Nozi, can I just say this. Thank you for shearing the most sensitive parts of your life. That is helping a lot of us to also look at ours on a bit of a lighter note and to know that no one is immune to these situations. That is the truest form of living this life. Thank you so much, Sis.
If no one tells you this let me be the one to, Nozibele you are awesome and what you are doing for those three children can never be quantifiable. My brother and I were in a similar position like those kids, and guess what we were raised by the community when our mother died I was 9 yrs old and my brother was 10 years old. In 2021 I am studying Post Graduate Diploma in Accounting Sciences (at age of 22) I have a degree girl, my brother is doing his final year in Logistics (at age of 23). All I am saying is do all you can which is within your control, those kids are Gods' favourite should anything happen to your mom/you/your brother he has a plan for them and they will grow and succeed.
The 2 kids can move in with the brother then rent out the house imali yerent incedise kwibond or nirentise the brother’s house nibhatale ibond..icebo liyazakha kuzobaryt❤️❤️❤️ “my thoughts “
I am so glad that your channel exists. It helped me think about a lot of things. Me and my mum discuss death quite a lot and for a while I encouraged her to think about life insurance. Because of my age, I cant be a beneficiary but she had a child at 43 when I was 17 and I knew I wouldn't be able to look after her full time had anything happened to my mother. I live in the UK and I've seen way too many people rallying for money to have funerals for their relatives. I didn't want to do the same God forbid anything happened to my mother. I looked after my sister a lot when she was a baby because my mother was away a lot. I did everything, I saw how hard it was. I'm a very objective thinker and I wanted to be realistic about the situation. At the end of the day I want the best for my mother in her passing when she transitions and the best possible upbringing for my younger sibling. For all your eye opening discussions, I thank you ❤
I never wanted to have kids but here I am raising my late sisters 3year old and love her from the moon and back. You’re doing an amazing job. Tough but worth it
Only started watching your vids a few days ago. You make me believe that life is still worth living, and that maybe, with self love and acceptance, it will one day genuinely be happy.
Ndiyamthanda u Imi. I'm over 60 and she reminds me of my grand daughters. Imi and her Rhakgadi are close. How I wish every child in South Africa can be afforded an opportunity to be taken care of. What happened to our 'UBUNTU' culture. Her language development is advanced for her age. She's such a bubbly confident girl.
Nozi I know exactly what you're going through, I'm 39 and I don't have kids of my own but I'm parenting my late brother's kids. It really pisses me off when people ask me when am I getting my own child. Sis live your life the way you want and don't mind what everyone is saying. Being a mother is not only raising your biological kids, you are doing a good job site💕
You are doing a good job with Imi, parenthood is an amazing journey whether you gave birth or not it’s still a blessing. Just be patient with her and yourself and enjoy the process. More grace and blessings from the Almighty.
You doing such an incredible job by taking care of Imi and your whole familly may Jehovah continue blessing and giving you strength to keep on ,,,,,,lots of love ❤🤍❤🤍❤🤍🌷🤍🌷🤍🌷
The way I'm so emotional watching this video, it got me crying because I'm in the same situation and people just don't know when to stop, I also went to different Doctors and they said everything is fine, but everytime when we trying with my partner nothing happens for the past years, I'm emotional drained especially when people would ask insensitive questions and sometimes I would brush it off and say I'm just focusing on myself not knowing every month end when I'm getting my periods I feel like dying, hang in the Nozi everything happens for a reason,you might not see it now but unike idolo ukutya kwalo sisi uthandaze
Sending you hugs and kisses. You will conceive when you take your mind off it, difficult as it may be. Try finding something to preoccupy your mind, it might help
All the best on this journey with Imi❤ All your efforts are definitely not going in vain, it may feel a lot for now but you are doing well. Thank you for sharing this journey with us.
You have basically related what every parent goes through, im in awe of how sincere you are about the whole experience. God bless you and hubby for being selfless.
🙇♀️🙇♀️ Nozi when you said issa lot I felt that hey,aftr my grandmother passed away at the age of 24 years I had to now take care of my grandmother's house my baby sister and also help my uncle bcos he has been struggling to find a job to a point wer I even buy him clothes and on the other hand its myself and son and am in joburg, extended family members wer playing far now so everything is on me.so its alot I get whT you talking about but God is still sustaining us shem 🥰🥰🥰 Love you Kamogelo
Refrain from such questions. Stolen asking people when are they having kids, when are they having sec child or so . When are they getting married? When are they buying a house or car . We need to stop!!!
Yhaaa nhe, I wish people can stop putting others in so much pressure ngabantwana. Take your time sis. When you ready, u will have kids. Abantwana bavela kuThixo, when the time is right, u will conceive.
I have a feeling that you are going to conceive very soon now because she is with you guys and you are busy with her and your womb is relaxed. Good things happen when our hearts are full
It's good to plan ahead but ningavumi ukuba lento ini affect nicinge ngayo kakhulu. Mom will no pass away not anytime soon. God knows she is raising these 3 kids, so he has already blessed her will long life🙏🙏🙏
God will help you don’t think too much about it It’s doable I raised my sister with no job bo family support I was doing matric but I vow she will never go to foster care after my mum pass .I will take care of she’s now 24 doing Law degree . She’s one of the best things ever happened to me Just pray for your family you will be ok
Nozi....I admire your honesty. You are such an amazing woman. I am truly impressed by your kindness and sacrifice for your family. I pray that God remembers you and pays you back 100 fold.
God bless you and your husband for welcoming Imi into your new home and raising her. ❤️ Sisuka kwizandla ezifana nezakho singabaye and we have grown up to be strong women.
Weee nozi welcome to motherhood i have 2 children and yeyi i dont remember when last i had a full night of sleep zona ke i adult activities u can't scream u can't be creative we constantly sneaking around coz mayb omnye uzo khala or budge in or start calling i feel u er.. I understand your worries ngo makhulu tjo its a lot but don't let it get into your ul never have a concrete plan until it happens atleast nine skeleton plan everything wil fall into place ul see.. All the best raising imi omhle bethunana God bless u guys ey love u
Let's get this straight kids are from God period & stop with the insensitive question of kids people have no idea that de journey of infertility is the most painful thing ever a woman can go through, I have experienced it.God blessed me at de right time today I am carrying my 2nd baby.Nozi God will bless you at the right time, all the best for u, skhu & Imi🙏❤️
One thing about you!! You Consistent about your content, i love that so much...i just saw the update that you will do this video ,and I can't believe you've already done and uploaded, love that kemna!!!
I love you, you are amazing mama ka Imi. You are groeing and im happy for you. Ups abd downs come with life, You know God, you have seen Him in your life, He will always come through for you & Skhu. Love you my sister 😘😘
I feel like people do it intentionally to hurt you, lento yobuza about having kids, because in 2021 people know, especially on social media maan, kudala kwathethwa ngalento ayinampucuko tu lambuzo
One of the questions I hate!! When are you having children. I love the fact that you are focused in your lane and you have such a big heart Nozi may God continue to bless you🙏
If you can afford it please pay at least extra R500 on your house bond. It’ll cut off your repayment period dramatically. And whenever you have any extra money, put it on your bond. If you are already doing this , well done!! ❤️
Even if you don't have children right now. Watching you with Imi shows that you'd make perfect mom one day. ❤️ I honestly thought Imi is your child yazi. I love you so much. So many of my family members are infected with HIV. I'm glad that you've created a platform where people can learn from you and not feel like the world has ended for them because they are infected by HIV. ❤️
I feel like its such a hard situation and lots of decisions to make. 5 kids is quite a number i agree. I guess you Will cross that bridge later but for now do not stress your self
Four months ago we were celebrating 50k subies and we're hitting 100k soon🤭🤭Do you see how wonderful you're sis Nozi? Your content is informative, worth watching and inspirational. Thank you for being yourself and sharing your life with us. I have learnt so much from you. Keep shining ❤️❤️.
You're a really brave girl for sharing so openly! Enjoy the highs and embrace the lows. Ga gona anything such as Perfect. One day at a time is the only way to do it. All the best and I wish you all the happiness and love in your home. Happy adjusting!
I think it’s rude to ask people about having kids. It’s boring and insensitive. Also you doing amazing my sis. ❤️
it's very rude and uncivilized mtase!
It's usually from a good place...I don't think people say that just to hurt her. It's a teachable moment for her viewers!
Nozi with such a warm heart will not take offense.She has taken a step to open up her life to the public
The prayer!😍😍😍
"Thank you Lord for Imi abemhle!"
Jonga Imi is a princess and she knows it😍😍😍❤
😹😹 she saying her prayer while watching opopayi ke phof
Nana Pato thought I noticed that ndodwa🤣🤣🤣
This wasn’t an easy topic for you to talk about. Big hug 🤗 💝.
Nozi, can I just say this. Thank you for shearing the most sensitive parts of your life. That is helping a lot of us to also look at ours on a bit of a lighter note and to know that no one is immune to these situations. That is the truest form of living this life. Thank you so much, Sis.
If no one tells you this let me be the one to, Nozibele you are awesome and what you are doing for those three children can never be quantifiable. My brother and I were in a similar position like those kids, and guess what we were raised by the community when our mother died I was 9 yrs old and my brother was 10 years old. In 2021 I am studying Post Graduate Diploma in Accounting Sciences (at age of 22) I have a degree girl, my brother is doing his final year in Logistics (at age of 23). All I am saying is do all you can which is within your control, those kids are Gods' favourite should anything happen to your mom/you/your brother he has a plan for them and they will grow and succeed.
Hey girl, can i ask where are you based? I'm also doing PGDA distance learning based in Pretoria.
@@ndalamamashabele5956 Hello I am in Johannesburg, I am studying at UJ full-time
I love your honesty. You have so many responsibilities at such a young age but handle them very well.
I need to start off my day by thanking God for ubamhle nam mntakabawo😌💕
I’m here for the good sis Imi ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Marking iRegister
1st in class
Its "Imi's prayer" for me 😍😍😂
and she was watching TV whilst praying lol...
While looking onto the tv🌚👀😂
The 2 kids can move in with the brother then rent out the house imali yerent incedise kwibond or nirentise the brother’s house nibhatale ibond..icebo liyazakha kuzobaryt❤️❤️❤️ “my thoughts “
I am so glad that your channel exists. It helped me think about a lot of things. Me and my mum discuss death quite a lot and for a while I encouraged her to think about life insurance. Because of my age, I cant be a beneficiary but she had a child at 43 when I was 17 and I knew I wouldn't be able to look after her full time had anything happened to my mother. I live in the UK and I've seen way too many people rallying for money to have funerals for their relatives. I didn't want to do the same God forbid anything happened to my mother. I looked after my sister a lot when she was a baby because my mother was away a lot. I did everything, I saw how hard it was. I'm a very objective thinker and I wanted to be realistic about the situation. At the end of the day I want the best for my mother in her passing when she transitions and the best possible upbringing for my younger sibling. For all your eye opening discussions, I thank you ❤
I never wanted to have kids but here I am raising my late sisters 3year old and love her from the moon and back. You’re doing an amazing job. Tough but worth it
Lol, she’s praying while watching cartoons 🥰
Only started watching your vids a few days ago. You make me believe that life is still worth living, and that maybe, with self love and acceptance, it will one day genuinely be happy.
It's the consistent prayer for me ❤️😂 Imi is so cute!
Imi’s prayer bethuna 🥺❤️❤️
Ndiyamthanda u Imi. I'm over 60 and she reminds me of my grand daughters. Imi and her Rhakgadi are close. How I wish every child in South Africa can be afforded an opportunity to be taken care of. What happened to our 'UBUNTU' culture. Her language development is advanced for her age. She's such a bubbly confident girl.
Nozi I know exactly what you're going through, I'm 39 and I don't have kids of my own but I'm parenting my late brother's kids. It really pisses me off when people ask me when am I getting my own child. Sis live your life the way you want and don't mind what everyone is saying. Being a mother is not only raising your biological kids, you are doing a good job site💕
Imi is a very special and brilliant child ❤️absolutely love her. You're doing good Mommy 🤗
You have a good heart Nozi full of love and compassion.God will carry you in everything you do.Many more blessings to you ❤
Imi’s personality is so beautiful 😍.You’re doing a good job!
You are doing a good job with Imi, parenthood is an amazing journey whether you gave birth or not it’s still a blessing. Just be patient with her and yourself and enjoy the process. More grace and blessings from the Almighty.
You doing such an incredible job by taking care of Imi and your whole familly may Jehovah continue blessing and giving you strength to keep on ,,,,,,lots of love ❤🤍❤🤍❤🤍🌷🤍🌷🤍🌷
Let us pray with Imi bantase, she doesn't want to pinch other kids at school hle 😂. Love you guys ❤️
The way I'm so emotional watching this video, it got me crying because I'm in the same situation and people just don't know when to stop, I also went to different Doctors and they said everything is fine, but everytime when we trying with my partner nothing happens for the past years, I'm emotional drained especially when people would ask insensitive questions and sometimes I would brush it off and say I'm just focusing on myself not knowing every month end when I'm getting my periods I feel like dying, hang in the Nozi everything happens for a reason,you might not see it now but unike idolo ukutya kwalo sisi uthandaze
Sending you hugs and kisses. You will conceive when you take your mind off it, difficult as it may be. Try finding something to preoccupy your mind, it might help
Check your thyroid glands and prolactin levels..take black seed oil..you will be a mom soon enough..hugs🌹
Sending love and light to you my angel ❤️. It will happen in God’s time ❤️
All the best on this journey with Imi❤ All your efforts are definitely not going in vain, it may feel a lot for now but you are doing well. Thank you for sharing this journey with us.
You have basically related what every parent goes through, im in awe of how sincere you are about the whole experience. God bless you and hubby for being selfless.
I wonder how you are managing knowing you're not a morning person. Wishing you all the best sis. Let me watch😍☺️
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Being a parent does not only apply to the person who gave birth. You guys are already parents. Quite uplifting🌹🌹🌹💝💝💝
Oh I love this child. Always vibrant and active. Wenza umdla maan❤❤❤❤
I love Imi's prayer and how she multitasks while doing it. So it's the cantoons then she's praying. I love you so much
That prayer before she left for school 😭❤️ children are precious🥺
🙇♀️🙇♀️ Nozi when you said issa lot I felt that hey,aftr my grandmother passed away at the age of 24 years I had to now take care of my grandmother's house my baby sister and also help my uncle bcos he has been struggling to find a job to a point wer I even buy him clothes and on the other hand its myself and son and am in joburg, extended family members wer playing far now so everything is on me.so its alot I get whT you talking about but God is still sustaining us shem 🥰🥰🥰
Love you
Kamogelo
Refrain from such questions. Stolen asking people when are they having kids, when are they having sec child or so . When are they getting married? When are they buying a house or car . We need to stop!!!
Louder dear
It really needs to stop
Yhaaa nhe, I wish people can stop putting others in so much pressure ngabantwana. Take your time sis. When you ready, u will have kids. Abantwana bavela kuThixo, when the time is right, u will conceive.
I have a feeling that you are going to conceive very soon now because she is with you guys and you are busy with her and your womb is relaxed. Good things happen when our hearts are full
Like they will assist with maintenance
I love seeing you with Imi honestly... She lights you up ❤️😍
So proud of you! I love your content, and the wisdom you always share ❤️🙏🏽
God bless you abundantly 😊🙏🏽
It's good to plan ahead but ningavumi ukuba lento ini affect nicinge ngayo kakhulu. Mom will no pass away not anytime soon. God knows she is raising these 3 kids, so he has already blessed her will long life🙏🙏🙏
Nozi you are so transparent, thank you for sharing your story with us ❤️
Oh I luv her for that, she doesn't only show us the rosy side of her life
@@sibongilemngomezulu3454 o
It takes a strong person to do what you do, so proud of you.
This left me in tears 😭😭😭
That 'Skhu is getting older, when are you giving him kids' chat is plain disrespect 💔
I'm sorry about that.
God will help you don’t think too much about it
It’s doable I raised my sister with no job bo family support I was doing matric but I vow she will never go to foster care after my mum pass .I will take care of she’s now 24 doing Law degree . She’s one of the best things ever happened to me
Just pray for your family you will be ok
That mommy instincts is kicking in dabawo. No more being a heavy sleeper😄.
"I can't be loud or Skhu can't be loud" 🤣🤣uImi uniphefumlisa ngo pipe Nozie literally
Nozi....I admire your honesty.
You are such an amazing woman. I am truly impressed by your kindness and sacrifice for your family. I pray that God remembers you and pays you back 100 fold.
God bless you and your husband for welcoming Imi into your new home and raising her. ❤️ Sisuka kwizandla ezifana nezakho singabaye and we have grown up to be strong women.
One day at a time will get you far, enjoy Imi.. She is so cute 😍
Your beauty is a reflection of your heart. It's amazing to watch. UThixo uzomkumgcina uMa kangangoko kumele. Uyathandwa ndim sana.
Don't sell the house,Let the kids stay there and find a houselp and visit often.The house has memories.
So true I think that's the best thing she can do .
Weee nozi welcome to motherhood i have 2 children and yeyi i dont remember when last i had a full night of sleep zona ke i adult activities u can't scream u can't be creative we constantly sneaking around coz mayb omnye uzo khala or budge in or start calling i feel u er..
I understand your worries ngo makhulu tjo its a lot but don't let it get into your ul never have a concrete plan until it happens atleast nine skeleton plan everything wil fall into place ul see.. All the best raising imi omhle bethunana God bless u guys ey love u
You gonna be such an amazing mom Nozi ❤️🔥🔥
You're absolutely right 🥰
You’re such a blessing to your family Nozi❤️ uThixo abenani anisikelele.
Let's get this straight kids are from God period & stop with the insensitive question of kids people have no idea that de journey of infertility is the most painful thing ever a woman can go through, I have experienced it.God blessed me at de right time today I am carrying my 2nd baby.Nozi God will bless you at the right time, all the best for u, skhu & Imi🙏❤️
The cutest "before school prayer " emhlabeni 🥺🥺 for Imi abe mhle. Tsini😍😍😍😍
Thank you for sharing you and your life, with us. Siyafunda, siyakhula, uyasakha. Blessings and peace to you Beloved Queen ❤️🙏🏽❤️
The little miss is so adorable, jonga the confidence! 💕
When you say "Yabona?".... 😍😍😍😅Semhle❣
It’s Imi praying whist watching tv for me 😂🤣🥰
You're a natural mother yaz😊
You're such a phenomenal human being, I loooove everything about you 😭♥️.. All the best sis' ♥️
Dear Nozi, aren't thinking too much. Your mum could live to a hundred who knows? Only God. Good to plan but still God has the final say.
I learn something new everytime I listen to you sis! Not yet married and don't have a family of my own yet but you've educated me
In Such A Situation Nozi Please Surrender It To GOD ..HE Will Make A Way 🙏
I like your point
So glad that you brought up the issue of people asking you insensitive questions about having children. People need to do bettter man!
People out here asking us when we getting married. I don't know
People think after you got married you must have kids straight away
@@lindiwemashaba8491 And it's so insensitive. Ngoba abazi what plans God has for the couple.
@@hlubiscornerso with me when asked I just say don't know cause only God holds the keys to the womb..
One thing about you!! You Consistent about your content, i love that so much...i just saw the update that you will do this video ,and I can't believe you've already done and uploaded, love that kemna!!!
Love her multitasking ability...watching TV & Prayer....
I love you, you are amazing mama ka Imi. You are groeing and im happy for you. Ups abd downs come with life, You know God, you have seen Him in your life, He will always come through for you & Skhu. Love you my sister 😘😘
Thanks for loving Imi as if she is your own, thanks for giving the girls shelter and rejoice for having an accommodating partner. ❤️
You have such a beautiful heart. It is so beautiful to see how you put your family first and operate with love and empathy.
You are doing a good job my friend... Well done❤️❤️
I wish people would learn to mind their own business, if you don’t talk about something people shouldn’t ask questions eg having kids.
We are here ..... been waiting for this notification 💃🏽💃🏽🌹
I feel like people do it intentionally to hurt you, lento yobuza about having kids, because in 2021 people know, especially on social media maan, kudala kwathethwa ngalento ayinampucuko tu lambuzo
Tshini ngoku funeka siphinda phinde into enye? Hayibo. Akho need. Asibadala. Imagine!
Say that again hey!!! Kudala kwathethwa ngale into
Basile abantu maan,
Some of us are new
@@phindilenxumalo7133 you just don’t ask that as a person. 💀
Imi is so lucky to have such a loving family....❤❤❤
Asking someone about when are they having kids, when are they getting married? Such questions really are unnecessary. And are hurtful.
Amen Imi bless you cc Nozi for such an amazing person you are
Awumhle cc🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👌♥️💯.. Yhuu umhlaba ungaze uwuthengise mntase nanini nah, ningase nibaqashele aunty nam ndikhule njalo cc and mama keyena ebephangela. Kungna asohlala ngku naye emzini wakhe kuba ese wapenshela sana, ndikhule ndihlala noSisi oqashiweyo ndimdala ngku cc.
This woman is everything !!❤️❤️ may God bless you
You are such a good daughter taking care of your ma that way. God bless
You on your way to 100 subbies❤️
One of the questions I hate!! When are you having children. I love the fact that you are focused in your lane and you have such a big heart Nozi may God continue to bless you🙏
Loved this episode all the best, I can’t wait to experience parenthood and making these kind adjustments
If you can afford it please pay at least extra R500 on your house bond. It’ll cut off your repayment period dramatically. And whenever you have any extra money, put it on your bond. If you are already doing this , well done!! ❤️
It actually does reduce it. It reduces the principal and in turn as a result reduces the interest and the period of the mortgage.
I’m a finance professional talking from experience. That agent may have omitted some information. I beg to differ with them.
🤣 IMIz but I love her personality she seems like a baby who isn't afraid expressing her self I love that
Even if you don't have children right now. Watching you with Imi shows that you'd make perfect mom one day. ❤️ I honestly thought Imi is your child yazi.
I love you so much. So many of my family members are infected with HIV. I'm glad that you've created a platform where people can learn from you and not feel like the world has ended for them because they are infected by HIV. ❤️
🤣🤣the prayer....I love her already. Thanks SisNozi
She's blessed to have an Aunt like you❤
I feel like its such a hard situation and lots of decisions to make. 5 kids is quite a number i agree. I guess you Will cross that bridge later but for now do not stress your self
You're probably the most honest youtuber I've ever come across.
Strength, light and more blessings to you Nozi ❤️🤗🤲🏽 you’re doing such an incredible job!
Nobody.....
Absolutely nobody...
Nozii🤣🤣"i don't knooooooow"I do not knooooooooow"
Sis, I love you❤
Four months ago we were celebrating 50k subies and we're hitting 100k soon🤭🤭Do you see how wonderful you're sis Nozi?
Your content is informative, worth watching and inspirational. Thank you for being yourself and sharing your life with us. I have learnt so much from you. Keep shining ❤️❤️.
I love you Nozi😍something about you is so special
Thank you for this video. It encourages me nam I'm a first time, my baby is 1year 5months. And it ain't easy but with God Grace daily I'm learning.
Prayer 🥺❤️😍
U deserve all the happiness in the world
Imi is very blessed to have you... ❤
She is so cute u Imi, situation will never be the same, do what is good for you sisi. Yeka abantu.
You're a really brave girl for sharing so openly! Enjoy the highs and embrace the lows. Ga gona anything such as Perfect. One day at a time is the only way to do it. All the best and I wish you all the happiness and love in your home. Happy adjusting!