now i realize how not strict my parents are at all. i just turned 17 and i have no curfew, no chores, no nothing. and i’m complaining about when i have to clean out the dishwasher. like, i have to chill.
Your parents have no morals actually, that's what's wrong with this world today, people today don't know how to raise kids right, they just give them what they want to shut them up and make them happy, and fear punishing their kids for the democrat's who messed up the system might call the law on them.
I feel like she's trying so hard to connect with her family, and she's just not getting the same energy back. It breaks my heart. Then again, we only see short little video clips, so everything is probably fine.
It’s so sad to see and again we don’t know for sure but my dad had a similar childhood experience where he got basically kicked out of his moms side of the family and later on in life he tried so hard to regain that love that he always subconsciously wanted and it caused a lot of family issues for a bit. We moved away from our home state so he could work for my grandmas side of the family and they weren’t very inviting, especially to my mom. My parents had a lot of issues because my dad spent all his time doing stuff to feel love from that side of the family and it’s just so sad. My parents love eachother so so much now and they are inseparable and it’s really just gods grace. It does hit close to home to see Hannah go through this.
hey guys i just wanted to let you know that i'm not trying to bring any negativity, i just noticed that the vibe seemed off and made a comment about it. I never meant for it to get this many likes lol, I love Hannah and her family!
I think it's all because of her mother, they don't have a great relationship, moving back in must've been a bit hard for both of them, so I think the uncomfortable vibe is because it's a family video so she had to be careful about what she say?.... Which is weird cuz if anything, being with family should be a comfortable place to say what you want. ... I really genuinely hope she's happier now and have a better relationship with her mother.
I kinda got sad when she was like to her mom; do you love me?” And her mom lowkey ignored her. That’s happened to me and it hurts, even if it’s not intentional
Felt so bad for Hannah when she was talking about college and Ella started bragging like ok yes good for you but you don’t need to make Hannah feel bad :(
Melanie Vega Hannah’s choice to not go to school was decided when she felt lost and not in the right place. Just bc she chose not to go doesn’t mean that Ella can tear her down for it
I feel like everyone’s just looking at this from Hannah’s side and not the rest of her family- there’s thousands of hours of behind the scenes we don’t see and this is just 14 minutes. There’s a lot we don’t know so don’t be so quick to judge. :)
Damn, Hannah was struggling emotionally and wanted to come back home for emotional support and her mom made her a list of what to do before she got emotional support....what the hell
Marie Luise I think I looked at the way everyone was treating Hannah differently today bc of the video she made talking about her mom and her’s strained relationship. When I was watching the way some family members were talking to her I felt a bit of resentment from them towards her...
what about the possibility that hannah did something bad? no mother does that to a kid (no mother like her, bc she obviously loves her children) but hannah doesn't tell us everything and especially if she's the one that did something wrong so stop thinking that hannah is a goddess and start facing the reality
its like she didnt want her to come back??? my parents would have opened the doors if they saw and heard how being away from them made me feel. thats crap
Hannah is an adult, has a business and her own money, she didn't go to college immediately so at that point it's normal for most parents to want to stop having to take care of you in their house. Especially since they already have a packed house.
Not that this excuses it or anything but Hannah admitted in the last video she kinda moved out in anger and in spite, so her parents might’ve been angry and had a “you made your bed so lie in it” attitude to teach her a lesson
Same here. Cause of coronavirus my classes and campus job are all online now and the Bay Area (where I go to school/live) is currently on a shelter in place order for the next three weeks. I've been updating my family all along with the various news developments and both of my parents have asked me several times if I want to come back, no questions asked. No rules, no expectations. They just want me back (I said no because I want to be there for my housemates, friends, and the person I'm dating, and I don't want to go back home after being on my own for six months.)
im so proud of you Hannah. It takes a lot so strength and maturity to allow yourself to be vulnerable. Sending you so much love. Thank you for my hug at playlist this year, I really haven’t forgotten about how kind you were to me and in making sure I felt comfortable and had time to talk to you.
I think you should have everyone carry the camera and record their day and make it all into a video! So likes it’s more about EVERY meloche instead of mostly Hannah meloche, absolutely not telling you how to make your videos or anything like that, it’s just an idea!! Love you lots!!!
its her channel tho, if they didn't already do that, its probably cause her family wants to have privacy (towards filming your whole day). and hannah is the only one kinda giving her "privacy away" like she chooses to do that. you know?
In these particular videos THIS is a great idea especially as they’re all older now AND would love seeing the POV from her mom and dad also. Ella was hilarious in this video and though has made clear its not her life being a you-tuber in these types of family videos would be nice having them all shoot things that Hannah then edited into the episode and be even more special years later when they look back but also for all the subscribers of Hannah’s channel. My 2 cents
Clearly there were a lot of issues that we didn’t see or know about with her and her mom it’s not fair at all to call her mom toxic for having rules when there obviously is more to the story than we all know
Exactly!! For all we know Hannah could've been doing illegal things, coming home late, etc that most parents wouldn't be ok w/ their teenager doing. We don't know the half of it
I had to stop watching. I love this channel but this was SO weird. The whole vibe just seems so forced and off. Low key cannot wait for her to get out and go to college and just live how she wants to live as a young adult.......I also hope since she said in the last video that she was having suicidal thoughts, that she's been getting help from a professional. I lived at home until my mid 20's and never had curfews or rules because my parents respected me and trusted me. A contract? At 19 years old? Mate I would run as fast as my legs could take me. It also says a lot to me that church is number 1 on the list.... And forced college? If you don't want to go to college, DON'T GO. Hannah you seem like such a lovely soul! Suffocated though, and I hope you find your freedom and your way in life soon. It took me a long time to realise that just because you're related by blood to someone does not mean that they aren't toxic to you. xxxx
lol did u not watch her previous video where she literally said nothing makes her happier than being home with her family regardless of the rules because being by herself and having all that “freedom” made her feel super lost and depressed
@@awesomevanessa1 I did indeed. The impression I got from that video was that she couldn't handle her family's reaction to her moving out. When your family is collectively treating you like shit then of course you're going to feel lonely and unsure. Especially when you're so close to them. This is just my impression and opinion. It doesn't mean I'm right about it and we don't have to agree with each other. I'm genuinely concerned for this girl, especially as she mentioned suicidal thoughts. I'm also coming from my own experience with toxic and unsupportive family members. but like I said we don't have to agree :)
@@sasscam no offense but you have no idea what led up to this. how do you know hannah didnt lose her moms trust? your parents trusted you im assuming because you earned that trust. anyway hannah should move out and start her own life, shes an adult not a child
J X B I’m not at all offended and I agree with you, none of us knows anything. It’s just the impression I got from her last couple of videos. I truly hope she finds her happiness and freedom. And I hope she’s speaking to a professional about her suicidal thoughts.
i am so mad at her family!!! it really seems toxic and like they take advantage of her but also the contract??? to live at "home"? idk... i guess there can be unspoken rulesbut a fricking contract? she's 19 how is she supposed to grow up?
Its crazy how we, teenagers can feel abandoned in our own home with our own family that we grew up with. It happened to me too and it hurts so bad. Btw i love how real this series is, like hannah's just trying to be open and real about her family's situation and i stan her for that.
If I were her I would live with her dad he seems less toxic and more genuine. This gave me the worst vibes her sister didn’t have to be salty about being accepted into a school. Like Hannah has a bad background history for what she done but doesn’t mean she has to be brought down from her siblings I see Hannah moving out again because her siblings are so mean to her. How she is supposed to recover from what she went through if her own siblings keep bringing her down. Also the list isn’t needed that’s so toxic and controlling.
Rebecca Weinberg exactly. Hannah and the rest are eventually gonna get drained out but I also don’t wanna assume for what I don’t clearly know but then again she already showed a lot proving her mom is not putting her part to change neither their siblings but take advantage of her cause she seemed super desperate to go back home (not in the bad way)
She’s not at all toxic. Her mom let her go out on her own like do the gap year, get an apartment, etc. Hannah later realized that living on her own didn’t feel right and that it was a mistake and she wasn’t ready for that. So her mom let her move back in, but she set some rules for her and what she thinks would be best for her. No mother daughter relationship is ever perfect and some are better than others but their working on it. It seems like they’re both putting in the effort and doing what it takes to build. That little clip of Ella and her fighting just shows you that her life isn’t perfect, and siblings especially Hannah and Ella since they are so close in age probably have small fights like that all the time because they are probably constantly being compared. I think if that clip really bothered Hannah I think she would have cut it out. Their whole family through Hannah moving out and back in and dealing with the apartment. It also affected them throughout this process too. Plus we don’t see what else happens behind the scenes.
Dude it was her first day back. Maybe they are not gonna click straight away. Just because her mother is strict and has rules doesn’t mean she is toxic. Like do you know what toxic parents are?? Hannah is an adult that is living with her parents. If she has rules Hannah is living like n her house and she needs to respect them. All parents are controlling at one point in your life. That doesn’t mean that they are toxic. And Ella was being mean but I think that you forget that they are siblings. I have 8 siblings and fighting happens all the time. It was their first time seeing each other in a while and they are sisters!!!!!! Don’t be so fazed when sisters fight because it’s totally normal. My lord stop judging how their family looks because they are truly a beautiful family. Anyone would be lucky to have them.
For everyone saying Hannah’s mom is being strict please take several seats. The woman has 4 other children in the house that she has to take care of...they all have different schedules and without rules the household would be chaotic. If Hannah was concerned, she would not have moved back. Also just because you are legally an adult, doesn’t mean that you are exempt from following the head of household’s rules. Future more, Hannah’s mom knows her best! Whatever rules she came up with are what Hannah needs to grow as a person and take on more responsibility in order to be more independent in the future.
I have 3 younger sisters, their ages range from 3 - 13. Hannah's mom is not giving her the unconditional love and support that a mother NEEDS to give her children. I have a strict parent, but this truly is next level. It's easy to say that a parent knows best for their children but sometimes they don't. Hannah's mom (from what I've seen) seems extremely controlling, she puts conditions on what Hannah needs to do to get her support. That isn't okay and it's heartbreaking to see Hannah walk into a house with such a loving and positive energy and not get it back from her mother. Rules are needed to keep a household chaotic, trust me I know. My mother (who has raised 4 girls on top of taking care of a sick husband as well as balancing a career and her own mental health) would be appalled to see how Hannah's mom is responding to all of this. If you didn't watch Hannah's video on why she moved back in you should, she explains that her family pretty much isolated her. Once again NOT OKAY. Sometimes mother's don't have their children's best interest in mind.
alyssa mcdonald dayummm ur mother sounds amazing🙌, but everyone does things differently and it’s easy to just waste time during this period of time, so the schedule actually seems like a pretty cool idea. Her mum may seem pre controlling but we don’t know her other sides too😌 she’s probs goated like ur mum too x
honestly i really enjoyed seeing this because it showed that her family isn’t perfect and i’m honestly going through something that seems very similar and it’s nice to hear the reflections of her and her family on what has happened because it gives me perspective on what i’m going through
Everyone keeps saying Hannah’s mother is toxic meanwhile none of us knows what it really means to be a parent. Regardless, the rules are reasonable and understandable her mother is doing what a good mother should do. So many times influencers go crazy and act out because they don’t have good standards within the home. This is how healthy, productive, good values type of family looks like. Good for her mother for not letting Hannah do as she pleases and making sure the family goes to church and is involved. Just because you haven’t seen it doesnt mean it’s not normal.
I know Hannah already made a video talking about it, but watching this literally broke me. She's so emotionally drained and exhausted and it is so clear. I love you so much Hannah, and I'm so thankful you are happy again
gerry keenan I actually really like the way she is with her kids, from what I’m seeing and the way they are with each other and do so much together and have respect.
gerry keenan facts and also since Hannah has a choice to not live there and she can support herself, it’s understandable that her mom is going to be strict about rules
I feel really bad that she has to try so hard to just be with her family. Like this girl is only 18 and just graduated high school, she shouldn’t be under so much pressure to move out and be on her own. Especially because she DID try to move into a new apartment and it was sooo bad for her mental health so why can’t her family understand that and welcome her back with open arms instead of being so conditional with the love they give her. Idk what I would do if my mom was like that 🙁 just watching their interaction, it doesn’t seem natural because she is trying so hard and her mom is just like whatever
shes an adult and needs to face reality. you cant just go crawling back to your parents and not have any structure in your life. her mom wants her to be successful and she should also be motivated to move out. most people do not live with their parents at age 19
J X B if your child is not ready to move out, she shouldn’t be forced to. She’s 19 not 30. If it’s bad for her mental health and she is struggling, shouldn’t that be top priority? If she needs more time and is not ready to move out, the family should respect that as well. All I’m saying is they shouldn’t be so conditional with the love they give her.
Hey Hannah! I really like this whole family series! I appreciate the past couple uploads of yours because they are good examples to your younger viewers that THINKING you're ready to make a change in your life is so different than actually being ABLE to. With much respect, I applaud you for moving back in with your family because the courage it takes(as some may say) to "step back" can be hard to conquer. I went through a similar situation of moving out and then moving back into my family home. I went from a family of 6 to just me. I lacked the basis of the original foundation my family raised me by, which then made the freedom I had confusing and my arrogance towards prioritizing what was important to increase. I had only my thoughts and decisions to rely on, which made justifying my wrong doings easier because my family was no longer around to help guide me. With that being said, I moved out at 18, moved back in with my parents at 19, and at 22, yes, I still live with my parents! :) Moving back home has made me accomplish more than I ever have or thought I could for myself! So, thank you, Hannah, for showcasing that moving back home(or anywhere else that may benefit) is sometimes the path/push people need to take in order to move forward with their futures! Again, sorry for the rant but, way to be a TRUE role model girly! -Val :) (btw I live in the Southeastern area in MI!)
I’m no one to judge but I feel like her siblings are a big factor into whether Hannah can be happier and feel better altogether. She’s definitely a family kind of girl and seeing the way Ella talks to her is just like wtf. College is a sticky subject for Hannah rn and for Ella to butt in and say that she was accepted was something else. If Hannah were my sister and I knew what she was going through, I’d be more considerate and caring about what I say. People say that that’s just her personality but in reality she could tone it down and be nice for a moment, it wouldn’t kill her.
Feel like Hannah is saying that she’s “unsure about her faith” on being Catholic in fear of getting hated on. Really not fair to her, everyone deserves to be who they are without getting hate.
Thankful for youtube during quarantine ❤️ even if your country isn’t in lockdown please try to stay in as much as possible. Practice social distancing, don’t meet up with people. You could be carrying the virus even if you’re not aware, spreading it to elderly and more vulnerable people.
aw hannah i’m glad you’re happy back at home with friends and family. I do hope if you are feeling off emotionally you reach out and get help. you deserve nothing but happiness. sending good vibes your way❤️❤️
That is good, we used to pray at the dinner table way back when we were young, but am happy at least that I influenced my entire family to be religious ever since I was at least 3 years old, I convinced my parents to enroll us 5 brothers in Sunday school, but ended up that I was too young to attend, but always waited for my bros to come home and tell me all about it, but then eventually broke away from the church when a mishap happened after we were coming home one time from a church camping event and the church leaders kicked one of our friends off the bus on the outskirts of town, then my dad ripped into them and we stopped going to church, but I still kept everyone interested in seeking God and/or religion, even when it turned into my brothers wanting to seek our Indian ways, which we ended up doing, then in the end we learned our Indian ways and incorporated our Christian values with our Native values and still pray to Our Father In Heaven, whether it be in our Native tongue or English, so keep at it, for those who seek righteousness will find it.
Even tho I DO think that every household should have rules, I kind of feel uncomfortable with the way her mother did all of this. Hannah is 19. Yes, she might be a legal adult but you can't expect your child to be grown up the day they turn 18. Yes, "adult" teenagers should take responsibility for themselves and be independent to some extent. But they are still just teenagers. Idk if I have that mindset because I'm European (German to be exact) and we don't have the same family dynamics as American families. But I personally think, as a 19 year old myself, that it's a very weird thing to expect your child to be fully independent at that age and move out when they are 18. Many people here actually stay with their parents during university. My mom always said that I can move out if I want to but I don't have to if I'd rather stay with them (I could because my uni isn't far from where I live). From what I've heard, Hannahs mom set those rules for her as a requirement for her to be able to come back. Which is not how a family should function in my mind. Again, rules are acceptable and even necessary to make families work. But the concept of making those rules into a requirement or even something like a contract bothers me. They are not a company and their employer, they are mother and daughter. If your child is still so young and needs your emotional support you should give it to them. Figuring yourself out is hard as it is. But having to do all of it on your own and without emotional support is even harder. I can't see behind the scenes, but the way her mom handled the situation bothered me. I am quite sure of it that hannah has made her fair share of mistakes during all of this, but she is still not fully grown up yet. You can't expect her to handle every situation in a mature way. But I do think that a grown woman, a mother, should act a little more appropriate in situations like these and be there for her daughter when she needs her most. I recall hannah saying that she asked her mom to stay with her instead of going on vacation because she was not well mentally, and her mother still went without her. That is something that would have hurt me very much if it happened to me and would probably partly destroy my trust in my mother. Your parents are (usually) the people you trust most and lean onto during difficult times, and when they fail to be there for you it can hurt you deeply. I hope that both her and her mother will be able to restore their relationship and form a healthier, trusting bond in the future. And for that I don't think those rules are actually necessary. An "adult" teenager should participate in the family life and do chores just like everyone else, but they also should have a little more freedom than the children under 18. Experiencing stuff on your own away from your family but still being able to return to the safety and stability of your family is probably the best way to learn how to become an adult. It's like young birds making test flights and coming back to the nest before leaving it completely. With their family it seems as if it's expected to either move out when you're 18 and be on your own or live with the family and not be independent at all. Both sides are unfitting for the transition she is going through: from child to adult. A good mix of both is probably better for all of them.
Honestly I am so proud of you for being real with your emotions and not being afraid to take that leap to move back home. Family is SO important but why rush growing up? You have a beautiful family and a great mother! You’re going to learn so much and do it on your own time. I love this series and I love watching you do what ultimately makes you happy! GO HANNAH!!!
there’s nothing wrong with her mom asking for her to follow rules in HER house. hannah seems lost in life and in need of more structure and discipline. it’ll be good for her.
i agree but i think it's weird that her mom didn't let her move back in right away and how she established the rules before hannah was even living there. i think that as soon as she found out hannah was struggling she should've let her move back in and given her the rules later on
ughh i just watched this and now im... :(( that was the most vulnerable i think i have ever seen you hannah, and for you to notice that you were downfalling living on your own AND to actually realize you needed to be back with your family...this video was very real and really hit home
i think that it was obviously gonna be awkward when hannah moved back no matter how normal she wanted it to be but i mean look at her now her relationship with her family is amazing !! so proud of u han 💗
If your comment is about the strictness of her mother: y’all have to understand that Hannah is an adult living under her mom’s roof. It’s not bizarre to push someone to adulthood. Heck, she is an adult. She should be treated like one - and she would if she were independent like one. 🤷♀️ no hate but I fully see her mom’s POV (of what we’ve been shown)!
I don't agree with how strict her mom is, but people need to understand that she comes from a generation where rules were EVERYTHING. They had a belief that as long as you follow the rules and do "what you're supposed to", everything will work out and you'll be happy and safe forever. Because of this a lot of parents either have heaps of rules or go the opposite direction and have none, because they resented having so many when they were growing up. I don't agree with it but I think she is coming from a good place.
Dude she’s like 18, give her a break. She just graduated high school she shouldn’t be under so much pressure to move out and be on her own. Her family should understand that
irene biju she has to be an adult sometime, and without a lot of freedom is the perfect way to force someone into adulthood. She wouldn’t have any rules if she was in her own home, she could be an adult there, but she chose to live at home after graduation. You heard it yourself, Hannah was okay with the rules of it meant she could live at home.
gusy her mom and family in general are NOT toxic. from hannah’s vlogs i’ve watched for the longest time now this is just how their family is. they are a very structured family and that’s just what works for them!
Ella wants to be the favorite so bad girl university of Arizona and Arizona state are both party schools with high acceptance rates nothing to brag about
that’s how siblings are, this whole thing is supposed to show that families aren’t perfect, and Hannah’s life isn’t always perfect as it may sometimes be portrayed. This is an example of how siblings are not Ella “wanting to be the favorite.” And Hannah clapped back with the tanning bed thing. It’s a small everyday thing that happens in siblings but at the end of the day their family and they love each other.
Thank you for being so honest about so many different things in this video. I am in high school and go to a catholic school and my family is very catholic but I’m not sure that this is the faith for me, so it meant a lot that you were open to talking about your own faith. Thank you.
genuinely just strange that her mum makes rules for her to move home? your child is your child why would you make a list of “rules” your DAUGHTER has to follow in order to live at home.. i get some parents are strict but that’s taking it a bit far
Lauren Gould I mean I think it’s more about living in someone’s home. Hannah’s an adult now. Like, I live w my sister but I have chores & responsibilities & pay rent. I think forcing her to go to church is bit much but there are certain boundaries everyone needs
I think she wanted Hannah to have some structure and to understand what it means to be an active member of the family. These aren’t rules like u have to clean up after everyone but rules that are grounded in making sure you spend time together. It’s not fair for us outsiders to comment (Ik it seems hypocritical since I’m responding to a comment of a comment) bc we! do! not! know! what! happened! before! Hannah mentioned that her moving out was rough on their relationship and that she felt lost for much of that time. Just Bc someone is ur child doesn’t mean u have to tolerate all of their behaviors and actions.
It did seem odd to me that she said the rules are *more* strict than when she was in high school. I feel like typically parents chill out more as the kids get older and begin learning how to be more independent
you don't know how hannah was acting before or their relationship. in any case, i dont think it is our place to judge or comment. it will just make hannah feel bad. she already is insecure about how people comment on everything she does
I am Catholic and my family has been going to Mass every Sunday for as long as I can remember! It’s so refreshing to see another family like mine. Keep being you! This series is amazing💗
Ana Nunez it almost seems that her mom doesn’t want her back or like she’s 30 years old and it’s ridiculous for her to move back home... it’s obviously not my family so I don’t really know how they work butttt
well I think she told her mom that she didn't need her anymore and now she's coming right back. I think it also has to do with rebuilding their relationship
idk it kinda makes sense... once you're 18 you're not your parents' responsibility anymore so they really don't have to let her stay. It only makes sense that she has to do chores and stuff because they're doing her a favor by letting her stay so she needs to do her part
True dat. But also Hannah did move out and even said that she did because she thought she could “do it all” and didn’t need her family anymore so this must be her moms way of making sure Hannah is serious. Also, if Hannah wants to move back and have Reeve out of her room , then it would make sense that she would have to abide by the rules her siblings do. 😃😃 overall, I think we’re all glad that she’s HAPPy!!
It's so weird for me cause especially in Turkey even if you're literally 30 years old you are always welcome and your parents are always always and always there for u no matter how old you are or in what conditions you're living. So for me what she is going through seems so hard and upsetting. If I was her I'd probably get depressed since my home is the only place I feel welcomed and safe
@Tatiana Cole i dont get why they converted her whole ass room back for 5 months then. like put her somewhere else for 5 months shes a grownass woman choosing to live at home and reeve is an actual child who has to live there
I live with a family of seven and I've lived with my four sisters in the same room for my entire life. I'm turning 16 this year and it's not that bad. I obviously want my own room but you guys are being dramatic oh my god
I'm very proud of you Hannah. It's good to see you back in the house. It must have been hard moving back in and experiencing this weird but loving energy in the house. We all see it and support you. Please don't give up now cause you're doing great. I love you a lot and I'm very very very proud of you ❤
I've always thought of this family as the picture perfect family, I've never seen them interact like this and it really shows how social media doesn't show everything. I'm very surprised how toxic it seems idk
awwe im a Christin and seeing you and your fam+friends praying every time before you guys ate is so cute and it reminded me to start doing it and also for me to actually start reading y bible. your fam is the cutestttt btw
Crazy how much you look like your mom! And then all the siblings look so alike too! Also, I love your mom. Seems like a really sensible, no crap-taking yet loving kinda woman. Happy you're happier!
Deseray Bautista theres kids that will never have their own all room all throughout highschool, he will be okay and will have that room back in a few months when hannah goes to college
why would you need rules to come live back home? also seems like everyone is uncomfortable by you coming home? idk just the vibe i’m getting. ella and ur mom seem so annoyed and braggy
because it's called taking responsibility. That's family life. & she's learning good skills that she needs for when one day she might have a family. mind your own business
K S I get it i really do, but I don’t know if you watched one of her videos (forgot the name) but she was saying how they argued all the time and her mom was basically forcing her out of the house. idk that just doesn’t seem right to me. in the whole family her mom and sister were almost being mean to her and you could tell hannah was upset about it
i wish she’ll get to a college so she can move out and live happily in a dorm with some good friends. i’ve been really concerned since she voiced her thoughts of suicide.... she’s been in some dark waters, and her family seems to have been the cause.
I honestly loved the video! I think that it was great how your family still goes to church, and even though you are questioning your religion, I admired how you opened up about it and talked about how you don't really know yet! Great video! Sending Love :)
Love the format and style of this video! So candid and real and love getting to see this side of you and the whole fam! Keep being genuine and authentic - we love it!
Just wanted to share my experience with catholic/Christian thing as I’ve have a very similar experience as you! I was raised Catholic and always believed in God but I felt like there was something a little missing so I went to a Christian church at my university and it was a different experience for sure but so so good I now go to both churches on a Sunday as when I’m away from home the catholic services feels like home but when I go to the Christian church I feel like I can really praise Jesus!! You can do both!! At the end of the day if Jesus was walking on this Earth today we would all praise him, make sure your faith is your own. Big LOVE xxx
Not targeting Hannah’s family but out of curiosity, why do people have to be “raised catholic “ and raise their kids that way? I’m Christian but nobody should be forced to believe a certain way. It’s only genuine if people believe it on their own. I don’t mean this comment to be negative, I guess I just don’t understand that perspective.
hannah i love u so so much. watching all of your videos makes me so happy. i’m so incredibly proud of you. you’re doing so many amazing things rn and i cant wait to see what you accomplish in the future. again, thank you for making me happy and inspiring me for the past almost two years 🥺❤️ I LOVE U!
Her mom is being to hard on her. Parents shouldn’t want their kids to get out right away that bad. They should be there for them and be like if u aren’t ready to be on ur own I’ll be there for u and still let u live with us. Like come on their her parentssss it’s a scary world out there and they should let her stay home.
i just turned 24, last year i tried to move out on my own and only lasted one day. i too came from a close family and truly i wasn’t ready to leave them. i give you so much credit for lasting as long as you did in the apartment especially since you were only 18. there’s nothing wrong with moving back home until you’re comfortable enough to move out again 💓💓💓 you made the right decision for you and that’s all that matters.
When you were talking about how you don’t know whether you want to be Catholic, Christian, etc. I would recommend that you go to a few different churches in your area until you find one that you’re genuinely excited to go to, and one where you feel like you understand the message. Also this is just an idea/advice I’m not trying to tell you how to live your life:)💞
Who loves this series?! 🥳
Hannah Meloche meeeee🥺👉🏼👈🏼
I LOVEEEE IT!! you pulling up to the driveway knowing you were gonna take over reeve’s room made me...HAHA
Me!
@@omarmosqueda5705 LMAO
Hannah Meloche duh
I’m just struggling to believe this house doesn’t have enough rooms for Reeve and jack to have their own rooms
RIGHT IT LOOKS HUGE
Student Loans IM SAYINGGG like what about the up stairs like theres more the the house than the basement
I agree. I’m assuming both parents have an office or something, otherwise I’m sure there are extra rooms.
they may just not want their own rooms
@@reechaaryal8094 jack said he doesn't want share a room lol
now i realize how not strict my parents are at all. i just turned 17 and i have no curfew, no chores, no nothing. and i’m complaining about when i have to clean out the dishwasher. like, i have to chill.
Jade it’s different when your an adult and move out and then decide to move back in with parents again
Sophia Brown for my parents. that’s not different at all. and also. her parents were strict before she moved out
You are really blessed
Same omgg even when my older brother from college moved back home they treated him the same if not w less rules since he’s an adult
Your parents have no morals actually, that's what's wrong with this world today, people today don't know how to raise kids right, they just give them what they want to shut them up and make them happy, and fear punishing their kids for the democrat's who messed up the system might call the law on them.
I feel like she's trying so hard to connect with her family, and she's just not getting the same energy back. It breaks my heart. Then again, we only see short little video clips, so everything is probably fine.
It’s so sad to see and again we don’t know for sure but my dad had a similar childhood experience where he got basically kicked out of his moms side of the family and later on in life he tried so hard to regain that love that he always subconsciously wanted and it caused a lot of family issues for a bit. We moved away from our home state so he could work for my grandmas side of the family and they weren’t very inviting, especially to my mom. My parents had a lot of issues because my dad spent all his time doing stuff to feel love from that side of the family and it’s just so sad. My parents love eachother so so much now and they are inseparable and it’s really just gods grace. It does hit close to home to see Hannah go through this.
They’re siblings, it’s not that deep.
hey guys i just wanted to let you know that i'm not trying to bring any negativity, i just noticed that the vibe seemed off and made a comment about it. I never meant for it to get this many likes lol, I love Hannah and her family!
it seems like she’s so much more comfortable at her dads house
When she asked her hom "Do you love me?" And her mom acted strange...
OMG STOP ITS LIKE AN ACTUAL REALITY TV SHOW IM OBSESSED
HEHE
@@hannahmeloche Meloche'
Its not😂😂 so cringe tho watch that
i feel like she is walking on egg shells and that there is something she isn't telling us.
Adijah yea i noticed that too!
@@ohhhhhmaryyy yeah the vibe is kinda uncomfortable. i love hannah i just hope she is doing good for real
Like something happened a very serious thing that she’s not saying
Especially with all rules and the things her mom is saying
I think it's all because of her mother, they don't have a great relationship, moving back in must've been a bit hard for both of them, so I think the uncomfortable vibe is because it's a family video so she had to be careful about what she say?.... Which is weird cuz if anything, being with family should be a comfortable place to say what you want. ... I really genuinely hope she's happier now and have a better relationship with her mother.
It’s so weird cause I always thought that Hannah had her life together and now that she’s being transparent I connect to her more
Moe M ikr
I kinda got sad when she was like to her mom; do you love me?” And her mom lowkey ignored her. That’s happened to me and it hurts, even if it’s not intentional
BRO THIS IS SUCH A DOPE SERIES LIKE YES WE NEED MOREEE
No we definitely don’t.
was Hannah hungover at church LMAO
Felt so bad for Hannah when she was talking about college and Ella started bragging like ok yes good for you but you don’t need to make Hannah feel bad :(
Pizzaria hannah picked not to go to college therefore ella can brag about it
they are sisters it's normal
Melanie Vega Hannah’s choice to not go to school was decided when she felt lost and not in the right place. Just bc she chose not to go doesn’t mean that Ella can tear her down for it
Her whole family is toxic af
@@melanievega5692 Nothing gives you the right to not be humble.
"We go to church every week..well me and my family do. Hannah doesn't always go with us." Why did that sound like she was saying hannah isn't family?
thats awful
Thy have family problems, she talked about it in the video before this one lolooo
I feel like everyone’s just looking at this from Hannah’s side and not the rest of her family- there’s thousands of hours of behind the scenes we don’t see and this is just 14 minutes. There’s a lot we don’t know so don’t be so quick to judge. :)
wanderlust 365 facts, there could be a reason behind her moms rules. People need to stop digging into things and just keep a positive perspective
While I don't agree with some of the rules, it is very understandable that those rules were set.
awe thank you!
perio queen u tell em
This made me rly uncomfortable and sad... so cold and off :(
Damn, Hannah was struggling emotionally and wanted to come back home for emotional support and her mom made her a list of what to do before she got emotional support....what the hell
yami rangel also have the feeling that her mom doesn‘t give hannah the love she needs rn 🥺
Marie Luise I think I looked at the way everyone was treating Hannah differently today bc of the video she made talking about her mom and her’s strained relationship. When I was watching the way some family members were talking to her I felt a bit of resentment from them towards her...
yami rangel I know SAME! I thought it was just me.
yami rangel what video?? :(
what about the possibility that hannah did something bad? no mother does that to a kid (no mother like her, bc she obviously loves her children) but hannah doesn't tell us everything and especially if she's the one that did something wrong so stop thinking that hannah is a goddess and start facing the reality
its like she didnt want her to come back??? my parents would have opened the doors if they saw and heard how being away from them made me feel. thats crap
Hannah is an adult, has a business and her own money, she didn't go to college immediately so at that point it's normal for most parents to want to stop having to take care of you in their house. Especially since they already have a packed house.
Not that this excuses it or anything but Hannah admitted in the last video she kinda moved out in anger and in spite, so her parents might’ve been angry and had a “you made your bed so lie in it” attitude to teach her a lesson
Cheeky Rose watch her vid before this one it explained their relationship and everything about this before u comment
Same here. Cause of coronavirus my classes and campus job are all online now and the Bay Area (where I go to school/live) is currently on a shelter in place order for the next three weeks. I've been updating my family all along with the various news developments and both of my parents have asked me several times if I want to come back, no questions asked. No rules, no expectations. They just want me back (I said no because I want to be there for my housemates, friends, and the person I'm dating, and I don't want to go back home after being on my own for six months.)
@@Abigail-py3vk That's really considerate of you to stay not only for yourself, but for the people you care about. Love that.
Who else thinks they all look more comfortable with their dad and not the mom?
No hate just observing
Why was Ella being so salty in this video 💀
ikr when she was bragging about going to Greece and arizona
fr doe
Siblings
honestly, I have two older siblings and we’re mean to each other but like that.
they’re just being siblings
im so proud of you Hannah. It takes a lot so strength and maturity to allow yourself to be vulnerable. Sending you so much love. Thank you for my hug at playlist this year, I really haven’t forgotten about how kind you were to me and in making sure I felt comfortable and had time to talk to you.
awe thank you sooo so much carrie. you're the best love
Andrew being done with everyone’s shit when moving the dresser had me dead
I feel like hannah is crying for help, not enough love from her mom
I think you should have everyone carry the camera and record their day and make it all into a video! So likes it’s more about EVERY meloche instead of mostly Hannah meloche, absolutely not telling you how to make your videos or anything like that, it’s just an idea!! Love you lots!!!
its her channel tho, if they didn't already do that, its probably cause her family wants to have privacy (towards filming your whole day). and hannah is the only one kinda giving her "privacy away" like she chooses to do that. you know?
In these particular videos THIS is a great idea especially as they’re all older now AND would love seeing the POV from her mom and dad also.
Ella was hilarious in this video and though has made clear its not her life being a you-tuber in these types of family videos would be nice having them all shoot things that Hannah then edited into the episode and be even more special years later when they look back but also for all the subscribers of Hannah’s channel.
My 2 cents
Clearly there were a lot of issues that we didn’t see or know about with her and her mom it’s not fair at all to call her mom toxic for having rules when there obviously is more to the story than we all know
Exactly!! For all we know Hannah could've been doing illegal things, coming home late, etc that most parents wouldn't be ok w/ their teenager doing. We don't know the half of it
Exactly!
EXACTLY
I had to stop watching. I love this channel but this was SO weird. The whole vibe just seems so forced and off. Low key cannot wait for her to get out and go to college and just live how she wants to live as a young adult.......I also hope since she said in the last video that she was having suicidal thoughts, that she's been getting help from a professional. I lived at home until my mid 20's and never had curfews or rules because my parents respected me and trusted me. A contract? At 19 years old? Mate I would run as fast as my legs could take me. It also says a lot to me that church is number 1 on the list.... And forced college? If you don't want to go to college, DON'T GO. Hannah you seem like such a lovely soul! Suffocated though, and I hope you find your freedom and your way in life soon. It took me a long time to realise that just because you're related by blood to someone does not mean that they aren't toxic to you. xxxx
lol did u not watch her previous video where she literally said nothing makes her happier than being home with her family regardless of the rules because being by herself and having all that “freedom” made her feel super lost and depressed
@@awesomevanessa1 I did indeed. The impression I got from that video was that she couldn't handle her family's reaction to her moving out. When your family is collectively treating you like shit then of course you're going to feel lonely and unsure. Especially when you're so close to them. This is just my impression and opinion. It doesn't mean I'm right about it and we don't have to agree with each other. I'm genuinely concerned for this girl, especially as she mentioned suicidal thoughts. I'm also coming from my own experience with toxic and unsupportive family members. but like I said we don't have to agree :)
@@sasscam no offense but you have no idea what led up to this. how do you know hannah didnt lose her moms trust? your parents trusted you im assuming because you earned that trust. anyway hannah should move out and start her own life, shes an adult not a child
J X B I’m not at all offended and I agree with you, none of us knows anything. It’s just the impression I got from her last couple of videos. I truly hope she finds her happiness and freedom. And I hope she’s speaking to a professional about her suicidal thoughts.
i am so mad at her family!!! it really seems toxic and like they take advantage of her but also the contract??? to live at "home"? idk... i guess there can be unspoken rulesbut a fricking contract? she's 19 how is she supposed to grow up?
Why is your sister being cocky about getting into a college? Like its good but why does she have to make you feel that way in front your mom.
yeah it’s so toxic,I know they’re sisters and they get mad at each other but that’s another level of toxicity 💀
Its crazy how we, teenagers can feel abandoned in our own home with our own family that we grew up with. It happened to me too and it hurts so bad. Btw i love how real this series is, like hannah's just trying to be open and real about her family's situation and i stan her for that.
so nice of Reeve to not be mad about having to give up his room again... aw
If I were her I would live with her dad he seems less toxic and more genuine. This gave me the worst vibes her sister didn’t have to be salty about being accepted into a school. Like Hannah has a bad background history for what she done but doesn’t mean she has to be brought down from her siblings I see Hannah moving out again because her siblings are so mean to her. How she is supposed to recover from what she went through if her own siblings keep bringing her down. Also the list isn’t needed that’s so toxic and controlling.
Cindy Arroyo yea i hate to say this but her mom seems very toxic. she just seems so controlling and doesn’t let them live their life
Rebecca Weinberg exactly. Hannah and the rest are eventually gonna get drained out but I also don’t wanna assume for what I don’t clearly know but then again she already showed a lot proving her mom is not putting her part to change neither their siblings but take advantage of her cause she seemed super desperate to go back home (not in the bad way)
Cindy Arroyo yea i hate assuming stuff i just hope hannah’s happy and not faking it
She’s not at all toxic. Her mom let her go out on her own like do the gap year, get an apartment, etc. Hannah later realized that living on her own didn’t feel right and that it was a mistake and she wasn’t ready for that. So her mom let her move back in, but she set some rules for her and what she thinks would be best for her. No mother daughter relationship is ever perfect and some are better than others but their working on it. It seems like they’re both putting in the effort and doing what it takes to build. That little clip of Ella and her fighting just shows you that her life isn’t perfect, and siblings especially Hannah and Ella since they are so close in age probably have small fights like that all the time because they are probably constantly being compared. I think if that clip really bothered Hannah I think she would have cut it out. Their whole family through Hannah moving out and back in and dealing with the apartment. It also affected them throughout this process too. Plus we don’t see what else happens behind the scenes.
Dude it was her first day back. Maybe they are not gonna click straight away. Just because her mother is strict and has rules doesn’t mean she is toxic. Like do you know what toxic parents are?? Hannah is an adult that is living with her parents. If she has rules Hannah is living like n her house and she needs to respect them. All parents are controlling at one point in your life. That doesn’t mean that they are toxic. And Ella was being mean but I think that you forget that they are siblings. I have 8 siblings and fighting happens all the time. It was their first time seeing each other in a while and they are sisters!!!!!! Don’t be so fazed when sisters fight because it’s totally normal. My lord stop judging how their family looks because they are truly a beautiful family. Anyone would be lucky to have them.
For everyone saying Hannah’s mom is being strict please take several seats. The woman has 4 other children in the house that she has to take care of...they all have different schedules and without rules the household would be chaotic. If Hannah was concerned, she would not have moved back. Also just because you are legally an adult, doesn’t mean that you are exempt from following the head of household’s rules. Future more, Hannah’s mom knows her best! Whatever rules she came up with are what Hannah needs to grow as a person and take on more responsibility in order to be more independent in the future.
Ori Ukaoma PREACH SIS🙌
This is FACTS, I respect her mother so much
Ori Ukaoma yeah and even Hannah said in her last video that she was really acting out and she didn’t like it
I have 3 younger sisters, their ages range from 3 - 13. Hannah's mom is not giving her the unconditional love and support that a mother NEEDS to give her children. I have a strict parent, but this truly is next level. It's easy to say that a parent knows best for their children but sometimes they don't. Hannah's mom (from what I've seen) seems extremely controlling, she puts conditions on what Hannah needs to do to get her support. That isn't okay and it's heartbreaking to see Hannah walk into a house with such a loving and positive energy and not get it back from her mother. Rules are needed to keep a household chaotic, trust me I know. My mother (who has raised 4 girls on top of taking care of a sick husband as well as balancing a career and her own mental health) would be appalled to see how Hannah's mom is responding to all of this. If you didn't watch Hannah's video on why she moved back in you should, she explains that her family pretty much isolated her. Once again NOT OKAY. Sometimes mother's don't have their children's best interest in mind.
alyssa mcdonald dayummm ur mother sounds amazing🙌, but everyone does things differently and it’s easy to just waste time during this period of time, so the schedule actually seems like a pretty cool idea. Her mum may seem pre controlling but we don’t know her other sides too😌 she’s probs goated like ur mum too x
Her mom kinda makes me cringe. She just doesn’t seem loving and understanding
Mhm
HANNAH BECOMING A WHOLE TV SHOW PRODUCER YESS
honestly i really enjoyed seeing this because it showed that her family isn’t perfect and i’m honestly going through something that seems very similar and it’s nice to hear the reflections of her and her family on what has happened because it gives me perspective on what i’m going through
Everyone keeps saying Hannah’s mother is toxic meanwhile none of us knows what it really means to be a parent. Regardless, the rules are reasonable and understandable her mother is doing what a good mother should do. So many times influencers go crazy and act out because they don’t have good standards within the home. This is how healthy, productive, good values type of family looks like. Good for her mother for not letting Hannah do as she pleases and making sure the family goes to church and is involved. Just because you haven’t seen it doesnt mean it’s not normal.
Alien Baby sis I’m 19 in college, grow up. obviously your family doesn’t have structure doesn’t mean you have to get triggered :) 🥰
I love you Hannah ! The most genuine and kind hearted person ever
chiara jhaveri i love you!
NOT AT ALL HAHAHA
Who else is watching this while they're stuck at home?!?
Love you Hannah 💛
I know Hannah already made a video talking about it, but watching this literally broke me. She's so emotionally drained and exhausted and it is so clear. I love you so much Hannah, and I'm so thankful you are happy again
her mom is NOT toxic, it's her house and her rules. She's trying to rebuild their relationship and they need to do it differently than last time.
gerry keenan I actually really like the way she is with her kids, from what I’m seeing and the way they are with each other and do so much together and have respect.
gerry keenan facts and also since Hannah has a choice to not live there and she can support herself, it’s understandable that her mom is going to be strict about rules
Her mom is actually toxic
That’s not how you rebuild a relationship and yes she is
@@zeynep5763 we don't know what happened and why Hannah initially moved out. So please stop judging a family you don't really know
Watch out Ellie and Hannah are going to room together in college
I feel really bad that she has to try so hard to just be with her family. Like this girl is only 18 and just graduated high school, she shouldn’t be under so much pressure to move out and be on her own. Especially because she DID try to move into a new apartment and it was sooo bad for her mental health so why can’t her family understand that and welcome her back with open arms instead of being so conditional with the love they give her. Idk what I would do if my mom was like that 🙁 just watching their interaction, it doesn’t seem natural because she is trying so hard and her mom is just like whatever
irene biju shes 19
shes an adult and needs to face reality. you cant just go crawling back to your parents and not have any structure in your life. her mom wants her to be successful and she should also be motivated to move out. most people do not live with their parents at age 19
J X B if your child is not ready to move out, she shouldn’t be forced to. She’s 19 not 30. If it’s bad for her mental health and she is struggling, shouldn’t that be top priority? If she needs more time and is not ready to move out, the family should respect that as well. All I’m saying is they shouldn’t be so conditional with the love they give her.
irene biju the American law system is so brutal like
Hey Hannah! I really like this whole family series! I appreciate the past couple uploads of yours because they are good examples to your younger viewers that THINKING you're ready to make a change in your life is so different than actually being ABLE to. With much respect, I applaud you for moving back in with your family because the courage it takes(as some may say) to "step back" can be hard to conquer. I went through a similar situation of moving out and then moving back into my family home. I went from a family of 6 to just me. I lacked the basis of the original foundation my family raised me by, which then made the freedom I had confusing and my arrogance towards prioritizing what was important to increase. I had only my thoughts and decisions to rely on, which made justifying my wrong doings easier because my family was no longer around to help guide me. With that being said, I moved out at 18, moved back in with my parents at 19, and at 22, yes, I still live with my parents! :) Moving back home has made me accomplish more than I ever have or thought I could for myself! So, thank you, Hannah, for showcasing that moving back home(or anywhere else that may benefit) is sometimes the path/push people need to take in order to move forward with their futures! Again, sorry for the rant but, way to be a TRUE role model girly! -Val :) (btw I live in the Southeastern area in MI!)
IVE BEEN COUNTING DOWN FOR THE PAST HOUR IM SO EXCITED TO WATCH
I’m no one to judge but I feel like her siblings are a big factor into whether Hannah can be happier and feel better altogether. She’s definitely a family kind of girl and seeing the way Ella talks to her is just like wtf. College is a sticky subject for Hannah rn and for Ella to butt in and say that she was accepted was something else. If Hannah were my sister and I knew what she was going through, I’d be more considerate and caring about what I say. People say that that’s just her personality but in reality she could tone it down and be nice for a moment, it wouldn’t kill her.
Feel like Hannah is saying that she’s “unsure about her faith” on being Catholic in fear of getting hated on. Really not fair to her, everyone deserves to be who they are without getting hate.
I feel like she said that because her mom and her dad both expect her to go to church
Abigail well if you’re catholic you are expected to go to church lol.
Maggie Yost thanks Maggie very cool Maggie!
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THE INTRO WOAH HANNAH THIS IS AMAZING I LOVE THIS SERIES SO MUCH!!!
aw hannah i’m glad you’re happy back at home with friends and family. I do hope if you are feeling off emotionally you reach out and get help. you deserve nothing but happiness. sending good vibes your way❤️❤️
THE GUY AT THE STARBUCKS i'm deceased
That is good, we used to pray at the dinner table way back when we were young, but am happy at least that I influenced my entire family to be religious ever since I was at least 3 years old, I convinced my parents to enroll us 5 brothers in Sunday school, but ended up that I was too young to attend, but always waited for my bros to come home and tell me all about it, but then eventually broke away from the church when a mishap happened after we were coming home one time from a church camping event and the church leaders kicked one of our friends off the bus on the outskirts of town, then my dad ripped into them and we stopped going to church, but I still kept everyone interested in seeking God and/or religion, even when it turned into my brothers wanting to seek our Indian ways, which we ended up doing, then in the end we learned our Indian ways and incorporated our Christian values with our Native values and still pray to Our Father In Heaven, whether it be in our Native tongue or English, so keep at it, for those who seek righteousness will find it.
Even tho I DO think that every household should have rules, I kind of feel uncomfortable with the way her mother did all of this. Hannah is 19. Yes, she might be a legal adult but you can't expect your child to be grown up the day they turn 18. Yes, "adult" teenagers should take responsibility for themselves and be independent to some extent. But they are still just teenagers. Idk if I have that mindset because I'm European (German to be exact) and we don't have the same family dynamics as American families. But I personally think, as a 19 year old myself, that it's a very weird thing to expect your child to be fully independent at that age and move out when they are 18. Many people here actually stay with their parents during university. My mom always said that I can move out if I want to but I don't have to if I'd rather stay with them (I could because my uni isn't far from where I live). From what I've heard, Hannahs mom set those rules for her as a requirement for her to be able to come back. Which is not how a family should function in my mind. Again, rules are acceptable and even necessary to make families work. But the concept of making those rules into a requirement or even something like a contract bothers me. They are not a company and their employer, they are mother and daughter. If your child is still so young and needs your emotional support you should give it to them. Figuring yourself out is hard as it is. But having to do all of it on your own and without emotional support is even harder. I can't see behind the scenes, but the way her mom handled the situation bothered me. I am quite sure of it that hannah has made her fair share of mistakes during all of this, but she is still not fully grown up yet. You can't expect her to handle every situation in a mature way. But I do think that a grown woman, a mother, should act a little more appropriate in situations like these and be there for her daughter when she needs her most. I recall hannah saying that she asked her mom to stay with her instead of going on vacation because she was not well mentally, and her mother still went without her. That is something that would have hurt me very much if it happened to me and would probably partly destroy my trust in my mother. Your parents are (usually) the people you trust most and lean onto during difficult times, and when they fail to be there for you it can hurt you deeply. I hope that both her and her mother will be able to restore their relationship and form a healthier, trusting bond in the future. And for that I don't think those rules are actually necessary. An "adult" teenager should participate in the family life and do chores just like everyone else, but they also should have a little more freedom than the children under 18. Experiencing stuff on your own away from your family but still being able to return to the safety and stability of your family is probably the best way to learn how to become an adult. It's like young birds making test flights and coming back to the nest before leaving it completely. With their family it seems as if it's expected to either move out when you're 18 and be on your own or live with the family and not be independent at all. Both sides are unfitting for the transition she is going through: from child to adult. A good mix of both is probably better for all of them.
Honestly I am so proud of you for being real with your emotions and not being afraid to take that leap to move back home. Family is SO important but why rush growing up? You have a beautiful family and a great mother! You’re going to learn so much and do it on your own time. I love this series and I love watching you do what ultimately makes you happy! GO HANNAH!!!
She seems super depressed
there’s nothing wrong with her mom asking for her to follow rules in HER house. hannah seems lost in life and in need of more structure and discipline. it’ll be good for her.
i agree but i think it's weird that her mom didn't let her move back in right away and how she established the rules before hannah was even living there. i think that as soon as she found out hannah was struggling she should've let her move back in and given her the rules later on
@@ainaminks agreed
i think her mom’s rules are justified. it’s her house and structure seems to be needed for hannah
finally someone agrees
Yess! It’s parents responsibility to run a functional and productive family. I’m so glad hannah shared this
Agree but they are very strict rules for an adult
Oliver_B I do agree with having some rules, they just seem a little severe but obviously the parent knows best and we don’t have there whole situation
ughh i just watched this and now im... :(( that was the most vulnerable i think i have ever seen you hannah, and for you to notice that you were downfalling living on your own AND to actually realize you needed to be back with your family...this video was very real and really hit home
im so confused by who was filming at dinner
same ahahha
i think that it was obviously gonna be awkward when hannah moved back no matter how normal she wanted it to be but i mean look at her now her relationship with her family is amazing !! so proud of u han 💗
If your comment is about the strictness of her mother: y’all have to understand that Hannah is an adult living under her mom’s roof. It’s not bizarre to push someone to adulthood. Heck, she is an adult. She should be treated like one - and she would if she were independent like one. 🤷♀️ no hate but I fully see her mom’s POV (of what we’ve been shown)!
I don't agree with how strict her mom is, but people need to understand that she comes from a generation where rules were EVERYTHING. They had a belief that as long as you follow the rules and do "what you're supposed to", everything will work out and you'll be happy and safe forever.
Because of this a lot of parents either have heaps of rules or go the opposite direction and have none, because they resented having so many when they were growing up. I don't agree with it but I think she is coming from a good place.
Dude she’s like 18, give her a break. She just graduated high school she shouldn’t be under so much pressure to move out and be on her own. Her family should understand that
You don’t suddenly turn into an adult, her mom should help her transition. Its already hard, your family shouldnt make it harder on you
Me mom would never do that though
irene biju she has to be an adult sometime, and without a lot of freedom is the perfect way to force someone into adulthood. She wouldn’t have any rules if she was in her own home, she could be an adult there, but she chose to live at home after graduation. You heard it yourself, Hannah was okay with the rules of it meant she could live at home.
gusy her mom and family in general are NOT toxic. from hannah’s vlogs i’ve watched for the longest time now this is just how their family is. they are a very structured family and that’s just what works for them!
my mom is so sad about me moving out next year. I can’t imagine wanting to come back home because of my mental health and being this unwelcomed.
I LOVE MELOCHE MADNESS, i have been binging all your vids since i have 2 weeks off 🥺 you make me happy. I LOVE YOU
Ella wants to be the favorite so bad girl university of Arizona and Arizona state are both party schools with high acceptance rates nothing to brag about
Daisy L preach!!!!
that’s how siblings are, this whole thing is supposed to show that families aren’t perfect, and Hannah’s life isn’t always perfect as it may sometimes be portrayed. This is an example of how siblings are not Ella “wanting to be the favorite.” And Hannah clapped back with the tanning bed thing. It’s a small everyday thing that happens in siblings but at the end of the day their family and they love each other.
factsss
Lmao I was like Arizona? Ok??? 😂💀
I’m just pissed that I wasn’t the one to find that makeup drawer thing at goodwill. Like whoever found that was BIG LUCKY.
Aliyah Laabs i went looking for it after this video and it was gone already 😭
i’m stuck inside bc of corona but this is already making my day better. 😘😘❤️🥺
Thank you for being so honest about so many different things in this video. I am in high school and go to a catholic school and my family is very catholic but I’m not sure that this is the faith for me, so it meant a lot that you were open to talking about your own faith. Thank you.
genuinely just strange that her mum makes rules for her to move home? your child is your child why would you make a list of “rules” your DAUGHTER has to follow in order to live at home.. i get some parents are strict but that’s taking it a bit far
Lauren Gould I mean I think it’s more about living in someone’s home. Hannah’s an adult now. Like, I live w my sister but I have chores & responsibilities & pay rent. I think forcing her to go to church is bit much but there are certain boundaries everyone needs
I think she wanted Hannah to have some structure and to understand what it means to be an active member of the family. These aren’t rules like u have to clean up after everyone but rules that are grounded in making sure you spend time together. It’s not fair for us outsiders to comment (Ik it seems hypocritical since I’m responding to a comment of a comment) bc we! do! not! know! what! happened! before! Hannah mentioned that her moving out was rough on their relationship and that she felt lost for much of that time. Just Bc someone is ur child doesn’t mean u have to tolerate all of their behaviors and actions.
It did seem odd to me that she said the rules are *more* strict than when she was in high school. I feel like typically parents chill out more as the kids get older and begin learning how to be more independent
you don't know how hannah was acting before or their relationship. in any case, i dont think it is our place to judge or comment. it will just make hannah feel bad. she already is insecure about how people comment on everything she does
Shannon Victoria this is nothing. Try having foreign parents
I am Catholic and my family has been going to Mass every Sunday for as long as I can remember! It’s so refreshing to see another family like mine. Keep being you! This series is amazing💗
this upload made my whole day...
5:32 her mom jeez she didn’t hug her back and responded with ‘so do dogs’.... look at Hannah’s face too 😂
it sucks that for her to come back home she has to do things. especially because being away was so hard for her.
Ana Nunez it almost seems that her mom doesn’t want her back or like she’s 30 years old and it’s ridiculous for her to move back home... it’s obviously not my family so I don’t really know how they work butttt
well I think she told her mom that she didn't need her anymore and now she's coming right back. I think it also has to do with rebuilding their relationship
idk it kinda makes sense... once you're 18 you're not your parents' responsibility anymore so they really don't have to let her stay. It only makes sense that she has to do chores and stuff because they're doing her a favor by letting her stay so she needs to do her part
True dat. But also Hannah did move out and even said that she did because she thought she could “do it all” and didn’t need her family anymore so this must be her moms way of making sure Hannah is serious. Also, if Hannah wants to move back and have Reeve out of her room , then it would make sense that she would have to abide by the rules her siblings do. 😃😃 overall, I think we’re all glad that she’s HAPPy!!
It's so weird for me cause especially in Turkey even if you're literally 30 years old you are always welcome and your parents are always always and always there for u no matter how old you are or in what conditions you're living. So for me what she is going through seems so hard and upsetting. If I was her I'd probably get depressed since my home is the only place I feel welcomed and safe
Lowkey feel bad for Reeve tho
@Tatiana Cole i dont get why they converted her whole ass room back for 5 months then. like put her somewhere else for 5 months shes a grownass woman choosing to live at home and reeve is an actual child who has to live there
J X B “grown ass woman” she is a teen. I’m so happy I’m not American...
I live with a family of seven and I've lived with my four sisters in the same room for my entire life. I'm turning 16 this year and it's not that bad. I obviously want my own room but you guys are being dramatic oh my god
reeve: “my favorite memory of hannah is when she took my room” 😂💀
I'm very proud of you Hannah. It's good to see you back in the house. It must have been hard moving back in and experiencing this weird but loving energy in the house. We all see it and support you. Please don't give up now cause you're doing great. I love you a lot and I'm very very very proud of you ❤
I've always thought of this family as the picture perfect family, I've never seen them interact like this and it really shows how social media doesn't show everything. I'm very surprised how toxic it seems idk
awwe im a Christin and seeing you and your fam+friends praying every time before you guys ate is so cute and it reminded me to start doing it and also for me to actually start reading y bible. your fam is the cutestttt btw
this was such a good vid I low-key feel like I know u better now then I have even tho I've watched u for 2 years
I’ve been watching for about a year now and I just love the faith your family has and how loving y’all seem.
i love how it's edited like a tv show :))
Crazy how much you look like your mom! And then all the siblings look so alike too! Also, I love your mom. Seems like a really sensible, no crap-taking yet loving kinda woman. Happy you're happier!
I still feel really bad for your brother having his room taken away.
Deseray Bautista bruh....
Deseray Bautista theres kids that will never have their own all room all throughout highschool, he will be okay and will have that room back in a few months when hannah goes to college
Your videos truly make my day and loving having your channel to go to when I’m upset. Thank you Hannah and continue to spread the love and positivity!
I love this series so much (“:
jack is the biggest mood. he just doesn't want to be there
haven’t even watched yet but i know it’s gonna be so good!! my fave youtube fam🥰🥰
I love how you can tell that u spend so much time and effort into these videos. I love u sm hannah and all ur fans are so proud of u ❤️
why would you need rules to come live back home? also seems like everyone is uncomfortable by you coming home? idk just the vibe i’m getting. ella and ur mom seem so annoyed and braggy
because it's called taking responsibility. That's family life. & she's learning good skills that she needs for when one day she might have a family. mind your own business
I'm so sad for Hannah
Lucinda Burgess no i completely get it. but her family just seemed so uncomfortable in the video
K S I get it i really do, but I don’t know if you watched one of her videos (forgot the name) but she was saying how they argued all the time and her mom was basically forcing her out of the house. idk that just doesn’t seem right to me. in the whole family her mom and sister were almost being mean to her and you could tell hannah was upset about it
i wish she’ll get to a college so she can move out and live happily in a dorm with some good friends. i’ve been really concerned since she voiced her thoughts of suicide.... she’s been in some dark waters, and her family seems to have been the cause.
I honestly loved the video! I think that it was great how your family still goes to church, and even though you are questioning your religion, I admired how you opened up about it and talked about how you don't really know yet! Great video! Sending Love :)
not gonna lie...my room is decorated based on ur old room tour from like 2017 LOL ILY
wait that’s so awkward she said she likes her new room more now. LOL AWK AWK AWK AWK AWK. I STILL LOVE MY ROOM THO
Reeves is the nicest boy. Ily Hannah I’ve been following you this whole journey and am so proud of you! Stay strong 💫
You can just tell how much Hannah out into this videk
Love the format and style of this video! So candid and real and love getting to see this side of you and the whole fam! Keep being genuine and authentic - we love it!
this makes me feel better ab living at home w my family as i go to college :)
her dads side of the family seems so amazing and just a nice space to be in
Just wanted to share my experience with catholic/Christian thing as I’ve have a very similar experience as you! I was raised Catholic and always believed in God but I felt like there was something a little missing so I went to a Christian church at my university and it was a different experience for sure but so so good I now go to both churches on a Sunday as when I’m away from home the catholic services feels like home but when I go to the Christian church I feel like I can really praise Jesus!! You can do both!! At the end of the day if Jesus was walking on this Earth today we would all praise him, make sure your faith is your own. Big LOVE xxx
i am literally obsessed with these series they are life saving in corona break lots of love hannah cant wait to see the next episode
Not targeting Hannah’s family but out of curiosity, why do people have to be “raised catholic “ and raise their kids that way? I’m Christian but nobody should be forced to believe a certain way. It’s only genuine if people believe it on their own. I don’t mean this comment to be negative, I guess I just don’t understand that perspective.
Also it seemed like pretty much all the kids didn’t really enjoy going to church but just saw it as a place they had to go to.
hannah i love u so so much. watching all of your videos makes me so happy. i’m so incredibly proud of you. you’re doing so many amazing things rn and i cant wait to see what you accomplish in the future. again, thank you for making me happy and inspiring me for the past almost two years 🥺❤️ I LOVE U!
Her mom is being to hard on her. Parents shouldn’t want their kids to get out right away that bad. They should be there for them and be like if u aren’t ready to be on ur own I’ll be there for u and still let u live with us. Like come on their her parentssss it’s a scary world out there and they should let her stay home.
i just turned 24, last year i tried to move out on my own and only lasted one day. i too came from a close family and truly i wasn’t ready to leave them. i give you so much credit for lasting as long as you did in the apartment especially since you were only 18. there’s nothing wrong with moving back home until you’re comfortable enough to move out again 💓💓💓 you made the right decision for you and that’s all that matters.
When you were talking about how you don’t know whether you want to be Catholic, Christian, etc. I would recommend that you go to a few different churches in your area until you find one that you’re genuinely excited to go to, and one where you feel like you understand the message. Also this is just an idea/advice I’m not trying to tell you how to live your life:)💞
this series is so good by far my fave thing you've done on youtube. love it. thank you for sharing gurl