Strategically Ever After: How Charlotte's Determination Found Her Mr. Husband (SATC Analysis)

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  • @nickjoy6389
    @nickjoy6389 2 дні тому +80

    Charlotte is my favorite character as I get older! She had genuinely the most growth and she was always able to pivot and takes life punches with grace! #TeamCharlotte

  • @helena1136
    @helena1136 День тому +48

    the comparasion of the views of Carrie and Charlotte about love was so on point

    • @insightsbyv
      @insightsbyv  День тому +1

      It was so fun to make🤭✨️

  • @FishareFriendsNotFood972
    @FishareFriendsNotFood972 День тому +20

    Pre nups are not just for rich people, it can also be to lay out money that will be protected for the wife in the event she becomes a stay at home mom (setting up an account in her name and laying out what assets should be in her name after childbirth and parental work). It can be planning for future assets, even if you currently don't have much, lol

  • @dominikanatalia8755
    @dominikanatalia8755 2 дні тому +31

    Regarding the prenup - my husband and I are very much a middle-class pair. We didn't get a prenup exactly; however, we did get something like a notarized "division of assets/separate income" agreement. People often think about it in terms of divorce - I didn't at all. I just felt like it could protect us both since, in my country, individually taken debt, for example, would not affect the other person legally at all. I have my own business, and it just made sense. We have separate accounts but very much support each other financially. To each their own; I know some people hate the idea itself! Love your videos! x

    • @AlexNur07
      @AlexNur07 День тому +3

      Not having a prenup when you own a business is crazy

    • @dominikanatalia8755
      @dominikanatalia8755 День тому +1

      I think it depends on the country and the law in said country.
      In my situation the business is just me - I work as a contractor.

  • @gabrielleduplessis7388
    @gabrielleduplessis7388 2 дні тому +72

    To be honest, I am glad Charlotte found Trey because if it weren’t for their divorce, she wouldn’t have found her true Mr. Right, Harry.
    I still love her relationship with Harry and Charlotte is my favorite character.

    • @oneshotonehit6731
      @oneshotonehit6731 2 дні тому +10

      The fact Charlotte changed religion for Harry haunts me to this day( There's something very wrong about it. And it's not the religion itself, it's this.. compliance that Charlotte so willingly demonstrates. Also Harry doesn't even practice the religion that forbids him from marrying outside of it.

    • @gabrielleduplessis7388
      @gabrielleduplessis7388 2 дні тому +2

      @ true and when I say this, this is me stating an example of what you just said, not me hating on Harry.
      I forget the name of the holiday and meal (my ignorance. Sorry), but Charlotte put a lot of time and effort in it and Harry didn’t care. He just wanted to watch the game. So if he did care about his religion and practices, he would have paid attention to Charlotte and appreciated her effort.
      But one moment that made this up for me was when he didn’t judge Charlotte for having a Christmas tree and wanting some of her traditions.
      But whether we practice a religion or not, stuff like feeling you can’t marry someone comes from familial pressure and you don’t want to do something that makes you shunned from your family so I wonder if that is where Harry is coming from.
      But I can’t hate on Charlotte for converting because she put time and thought into it and did try to respect the culture and religion she was converting into. But do understand your point.

    • @kierad1794
      @kierad1794 2 дні тому +1

      @@oneshotonehit6731 Ehhh. I don’t think Charlotte is shown to be particularly devout or religious. She celebrates Christmas, but so do most secular/non-religious people in America. I see it as more a compromise she made to be with him, because she loves him. As another person said, Harry isn’t particularly devout either, so I don’t think he expected her to ‘convert’ much more than in name. Her going out of her way to go above and beyond is more a demonstration of Charlotte’s character than Harry’s (and mismatched expectations + miscommunication). Some people might not be willing to compromise on religion, but, for two people who aren’t particularly devout, it likely wouldn’t be as big of a deal.

    • @kierad1794
      @kierad1794 2 дні тому +3

      @@gabrielleduplessis7388 Yeah, to me, it seemed like the familial obligation- given that he made that promise to his dead mother (grandmother?) and feels like he can’t change it- was more important than the actual religion. I saw the episode about Charlotte going above and beyond for a Jewish holiday more as a reflection of Charlotte’s tendency to over-plan big events (see Miranda’s baby shower) and miscommunication around how important the holiday actually was to Harry. Harry should’ve clarified his expectations, as well (like did he actually expect her to get rid of all her Christmas stuff? it didn’t seem like he did). Mismatched expectations is a pretty common issue in relationships, tbh.

    • @gabrielleduplessis7388
      @gabrielleduplessis7388 2 дні тому

      @ i agree with you there.

  • @kierad1794
    @kierad1794 2 дні тому +35

    I hope you do a video on Harry next. Harry is my favorite of all the ‘boyfriend’ characters. He’s legit the only good guy in the show… despite some weird habits.
    Great video! Love your content.

  • @themillionmall
    @themillionmall 2 дні тому +84

    Trey is my favorite partner out of all of the guys in the show. Except for the fact that he’s basically married to his mom. 😷he learns how to stand up to her in the end tho and always protects and defends charlotte. Ya he’s a p addict but he was willing to quit just for her. He matures a lot and very generous and organized. He’s always been very transparent, honest, and genuine throughout.

    • @themillionmall
      @themillionmall 2 дні тому +16

      Not to mention he’s in great shape! 🎾👟

    • @auroranorling
      @auroranorling 2 дні тому

      I read ’masturbates a lot’ after the corn comment 😂 And thought, I guess you could do that generously and organised

    • @oneshotonehit6731
      @oneshotonehit6731 2 дні тому +22

      He left because he was meant for Bree 😅😅

    • @kierad1794
      @kierad1794 2 дні тому +20

      He’s not my favorite, but I agree. He’s open to learning about his partner and trying his best. Ultimately their breakup was pretty amicable (and for a totally understandable reason) and he tried to give Charlotte a fair break in the divorce.

    • @c.a.savage5689
      @c.a.savage5689 2 дні тому +2

      You mean he’s not gay? I know next to nothing about SATC but judging from what I've seen in his relationship with Bunny, looks pretty gay to me....

  • @frenchie5787
    @frenchie5787 День тому +11

    In my opinion, Charlotte asked Trey to marry her simply because she was expecting to hear the proposal, but as it didn't come out of Trey's mouth, she felt compelled to say it just so she could hear it. She physically couldn't hold her breath anymore in that very moment. Also, this was building up in her mind because she thought Trey was very much suggestible.

  • @ireefree2024
    @ireefree2024 2 дні тому +24

    For me Trey is everything in the shopping window but nothing inside of the shop 😂😂😂
    The worst he was about the baby theme. That was sooo insensitive thing and cruel and not funny at all. Also he's the worst example of a mama's boy. The scene of him in the bathroom with his mother still haunts me 😮

  • @SwimsWithWhales31
    @SwimsWithWhales31 2 дні тому +11

    It's you. YOU are my favorite! Lol but seriously, your videos bring me so much joy and much needed laughter (even as I learn how warped and F'd up my brain has been for like 15+ years is because of satc)!

  • @sthehedgehog
    @sthehedgehog День тому +2

    “what assets? the rice!?” i’m screaminggg 😭 thank you for another entertaining & enlightening video queen. i’m loving all the analysis videos but my for sure favorite is carrie. all her decisions hurt my brain too much to wanna psycho analyze her in depth my first time watching lolol

  • @MsMinoula
    @MsMinoula 2 дні тому +9

    I always identified with Miranda more, as I never had my sights on marriage. When it comes to morals and clothes, it's Charlotte.

  • @rachael8078
    @rachael8078 2 дні тому +10

    18:08 Trey admitted he didn’t want to be married to anyone but still got married to the right person, a special person in his own words. So Miranda’s theory doesn’t apply to charlotte

  • @sabina.T
    @sabina.T 2 дні тому +6

    43:00 " what assets, the rise" killed me 😂😂😂

  • @promisejackianja8458
    @promisejackianja8458 День тому +2

    One thing I did respect about Charlotte was her approach in dealing with men she knew she saw marriage potential in and men she knew were just around for a good time. She wasn’t just a delusional hopeless romantic and knew when it was time to put a man in a certain category. She also knew despite her conservatism that as a woman she had the liberty to do so

  • @witchf4ce310
    @witchf4ce310 2 дні тому +7

    I’m so curious about Slovenia. Because it’s one of those countries I think most of the world don’t think about and a lot don’t even really know about (maybe except heard the name once or twice.) could you ever share some things about Slovenian culture? Greetings from Sweden (but I’m from Greece)

  • @NiveaCow
    @NiveaCow 2 дні тому +10

    In Poland we "discover America" but I like yours waaaay more. ;)

    • @insightsbyv
      @insightsbyv  День тому +1

      Ahah I lovee Poland, been there a couple of times🤭❤️

  • @Mochipotamus
    @Mochipotamus День тому +1

    33:45, I think you’re trying to say “flipped the script” ! 😂❤ love your videos!

  • @TheMakica55
    @TheMakica55 2 дні тому +11

    ahh just found out you're from Slovenia. Greetings from Serbia, I've been following your channel for a long time. We say it the same in Serbian btw 😄 - otkriti toplu vodu 😅

    • @insightsbyv
      @insightsbyv  День тому +1

      Hahah imam rodbine u Srbiji🤪❤️

  • @witchf4ce310
    @witchf4ce310 23 години тому

    I think you’re right about people deciding for Trey and that has caused him to listen to others more. Because he said himself he was raised by his nanny, and his mother was barely home except at night when she drew him a bath. And nannies are very much like teachers telling kids what to do, what is right etc.

  • @K674944
    @K674944 2 дні тому +1

    Absolutely delighted to see another video from you 🙌

  • @amandabun
    @amandabun День тому +2

    Now I have something to watch whilst chilling on bed 🥳. Looking forward to this upload x

  • @lexanolimits
    @lexanolimits День тому +1

    Can’t wait for the next video❤

  • @caseyw.6550
    @caseyw.6550 День тому +4

    Stop the meter is WILD. 😂

  • @lindz758
    @lindz758 2 дні тому +3

    I love your hoodie!

  • @SoobySays
    @SoobySays 2 дні тому

    Yessssssss I’ve been waiting for this!!

  • @IconVlog.
    @IconVlog. 9 годин тому

    My name is Mary so you are always directly talking to me 😂

  • @amandabun
    @amandabun День тому

    What asset……? ‘The rice?! 😂😂 funny as x

  • @Rhodophon
    @Rhodophon 2 дні тому +4

    My favorite character is the cat.

  • @J.Soffer
    @J.Soffer День тому +2

    You are my favorite!!!

  • @crystalglopez91623
    @crystalglopez91623 21 годину тому

    Charlotte did the work.

  • @knitwitchpgh
    @knitwitchpgh 20 годин тому

    43:38 im working class and i will 10000% have a prenump. I do have my own home im paying for, and my own salon. But i want it for things such as aquiring inheritances and family items. And also just having protection from vindictive attacks. Divorce is a very realistic thing to happen and ive worked too hard on my salon for 4 years, and if i got married in the next two years, and then in 10 my salon is so successful and my partner leaves me and gets HALF of my 16 years of hard work? Nah bisshhh i support people protecting themselves. You never truly know someone until you break up with them. Js

  • @liliebilie
    @liliebilie День тому +2

    Smith and Harry are the best partners in the show

  • @saima.nijhum
    @saima.nijhum День тому

    I love love loooove watching your videos. But there are way too many ads.

  • @Avoranation
    @Avoranation День тому

    When i was younger i like carrie, then i liked samantha, but now i feel a combo of charlotte and miranda would be best. Probably align more with miranda. I always thought she had the best relationship but geez, your videos showed me how wrong i was!

  • @Moonwatery
    @Moonwatery 2 дні тому

    Cant wait!!!!

  • @SigmaSigmaSigmaJgirl
    @SigmaSigmaSigmaJgirl День тому

    Please do a video on why some women, Gen X and Gen Z, find it sacriledge to constructively criticize Carrie and/or SATC.

  • @knitwitchpgh
    @knitwitchpgh 4 години тому

    0:40 FULLY DISAGREE Charlotte and Samantha had so much growth!

  • @AlicjaRaczko
    @AlicjaRaczko 2 дні тому +3

    PL odkrył koło 😆

  • @Avoranation
    @Avoranation День тому

    48:06 it's the name i guess. Boys keep their last names and keep the family line going. Obviously, in todays age, a woman can keep her name and it not affect anything and that would be just as good an option.

  • @mashashalaeva5397
    @mashashalaeva5397 2 дні тому

    If rice is my only effort I would protect it for all costs:)

  • @69SalterStreet
    @69SalterStreet 2 дні тому +1

    Reverse engineered?

  • @SayfumaniMyG
    @SayfumaniMyG День тому

    How can anyone with a functional brain watch this?

  • @corneliakobilke4638
    @corneliakobilke4638 2 дні тому +1

    Uno reverse😂

  • @Nataliemanilich
    @Nataliemanilich 2 дні тому +4

    Love your analysis soo much, it’s soo entertaining 😊❤, please do more on *You* episodes 🫶🏻

    • @sabina.T
      @sabina.T 2 дні тому +1

      Oh yeah that was so good. It made me watch the series again

    • @Nataliemanilich
      @Nataliemanilich 2 дні тому

      @ I love it too ☺️

    • @insightsbyv
      @insightsbyv  День тому +1

      Thank you🥰🥰