I went through a lot in the hands of my mainini mukadzi wababa mudiki muni'ngina wababa. And at some point I feel like confronting her but ndinotya kuzonzi unonyeba but i know all of my family nevavakidzane vanozviziva. I try to not cry about it but I'm failing. Those who judge the Mutukudzi girls it's because you were raised by your mum and dad so you know nothing about this kind of stories.
@@sindy308 but dont let it inside for too long, one day is too long. Confront her and tell her how you feel, dont touch her but your words will hurt her and make her rethink her ways
@thejoemarspodcast true ini i still want to know why my stepmom ill treated me, it's unfortunate is is late. But i want closure from the maid who was used to make my life hell in her presence and when shes away
Sweetheart, from one abused person to another pray about it release her and forgive her otherwise it will even affect your relationships years later. Write her a letter if you have to. You also need to forgive the person who was supposed to protect you which in my case I needed to forgive my father because just like Oliver he watched while his wife mistreated us. To this day ndine kamwe karough kandinoita even to my own kids and I am thankful Mweya Mutsvene unonditsuraa nekundidzora
You gained a Subscriber for being man enough to admit you are revising your thoughts on this Mtukudzi Family debate. That interview was deeep from the hearts of those ladies..& for those Girls to get a hat & a track-suit from Tuku's Estate, made me sick to my tummy.
Thus being human bamunini.Zvinorwadza kuti mainini vavo Daisy havasi kurepenter .Varikuramba vachi treater vana zviri wrong .Let's call sin by its name.Daisy is evil and unrepentant
In my opinion these girls were left an important inheritance by their father which can never be erased. They are great musicians with great voices. It’s up to them to use this intangible gift they received from their father
Mutukudzi was one of the best musicians in the world and listening to that conversations it touched me I thought all was well with the family not knowing kuti chakafukidza dzimba matenga Zviri mukati zvakaoma But Amai avo ngavaite mushe kana kungotyawo Mwari
That interview touched me I didn't even finish it. I send healing energy to those girls. - Oliver Mtukudzi may have been under the control of a narcissist. If you have to send your kids money in hiding... who the man?
Taura hako panemakore mangani Tuku afa asi nyaya dzirikubuda arikupfukirwa Daisy otherwise mutambo waakaita uyu anekwaakafamba ashupika akatonzi imboitira Mutukudzi bira pamwe zvinopera i think Daisy is going through a lot in the spiritual relm
Tuku is turning in his grave slowly revealing the truth. Imagine if he died while in the process of doing a trust, where did the will come from? That will must have been cooked up.
@@thejoemarspodcast it’s Zim anything is possible. How does one reconcile that initially there was no mention of a will but trust documents that were being processed at the time of Tuku’s death according to what Sandra and Selmor said. All of a sudden only to find out through the Herald later that a will had been left yet the lawyer who initially spoke to the family stated that there was no will? It just leaves me with more questions than answers.
@@thejoemarspodcast so true maybe they wanted to keep the peace and just to confirm what they said from the interview that it was not about zvinhu but they just want to be loved and included as part of the family especially in events concerning their father. So I believe them when they say they don’t care about the inheritance. Maybe that’s why they didn’t contest it.
Please use your platform to promote/advocate the importance of writing a will or plan in place in the event one passes away. It’s a conversation that most people avoid but is necessary. Speak to your wives, speak to your husbands, speak to your loved ones so that if you die today things are in place and in order. You said you have three girls… I hope you start to process and realise the importance
People should learn never to judge . Everything you seen or cannot see happens for a reason. Media destroyed celebraties' life thankfully podcast provide an opportunity for people to hear the other side of the story. NEVER JUGDE thus lesson 1. Never consume narratives from the media ....
Wise words , correct your names its Sandra n Selmar How dare Dhezi do such cruel to give cook dogs food Kwanai nd also give this kids , evil stepmother . Dhezi God is watching u.
Thanx bro for realizing your mistake, imagine a whole man working for over 60 yrs for his children and at the end they get a Barrett and a track bottom just bcz a certain popular woman said their father had nothing
The reality of isthembo barika polygamous family. Men have a lot to learn about children and women. One can be so blinded to reality that he does not see. There are those who were abused by stepparents and those who abused the step parents. Growing up outside your parents has MANY CHALLENGES
But isthembo can actually be good as it brings the family and kids together. When the father dies, most polygamous leave a will and everyone is included because there are there and included in the daily lives of the family...
The poor man may have lived under the manipulation and control of a very evil 😈 NARCISSISTIC BEAST. It's not just varume who are NARCISSISTIC. It can be worse if it's from a woman. Rest in peace Tuku
When you listen to the girls talking you don't need a scientist to know it's true , the eloquence of Samatha compared to selmor and Sandra yohhh there was bias for sure but the two girls will come up stronger
When all this is said what are the siblings to tuku saying about these allegations and melody is alive and given the reality that Daisy dies today who will inherit the estate of tuku since there's this narrative that they are ladies and tuku left no son
I went through a lot in the hands of my mainini mukadzi wababa mudiki muni'ngina wababa. And at some point I feel like confronting her but ndinotya kuzonzi unonyeba but i know all of my family nevavakidzane vanozviziva. I try to not cry about it but I'm failing. Those who judge the Mutukudzi girls it's because you were raised by your mum and dad so you know nothing about this kind of stories.
@@sindy308 but dont let it inside for too long, one day is too long. Confront her and tell her how you feel, dont touch her but your words will hurt her and make her rethink her ways
@thejoemarspodcast true ini i still want to know why my stepmom ill treated me, it's unfortunate is is late. But i want closure from the maid who was used to make my life hell in her presence and when shes away
Sweetheart, from one abused person to another pray about it release her and forgive her otherwise it will even affect your relationships years later. Write her a letter if you have to. You also need to forgive the person who was supposed to protect you which in my case I needed to forgive my father because just like Oliver he watched while his wife mistreated us. To this day ndine kamwe karough kandinoita even to my own kids and I am thankful Mweya Mutsvene unonditsuraa nekundidzora
We use professionalism to hide our biases, subjectivity, cruelty and prejudices.
Thank 🎉you 💕 my brother that's what should be done ,to try and tell people the truth.
I have subscribed to your channel because of your humbleness and apologetic message
Thank you
You gained a Subscriber for being man enough to admit you are revising your thoughts on this Mtukudzi Family debate. That interview was deeep from the hearts of those ladies..& for those Girls to get a hat & a track-suit from Tuku's Estate, made me sick to my tummy.
Thus being human bamunini.Zvinorwadza kuti mainini vavo Daisy havasi kurepenter .Varikuramba vachi treater vana zviri wrong .Let's call sin by its name.Daisy is evil and unrepentant
The story needs a movie teddie
I had no choice but to subscribe for taking this stance
So sad these Tuku's children really suffered in the hands of that witch Dhaizi especially Sandra she went thru a lot guys
In my opinion these girls were left an important inheritance by their father which can never be erased.
They are great musicians with great voices.
It’s up to them to use this intangible gift they received from their father
People cry not because they are weak but because they have been strong for too long
That's true
Indeed.
Thank you
❤ you bro. I experienced 5 times that nonsense.
I have subscribed to your channel coz of apologising to the girls l love them nw more than ever
@@leahgushu thank you!
Mutukudzi was one of the best musicians in the world and listening to that conversations it touched me
I thought all was well with the family not knowing kuti chakafukidza dzimba matenga
Zviri mukati zvakaoma
But Amai avo ngavaite mushe kana kungotyawo Mwari
U gained my subscription
That interview touched me I didn't even finish it. I send healing energy to those girls. - Oliver Mtukudzi may have been under the control of a narcissist. If you have to send your kids money in hiding... who the man?
And under the control of such people you might not really see it. Life is tough out there
Zvinonzi munhu anopfuka vanhu havazvinzwisise ndokutipfuka kwake ikoko cz hapana aiziva Kuti ndomarara miro avakaita but chandoziva Mwari chaivo vane nguva yavo
Taura hako panemakore mangani Tuku afa asi nyaya dzirikubuda arikupfukirwa Daisy otherwise mutambo waakaita uyu anekwaakafamba ashupika akatonzi imboitira Mutukudzi bira pamwe zvinopera i think Daisy is going through a lot in the spiritual relm
Listen to 1999 song Amai Varamba unonzwa kuti Tuku waitaura ne music yake
His music is loaded with what he was going through but he could not deal with it in real life.
Tuku is turning in his grave slowly revealing the truth. Imagine if he died while in the process of doing a trust, where did the will come from? That will must have been cooked up.
@@Millieped How does the law work really.
Tuku did a song called, Pfuma yenhaka inoparadza hukama... And it did for his case
@@thejoemarspodcast it’s Zim anything is possible. How does one reconcile that initially there was no mention of a will but trust documents that were being processed at the time of Tuku’s death according to what Sandra and Selmor said. All of a sudden only to find out through the Herald later that a will had been left yet the lawyer who initially spoke to the family stated that there was no will? It just leaves me with more questions than answers.
@@Millieped Sandra and Selmor where supposed to contest that will, maybe vanga vasingadewo but it was important
@@thejoemarspodcast so true maybe they wanted to keep the peace and just to confirm what they said from the interview that it was not about zvinhu but they just want to be loved and included as part of the family especially in events concerning their father. So I believe them when they say they don’t care about the inheritance. Maybe that’s why they didn’t contest it.
It is good that you did not take an absolute position, and you realized what other were realizing
Listening is also very important as well as having an opinion
Please use your platform to promote/advocate the importance of writing a will or plan in place in the event one passes away. It’s a conversation that most people avoid but is necessary. Speak to your wives, speak to your husbands, speak to your loved ones so that if you die today things are in place and in order. You said you have three girls… I hope you start to process and realise the importance
U just earned a subscriber for being humble enough to apologise
Thank you my dear
Tuku is Fighting for her kids from the grave
@@lenso3757 Indeed.
Thank you for being an African man and remembering the spiritual life that mist of us ignore
The spirits are alive.
Justice must be done to Selmor and Sandra
@@violamakaza9486 I agree.
People should learn never to judge . Everything you seen or cannot see happens for a reason. Media destroyed celebraties' life thankfully podcast provide an opportunity for people to hear the other side of the story. NEVER JUGDE thus lesson 1. Never consume narratives from the media ....
So true my guy.
Mahure ndozvaari izvozvo those girls suffered a lot even nw nekuda kwezikvana hure ronyepa kuti rakaroorwa riri mhandara njaaa mgodoyi.
Ranga rakadyisa mutukudzi zimukadzi iri
Wise words , correct your names its Sandra n Selmar
How dare Dhezi do such cruel to give cook dogs food Kwanai nd also give this kids , evil stepmother . Dhezi God is watching u.
True, there are times when I mixed the names but am happy you got the story right. Karma is real
Thanx bro for realizing your mistake, imagine a whole man working for over 60 yrs for his children and at the end they get a Barrett and a track bottom just bcz a certain popular woman said their father had nothing
The reality of isthembo barika polygamous family. Men have a lot to learn about children and women. One can be so blinded to reality that he does not see. There are those who were abused by stepparents and those who abused the step parents. Growing up outside your parents has MANY CHALLENGES
But isthembo can actually be good as it brings the family and kids together. When the father dies, most polygamous leave a will and everyone is included because there are there and included in the daily lives of the family...
The poor man may have lived under the manipulation and control of a very evil 😈 NARCISSISTIC BEAST. It's not just varume who are NARCISSISTIC. It can be worse if it's from a woman. Rest in peace Tuku
When you listen to the girls talking you don't need a scientist to know it's true , the eloquence of Samatha compared to selmor and Sandra yohhh there was bias for sure but the two girls will come up stronger
Next time raise your voice veduwee
That was not Samantha it was Sandra bro
Danko, i noticed that mistake thank you.
Its Sandra and not Samantha Joe
Your ears are sharp. Ndazozvinzwa nda poster
Sandra and Selmor not Samantha
Please get the names right.Its Sandra not Samantha
I agree, the Sandra Samantha names got the best of me. You guys listen thoroughly man!
When all this is said what are the siblings to tuku saying about these allegations and melody is alive and given the reality that Daisy dies today who will inherit the estate of tuku since there's this narrative that they are ladies and tuku left no son
Sadly it will go to a daughters husband's son
Sandra is the one who is a photocopy of Tuku not Samantha
True. Ndakavhiringidza maZita
Evil thrives when good people do nothing. We have deep culture of sweeping evil under the carpet.
@@rabeccamhandire5341 indeed, but if history is a teacher, we should by now know how to deal with these issues and let them out!
SANDRA NOT SAMANTHA 😢😢
Munoti Nengomasha ndiye aizogona Samantha
Kana uri seriously apologizing mafollowers ako ngaise $ dolar mundiro titengere Selmor mota ini ndikuisa $5yangu yandachida kutenga data
@@SIBUSISIWETANJANI ingovhura donation campaign yacho utange waisa $5 yako