We are very broken Sis. Shu, I am still scared to share my own. I am afraid of what it will do to her, the way I have had to learn to manage her emotions all my life, I have made mine invalid. Hearing you share your own experience, even from the other videos, has made mine valid. It's a brave thing to do. We barely speak about how this kind of relationship with our mothers can create complex relationships with your siblings especially when they've only been dealt a more gentler and loving hand than you've been. I relate to you on siblings having a different experience than your own, I feel I would be ostracised if I were to share. Thank you for holding a safe space for those ready to speak. You are going to help heal so many women who don't talk loud and open about this mother and daughter wound. I am glad God found your heart for this brave assignment to tell the story for all of us.
Said a mouthful even without the specifics. But I believe that because unlike them, we can acknowledge there's a challenge/invisible rift, we are in a good position to do better and heal the situations.
The most painful part is when you are labelled; a rebel, illmannered, ungrateful and a LIAR. Toxic mothers have a way of recruiting a team that makes it a full time job to turn against you "enablers". Then people throw around blanket statements "no mother will ever do that to thier child" my only hope is now left in God and judgement day, until then I am mothering myself and I've been doing a good job with little me shem. I've become such a brave and focused girlie ❤
This makes me appreciate my mom even more, till this day, she pushes all 4 of us to greater heights and celebrates our wins. But with my mamazala I got the shock of my life as it didn't make sense how can a mother be so cold to some of her own children and love and spoil others, no sign of emotion, no support, just demands money that she doesn't even know or care how these children get it. I've been married for almost 10yrs with 2 kids (age 6 and 3), mamazala has never bothered to visit, has never met my kids and tried to destroy our marriage by forming relationships with hubby's ex and announcing her as the makoti to family and neighbour's in the village, all this done without hubby's involvement. I'married to a son she never loved, but wanted money from every month. we stopped visiting before we had kids after we noticed we were not welcomed. the eldest daughters are treated the same way as hubby and the younger kids she adores them. Looking forward to the show, I have to share with the Big sisters, praying it will help a lot of people to heal ❤
I nominate uSamke from this body works for me nomamakhe because that relationship alone can teach a lot of mothers and daughters a lot. Im sure some relationships are bad but leya yona. It needs the nation to intervene
Very emotional topic Nozi 😢 However, we have to learn and accept our broken mothers as our parents. We can't change our parents. Being born again helped me a lot in dealing with my toxic mom because if it wasn't for the guidance and comfort of the Holy Spirit I would have handled her differently. May her soul rest in peace. Congratulations for the new journey 🎉🎉
Yhooo...I am just getting emotional myself watching and hearing snippets from your own experiences with uMama. We really, really have/had serious challenges as daughters with our mothers. Without it being an excuse, we see our mothers' different traumas and life challenges through how they are with us.I always say ke transference that have to take place, but unfortunately, we are the punching bags and recipients of all this hurt. My prayer always:may we do our best to detox the hurt ourselves by using different platforms that we know and have access to. And work on our healing because, we cannot continue the vicious cycle. God be with us, our moms and continue to walk with us 🙏 🙌 ❤️ Thanks Nozi for accepting this opportunity and doing something about to help change the narrative ❤
I think this show will heal so many relationships in some way. I pray God guides you in this journey. I pray that the mothers and daughters that come to or watch this show will be open minded and understand that they are human and the aim is restore peace and heal. We love you sis Nozi❤️ may God continue to use you as a vessel❤️🫂
So true...I agree with your sentiments.when you say may God guide her in this ..may the almighty truly truly guide Nozi in this... Amazing show concept
Yhooo Nozi I'm in tears as I watch you talking we are very broken cc just recent my mom took me back to those emotions i shaved under the carpets. Big up cc this is very powerful than you think.God may continue gives you the wisdom.
I appreciate you for sharing your own story, thank you. Healing one mother and daughter relationship at a time. UThixo ahambe phambi kwakho ❤🙏🙌. And congratulations 👏 on the new Show.
Beautiful thing I've learnt is, as siblings we are all raised by difference parents. Who your mother is with you will be a different woman when raising your siblings years later, firstly are grown and have learnt different ways if parenting.
I think our parents were raised in homes of no showing emotion or love and it’s very sad that they also took upon that road, I’m glad sis’ Nozi you’ve learnt from it and you’re a very loving person beyond the experience 🫂
My mother is like your mother she doesn't show emotion 🙄 vele akubuke nje athule yoh and ubaba ❤ yoh God bless this man....he even jumps and hugs abe nale joy....mama is like yours uyaphoxana .
Zama, ideally it would be easy to bash and see how wrong that is especially from a Mom. But mina it makes me wonder what happened for her to get to that place where her emotions are unreadable. That picture nje sounds like that of a person who continues to carry her own demons from the past and they are interfering with her present life and that of being an incredible mom. We say we need therapy, but in reality our mothers need it the most although a lot of them won't agree because of the world they are trapped in!
You actually told us the story of the bursary money🥺 I wish parents understood certain things. I have a question when do you know that you should go to therapy? Childhood trauma or memories are so daunting and painful sometimes, especially if you are person that sweeps things under the carpet😭typing this makes me so emotional😭
Thank you so much Nozi for this and thank God for you indeed you're blessed to be a blessing. My mom passed away when I was 14 years old. This show will help me to be a better mom to my 3 beautiful daughters. Looking forward to the show.🎉
" There's something about being a first time mom that makes you reflect on your childhood" I relate so much it hurts It was only after I gave birth that I got angry at how my mother raised myself and my sisters I was so tired of being angry, I spoke to her when my daughter was two years old All I wanted was an apology and for her acknowledge her mistakes Instead she made herself a victim This topic hurts so much. I've accepted that andina mama, ngok ekhona ephila. Living her best life eGqeberha I don't talk about this to anyone, I only opened up to my partner 8 years into our relationship. That's how deep it is
We can`t wait to watch that Show of our favorite one and only Sis Nozibele😊 the excitement i have right now knowing that something big is coming from you 🤩2024 is Already showing us good things that he has stored for abantwana bakhe, may you shy and be that Lighting Star to many☺
OMG you reminding me of my mother if it wasn't for therapy I don't know where I will be. During a day like mother's day it becomes worse as people are talking beautifully about their moms it heartbreaking for me because I don't have that relationship with my mom.
This makes me so happy and so emotional at the same time. We are indeed broken, and I feel like it has stopped some of us to become mothers ourselves as we don’t want to repeat what we had to go through as kids. Thank you, Mrs M, for saying YES to GOD to use in anyway HE wanted too. 🌷🌷🌹🌹🌺🌺💖💖❤❤
Go for it Sis Nozi! Very Necessary! Though it hurts keh sana know that God is the one that has appointed you to be who you are,even before you entered her womb! God decided qha! Be encouraged!❤❤❤❤ God is very very proud of you,in the end that is all that matters.
U a praying woman, let God guide u as this is a very sensitive topic. Remember God wants familieis 2 b united & joyful. Satan wants the opposite,so this program will b actual tearing his kingdom. Pray mo harder ke cc, lachap dsnt wanna b touched in his kingdom. Thank u 4 availing urself 2 b used by God. God is with u cc,Emmanuel!!!!!
Sana am so happy for you I could not hold back tears 😭🙌🏽. Thank you so much for always being so real and vulnerable and relatable. You are brave. And sibonga umamakho for not asking you to stop talking about her 😊.
We are proud of everything you have achieved so far mama kaLumz🥰🥰.. Looking forward to watch your new show, I know it will be triggering for many including myself..
You are so brave for sharing your story. I'm just tempted to know how sis Fez takes it if she is aware of you sharing about your personal experience. Please do share.
I stopped expecting an “I’m proud of you” from my mother or dad. I just distance myself now. We speak once a month. I go visit once a year. I like my peace.
So sorry for daughters and mothers' relationships that are broken. I pray for healing. It's so sad to have such a mother. Your mom sounds so jealous of you! The fact that she wanted to switch opportunities between you and your brother. Wins must be celebrated and we need to teach our kids that even if you're not yet where you are, if other siblings win, you celebrate.
Just by watching im in tears. Im so broken and not ready to share in public. Good show it will be. I would like to watch everyday but ill skip all the episodes because im not emotional ready, tears will overflow i know. I dont think ill ever heal
Eish I'm going through a lot. I'm mentally affected. We experience our parents differently. I have done everything under the sun to provide for my mom, I don't think anything will be enough.
😢😢😢 you are so prophetic Nozi I was thinking about this for long and it's painful, I wish oomama bangayazi indlela abasibulala ngayo emotional uzame yonke into tjoooooo uBawo akusikelele sisi le Topic very sensitive I support you ❤❤❤❤
Hi Nozi haven't even hear what's this vlog about, but on reading some of the comments I think it will hit home in a big way. Don't think I comment enough on your vlogs but the end of your cousin's child matric farewell, I was gobsmacked with the honesty you spoke of on the same subject, which is of taboo in nature. Therefore enkosi cc, ewe uzakuhletywa ecaweni as before that's okay, you're healing us, go on with all taboo subjects especially as black community we go through the most, especially women kuthwa ncuma noba nyembezi ziyehla, bazakucimba zezovuyo🥺🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ well done nana❤😊🙏🏽😢
Wish you'd have the tine to see a counselling expert who will give you pointers on how to not get triggered or choose sides as a presenter. That will be very important because when you start to see yourself in some situations it might be q problem that you don't even hear out the parents because you want them to be apologetic something you yourself have not gotten. I don't want to shock you but there might be alot of non apologetic moms who believe they were doing their best.
Hey sana jonga!!!!! I resonate very well with your story. its a pity my mom and sister are both no more but ke sana i have alot to tell shem struu bob🤞.
Yoh we really need to heal from the toxic relationship we've had with the moms. Sometimes u can't even tell whether like for real she's ever loved you, cos it feels like we owing them a lifetime debt, and they are never appreciative. That's why I ve automatically become my fathers daughter. When my friends would talk of their moms I would always b talking abt my dad.
I'm so moved just by the intro of the show. This will bring healing to many people; the guest, viewers and hopefully for you too sisi. May the good Lord give you strength. Enkosi.
Yhoooo sis Nozi this is really going to help a lot of mother's and daughter's. I myself have some experience's with my mom where she was so hard me to a point that I thought something was wrong with me😢. Yhaaaa ne !!! Inkosi ibe nawe sisi akuphe amandla for this show🎉❤🥳🙏
Hi Nozi, I'm definitely with you in this journey, unfortunately my mom has passed, and I understand that, this is all about relationships in general, they are difficult. All the best sisi
Let us pray for her and this program...whilst she's also still healing 🙏 from her childhood but yet she is strong enough to help other mothers and daughters ❤
Yooh sesi..mother and daughter traumas.they are for real .im currently going through it as we speak.its been a month not calling my mom coz im being accused of stealing something for her during the christmas holidays,not the first....this mothers they mostly choose their male kids .it really hurts deep..we are broken sesi
Yhooo nozie wish bendine sbindi bendizoba part yale show but thank you for this show izosinceda kulamanxeba esikuyo awavumi uphola tuu noba uthi uyadlulisa kubakho lento iphinda ikubuyisele emva
The truth of the is their upbringing that end up affecting us they didn’t go for concealing. My mother will always talk about her past but it very hard for her to forgive. While she is treating me the way they treat her before without her acknowledging that she is hurting me God made a way for me cause I don’t kneel and pry I just tell him about my situation. He spoke to me about forgiving her and leave everything to him he will take care. I am so great ful to God slowly she becoming a better person day by day but God is not finish yet
Yooo Nozi very sensitive subject ....our parents, sliblings and our spouse's....all broken ....I thought 2023 was for healing clearly it's along journey to healing 😂😂 we a seriously broken is funny
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉congrats Mamaka Lumz the way im so affected by this topic but yeeeeey im not ready to open that door yet , but i have a feeling that this show is going to heal a lot of us ❤❤❤❤
😢😢Aah Nozi, may God bless you and keep elevating you, quick question are you going to try address your issues with your mom on the show I think it would be really good to see😊
Yhooo Nozi inzima le topic Sana yhooo.. We are really a wounded nation shame. Mna Andifuni noyiqala shame, I don't even remember the last time I had a decent conversation with my mom.. I'm a mom of 3 with no support at all from my mom... She hardly ever asks abt my kids.. Don't even remember ebathengela ne panty le and yes she works yhoooo😢😢😢... all I can do is focus on my own healing, be a better mom to my kids and move on yaz😢😢😢
Kuzophuma izigaqa bajike abazali baziphike bezenza abangayaziyo😂😅😢 Thixo safa ngoba honest no shar(a) itruth yethu. Asoze ndize aphoo kuwe ecouchini mna Nozi because ndingathukwa ndidityaniswe nawe alibale noba usetivini ube ungangenindawo ke wena, 😂 ndizakubukela apha echouchini yendlu yam ndimana ngongqina ndivume, ndicommente ndilike😂 Anyway I love you sisi, keep up the good work 😊 All the way 🇺🇸. I miss home(PE)
Me too mntase it went as far as recruiting my aunts ukhumbule ke ndingu mntana we ntombi so ndilelo Lolo kengok liliphixiphixi lingena bani but my rainbow and sunshine is my husband God knows how to balance akafuni nova ngam umyeni wam it's been 10 years but umanyoko still says uzondiphoxa imagine! instead of andivuyele
uThixo usithandile kodwa ngokusidalela wena,you are our blessing Nozi,we love you❤
We are very broken Sis. Shu, I am still scared to share my own. I am afraid of what it will do to her, the way I have had to learn to manage her emotions all my life, I have made mine invalid. Hearing you share your own experience, even from the other videos, has made mine valid. It's a brave thing to do. We barely speak about how this kind of relationship with our mothers can create complex relationships with your siblings especially when they've only been dealt a more gentler and loving hand than you've been. I relate to you on siblings having a different experience than your own, I feel I would be ostracised if I were to share. Thank you for holding a safe space for those ready to speak. You are going to help heal so many women who don't talk loud and open about this mother and daughter wound. I am glad God found your heart for this brave assignment to tell the story for all of us.
I’m sooo sorry cc🫂🫂🫂❤❤❤
Yho hay Sana mna andazi noba ndiqale ndithini 🥺
🫂 I’m sorry sibling.you matter
I don't even know where to start Nozi when it comes to my relationship with my mum and my siblings
Said a mouthful even without the specifics. But I believe that because unlike them, we can acknowledge there's a challenge/invisible rift, we are in a good position to do better and heal the situations.
The most painful part is when you are labelled; a rebel, illmannered, ungrateful and a LIAR. Toxic mothers have a way of recruiting a team that makes it a full time job to turn against you "enablers". Then people throw around blanket statements "no mother will ever do that to thier child" my only hope is now left in God and judgement day, until then I am mothering myself and I've been doing a good job with little me shem. I've become such a brave and focused girlie ❤
Relate to each and every word you say
I've been called that by my own mother😢😢and she even said I think I am better 😭
This makes me appreciate my mom even more, till this day, she pushes all 4 of us to greater heights and celebrates our wins. But with my mamazala I got the shock of my life as it didn't make sense how can a mother be so cold to some of her own children and love and spoil others, no sign of emotion, no support, just demands money that she doesn't even know or care how these children get it. I've been married for almost 10yrs with 2 kids (age 6 and 3), mamazala has never bothered to visit, has never met my kids and tried to destroy our marriage by forming relationships with hubby's ex and announcing her as the makoti to family and neighbour's in the village, all this done without hubby's involvement. I'married to a son she never loved, but wanted money from every month. we stopped visiting before we had kids after we noticed we were not welcomed. the eldest daughters are treated the same way as hubby and the younger kids she adores them. Looking forward to the show, I have to share with the Big sisters, praying it will help a lot of people to heal ❤
You deserve the life you’re living and much much more Lumi’s mama❤ idk any Xhosa words but kaloku🌚 so kaloku🤪❤️😊
😂 I’m a Tswana in Botswana and also enjoying the Xhosa so much 🤣. I do still need to know what kaloko means 😂, favorite word 😂
@@achatwithgoitse 🤣
The world is ready for you Nozi, may the good Lord continue to give you wisdom
Put that Gqeberha flag high MakaLums❤we love you inceba kaBawo ingemki kwelokhaya🙏😇
I nominate uSamke from this body works for me nomamakhe because that relationship alone can teach a lot of mothers and daughters a lot. Im sure some relationships are bad but leya yona. It needs the nation to intervene
Very emotional topic Nozi 😢 However, we have to learn and accept our broken mothers as our parents. We can't change our parents. Being born again helped me a lot in dealing with my toxic mom because if it wasn't for the guidance and comfort of the Holy Spirit I would have handled her differently. May her soul rest in peace.
Congratulations for the new journey 🎉🎉
Yhooo...I am just getting emotional myself watching and hearing snippets from your own experiences with uMama.
We really, really have/had serious challenges as daughters with our mothers. Without it being an excuse, we see our mothers' different traumas and life challenges through how they are with us.I always say ke transference that have to take place, but unfortunately, we are the punching bags and recipients of all this hurt.
My prayer always:may we do our best to detox the hurt ourselves by using different platforms that we know and have access to. And work on our healing because, we cannot continue the vicious cycle.
God be with us, our moms and continue to walk with us 🙏 🙌 ❤️
Thanks Nozi for accepting this opportunity and doing something about to help change the narrative ❤
I think this show will heal so many relationships in some way. I pray God guides you in this journey. I pray that the mothers and daughters that come to or watch this show will be open minded and understand that they are human and the aim is restore peace and heal. We love you sis Nozi❤️ may God continue to use you as a vessel❤️🫂
So true...I agree with your sentiments.when you say may God guide her in this ..may the almighty truly truly guide Nozi in this... Amazing show concept
Hei... I'd love to watch this show and see how mother and daughters humble themselve. Because the wounds are deep.
Yhooo Nozi I'm in tears as I watch you talking we are very broken cc just recent my mom took me back to those emotions i shaved under the carpets. Big up cc this is very powerful than you think.God may continue gives you the wisdom.
I appreciate you for sharing your own story, thank you. Healing one mother and daughter relationship at a time. UThixo ahambe phambi kwakho ❤🙏🙌. And congratulations 👏 on the new Show.
U deserve a talk show cc ❤️❤️
Beautiful thing I've learnt is, as siblings we are all raised by difference parents. Who your mother is with you will be a different woman when raising your siblings years later, firstly are grown and have learnt different ways if parenting.
The first born is always the experiment.my mom is amazing,her husband is the nightmare.
I think our parents were raised in homes of no showing emotion or love and it’s very sad that they also took upon that road, I’m glad sis’ Nozi you’ve learnt from it and you’re a very loving person beyond the experience 🫂
Can't wait for the show,praying for some kind of closure and a good fresh start to mend what was broken. All the best Sis Nozi.❤
My mother is like your mother she doesn't show emotion 🙄 vele akubuke nje athule yoh and ubaba ❤ yoh God bless this man....he even jumps and hugs abe nale joy....mama is like yours uyaphoxana .
Zama, ideally it would be easy to bash and see how wrong that is especially from a Mom. But mina it makes me wonder what happened for her to get to that place where her emotions are unreadable.
That picture nje sounds like that of a person who continues to carry her own demons from the past and they are interfering with her present life and that of being an incredible mom.
We say we need therapy, but in reality our mothers need it the most although a lot of them won't agree because of the world they are trapped in!
This is so powerful sisi,a lot of people will be healed.Thank you
You actually told us the story of the bursary money🥺
I wish parents understood certain things. I have a question when do you know that you should go to therapy? Childhood trauma or memories are so daunting and painful sometimes, especially if you are person that sweeps things under the carpet😭typing this makes me so emotional😭
If watching her made you emotional it means you are triggered sana, and going to therapy might come in very, very handy.
Kurough...stay blessed ❤
We're here for such a time as this. You touch my heart sis Nozi. We've been broken by words and actions that have left us doubting ourselves.
You are God sent. You are amazing. You are great and an inspiration. I love you ❤
proud proud proud! I'm a proud follower! Proud of you sisi!
hi from Namiba
keep it up Noz..........
Thank you so much Nozi for this and thank God for you indeed you're blessed to be a blessing. My mom passed away when I was 14 years old. This show will help me to be a better mom to my 3 beautiful daughters. Looking forward to the show.🎉
" There's something about being a first time mom that makes you reflect on your childhood"
I relate so much it hurts
It was only after I gave birth that I got angry at how my mother raised myself and my sisters
I was so tired of being angry, I spoke to her when my daughter was two years old
All I wanted was an apology and for her acknowledge her mistakes
Instead she made herself a victim
This topic hurts so much.
I've accepted that andina mama, ngok ekhona ephila. Living her best life eGqeberha
I don't talk about this to anyone, I only opened up to my partner 8 years into our relationship. That's how deep it is
We can`t wait to watch that Show of our favorite one and only Sis Nozibele😊 the excitement i have right now knowing that something big is coming from you 🤩2024 is Already showing us good things that he has stored for abantwana bakhe, may you shy and be that Lighting Star to many☺
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OMG you reminding me of my mother if it wasn't for therapy I don't know where I will be. During a day like mother's day it becomes worse as people are talking beautifully about their moms it heartbreaking for me because I don't have that relationship with my mom.
The way love your space ,is because you are real mama.I relate with you …may God indeed grow you yho!❤❤
Yessss ❤❤❤blessings on blessings this year 🙌🏾🙏🏾
This makes me so happy and so emotional at the same time. We are indeed broken, and I feel like it has stopped some of us to become mothers ourselves as we don’t want to repeat what we had to go through as kids. Thank you, Mrs M, for saying YES to GOD to use in anyway HE wanted too. 🌷🌷🌹🌹🌺🌺💖💖❤❤
Go for it Sis Nozi! Very Necessary! Though it hurts keh sana know that God is the one that has appointed you to be who you are,even before you entered her womb! God decided qha! Be encouraged!❤❤❤❤ God is very very proud of you,in the end that is all that matters.
U are a blessing I love your content so much
i am just a sotho girl who fell in love with you xhosa lazy. you are a true inspiration
Huge congratulations Sis Nozi🥂
I pray uThixo akupholise amanxeba as you help others heal❤❤❤Love you loads
Yoh this really got to me ey😢 just thinking how I grew up whereas my mom was still around. Thinking of it breaks my heart 💔
You deserve such blessing makaLumz 🎉❤
This is so powerful.. all the very best with the Show. ❤
Nozi you are one brave person I know, May the Lord continue to use you Cc........ Stay blessed
U a praying woman, let God guide u as this is a very sensitive topic. Remember God wants familieis 2 b united & joyful. Satan wants the opposite,so this program will b actual tearing his kingdom. Pray mo harder ke cc, lachap dsnt wanna b touched in his kingdom. Thank u 4 availing urself 2 b used by God.
God is with u cc,Emmanuel!!!!!
This is will help a lot of us heal. I can't say much but I'm so looking forward too the show.😘
Sana am so happy for you I could not hold back tears 😭🙌🏽. Thank you so much for always being so real and vulnerable and relatable. You are brave. And sibonga umamakho for not asking you to stop talking about her 😊.
Yhoooo haysana cc Nozi akvise kabhlungu umzali xa uzibhekelisa kwimeko enjalo athi ngumoyomdaka 🙆🤔like seriously 😔yhooo hay
Congratulations Nozi we can't wait to watch the show 🎉❤
We need an episode of you Nozi and your Mum, I think you can also benefit
We are proud of everything you have achieved so far mama kaLumz🥰🥰.. Looking forward to watch your new show, I know it will be triggering for many including myself..
You are so brave for sharing your story. I'm just tempted to know how sis Fez takes it if she is aware of you sharing about your personal experience. Please do share.
I stopped expecting an “I’m proud of you” from my mother or dad. I just distance myself now. We speak once a month. I go visit once a year. I like my peace.
Can't wait to for the show..❤❤❤
Watching From PE❤️❤️❤️
Congratulations on the new show👏🎉🎊
So sorry for daughters and mothers' relationships that are broken. I pray for healing. It's so sad to have such a mother. Your mom sounds so jealous of you! The fact that she wanted to switch opportunities between you and your brother. Wins must be celebrated and we need to teach our kids that even if you're not yet where you are, if other siblings win, you celebrate.
I wish I had the courage to write in but I also deal with izwelakhe 😢😢😢 congratulations Sis Nozi
Whoop whoop 🎉 love you so much sis Nozi ❤
True when you become a parent the childhood traumas surface up and iyhoo one needs to go to therapy to heal for my son. Love you mama kaLumz❤❤❤
very true cc , it is not easy to just move on
Enkosi Nozie to bring up the issue. This channel is going to be very interesting and helpful ❤🙏
Im telling u
🎉Cheers to CTA, Cheers to sis Nozi🎉❤xx
Just by watching im in tears. Im so broken and not ready to share in public. Good show it will be. I would like to watch everyday but ill skip all the episodes because im not emotional ready, tears will overflow i know. I dont think ill ever heal
God is the healer of broken peaces...
God is a healer and is close to the broken hearted❤.
God is a healer and is close to the broken hearted. There's no wound heaven (God) cannot heal.
Eish I'm going through a lot. I'm mentally affected. We experience our parents differently. I have done everything under the sun to provide for my mom, I don't think anything will be enough.
😢😢😢 you are so prophetic Nozi I was thinking about this for long and it's painful, I wish oomama bangayazi indlela abasibulala ngayo emotional uzame yonke into tjoooooo uBawo akusikelele sisi le Topic very sensitive I support you ❤❤❤❤
I am looking forward to watch the show it will definitely help a lot of people, I wish I had the courage to share my story as well 😢😢
Hi Nozi haven't even hear what's this vlog about, but on reading some of the comments I think it will hit home in a big way. Don't think I comment enough on your vlogs but the end of your cousin's child matric farewell, I was gobsmacked with the honesty you spoke of on the same subject, which is of taboo in nature. Therefore enkosi cc, ewe uzakuhletywa ecaweni as before that's okay, you're healing us, go on with all taboo subjects especially as black community we go through the most, especially women kuthwa ncuma noba nyembezi ziyehla, bazakucimba zezovuyo🥺🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ well done nana❤😊🙏🏽😢
You are definitely doing the Lord's work!
I don't know if it's just me or what, but I think I'm seeing the results of your exercise & diet choices. Whoop whoop 🎉.
Wish you'd have the tine to see a counselling expert who will give you pointers on how to not get triggered or choose sides as a presenter. That will be very important because when you start to see yourself in some situations it might be q problem that you don't even hear out the parents because you want them to be apologetic something you yourself have not gotten. I don't want to shock you but there might be alot of non apologetic moms who believe they were doing their best.
Hey sana jonga!!!!! I resonate very well with your story. its a pity my mom and sister are both no more but ke sana i have alot to tell shem struu bob🤞.
Feels MakaLumz and the triggers sana kumane kusithi qatha uvele ubuyele umva
Yoh we really need to heal from the toxic relationship we've had with the moms. Sometimes u can't even tell whether like for real she's ever loved you, cos it feels like we owing them a lifetime debt, and they are never appreciative. That's why I ve automatically become my fathers daughter. When my friends would talk of their moms I would always b talking abt my dad.
It can go super deep Nozi, especially when you now introduce spirituality …. Something else altogether! Agh
Congrats makaLumi❤
We thank God for you Maka Lumz❤️
Thanks!
I'm so moved just by the intro of the show. This will bring healing to many people; the guest, viewers and hopefully for you too sisi. May the good Lord give you strength. Enkosi.
Thank you for this, I know now not to tell my mom izinto that I go through because my mom is emotionless. 😢
Yhoooo sis Nozi this is really going to help a lot of mother's and daughter's. I myself have some experience's with my mom where she was so hard me to a point that I thought something was wrong with me😢. Yhaaaa ne !!! Inkosi ibe nawe sisi akuphe amandla for this show🎉❤🥳🙏
Hi Nozi, I'm definitely with you in this journey, unfortunately my mom has passed, and I understand that, this is all about relationships in general, they are difficult. All the best sisi
Nozi we are so broken sisi. I can't wait for this show.
Yhoo that's very hard topic but it's also helping thanks Maka Lum Lum❤❤
Let us pray for her and this program...whilst she's also still healing 🙏 from her childhood but yet she is strong enough to help other mothers and daughters ❤
Yooh sesi..mother and daughter traumas.they are for real .im currently going through it as we speak.its been a month not calling my mom coz im being accused of stealing something for her during the christmas holidays,not the first....this mothers they mostly choose their male kids .it really hurts deep..we are broken sesi
Yhooo nozie wish bendine sbindi bendizoba part yale show but thank you for this show izosinceda kulamanxeba esikuyo awavumi uphola tuu noba uthi uyadlulisa kubakho lento iphinda ikubuyisele emva
The truth of the is their upbringing that end up affecting us they didn’t go for concealing. My mother will always talk about her past but it very hard for her to forgive. While she is treating me the way they treat her before without her acknowledging that she is hurting me God made a way for me cause I don’t kneel and pry I just tell him about my situation. He spoke to me about forgiving her and leave everything to him he will take care. I am so great ful to God slowly she becoming a better person day by day but God is not finish yet
Interesting show coming,i really hope you will be using English for the non-local community
Yooo Nozi very sensitive subject ....our parents, sliblings and our spouse's....all broken ....I thought 2023 was for healing clearly it's along journey to healing 😂😂 we a seriously broken is funny
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉congrats Mamaka Lumz the way im so affected by this topic but yeeeeey im not ready to open that door yet , but i have a feeling that this show is going to heal a lot of us ❤❤❤❤
We mic u mayaba family❤
❤sis Nozi ingilosi yethu yasemhlabeni, you are beyond the amazing word 👏 😊
😢😢Aah Nozi, may God bless you and keep elevating you, quick question are you going to try address your issues with your mom on the show I think it would be really good to see😊
Please Nozi... I just posted the same request.. if you can have it as the first.. please dear. Coz we in so much fear
Congratulations Nozi for your new show we will support you!❤❤
Yhooo Nozi inzima le topic Sana yhooo.. We are really a wounded nation shame. Mna Andifuni noyiqala shame, I don't even remember the last time I had a decent conversation with my mom.. I'm a mom of 3 with no support at all from my mom... She hardly ever asks abt my kids.. Don't even remember ebathengela ne panty le and yes she works yhoooo😢😢😢... all I can do is focus on my own healing, be a better mom to my kids and move on yaz😢😢😢
This is powerful Nozi keep up the good work 👏 ❤
Congratulations Mama ka lumz❤❤❤❤
Yhoo I'm really triggered shem it's a lot we are broken nyan😩😩
Nkulunkulu akwandisele akubusise akugcine nomndeni wakho inkulu le project ♥ ozoyiqala ukuhlanganisa o mama nama ndodakazi .we will pray for you
Thank you for saying Yes to God to continuously use you. ❤
I can relate to me sweeping my feelings under the carpet.
Congratulations Mama ka Lumi, can’t think of a better host ❤
Yhooo Nozi wena , yhooo!!! 🥹
You got this baby giiirl🔥🔥🔥
Kuzophuma izigaqa bajike abazali baziphike bezenza abangayaziyo😂😅😢 Thixo safa ngoba honest no shar(a) itruth yethu. Asoze ndize aphoo kuwe ecouchini mna Nozi because ndingathukwa ndidityaniswe nawe alibale noba usetivini ube ungangenindawo ke wena, 😂 ndizakubukela apha echouchini yendlu yam ndimana ngongqina ndivume, ndicommente ndilike😂 Anyway I love you sisi, keep up the good work 😊
All the way 🇺🇸. I miss home(PE)
Same 🤣🤣Gqiba kuthwe ulimenene eli khulu ufuna umenza umtu orongo aziwe by the whole world "rhaaa ukhohlakele linye icala lakho". 😂😂😂
@@amandajuba267”ufunundijongisa kakbi ngabantu” 😢 ngeloxesha aykhongaye ingawe. Hay ndaancama mna iAccontability aysebenzi kowam umama ndi guilt tripwa sendizbuza ba bendisiyaphi 😂😂
Me too mntase it went as far as recruiting my aunts ukhumbule ke ndingu mntana we ntombi so ndilelo Lolo kengok liliphixiphixi lingena bani but my rainbow and sunshine is my husband God knows how to balance akafuni nova ngam umyeni wam it's been 10 years but umanyoko still says uzondiphoxa imagine! instead of andivuyele