I love myself when I harmonise my passion with opportunities to create a meaningful project or goal, then automatically I stick to an unbreakable discipline. Excitement takes over. I found my potential with the help of my INTJ friend (my daughter). They are amazing in strategising our potential. In theory I should be able to show love to myself when I stop being nervous around people by sticking to basics becasue I beat up myself for almost everything.
Si keeps you humbled. Keeps your ego in check. Moves you from being a talker to a doer or a person who prototype your ideas when you want to show people or talk about it. It lets you prove the usefulness, importance, and function of your ideas. It lets you see if your ideas will solve or fix the problem you trying to solve. I now see the dynamic between Ne and Si. When we prototype an idea we do it to prove the validity of it to ourselves (Ne) and to people (Si) when we show it to "said" people while talking about it. We ask them while asking them "what do you think " to win their validation. A less mature INTP will talk about their ideas to seek validation and approval but a mature INTP will prototype the idea and show it. Also a mature INTP will refrain from from talking about their ideas before they prototype it to prevent people from seeing them as someone that as a talker not a doer. I think the dynamic between Ti and Fe makes the INTP Independent but you also have to not be too independent. The INTP has to leave the house and go out and mingle and push themselves to get in a good intimate relationship and not a codependent one, if a girl plays hard to get by walking away and expecting me to chase her I let her go. If a girl does not play mind games and has the quality I value, like niceness, I make the effort to nurture a relationship.
Socionics shows that when INTPs progress, they look more like their ENFP Supervisee in private and their INFJ Benefactor in public. INTP Carl Jung progressed to look more like his INFJ Benefactor in public. This is why some people mistyped him as an INFJ.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: Self-observation and proving oneself contribute to self-love by acknowledging accomplishments. Self-love isn't earned but freely given; it's important to maintain a healthy relationship with oneself. Self-love entails removing obstacles to feeling love rather than earning it, embracing love as a continuous flow. Understanding and setting appropriate expectations for oneself is crucial in fostering self-love. INTPs can cultivate self-love by optimizing their cognitive functions, particularly introverted thinking (accuracy), through rigorous logic and skill development. Refining processes, questioning assumptions, and applying skills can boost self-confidence and contribute to self-love for INTPs. 19:54 *Lack of motivation and focus in INTPs can indicate a lack of optimization in their introverted thinking or accuracy function.* 20:36 *Introverted thinking or accuracy is crucial for INTPs as it forms a significant part of their self-definition and how they relate to the world.* 24:03 *The auxiliary function of extroverted intuition, or exploration, allows INTPs to see possibilities, patterns, and new connections in the world, often expressing parental energy in helping others.* 26:48 *INTPs contribute to society not only through their thinking process but also through their intuition, often envisioning possibilities and innovative solutions.* 29:31 *INTPs experience greater self-love by serving others with their auxiliary function or by self-parenting with it, acknowledging their potential and accepting their own weirdness.* 30:54 *The tertiary function of introverted sensing, or memory, helps INTPs track changes over time, seek comfort, and maintain routines, but may seek validation externally due to uncertainty.* 36:31 *Balancing both the auxiliary function of exploration and the tertiary function of memory is crucial for INTPs to manifest their ideas into reality and increase their competence.* 39:45 *Intuition (exploration) in INTPs seeks potential and application, not just information consumption.* 41:21 *INTPs may fear being judged as too weird or irresponsible, hindering self-confidence.* 42:16 *Integrating introverted sensing with intuition creates a "Transcendent function," easing fears of judgment and promoting self-love.* 44:08 *Extroverted feeling (Harmony) is the INTP's weak spot, causing deep uncertainty and self-doubt.* 51:20 *Accepting uncertainty in extroverted feeling, while still striving for competence, is crucial for self-love in INTPs.* 55:03 *Integrating extroverted feeling enables INTPs to avoid unhealthy relationships, fostering self-respect and confidence.* 58:47 *Actions, not just self-talk, are essential for INTPs to demonstrate self-love and build self-esteem.* 59:46: Setting boundaries in relationships is an act of self-love, demonstrating the importance of reasonable expectations and forgiveness. 01:00:00: Forgiving oneself for past mistakes and taking action to remove oneself from codependent relationships is a form of self-love. 01:02:02: INTPs who show self-love inspire by meeting high expectations, becoming competent, and excelling in conflict resolution as pragmatic peacekeepers. 01:05:57: Working on oneself leads to the best version of oneself, exemplifying self-love through diplomatic peacekeeping and inspired action. 01:07:24: The capacity of INTPs for pragmatic peacekeeping may surprise many, showcasing their ability beyond stereotypes. Made with HARPA AI
Socionics refers to Ni as intuition of time. This means past memories and future projections. Memory is abstract. Through Si comes sensory experiences that Ni later recalls. But the abstract recall is Ni. When your Si body is laying in the grave, your Ni spirit will still be recalling things and projecting into the future.
All those descriptions are actually very accurate, I'm stunned. I think I may try to add something else about how I deal with social situations (I'm, supposedly, intp). It's very true that the driver Ti is very strong, it basically covers each and every side of my life and is always "switched on", so when I'm in some completely new social situation, that's how I'm gonna start off - with just Ti on. And then I will observe how people behave there, what the rules of this social group are, whom should I pay respect to and so on. And what I'm mainly focused on figuring out is whether it's safe to actively apply my other functions, engage in conversations, throw a bunch of different ideas as a solution to whatever problem arises (there's always at least something they have trouble with, if not from the start, it's still going to appear somewhen), joke around with the same or newer ideas, trying to create local memes or something. So I have like this set of actions that I do when I feel comfortable, and depending on my observations, I'm gonna enable some of them. But that observation never ends, the set for this exact social situation can be adjusted thousands of times, but it's never gonna settle down, it has to be fluid. And it pretty much is, yeah And the term "social situation" doesn't always require more than 2 people by the way, because a conversation or relationship with 1 particular person is the same social situation, but easier one to navigate through
I had thought my snuggles with self love, as well as for other INTPs, was due to the fact that Fi is our 8th function. Between the research, the meta pattern summarization, and the actionable advise, this podcast helped me on my journey. Thank You!
I keep ruminating on the notion of us "playing life on hard mode." I resonate with it so much. But I guess I don't understand, what would life look like NOT on hard mode? I guess putting tons of faith & dependence in other people, not having to figure out the world completely through but delegating all the time? (Feels cynical for me to say that, tbh)
❤❤❤I LOVE TO LEARN OF MYERS BRIGGS❤WE OWE IT TO OURSELVES -self love! 💕 love 💕 I AM INTJ! Looking forward to listening about mine! Thank you so much Antonia and Joel! Blessings! ❤❤😇 YOU ALL ARE WONDERFUL! 🩵🩵🩵
INTPs need to learn how to meditate. It's the one thing that changed my life for the better more than anything else. Meditation opens up for loving yourself.
are you asking about meditation techniques? I found a Buddhist meditation teacher online. I would strongly recommend that you find a good personal teacher. It's very hard to get into meditation without personal instruction.@@eagleeyemind4800
I'm curious too, bc this hasn't worked well for me yet. What kind of meditation? Empty mind, focus on breath, focus on outer world moment details, visualization, etc.
Brilliant, accurate and helpful analysis. Thank you! I loved interacting with the three-year-old and accepting that she can "handle basic things". Great solution for the most hurtful and vulnerable part of me. I can also see the ten-year-old roguish grin while indulging on gathering useless information ;) good relationship with the children of the family is the way to go. Loved everything about this video.
I'm curious for your thoughts on developing holistic Ti versus analytic Ti. It seems like one could (mis?)read holistic Ti as being borderline "bad thinking". I think a series covering growth for analytic versus holistic function subtypes would be super cool and useful!
Socionics Model G shows we put 3 times more effort into the 3 year old than the 10 year old. This means the 3 year old grows up, but the 10 year old remains an eternal child.
At 22:30 dissociating/detached position allows the INTP to objectively evaluate/refine/re-invent their ideas/concepts/premises/beliefs/etc. and themselves. Via detached and equanimious introspection... similar to Vipassana meditation. To some it might seem like they are narcissistic. But just studying themselves. my INTP 2 cents
How do you show yourself love as an INTP?
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I love myself when I harmonise my passion with opportunities to create a meaningful project or goal, then automatically I stick to an unbreakable discipline. Excitement takes over. I found my potential with the help of my INTJ friend (my daughter). They are amazing in strategising our potential. In theory I should be able to show love to myself when I stop being nervous around people by sticking to basics becasue I beat up myself for almost everything.
Si keeps you humbled. Keeps your ego in check. Moves you from being a talker to a doer or a person who prototype your ideas when you want to show people or talk about it. It lets you prove the usefulness, importance, and function of your ideas. It lets you see if your ideas will solve or fix the problem you trying to solve.
I now see the dynamic between Ne and Si. When we prototype an idea we do it to prove the validity of it to ourselves (Ne) and to people (Si) when we show it to "said" people while talking about it. We ask them while asking them "what do you think " to win their validation. A less mature INTP will talk about their ideas to seek validation and approval but a mature INTP will prototype the idea and show it.
Also a mature INTP will refrain from from talking about their ideas before they prototype it to prevent people from seeing them as someone that as a talker not a doer.
I think the dynamic between Ti and Fe makes the INTP Independent but you also have to not be too independent. The INTP has to leave the house and go out and mingle and push themselves to get in a good intimate relationship and not a codependent one, if a girl plays hard to get by walking away and expecting me to chase her I let her go. If a girl does not play mind games and has the quality I value, like niceness, I make the effort to nurture a relationship.
Socionics shows that when INTPs progress, they look more like their ENFP Supervisee in private and their INFJ Benefactor in public.
INTP Carl Jung progressed to look more like his INFJ Benefactor in public. This is why some people mistyped him as an INFJ.
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation:
Self-observation and proving oneself contribute to self-love by acknowledging accomplishments.
Self-love isn't earned but freely given; it's important to maintain a healthy relationship with oneself.
Self-love entails removing obstacles to feeling love rather than earning it, embracing love as a continuous flow.
Understanding and setting appropriate expectations for oneself is crucial in fostering self-love.
INTPs can cultivate self-love by optimizing their cognitive functions, particularly introverted thinking (accuracy), through rigorous logic and skill development.
Refining processes, questioning assumptions, and applying skills can boost self-confidence and contribute to self-love for INTPs.
19:54 *Lack of motivation and focus in INTPs can indicate a lack of optimization in their introverted thinking or accuracy function.*
20:36 *Introverted thinking or accuracy is crucial for INTPs as it forms a significant part of their self-definition and how they relate to the world.*
24:03 *The auxiliary function of extroverted intuition, or exploration, allows INTPs to see possibilities, patterns, and new connections in the world, often expressing parental energy in helping others.*
26:48 *INTPs contribute to society not only through their thinking process but also through their intuition, often envisioning possibilities and innovative solutions.*
29:31 *INTPs experience greater self-love by serving others with their auxiliary function or by self-parenting with it, acknowledging their potential and accepting their own weirdness.*
30:54 *The tertiary function of introverted sensing, or memory, helps INTPs track changes over time, seek comfort, and maintain routines, but may seek validation externally due to uncertainty.*
36:31 *Balancing both the auxiliary function of exploration and the tertiary function of memory is crucial for INTPs to manifest their ideas into reality and increase their competence.*
39:45 *Intuition (exploration) in INTPs seeks potential and application, not just information consumption.*
41:21 *INTPs may fear being judged as too weird or irresponsible, hindering self-confidence.*
42:16 *Integrating introverted sensing with intuition creates a "Transcendent function," easing fears of judgment and promoting self-love.*
44:08 *Extroverted feeling (Harmony) is the INTP's weak spot, causing deep uncertainty and self-doubt.*
51:20 *Accepting uncertainty in extroverted feeling, while still striving for competence, is crucial for self-love in INTPs.*
55:03 *Integrating extroverted feeling enables INTPs to avoid unhealthy relationships, fostering self-respect and confidence.*
58:47 *Actions, not just self-talk, are essential for INTPs to demonstrate self-love and build self-esteem.*
59:46: Setting boundaries in relationships is an act of self-love, demonstrating the importance of reasonable expectations and forgiveness.
01:00:00: Forgiving oneself for past mistakes and taking action to remove oneself from codependent relationships is a form of self-love.
01:02:02: INTPs who show self-love inspire by meeting high expectations, becoming competent, and excelling in conflict resolution as pragmatic peacekeepers.
01:05:57: Working on oneself leads to the best version of oneself, exemplifying self-love through diplomatic peacekeeping and inspired action.
01:07:24: The capacity of INTPs for pragmatic peacekeeping may surprise many, showcasing their ability beyond stereotypes.
Made with HARPA AI
Socionics refers to Ni as intuition of time. This means past memories and future projections.
Memory is abstract.
Through Si comes sensory experiences that Ni later recalls.
But the abstract recall is Ni.
When your Si body is laying in the grave, your Ni spirit will still be recalling things and projecting into the future.
"The perfect Man employs their mind as a mirror ; It grasps nothing, it refuses nothing, it receives, but does not keep."
~Chuang Tzu
All those descriptions are actually very accurate, I'm stunned. I think I may try to add something else about how I deal with social situations (I'm, supposedly, intp). It's very true that the driver Ti is very strong, it basically covers each and every side of my life and is always "switched on", so when I'm in some completely new social situation, that's how I'm gonna start off - with just Ti on. And then I will observe how people behave there, what the rules of this social group are, whom should I pay respect to and so on. And what I'm mainly focused on figuring out is whether it's safe to actively apply my other functions, engage in conversations, throw a bunch of different ideas as a solution to whatever problem arises (there's always at least something they have trouble with, if not from the start, it's still going to appear somewhen), joke around with the same or newer ideas, trying to create local memes or something. So I have like this set of actions that I do when I feel comfortable, and depending on my observations, I'm gonna enable some of them. But that observation never ends, the set for this exact social situation can be adjusted thousands of times, but it's never gonna settle down, it has to be fluid. And it pretty much is, yeah
And the term "social situation" doesn't always require more than 2 people by the way, because a conversation or relationship with 1 particular person is the same social situation, but easier one to navigate through
I had thought my snuggles with self love, as well as for other INTPs, was due to the fact that Fi is our 8th function. Between the research, the meta pattern summarization, and the actionable advise, this podcast helped me on my journey. Thank You!
I keep ruminating on the notion of us "playing life on hard mode." I resonate with it so much. But I guess I don't understand, what would life look like NOT on hard mode? I guess putting tons of faith & dependence in other people, not having to figure out the world completely through but delegating all the time? (Feels cynical for me to say that, tbh)
❤❤❤I LOVE TO LEARN OF MYERS BRIGGS❤WE OWE IT TO OURSELVES -self love! 💕 love 💕 I AM INTJ! Looking forward to listening about mine! Thank you so much Antonia and Joel! Blessings! ❤❤😇
YOU ALL ARE WONDERFUL! 🩵🩵🩵
INTPs need to learn how to meditate. It's the one thing that changed my life for the better more than anything else. Meditation opens up for loving yourself.
What are some tips/methods you use to assist in developing the skill?
are you asking about meditation techniques? I found a Buddhist meditation teacher online. I would strongly recommend that you find a good personal teacher. It's very hard to get into meditation without personal instruction.@@eagleeyemind4800
I'm curious too, bc this hasn't worked well for me yet. What kind of meditation? Empty mind, focus on breath, focus on outer world moment details, visualization, etc.
Vacuum of emotion, so true that I am laughing and crying 😂
Brilliant, accurate and helpful analysis. Thank you! I loved interacting with the three-year-old and accepting that she can "handle basic things". Great solution for the most hurtful and vulnerable part of me. I can also see the ten-year-old roguish grin while indulging on gathering useless information ;) good relationship with the children of the family is the way to go. Loved everything about this video.
I'm curious for your thoughts on developing holistic Ti versus analytic Ti. It seems like one could (mis?)read holistic Ti as being borderline "bad thinking". I think a series covering growth for analytic versus holistic function subtypes would be super cool and useful!
looking forward to ISTP self love video♥
Socionics Model G shows we put 3 times more effort into the 3 year old than the 10 year old.
This means the 3 year old grows up, but the 10 year old remains an eternal child.
At 22:30 dissociating/detached position allows the INTP to objectively evaluate/refine/re-invent their ideas/concepts/premises/beliefs/etc. and themselves. Via detached and equanimious introspection... similar to Vipassana meditation. To some it might seem like they are narcissistic. But just studying themselves. my INTP 2 cents
For INTPs a correctly programmed Ti = 😊 Fe.
ENFP next please pretty please