Bahar ke log chahe kuch bhi karein , uska impact utna nhi padta .... But jb khud ke parents hi humein nhi samjhte , din raat taane dete hn , humesha aginst mein khade rhte hn .....then believe me insaan tut jata hai andar se
Family wale padhne ko mana nhi krte h but vo yeh nhi samjhte ki yeh koi school ka exam nhi h vo ghate ya 2 ghate padhne se clear ho jaega , I am doing partime job as a teacher I thought I'll give rest of the time to preparation and it's not like that I don't help my mom at home I do help coz she takes coaching classes..... for eg I prepare evening meal and other small things but my Father wants me to help her in morning also then when will I study mujhe life time yhi job thodi krne h morning time sabse effective study hoti h mere din ko job se aane ke baad I feel tired coz mera health issues bhi h I have PCOS so my body starts paining badly but usme bhi unko lgta hai mai drama krte hu emotional support h nhi jab demotivated feel hota hai tab lgta h kisi Ko hug krke roo lu but pillow hi hota h aur raat ko pdhne dete nhi h karu tau karu kya.....kuch bolu tau bolte h padhke ehsann nhi kr rhi sab padhte h 😞I am teared up while writing this 😖but kuch bhi ho I'll never give up on my dreams 🥺
🥲... You don't deserve to be treated like this... Actually no one deserves... But parents kbhi nhi smjhege..... Khud hi stand lena hoga apne liye... Wrna puri lyf inka sunte sunte nikl jygi apna career b nhi milega hme... And even after all tb b parents khush nhi hone wale.... They be like ldkia esi krti h sbki unko dusre ghr jana h ghrka kam jruri h unke liye..... It's never going to end this way!
सच्ची सर हर लड़की को ये बात सुननी पड़ती है की तुम पराया धन हो , i teary say now i suffering from this situation isliye आपके इस video se bahut help Mili है sir thank you so much 🥺🥺
Kabhi kabhi ye lagta hai ki hum ladkiya mabaap ke liye bhoz hai jo humare shadi ke baad uter gayega that's why wo hamari shadi ke pichhe pade rahte hai kabhi hamare sapne nahi dekhte but yeh cheez ladko ke mamale me nahi hoti
I have tears in my eyes. I m suffering physically, mentally and emotionally due to daily fighting with toxic family members. This video gave me booster confidence to focus on my career.Every word is so much relatable. Thank u so much sir 🙏🙏🙏
दुःख और depression में आकर देखा था ये video.... लेकिन अब मैं उत्साह से भरपूर हूँ जिसे ऐसे लोगों के बीच रहकर saflta के लिए संघर्ष करना आ गया है। बेशर्म बनना पड़ेगा।
My toxic mother is like I will not buy u books.. lemme c how u study..I borrowed books and completed school😂😂 she tore my notes just before my exams and said lemme said how u pass 🤣I used cello tape 😜 then she is like I will not give u money..lemme c how u continue ur studies 😜😜 grabbed job 😉😂😉 Honestly I cried every single day since childhood but I didn't let her Gaslight me..but sir I couldn't use her resources that's y I m late in completing my education but sir I think I m in the right path❤️🔥
@@AnubhavJain thanku sir it means a lot to me😀 I feel one has to be social enough to deal with such toxic parents. My frnds were always my biggest support. Though some of them are now jealous of my success but some of them are still there ☺️ I know some girls with such toxic parents who chose to get married 🤣 as they believe it's their escape and now convincing me to do so as " A rajkumar will be my savior 🙆"I wish they come across ur videos❤️ U r a blessing to our so called sanskari society which resides in the myth of 'bhagwan k saman mata pita' 😌😌😌
@@shristi_jii right now working as an english teacher 😀 but I have done some odd jobs before this to support myself financially. But now I m happy with all kids around. 😍😍😍 Couldn't save mine but wanna preserve their innocence 😘
Sir mere sath ye prblm hh ki matlab meri family me kisi ko iss baat se fark hi nhi padta ki mjhe kya karna h career m...jab b bolti hu Papa se mummy..ya kisi se sab ignore krne lagte h...yhi life h sir...iss duniya m apna koi nhi...pr Maine b haar nhi manana...ek din docter bann k dikhaungi..sabka muh band kr dena h sabko..ye zid h meri mai Dr. Bann k rhngi...sir apko pta h mjhe koi appreciate nhi karta na koi ye tak puchta h ki kaisi chal rhi preparation ..sir m kaise handle kru inn logo ko😭..Upper se shadi ka alag tension dete h log
Pehli baar koi mere situation pe baat kr rah hai mere situation samajh raha h warna toh khud k maa baap v nhi samajhte, aab toh parents pr v bharosa nhi raha,aab toh sirf akelaapan hi humsafar h,thank u soo much sir😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏
One day my father shouted and scolded my too much bcoz I can't cook roti like my neighbours daughter.. He used so much abusing words while I was studying and told me that u should not study if u can't do household chores .I cried the whole dyy and next day suddenly my 10 th result came everybody in my house is extremely happy he post my result on Facebook... Lot of PPL said to my father that she scored well just bcoz of u..but I know that it was very difficult for me ..I wash utensils and did a lot of chores during my pre boards..For 3 to 4 days he supported me but after a month ..he started scolding me like before now I'm really tired of hearing all the words ...after studying alot ..he scold me and there is no seperate room in my house where I can study peacefully so I decided to study at night .yesterday I studied till 6 am but I wake up at 1 pm and some relatives came in my house thats why my parents scolded me too much and told me that u don't need to study if u can't wake early and do household chores and my mother told me that u should just study till 12 class and do household chores. and also that I shouldn't dance otherwise I will become a spoil kid..😔
Bro don't listen to them ur intelligent and charming beleive me... follow ur passion n maintain ur distance with them ignore them...n as u become independent leave them
Being girl from middle class family...,they treat daughter as a maide/ slave.... don't gave time to study,all day engaged in House chores ,Even in exam Times.... I remember waking up at 2am for studies during exams time ...so I can do house works after finishing studing..
Thanks a lot, for this video in a year almost 8 months I am in house arrest. In between I went to work but then came back. My skin has gone pale, cleared interviews but didn't get permission to work. Parents doesn't want me to work they just want me to have degrees and sit back home to be a perfect wife. Just sitting in home, no contact with friends, just my home has pushed me into depression. In between I got a chance to go for an interview but suddenly I went out of home, that traffic, the people gave me a panic attack. One thing I am doing is just reading when I get the chance to step out I should get the job. I want to feel the fresh air, want to step on grass with my bare feet. This video bought me some hope to write my upcoming GATE exam. I do meditation, gym workouts in a small set up all these to have control over my mind which I can do inside my home.
Uff! This word 'marriage' isse toh peecha churana bahut hi mushkil kaam h, the same situations I'm facing ever day which you discussed in this video It could not stop my tears while listening to this, 😭
I have toxic family 😞 I can't say a single word in full day Andr se ghut ghut kr mr rha hun.. Bahut negative thoughts aate h Aa ps koi log nhi h..na dost na yaar na bhai na bhaen na ma na paap ..koi nhi h
Meri family ne bhut pareshaan kr rakha h mujhe emotionally blackmail krte Mai depression me rehti Hu.....aapki video dekh kr mujhe bhut himmat mili ......
Agr shadi nhi Hui hai to behen kuch bnne se pehle shadi Mt krna or agr shadi ho chuki hai to jaan lga do 1000 dushman honge sasural me padai ke suno hi mt
I wanted to marry whom I love. When I told them, they stopped my education. I gave tuitions and took admission in masters after clearing entrance of govt college through my own pitty money I had earned. Thanks for the video. You are one stranger who approved that i did late but right for myself. Feels like I have a big bro.
Wow girl... All the best... Can you give me some tips... I'm facing the same problem but my is little different from you... My family don't want me to study for masters. But i really want to do it. How did you do? Can you please explain please. And which course you r pursuing?
@@shristi_jii the struggle ate up my three big years after graduation when I was able to do that. It was just time which helped me by making my parents tired of me. Just be patient and never give up. All the best.
I am 11 my family let me study but my grandparents and my mother are having so much arguments and fights I am mentally and physically exhausted due to them but your speech gave me a huge boost in confidence and I Am starting to save money for my study supplies I am also thinking about opening my own cafe at 15 hope my dreams come true thank you sir so much! ♥ ♥ ♥
All the best 👍🏻 bro Stay strong And try to change ur home environment issue..by changing their moods. Let them know that their activities affecting uhh.. .ur going to cross maturity bcz ur mentally disturbed ..nd that's why ur going to become more stronger 👍🏻
Mere faimly wale bhaut bade toxic h😢 ve jab bhi mai padhungi tab we kisi n kisi ghar ke kaamo me laga denge tab bhi sher mai achha score kerti hu tb ve sara credit khud ko dete h . Mai hamesha roti hu mere parents aur bhai behan bhaut bade selfish h. Mere parents ko input lagane me koi interest nhi h lekin output lene ke liye hamesha age rhte h . Hamara sab se competition kerenge lekin apna kabhi nhi. Ab Mai padhai isiliye kerti hu ki kuch achha ho jaungi to in sab se dur rahungi😊 in sab ke behaviour se me relative v hm se baat nhi kerte .but koi na hme bhagwan pe biswas h mera bhi kabhi n kabhi achha din aayega👏 aur mai apne family se dur rh paungi😊 mera kabhi kabhi mentally aur physically frustrated ho jati hu aur mujhe rona aajata h. Aur mai in sab ke samne v nhi ro sakti nhi to ye log iska bhi kuch galat mtlb nikal denge lekin khud ko change nhi kerenge. Koi supportive nhi hota jo hoga sara apko khud hi kerna padega isliye khud bhi insan ko sefish bnna padega😢
Meri father n bola ki etne saal ki hogae ho tumko padhne bejnege to samaj kya kahega.... But jb mai roti hun kisi problm me tb ye samaj nhi rehta h.... Hassi ki baat h yrr but yhi h.... Don't wry but hum jitenge
I am growing up with toxic parents So I just ignore all things and focus on my study I take all the negative energy and convert into postive energy My friends pay my tuition fees Because my parents don't allow me to do job Bas mahenat karte raho jiska koi nai hota hai uska bhagvan hota hai .....jo effort dete hai koine koi rasta jarur nikal aata hai I am engineering student I left my college placement And I am preparing for gate exam Now I am dreaming of IIT BOMBAY CSE 😌 chahe kuchh bhi ho jaye ab yahi meri kismat hai 😉
I fight daily with some of my toxic family members. I am preparing for civil services, I wanna become an IAS officer and serve the country. But some of my family members taunt me daily then I get demotivated. Sometimes I think that I should quit and go somewhere. But Sir then I think about my mother that she is the only one for whom I am staying otherwise I think I should quit.
Aj ap mere situation p bat kie thank you so much sir hm unlog se bahut pyar krte h but wo log mere sath ese krte h 😭😭 ghr ka situation hmko black mail krte h agr hmlog mar gy toh kon karaega tera sadi bahut depression m h sir but I m trying to change my life
Sister same situation h mere sath bhi .... Meri maa aisi h ki sauteli maa b na ho ky ky ni bolti mujhe ki tujhe kaun puchega skal dekh apni sadi ni kr ri h jati ni h mere chati pr moong dal ri h.....I can't understand m ky kru...kbhi kbhi lgta h ki sadi hi kr loon but usme b aisa ldka aisi family dhundhte m apni life change krna chahti hu m ky karu kuch smjh ni aa rha h
My parents always fight, my father don't want me to study. I am addicted to some bad habits which they don't know. Deep down in my heart I want to quit addictions and get a new job. But I have failed many times and faced failures in quitting and job. I don't know how can I become my support.
It means it's the problem of many other like mine.Take is as a challenge ,just ignore them. I can't tolerate ,all these . I'm handling 3 battle.still I'm alive.I will show them ,How to stay calm amid immense pressure of the nation/ duty.
This is the same problem, one of my friends asked me about. I did not know that point of time what to say her. Now, I wil definitely share this video with her. She will find the right direction, I'm sure!
Sir i have been struggling from years i was not allowed to play talk to any one in my childhood in my 10th class i was beaten in front of everyone just because i was talking to my male friend iwas beaten when i wanted freedom i was abused when i wanted to move to the city i was abused whwn started working as a teacher during my graduation now i have taken step to start my upsc preparation now they are cutting my throat of expectations in the name of marriage ....a guy who is earning 18k per month n i earn 22 k per month .......hope i fullfill my dream....no body supported when i needed i cry every single day but that's okay life gives lemons n we've to make lemonade out of it thnx bhaiya for making tthis video
Pehli baar acha lag ra he jaan ke ki mere jaise bhi students he. Meri personal advice ki jitna ho sake utna paisa jodne ki koshish karo , kyo tumhari sab se jada help tumhara paisa hi karega.
My parents want me to have 90% in Class 10 Boards but they are constantly FIghting and quarreling with each other in every other week. Due to their Noises I can't Study. and Somehow my Science and English are gone better but I have 3 more exam to study and i can't study in that. Thanks sir you motivated Me
After marriage same problem I am facing Even I proved my self,my own parents always support me nd I got myself selfdependent through job But even after marriage I want to study more to get such a post so that I can help out other girls which are facing same issues But Sometimes I lose my patience as my in-laws or husband are not supporting me Each and every time they put some kind of condition in front of me .they always try to ingage me with rituals and so called responsibilities,gave me social pressure. I really got upset too much and want to leave all things for which I am making efforts But ur videos keep me alive nd push me to break those boundaries lines U r doing great.. बहुत सी डिग्रिया आज भी दफ्न है घरेलू काम में कभी मौके मिले नि तो कभी छीन लिए गए सामाजिक चाह की राह मैं
हर वक़्त support नहीं मिलता, हम दूसरों के support की उम्मीद कर रहे हैं तो हमारी गलती है. इसमें sasural को dosh मत दीजिए, गलती aapki है Aapne खुद को कमजोर rkhakar है
Thank you bhaiya Mai bahut pareshan tha mera family bhi bahut toxic hay mere mummy papa mujhe bahut taane marte Hain lekin mein kabhi har Manne Walo meinse nahi hu main fight karunga...... Aapka yah video mujhe mentaly bahut strong Kiya ha..tnx vaiya... rasta To khud Ko hi banana hai ya fir khod ke banana hay.... that's line 🔥🔥fill my heart vaiya....... ❤️❤️
Thank you sir...I got my every answer and...u r the real inspiration many of girls facing alot of problems...what should we do it's just.. be passionate at every moment...thank you sir ...and find your self lucky if you have problems with your success..cause it's known as struggle...and god only gives struggles to them who can face it and win it..💥
When I first came on your channel it was 330k subscribers and today there are 750k+ subscribers. Sir, I am very proud of you and wish you all the success for all those videos you put in for us😊
@@AnubhavJain@AnubhavJains ir ak baat batao meri age 32 ho gayi govt job lag gaya...lekin meri maa mere papa mere Bhai teeno toxic h or unki vajah se aaj mujhe depression ka treatment lena pad raha h q ki parents pichle 15 sal se lad jhagad rahe h aapas me bhi or mujhse bhi or pichle 2 sal se Bhai love marriage karke Ghar chhod ke bhag Gaya ! In sab se emotional pain itna hua ki main ab depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya ! Ab main aisa kya karu ki mujhe inse emotional pain hona band ho jaaye ? Inse kaise doori banaye ! Q ki jab bhi inse phone pe baat Karo hamesha dukh jhagde negative or jali Kati baate ..sunne ko milti h ! In toxic logo ki vajah se ghar me hamesha dukh or jhagde hone ka ahsaas hota rahta h jisse main Khushi nahi mana paata or result depression Enxiety or panik attack !
My father is somuch toxic he doesnt love me he doesnt even talk to me Only my mother is in my support my father dont even spent money on my education presently i am in 10th class I am suffering from some financial crisis hope these will be solved soon I will work hard and achieve my goals and be successful in my life For my mother 😊😊🥺💫💯
This vedio was very helpful meri mom bhi study ko itna value nhi krte har tisare din kuch na kuch chalta rahta hai unko roj roj.. bhut bar to ro bhi deti hu but I never give up I still studying thankyou so much yeh vedio bhut helpful hai bus prblm yeh hai ki jis fin kuch bahas hoti mind disturb ho jata hai vo maa hai unki bate dil ko hurt kr deti hai
My mom never liked me since childhood. Mai pareshan rehti hu to wo khush hoti hai aur jb mai khush hoti hu to wo mughe pareshan karne ki koshish karti hai. Hr samay kuchh na kuchh comment karti rehti hai mughe pareshan karne ke liye. Mai thak chuki hu .bahut padhai ki ab tk job nhi lag paai. Private job bji ki tuition bhi padhaya ghar ke kaam ke saathsaath tb bhi koi value nhi dete kehte hai tu kamati hi kitna hai. Now my age is 36. I left everything and ab bhi preparation kr rhi hu govt exam ki.
As same I did yesterday my mother in law says tomorrow u should go to work at farm so I said this work is not of one day or two I also have to study I do all household work but not at farm I don't know what they think negative about me but I used to be besharam for my carrer 😀
My parents have always supported me for studies but we used to live in single room and during day my locality was so noisy so I could only study during night that too outside my house in street light bcoz seeing everyone sleep i couldn't study inside the house. Today I can proudly say whatever I did was totally worth it.
Thank u so much sir today finally I got my solution 👍. Lgta hai shiv ji ne meri aaj suun li or aapke through mujhe aaj mera solution de diye thank u so much sir💐☺
Hello sir mere mom papa rokte to nhi he lekin bolte he ki phle kam kro ghr ka bad me ye krte rho mtlb ki study nhi hogi to chlega lekin kam sb hona chahie. Mujhe sadi nhi krni fir bhi bs sadi ka sochte he lekin bs ek bat yad rkhti hu ki jaha tk rasta dikh rha he chlo age ka rasta vha jakr maloom pd jaega aur apke videos se bhi motivetion a jata he thank u sir
Thankyou so much sir ...my father is so toxic ...even after having govt job ..he abuse to all the family members , refuse to give money for bus fare , fees etc ..sometimes he physically torture us by beating us including my mother.....and i m preparing for neet ..I know my potential I can do it ...but I was not able to deal with the situation and was thinking about to drop the idea for neet ... But thankyou so much sir ...ur words were so accurate to my situation ......
Sir mai jevan se hargayi thi apki baten sunkr mere under jine ki ummeed aur kuch krgujarne ki nayi sahas paida hui h.....mai yin sare obsticle ko par kr jevan bhut acha krungi aur life bhut ache se jiiungi I promise you. Love you sir thank u for this video from the bottom of my heart ..apki ye video india ke kone kone tak pahuche gi aur logo ko jine ki ummeed aur krgujarne ka himmat degi.
Thanku sirrr 👍.... Mai hmesa se mere disturbed family KO tolerate krk study mein consistence or hard working rha... Mummy k death k bad father ne Kisi or se sadi krli or financial support krne se mna kr rhe... Life mein first time m itna jyada low ho gya for a very long time I was very depressed but aj apk video ne mujhe jine k liye Sahi way dikhaya thanku sirrr...
Mere ghar wale v financial support nhi kar rhe aur me bahar rent se rahti hu aur job v nhi mil rhi kya kru me v 🥺😢 study kaise krungi agar job karungi to
I hv faced this situation in 2017...and today i have become from topper to zero.... My friends this person has said the right thing.... I was toxicated by my family and relatives.... If I would have followed what this person in advicing, my life would been comfortable at present.. 😭
Sir me 10th class me hu aur muje padhna hai but meri mumma bohot pareshan karti hai me bohot dukhi hu but ab se me aapne jo kha vo hi karungi thanq so much sir me kisi ko bol nhi sakti thi aur ab bolne ki jarurat bhi nhi hai
Really bhaiya this is so useful topic i am iit jee aspirant but only roblem 9s that my grandfather always torcher and fights to my father and it breaks my concentration and study mere papa mujhe padha likha ke ias banan chahte hai farmer hai khetti karke paise late hai but mere grandfather sare pustani jamin bechna chahte hai or khud ass karna chahte hai wo bahut bure hai 😭😭thank u so much mai apne papa ke liye padhunga or life se fight marke success full banunga
Thank you for your advice sir. M also going through this situation for so many years. Last 8 years se family responsibility k liye job krte huye education complete ki . Or SSC ki tyari kr rhi hu bche huye time me but sir ghr ka mahol itna negative h ki kitni b koshish krti hu study nhi ho pati concentration se. Ab M ghr se alg hone ka soch rhi thi but aapki video bohat helpful lgi. Thank you so much sir
My story is quite different. I had given my 10 board exam but i couldn't perform well I got only 86% I had been a topper in class 9 because of some distraction I am not able to perform well in boards .but i started again to prepare for jee exam but my brother demotivated me every single day he told me that ki tujhse jee ni niklega kyuki tere to 10me hi itne km h . And it's really hurts me 😰from within even sometimes i literally get tears in my eyes 😔 but i can prove everyone one day by cracking jee 🙂
Thanks bro now I'll follow what u said I'll maintain a distance from them n give priorities to myself...my Career is Frist ...hope God helps me ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
I m also facing such taunts Some people just waste there energy to distract us , to make us feel bad . Today I had my online exam and my younger brother tried his best to distract me and even made me cry during exam . 😥 But now onwards I will never react to such people because it's there Character . I will show them my potential 😇😇😇
Kuch family aaisi Hoti h jo aapna hi Ghar ki ladki p aarop lagata h galat se galat aajkal parivar kuch nhi rha gya h 😔 Bahar valo se khatarnak family vala hogya h😓
Sir me abhi 12th me hu or abhi meri boards aane wali lekin meri family ne meri sadi karvane ki than li he... Or upar se family me koi bi mere support me nhi he... 😢😣 or upar se jha meri sagai hue he vo log bhi ladkiyon ko padhane me koi interest nhi rkhte... 😢 lekin muje pahnaa h 😩... Na to vo log muje kahi jane de rhe he or na hi koi naukri krne de rhe he 😢😢
Thank you so much sir for making this video...from lockdown onwards i am facing severe emotional crisis because of my Narcisstic Mother..she doesn't understand my feelings..but i want to strong and want to prove to those people what i can do..I am working hard to get good rank in GATE 2022!!
Ty so much sir is video ke liye mere dad nahi h meri mom job krti h phir bhi wo bhai ko padhna chahati h mujhe nahi mai tution bhi join kru to bolti h wha jakr teri complan krungi ghr me book rehte to farr deti h phir bhi mai haar nahi mani hu aapki video se bhut motivation mili h ab mai loan or sclorship se padhungi again thank you very much sir✨♥️
Thank you sir ❤️🙏 meri family me v study ko lekar bohot problems ho rhi hai.... Mai thak gyi thi socha tha ki padai chod dungi 😔 Par apki ye video dekh kar mujhme thoda hosla bada Ab mai family ke Bina hi Koshish karti rahungi meri sapno ko pura karne ke liye 👍🙂
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you so much Sir... Even I'm going through the same situation sir... I never give back reply to my toxic relative's taunts just to keep my mother's respect.. My Mumm supports me a lot she never forced me to anything it may be marriage or job she always supports me to do what I wanted to do.. She works morning 9 to 8 night I feel guilty sometimes because I'm not supporting her financially she knows it well one day I'll achieve my goal.. she push me whenever I feel lost and supports for my goal..I feel blessed having her in my life.. she's my best Mom ever... Thank so much for this video sir.. 👍👏
The biggest gift for your mom is your dedication and focus on studies. And when you become successful, fulfil all her dreams and keep her happy. God bless you :)
Best of luck from bottom of my heart,😊 Agar tumhe apna manzil really mile to 5 years bad isi comment m ake batana, for my pure encouragement 😊 Again best of luck 👍🏼
Aaj ke vedio me aapki khi hui ek ek baat mere life se releted h....isliye mai aapki saari vedio hmesa dekhti hu..isse mujhe kaafi energetic feel hota h...kaas aap mujhe 2 saal Pehle mil gye hote...thank u soooo much sir 😔😔😔😔😔😔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Same situation 😭😭😭I m mentally torched by toxic parents 😔😔😔😔ghr k kaam k lie sunna abuse krna shadi k lie force krtae h or exams dilane k lie bhi bhut request krni pdti h😔😔😔 don't know kitna tym ye sb shn kr paugi but I will try my best sir 😔thanku sooo much es topic p bat krne k lie
Sir ab tu aisha lag raha tha marne ke alawa koi option nhi h but ab thora himmat mil raha h or lag v raha h ki yes I can do it. ... Kash 1% hi umid mile mujhe ki mai ab aage padh sakti hu
Thank you sir .... Apaki vajah se himmat mili mere gar vale koi bhi sath nahe dete he aur gar ka sara kam karna padta to bhi rat ko jagakar padhai karti hu rat ko bhi muje sone ke liye bolte hai aur lait ban karne ke liye bolte hai mobile speaker pe rakhakar dekhte hai aise mahol he aise me padhati hu me
Except my mom nobody in my family and relatives supported me .I am somehow successful ,still trying to achieve more and doing good so that they cannot ignore me .I was under severe depression ,after listening to you I am improving now .thank you so much Bhai 🙏❤️💐
Apka bht bht dhanyabad❤🙏,apne mujhe aj marne se bacha liya ,mene soch liya tha ki aaj me give up kardungi khudko mardungi per apki baate sun kar mujhe jine ki ummed aur ladne ki takat aa gai thank you so much bhaiya❤🙏
Thank you so much sir Aj apki wajase mujame fir se positivity ale he and yes I can do it .I will complete my dreams , and becoming independent in my life
I really really need this video😭.. M going through all this shit everydayy.. Thankew for this.. Muje lgta tha ki hmsha parents right hote h. Or m hi glti krti rehti hu shyd.. But apki ess video ne muje sikhaya ki khud k liye stand lena bht zruri hota h.. Chahe jo bhi krna pde.. Lyf h challenges h or hme yhi challenge jitne h.. 💪
I m going through with this problem these day and I just found this video and the solution given by you is really good. Thankyou so much sir for standing up. I m going to achieve everything and shut their mouth forever 🙏🏻🥺🥺🥺🥺
@@AnubhavJainsir ak baat batao meri age 32 ho gayi govt job lag gaya...lekin meri maa mere papa mere Bhai teeno toxic h or unki vajah se aaj mujhe depression ka treatment lena pad raha h q ki parents pichle 15 sal se lad jhagad rahe h aapas me bhi or mujhse bhi or pichle 2 sal se Bhai love marriage karke Ghar chhod ke bhag Gaya ! In sab se emotional pain itna hua ki main ab depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya ! Ab main aisa kya karu ki mujhe inse emotional pain hona band ho jaaye ? Inse kaise doori banaye ! Q ki jab bhi inse phone pe baat Karo hamesha dukh jhagde negative or jali Kati baate ..sunne ko milti h ! In toxic logo ki vajah se ghar me hamesha dukh or jhagde hone ka ahsaas hota rahta h jisse main Khushi nahi mana paata or result depression Enxiety or panik attack !
sir, mere Ghar mein headphone use karke padhaai Karti hun to mujhe pagal kahate Hain kahate Hain tum pagal Ho jayogi per mujhe Mera Lakshya pura karna hai to main sab karungi ,main kuchh samay ke liye mentally disturb Ho jaate Hu, but fir bhi motivation hamesha hai koi coaching nahin kar rahi self study kar rahi hu
Sir apko very very very thanks 🥰😍sir apne jo jo bhi bola he mere saath wo sab ho rahi he mein bahat depression mein tha rota rahata tha apka speech sunne ke baad bahat achha laga raha he sir 😻sir mere ko na bahat ichha he ki mein ek ips officer banu isliye padhai karna chahata hnu mein abhi bsc 1st yr mein hnu mere ghara bale ne mujhe paisa dena bhi band kar li he... Mujhe wo pehele se hi mana karte the 10 th ki baad se hi mana karte the padhai mat karo mene uske samne ro ro ke 12 th tak to padhai kar li.. Par abhi mujhe bola rahe he ghar ki kaam karo padhai kar ke kya karoge bahat gali dete he sir bahat rona aata he sir😭😭😭😭😭😭😭meri man ki baat kisiko nehi bataya pata tha aur apka vdo dekhne ki baad apko bata diya..... 😭 kahte he ki har ladki ko apni pitaji saath dete he par mere pita ji bhi meri saath nehi dete he sir😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you sir for this vdo...🙏🙏bhot depressed thi m😫😫lg rha tha khin chli jaon ghr se dur....bt now aapka vdo dekh k m feel strong...😶😶 thanks alot sir🙏🙏🙏
Thank you sir for this motivation I've been facing these things since my childhood and I am just sick and tired of it firstly I belong to a middle class joint family so many people live together and they make noise all the time when I say them to stop they don't listen to me and secondly I don't have a separate study space where I can study peacefully and thirdly my parents are really toxic when they are together they always quarrel and that really put so much mental pressure.... They always pressurise and mentally blackmail me ,they never let me go out of the house rather than school and tution only thing they want is my good marks and yes because of that I really kept working hard and always secured good marks but they are never satisfied even when I got 98/100 in maths they were like where are the two marks ? And now I want to take a drop for NEET preparation but they don't want me to take.... They are like nursing kr le ye kar le wo kar le... Are yrr it's my life I also have some dreams why they don't understand? Even my relatives are giving faltu ki advices and brainwashing my parents when there was a time when they didn't even talk to me and now they are behaving good just because I got A+ marks in boards actually the reality is no one wants you to get more successful than them so they always keep dragging you down and they always know you when you are successful.... But I promise sir I will work hard no matter what and will not be emotionally attached with people because I've learnt and enough is enough.... 😔
Mere papa ki death ho chuki h 2015 me. Meri mom ki mental condition theek nahi h, wo mujhe abuse krti rehti h, mujhe unhone kaid sa krke rkha h, sare din dusro ki buraiyan karti rehti h, tej tej bol kr.... Main aur wo same room me rehte h, mujhe bilkul kisi chij ki permission nahi h,, unke kehne pe sou, unke kehne pe nashta aur khana khao,, balcony ya chatt pe nahi jaa skti, kisi frnd se call kru, toh sari baat sunti rehti h, main khul kr baat nahi kr skti. Ristedaro se tk baat nahi kr skti, sare din bs ek kamre me kaid.... 12th ke baad 3 saal tk jyada kuch nahi kr payi, ab 23 saal ki age me college jane ki permission h graduation ki, abhi 1st semester me mere 76% aaye...main ssc ki tayari kr rhi hu, ek baar pre clear hogya tha, mains me reh gayi thoda.... Mujhe Coaching ya Library jaane se saaf mna kr chuki h wo, meri jindagi barbad kr dengi wo...... Ghar me Kalesh krti rehti h, roj roj mujhe taane sunati rehti h... Mujhe lgta h meri yahi galti h ki main ek Ladki hu, warna wo mujhe support krti Study ke liye... Wo purane khayal ki h ki ladkiyan ghar me hi rahe, balcony me tk na nikle..... Mere pass bs 2 saal, uske baad college khtm, aur main ghar ki iss jail me kaid ho jaungi hmesha ke liye.. Kisi ke pass kpi sujhav ho toh btana mujhe.... Mujhe bs shanti chahiye padhne ke liye aur kuch nahi....
Aapki sare baatein follow ki maine Mere husband chahte the main govt job karu But mere in laws ne boht disturb krne ki koshish ki They want ki main sara din unke saath baith k gossips kru Main ek saal takk to sbko buri lgne lagi, kyunki maine unki gossips ka part bnna bnd kr diya..... Main sara kaam finish kr k akele apne room ko lock kr k headphones lga k pdhti rehti thi Even mere husband ko bhi lgne lg gya tha , that I don't like his family..... But wo kuchh der bura bne rehna mere liye meri job le aaya.... Finally the hardwork gave a reward..... Prso meri govt job ka first day hai......now all are saying hmari daughter in law ki govt job lg gyi....mere husband bhi proudly introduce krwa rhe h logo se.....✌️
Anubhav sir , aapke youtube par aanay se ye channel bhi dhanya ho gaya kyunki youtube inhi sab chizo ke liye banaya gaya tha , jahan log apne experience, knowledge, skills etc share kare. Aapko koti koti naman..❤❤🙏🙏
Bahar ke log chahe kuch bhi karein , uska impact utna nhi padta ....
But jb khud ke parents hi humein nhi samjhte , din raat taane dete hn , humesha aginst mein khade rhte hn .....then believe me insaan tut jata hai andar se
right
Right
Right
Right🥺
Yes 😢😢😢😢sis
I am literally teary eyes... I am suffering physically, &mentally emotionally due to my toxic family members and fighting. Thank you very much bhaiya🙂
Stay strong, God bless you bhai :)
@@AnubhavJain Thanks bhaiya... U words are life line
Me too
Me too
You can do it!.❤ Stay strong ❤
Family wale padhne ko mana nhi krte h but vo yeh nhi samjhte ki yeh koi school ka exam nhi h vo ghate ya 2 ghate padhne se clear ho jaega , I am doing partime job as a teacher I thought I'll give rest of the time to preparation and it's not like that I don't help my mom at home I do help coz she takes coaching classes..... for eg I prepare evening meal and other small things but my Father wants me to help her in morning also then when will I study mujhe life time yhi job thodi krne h morning time sabse effective study hoti h mere din ko job se aane ke baad I feel tired coz mera health issues bhi h I have PCOS so my body starts paining badly but usme bhi unko lgta hai mai drama krte hu emotional support h nhi jab demotivated feel hota hai tab lgta h kisi Ko hug krke roo lu but pillow hi hota h aur raat ko pdhne dete nhi h karu tau karu kya.....kuch bolu tau bolte h padhke ehsann nhi kr rhi sab padhte h 😞I am teared up while writing this 😖but kuch bhi ho I'll never give up on my dreams 🥺
Hm I can understand your situation 😢 I hope ki tum jldhi success ho
Same here sister...
🥲... You don't deserve to be treated like this... Actually no one deserves... But parents kbhi nhi smjhege..... Khud hi stand lena hoga apne liye... Wrna puri lyf inka sunte sunte nikl jygi apna career b nhi milega hme... And even after all tb b parents khush nhi hone wale.... They be like ldkia esi krti h sbki unko dusre ghr jana h ghrka kam jruri h unke liye..... It's never going to end this way!
Yes
सच्ची सर हर लड़की को ये बात सुननी पड़ती है की तुम पराया धन हो , i teary say now i suffering from this situation isliye आपके इस video se bahut help Mili है sir thank you so much 🥺🥺
Kabhi kabhi ye lagta hai ki hum ladkiya mabaap ke liye bhoz hai jo humare shadi ke baad uter gayega that's why wo hamari shadi ke pichhe pade rahte hai kabhi hamare sapne nahi dekhte but yeh cheez ladko ke mamale me nahi hoti
Mai padhti v hu padhati v hu ghar k kaam v karne h family k taane v sunne h 😢ptaa nhi kabb khushi milegi
Yahi toh sangarsh mai akeli nhi ho aap mai v aapke sath hoon strong baniye aur sangarsh kijiye
Same here
Same here
Same😔
I am neet aspirant same situation 😭😭
Me pichle 3 sal se besharm aur matlabi banke jee rhi hu tabse depression bhot kam ho gya h. You are absolutely right.
Didi kya kra apne
Mai bhi
M bhii same kisi ki nhi sunti only focused on my work
Sir same situation mere sath hota hai mai thak gyi hu sir 😢😢kya karu mai sir
I have tears in my eyes. I m suffering physically, mentally and emotionally due to daily fighting with toxic family members.
This video gave me booster confidence to focus on my career.Every word is so much relatable. Thank u so much sir 🙏🙏🙏
दुःख और depression में आकर देखा था ये video....
लेकिन अब मैं उत्साह से भरपूर हूँ जिसे ऐसे लोगों के बीच रहकर saflta के लिए संघर्ष करना आ गया है।
बेशर्म बनना पड़ेगा।
Asli depression gharwale hi dete h
Sahi kha bhai
My toxic mother is like I will not buy u books.. lemme c how u study..I borrowed books and completed school😂😂 she tore my notes just before my exams and said lemme said how u pass 🤣I used cello tape 😜 then she is like I will not give u money..lemme c how u continue ur studies 😜😜 grabbed job 😉😂😉
Honestly I cried every single day since childhood but I didn't let her Gaslight me..but sir I couldn't use her resources that's y I m late in completing my education but sir I think I m in the right path❤️🔥
Still your struggle is inspiring and shows how to not give up. I hope people reading this learn from you. All the best :)
@@AnubhavJain thanku sir it means a lot to me😀 I feel one has to be social enough to deal with such toxic parents. My frnds were always my biggest support. Though some of them are now jealous of my success but some of them are still there ☺️
I know some girls with such toxic parents who chose to get married 🤣 as they believe it's their escape and now convincing me to do so as " A rajkumar will be my savior 🙆"I wish they come across ur videos❤️ U r a blessing to our so called sanskari society which resides in the myth of 'bhagwan k saman mata pita' 😌😌😌
@@meghnac1564 exactly girl😭.... I'm very happy for your success. 😇 btw what job you are doing?
@@shristi_jii right now working as an english teacher 😀 but I have done some odd jobs before this to support myself financially. But now I m happy with all kids around. 😍😍😍 Couldn't save mine but wanna preserve their innocence 😘
@@meghnac1564 wow amazing... This is motivating me alot towards my dream. Thanks for sharing this. God bless you
Sir mere sath ye prblm hh ki matlab meri family me kisi ko iss baat se fark hi nhi padta ki mjhe kya karna h career m...jab b bolti hu Papa se mummy..ya kisi se sab ignore krne lagte h...yhi life h sir...iss duniya m apna koi nhi...pr Maine b haar nhi manana...ek din docter bann k dikhaungi..sabka muh band kr dena h sabko..ye zid h meri mai Dr. Bann k rhngi...sir apko pta h mjhe koi appreciate nhi karta na koi ye tak puchta h ki kaisi chal rhi preparation ..sir m kaise handle kru inn logo ko😭..Upper se shadi ka alag tension dete h log
Pehli baar koi mere situation pe baat kr rah hai mere situation samajh raha h warna toh khud k maa baap v nhi samajhte, aab toh parents pr v bharosa nhi raha,aab toh sirf akelaapan hi humsafar h,thank u soo much sir😇😇🙏🙏🙏🙏
One day my father shouted and scolded my too much bcoz I can't cook roti like my neighbours daughter.. He used so much abusing words while I was studying and told me that u should not study if u can't do household chores .I cried the whole dyy and next day suddenly my 10 th result came everybody in my house is extremely happy he post my result on Facebook... Lot of PPL said to my father that she scored well just bcoz of u..but I know that it was very difficult for me ..I wash utensils and did a lot of chores during my pre boards..For 3 to 4 days he supported me but after a month ..he started scolding me like before now I'm really tired of hearing all the words ...after studying alot ..he scold me and there is no seperate room in my house where I can study peacefully so I decided to study at night .yesterday I studied till 6 am but I wake up at 1 pm and some relatives came in my house thats why my parents scolded me too much and told me that u don't need to study if u can't wake early and do household chores and my mother told me that u should just study till 12 class and do household chores. and also that I shouldn't dance otherwise I will become a spoil kid..😔
Helo aqsa
Same condition 😖😓
Join library
Yaha uske ghr vale ghar mai to padane nahi de rahe aap library join karvane ko bol rhe hai bhai.......😶😶
Bro don't listen to them ur intelligent and charming beleive me... follow ur passion n maintain ur distance with them ignore them...n as u become independent leave them
Being girl from middle class family...,they treat daughter as a maide/ slave.... don't gave time to study,all day engaged in House chores ,Even in exam Times....
I remember waking up at 2am for studies during exams time ...so I can do house works after finishing studing..
God..seriously..g8
Aise maap baap ke liye koi kanun kyun Nahi hai
Jallad h Sare mc
Maine bhi ye sab jhela hai
Yo same 😭
So true
वैसे ये टॉपिक बहुत ही important hai...mere parents sab kuch de rahe hai bas jagah nahi...ghar mein space hai but mujhe nahi denge😒
Same here 🤕
@Life of Aru and family why🤔🤔🤔...iska jawab to nahi hai mere paas 🙄😟
Join library
I joined n segregate myslef from library people also n always sit alone on upwars staires of library
Same here
Same here!!
Thanks a lot, for this video in a year almost 8 months I am in house arrest. In between I went to work but then came back. My skin has gone pale, cleared interviews but didn't get permission to work. Parents doesn't want me to work they just want me to have degrees and sit back home to be a perfect wife. Just sitting in home, no contact with friends, just my home has pushed me into depression. In between I got a chance to go for an interview but suddenly I went out of home, that traffic, the people gave me a panic attack. One thing I am doing is just reading when I get the chance to step out I should get the job. I want to feel the fresh air, want to step on grass with my bare feet. This video bought me some hope to write my upcoming GATE exam. I do meditation, gym workouts in a small set up all these to have control over my mind which I can do inside my home.
So muchh relatable
Update: Cleared my exams, got job. I left the state I was living. Being independent now. Thank you for the video.
@@amrithasr501congrats🎉😊❤
Uff! This word 'marriage' isse toh peecha churana bahut hi mushkil kaam h, the same situations I'm facing ever day which you discussed in this video
It could not stop my tears while listening to this, 😭
I have toxic family 😞
I can't say a single word in full day
Andr se ghut ghut kr mr rha hun..
Bahut negative thoughts aate h
Aa ps koi log nhi h..na dost na yaar na bhai na bhaen na ma na paap ..koi nhi h
Same 🙂
Same🙂
😔😔😔 get well soon brother
No brother I'm also here alone is best turn positively u r problem focus ur career
Same
Same problem facing every day i am dealing with toxic parents since from childhood.Thank you so much sir for great advice❤️
Yes bro, Good Luck💚
Same here brother 😭 mera to man kerta hai bas suicide kerlu
@@neelusinha1016 same situation mere saath bhi hai 😭😭😭
@@neelusinha1016 AAP kis wjah se family se pareshan hu please btao?
Mujhe to laga tha ki meri hi haalat aise hai but yahan to bahut hai
After every mental breakdown (due to my family disturbance) i just come here and listen to him with closed eyes ❤
Meri family ne bhut pareshaan kr rakha h mujhe emotionally blackmail krte Mai depression me rehti Hu.....aapki video dekh kr mujhe bhut himmat mili ......
Right
Shadi ho gyi aapki
Agr shadi nhi Hui hai to behen kuch bnne se pehle shadi Mt krna or agr shadi ho chuki hai to jaan lga do 1000 dushman honge sasural me padai ke suno hi mt
Ha sahi bat he
I wanted to marry whom I love. When I told them, they stopped my education. I gave tuitions and took admission in masters after clearing entrance of govt college through my own pitty money I had earned.
Thanks for the video. You are one stranger who approved that i did late but right for myself.
Feels like I have a big bro.
Wow girl... All the best... Can you give me some tips... I'm facing the same problem but my is little different from you... My family don't want me to study for masters. But i really want to do it.
How did you do? Can you please explain please. And which course you r pursuing?
@@shristi_jii the struggle ate up my three big years after graduation when I was able to do that. It was just time which helped me by making my parents tired of me. Just be patient and never give up. All the best.
@@shristi_jii koi job karlo tution padha lo aur paise se study continue karo. Struggle ka naam hi jindigi hai yaar
@@MyDuv Pyaar ka Kya huwa🤨
What if they won't let you out of your house how will we take a college 🙂
I am 11 my family let me study but my grandparents and my mother are having so much arguments and fights I am mentally and physically exhausted due to them but your speech gave me a huge boost in confidence and I Am starting to save money for my study supplies I am also thinking about opening my own cafe at 15 hope my dreams come true thank you sir so much! ♥ ♥ ♥
All the best 👍🏻 bro
Stay strong
And try to change ur home environment issue..by changing their moods.
Let them know that their activities affecting uhh..
.ur going to cross maturity bcz ur mentally disturbed ..nd that's why ur going to become more stronger 👍🏻
same here, this speech helped so much, I am in 12th
Same problem 😕 😔
same problem
Same problem 😭😭
Mere faimly wale bhaut bade toxic h😢 ve jab bhi mai padhungi tab we kisi n kisi ghar ke kaamo me laga denge tab bhi sher mai achha score kerti hu tb ve sara credit khud ko dete h . Mai hamesha roti hu mere parents aur bhai behan bhaut bade selfish h. Mere parents ko input lagane me koi interest nhi h lekin output lene ke liye hamesha age rhte h . Hamara sab se competition kerenge lekin apna kabhi nhi. Ab Mai padhai isiliye kerti hu ki kuch achha ho jaungi to in sab se dur rahungi😊 in sab ke behaviour se me relative v hm se baat nhi kerte .but koi na hme bhagwan pe biswas h mera bhi kabhi n kabhi achha din aayega👏 aur mai apne family se dur rh paungi😊 mera kabhi kabhi mentally aur physically frustrated ho jati hu aur mujhe rona aajata h. Aur mai in sab ke samne v nhi ro sakti nhi to ye log iska bhi kuch galat mtlb nikal denge lekin khud ko change nhi kerenge. Koi supportive nhi hota jo hoga sara apko khud hi kerna padega isliye khud bhi insan ko sefish bnna padega😢
Exactly same sister... But still surviving
Meri father n bola ki etne saal ki hogae ho tumko padhne bejnege to samaj kya kahega.... But jb mai roti hun kisi problm me tb ye samaj nhi rehta h.... Hassi ki baat h yrr but yhi h.... Don't wry but hum jitenge
Right ❤❤❤
Say my life also sister
Pure UA-cam per single video 👏👍👌💪💪💪🥺🥺heart touching, heart touching sir 🙏 Thank you
Yesterday my family was separated .. Today I am watching this video to focus on my study.. B/c i dont waste my drop year.. Thnx for this video sir..
I am growing up with toxic parents
So I just ignore all things and focus on my study
I take all the negative energy and convert into postive energy
My friends pay my tuition fees
Because my parents don't allow me to do job
Bas mahenat karte raho jiska koi nai hota hai uska bhagvan hota hai .....jo effort dete hai koine koi rasta jarur nikal aata hai
I am engineering student
I left my college placement
And I am preparing for gate exam
Now I am dreaming of IIT BOMBAY CSE 😌 chahe kuchh bhi ho jaye ab yahi meri kismat hai 😉
Really inspiring, God bless you
Job lagne par toxic family ke sath rahoge ya unse doori banaoge ?
Really inspiring me ,keep going .. definately u will achieve what u want
I fight daily with some of my toxic family members. I am preparing for civil services, I wanna become an IAS officer and serve the country. But some of my family members taunt me daily then I get demotivated. Sometimes I think that I should quit and go somewhere. But Sir then I think about my mother that she is the only one for whom I am staying otherwise I think I should quit.
Same condition just work for your mother that's all👍
Harsh truth for every single girl...
Don't be worried girls.keep fighting for your rights..you ll be master of your future one day 🌟
Aj ap mere situation p bat kie thank you so much sir hm unlog se bahut pyar krte h but wo log mere sath ese krte h 😭😭 ghr ka situation hmko black mail krte h agr hmlog mar gy toh kon karaega tera sadi bahut depression m h sir but I m trying to change my life
Di app kaha se ho aur kya karte ho
Same condition 😭
Same situation meri h
Sme condition h meri bi
Sister same situation h mere sath bhi .... Meri maa aisi h ki sauteli maa b na ho ky ky ni bolti mujhe ki tujhe kaun puchega skal dekh apni sadi ni kr ri h jati ni h mere chati pr moong dal ri h.....I can't understand m ky kru...kbhi kbhi lgta h ki sadi hi kr loon but usme b aisa ldka aisi family dhundhte m apni life change krna chahti hu m ky karu kuch smjh ni aa rha h
My parents always fight, my father don't want me to study. I am addicted to some bad habits which they don't know. Deep down in my heart I want to quit addictions and get a new job. But I have failed many times and faced failures in quitting and job. I don't know how can I become my support.
It means it's the problem of many other like mine.Take is as a challenge ,just ignore them.
I can't tolerate ,all these . I'm handling 3 battle.still I'm alive.I will show them ,How to stay calm amid immense pressure of the nation/ duty.
After building a career after crossing all these challenges, now work from home I received = work at home + work from home
once again proved that you know real problems. not just about breakups and financial problems
This is the same problem, one of my friends asked me about. I did not know that point of time what to say her.
Now, I wil definitely share this video with her. She will find the right direction, I'm sure!
Sir i have been struggling from years i was not allowed to play talk to any one in my childhood in my 10th class i was beaten in front of everyone just because i was talking to my male friend iwas beaten when i wanted freedom i was abused when i wanted to move to the city i was abused whwn started working as a teacher during my graduation now i have taken step to start my upsc preparation now they are cutting my throat of expectations in the name of marriage ....a guy who is earning 18k per month n i earn 22 k per month .......hope i fullfill my dream....no body supported when i needed i cry every single day but that's okay life gives lemons n we've to make lemonade out of it thnx bhaiya for making tthis video
❣️kya kahun mujhe har time feel hota hai ki kyun aaya is duniya p?!! 😓fucking life
Mujhe laga sirf meri hi halat esi hon rakhi hain 🤧🤧
@@mainulhoquebarbhuiya545 ek to study, stress, toxicity, sadness, aur upper se hai one sided love, sab khul milakar jindegi ki maa chud gayi 🙂
Same situation with me😢😢 sister or brother.
@@Life_tips.07 arrey bro kiya hi batau
Hayee mar hi jau bas yahi Sochti hu
Pehli baar acha lag ra he jaan ke ki mere jaise bhi students he. Meri personal advice ki jitna ho sake utna paisa jodne ki koshish karo , kyo tumhari sab se jada help tumhara paisa hi karega.
Very nice
I am a neet aspirant 😞
And i am a fed up of my father
I feel like always crying
Same here I'm also tired of my father
Me also yaar😭😭
Same
Same here I'm tired of my toxic mother
My father is my biggest enemy
My parents want me to have 90% in Class 10 Boards but they are constantly FIghting and quarreling with each other in every other week.
Due to their Noises I can't Study. and Somehow my Science and English are gone better but I have 3 more exam to study and i can't study in that.
Thanks sir you motivated Me
After marriage same problem I am facing
Even I proved my self,my own parents always support me nd I got myself selfdependent through job
But even after marriage I want to study more to get such a post so that I can help out other girls which are facing same issues
But Sometimes I lose my patience as my in-laws or husband are not supporting me
Each and every time they put some kind of condition in front of me .they always try to ingage me with rituals and so called responsibilities,gave me social pressure.
I really got upset too much and want to leave all things for which I am making efforts
But ur videos keep me alive nd push me to break those boundaries lines
U r doing great..
बहुत सी डिग्रिया आज भी दफ्न है घरेलू काम में
कभी मौके मिले नि तो कभी छीन लिए गए सामाजिक चाह की राह मैं
हर वक़्त support नहीं मिलता, हम दूसरों के support की उम्मीद कर रहे हैं तो हमारी गलती है.
इसमें sasural को dosh मत दीजिए, गलती aapki है Aapne खुद को कमजोर rkhakar है
Thank you bhaiya Mai bahut pareshan tha mera family bhi bahut toxic hay mere mummy papa mujhe bahut taane marte Hain lekin mein kabhi har Manne Walo meinse nahi hu main fight karunga...... Aapka yah video mujhe mentaly bahut strong Kiya ha..tnx vaiya... rasta To khud Ko hi banana hai ya fir khod ke banana hay.... that's line 🔥🔥fill my heart vaiya....... ❤️❤️
Thank you sir...I got my every answer and...u r the real inspiration many of girls facing alot of problems...what should we do it's just.. be passionate at every moment...thank you sir ...and find your self lucky if you have problems with your success..cause it's known as struggle...and god only gives struggles to them who can face it and win it..💥
God bless you Saloni. All the best :)
Last line is amazing ❤️❤️❤️.... Yes we can...
When I first came on your channel it was 330k subscribers and today there are 750k+ subscribers. Sir, I am very proud of you and wish you all the success for all those videos you put in for us😊
Thank you Ketki :)
@@AnubhavJain@AnubhavJains ir ak baat batao meri age 32 ho gayi govt job lag gaya...lekin meri maa mere papa mere Bhai teeno toxic h or unki vajah se aaj mujhe depression ka treatment lena pad raha h q ki parents pichle 15 sal se lad jhagad rahe h aapas me bhi or mujhse bhi or pichle 2 sal se Bhai love marriage karke Ghar chhod ke bhag Gaya ! In sab se emotional pain itna hua ki main ab depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya ! Ab main aisa kya karu ki mujhe inse emotional pain hona band ho jaaye ? Inse kaise doori banaye ! Q ki jab bhi inse phone pe baat Karo hamesha dukh jhagde negative or jali Kati baate ..sunne ko milti h ! In toxic logo ki vajah se ghar me hamesha dukh or jhagde hone ka ahsaas hota rahta h jisse main Khushi nahi mana paata or result depression Enxiety or panik attack !
You are very mature to cover such an important topic. 100 Likes for you.
Facing everyday😭😭😭... Depressed kr dete h ye taane family members jab dete h toh... They don't know how much hard word we do.
Stay strong Shreya, find your path through determination.
@@AnubhavJain thankyou Sir....
Thankyou for covering this important topic.
@@shristi_jii sister mera ek suggestion hai,, late night or early morning parho,,
जितने का असली मजा तो तब ही आता हैं
जब कोई साथ न दे और हम जीत भी हासिल कर ले
@@Rtsbhuian05 ha bilkul sahi kaha aapne
I am also facing this problem but I manage my family and study😎
I make my family understand me..
My father is somuch toxic he doesnt love me he doesnt even talk to me Only my mother is in my support my father dont even spent money on my education presently i am in 10th class I am suffering from some financial crisis hope these will be solved soon I will work hard and achieve my goals and be successful in my life For my mother 😊😊🥺💫💯
This vedio was very helpful meri mom bhi study ko itna value nhi krte har tisare din kuch na kuch chalta rahta hai unko roj roj.. bhut bar to ro bhi deti hu but I never give up I still studying thankyou so much yeh vedio bhut helpful hai bus prblm yeh hai ki jis fin kuch bahas hoti mind disturb ho jata hai vo maa hai unki bate dil ko hurt kr deti hai
Can we be friends?
My mom never liked me since childhood. Mai pareshan rehti hu to wo khush hoti hai aur jb mai khush hoti hu to wo mughe pareshan karne ki koshish karti hai. Hr samay kuchh na kuchh comment karti rehti hai mughe pareshan karne ke liye. Mai thak chuki hu .bahut padhai ki ab tk job nhi lag paai. Private job bji ki tuition bhi padhaya ghar ke kaam ke saathsaath tb bhi koi value nhi dete kehte hai tu kamati hi kitna hai. Now my age is 36. I left everything and ab bhi preparation kr rhi hu govt exam ki.
As same I did yesterday my mother in law says tomorrow u should go to work at farm so I said this work is not of one day or two I also have to study
I do all household work but not at farm
I don't know what they think negative about me but I used to be besharam for my carrer 😀
Thank you so much sir ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤mere ghar wale toh mujhe padhta hua dekhlar hi preshan ho jate h
My parents have always supported me for studies but we used to live in single room and during day my locality was so noisy so I could only study during night that too outside my house in street light bcoz seeing everyone sleep i couldn't study inside the house. Today I can proudly say whatever I did was totally worth it.
You can join library near your area,
Thank u so much sir today finally I got my solution 👍. Lgta hai shiv ji ne meri aaj suun li or aapke through mujhe aaj mera solution de diye thank u so much sir💐☺
God bless you :)
Hello sir mere mom papa rokte to nhi he lekin bolte he ki phle kam kro ghr ka bad me ye krte rho mtlb ki study nhi hogi to chlega lekin kam sb hona chahie. Mujhe sadi nhi krni fir bhi bs sadi ka sochte he lekin bs ek bat yad rkhti hu ki jaha tk rasta dikh rha he chlo age ka rasta vha jakr maloom pd jaega aur apke videos se bhi motivetion a jata he thank u sir
Thankyou so much sir ...my father is so toxic ...even after having govt job ..he abuse to all the family members , refuse to give money for bus fare , fees etc ..sometimes he physically torture us by beating us including my mother.....and i m preparing for neet ..I know my potential I can do it ...but I was not able to deal with the situation and was thinking about to drop the idea for neet ... But thankyou so much sir ...ur words were so accurate to my situation ......
Hi kanchan , how old are you ?
( I'm facing same situation like yours )
Me tooo same situation 😭😭😭😭 yr also preparing for neet but padhai krti dikh jau to bolte hai kaam kuni krri hooo 😭😭😭😭 ghr ke
@@jyotichauhan9080 17
Mai bahut presha hu
Sir mai jevan se hargayi thi apki baten sunkr mere under jine ki ummeed aur kuch krgujarne ki nayi sahas paida hui h.....mai yin sare obsticle ko par kr jevan bhut acha krungi aur life bhut ache se jiiungi I promise you. Love you sir thank u for this video from the bottom of my heart ..apki ye video india ke kone kone tak pahuche gi aur logo ko jine ki ummeed aur krgujarne ka himmat degi.
Thanku sirrr 👍.... Mai hmesa se mere disturbed family KO tolerate krk study mein consistence or hard working rha... Mummy k death k bad father ne Kisi or se sadi krli or financial support krne se mna kr rhe... Life mein first time m itna jyada low ho gya for a very long time I was very depressed but aj apk video ne mujhe jine k liye Sahi way dikhaya thanku sirrr...
Mere ghar wale v financial support nhi kar rhe aur me bahar rent se rahti hu aur job v nhi mil rhi kya kru me v 🥺😢 study kaise krungi agar job karungi to
I hv faced this situation in 2017...and today i have become from topper to zero....
My friends this person has said the right thing....
I was toxicated by my family and relatives....
If I would have followed what this person in advicing, my life would been comfortable at present.. 😭
Sir me 10th class me hu aur muje padhna hai but meri mumma bohot pareshan karti hai me bohot dukhi hu but ab se me aapne jo kha vo hi karungi thanq so much sir me kisi ko bol nhi sakti thi aur ab bolne ki jarurat bhi nhi hai
I am also suffering from same problem . It's really motivating for me. Thank you so much.
Really bhaiya this is so useful topic i am iit jee aspirant but only roblem 9s that my grandfather always torcher and fights to my father and it breaks my concentration and study mere papa mujhe padha likha ke ias banan chahte hai farmer hai khetti karke paise late hai but mere grandfather sare pustani jamin bechna chahte hai or khud ass karna chahte hai wo bahut bure hai 😭😭thank u so much mai apne papa ke liye padhunga or life se fight marke success full banunga
Man lagakar mehenat karo bhai, khoob aage bado
Thank you for your advice sir.
M also going through this situation for so many years. Last 8 years se family responsibility k liye job krte huye education complete ki . Or SSC ki tyari kr rhi hu bche huye time me but sir ghr ka mahol itna negative h ki kitni b koshish krti hu study nhi ho pati concentration se. Ab M ghr se alg hone ka soch rhi thi but aapki video bohat helpful lgi. Thank you so much sir
My best wishes for your future
My story is quite different. I had given my 10 board exam but i couldn't perform well I got only 86% I had been a topper in class 9 because of some distraction I am not able to perform well in boards .but i started again to prepare for jee exam but my brother demotivated me every single day he told me that ki tujhse jee ni niklega kyuki tere to 10me hi itne km h . And it's really hurts me 😰from within even sometimes i literally get tears in my eyes 😔 but i can prove everyone one day by cracking jee 🙂
Thanks bro now I'll follow what u said I'll maintain a distance from them n give priorities to myself...my Career is Frist ...hope God helps me ❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
Best motivational speach for every girl🔥
For all
I m also facing such taunts
Some people just waste there energy to distract us , to make us feel bad . Today I had my online exam and my younger brother tried his best to distract me and even made me cry during exam . 😥
But now onwards I will never react to such people because it's there Character . I will show them my potential 😇😇😇
Kuch family aaisi Hoti h jo aapna hi Ghar ki ladki p aarop lagata h galat se galat aajkal parivar kuch nhi rha gya h 😔
Bahar valo se khatarnak family vala hogya h😓
Shi kha
Sir me abhi 12th me hu or abhi meri boards aane wali lekin meri family ne meri sadi karvane ki than li he... Or upar se family me koi bi mere support me nhi he... 😢😣 or upar se jha meri sagai hue he vo log bhi ladkiyon ko padhane me koi interest nhi rkhte... 😢 lekin muje pahnaa h 😩... Na to vo log muje kahi jane de rhe he or na hi koi naukri krne de rhe he 😢😢
Aap 12th mai ho abhi age kya h aapka
Thank you so much sir for making this video...from lockdown onwards i am facing severe emotional crisis because of my Narcisstic Mother..she doesn't understand my feelings..but i want to strong and want to prove to those people what i can do..I am working hard to get good rank in GATE 2022!!
How was your gate score and rank your stream ??
Same here my mother also does not care about my feelings !
First time a person talking about real problem and their solutions
Ty so much sir is video ke liye mere dad nahi h meri mom job krti h phir bhi wo bhai ko padhna chahati h mujhe nahi mai tution bhi join kru to bolti h wha jakr teri complan krungi ghr me book rehte to farr deti h phir bhi mai haar nahi mani hu aapki video se bhut motivation mili h ab mai loan or sclorship se padhungi again thank you very much sir✨♥️
Thank you sir ❤️🙏 meri family me v study ko lekar bohot problems ho rhi hai.... Mai thak gyi thi socha tha ki padai chod dungi 😔 Par apki ye video dekh kar mujhme thoda hosla bada
Ab mai family ke Bina hi Koshish karti rahungi meri sapno ko pura karne ke liye 👍🙂
Thank you, Thank you, Thank you so much Sir... Even I'm going through the same situation sir... I never give back reply to my toxic relative's taunts just to keep my mother's respect.. My Mumm supports me a lot she never forced me to anything it may be marriage or job she always supports me to do what I wanted to do.. She works morning 9 to 8 night I feel guilty sometimes because I'm not supporting her financially she knows it well one day I'll achieve my goal.. she push me whenever I feel lost and supports for my goal..I feel blessed having her in my life.. she's my best Mom ever... Thank so much for this video sir.. 👍👏
The biggest gift for your mom is your dedication and focus on studies. And when you become successful, fulfil all her dreams and keep her happy. God bless you :)
@@AnubhavJain yes sir I will...🙏 Thank you...🙏
I am so blessed that my parents are supporting me in my studies ..!!
U r very lucky 🥲
You made me emotional, thank you thnk you, please come up with more such Videos.
Thank you so much sir ❤🙏🏻
Mera salute hai sir aapko, isvideo banane ke liye.. aapne muje marne se bacha liye.. Thanks again.
UPSC - 1st Rank , 2028 list
Jay HIND,
Hahahahaha gjb 👍
Best of luck from bottom of my heart,😊
Agar tumhe apna manzil really mile to 5 years bad isi comment m ake batana, for my pure encouragement 😊
Again best of luck 👍🏼
Thank you very much sir. Now 90% of my life's problems are solved. Because this vdo changed my perception towards life 😊
I got my tears ,my elder brother always hurt me mentally,he never lets me study happily
Aaj ke vedio me aapki khi hui ek ek baat mere life se releted h....isliye mai aapki saari vedio hmesa dekhti hu..isse mujhe kaafi energetic feel hota h...kaas aap mujhe 2 saal Pehle mil gye hote...thank u soooo much sir 😔😔😔😔😔😔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Can we be friends?
@@raunak840 ...who r u...🙄
@@luckygirl4720
U dont know me😅😅
I too dont know u
Same situation 😭😭😭I m mentally torched by toxic parents 😔😔😔😔ghr k kaam k lie sunna abuse krna shadi k lie force krtae h or exams dilane k lie bhi bhut request krni pdti h😔😔😔 don't know kitna tym ye sb shn kr paugi but I will try my best sir 😔thanku sooo much es topic p bat krne k lie
Sir ab tu aisha lag raha tha marne ke alawa koi option nhi h but ab thora himmat mil raha h or lag v raha h ki yes I can do it. ... Kash 1% hi umid mile mujhe ki mai ab aage padh sakti hu
Ye mera 1 saal phle ka comment h but apki motivation ki wjh s aaj m Delhi police m select Hui hu 😊
Bahan me bhi bahut preshan ghar bale saport ni karte h bolte h roti sikho yahi kaam aaygi
@@ArchnaYadav-us7sl ignore kro sbko or khud ki pdhai p focus kro bs
@@deepalirajput5329congratulation sis🎉
Pure UA-cam pletform pr ye baat kisi ne nhi ki jo aapne ki h thenks guru 🙏
Thank you sir .... Apaki vajah se himmat mili mere gar vale koi bhi sath nahe dete he aur gar ka sara kam karna padta to bhi rat ko jagakar padhai karti hu rat ko bhi muje sone ke liye bolte hai aur lait ban karne ke liye bolte hai mobile speaker pe rakhakar dekhte hai aise mahol he aise me padhati hu me
Literally all he said was very correct.. i was depressed by this situation, but you motivated me. Thanks a lot🔥
@@rounakagrawal3701 ni ab mai migraine ka homeopathic treatment leti hu
@@rounakagrawal3701 actually mai banaras k ek doctor se treatment leti hu
@@rounakagrawal3701 no i dont hv sinus problm.
Except my mom nobody in my family and relatives supported me .I am somehow successful ,still trying to achieve more and doing good so that they cannot ignore me .I was under severe depression ,after listening to you I am improving now .thank you so much Bhai 🙏❤️💐
Apka bht bht dhanyabad❤🙏,apne mujhe aj marne se bacha liya ,mene soch liya tha ki aaj me give up kardungi khudko mardungi per apki baate sun kar mujhe jine ki ummed aur ladne ki takat aa gai thank you so much bhaiya❤🙏
I don't understand how some ppl r blessed with kids when they didn't deserve to
I feel this situation every day in my life parents ka bilkul bhi support nhi hai thankyou so much sir for this type motivation
Thank you so much sir
Aj apki wajase mujame fir se positivity ale he and yes I can do it .I will complete my dreams , and becoming independent in my life
Sir u r my biggest inspiration because of you only i have patience 2 face all of these prblms
मेरे घर वालों ने मुझे 9 वी में पढ़ने से बंदकर दिया की लड़कियां पढ़ती नहीं पर मैं पढ़नाचाहती हूं😢😢
I really really need this video😭.. M going through all this shit everydayy.. Thankew for this.. Muje lgta tha ki hmsha parents right hote h. Or m hi glti krti rehti hu shyd.. But apki ess video ne muje sikhaya ki khud k liye stand lena bht zruri hota h.. Chahe jo bhi krna pde.. Lyf h challenges h or hme yhi challenge jitne h.. 💪
Stay strong and study. God bless you
Omg, people like me in comment section. I thought I am the only one suffering everyday from past 9 years. Now ,I will recover and study well.🥰
I m going through with this problem these day and I just found this video and the solution given by you is really good. Thankyou so much sir for standing up. I m going to achieve everything and shut their mouth forever 🙏🏻🥺🥺🥺🥺
All the best :)
@@AnubhavJainsir ak baat batao meri age 32 ho gayi govt job lag gaya...lekin meri maa mere papa mere Bhai teeno toxic h or unki vajah se aaj mujhe depression ka treatment lena pad raha h q ki parents pichle 15 sal se lad jhagad rahe h aapas me bhi or mujhse bhi or pichle 2 sal se Bhai love marriage karke Ghar chhod ke bhag Gaya ! In sab se emotional pain itna hua ki main ab depression or Enxiety ka patient ban gaya ! Ab main aisa kya karu ki mujhe inse emotional pain hona band ho jaaye ? Inse kaise doori banaye ! Q ki jab bhi inse phone pe baat Karo hamesha dukh jhagde negative or jali Kati baate ..sunne ko milti h ! In toxic logo ki vajah se ghar me hamesha dukh or jhagde hone ka ahsaas hota rahta h jisse main Khushi nahi mana paata or result depression Enxiety or panik attack !
sir, mere Ghar mein headphone use karke padhaai Karti hun to mujhe pagal kahate Hain kahate Hain tum pagal Ho jayogi per mujhe Mera Lakshya pura karna hai to main sab karungi ,main kuchh samay ke liye mentally disturb Ho jaate Hu, but fir bhi motivation hamesha hai koi coaching nahin kar rahi self study kar rahi hu
Same with me
Sir apko very very very thanks 🥰😍sir apne jo jo bhi bola he mere saath wo sab ho rahi he mein bahat depression mein tha rota rahata tha apka speech sunne ke baad bahat achha laga raha he sir 😻sir mere ko na bahat ichha he ki mein ek ips officer banu isliye padhai karna chahata hnu mein abhi bsc 1st yr mein hnu mere ghara bale ne mujhe paisa dena bhi band kar li he... Mujhe wo pehele se hi mana karte the 10 th ki baad se hi mana karte the padhai mat karo mene uske samne ro ro ke 12 th tak to padhai kar li.. Par abhi mujhe bola rahe he ghar ki kaam karo padhai kar ke kya karoge bahat gali dete he sir bahat rona aata he sir😭😭😭😭😭😭😭meri man ki baat kisiko nehi bataya pata tha aur apka vdo dekhne ki baad apko bata diya..... 😭 kahte he ki har ladki ko apni pitaji saath dete he par mere pita ji bhi meri saath nehi dete he sir😭😭😭😭😭😭
Ghr chodke pdo likho apna in jahil gawaro k chakkar m apni jindagi brbad mt kro
Same contact ar sbse buri mumi h
Thank you sir for this vdo...🙏🙏bhot depressed thi m😫😫lg rha tha khin chli jaon ghr se dur....bt now aapka vdo dekh k m feel strong...😶😶 thanks alot sir🙏🙏🙏
All the best. God bless you.
Galat kadam mat uthao. Take care
@@abhishekrajput5738 never..nd thank u...
Thank you sir for this motivation I've been facing these things since my childhood and I am just sick and tired of it firstly I belong to a middle class joint family so many people live together and they make noise all the time when I say them to stop they don't listen to me and secondly I don't have a separate study space where I can study peacefully and thirdly my parents are really toxic when they are together they always quarrel and that really put so much mental pressure.... They always pressurise and mentally blackmail me ,they never let me go out of the house rather than school and tution only thing they want is my good marks and yes because of that I really kept working hard and always secured good marks but they are never satisfied even when I got 98/100 in maths they were like where are the two marks ? And now I want to take a drop for NEET preparation but they don't want me to take.... They are like nursing kr le ye kar le wo kar le... Are yrr it's my life I also have some dreams why they don't understand? Even my relatives are giving faltu ki advices and brainwashing my parents when there was a time when they didn't even talk to me and now they are behaving good just because I got A+ marks in boards actually the reality is no one wants you to get more successful than them so they always keep dragging you down and they always know you when you are successful.... But I promise sir I will work hard no matter what and will not be emotionally attached with people because I've learnt and enough is enough.... 😔
Mere papa ki death ho chuki h 2015 me. Meri mom ki mental condition theek nahi h, wo mujhe abuse krti rehti h, mujhe unhone kaid sa krke rkha h, sare din dusro ki buraiyan karti rehti h, tej tej bol kr.... Main aur wo same room me rehte h, mujhe bilkul kisi chij ki permission nahi h,, unke kehne pe sou, unke kehne pe nashta aur khana khao,, balcony ya chatt pe nahi jaa skti, kisi frnd se call kru, toh sari baat sunti rehti h, main khul kr baat nahi kr skti. Ristedaro se tk baat nahi kr skti, sare din bs ek kamre me kaid.... 12th ke baad 3 saal tk jyada kuch nahi kr payi, ab 23 saal ki age me college jane ki permission h graduation ki, abhi 1st semester me mere 76% aaye...main ssc ki tayari kr rhi hu, ek baar pre clear hogya tha, mains me reh gayi thoda.... Mujhe Coaching ya Library jaane se saaf mna kr chuki h wo, meri jindagi barbad kr dengi wo...... Ghar me Kalesh krti rehti h, roj roj mujhe taane sunati rehti h... Mujhe lgta h meri yahi galti h ki main ek Ladki hu, warna wo mujhe support krti Study ke liye... Wo purane khayal ki h ki ladkiyan ghar me hi rahe, balcony me tk na nikle..... Mere pass bs 2 saal, uske baad college khtm, aur main ghar ki iss jail me kaid ho jaungi hmesha ke liye..
Kisi ke pass kpi sujhav ho toh btana mujhe.... Mujhe bs shanti chahiye padhne ke liye aur kuch nahi....
Aapki sare baatein follow ki maine
Mere husband chahte the main govt job karu
But mere in laws ne boht disturb krne ki koshish ki
They want ki main sara din unke saath baith k gossips kru
Main ek saal takk to sbko buri lgne lagi, kyunki maine unki gossips ka part bnna bnd kr diya.....
Main sara kaam finish kr k akele apne room ko lock kr k headphones lga k pdhti rehti thi
Even mere husband ko bhi lgne lg gya tha , that I don't like his family.....
But wo kuchh der bura bne rehna mere liye meri job le aaya....
Finally the hardwork gave a reward.....
Prso meri govt job ka first day hai......now all are saying hmari daughter in law ki govt job lg gyi....mere husband bhi proudly introduce krwa rhe h logo se.....✌️
Sir aap ke jaisa har koi soche to duniya kha se kha pahuch jayegi😭😭mai bhi unhi me se ek hu jo is problem ko phase kar rhi hu
Anubhav sir , aapke youtube par aanay se ye channel bhi dhanya ho gaya kyunki youtube inhi sab chizo ke liye banaya gaya tha , jahan log apne experience, knowledge, skills etc share kare.
Aapko koti koti naman..❤❤🙏🙏
Thank you bhai. God bless you :)