I agree it's normal, by the way she could talk about how to deal with pubic hair...Because it's taboo too, nobody talks about it and as a dancer it drives me crazy¡¡
Agreed. And you can also speak frankly to a male teacher about this issue: he's an adult, he probably has a mum/sister/cousin/friend/girlfriend/etc, so he knows that girls get period. Most important: it's NOT a scandalous thing, it's common thing :) I played volleyball, we do need to wear a uniform with very short and tight pants only during matches. I've ALWAYS had male coaches and they were so so sweet and understanding with us girls!
I started my first period during class no tights on just socks. my male teacher noticed and came over wrapped a jumper around my waist and sent me to the bathroom and got one of the mums to come and help. went back in to the studio and he gave me a bar of chocolate and a huge hug. men do understand xxxx i keep a pretty makeup bag in my bag now with spare tights panties tampons and moon cup and paracetamol and a teeny bar of chocolate! MUMS TEACH YOUR BOYS ABOUT PERIODS!!!!!!
I wouldn't recommend putting in a tampon if you are not on your period (ie middle of your cycle). Besides being painful because of dryness there are a number of problems that could arise, including a higher risk for toxic shock syndrome Source: I'm a med student, you can obviosly do anything you want but it's not the safest choice
She meant at the very start of the beginning of her period starting. Orrrr just after. Not the weeks or bit inbetween? But maybe she meant that. But. I. agree :)
Ladychechi98 I think it was mainly bc of irregular periods. I know when I was young mine were all over the place and sometimes I'd put one in during a competition just in case! Never for longer than an hour or two. Especially for me, wearing a pad while dancing made me feel less graceful
if it's a male teacher then tell him too. Who cares if it's male. It's a natural process and there should be no shame in talking to ANYONE about any menstrual function.
^ If anything I feel like most guys feel less comfortable on the subject therefore they will just let you do whatever since they feel awkward (even if there's no reason for it to be awkward)
I love your frank discussion. I think that as women we should get more comfortable talking about our periods. You are so right, I felt so ashamed when I got my period for the first time, but there is no reason for that. It's just part of life. I have never done ballet (but absolutely love your channel!) but about a year ago I started using a menstrual cup (I use the Diva Cup brand) and it has absolutely changed they way I feel about my period. I go to the gym every day and the cup made it so much better! No leaks, no smell, much more comfortable. I wonder if any dancers have had a similar experience.
Beth I prefer menstrual cups as well, they are hard to use during performances because if you have to change it and you're wearing pink tights it's not as simple as a tampon.
Beth Roach yes, cups change lives! I really hope that people aren't taking her seriously about wearing tampons when they're not on their cycle. So dangerous. Much more doable with a cup!
Beth Roach why were you ashamed?? I don't understand how everyone is uncomfortable. No moment in my life has ever been like others experiences, every girl I know comfortably talks about it.
I just want to say some women get pains with their period that over the counter painkillers cannot touch. Go to a doctor of you get these. Go to another one if they won't listen to you. Endometriosis affects about 1/10 women. It can be very debilitating and the sooner it is treated the better.
Mariana Gledhill I was diagnosed with endometriosis about four years ago. I had surgery soon after that, executed by a highly reputable doc. I was so excited that my periods would be less debilitating. much to my dismay nothing changed, not even a little. so i paid a lot of money for basically nothing and now I have four ugly scars on my abdomen... for nothing. just saying, sometimes you're just screwed.
AssaultedPeanutt hello! try natural medicine! there are many things that are very helpful, first change to a menstrual cup to avoid all the chemicals such as chlorine bleach and glyphosate that are in tampons, drink lots of filtered not bottled water during your period, avoid salt ands irritants, and take maca root superfood in powder form in smoothies or something similar this super food will help you regulate your hormones and deal with many of the symptoms, is an adaptogen meaning it will work worth your own body. I wish you the best! and never give up, the solutions are there they are just not the Big Pharma agenda ones.
Aletia Gonzalez thanks for taking the time to type that advice, I'll definitely try what you mentioned. I have been highly considering the menstrual cup because i've been suspecting that my body is more sensitive/symptomatic to chemicals than the average person and because it's less wasteful than tampons and such. so I'll try that if you think it'll help my pain situation. I'm a lot more holistic than I was when that surgery took place, so I do feel that my body must be lacking something that needs to be supplemented. I only drink filtered or bottled water, and I'm sort of a pescatarian, minus some fish types, and this diet works best with my body. but anyways, thanks for the advice!
AssaultedPeanutt i promise im not one of those GO VEGAN youtube commenters but eating less dairy really helped me. also, lowering my fat intake (not calories just fat!)... cups can also worsen cramps (i assume because its a bigger item up there!) but just be aware of that! 😀
NEVER EVER WEAR TAMPONS WHEN YOU'RE NOT MENSTRUATING! Feel that dry feeling taking a tampon out that isn't fully saturated? The reason it is uncomfortable is because it is ripping micro cuts into your vaginal canal, which is the way that the staf bacteria gets into the blood stream causing TSS which can be fatal. Use a menstrual cup if you need internal protection when you're not menstruating just yet.
@@mathildewesendonck7225 you can wear them all the time if you want. it’s a preference. they aren’t bad for you. i wear tampons throughout the day not just at dance.
I'm not a ballet dancer but I am a burlesque performer, and once I was performing on my period and I forgot to trim my tampon string. But I do want to warn against wearing a tampon when you aren't on your period. If you need to wear something, get a menstrual cup. If you wear a tampon while not on your period, you have greater risk for TSS.
I completely forgot that tampons existed for a minute. I stopped dancing ballet before I got mine, so I was lucky, I suppose. I wish I didn't quit though. It's a bit late now.
I'm the same.... I miss ballet so much, but I stopped forever ago, and now I'm very out of shape. I miss dance though and I'm glad I can appreciate ballet and dance to this day. But I quit before I started as well. So at least I never had to deal with it?
I am a ballet teacher and after reading the comments I want to offer some wisdom. First, tampons are NOT scary. I promise. For a dancer, they're a lifesaver especially if you're really serious about dancing. If you want to dance, please learn to use them. Also, as a dancer you need to start wearing them to class at least a few days before you are supposed to start. Find a brand that doesn't leak for you and you shouldn't ever have to wear anything in addition to it unless it would make you feel better. Next, understand that periods are completely normal. I have had students start theirs during class before and I have had students noticeably wear a pad with their leotard. If an accident happens you're not the first nor the last and it's nothing to be embarrassed about. Main thing is, don't be afraid! It's not a big deal and it's not scary no matter what happens!
Kasey Darlene using tampons when you're not on your period is a bad idea. It increases the instances of small scratches you get on your vaginal walls from tampons that leave you open to TSS. Please don't recommend that girls wear tampons incorrectly. A little research on tampons and TSS will clear that up. Cups can be used quite safely while not on your period as long as you use lubricant. Cups don't scratch the vaginal walls like tampons do so they have a much much lower risk of TSS.
Ok, thank you for the information. I will definitely look into it. For someone who is in a leotard and tights six days per week pads are just not an option.
Kasey Darlene i would really recommend menstrual cups! While using one you dont have to worry about leaking and you can can start using them safely unlike tampons before you actual periods start!
Kasey Darlene I am a Muslim and a ballet dancer and in Islam we are not allowed to wear tempons or any other thing who can enter the vagina but I started ballet at 13 and my period started before becoming 13 by a couple of weeks ..... so I only made one dance and I wasn't on my period and wear pads and a black ballet outfit if i on my period but I am wondering what should I do when I am on my period when I have a performance
Damn you know that this is super unhealthy and also dangerous to wear a Tampon when you're not in your period. It promotes all sorts of infections. You can wear a menstruation cup while you are on your period otherwise just don't use anything in your normal cylce. Do you think it's helpful if a couple of your girls are fighting a serious infection, draggin themselves to class and still perform flawless? Not to forget the toxic shock syndrome which can actually kill you.
There are thin panty liners that are invisible under leggings, leotards, tights, etc. That way if you start your period, you won't leak for a while. Much safer than tampons when you are not on your period (taking out dry tampons can cause micro tears in the vaginal wall, which can cause infection)
I have a serious question that I hope someone can answer!! So at my studio we aren’t allowed to wear skirts or shorts or leggings....only pink tights and a black leo. I am too scared to use tampons. I have class tomorrow but I don’t know what to do. I don’t have time to buy anything either. Plz help!!! 😓🥺
@@kaylacasarez4230 It's been a month but I am wondering if you figured anything out? If not I would suggest either a very thin pad without wings or a menstrual cup. Avoid using tampons if you aren't on your period.
@@katerinaliakou5549 Still too scared to use tampons...but I’m starting to come around to them. Found out from another girl in class that it’s easiest to wear a thin pad or use tampons or a menstrual cup. Wearing thin pads seems to work for me...I was a little self conscious the first time until I realized that nobody is going to be looking at you down there. 🙃
@@kaylacasarez4230 I go with pads as well, tampons always stop my period for a day which is not good. You can check out period panties as well if you are concerned about leaking with the pads, one brand that I am aware of is thinx but there more out there. In case you try them, I recommend you wearing them first in the house in order to see if they work for you.
My advice would be to use menstrual cup. It's so much better than tampon. You don't feel it, there is no danger of toxic shock syndrome. It really is comfortable to wear (and I had problems with tampons) and you don't need to worry about it leaking. Not to mention that it will last you for a few years :)
Quetzalcoatl Topiltzin no the cup can't move ;) You have to squeeze it to get it out. It creates vacuum and stays in place until you remove it. I tested it on bootcamp class and it hold up :D
Lara Korrat That's not true, at least the tampons being safer -part. With the tampon, the possible bacteria or whatever you think is dangerous in the blood is all the time touching your vagina (and menstrual blood isn't dangerous - it might grow some bacteria over time but it takes more than 12 hours if the blood sits in the cup). With cup, it isn't and even if you are upside down and the blood would get out of the cup to the top part of your vagina, it would just go back to the cup once you turn back. It doesn't go back to the uterus.
Another tip I've learned is that if you wear briefs/undies under your costume, you can use a thin pad or liner as an extra layer of protection if need be. Thank you so much for doing this video!
it's sooooooo refreshing to hear this discussed. so often women are shamed about this stuff or for even asking this question so i'm glad this got talked about.
I would also suggest a menstrual cup! Bunch of helpful videos on precious star pads (she's also a dancer) no risk of tss (ok like 0.0000000000001% chance) and you can't feel it. Life saver.
One time i had my period, i had a pad and shorts BUT it bled on my pink tights during center exercises... I don't know if they really noticed...Thank god while the other girls were drinking water i could change my shorts for longer ones that would hide the blood on my tights... I think my teacher noticed that... Ew 😂😂😂
Wearing a tampon when you're not on your period puts you at a significant risk of contracting Toxic Shock Syndrome. That's really dangerous advice Kathryn, no matter how it helps your peace of mind.
Part of the danger is in placing and removing, though, because you can easily cause tiny tears in the skin when it's too dry - meaning that you're completely open to infections. That would happen even if you only had it in five seconds.
Thank you. just thank you. I have a tip, if you have cramps and you don't want to take pain killers (or can't because they are not taking the pain away and just make you tired like me), get some really good magnesium supplements. They help me so so much with my cramps because magnesium will relax your muscles instead of just killing the pain. :)
I randomly started my period in the middle of class, light gray cotton leotard, pink tights, light skirt. It was a VERY noticable stain. Right before rond de jambes and développes. And it was open house... my boyfriend was watching class that day. EVERYTHING THAT COULD GO WRONG I genuinely wish I was kidding but I had to run over to my bag in from across the class right before the combination and take off my skirt and put on my warm up shorts and my teacher stopped the class to ask wtf I was doing. I never get embarrassed about periods but I was mortified 😂😂 I was like 19 at the time So ladies...top that story
Yes!!! I'm so Happy you ignored the stigma of not talking about periods and especially in dance! I found it so difficult to deal with and I really appreciate you discussing this!
Try Thinx! They are special period underwear and they come in nude and black, a bunch of different styles. They are made of super absorbable fabric that can actually take the place of pads/tampons. It's also a great company, and a more sustainable option.
Definitely don't wear a tampon when you're not near you're period because taking out a dry tampon is what causes toxic shock syndrome. However I recommend checking out menstrual cups because there's no risk with those!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I'm about to start, I have a performance this weekend and my costume is white 😖 I think that I might try the second layer of tights!
Don’t put in a tampon if you don’t have your period. It sounds scary at first, but it’s so worth it to learn how to use a menstrual cup. They are safe to wear if you think you might get your period, but haven’t started yet. Tampons harbor all kinds of bacteria and can lead to infections. Menstrual cups are intimidating at first, but once you get used to it (doesn’t take too long) then you will wonder why you ever wore anything else.
The reason girls and women forget that every woman deals with periods is because we still hear them called "controversial". It's great that you made this video, but you started out basically confirming that we should feel uncomfortable talking about it.
Caroline Kennedy oml ikr, I’m a swimmer and swimming is probably hardest with a period because you have to wear a tampon, there isn’t another option. I hate tampons and I can hardly do breast stroke with one and ugh. It’s even worse if you leak because at least in dry sports it just stays in your clothes and isn’t too obvious but in swimming if you leak it stains the pool and EVERYONE SEES and ughhhhh
@@shruppledoo5629 tampons aren't the only option. There are menstrual cups and sponges and so many others. If you want to know more about all the options I recommend looking up alternatives for tampons.
NEVER PUT A TAMPON IN IF YOU ARENT ON YOUR PERIOD!! Please dont tell girls this because it is so soooo dangerous and painful!! Do proper reasearch next time!!
Layla' s Life I am a Muslim and a ballet dancer and in Islam we are not allowed to wear tempons but I started ballet at 13 and my period started before becoming 13 by a couple of weeks so I only made one dance and I wasn't on my period and wear pads and a black ballet outfit if i on my period but I am wondering what should I do when I am on my period when I have a performance
I wear pads (no tampons for me) and I use the same method change just before class and i use those kind of panties that have no seems and i never had any problems.
lalou0001 menstrual cups were the biggest discovery for me. they are really convenient and amazing, no smell, empty every 12 hours, no leaks, no chemicals, it doesn't dry your own moisture inky collects blood. they at really amazing if you learn how to put it on and don't get scared is the most amazing thing ever, really!!
Never, make sure that the sticky surface has the same with of the fabric of your underwear. If you are a (small) teenage choose those brand that target young adults as the pads are smaller in width but never the less still absorb enough so they will fit you better, so they will not show as the sticky pads is sticking to your legs. You can also choose those pads with wings on the side so they will stay in place better. I hope this helps. Plus, if you have breaks in between classes you do not need a massive pad in length, those are if you are laying down. Just use one that will be enough for the time being that you cannot go to the toilet.
One thing I would like to point out, as a medical student, is that wearing a tampon outside the period may be harmful, because the tampon dries all the fluid that is inside your lady parts, so that may damage the bacterial flora that we naturally have. As these bacteria are benign, keeping them out leaves more space for harmful bacteria to grow and cause an infection. A safer alternative to keep peace of mind would be to wear pads during non-period days. If it's not possible to wear pads, try menstrual cups
This was very helpful. I did dance when I was younger, moved to competitive cheer, and am going back to dance this year and have been very anxious that I won’t be high enough of a level, will have an issue with my period, etc. The dancer community in general here on youtube has been very relieving.
I'm a Street Dancer and I just recently got into a competition company so that means I will be doing more preformances. This helped me a lot even though I don't do ballet! Thank you very much!
Kathryn I am a retired gymnast so I can relate to this issue so much. You have done a wonderful service to the young ladies out there who are still learning to deal with their periods.
I will never understand how folks can be embarrassed about periods or natural processes our bodies go through as humans. It's not a TMI subject, it's a this is LIFE subject. You're beautiful for covering this topic.
You can also put on your tampon as usual and then use the little pads that I think they are like everyday pads or something. Sorry if I'm not explaining well 😅 but this is a really good advice if you feel like you are going to have an accident 👌🏽. Thanks for the video! It was really helpful! 💕 😘
It has a muscle relaxant in there, so it's waaay better than Midol. It works for pretty much any type of pain, too, so good to carry around in case of emergencies.
i would also totally recommend a menstrual cup - it's peace of mind for a bit longer than a tampon would give and you can't feel a thing if it's in correctly. this SAVED me in college during long rehearsals or anything where we didn't have a lot of breaks. they're not for everyone, but definitely worth a shot!
I WISH someone had said these things to me when I was 12!!! This would have been a game changer. Even as an adult dancer I have the same concerns and this is literally the first time I have ever heard anyone talk about this so THANK YOU!!!!!
This is a great video, and I love most of the tips. However, I DO NOT agree with using a tampon when you aren't on your period. If you are concerned, you can use a menstrual cup, even if you're not on your period. That's because menstrual cups are not absorbent. However, using a tampon in that way can be dangerous and painful. (I generally think that menstrual cups are better than tampons. A lot of women say that cups are easier to use, once you get past the learning curve.)
Also GO TO THE DOCTOR if you have particularly heavy periods or bad pain or even if your cycle is very unpredictable - there may not be anything wrong but they can check to be sure there isn't something that needs treatment, and you can also discuss if hormonal birth control would be appropriate to help regulate things. I know some women who swear by hormonal birth control to keep their cycle regular and manageable.
Peace of mind is priceless! I love it :) I wore my first tampon at age 19 when a period suddenly came on during a summer intensive. It was awkward but a younger dancer gave me one and it was so weird, haha. After a few cycles I couldn't believe I had gone for years without trying them. Definitely more comfortable dancing then with a pad.
Menstrual cup + menstrual panties!!! The unbeatable combo!! There is no way you will have a leak with them and it doesn’t show under your costumes. Now, one very important thing: having your periods is the most normal thing in the world and we really need to stop worrying about people finding out. It’s ok if they find out. Of course we don’t want it to leak, but I used to hide my padding when I was going to the bathroom and be really concerned about someone finding them in my bag. It’s really not worth it! Everybody knows women have periods and there is nothing wrong or gross about it. Quite the opposite, it means we are healthy.
you should actually NEVER wear a tampon if you are not on your period my mom is a nurse as well as a OBGYN and i asked her mom while i dance sense I have a very heavy flow of discharge if i could wear a tampon and she said it is very bad for you to do that. you can get high wasted underwear and wear it with a pad if you are that nervous about getting your period.
2 story’s 1st I started ballet when I was 12 I already had my period during class I just dealt with it but my first dress rehearsal I bled all over my white gold costume luckily no one noticed and I got it dry cleaned before the show and it was fine. 2 it was the next year and I got my period during a dance Christmas party we all went into the studio and took turns showing our the different dances during the dance I bleed all over my white tights and red body suit everyone saw the whole studio about 50 dancers from about ages 4 to 17/18 I swear I almost died I didn’t have anything at the studio so I called my mom and she came and picked me up about an hour early. Now I laugh about it but at the time I was soooooo embarrassed
Ok little story for you now, when I was 13 every year we did little ballet shows to show the parents and stuff, I had a solo as the sugar plum fairy for the nutcracker show we where doing. Anyways during the solo I wore a pink (almost white) tutu, and I just got my period. I bled all over the tutu. But the show must go on and I carried on! 😂😂😬
I really wish they would have been social media the internet but when I was in dancing because I thought I was the only person who was wondering how to deal with these things. I was very shy and my mom didn't give me that much guidance in the first place. I mean she never had anything active to worry about I finally figured things out when I was in college myself but it even made me feel better as an adult to hear videos like this to know "okay there are other people who felt the same way I do" so thanks for sharing this kind of information.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DONT USE TAMPONS IF YOU ARENT ON YOUR PERIOD YOU WILL GET CARELESS YOU WILL GET TSS IN ALL CASES OF TSS EVERYONE HAS BEEN DISTRACTED OF STRESSED EVERYONE
ladies wearing a tampon for 3 hours during a show isnt that dangerous wearing tampons for over 8 hours is dangerous but scaremongering saying wearing a tampon for a performance is gonna cause tss isnt helpful
Hi, I started using a menstrual cup at age 13 and it was and is the best thing ever!! It takes a while to get used to, but it never hurt, not even the first time. A little KY lube round the rim is helpful. I can not fell it inside, and I can wear it safely when I do not have my period. Fantastic!
Leah Rose if you are super regular, and want to be prepared and use a tampon, it helps to use a little Vaseline or KY lubricant on the applicator to ease insertion. if you don't feel comfortable using a tampon "dry" ,as in before your period starts, check out a menstrual cup. Also, I would also suggest keeping backup undies, tights, and leos just in case, along with a stain stick. When I was in middle school, I would stash an extra pair of undies in a zip lock baggie in my purse (that little zipper pocket or keep them in the pouch with your monthly supplies), because I couldn't always count on being regular for about the first year.
Leah Rose using tampons dry causes small scratches on your vaginal walls and is a direct contributor to TSS. Please don't do it. Cups can be used quite safely while you're not on your flow if you use lubricant (KY).
While I'm interested in trying the cup, I do want to chip in with objectivity TSS is so rare and half the cases of TSS have nothing to do with tampons. I mean really. TSS is a bacterial infection, while tampons can cause it if left too long, it's more about the bacteria. There are plenty of ways to get TSS without ever having won a tampon in your life. Just about anything you put in your vagina can cause TSS. Menstrual cups too...
Thank you so much! I can't even explain how grateful I am for this video! Last week I had to dance on my period for the first time and it really was horrible. I wish I had seen this before... Thank you!
I am not even a Ballet dancer but i love her videos. I do love to write alot and understanding how Ballet works and what little things goes into it helps me to form a character with a ballet background so here is a big Thank you to Kathryn , you do an amazing job at explaining everything ^^
Thank you for this wonderful video...which will no doubt be helpful for your younger viewers. As we get older I think the embarrassment tends to fade and we learn to just deal with it, but at 14-15-16-17 it can be a little cringey! A couple things- I definitely would urge people to not be shy even in talking to male teachers about this (as needed). Though there may be exceptions, they should be compassionate/professional as they are working with mostly women all the time. :) Also-I think wearing a small tampon if you're expecting your period/just finished it and have a big performance/can't take a bathroom break is not a bad idea, but if you're in the middle of your cycle I think it would not be optimal for health reasons. A good thing to do is to track your cycle and if you're regular, you'll know pretty well when to expect it! :)
super important, for male teachers, too! to educate their students on ... male children, too ... when they can treat it with maturity ... which starts with the teacher and parents.
Very sweetly and thoughtfully done. My Russian teacher who was a professional ballerina in the Soviet Union decades ago told me at their time they didn't have tampons and would actually make their own out of cotton wool. Think about that and you'll feel lucky for Tampax! In Toni Bentley's NYCB diary she wrote something along the lines of "people starting their period on stage happens more often than you would think", so knowing your cycle and taking precautions on those days is important.
Glad to see more candid conversation on this topic. However, I would advise against using tampons all the time. Too many women getting toxic shock syndrome. Usually we have a day of spotting or light flow first, so I'd think wearing a pantyliner would be ample for non-period performances. Ladies, your health comes before anything else....and if you have an accident, it's not the end of the world. There are more women out there wearing their period like the badge of honor it is. People shouldn't be embarrassed at all, because none of us would be here without them. Hugs to my sisters!
Saw this title and literally was like "YASSS, FINALLY. SOMEONE IS TALKING ABOUT THIS." Slay.
DoomsdayDollie same ! 😁 thank you Kathryn !!
DoomsdayDollie SAME
DoomsdayDollie same!!!
sameeee thank youuuu
Same! lol
Thank you for this! We need to stop treating menstruation as a taboo topic. It's healthy and normal. I am glad you invited a candid conversation.
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I agree it's normal, by the way she could talk about how to deal with pubic hair...Because it's taboo too, nobody talks about it and as a dancer it drives me crazy¡¡
Agreed. And you can also speak frankly to a male teacher about this issue: he's an adult, he probably has a mum/sister/cousin/friend/girlfriend/etc, so he knows that girls get period. Most important: it's NOT a scandalous thing, it's common thing :) I played volleyball, we do need to wear a uniform with very short and tight pants only during matches. I've ALWAYS had male coaches and they were so so sweet and understanding with us girls!
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I started my first period during class no tights on just socks. my male teacher noticed and came over wrapped a jumper around my waist and sent me to the bathroom and got one of the mums to come and help. went back in to the studio and he gave me a bar of chocolate and a huge hug. men do understand xxxx i keep a pretty makeup bag in my bag now with spare tights panties tampons and moon cup and paracetamol and a teeny bar of chocolate! MUMS TEACH YOUR BOYS ABOUT PERIODS!!!!!!
what a sweet teacher 🥺🥺
He sounds pretty awesome.
Just wondering…are there ladies/people who menstruate here who use menstrual cups or discs? I’ve tried both, and prefer the cups.
I don't even dance ballet, wtf am I doing here?! 😂
Lilith Potter Same
neither do i, but i really wanted to know
same,,, its like 2am XD XD
saaame lol
Same I don't dance ballet but I wanna advance in my dancing so i seek out info and i am here 😂
10 yr old me: It is wonderful being female! (Gets period) present day me: Never mind.
Amanda Stevens so true!
YASSSSSS
Amanda Stevens omg sooooo true 😭😭
omg same
Omg got my period today thats how i feel right now
I wouldn't recommend putting in a tampon if you are not on your period (ie middle of your cycle). Besides being painful because of dryness there are a number of problems that could arise, including a higher risk for toxic shock syndrome
Source: I'm a med student, you can obviosly do anything you want but it's not the safest choice
She meant at the very start of the beginning of her period starting. Orrrr just after. Not the weeks or bit inbetween? But maybe she meant that. But. I. agree :)
Ladychechi98 thanks you. I've been sort of confused about that as I had heard it was dangerous and I wasn't sure
Ladychechi98 I think it was mainly bc of irregular periods. I know when I was young mine were all over the place and sometimes I'd put one in during a competition just in case! Never for longer than an hour or two. Especially for me, wearing a pad while dancing made me feel less graceful
Ladychechi98 a performance is about 3 hours long tss happens after 7 hours
Chickenlegs still in a three hour performance she’s got nout to worry about
Im a dancing guy and I found it interesting to watch this video. YOU GO GIRLS!!!
you're my spirit animal
Thank god for supportive guys.
Same here
Coooool ...
iSami thank chu!
if it's a male teacher then tell him too. Who cares if it's male. It's a natural process and there should be no shame in talking to ANYONE about any menstrual function.
Ar G I agree. If anything, men may actually be more sympathetic than women, lol.
^ If anything I feel like most guys feel less comfortable on the subject therefore they will just let you do whatever since they feel awkward (even if there's no reason for it to be awkward)
6:55 I'm on my period eating saltines and i have ballet class in an hour
for me it's nacho and chocolate bars. Nom!
Shelley Roper sameee
ahahahaha me tooooooo when i’m on my period i wanna curl up in bed and eat a store
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I love your frank discussion. I think that as women we should get more comfortable talking about our periods. You are so right, I felt so ashamed when I got my period for the first time, but there is no reason for that. It's just part of life.
I have never done ballet (but absolutely love your channel!) but about a year ago I started using a menstrual cup (I use the Diva Cup brand) and it has absolutely changed they way I feel about my period. I go to the gym every day and the cup made it so much better! No leaks, no smell, much more comfortable. I wonder if any dancers have had a similar experience.
Beth I prefer menstrual cups as well, they are hard to use during performances because if you have to change it and you're wearing pink tights it's not as simple as a tampon.
Beth Roach yes, cups change lives! I really hope that people aren't taking her seriously about wearing tampons when they're not on their cycle. So dangerous. Much more doable with a cup!
She is only talking about public performances, not about using it all the time.
Greene Turtle I agree, but using tampons whilst not on your period you could risk micro tears or infections.
Beth Roach why were you ashamed?? I don't understand how everyone is uncomfortable. No moment in my life has ever been like others experiences, every girl I know comfortably talks about it.
wow she started really late! i started at 13. lucky duck
Etta Jurima I started at 11
I started at nine
I started at 11
I was 10
Started at 12
I just want to say some women get pains with their period that over the counter painkillers cannot touch. Go to a doctor of you get these. Go to another one if they won't listen to you. Endometriosis affects about 1/10 women. It can be very debilitating and the sooner it is treated the better.
Mariana Gledhill endo sufferer here and I completely agree!
Mariana Gledhill I was diagnosed with endometriosis about four years ago. I had surgery soon after that, executed by a highly reputable doc. I was so excited that my periods would be less debilitating. much to my dismay nothing changed, not even a little. so i paid a lot of money for basically nothing and now I have four ugly scars on my abdomen... for nothing. just saying, sometimes you're just screwed.
AssaultedPeanutt hello! try natural medicine! there are many things that are very helpful, first change to a menstrual cup to avoid all the chemicals such as chlorine bleach and glyphosate that are in tampons, drink lots of filtered not bottled water during your period, avoid salt ands irritants, and take maca root superfood in powder form in smoothies or something similar this super food will help you regulate your hormones and deal with many of the symptoms, is an adaptogen meaning it will work worth your own body. I wish you the best! and never give up, the solutions are there they are just not the Big Pharma agenda ones.
Aletia Gonzalez thanks for taking the time to type that advice, I'll definitely try what you mentioned. I have been highly considering the menstrual cup because i've been suspecting that my body is more sensitive/symptomatic to chemicals than the average person and because it's less wasteful than tampons and such. so I'll try that if you think it'll help my pain situation. I'm a lot more holistic than I was when that surgery took place, so I do feel that my body must be lacking something that needs to be supplemented. I only drink filtered or bottled water, and I'm sort of a pescatarian, minus some fish types, and this diet works best with my body. but anyways, thanks for the advice!
AssaultedPeanutt i promise im not one of those GO VEGAN youtube commenters but eating less dairy really helped me. also, lowering my fat intake (not calories just fat!)... cups can also worsen cramps (i assume because its a bigger item up there!) but just be aware of that! 😀
NEVER EVER WEAR TAMPONS WHEN YOU'RE NOT MENSTRUATING! Feel that dry feeling taking a tampon out that isn't fully saturated? The reason it is uncomfortable is because it is ripping micro cuts into your vaginal canal, which is the way that the staf bacteria gets into the blood stream causing TSS which can be fatal. Use a menstrual cup if you need internal protection when you're not menstruating just yet.
definitely do not put a tampon in if you're not on your period!
why not tampons r the best
Hana Song they are bad for you
tampons are bad if you arent menstruating because there is not enough fluid for them to absorb and they can dry out your vagina or get stuck.
Charlotte Roseray its okay if you do it for just two hours of class. Of course you shouldn‘t use a tampon 24/7
@@mathildewesendonck7225 you can wear them all the time if you want. it’s a preference. they aren’t bad for you. i wear tampons throughout the day not just at dance.
I'm not a ballet dancer but I am a burlesque performer, and once I was performing on my period and I forgot to trim my tampon string. But I do want to warn against wearing a tampon when you aren't on your period. If you need to wear something, get a menstrual cup. If you wear a tampon while not on your period, you have greater risk for TSS.
spidermiss2426 Why the hell would you wear a tampon when not on your cycle?
Somebody on here suggested you need to wear a tampon to class starting around the time you think you MIGHT get your period...
I completely forgot that tampons existed for a minute. I stopped dancing ballet before I got mine, so I was lucky, I suppose. I wish I didn't quit though. It's a bit late now.
ZozziGames it's never too late😊
ZozziGames omg I'm in the same situation
ZozziGames IT'S NEVER TOO LATE COME BACK
Your never too late
I'm the same.... I miss ballet so much, but I stopped forever ago, and now I'm very out of shape. I miss dance though and I'm glad I can appreciate ballet and dance to this day. But I quit before I started as well. So at least I never had to deal with it?
I am a ballet teacher and after reading the comments I want to offer some wisdom. First, tampons are NOT scary. I promise. For a dancer, they're a lifesaver especially if you're really serious about dancing. If you want to dance, please learn to use them. Also, as a dancer you need to start wearing them to class at least a few days before you are supposed to start. Find a brand that doesn't leak for you and you shouldn't ever have to wear anything in addition to it unless it would make you feel better. Next, understand that periods are completely normal. I have had students start theirs during class before and I have had students noticeably wear a pad with their leotard. If an accident happens you're not the first nor the last and it's nothing to be embarrassed about. Main thing is, don't be afraid! It's not a big deal and it's not scary no matter what happens!
Kasey Darlene using tampons when you're not on your period is a bad idea. It increases the instances of small scratches you get on your vaginal walls from tampons that leave you open to TSS. Please don't recommend that girls wear tampons incorrectly. A little research on tampons and TSS will clear that up.
Cups can be used quite safely while not on your period as long as you use lubricant. Cups don't scratch the vaginal walls like tampons do so they have a much much lower risk of TSS.
Ok, thank you for the information. I will definitely look into it. For someone who is in a leotard and tights six days per week pads are just not an option.
Kasey Darlene i would really recommend menstrual cups! While using one you dont have to worry about leaking and you can can start using them safely unlike tampons before you actual periods start!
Kasey Darlene
I am a Muslim and a ballet dancer and in Islam we are not allowed to wear tempons or any other thing who can enter the vagina
but I started ballet at 13 and my period started before becoming 13 by a couple of weeks .....
so I only made one dance and I wasn't on my period
and wear pads and a black ballet outfit if i on my period but I am wondering what should I do when I am on my period when I have a performance
Damn you know that this is super unhealthy and also dangerous to wear a Tampon when you're not in your period. It promotes all sorts of infections. You can wear a menstruation cup while you are on your period otherwise just don't use anything in your normal cylce. Do you think it's helpful if a couple of your girls are fighting a serious infection, draggin themselves to class and still perform flawless? Not to forget the toxic shock syndrome which can actually kill you.
There are thin panty liners that are invisible under leggings, leotards, tights, etc. That way if you start your period, you won't leak for a while. Much safer than tampons when you are not on your period (taking out dry tampons can cause micro tears in the vaginal wall, which can cause infection)
I have a serious question that I hope someone can answer!! So at my studio we aren’t allowed to wear skirts or shorts or leggings....only pink tights and a black leo. I am too scared to use tampons. I have class tomorrow but I don’t know what to do. I don’t have time to buy anything either. Plz help!!! 😓🥺
@@kaylacasarez4230 It's been a month but I am wondering if you figured anything out? If not I would suggest either a very thin pad without wings or a menstrual cup. Avoid using tampons if you aren't on your period.
@@katerinaliakou5549 Still too scared to use tampons...but I’m starting to come around to them. Found out from another girl in class that it’s easiest to wear a thin pad or use tampons or a menstrual cup. Wearing thin pads seems to work for me...I was a little self conscious the first time until I realized that nobody is going to be looking at you down there. 🙃
@@kaylacasarez4230 I go with pads as well, tampons always stop my period for a day which is not good. You can check out period panties as well if you are concerned about leaking with the pads, one brand that I am aware of is thinx but there more out there. In case you try them, I recommend you wearing them first in the house in order to see if they work for you.
@@kaylacasarez4230 You can wear period panties like Knix
My advice would be to use menstrual cup. It's so much better than tampon. You don't feel it, there is no danger of toxic shock syndrome. It really is comfortable to wear (and I had problems with tampons) and you don't need to worry about it leaking. Not to mention that it will last you for a few years :)
But i've heard that the cup can move, and you could have an accident. Is that true? I mean, in jumps and turns it's possible it moves.
Thanks!
Quetzalcoatl Topiltzin no the cup can't move ;) You have to squeeze it to get it out. It creates vacuum and stays in place until you remove it. I tested it on bootcamp class and it hold up :D
But you have to be careful when you are upside down. The blood should not flow back in the uterus and therefore tempos a bit safer.
Lara Korrat That's not true, at least the tampons being safer -part. With the tampon, the possible bacteria or whatever you think is dangerous in the blood is all the time touching your vagina (and menstrual blood isn't dangerous - it might grow some bacteria over time but it takes more than 12 hours if the blood sits in the cup). With cup, it isn't and even if you are upside down and the blood would get out of the cup to the top part of your vagina, it would just go back to the cup once you turn back. It doesn't go back to the uterus.
why is talking about periods tmi? the vast majority of females have it and it shouldnt be taboo.
I love the "TMI" style video! So many things considered TMI actually shouldn't be. I think this was a great video Katie !
Another tip I've learned is that if you wear briefs/undies under your costume, you can use a thin pad or liner as an extra layer of protection if need be. Thank you so much for doing this video!
I started my period before pointe and a boy asked my why my feet were ugly and he may or may not have died
Male teachers will probably just get embarrassed and be like 'sure sure whatever'
it's sooooooo refreshing to hear this discussed. so often women are shamed about this stuff or for even asking this question so i'm glad this got talked about.
I thought you weren't meant to wear tampons if you weren't menstruating? That's what it says on all the boxes anyway
Perhaps it was close to time for her to start her period and she didn't want to get caught off guard.
Yea you’re not supposed to so I was confused as to why she said that
I would also suggest a menstrual cup! Bunch of helpful videos on precious star pads (she's also a dancer) no risk of tss (ok like 0.0000000000001% chance) and you can't feel it. Life saver.
Nevada Scholze I was going to say the same thing! Women shouldn't wear tampons if they are not menstruating to reduce TTS
I wear a menstrual disc i had trouble with it sometimes but it works
One time i had my period, i had a pad and shorts BUT it bled on my pink tights during center exercises... I don't know if they really noticed...Thank god while the other girls were drinking water i could change my shorts for longer ones that would hide the blood on my tights... I think my teacher noticed that... Ew 😂😂😂
Omgg that's literally my biggest fear
alien soup I got my first period during class and it bled through my tights
Katie Arnold oh no
Happened to me 2 lmaoooooo
It's natural, not "ew" x) so no big deal
Wearing a tampon when you're not on your period puts you at a significant risk of contracting Toxic Shock Syndrome. That's really dangerous advice Kathryn, no matter how it helps your peace of mind.
surely it's a really small risk if it's just for 1-2 hours of performance or class.
Part of the danger is in placing and removing, though, because you can easily cause tiny tears in the skin when it's too dry - meaning that you're completely open to infections. That would happen even if you only had it in five seconds.
Thank you. just thank you. I have a tip, if you have cramps and you don't want to take pain killers (or can't because they are not taking the pain away and just make you tired like me), get some really good magnesium supplements. They help me so so much with my cramps because magnesium will relax your muscles instead of just killing the pain. :)
Just discovered your channel - love your videos 💕👯🎬
I randomly started my period in the middle of class, light gray cotton leotard, pink tights, light skirt. It was a VERY noticable stain. Right before rond de jambes and développes. And it was open house... my boyfriend was watching class that day. EVERYTHING THAT COULD GO WRONG
I genuinely wish I was kidding but I had to run over to my bag in from across the class right before the combination and take off my skirt and put on my warm up shorts and my teacher stopped the class to ask wtf I was doing. I never get embarrassed about periods but I was mortified 😂😂 I was like 19 at the time
So ladies...top that story
Yes!!! I'm so Happy you ignored the stigma of not talking about periods and especially in dance! I found it so difficult to deal with and I really appreciate you discussing this!
Try Thinx! They are special period underwear and they come in nude and black, a bunch of different styles. They are made of super absorbable fabric that can actually take the place of pads/tampons. It's also a great company, and a more sustainable option.
This helped so much I was so scared to start my period but now I know it's not a big deal thank you
This is the most useful video i've ever watched. Thank you so much
Definitely don't wear a tampon when you're not near you're period because taking out a dry tampon is what causes toxic shock syndrome. However I recommend checking out menstrual cups because there's no risk with those!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I'm about to start, I have a performance this weekend and my costume is white 😖 I think that I might try the second layer of tights!
AwkwardlyAdorable OMG! That's happening to me, what do you do that day?
Don’t put in a tampon if you don’t have your period. It sounds scary at first, but it’s so worth it to learn how to use a menstrual cup. They are safe to wear if you think you might get your period, but haven’t started yet. Tampons harbor all kinds of bacteria and can lead to infections. Menstrual cups are intimidating at first, but once you get used to it (doesn’t take too long) then you will wonder why you ever wore anything else.
this is so helpful! I'll be starting ballet classes next year when im 19 and I've always thought about this issue :) thank you for the advice
The reason girls and women forget that every woman deals with periods is because we still hear them called "controversial". It's great that you made this video, but you started out basically confirming that we should feel uncomfortable talking about it.
Absolutely love how well you explain all the tips! ❤️
Wow she had her period at 16 I had mine at 12...
Try swimming with your period.. but to be honest every girl athlete struggles with periods
Caroline Kennedy oml ikr, I’m a swimmer and swimming is probably hardest with a period because you have to wear a tampon, there isn’t another option. I hate tampons and I can hardly do breast stroke with one and ugh. It’s even worse if you leak because at least in dry sports it just stays in your clothes and isn’t too obvious but in swimming if you leak it stains the pool and EVERYONE SEES and ughhhhh
Simply Ivy you pretty much just summed up why i stopped swimming in 6th grade and kept doing soccer and lacrosse through 7th and 8th
@@shruppledoo5629 tampons aren't the only option. There are menstrual cups and sponges and so many others. If you want to know more about all the options I recommend looking up alternatives for tampons.
Dancing in a pad is literally impossible it’s either a liner or a tampon. And liners really aren’t the best protection.
DivaCup
NEVER PUT A TAMPON IN IF YOU ARENT ON YOUR PERIOD!! Please dont tell girls this because it is so soooo dangerous and painful!! Do proper reasearch next time!!
Layla' s Life I am a Muslim and a ballet dancer and in Islam we are not allowed to wear tempons
but I started ballet at 13 and my period started before becoming 13 by a couple of weeks
so I only made one dance and I wasn't on my period
and wear pads and a black ballet outfit if i on my period but I am wondering what should I do when I am on my period when I have a performance
@@mariamgalal2369 why aren't you allowed in your religion? ?
C-A M&J yt Wait what i’m a muslim too but i don’t think there is anything wrong with wearing one.I know muslim friends who wear them too🤷♀️
C-A M&J yt same
I wear pads (no tampons for me) and I use the same method change just before class and i use those kind of panties that have no seems and i never had any problems.
Glad to hear this because I'm a strictly no-tampons gal.
lalou0001 menstrual cups were the biggest discovery for me. they are really convenient and amazing, no smell, empty every 12 hours, no leaks, no chemicals, it doesn't dry your own moisture inky collects blood. they at really amazing if you learn how to put it on and don't get scared is the most amazing thing ever, really!!
Aletia Gonzalez I should see about it getting a cup.
Have you ever had any issues with pad lines showing through your leotard?
Never, make sure that the sticky surface has the same with of the fabric of your underwear. If you are a (small) teenage choose those brand that target young adults as the pads are smaller in width but never the less still absorb enough so they will fit you better, so they will not show as the sticky pads is sticking to your legs. You can also choose those pads with wings on the side so they will stay in place better. I hope this helps.
Plus, if you have breaks in between classes you do not need a massive pad in length, those are if you are laying down. Just use one that will be enough for the time being that you cannot go to the toilet.
One thing I would like to point out, as a medical student, is that wearing a tampon outside the period may be harmful, because the tampon dries all the fluid that is inside your lady parts, so that may damage the bacterial flora that we naturally have. As these bacteria are benign, keeping them out leaves more space for harmful bacteria to grow and cause an infection. A safer alternative to keep peace of mind would be to wear pads during non-period days. If it's not possible to wear pads, try menstrual cups
This was very helpful. I did dance when I was younger, moved to competitive cheer, and am going back to dance this year and have been very anxious that I won’t be high enough of a level, will have an issue with my period, etc. The dancer community in general here on youtube has been very relieving.
I always wear some kind of panties under costumes, i just feel kind of gross if i dont!
Thank you!!!! Stuff like this needs to be talked about it more as it's a flipping nightmare
I often wondered what female figure skaters do too, those skimpy costumes leave no room for hiding anything.
my leotard is red! 😂😂
I wish I didn't get my period until seventeen. I got mine at eleven
I'm a Street Dancer and I just recently got into a competition company so that means I will be doing more preformances. This helped me a lot even though I don't do ballet! Thank you very much!
Your hair is looking incredible!
Good for you for helping these young women talk about this
I hope we can live in a world one day where talking about your period isn't considered controversial.
Why can’t ANYTHING be private today?
Kathryn I am a retired gymnast so I can relate to this issue so much. You have done a wonderful service to the young ladies out there who are still learning to deal with their periods.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR RESPONDING TO ME!!!! Merry Christmas😍
I will never understand how folks can be embarrassed about periods or natural processes our bodies go through as humans. It's not a TMI subject, it's a this is LIFE subject.
You're beautiful for covering this topic.
You can also put on your tampon as usual and then use the little pads that I think they are like everyday pads or something. Sorry if I'm not explaining well 😅 but this is a really good advice if you feel like you are going to have an accident 👌🏽. Thanks for the video! It was really helpful! 💕 😘
Pamprin is my savior when it comes to cramps. It is a miracle cramp reliever pill. It also helps with migraines too.
It has a muscle relaxant in there, so it's waaay better than Midol. It works for pretty much any type of pain, too, so good to carry around in case of emergencies.
Forever Rose. Advil always saved me from the pain
i would also totally recommend a menstrual cup - it's peace of mind for a bit longer than a tampon would give and you can't feel a thing if it's in correctly. this SAVED me in college during long rehearsals or anything where we didn't have a lot of breaks. they're not for everyone, but definitely worth a shot!
Why no breaks? It is sick without breaks. You have to change tampons and cups or pads often, otherwise you can get severly sick from it.
I WISH someone had said these things to me when I was 12!!! This would have been a game changer. Even as an adult dancer I have the same concerns and this is literally the first time I have ever heard anyone talk about this so THANK YOU!!!!!
This is a great video, and I love most of the tips. However, I DO NOT agree with using a tampon when you aren't on your period. If you are concerned, you can use a menstrual cup, even if you're not on your period. That's because menstrual cups are not absorbent. However, using a tampon in that way can be dangerous and painful. (I generally think that menstrual cups are better than tampons. A lot of women say that cups are easier to use, once you get past the learning curve.)
Also GO TO THE DOCTOR if you have particularly heavy periods or bad pain or even if your cycle is very unpredictable - there may not be anything wrong but they can check to be sure there isn't something that needs treatment, and you can also discuss if hormonal birth control would be appropriate to help regulate things. I know some women who swear by hormonal birth control to keep their cycle regular and manageable.
I got mine at ballet class with a male teacher. Thank god my friend told me before he saw. I just changed my stockings
Peace of mind is priceless! I love it :) I wore my first tampon at age 19 when a period suddenly came on during a summer intensive. It was awkward but a younger dancer gave me one and it was so weird, haha. After a few cycles I couldn't believe I had gone for years without trying them. Definitely more comfortable dancing then with a pad.
y'all should look into menstrual cups!! they never leak
Unfortunately they often do too x)
Menstrual cup + menstrual panties!!! The unbeatable combo!! There is no way you will have a leak with them and it doesn’t show under your costumes. Now, one very important thing: having your periods is the most normal thing in the world and we really need to stop worrying about people finding out. It’s ok if they find out. Of course we don’t want it to leak, but I used to hide my padding when I was going to the bathroom and be really concerned about someone finding them in my bag. It’s really not worth it! Everybody knows women have periods and there is nothing wrong or gross about it. Quite the opposite, it means we are healthy.
you should actually NEVER wear a tampon if you are not on your period my mom is a nurse as well as a OBGYN and i asked her mom while i dance sense I have a very heavy flow of discharge if i could wear a tampon and she said it is very bad for you to do that. you can get high wasted underwear and wear it with a pad if you are that nervous about getting your period.
You're amazing in every little way, Katie
2 story’s
1st I started ballet when I was 12 I already had my period during class I just dealt with it but my first dress rehearsal I bled all over my white gold costume luckily no one noticed and I got it dry cleaned before the show and it was fine.
2 it was the next year and I got my period during a dance Christmas party we all went into the studio and took turns showing our the different dances during the dance I bleed all over my white tights and red body suit everyone saw the whole studio about 50 dancers from about ages 4 to 17/18 I swear I almost died I didn’t have anything at the studio so I called my mom and she came and picked me up about an hour early.
Now I laugh about it but at the time I was soooooo embarrassed
Thank God someone made this video. I had been recovering from surgery when I got mine so I have been stressing over going back to dance.
Ok little story for you now, when I was 13 every year we did little ballet shows to show the parents and stuff, I had a solo as the sugar plum fairy for the nutcracker show we where doing. Anyways during the solo I wore a pink (almost white) tutu, and I just got my period. I bled all over the tutu. But the show must go on and I carried on! 😂😂😬
Pizza Lover how did u do that I couldn't!
I needed this. I got my period 2 days ago and don’t want to be worrying for dance. ❤
I dance and my ballet instructor was like take your shorts off and I was like um I can't and then she was like ohh
I really wish they would have been social media the internet but when I was in dancing because I thought I was the only person who was wondering how to deal with these things. I was very shy and my mom didn't give me that much guidance in the first place. I mean she never had anything active to worry about I finally figured things out when I was in college myself but it even made me feel better as an adult to hear videos like this to know "okay there are other people who felt the same way I do" so thanks for sharing this kind of information.
How about a menstrual cup instead of a tampon, not so drying.
I got my period last night in the middle of ballet class.. this video helped me so much!! Thank you!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DONT USE TAMPONS IF YOU ARENT ON YOUR PERIOD YOU WILL GET CARELESS YOU WILL GET TSS IN ALL CASES OF TSS EVERYONE HAS BEEN DISTRACTED OF STRESSED EVERYONE
I don't dance ballet but I dance acro, lyrical, contemporary, hip hop, musical theatre, etc. But this really helped a lot!
ladies
wearing a tampon for 3 hours during a show isnt that dangerous
wearing tampons for over 8 hours is dangerous
but scaremongering saying wearing a tampon for a performance is gonna cause tss isnt helpful
I haven't even started the video yet, and I already love it.
I needed this video so video so bad thank you😂
Thank you for this! I’m sharing it with my daughter (13 yo) to help alleviate her fears! 🧡
Hi, I started using a menstrual cup at age 13 and it was and is the best thing ever!! It takes a while to get used to, but it never hurt, not even the first time. A little KY lube round the rim is helpful. I can not fell it inside, and I can wear it safely when I do not have my period. Fantastic!
How do you put a tampon in when you don't have your period? Doesn't it hurt especially to take it out? Xx
Leah Rose if you are super regular, and want to be prepared and use a tampon, it helps to use a little Vaseline or KY lubricant on the applicator to ease insertion. if you don't feel comfortable using a tampon "dry" ,as in before your period starts, check out a menstrual cup.
Also, I would also suggest keeping backup undies, tights, and leos just in case, along with a stain stick. When I was in middle school, I would stash an extra pair of undies in a zip lock baggie in my purse (that little zipper pocket or keep them in the pouch with your monthly supplies), because I couldn't always count on being regular for about the first year.
Leah Rose ih highly recommend to learn use a menstrual cup they are amazing you can make it wet with hot water and it can go in .
Leah Rose using tampons dry causes small scratches on your vaginal walls and is a direct contributor to TSS. Please don't do it. Cups can be used quite safely while you're not on your flow if you use lubricant (KY).
While I'm interested in trying the cup, I do want to chip in with objectivity TSS is so rare and half the cases of TSS have nothing to do with tampons. I mean really. TSS is a bacterial infection, while tampons can cause it if left too long, it's more about the bacteria. There are plenty of ways to get TSS without ever having won a tampon in your life. Just about anything you put in your vagina can cause TSS. Menstrual cups too...
it hurts like h3ll
Thank you so much! I can't even explain how grateful I am for this video! Last week I had to dance on my period for the first time and it really was horrible. I wish I had seen this before... Thank you!
LOVE the hair and makeup!!!
poolahpot me too. she looks great!
I am not even a Ballet dancer but i love her videos. I do love to write alot and understanding how Ballet works and what little things goes into it helps me to form a character with a ballet background so here is a big Thank you to Kathryn , you do an amazing job at explaining everything ^^
Thank you for this wonderful video...which will no doubt be helpful for your younger viewers. As we get older I think the embarrassment tends to fade and we learn to just deal with it, but at 14-15-16-17 it can be a little cringey!
A couple things- I definitely would urge people to not be shy even in talking to male teachers about this (as needed). Though there may be exceptions, they should be compassionate/professional as they are working with mostly women all the time. :)
Also-I think wearing a small tampon if you're expecting your period/just finished it and have a big performance/can't take a bathroom break is not a bad idea, but if you're in the middle of your cycle I think it would not be optimal for health reasons. A good thing to do is to track your cycle and if you're regular, you'll know pretty well when to expect it! :)
super important, for male teachers, too! to educate their students on ... male children, too ... when they can treat it with maturity ... which starts with the teacher and parents.
I was on my period during my recital and I had cramps right before I went on.
Very sweetly and thoughtfully done. My Russian teacher who was a professional ballerina in the Soviet Union decades ago told me at their time they didn't have tampons and would actually make their own out of cotton wool. Think about that and you'll feel lucky for Tampax! In Toni Bentley's NYCB diary she wrote something along the lines of "people starting their period on stage happens more often than you would think", so knowing your cycle and taking precautions on those days is important.
My dance teacher doesn’t care if I’m on my period 😂 she’s just like “well I manage so can you” noooo sympathy 😂
leara free lol same
I don’t do ballet but I do, do a different dance. This is so helpful
This was a big help thanks!
Glad to see more candid conversation on this topic. However, I would advise against using tampons all the time. Too many women getting toxic shock syndrome. Usually we have a day of spotting or light flow first, so I'd think wearing a pantyliner would be ample for non-period performances. Ladies, your health comes before anything else....and if you have an accident, it's not the end of the world. There are more women out there wearing their period like the badge of honor it is. People shouldn't be embarrassed at all, because none of us would be here without them. Hugs to my sisters!
do NOT use a tampon when you're not on your period!! it's actually dangerous!
Finally someone talk about it!! Katie!!! thank you so much for this~