Thanks for this teaching Gogo. I only learnt about this channel a few days ago and I have been watching non-stop since. I have a question relating to some of the pointers you mentioned in this episode. I am a male and currently using my father's surname, and my father did not pay lobola at all, also he does not believe in african traditions and customs. so I have a problem known as 'umbango' should I now use my moms surname if my father or uncles from my father's side do not follow proper customs? what is the best way forward?
The maternal family must perform imbeleko for you, that will mean you forget about your father's family. If your father wants to do the right thing, he must first pay damages, ageze umuzi and only then kufanele ukhishwe komalume ngbuzi and be welcomed ngembuzi ekhaya kine. This is the only way ubaba wakho can claim you. Otherwise just do imbeleko on your mother's side as I stated before, then your surname is the maternal surname, regardless of what appears on the ID
Im was born in a married family. N im im female...so i still use left?? Or right?? N i wanna do imbeleko for my daughter at home.Her father ddnt do anything for her. Shuld i use left for her??
Thokoza Gogo my father past on in long time ago n he didn't pay damages so my aunt's from my father side made a ceremony yokukhipha izipahla zikaGogo ozala ubaba n I already have isiphandla on what do I do?
Thokoza gogo.. yenziwa kanjani I appointment gogo if ngfisasa ukukbona because sengikuzame konke from email and phone messages and trying to get you ocingweni but still no luck. And I desperately need your help gogo. Ngise Maritzburg ngokuhlala amasenti sengawabeka aze ahlangana for ukuza..
Thokoza gogo.yazi mina ngine nkinga yokuth anghlawulwa and ngikhulele kobaba so issue ukuth ngake nganizwa ku gagas fm nithi awukwaz ukuzihlawula so manje m confused kuth ngenzenjan ngoba ngokbuka kwam akekho ozmisele kunghlawula ko baba since sengaba yintandane
Wayisho indaba Gogo. Exactly what happened to my sister.
Syabonga Gogo ngezeluleko.. sabusiseka ngoGogo Mbatha👏
Kodwa uGogo uhlez engiqeda masesitshela ukuth asiyeke ukuphapha yey. 😂😂😂😂
Thanks Gogo, I needed this info
Siyabonga gogo izimfudiso zakho inkosi ikubusise gogo👏👏
Hai Gogo, uNkulunkulu aze angisize ngithole uGobela who's very informed like u. I love learning, and I learn a lot from u.
Maluju🙌🏼
Wayibeka yazwakala gogo.
Nami ngiyafisa ukuthi kubenjalo nakimi!!
nami ngacishe ngaphapha Gogo eyi....lol Thokoza gogo syabonga lets go to 10K SUB bafe2 kubemnandi !!!!👌👌👌 nitshele nabanye
Onezindlebe makezwe.....ngicela ukuthatha lethuba nje ngibe owokuqala ukunifisela amahholid afudumele nonyaka oyimpumelelo ka 2020 siqhubeke nokubambana sihhabulisane zingane zakwethu😊😊😊😊😊
Siyabonga amaciniso gogo 👏👏
SYABONGA GOGO
Siyabonga Gogo
Inamandla 👏👏👏
Wow Gogo yazi waze wayikhuluma indaba , eish kube nomsebenzi ekhaya ngamaholidays. Manje ismanga I sis wami ufake isphandla apparently I cousin yami yenze umsebenzi wokubonga imoto and out of the blue usis wami naye sekafake isphandla.. manje kunomunye umama oyisangoma wangibuza why usis ufake isphandla lesi ..
Siyabonga gogo
Gogo why does it mean when you dream wearing a black isiphandla
Ngiyabonga!
Thokoz salukaz sendoda mmmmm wakhulum indab ekhulu Gog siyabong kwade
Sawubona Gogo Bathini cela iClearity la uthe owesifazane isphandla sakubo usifaka kaLeft owesilisa kaRight?
Ngibonge usazophendula👏🏾🙏🏾 Thokoza gogo
Gogo, are there any behavioural dos and don'ts once wafaka isiphandla?
Ndiyabonga gogo cishe lobhuti wandifaka eweni ngomtana wam ngoba ngili Xhosa mina athi wenzela umtana angaguli kodwa akukholutho ake wayolenza ekhaya
thokoza gogo yiqiniso lelo makhosi makhulu
Siyathokoza Sontshikazi
Thanks for this teaching Gogo. I only learnt about this channel a few days ago and I have been watching non-stop since. I have a question relating to some of the pointers you mentioned in this episode. I am a male and currently using my father's surname, and my father did not pay lobola at all, also he does not believe in african traditions and customs. so I have a problem known as 'umbango' should I now use my moms surname if my father or uncles from my father's side do not follow proper customs? what is the best way forward?
The maternal family must perform imbeleko for you, that will mean you forget about your father's family.
If your father wants to do the right thing, he must first pay damages, ageze umuzi and only then kufanele ukhishwe komalume ngbuzi and be welcomed ngembuzi ekhaya kine. This is the only way ubaba wakho can claim you.
Otherwise just do imbeleko on your mother's side as I stated before, then your surname is the maternal surname, regardless of what appears on the ID
U belong to yo maternal side not yo partenal. Remember, yo parents were not married
Gogo ulusizo
Yakhuluma indoda yomuzi
Thokoza Gogo, cela ukubuza ukuthi ungazihlanganisa yini izingane zandawonye kwimbuzi eyodwa uma uzibika emathongweni
Muhle lombuzo ngyawuthanda
Thokoza gogo.thina aba siza nabo mama e mendweni senza njani
Isalukazi sendoda nginombuzo anginalo ulwazi ukuthi ngawulwa kodwa amalobolobolo aphuma yikuphila
Kufanele ngincikekhona komalume nama esibongweni sika baba
Thokozani mkhulu ngicela ukubuza kushoni ukuphupha nngifaka isiphandla esimnyama?
Ngisalile kancane: Umuntu wesilisa usifaka kaRight owesifazane usifaka on the left, where do we put ukuthi esakimalume when mentioning gender now? Tnx
Left bafo
Im was born in a married family. N im im female...so i still use left?? Or right??
N i wanna do imbeleko for my daughter at home.Her father ddnt do anything for her. Shuld i use left for her??
Thokoza Gogo my father past on in long time ago n he didn't pay damages so my aunt's from my father side made a ceremony yokukhipha izipahla zikaGogo ozala ubaba n I already have isiphandla on what do I do?
Thokoza gogo.. yenziwa kanjani I appointment gogo if ngfisasa ukukbona because sengikuzame konke from email and phone messages and trying to get you ocingweni but still no luck. And I desperately need your help gogo. Ngise Maritzburg ngokuhlala amasenti sengawabeka aze ahlangana for ukuza..
Thokozani
Thokoza gogo.yazi mina ngine nkinga yokuth anghlawulwa and ngikhulele kobaba so issue ukuth ngake nganizwa ku gagas fm nithi awukwaz ukuzihlawula so manje m confused kuth ngenzenjan ngoba ngokbuka kwam akekho ozmisele kunghlawula ko baba since sengaba yintandane
Ngicela ucacise Gogo ukuthi yiziphi izinto okumele uyihlo azikhiphe ukuze ubize kini ngokusemthetgweni, assuming ukuthi abazali abasathandani, ngoba uma besathandana kumele ziwushaye esigcawini ukuze ubize kini?
Thokoza gogo, ngicela ukbuza kuth if kwenzekile waphapha wafaka isiphandla sakini ube u belong ko Malume. Lokho kulungiseka kanjan or yin ekmele uyenze kulungisa leyonto ko Malume? And ngicela nokwaz ukuth if uhlawuliwe yn esuke isisele kuze ugcwale ngokuphelele esibongweni sako Baba?
Sothondose ngolwazi nje lwami lwesintu ngizophendula umbuzo wakho wesibili,othi üma uhlawuliwe yini okumele yenzeke ukuze uphelele esibongweni sako baba?"...1.Ukuhlawula kusho ukuvuma icala and then usuke ugeza umuzi womnumzane ngoba usuke ufohlile esbayeni sakhe, wamithisa ingane yakhe ungayilobole,it has nothing to do namasiko ongawenzela ingane,leyongane isawela khabo mawayo.2.Uma sebahlukana abazali,kumele ubaba ayoxoxisana nabakhabo nina wengane ngokulobola ingane ukuze azokwazi ukuthi iwele esibongweni sayo,bazosho inani lezinkomo noma ezephakethi/mali,emva kokuba esethumele abayozimikisa lezinkomo,kumele bese omalume bathenga imbuzi yokukukhipha/babike ethongweni ukuthi usuyaphuma uya kini,naye ubaba kumele ahlabe imbuzi yokukwamukela/yokukungenisa esbongweni sakho,akubike ethongweni,uma usuka khabomama,uzohamba nomhlubulo wakwa left kanye nebhakede lotshwala,bese bakhabo baba nabo banikeze abakhabo mama umhlubulo wakwa left wembuzi kanye nebhakede lotshwala,ubese ufaka isphandla sakwa right sakhabo baba n nesakwa left sakhabo mama,usuhlanganisile amathongo lapho and usuwela esbongweni sakhabo baba....loko ke akusho ukuthi awusenzi masiko khabo mama,uyawenza especially aqondene nakhona.
@@muzithenjwayo3885 ngyabonga bhuti omdala kakhulu
Sanibona ngisacela ukubuza ukuthi uzifaka uma kwenze njani iziphandla ezintathu ngeskhathi esisodwa???
Siyafakwa yini isphandla mawugezwa ithunzi lomzali?
Gogo, what do I do with it when it falls off?
Did u get yo answer here?
What happens if you don't put on isiphandla?
Ngiyasifaka 3 days mina. I never liked it. Kungcono ukuthelwa ngenyongo
What if you grew up with your father's family and they only gave imbuzi yezintombi?
Thokoza gogo mina ngenze itiye kubo kababa, wanhlawula kodwa azange bashade nomama. Ngabe ngenze iphutha yini? Ngomanje ngiphuma iinkomo zingiluma izandla,ngabe kusho ukuthini Gogo?
Uma isiphandla sesiqhumile, senziwani?
Siyadliwa
Thokoza salukazi sendoda ngicele ukubuza la Uma uwumuntu wesilisa wenzelwa umsebenzi komalume usifaka ngakusiphi isandla isiphandla? Ngoba khona lapho othi khona isiphandla sakomalume usifaka ngakwesokunxele isandla ubese ubuye uthi umuntu wesilisa usifaka ngakwesokudla bese ngivele ngidideka kakhulu
Left hand
Gogo Bathini ngicela ukukugcizelela nami loku kokuthi uma kuhlawuliwe,loko akusho ukuthi ingane isiwela kuyise wayo,inhlawulo imayelana nokugeza umuzi womnumzane,ngoba ngikhulelise ingane yakhe ngingayishadile and ngivuma icala,akusho ukuthi senginelungelo lokwenzela ingane amasiko...Gogo sekunalomkhuba okhona manje,uzwe umuntu ethi yingane yakhe uyihlawulile,ngakho ke unelungelo lokuyenzela noma yiluphi usiko,ngicela ngenye imini ube ne topic ethi YINI UKUHLAWULA
ke ya leboha ka hlaloso eno, ke ya bohlokwa haholo; i know what you talking about