This is why I don't discuss depression and anxiety with my family and friends who haven't experienced it. People can be very dismissive about what you are going through, especially in the black community. I only discuss it with those who can relate.
@SimplyTina she was very dismissive. And damn near insinuating that Tamar liked the trauma she was experiencing because she became famous so how could she truly be depressed 🙄. She may be a journalist, but a mental health expert she is not.
Tamar NEVER mourned her marriage. She does what alot of women do. She tried to fake it like she was good and internally she was falling apart. She got from under one man and got under another one; bringing the baggage to the new situation.
Sooo true. I tell young women I know to go sit down and get to know yourself before jumping into another relationship. When one relationship ends, use that down time to refresh and regroup. Get back to you. Don’t go from one to the next. It’s simply not healthy, mentally or physically.
Everything she speaks, I have gone thru the same thing. Mine started from child hood trauma and I'm living with the new normal of severe depression and anxiety!! It never goes away,
How many breaks she need she extra for no reason she need to stop that’s what she need to do just sit down and be yourself go counseling and do better stop being extra
yaaaaaah, I feel she couldn't really get out what she wanted, so many interruptions and trying to get her to say certain things? I was like someone else should have done this interview couldn't think of who….but a platform were producers aren't pushing the interviewer to get certain specific details, because then it's not helpful for her or others that need it.
I’m sure I’ll be alone in saying this and probably get a lot of harsh comments but, she should not be on another reality show. After what was shown on the Braxton family show, her show with Vince and the Iyanla show, she needs to say no.
Grow With Naomi.....Thankyou.....Be Well also because it's a lot going on.....Its a lot going on with me right now!So those words are powerful....You never know what someone is going through in that moment...Have a BlessedDay!
Tamar, have a very, very serious problem. It’s very serious. Let’s go back to the family on Ayana Van Zandt. She is an animated character. Almost two personalities. I’m just saying. Yes she have tried that stunt before.
In a sense the interview is part of the problem. Get off of television Taytay. Stay off of Social Media. I hope she continues to do the work. Its a neverending journey
@Pamela Paul You took the words right out of my mouth. A part of her LOVES television and I believe she doesn't want to leave. She just wants to control the narrative. Tamar is a control freak among other things that I won't say here.
No one should be commenting anything negative. You don’t get to decide how someone shares their emotion. You never know what someone is going through behind closed doors and how they interpret their pain and experiences. We need to show not only Tamar but everyone love. No one is perfect or even close. Understand that and learn to love others. 💚
That was my thought exactly! As an interviewer you have to be comfortable with quiet space. I understand there are time limitations but allow the interviewee time to process your question and answer honestly.
wtf? are you fucking serious? have you SEEN Tamar? Tamron KNOWS Tamar, she's known her for years, she knows Tamar will get into a mode of rambling and fronting, so she stopped her to save her face, Tamron was doing her a favor. Man, ya'll just want Tamar to commit suicide or what? can't see the people in her corner doing the best they can to keep her safe.
Tamron is a journalist first; she knows how to get to the heart of the matter quickly and reflects/spotlights differences of perception to balance the narrative. She handled the situation respectfully. Her show offers human interest stories. Tamar's segment was not, nor was it intended to be a publicity reel. Prayers for Tamar - we stand in the gap for her.
Thank you for this! Healing from mental health takes YEARS!!! She is interviewing to get answers while also being respectful and compassionate. Professionalism looks like this!
My heart goes out to her for so many reasons. She has to be utterly and completely honest with herself first. A lot of what she is saying, she is saying out of formality and what she thinks people want to hear (No judgement). Lord allow her to TRULY see herself. She is so worthy of a better inner life.
I agree! Ion know she just can't keep playing the victim in every case. She gotta take responsibility for her part in all of this. That's part of the healing process. Asking ourselves how am I the problem? It can't keep being everyone else (causing problems) ALL THE TIME.
I'm so glad you noticed that..Tamron asked her several questions throughout the interview and she skirted around them! I don't care who gets mad at my opinion but Tamar stood out on her family show which led to her spin off show with Vince, then the music happened which blew her head up more! That's when I noticed she started with the Diva attitude! She criticized all of her sisters relationships and failures...then when her problems with Vincent came out and they divorced..that is when her world crashed!!! She's embarrassed, she's had to eat humble pie and her music is almost nil without Vincent and the guy that passed away. As she said, she treated a lot of people badly on the way up. Now this is her reality!
@@Aliasss She was getting interrupted because she wouldn't answer the questions that was being asked! One thing about Tamron Hall, she stays focused in her interviews and just because a person is a celebrity, she still asks the hard questions! Maybe Tamar should not have done the interview.
@@MsJC-yl1gw - I’m glad you know your comment isn’t a fact 🤷🏽♀️ Tamron asked her “did you abuse him” and she straight up looked Tamron in the eye, and directly responded “NO”. Throughout the entire interview, Tamron would ask her a question and when she tried to respond, Tamron interrupted her with another question. She could barely get a full sentence out. It felt like watching an interrogation. To claim she “skirted around several questions” is a stretch! Especially when she did the best she could with trying to explain herself, instead of being able to fully tell her story.
The hurt, ignorance, disrespect that she’s dished out she now feeling it! The way you treat people will come back to you. I really feel Tracie molested her when they were younger
@@estherfarris3802 it’s not what you say it’s how you say it. To say unfollowing her family members is a cry for attention is rude asf. Family can trigger you as well, they are not exempt. If she needed to do that for HER mental health she shouldn’t be judged.
5:48 is how I know she's being real because she able to be accountable. this wasn't some narcissistic rant in an effort to save her reputation. this woman is looking to be liberated from what fame had made of her. and she's taking responsibility for that. I am proud of tamar. honestly I'm a fan of Tamar the artist. her voice is divine and she sings from a real place, I miss her music
Feel like WE tv has a lot of control with that and they are probably most likely under contract, so that’s why they just can’t cancel it which understandable given the legal aspect of working big networks
Idk about that Jesus won people by being his authentic self. Loving, caring, stood in his truth. That’s why we follow Jesus because of the story’s of him rebuking sprits, healing the sick being a comforter and a counselor these things needed to be seen so they could be wrote about. It’s vital to walk in ALL your truth . Someone needs you! The real you. They need to see how Tamar is going to walk out of the situation an overcomer . God gets the glory for it all. Period
I dont agree with this God is love and he who worships him must do in spirit and truth you can't not just not trust then people would never fine there wife nor there husband.so open up and let God lead you
I'm a big fan of Tamar, but she really needs to take some time away from television, get healthy and then come back and share her story. Doing television now only benefits the interviewer and the networks whose main objective is to create content.
She absolutely needs to take time, but tv is how she makes money. She can definitely sing...maybe go to the studio, but that's not free. Idk....I do know that there is something within her that she needs to heal. It's sad to watch. Wishing her peace...
She got more than enough money to pay for studio. It doesn't have to be a high expensive studio. Plenty of upcoming artists have less and got it done. She should get into acting.
I was soooo glad when Tamar responded with stating that she is dedicated to “show herself” when Tamron kept saying, “just so us”. No, when people are healing, they don’t have to show anyone anything and don’t owe anyone anything because it’s their journey. Also, if she feels her family is toxic, she has every right to unfollow them so she won’t have triggers. She may have PSTD as well. Why is Tamron insinuating that Tamar should care what others think if she unfollows her family on social media. Tamar is actually anointed and I believe when she completely surrenders her entire life to Jesus Christ, she will be made whole and will continue to help others on their journey to healing. She is certainly on her way because the Word of God is in her!
She doesn’t let her talk. It’s more like she’s trying to bash her. She has said she’d gone within and she knows where she may have been wrong but it’s like this host is deliberately trying to bash her in a “poised” and condescending way. How can you get her story not letting her talk and trying to push her to answer how you want and telling her what you think she should do. If your a “friend and want her to get better mom to mom.” Talk to her interpersonally in bonding not pushing and coercing and saying what you “think” because I just want what’s best for you. It was like narcissistic gaslighting “do you really think? Do you really believe that someone would... did that really happen? Allegedly.” and then gaslighting saying “oh no. I truly just want the best for you.” It was not real. It was so off. Let her speak her truth and be patient and understanding I didn’t get that feeling at all. 04/09/2022: oh...we see what's going on. 🤣👁️🙏🏾✝️🧿
Yes to everything you said. And she is so insensitive as well; asking "did you take pills". If Tamar wants to let people know that SHE will tell it. You don't just flat out ask someone that. Especially so soon after it's happened. Tamron definitely didn't care, she's just doing it for the views. This is why we need Oprah back.
I agree. I really didn’t like way Tamron did this interview. She started out well but gradually her true colors kept emitting. I literally couldn’t wait for it to be over because she kept cutting Tamar off while she’s trying to talk and I’m like omg let her speak!!! That’s a testament to Tamars growth. She handled all the negative energy very well. I hope the best for Tamar and pray she continues to become who God purposed her to be.
Outstanding Tamron! This is how you effectively communicate with a fragile soul. You were truly a class act conducting this interview. 💖 Tamar Braxton 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Keep your head up
She is a better sympathiser than other host's like wendy and Ellen but she is still not that good at communicating to a fragile soul.... and she kept interrupting her.... she could do better.... but not too bad....
Tamron, maybe not contacting certain people is what she needs to help her heal. Don't give Tamar advise when she is telling you what she needs for herself.
I don't understand why Tamar is so shocked and "disgusted" that the network *she* agreed to film her life for money showed what happened in her life. Certainly she didn't think it was free money. Tamar--after all these years of repeatedly signing those contracts, you KNOW how reality tv works by now.
Did you watch the whole interview, she clearly explain the network sent her a call sheet literally right after she said she wanted to kill herself and told she she’s being dramatic. Who tf would want to deal with any job like that.
Reality TV is fake. They can make accommodations for these special circumstances all the way up to the showing. And then, you can scrap it. There is an episode of catfish that no longer exists bc the person killed themselves. There's episodes of the bachelorette (on jills season) that have warnings before hand bc members of the cast died. And there are tons of things that are recorded but not added in bc its distasteful. Theres a way you can handle these issues. Its super sensitive.
She didn’t expected the show to spiral out of control to the point that her & her sisters was feuding all the time then she had the show with Vince that showed her marriage was failing They were also fighting all the time allegedly domestic violence was involved and then the divorced I think that was all too much for Tamar
Yep. She's the one that put her family on that network. She's an Executive Producer. All she does is burn bridges. She needs Dr. Phil not an interview!!!! Ugh, I can't even imagine being her sibling. I'd be so damn distant from her volatile behind. She was awful to the ppl on her show, then awful to her sisters too. She was only nice to her mother! Everyone else was insulted. The girl is the common denominator in all the drama. That's what Iyanla was trying to tell her before she burned that bridge.
The comments filled with Tamar, but I'm on Tamron... she did a good job even tho her questions were really never answered. But that read was real and professional. Thanks
I wish I could learn how to restrain my tears from flowing like Tamar. If I was talking about such personal topics, my tears would be flowing like a river.
I feel Tamar is owning what she did but trying to explain the situations behind some of her choices, including the suicide attempt. Mental illness is No Damn Joke!!! And Hollywood execs will use you up and throw what's left of you completely under the fucking bus!!
“I didn’t always treat people kind! I wasn’t always fair” Enough said! I hated the way she treated her sister, Traci and made her feel like she was better than her! That, to me, had nothing to do with mental health! It was just being full of yourself!
Gemini i agree with you Tamar was competing with Toni and she always thought she was better than them all. Traci was treated the worst by Tamar which was aweful. Please Tamar show Traci some love.🙏🙏
Yes. I remember her bragging about her relationship in season 1. About how big her house was and she had three cars and a private jet. She can drop stacks and her sisters can't. She became popular from the first season which led to all the other good things that happened for her. But God saw she couldn't handle it and that's when she started to lose. She came from a religious background but got a lil money and forgot the same God that made it possible could take it all away. It's okay to prosper but don't forget where you came from. Her hometown wasn't good enough anymore. I hope she gets better tho
@@shakeanasmith1858 yes Shakeana you hit the nail on the head...true words. Always remember where you coming from when God bless us. God wanted her to remain humble and help others less fortunate with her blessings. 🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍
Yes, Tamar was rude and cruel to all of her sister's at various points except Toni. I glad she actually acknowledged it because she typically throws rocks and hides her hand and plays victim. The first step is acknowledging and dealing with bad behaviour. The behaviour is the cause of the breakdown with her family. The trauma is at the root of her behaviour.
Praying for continued healing for Tamar. Tamaron I love how you always put the heart of the work above the views. You take care of the character of your guest. It’s a hearts work and let your light continue to shine. You provide a safe platform. Never let the play of views status or anything change that. Blessings to all
I am glad she is speaking out about these can save many of people lives don't be ashamed Tamar Braxton I am so proud of you you never know who you are helping speaking on these matter
Why is she doing interviews like this. She’s NOT done the work to heal. Please Tamar go get therapy and work on YOU. This is maddening because it’s like watching a circle of continued train wrecks when it doesn’t have to be like this. TD Jakes and Iyanla tried to help her and her sisters heal but they didn’t take the help and do the work needed to HEAL the hurt. Now here we are. I really hope she takes a break and just go get therapy and do what she needs to do to heal.
Iyanla did her dirty. She aired out her sexual abuse before she had a chance to. And her family revealed her secret in the first place. She was blindsided. That is not helpful.
Tamar was one of the first to bring this attention to mental health mainstream. She hadn't and Tamron didn't, get it all right. But thank God this interview happened at all. It's probably saved lives. We love you Tamar, and we love the Braxton family, always.
I’m so happy that “we” as a people are truly opening up when we’re dealing with “depression, anxiety, suicide”... So many suffers in silence... Thank you Tamar!! ♥️
Tamar, Beautiful woman , mother, sister and friend and whatever other role God has for you be well. Be well all around. May God give you HIS peace that passes all understanding. May your heart and mind be centered in him. May he grant you healing in every area needed. May he send his angels to encamp around you. Be blessed. We don't really know, but our Heavenly Father does. Thats all that matters . In Jesus name it is so. Amen.
Tamar, I love you. People don’t know what people are going through and their behavior displays in many different ways. Stay strong and I will continue to pray for your healing. Take your time and come back strong! Great interview Tamron!
Great interview Ms. Hall. Thank you for understanding and leading with delicacy. Prayers up to all those that are facing hard times and feel alone. Regardless of what someone may be going through transfer the energy of love. It is very much so needed in this world. Love is the only way we are going to survive.
Excellent interview Tamron Hall. ...asked the hard questions, while still showing empathy. A real journalist...I'm proud of you; and I wish the best for the Braxtons.
My heart goes out to her, no one never knows what a person goes through. I contemplated suicide due to a divorce and also abuse and I didn’t let anyone know. I felt down on myself, never thought I was good enough. So I can relate. Praying for healing! Love you Tamar!
She definitely needs to continue intensive treatment. She posted a picture showing her bruised arm following an alleged altercation with David yet denies dv. There’s a lot of denial in everything coming out of her mouth. I pray she gets healed.
Her mind is probably racing. It appears there are a million and one thoughts happening in her mind at once. She, more than likely, has a lot she wants to say. She probably watched this later and realized she never really answered anything.
Tamar I am soo proud of you mama and THANK YOU the importance of forgiveness and healing. Thank you for showing us the power of not giving up. Thank you for not giving up and standing up. You are AMAZING and your story has healed so many broken pieces I had.
Thank you! I thought I was the only one who noticed that. People are so focused on attacking Tamar, that everyone is missing how condescending and insincere Tamron Hall is in this interview. Sad part is, it is mainly black people in the comments tearing another sister down.. but these are the same people that will protest and say BLACK LIVES MATTER 🤦🏾♀️🙄
Tamron should really be ashamed of herself, I thought this would be a good moment for Tamar but unfortunately you can’t trust anyone with your life, this interview was malicious. If you’re going to allow someone to tell their story, let them!
This is what a strong woman looks like. A lot of people, including myself, deal with these feelings and attempts. You don't know me and I don't know you but if you're feeling any type of way where you want to hurt yourself, I am here for you and I love you. You matter.
Something about this is coming off inauthentic. Listen, I love her and wish her well but this is coming off restrained. If you chose to come on tv to speak on it, then dammit, TELL THE TRUTH!!
I agree with u!! When she said that I was like what!!!..she always contradicts herself because on one hand she said she wants to be honest and then say why is something being said or done!!
Exactly. I do feel it’s hard because who wants their attempt documented on a reality show. Even though it’s her show. I feel they should go the Kardashian route. They had more control and never showed shit they didn’t want to. Her family need to get in the same page when filming together.
you're confusing 'getting the facts' with hitting all of Tamar's intended bullet points within the specified amount of time Tamar was available. Have you not ever seen Tamar on BFV, T&V, TBGYL? When she has a hard out she is GONE.
I really feel sad for Tamar!! May God be your strength sweetheart. It’s a heavy load to carry but leave it all to God and he’ll see you through. Be strong 💪
Great interview on Tamron’s part. She asked pressing questions that we all were wondering. However, Tamar is still not in a good place. May she find the peace she needs 💜
Great Job Tamron! You took a very delicate subject, with with a person who has a tough reputation, true or not, and navigated through it perfectly. You disposed of wanting to make headlines/tears, really showed your support for her as a person and not just us someone who is on your show as a topic for your viewers. Kudos to you!
You're right. Finally, somebody saying it out loud. That's what Tamar was trying to say when Tamron asked her about her family showing her situation on the show.
Agreed. When reality TV first started it was. Reality TV is reality situations that are perpetuated by producers, bloggers, unspoken truths, and the personality that has been placed on cast members by their actions. I hate it to a fault, but I wish shows would show growth and more positivity
Some wanted to be like the Osborne Family when reality tv started... but I saw straight through it back in 2000. The creators BANK ON DRAMA, even if they have to write it in the scripts. 👀💅🏾💯
Tamron should have allowed Tamar to talk/vent. She cut her off entirely too much. This interview stressed me out. I need a redo! Tamar stay strong. Us tamartians love you!
Tamar is her own worst enemy. She was on a path of self destruction clinging to people that only want to use her. She is drowning and her family has tried to help her but she refuses it. Drama begets drama. Peace begets peace. You have to look inside of yourself in order to receive what you need. Other people can't do it for you.
She keeps surrounding herself with these people who want their come up!! When she first came on the scene, she was surrounded by real friends. (i.e. Tiny, Tisha Campbell, Mary J)
Another thought...I am sure this interview kind of hit home with Tamron....she can't talk to her sister anymore and the Braxtons can. They need to fix it.
I’ve honestly never seen the show, yet I feel as though I can relate sooo much to her. Her speaking makes me cry and makes me want to talk to someone.. I’m broken..
This is why I don't discuss depression and anxiety with my family and friends who haven't experienced it. People can be very dismissive about what you are going through, especially in the black community.
I only discuss it with those who can relate.
Got that ri!! I let it out that I was diagnosed with anxiety/depression and been getting dismissed ever since...Neva again
This comment deserves a million likes. The dismissal is bad , it is hurtful, it is further depressing.
OMG! I thought it was just me. I felt like the interviewer was dismissive
@SimplyTina she was very dismissive. And damn near insinuating that Tamar liked the trauma she was experiencing because she became famous so how could she truly be depressed 🙄. She may be a journalist, but a mental health expert she is not.
This is not about people being dismissive. I have suffered with mental health issues for 40 years. How you treat people matters. Get some help‼️
Tamar NEVER mourned her marriage. She does what alot of women do. She tried to fake it like she was good and internally she was falling apart. She got from under one man and got under another one; bringing the baggage to the new situation.
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Sooo true. I tell young women I know to go sit down and get to know yourself before jumping into another relationship. When one relationship ends, use that down time to refresh and regroup. Get back to you. Don’t go from one to the next. It’s simply not healthy, mentally or physically.
Exactly
Tamar work on you n your son.. Please!!
She can't be without a man!
She needs a break to take care of herself.
I agreed especially from television
Everything she speaks, I have gone thru the same thing. Mine started from child hood trauma and I'm living with the new normal of severe depression and anxiety!! It never goes away,
It’s never gonna go away she just has to learn to heal and cope day to day.
How many breaks she need she extra for no reason she need to stop that’s what she need to do just sit down and be yourself go counseling and do better stop being extra
Yes, indeed.
Tamar should’ve spoke her truth with Jada at the Red Table 🤦🏽♀️
I agreeee
yaaaaaah, I feel she couldn't really get out what she wanted, so many interruptions and trying to get her to say certain things? I was like someone else should have done this interview couldn't think of who….but a platform were producers aren't pushing the interviewer to get certain specific details, because then it's not helpful for her or others that need it.
I was saying the exact same thing...this was an awful interview.
She needs an Oprah interview
I agree she wouldn’t let her speak
She should just be a singer. No more reality TV.
Agreed.
Ikr
I’m sure I’ll be alone in saying this and probably get a lot of harsh comments but, she should not be on another reality show. After what was shown on the Braxton family show, her show with Vince and the Iyanla show, she needs to say no.
She said in the interview that's she's done with reality TV...
She does need to say no
Did you watch the first part?
@@katlegoserai4935 Yes 🙌🏽
Yea she said “NO REALITY TV” But she has to be on tv , it’s the attention she craves sadly
If you're reading this, be well.
Thank you, you too ❤
Likewise
You as well Queen. Thank you!
Grow With Naomi.....Thankyou.....Be Well also because it's a lot going on.....Its a lot going on with me right now!So those words are powerful....You never know what someone is going through in that moment...Have a BlessedDay!
You too ✨🙏🏾✨
I wish Tamar and her entire family the best.
I agree it’s nice for them to be so transparent as a family
This interviewer rubbing me the wrong way like damn let Tamar tell her story
Exactly my thoughts ; she keeps cutting her off not letting her talk.
Horrible! It was painful to watch sadly
You totally don’t get what she was trying to do as an interviewer.
@@11918239 no I do get it but she wasn’t even letting her finish a statement before she ask something else
I thought I was crazy
Let her talk!!!!
Tamar seems so humble now. She had me crying like a baby. Praying for her health. We love you Tamar!
We Love You Tamar!
😂😂
@@reasy1978tf is funny?
@@Providedbygeoo none of your f*cking business.
🚫 Interview is too soon period! Look to Jesus Tamar and be healed. All the best
You can ask Jesus for assistance, yet mental health requires help from professionals to cope day to day.
Correct! &These questions are distasteful. What was the point of this interview???
Cause she’s an attention seeker
I think that it's a good time to get understanding of things,I pray for the best.
Tamar, have a very, very serious problem. It’s very serious. Let’s go back to the family on Ayana Van Zandt. She is an animated character. Almost two personalities. I’m just saying. Yes she have tried that stunt before.
In a sense the interview is part of the problem. Get off of television Taytay. Stay off of Social Media. I hope she continues to do the work. Its a neverending journey
She’s talking about it so people like me who struggle can learn.
Perfect response to her solution! 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏿
This Woman Just Love Attention. Periodt. God Is A Healer For Those Who Really Seek Is Guidance. ❤
@@Simplegirl5251 exactly
@Pamela Paul You took the words right out of my mouth. A part of her LOVES television and I believe she doesn't want to leave. She just wants to control the narrative. Tamar is a control freak among other things that I won't say here.
Sometimes fame is not for everyone. I wish her the best.
At all.
No one should be commenting anything negative. You don’t get to decide how someone shares their emotion. You never know what someone is going through behind closed doors and how they interpret their pain and experiences. We need to show not only Tamar but everyone love. No one is perfect or even close. Understand that and learn to love others. 💚
prd
You right about that
Well said
I agree💯
Period
This host is horrible, she didn’t let her speak
That was my thought exactly! As an interviewer you have to be comfortable with quiet space. I understand there are time limitations but allow the interviewee time to process your question and answer honestly.
I absolutely agree with u. She couldn't let her finish.
girl forreal like wtf
wtf? are you fucking serious? have you SEEN Tamar? Tamron KNOWS Tamar, she's known her for years, she knows Tamar will get into a mode of rambling and fronting, so she stopped her to save her face, Tamron was doing her a favor. Man, ya'll just want Tamar to commit suicide or what? can't see the people in her corner doing the best they can to keep her safe.
Exactly you and sense her judgment. This was not a safe space!!
I love Tamar Braxton. She needs to take care of herself. I love how honest she is about mental health.
Tamron is a journalist first; she knows how to get to the heart of the matter quickly and reflects/spotlights differences of perception to balance the narrative. She handled the situation respectfully. Her show offers human interest stories. Tamar's segment was not, nor was it intended to be a publicity reel. Prayers for Tamar - we stand in the gap for her.
Yessss, she mos definitely did a good job conducting this interview..and also mos def, we stand in the gap for our dear sis Tamar
Wow you commit was very insightful. Tamron is a journalist first.
Thank you for this! Healing from mental health takes YEARS!!! She is interviewing to get answers while also being respectful and compassionate. Professionalism looks like this!
Tamar loves the limelight too much to take a break from social media, TV, and reality shows. I pray for her healing & peace.
Got that right, chrissylove45!
She already has ... 🙄🙄🙄
@N’kechi, break where bout? She literally on here promoting a new podcast and fighting w her ex bf in the press
I don’t like that she kept cutting her off..let her talk!
Right
My heart goes out to her for so many reasons. She has to be utterly and completely honest with herself first. A lot of what she is saying, she is saying out of formality and what she thinks people want to hear (No judgement). Lord allow her to TRULY see herself. She is so worthy of a better inner life.
Tamron did the best she could with this interview. Tamar wasn’t ready to keep it 💯.
Tamar did the best she could with trying to speak her truth, while constantly getting interrupted.
I agree! Ion know she just can't keep playing the victim in every case. She gotta take responsibility for her part in all of this. That's part of the healing process. Asking ourselves how am I the problem? It can't keep being everyone else (causing problems) ALL THE TIME.
I'm so glad you noticed that..Tamron asked her several questions throughout the interview and she skirted around them! I don't care who gets mad at my opinion but Tamar stood out on her family show which led to her spin off show with Vince, then the music happened which blew her head up more! That's when I noticed she started with the Diva attitude! She criticized all of her sisters relationships and failures...then when her problems with Vincent came out and they divorced..that is when her world crashed!!! She's embarrassed, she's had to eat humble pie and her music is almost nil without Vincent and the guy that passed away. As she said, she treated a lot of people badly on the way up. Now this is her reality!
@@Aliasss She was getting interrupted because she wouldn't answer the questions that was being asked! One thing about Tamron Hall, she stays focused in her interviews and just because a person is a celebrity, she still asks the hard questions! Maybe Tamar should not have done the interview.
@@MsJC-yl1gw - I’m glad you know your comment isn’t a fact 🤷🏽♀️ Tamron asked her “did you abuse him” and she straight up looked Tamron in the eye, and directly responded “NO”. Throughout the entire interview, Tamron would ask her a question and when she tried to respond, Tamron interrupted her with another question. She could barely get a full sentence out. It felt like watching an interrogation. To claim she “skirted around several questions” is a stretch! Especially when she did the best she could with trying to explain herself, instead of being able to fully tell her story.
Tamar braxton fan no matter what, God bless her and her entire family
Yep me too
Period.
The hurt, ignorance, disrespect that she’s dished out she now feeling it! The way you treat people will come back to you. I really feel Tracie molested her when they were younger
Tamron is such a great interviewer. She asks tough questions with sincerity and compassion. Wonderful interview!
I didn’t like Tamron’s energy with this interview
such a huge negative energy from Tamron Hall..... Get well Tamar
At all
Why is everyone faulting tamron. This woman has been asking questions for years. Don't blame her
@@estherfarris3802 Thank you agreed Tamron is doing her job.
@@estherfarris3802 it’s not what you say it’s how you say it. To say unfollowing her family members is a cry for attention is rude asf. Family can trigger you as well, they are not exempt. If she needed to do that for HER mental health she shouldn’t be judged.
5:48 is how I know she's being real because she able to be accountable. this wasn't some narcissistic rant in an effort to save her reputation. this woman is looking to be liberated from what fame had made of her. and she's taking responsibility for that. I am proud of tamar. honestly I'm a fan of Tamar the artist. her voice is divine and she sings from a real place, I miss her music
Why don’t they just cancel the braxton show at this point?
Thank you it has been time.
The shenanigans, its all about money.
Yes saay park just cancel the braxtons but its all about the MONEY...sad
Maybe they have a contract for a number of episode
Feel like WE tv has a lot of control with that and they are probably most likely under contract, so that’s why they just can’t cancel it which understandable given the legal aspect of working big networks
They’re their cash cows
Tamar needs the help that Iyanna was trying to give. She needs to talk this stuff out. I hope she gets better.
Exactly
She needs help, but Iyanla on these TV shows hasn’t helped many of any. Television is about failure. Help comes away from TV
@@dryerbuzz agree she needs a non celebrity therapist
@@giannabright1659 right. One who doesn’t need ratings or having signed same detrimental contracts and volatile clauses
She wasn't in place where she could accept it.
Don't show ur self to anyone, but Jesus Christ.
Honestly!! This is the truth 💗
Idk about that Jesus won people by being his authentic self. Loving, caring, stood in his truth. That’s why we follow Jesus because of the story’s of him rebuking sprits, healing the sick being a comforter and a counselor these things needed to be seen so they could be wrote about. It’s vital to walk in ALL your truth . Someone needs you! The real you. They need to see how Tamar is going to walk out of the situation an overcomer . God gets the glory for it all. Period
Amen
I dont agree with this God is love and he who worships him must do in spirit and truth you can't not just not trust then people would never fine there wife nor there husband.so open up and let God lead you
Agree 🙏🏾
Poor Tamar, she is hurting and expressing it the only way she knows how. I pray that she finds healing on her journey 🙏
Joy In the morning sexual abuse of a child can be life damaging.It’s definitely a cause of mental health illness and issues.
I’m so glad it didn’t work. You deserve to be here Tamar. We love you!
I'm a big fan of Tamar, but she really needs to take some time away from television, get healthy and then come back and share her story. Doing television now only benefits the interviewer and the networks whose main objective is to create content.
Exactly
She absolutely needs to take time, but tv is how she makes money. She can definitely sing...maybe go to the studio, but that's not free.
Idk....I do know that there is something within her that she needs to heal. It's sad to watch. Wishing her peace...
She got more than enough money to pay for studio. It doesn't have to be a high expensive studio. Plenty of upcoming artists have less and got it done. She should get into acting.
I was soooo glad when Tamar responded with stating that she is dedicated to “show herself” when Tamron kept saying, “just so us”. No, when people are healing, they don’t have to show anyone anything and don’t owe anyone anything because it’s their journey. Also, if she feels her family is toxic, she has every right to unfollow them so she won’t have triggers. She may have PSTD as well. Why is Tamron insinuating that Tamar should care what others think if she unfollows her family on social media. Tamar is actually anointed and I believe when she completely surrenders her entire life to Jesus Christ, she will be made whole and will continue to help others on their journey to healing. She is certainly on her way because the Word of God is in her!
Every bit of this is so true!
How profound!
AMEN!!
Amen! This is literally the best comment. I won't be watching another interview done by her. smh
S0 true
She doesn’t let her talk. It’s more like she’s trying to bash her. She has said she’d gone within and she knows where she may have been wrong but it’s like this host is deliberately trying to bash her in a “poised” and condescending way. How can you get her story not letting her talk and trying to push her to answer how you want and telling her what you think she should do. If your a “friend and want her to get better mom to mom.” Talk to her interpersonally in bonding not pushing and coercing and saying what you “think” because I just want what’s best for you. It was like narcissistic gaslighting “do you really think? Do you really believe that someone would... did that really happen? Allegedly.” and then gaslighting saying “oh no. I truly just want the best for you.” It was not real. It was so off. Let her speak her truth and be patient and understanding I didn’t get that feeling at all.
04/09/2022: oh...we see what's going on. 🤣👁️🙏🏾✝️🧿
Yes to everything you said. And she is so insensitive as well; asking "did you take pills". If Tamar wants to let people know that SHE will tell it. You don't just flat out ask someone that. Especially so soon after it's happened. Tamron definitely didn't care, she's just doing it for the views. This is why we need Oprah back.
I agree. I really didn’t like way Tamron did this interview. She started out well but gradually her true colors kept emitting. I literally couldn’t wait for it to be over because she kept cutting Tamar off while she’s trying to talk and I’m like omg let her speak!!! That’s a testament to Tamars growth. She handled all the negative energy very well. I hope the best for Tamar and pray she continues to become who God purposed her to be.
I'm so glad I ain't the only one that thought the host sucked as a interviewer.
I dont see it though...
I think she was trying to maintain her composure
Outstanding Tamron! This is how you effectively communicate with a fragile soul. You were truly a class act conducting this interview. 💖 Tamar Braxton 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Keep your head up
She is a better sympathiser than other host's like wendy and Ellen but she is still not that good at communicating to a fragile soul.... and she kept interrupting her.... she could do better.... but not too bad....
Tamron, maybe not contacting certain people is what she needs to help her heal. Don't give Tamar advise when she is telling you what she needs for herself.
Right
yes
❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you
Amen
exactly. i hat eall this : be loyal to family when family can kill you mentally!!!
I don't understand why Tamar is so shocked and "disgusted" that the network *she* agreed to film her life for money showed what happened in her life. Certainly she didn't think it was free money. Tamar--after all these years of repeatedly signing those contracts, you KNOW how reality tv works by now.
Did you watch the whole interview, she clearly explain the network sent her a call sheet literally right after she said she wanted to kill herself and told she she’s being dramatic. Who tf would want to deal with any job like that.
@@Studio-ch3qc not me
Reality TV is fake. They can make accommodations for these special circumstances all the way up to the showing. And then, you can scrap it. There is an episode of catfish that no longer exists bc the person killed themselves. There's episodes of the bachelorette (on jills season) that have warnings before hand bc members of the cast died. And there are tons of things that are recorded but not added in bc its distasteful. Theres a way you can handle these issues. Its super sensitive.
She didn’t expected the show to spiral out of control to the point that her & her sisters was feuding all the time then she had the show with Vince that showed her marriage was failing They were also fighting all the time allegedly domestic violence was involved and then the divorced I think that was all too much for Tamar
Yep. She's the one that put her family on that network. She's an Executive Producer. All she does is burn bridges. She needs Dr. Phil not an interview!!!! Ugh, I can't even imagine being her sibling. I'd be so damn distant from her volatile behind. She was awful to the ppl on her show, then awful to her sisters too.
She was only nice to her mother! Everyone else was insulted. The girl is the common denominator in all the drama. That's what Iyanla was trying to tell her before she burned that bridge.
The comments filled with Tamar, but I'm on Tamron... she did a good job even tho her questions were really never answered. But that read was real and professional. Thanks
I wish I could learn how to restrain my tears from flowing like Tamar. If I was talking about such personal topics, my tears would be flowing like a river.
Tamron is sick of her dancing around the questions
Well isn’t not something that you just talk about like it isn’t hurtful
Why she signup for the interview
The interview wasnt good because she didnt get to talk much.
I feel Tamar is owning what she did but trying to explain the situations behind some of her choices, including the suicide attempt. Mental illness is No Damn Joke!!! And Hollywood execs will use you up and throw what's left of you completely under the fucking bus!!
What question did she dance around?
“I didn’t always treat people kind! I wasn’t always fair” Enough said! I hated the way she treated her sister, Traci and made her feel like she was better than her! That, to me, had nothing to do with mental health! It was just being full of yourself!
Gemini i agree with you Tamar was competing with Toni and she always thought she was better than them all. Traci was treated the worst by Tamar which was aweful. Please Tamar show Traci some love.🙏🙏
Yeah she needs counseling
Yes. I remember her bragging about her relationship in season 1. About how big her house was and she had three cars and a private jet. She can drop stacks and her sisters can't. She became popular from the first season which led to all the other good things that happened for her. But God saw she couldn't handle it and that's when she started to lose. She came from a religious background but got a lil money and forgot the same God that made it possible could take it all away. It's okay to prosper but don't forget where you came from. Her hometown wasn't good enough anymore. I hope she gets better tho
@@shakeanasmith1858 yes Shakeana you hit the nail on the head...true words. Always remember where you coming from when God bless us. God wanted her to remain humble and help others less fortunate with her blessings. 🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍
Yes, Tamar was rude and cruel to all of her sister's at various points except Toni. I glad she actually acknowledged it because she typically throws rocks and hides her hand and plays victim. The first step is acknowledging and dealing with bad behaviour. The behaviour is the cause of the breakdown with her family. The trauma is at the root of her behaviour.
Praying for continued healing for Tamar. Tamaron I love how you always put the heart of the work above the views. You take care of the character of your guest. It’s a hearts work and let your light continue to shine. You provide a safe platform. Never let the play of views status or anything change that. Blessings to all
I am glad she is speaking out about these can save many of people lives don't be ashamed Tamar Braxton I am so proud of you you never know who you are helping speaking on these matter
Tameron did an amazing job with this interview! She was so unbiased and spoke truth and asked meaningful questions
It's not just who she portrays on the shows. It's also who she is on social media.
SAY IT Kinya! I agree! I was thinking the same thing before coming across your comment.
And in interviews.
Tamar go off social media, don’t do interviews and stop reality TV. Seek therapy and heal. Take accountability for your part and move forward
Why is she doing interviews like this. She’s NOT done the work to heal. Please Tamar go get therapy and work on YOU. This is maddening because it’s like watching a circle of continued train wrecks when it doesn’t have to be like this. TD Jakes and Iyanla tried to help her and her sisters heal but they didn’t take the help and do the work needed to HEAL the hurt. Now here we are. I really hope she takes a break and just go get therapy and do what she needs to do to heal.
Same reason she's got a podcast
I agree ☝️
A check and forced so sad
Iyanla did her dirty. She aired out her sexual abuse before she had a chance to. And her family revealed her secret in the first place. She was blindsided. That is not helpful.
Tamar is definitely still hurting, I think this interview came too soon.
Tamar was one of the first to bring this attention to mental health mainstream. She hadn't and Tamron didn't, get it all right. But thank God this interview happened at all. It's probably saved lives. We love you Tamar, and we love the Braxton family, always.
I’m so happy that “we” as a people are truly opening up when we’re dealing with “depression, anxiety, suicide”... So many suffers in silence... Thank you Tamar!! ♥️
I wish Tamron let Tamar to speak more, she was constantly interrupting
That's cause she dancing around it. Call a spade a spade not a queen.
All the time with everyone!!!!!!
She is not saying anything meaningful that's why...Tamar is saying a whole lot of nothing
@@mikemushipe6023 that some insensitive shit to say
@@jazziesworld103 Tamar is playing musical chair's along with a pinch of skip👣👣 to my Lou my Darling.
Tamar,
Beautiful woman , mother, sister and friend and whatever other role God has for you be well. Be well all around. May God give you HIS peace that passes all understanding. May your heart and mind be centered in him. May he grant you healing in every area needed. May he send his angels to encamp around you. Be blessed. We don't really know, but our Heavenly Father does. Thats all that matters . In Jesus name it is so. Amen.
I stand & agree 💯..God is awesome & able
I really enjoyed this interview. It was powerful and moving. I appreciate Tamar Braxton’s transparency and Tamron’s gentleness during the interview.
Tamar, I love you. People don’t know what people are going through and their behavior displays in many different ways. Stay strong and I will continue to pray for your healing. Take your time and come back strong! Great interview Tamron!
I'm sorry but I can understand why Tamron wasn't as empathic with Tamar, everything sound stage, the crying, with no Tears, everything
thats what im saying....!!!!!!!!! no tears make up not a smudge...name dropping still blaming
Exactly It's disgusting Tamar was sexually abused and She Tamron Keeps saying allegedly.
@@adriennewallace4035 She has to protect her ass from potential law-suits. I totally get it.
I'm glad someone else recognized it. She's so rehearsed.
I thought I was tripping!!! It literally is aggravating me to watch this
Tamar needs to disappear from the spotlight and “get her life right”
Great interview Ms. Hall. Thank you for understanding and leading with delicacy. Prayers up to all those that are facing hard times and feel alone. Regardless of what someone may be going through transfer the energy of love. It is very much so needed in this world. Love is the only way we are going to survive.
I LOVE TAMRON‼️‼️ She asks the real real questions but from a COMPASSIONATE PLACE‼️💥💥💯💯💯
Excellent interview Tamron Hall. ...asked the hard questions, while still showing empathy. A real journalist...I'm proud of you; and I wish the best for the Braxtons.
My heart goes out to her, no one never knows what a person goes through. I contemplated suicide due to a divorce and also abuse and I didn’t let anyone know. I felt down on myself, never thought I was good enough. So I can relate. Praying for healing! Love you Tamar!
She definitely needs to continue intensive treatment. She posted a picture showing her bruised arm following an alleged altercation with David yet denies dv. There’s a lot of denial in everything coming out of her mouth. I pray she gets healed.
Tamar didn't answer the questions, she kinda spinning her answers. Tamron did a good job.
Literally speaking in riddles. Maybe that's an indication of how mixed up she is in her head. Very sad!!!!!!
Her mind is probably racing. It appears there are a million and one thoughts happening in her mind at once. She, more than likely, has a lot she wants to say. She probably watched this later and realized she never really answered anything.
Yes gave me a headache.
Tamar I am soo proud of you mama and THANK YOU the importance of forgiveness and healing. Thank you for showing us the power of not giving up. Thank you for not giving up and standing up. You are AMAZING and your story has healed so many broken pieces I had.
Thank you so much for sharing this Tamron. I pray for complete and swift restoration and reconciliation for Tamar and her family.
🙏🏾
Tamron is real as heck
@Kay You cry baby
@Kay You I get what you're saying. Totally agree. And hey, I'm white!😉
No, she’s CRASS and this interview was ASS.
@Kay You true
@@MissAshleyDuBose and that's a fact
Humm... not sure if this interview was a good look for either woman here.
Thank you! I thought I was the only one who noticed that. People are so focused on attacking Tamar, that everyone is missing how condescending and insincere Tamron Hall is in this interview.
Sad part is, it is mainly black people in the comments tearing another sister down.. but these are the same people that will protest and say BLACK LIVES MATTER 🤦🏾♀️🙄
Tamron should really be ashamed of herself, I thought this would be a good moment for Tamar but unfortunately you can’t trust anyone with your life, this interview was malicious. If you’re going to allow someone to tell their story, let them!
Tamron kept cutting her off..sooo annoying
You too?
I agree
Prayers for Tamar and her families healing! That is more important than anything else 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Have always been in Tamar’s corner! I’m so happy to hear that she is getting the proper help she needs. She’s that Diamond in the Rough!!
This is what a strong woman looks like. A lot of people, including myself, deal with these feelings and attempts. You don't know me and I don't know you but if you're feeling any type of way where you want to hurt yourself, I am here for you and I love you. You matter.
I love Tamar! I wish her wellness, peace and reconciliation within her family.
Something about this is coming off inauthentic. Listen, I love her and wish her well but this is coming off restrained. If you chose to come on tv to speak on it, then dammit, TELL THE TRUTH!!
I'm glad it's not just me that was thinking the same thing
I don’t think she is telling the truth
@@DebbieGonzales823 Same!
It was played out on the show because it was apart of their “reality” too!
She’s such a Goose lol
I agree with u!! When she said that I was like what!!!..she always contradicts herself because on one hand she said she wants to be honest and then say why is something being said or done!!
Totally agree
Exactly.
I do feel it’s hard because who wants their attempt documented on a reality show.
Even though it’s her show.
I feel they should go the Kardashian route.
They had more control and never showed shit they didn’t want to.
Her family need to get in the same page when filming together.
They reenacted it that was the issue she has. They hadn’t started filming I believe when that happened.
This host is so cold... she's just "getting the facts" for the public, don't treat people who are opening up about their lives this way... barf!
How is she being cold.
you're confusing 'getting the facts' with hitting all of Tamar's intended bullet points within the specified amount of time Tamar was available. Have you not ever seen Tamar on BFV, T&V, TBGYL? When she has a hard out she is GONE.
Tamron was telling her stuff she needs to hear I hope Tamar was listening & receiving.
She wasn’t
I really feel sad for Tamar!!
May God be your strength sweetheart.
It’s a heavy load to carry but leave it all to God and he’ll see you through.
Be strong 💪
Tamar has definitely changed already. You can feel her. She is softer. She is gentler.
Well done Tamar, dont look back, you are not going that way.
Great interview on Tamron’s part. She asked pressing questions that we all were wondering. However, Tamar is still not in a good place. May she find the peace she needs 💜
I get what you're saying regarding Tamron doing her job. But she has to allow her guest to speak, without interruption.
Is the lack of tears for me but I feel for her I believe she needs positive energy 🙏🏽❤️
I didnt want to say it!! But its giving audition for a movie role, very dramatic
You have good intuition
Great Job Tamron!
You took a very delicate subject, with with a person who has a tough reputation, true or not, and navigated through it perfectly. You disposed of wanting to make headlines/tears, really showed your support for her as a person and not just us someone who is on your show as a topic for your viewers. Kudos to you!
Reality shows aren’t really real...
You're right. Finally, somebody saying it out loud. That's what Tamar was trying to say when Tamron asked her about her family showing her situation on the show.
Agreed. When reality TV first started it was. Reality TV is reality situations that are perpetuated by producers, bloggers, unspoken truths, and the personality that has been placed on cast members by their actions. I hate it to a fault, but I wish shows would show growth and more positivity
Some wanted to be like the Osborne Family when reality tv started... but I saw straight through it back in 2000. The creators BANK ON DRAMA, even if they have to write it in the scripts. 👀💅🏾💯
Yes, but some real things happen because of the reality show. Her feelings about the reality show are real.
And she knows that. She was an executive producer on the shows. She shouldn't be acting all shocked now smh.
Tamron should have allowed Tamar to talk/vent. She cut her off entirely too much. This interview stressed me out. I need a redo! Tamar stay strong. Us tamartians love you!
Tamar has been venting through 3 reality television shows....side eye here!
I agree. I felt like she was able to truly get it all out
@@yvonneferguson113 definitely didn’t get the opportunity to! 🤦🏽♀️
Fame money and greed ruined them. There is a lot of shame hurt and low self esteem
My heart goes out to her, life ain't easy .I hope shes getting the healing she needs so badly
Come on TAMAR!! Speak!! Your truth is appreciated!! ❤️🙏🙏❤️
She’s starting to take responsibility.!she was mean and contributed to the situation she is in now m. All money isn’t good miney
She took “responsibility “ before and turned around and dod the same bs she always does
@@struttinsexy Thank you!!! OMGGGG
@@struttinsexy that's why ts hard to believe her, tomorrow she will be on social media digging people
Smiling through the pain is a trained emotion. I know that one personally.
Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 Psalms 77:14
Tamar is her own worst enemy. She was on a path of self destruction clinging to people that only want to use her. She is drowning and her family has tried to help her but she refuses it. Drama begets drama. Peace begets peace. You have to look inside of yourself in order to receive what you need. Other people can't do it for you.
She keeps surrounding herself with these people who want their come up!! When she first came on the scene, she was surrounded by real friends. (i.e. Tiny, Tisha Campbell, Mary J)
Exactly...
Yeah Tamron apparently just wanted to use her too. Like wtf did we just watch?? 🧐😤
stfu
Use her? PLEASE! She is the user.
Great job with this interview Tamron!!
Tamron thanks for sharing this and speaking on this difficult subject. I love tamar and the Braxtons entire family. God Bless you all!!!
I'M SO SICK OF TAMAR AND HER DRAMA.
@Suzette Carey lol..I follow tamron hall...she's on my feed..and when I saw it was tamar I didn't watch it.. lol
@@sussexsussex2230 so why are you here then ?
Another thought...I am sure this interview kind of hit home with Tamron....she can't talk to her sister anymore and the Braxtons can. They need to fix it.
I love that Tamar has her own podcast. That's right!!. I'm still a fan no matter what. Your going to bounce back like never before. Watch! 💞
She is helping so many women. Especially
women who hide in their makeup.
Continued prayers for healing, strength and deliverance from any and all strongholds in her life 🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏💯✔ Love you Tamar 💞💕❤💖💖😘
Tamar needs to leave the industry for 2 years then come back with an album.
I love Tamar Braxton...I wish her nothing but the best in life❤️❤️...🌹🌹
Tamron. PLEASE STOP INTERRUPTING YOUR GUESTS! You spoke 60% of the time.
Its her show. Tamar dancing around the questions. The show does have a time allowed i guess. Per patroberts1
Sooooo annoying !!!! The majority of the interview was “Tamron’s perspectives and opinions” 😩
Praying for you Tamar 🙏🏾keep focusing on you and your healing. God has you wrapped in his arms.
I’ve honestly never seen the show, yet I feel as though I can relate sooo much to her. Her speaking makes me cry and makes me want to talk to someone.. I’m broken..