рік тому

      Friends with benefits

    • @MoeSoNatural
      @MoeSoNatural 5 місяців тому +3

      Those quotes took me tf out bcuz your breakdown is so true. Like girl what is even going on in your head baby? It’s going a mile a minute. And she’s from my city - Chicago… this is a lot of women here and by the time men make it around to the fun-loving women like me, they’re traumatized, leery and closed off😂😢

    • @MoeSoNatural
      @MoeSoNatural 5 місяців тому

      @@troyforce2LoL!!!!!! I’m 38 and I’m cracking up😂 not even mad at you for saying that.

  • @Grit09
    @Grit09 Рік тому +29

    I don’t mind women having standards and defending them, but LORD JESUS this was exhausting 😣

  • @Rachellen1
    @Rachellen1 Рік тому +231

    Breast cancer news is amazing. Happy for her.
    Outside of that, she’s annoying, keeps interrupting, won’t let Kendra finish her though. Very defensive and easily frustrated. Regardless of how valid her points are, she can’t effectively communicate them because she’s so listens to respond and not listen or discuss.
    I can’t imagine a man wanting to deal with her.

    • @SweetEssie
      @SweetEssie Рік тому +18

      Anyone dealing with her on a daily basis has to be on the defense or get run over. I used to have friends that act like her. I don't see them often now

    • @vanessaramirez2416
      @vanessaramirez2416 Рік тому +10

      The interrupting had it for me smh

    • @rochelle1601
      @rochelle1601 Рік тому +2

      Right! My exact sentiments!

    • @tf7124
      @tf7124 Рік тому

      Nope not one with any sense

  • @lexxwheel
    @lexxwheel Рік тому +135

    Third flaw, she can’t follow directions. Kendra has repeated 7 second rule every time she ignored it 😂

    • @deloresbutler4352
      @deloresbutler4352 Рік тому +1

      Right🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @gdn7
      @gdn7 Рік тому +14

      "Seven second ru-"
      "...dating to have fun!"
      Kendra:😒

    • @adams8830
      @adams8830 Рік тому +15

      The 7-second rule is a simple IQ test that most of her guests fail. LOL.

    • @Jeremiah_29
      @Jeremiah_29 Рік тому +2

      No, you can tell that there are issues. On some parts you can hear her answer before Kendra asked the question. Like the question about her sign. We heard her answer before Kendra asked the question and she could not know what Kendra was going to ask next. This happens on a lot of highlights.

    • @kaydee6555
      @kaydee6555 3 місяці тому

      Got on my nerves like dang I know you heard her

  • @Forever_JS12
    @Forever_JS12 Рік тому +518

    When I was younger (in my young 20's) I had the same type of outlook when it came to how I dressed. My thought process was like don't judge me on how I dress. I did not like the type of attention I would get, so I stopped. The world does not conform to me or anyone. We live in a society that will judge a person based on how they are dress. I no longer received the negative attention. If she wants to attract the right type of man, she has to change.

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 Рік тому +23

      🎯

    • @kam3612
      @kam3612 Рік тому +12

      Very well put! Screenshot this

    • @vincentmartin1863
      @vincentmartin1863 Рік тому +11

      that's a good point coming from woman I surly agree

    • @misguidedpearls7456
      @misguidedpearls7456 Рік тому +12

      Listen its the hardest lesson of life..
      Mean😮😮😮😮sooo hard
      We try to tell younger girls
      Its not fair at all but its life
      I feel dress how u want until you're looking for a serious partner or in professional environments
      Or meeting new people...
      In those spaces u gotta go with that mindset ull b judge

    • @professionalcheekclapper7608
      @professionalcheekclapper7608 Рік тому +5

      Accountability 🙏🏿 love to hear it! This is all true!

  • @jaytee742gearhead7
    @jaytee742gearhead7 6 місяців тому +4

    She seems like the type of woman that loves to argue. She will pick fights over anything

  • @krystaperry288
    @krystaperry288 Рік тому +22

    I don’t think I can finish this. Her energy is soooo heavy. God bless her husband

  • @BIG_BLACK_HERO
    @BIG_BLACK_HERO Рік тому +227

    She's giving me Lisa Raye vibes angry for the sake of being angry without actually being angry

  • @moneyhoney2485
    @moneyhoney2485 Рік тому +219

    This sister is fighting for her life. I know it's tough going through things alone, but I don't think she should date right now. She may meet Mr. Right but at the wrong time and he won't be able to deal with her demeanor. I'm praying for her healing -body, mind and heart.

    • @dreykuslowe6128
      @dreykuslowe6128 Рік тому +9

      I bet she met Mr.Right hundreds of times and fumble or turned him down every single time. Remember she said she attract all men.

    • @buffalo.blackk
      @buffalo.blackk Рік тому +9

      This is the problem w/ modern women trying to keep holding out for men as they age. No woman should be dating in her 30s. At her age of 38, she missed out on a serious relationship. Stop trying to wait into your 30s to date, ladies. No men w/ options will choose you. You’re going to end up w/ horrible options to pick from.

    • @katsu2014
      @katsu2014 Рік тому

      @@buffalo.blackk shut yo 1nc3l arse up. Same for men. Nobody want no old ahh dried up used up man.

    • @Tiredttttttt
      @Tiredttttttt Рік тому

      @@Nature-ep5cu they sound like lunatics with this bs 😂😂😂 completely delusional & don’t have minds of their own at all just repeating what they hear online from fellow unmarried men

    • @WeezyJeffersonYo
      @WeezyJeffersonYo Рік тому +6

      ​@Dreykus Lowe No, especially if she's dealing with BM. There's not enough "Mr. Right" with y'all. Mr. Right among BM is a unicorn.

  • @Itsupfromhere_
    @Itsupfromhere_ Рік тому +211

    She seems like someone who would give a waitress a really hard time, unwarranted. Just unkind and unsettled.
    Best wishes on your fight!!

    • @brianal7143
      @brianal7143 Рік тому +15

      True she seems to be on the defensive for everything. It's like she's looking for a reason to have to defend herself, she wants the argument

    • @MrsRease2011
      @MrsRease2011 Рік тому +15

      Like most Black women I encounter on a daily basis. We love to say “Bw aren’t combative or aggressive”, but real life says otherwise! I’ve had to “be the bigger woman” too many times, in front of my daughters, dealing with a rude ass Bw. I don’t know about where you live, but they walk around here like they’re going to whoop everyone’s ass! It’s so freaking annoying!

    • @sambuka1990
      @sambuka1990 Рік тому

      ​@@MrsRease2011 they wont come for you for saying this, but let a black man say what you just said

    • @saharaloveland
      @saharaloveland Рік тому +1

      ​@@sambuka1990 she is generalizing which isn't true.

    • @saharaloveland
      @saharaloveland Рік тому

      @@MrsRease2011 you are putting yourself in that category Is the point by generalizing. I can say all bm are azzholes but would that literally mean ALL because of my experience with every bm I've encountered.

  • @lisas9462
    @lisas9462 Рік тому +9

    🤔💭....how many times did Kendra ask her to wait 7 seconds due to the delay.
    🤷🏽‍♀️...She doesn't listen.

  • @phenomenon215
    @phenomenon215 Рік тому +13

    When I was single, these was the exact kind of women I was ghosting. Running for my damn life! This is an example of a narcissistic mouthy angry bitter overly emotional & always defensive Woman who will never take accountabilities for her own actions, flaws etc. Prayers is going up for her recovery and healing not just from cancer but therapy...this sister needs lots of healing from different trauma. If you know, you know.🏃🏾‍♂️💨

  • @allMinabe
    @allMinabe Рік тому +108

    Fighting cancer is no joke wish the best for her!

    • @gdn7
      @gdn7 Рік тому +1

      No man cares

    • @jennzifur
      @jennzifur Рік тому +8

      @@gdn7 no cares what you think either.

  • @eke.D
    @eke.D Рік тому +301

    She's refusing to accept that first impressions are a thing. You can set whatever boundary you like but how you present yourself determines who you'll attract.
    A man who approaches women in an armani suit and a Rolls Royce but believes in 50/50 dates until an exclusive relationship, shouldn't be shocked if all the women want him to spend big on day 1.
    Solution: present yourself more Conservatively and modesty that way you won't look like a quick hit and you'll have less pump and dumpers.

    • @IK_4
      @IK_4 Рік тому +1

      A man with money does NOT go through all of that. They don't mind and they even enjoy spending money on women. It's broke men, like most of the men on here, who have an issue about spending a lot of money on a woman during a date and stay in comment sections complaining about women.
      Solution: If you have an issue spending money, upgrade and do better so that you don't need to whine about spending money for a date 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @peacefulblessed2114
      @peacefulblessed2114 Рік тому +11

      Well said

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Рік тому +10

      Pump and Dumpers come for all!!!

    • @eke.D
      @eke.D Рік тому +13

      @@R.Yvette.X. Most will ignore if you look like hard work. The chaser types might persist as it's challenge for them.

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Рік тому +4

      @@eke.D Reads: How to Not Look Like Easy Work by Eke D.

  • @mackximus1
    @mackximus1 Рік тому +268

    Women saying they’re single by choice, but on a dating show trying to find a date, is the biggest oxymoron. How unaware …

    • @Sasha-zx3kt
      @Sasha-zx3kt Рік тому +29

      Perhaps the options she has are not what she wants so technically she is single by choice but LOOKING for better options than what's been presented to her.

    • @astrology4u
      @astrology4u Рік тому +16

      She can be in a relationship with anyone at anytime. She chooses to not settle so she is single by choice until an option that doesn’t require her to settle, comes along. Single by choice is not an oxy moron when you add the context.

    • @sweettea8790
      @sweettea8790 Рік тому

      You are one of those men who prob thinks a woman can't live without a man. 😂

    • @geographyjawade6655
      @geographyjawade6655 Рік тому +5

      I couldn't agree more

    • @mackximus1
      @mackximus1 Рік тому +15

      @@Sasha-zx3kt and @Astrology4u - i agree with both of you. But that’s not single by choice. It’s single because you don’t qualify for what you want! Women call it settle. Men call it be realistic. As an example, if i say i want Rihanna, but then say I’m single by choice, you’re gonna look at me like I’m crazy! As Chris rock would say, “i wasn’t invited!”

  • @blacksteve22
    @blacksteve22 Рік тому +6

    Kendra holding back trying to let her talk..the skills 🔥🔥

  • @Nellss89
    @Nellss89 Рік тому +5

    This womans nuts, she spent half hour talking bout this one dude not picking her up, Kendra didn’t even ask bout do , and kept cutting Kendra off , can imagine what a guy goes through

  • @Astrojaee
    @Astrojaee Рік тому +74

    Some things drag longer than they should 😩

  • @orihellcon
    @orihellcon Рік тому +51

    She will give a man Hell, like Jada gives Will

    • @akahee22
      @akahee22 Рік тому +4

      Bruh my comment says this 😂😂😂

    • @louislark3068
      @louislark3068 Рік тому

      She look like Jada and got that negative haughty diabolical energy. She needs much counseling. I got a headache!

    • @RahYisrael99
      @RahYisrael99 Рік тому +1

      And Will is a good man? They both seem to suck. They're the perfect couple.

  • @HashtagAlkaline
    @HashtagAlkaline Рік тому +51

    Imagine telling the world you’re eating and drinking to live…but will have sex with obviously random people 🥴 the delusion

  • @kdelite9268
    @kdelite9268 Рік тому +16

    She doesn't realize she attracts what she attracts bc of her energy and mindset. She presents herself a way and expects ppl to not treat her accordingly. Listening is not a strong trait that she possesses. She's very defensive and masculine and doesn't understand she's delusional. She believes her looks pur her in a higher standard and she missing so many other qualities that will make her attractive and pleasant to be around.

  • @MsSooobless
    @MsSooobless Рік тому +6

    Whew Chile‼️ She’s exhausting to listen to and seems like too much work. Good luck to the Guy that gets with her.

  • @PrettyPreciousG
    @PrettyPreciousG Рік тому +119

    One of her biggest flaws... Lack of self-awareness.
    She has obvious flaws that she should be aware of!

    • @Goldentoast77
      @Goldentoast77 Рік тому +5

      I was thinking the same thing. Maybe she unaware how combative and unnecessarily difficult she comes off. Even with her fighting cancer, we’re struggling to empathize with anything she has said. I hope she continues to win her battle with cancer. I also hope she gets a reality check.

    • @harrywilliams1164
      @harrywilliams1164 Рік тому

      This part

  • @tonyarmoore894
    @tonyarmoore894 Рік тому +40

    She's difficult to deal with that's why men bounce. Period, her mouth and attitude are keeping her single.

  • @marcisca4296
    @marcisca4296 Рік тому +157

    This woman's over complicating things when it's very simple. First impressions are very important especially if you want to attract someone who will take you seriously and/treat you a certain way. In general, men are visual creatures, and we will approach you accordingly.

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 Рік тому +2

      🎯

    • @drinkwatereatmelons7048
      @drinkwatereatmelons7048 Рік тому +7

      Her girls allllllllll in the camera.....Bong!

    • @lavish169
      @lavish169 Рік тому +7

      @@drinkwatereatmelons7048 that’s the first thing unfortunately we all judge by looks. End of story. It’s what we do to protect ourselves. Why are your breast all over the place. A man can see what you’re working with even with more clothes on.

    • @foxycleopatranc
      @foxycleopatranc Рік тому +1

      so true

  • @sstraight86
    @sstraight86 6 місяців тому +4

    She thinks she more than what she actually is.

  • @KnwName
    @KnwName Рік тому +7

    When meeting people offline I think the first meet up isn’t a date and just getting a feel of the vibes

  • @orihellcon
    @orihellcon Рік тому +51

    How can you indulge in unlady-like behavior but want to be treated like a lady? Make that make sense.

  • @thecorequeen2916
    @thecorequeen2916 Рік тому +110

    Her lack of self-awareness is OUTLANDISH 😳

  • @Romeyjackson
    @Romeyjackson Рік тому +241

    She’s sooooooo argumentative literally the definition of recreational use ONLY!!!

  • @DJP23
    @DJP23 Рік тому +14

    Lmfao I love the silence after “ I’m one of the most loving people in the world”
    Kendra you was born to play these roles

  • @NopeToBroke
    @NopeToBroke Рік тому +10

    Everything she said was just one big ole’ eye roll. When she said her biggest flaw was “having a big heart” I audibly said, “Bish, please.”

  • @alfreddixon9029
    @alfreddixon9029 Рік тому +191

    She's under the impression that she has the power to establish a relationship on her own. She clearly can not keep a man because she's delusional and difficult.

    • @JDMHaze
      @JDMHaze Рік тому +23

      yep, argumentative and a master debater

    • @And1one757
      @And1one757 Рік тому +11

      Yeah thats what she wants absolute power over sex and relationship... she wants the power of the man and the women...

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 Рік тому +25

      She's the man she's looking for 😅

    • @buffalo.blackk
      @buffalo.blackk Рік тому +10

      She’s masculine is what she is. Also, it’s more difficult to date her because of her “taste buds” issue and needs special planning. Hell nah. She should’ve found her man when she was younger. Now she’s old and had cancer. Probably can’t have healthy children. And she’s masculine. What’s the upside to dealing w/ her?

    • @And1one757
      @And1one757 Рік тому +5

      Imagine a woman willing to give a man sex... then the man demands how he receives it... normally whatever kind of sex the woman provides, he's happy with... woman should take note a man is willing to spend his money,time and attention on you... but then you demand how he does it is a lil ridiculous

  • @kj3887
    @kj3887 Рік тому +119

    Guys put women in categories as a one night stand or relationship material, just like women put guys in categories as the “Fun Guy”, trick, or boyfriend type. It’s based on how you’re moving in the situation.

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 Рік тому +3

      YUP!

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Рік тому +3

      It's based on looks primarily.

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Рік тому +26

      ​@@R.Yvette.X. This 'looker' is single while many less attractive women are married. It's that tude. Submit or get a dog.

    • @freethinkingMILF
      @freethinkingMILF Рік тому

      This is true

    • @R.Yvette.X.
      @R.Yvette.X. Рік тому +6

      @@candorsspot2775 There are Women just like her who are married as well. What's your point again?

  • @SwoopLikeMe
    @SwoopLikeMe Рік тому +110

    If you’re meeting someone for the first time. You should meet him somewhere. Have your own transportation so you don’t get put in a predicament where you maybe stranded or even worse.
    Pop🆙💜

    • @anneshagarner6303
      @anneshagarner6303 Рік тому +3

      Whoo yes!

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh Рік тому +8

      Exactly. I don't want a man picking me up just in case he a stalker or crazy. I wait a few dates in

    • @Goldentoast77
      @Goldentoast77 Рік тому +5

      She sounded bat shit crazy saying a stranger should pick her up for a date.

    • @WeezyJeffersonYo
      @WeezyJeffersonYo Рік тому +8

      She should know this at 38.

    • @JustBree716
      @JustBree716 Рік тому +6

      Right, long gone are the days of expecting a man to come and pick you up especially at her old age😅and I'm 43 so I can talk shit about it 😅. Girl if you don't take yo ass and meet him somewhere. I don't want nobody coming to my house I just met. She's special 😅

  • @mr.bitcoin1953
    @mr.bitcoin1953 Рік тому +7

    ANY person who's initial reply to being single is " because I want to be" needs to be disconnected from Kendra's show immediately.

  • @c3servicesofatl
    @c3servicesofatl Рік тому +10

    She’s the type that enhances her body then gets mad that guys judge what they see.

    • @Phoenixishot
      @Phoenixishot Місяць тому

      Ummm…she lost her breasts to cancer. And got “replacements”…not enhancements. I swear people always looking for a reason to dog pile on others w/o thinking.

    • @c3servicesofatl
      @c3servicesofatl Місяць тому

      Two things can be true. Yes she got replacements and not enhancements AND yes she is definitely showing them off intentionally. Whatever happened to showing some class?

  • @plantbasedunicorn7995
    @plantbasedunicorn7995 Рік тому +80

    Very combative and an over talker; that’s why she’s single. This is the hypocrisy and delusion men talk about. You can try to redefine what a 304 is to yourself, but to regular people, it still means the same thing. 😒 You want to be treated like a lady and taken seriously but, you’ll smash without a commitment? Get real.
    11:08 Girl, he ghosted you for 2 weeks and you were still considering going on another date 😑🤦🏾‍♀️
    15:06 It doesn’t matter if he can hold a conversation; you’re gonna over talk him the whole time 😂🙄
    21:07 Mam, again, he ghosted you and you still considered dating him again. Please stop giving answers opposite of your actions 😂😒 this shit is crazy

    • @3questo699
      @3questo699 Рік тому +1

      She’s only considering a 2nd date coz she’s probably feeling bad about how she carried herself with that guy. She wouldn’t be back on a public platform like this if she didn’t realize later that man was worth keeping around. It’s obvious there’s something she’s not telling us.

  • @jayschipp7529
    @jayschipp7529 Рік тому +87

    Well, my mom asked me last week why I’m not married and have kids yet. I’ll send her this so she’ll leave me alone for a month or two.

  • @JackOBee29
    @JackOBee29 Рік тому +59

    It's really not this complicated. She is too defensive.

  • @itsmampeeandmama
    @itsmampeeandmama Рік тому +8

    She seems to be fighting with something within herself. I kno breast cancer changing a person DRAMATICALLY and she may not be ready cause she is still very rough and defensive when Kendra is just having a regular conversation. I applaud Kendra for putting her journalistic integrity and skills to use and not get hostile or angry. Kendra has a very active spirit ❤ Idk where she gets it but it’s very active, caring, loving and patient and compassionate. It also has a Taurus side so don’t thread too hard😂 We ❤ u Kendra!

  • @gyver471
    @gyver471 9 місяців тому +4

    She sounds so difficult to deal with I feel like I hit and I’m already tired of it.

  • @sixtee9cancer
    @sixtee9cancer Рік тому +92

    So basically what I’m hearing is she’s upset about a Dic appointment that didn’t go her way !

  • @NessLeeAtl
    @NessLeeAtl Рік тому +155

    She said "of course I'm defensive' then says "I'm not defensive". That's pretty much how this whole thing went. I wish her luck

    • @sistrenyogigal3813
      @sistrenyogigal3813 Рік тому +18

      I honestly started to get irritated and I can’t do it no more lol cause she’s hella rude

    • @aquianstanley3909
      @aquianstanley3909 Рік тому +6

      Luck? She needs more than that

    • @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt
      @shay-shayhandlestolenbyyt Рік тому

      Facts, lol

    • @MoeSoNatural
      @MoeSoNatural 5 місяців тому

      Contradictory, condescending, lacking self awareness, argumentative and calls it assertive or sticking up for herself 😂 way too much

  • @roki5337
    @roki5337 Рік тому +58

    Kendra did a great job with her facial expressions. This person was difficult. I think this is not the time for her to be dating. I hope she heals.

  • @nycetalk5312
    @nycetalk5312 Рік тому +3

    In faith she will be completely healed

  • @Cherokeecandie
    @Cherokeecandie Рік тому +4

    As a woman, she is making my head hurt. I can only imagine how frustrating she is to a man. She’s all over the place.

  • @itzjdub282
    @itzjdub282 Рік тому +17

    STAGE 4 BREAST CANCER. SHE NEEDS TO FOCUS ON HER HEALING

  • @jilly553
    @jilly553 Рік тому +20

    One thing Kendra gone do is allow you to talk and dig yourself into a hole .

  • @TheRaynebeau
    @TheRaynebeau Рік тому +44

    He smashed and bounced…..just as planned.

    • @swallace9958
      @swallace9958 Рік тому

      😂😂😂

    • @marcyscloset6835
      @marcyscloset6835 Рік тому +2

      she didnt sleep with himmmm

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 Рік тому +1

      @@marcyscloset6835 she sure did. No other reason why she would go on with this story for so long if it was a guy who she was supposed to go on a date with and it never happened. There's nothing special or noteworthy about that situation for her to be acting the way she was.

  • @AlwaysbCherry
    @AlwaysbCherry Рік тому +8

    In these crazy times there's no way a man should know where you live on the 1st through 10th meeting. That's risky ! Ladies get to know men first. Same for men...get to know women first. We never know who can be psycho.

  • @StephanieRaePowerhouse
    @StephanieRaePowerhouse Рік тому +8

    It’s sad and shocking that she truly genuinely believes she’s everything. Lol she’s so brash and angry and combative. I read in the book “heal your life” that cancer is the manifestation of unresolved anger within your body. That certainly feels true here.

  • @peanuthead32
    @peanuthead32 Рік тому +162

    Perfect example of a non traditional woman expecting a traditional man to treat her traditionally.

    • @candorsspot2775
      @candorsspot2775 Рік тому +1

      Yep. This is the language to use. Doesn't want to act like a wife, but wants a man to act like a traditional husband.
      Godlessness is the source of this. Atheist/spiritual women are just extremely selfish. They made themselves God and we are to worship them. At 38 and with her health issues, it's a wrap for her. What a waste of an attractive woman.

    • @6ft130k
      @6ft130k Рік тому +12

      Unfortunately not many traditional women left in the west

    • @Al-Ghaibb
      @Al-Ghaibb Рік тому

      @@shanicepilton1096 You're modern jezebel, just another one of Pookie's baby momma's, go and raise his demon seed all by yourself.

    • @fitnessfreak212
      @fitnessfreak212 Рік тому

      @@shanicepilton1096 you literally have bed sheets up as windows curtains in your video short and you’re a single mother lol girl bye you’ll never be anything more than a quick fuck 😒😂

    • @tru_king24
      @tru_king24 Рік тому +15

      @@shanicepilton1096 but let dat same ray ray get y’all pregnant den DEMAND a man like me foh 😭💯

  • @danielmartin7928
    @danielmartin7928 Рік тому +19

    This whole conversation made my head hurt. I’m patient with people but not this patient.

  • @aguy9071
    @aguy9071 Рік тому +57

    Well… if you’ve got the goods up front and center, don’t be surprised when you get treated like a fun girl

  • @majormomo3466
    @majormomo3466 Рік тому +5

    She’s so difficult, no man of value would take her serious for more than just a brief good time.

  • @niggaflies
    @niggaflies Рік тому +178

    It’s not her shape, it’s her words. She is preaching sex positivity and is confused why people think she’s easy.

    • @JK-gi3ew
      @JK-gi3ew 10 місяців тому

      Exactly! She's trying to force men to think like women. It's not gonna happen! I'm a woman and I know that. Plus, she's a bitch.

    • @agoodnight1050
      @agoodnight1050 8 місяців тому +6

      It's a hard no from me

    • @tinawindham6958
      @tinawindham6958 8 місяців тому

      Words I don’t use “cu*t” “puss*” “F*ck”….a few. Just vulgar.

    • @rimasingleinny1871
      @rimasingleinny1871 6 місяців тому +5

      She gets what Kendra’s saying she’s just argumentative

    • @KeepWatchin5.56
      @KeepWatchin5.56 6 місяців тому

      her dam podcast is pusy talk lol

  • @6time686
    @6time686 Рік тому +31

    I prefer a woman who listens and knows how to count...

  • @REYNOLDS2916
    @REYNOLDS2916 Рік тому +44

    If she only wants to date and not necessarily be in a relationship, what's the purpose of all the relationship type requirements?

  • @Thatzulugirl05
    @Thatzulugirl05 Рік тому +20

    Who goes on a first date at 10:30 pm okie , y’all need to go on coffee dates if you go in the evenings these men will think there’s an opportunity to go home with you 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @kareem.10
    @kareem.10 10 місяців тому +2

    Women like her want to abandon traditional behavior but get treated like a lady....insane.

  • @sallysharp4126
    @sallysharp4126 Рік тому +1

    Prayers Going Up. May You Keep Winning Your Battle With Cancer. Don’t get Me wrong. Love Me Some Men However I refuse to spend All My Time, Effort, & Energy trying to get with Anyone. I Am Good With Loving On Me…

  • @melodykingwood136
    @melodykingwood136 Рік тому +16

    I lost a dear Friend to metastatic breast cancer; I pray she beats it.

  • @pinkbuttercup2023
    @pinkbuttercup2023 Рік тому +34

    She only understands herself! She doesn’t realize what Kendra is saying at all!

    • @prid6427
      @prid6427 Рік тому +2

      She really doesn't and seems like she not going to be quiet to understand or realize anything else!! It seems like She's been like this ALL Her Life!!🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @pinkbuttercup2023
      @pinkbuttercup2023 Рік тому

      @@prid6427 yes I’m was thinking the same! She’s too much! And she answered the questions as if she’s still on a podcast lol 😂! Definitely talks because she has lips !

    • @meloran2571
      @meloran2571 Рік тому +1

      she doesn't even understand herself. If she did, she would be a bit more humble knowing all she's dealing with

  • @SN-ty2rg
    @SN-ty2rg Рік тому +2

    Just answer the danggone questions, please! Therapy Therapy is needed asap 😢

  • @jasmineogunyemi2658
    @jasmineogunyemi2658 Рік тому +3

    She asked you yes or no questions and you answered with a damn speech it time. Kendra should stop them from talking so damn much

  • @teekay1594
    @teekay1594 Рік тому +14

    Kendra says wait seven seconds then one second later she responds 🤦🏾‍♂️ lol

    • @vegannn7178
      @vegannn7178 Рік тому +1

      Lmao she wasn’t trying to hear nothing Kendra was saying

  • @MrDb135i
    @MrDb135i Рік тому +79

    This is a masculine pretty woman..she will be a masculine unmarried old woman

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly Рік тому +1

      Lol

    • @shadyzbabii420
      @shadyzbabii420 Рік тому +9

      Marriage isnt a goal.

    • @Loveoverhate_
      @Loveoverhate_ Рік тому +7

      @@shadyzbabii420 to people who don’t anybody want to marry , of course it’s not.

    • @reppinbkny975
      @reppinbkny975 Рік тому +2

      Not necessarily,

    • @obibuaku
      @obibuaku Рік тому +4

      ​@Goldie Smith not true. Im in a relationship. He asked i declined and explained why. Marriage is not everyones goal