Chaser's Dilemma: To contact or Not to contact! : Twin Flame Journey.
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
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Twin flame journey makes both the twin flames (chasers and runners) challenge their perceptions about love and makes them realize what it is all about!!
As the chaser chases their other half, and the runners always challenge them putting them in this confusion and dilemma - to contact or not to contact!
It is the battle between the ego and the heart - and yes!! - there are major lessons to learn here!! Are you ready to look into your cycles and willing to work to step out of them?
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I've come such a long way from being completely ego driven (anxious) to now being so calm and self content. I allow my "soul" to lead me without expectations...no judgment, no hurt, no more trying to take control and manage the situation. I have detached and surrendered. However, I don't want to stop doing what is comfortable.
When I feel like saying "hello" I just say "hello". I agree with all you are saying - the "ego" based feelings must be overcome before you can do what feel is right....at the time.
I only contact when I am relaxed...never when I am emotional or anxious which I don't have these moments much anymore but if this is my frame of mind then I wait a day or two.
Usually, when I am in a positive energy vibe, I know that it's a great time to contact. I am functioning from a point of strength and it sends a good vibe out to the universe ✨
It's about being strong...I agree with your advice.
Come in to my own mental Peace
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I contact him whenever I feel like it. I try my best to do it from my heart, not from a place of manipulation or ego. I’m taking a break right now because sometimes it’s too much. I feel like I’m being guided to take this break, though, as I feel peace with this decision. I miss him every single day, but also feel at peace knowing he’ll contact me if/when he’s ready. Maybe I’ve finally reached surrender? I hope❤
Can you please give update of your journey?... I am going through same stage right now
same af
Same here....I also contact as and when I'm intuitively feeling like contacting ❤❤❤
Same here 😢….. I was not able to understand his triggers. Always got upset why this man is not replying back and we got physical too after that the pain increased a lot, because he ghosted me completely. Now I can able to analyse the whole things. I am also now at surrender stage.
His eyes were on the verge of tears and his words said, "I don't know what I want. Goodbye!"
😥 same feeling - Runner
Your lucky. He leaves it up to me. And i am not strong enough to walk away. So far. ❤️
Good advice. I seldom contact him. I did text a "Happy birthday" greeting last week. He responded with a thank you. That's how it has been since he left for another eight months ago. We never blocked each other. We have texted a couple of times for birthday or holiday greetings. I had to unfriend him from social media so as not to check up on what he is doing. If I feel strongly in my heart, I briefly text him. During New Year's I texted him on how happy I was that he was in my life for a period of time. I thanked him for the help he gave me when I needed it. He was touched by his response. There is love between us. I have no expectations. I have no idea what he is doing. I have reached a plateau in that I was not thinking about him as much, and totally focused on my life and spiritual journey. Recently, I have felt the longing return. I will stop watching TF videos, and return to my inner work more. I realize that the connection will always be there, and he will always be in the back of my mind. He has to go where his path takes him. That said, I will continue to practice aligning with soul and moving on with my daily life.
Very wise advice. You obviously understand this journey very well. It is one of the most amazing things I’ve been through, and wow, what a teacher it is. There is nothing that compares to this connection between souls. Even in separation and silence it continues to grow deeper and deeper.
This alerted me that watching tarot to check up on his energy is still chasing...I thought it was just checking in to see how I was doing but it's the ego's need to know and keep track.
I avoided watching tarot today with the same thought :/
from time to time it happens.let flow,there is no wrong
You can watch this video to check what I have to say about Tarots and third party readings pertaining to your journey
Pitfalls in third party readings and How to choose right guidance!
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Thank you Pradnya, You are one of the reasons why i could step out of my chaser mode however today i realised after watching this video that i used to create a gap by not contacting so that my TF starts chasing me and this worked and i felt good.
Anyway, this did help me in a way because i have learnt now to stop displaying my emotions not only to my TF but to many people. The entry of this person in my life was to push me to start writing and i spill all my emotions in poetry. I have self-published my poem ebook, a childhood dream, it would never have happened without me facing this journey. My pain has come out in my poems. I have written an acknowledgment in my book and sent him the page to read and as it's always the message was read but no response, no congratulations and you know what I was okay! A person enters into my life and while exiting says"you are very emotional" 4 words and I write more than 4500 quotes and 100 poems. Is this short of any miracle? It was only through your video, i could strengthen myself against the silent treatment. I always do a self talk before messaging asking myself to be prepared for no reply. If still i get the urge to message, i do and the hurt has been replaced by a smile or sometimes laughter. One of my writings say that
i smile when you smile while you read my messages. I managed to make my pain creative. Thank you ❤️
I am so so proud of you Bindu!❤️
This is a classic example of how you can convert your pain into power!
And, your twin flame holds the key to unlock that power inside you!
This is truly incredible.
I would love to read your poems.
Keep up your good work and all the best for your further journey unlocking more gifts and miracles!! ❤️❤️
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa Thank you for replying, it means a lot like someone out there really understands what I have gone through, however it had to happen so that i see light and grow ❤️
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Thank you so much! I've been on this journey a long time. It's been so confusing listening to "twinflame" experts that leave me feeling more confused. You explain things so simply and to the point. It's easier to absorb these teachings.
Glad it was helpful!
The God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob is not the author of confusion. These are demons of lust
Haven’t watched yet, but yes something I battle with, wether to reach out or not. But I always decide not to.
If he wants and needs his space then I’ll give it to him ♥️
Gosh… I am so grateful for you. Your analysis of the TF journey provides such a nuanced and deep and soulful understanding of the journey. A lot of the other content out there just made me feel performative, which put me in more fear or ego. Today my soul breathes out a huge sigh of relief because I have you found you when my soul was mature and ready. Thank you ❤
Oh my gosh! I’ve been stuck in this dilemma for 5 months!!! And then when I did get courage enough to contact my DM was shut down and told he was in a relationship. Actually him telling me this sent me into another part of letting go of rejection. All are lessons I’m learning.
I am so grateful for you. You explain things in the most plain and direct terms and give us actual answers and it has brought me so much peace 🌻
This is by far the best advice in the Runner chaser dynamic, so grateful for finding this channel 🙌
When I stopped contacting my TF I never felt like doing it again because I had nothing else to say. However, the only time I communicated with him was when I felt the need to have medical tests(my DM is my doctor). I had a lot of dreams calling me to do it, I felt confident and sure it was the right thing to do and I believe it was Divinely Guided and orchestrated that helped my journey to move forward.
Thank you Pradnyaa, your guidance videos are highly appreciated! 🙏 ❤️
What does DM mean?
Devine Masculine
This was perfect timing, Pradnyaa. So helpful to distinguish between the ego and soul desires. It’s already helping me to let go. I’ve been in a dilemma of asking my TF if he wants to hang out as friends. I’m letting it go now. If it ever feels right organically, I will ask. 🙏🙏🙏
Oh my goodness thank you for this! I cannot believe how much this resonates, exactly what I needed right now.
Thank you for making this video. You explained it so well. I understand TF energy so much more now.
Speaking exactly what I think and feel!
Such a valuable guidance . Every word is true wisdom . After a long struggle I have finally started operating from my soul space . Not yet 100 percent there but on the path definitely. I have started releasing expectations and have been pleasantly surprised at times
🥰🤗 keep up the good work Vandana!
Thank you so much ma'am 😊 actually each and every issue you discussed.... Everything my heart was telling that I need to heal these issues... That's the reason I m always stuck... Even after he is making lots of efforts and he guides me everytime.... But my fear is that what if the same past with him get repeats .... The past in which he said that don't msg me ... I don't like your presence... I discussed this with him that I fear ... Then he said don't cling to the past
So much insight to the twin flame relationships. Interesting the role of the chaser.
May God bless you and your twin flame! A lot of clarity in your videos. Thank you so much!
wow! thank you!!..I start understanding more and more...Im only 2 years on this journey with my twin flame 💕
Great advice. Have been on this journey many years from 2012 soul awakening and from 2016 kundalini trigger and this would've been great to hear from the start but I've naturally come out of the chasing phase due to focusing on myself. It took many years to realise that I am more important than giving my energy to everyone else and self-love fulfilled my own needs.
Thank you so much. This really helps me. I am so relieved now that I am not losing my mind.
That expectations thing is key. Don't ever have expectations... That's how you can collapse timelines and/or shift timelines. That's also how you collapse past timelines... And live in the now
Absolutely!!
I am very grateful to know about your channel. You have cleared every doubt related to this journey. Thank you ma'am for your right guidance through the videos. Everything is relatable with my situation. I never stick to my decision of not contacting. It always happens with me but sometimes i follow my urges. Now through this video I come to know that i have to go with the flows. When i feel it's time to initiate contact i should contact and when i feel it's not the right time i should not initiate contact. From now onward I follow your guidance. Thank you ma'am.
Just in time video...could not ask more at this moment...Thanks for reconfirming my state of EGO....Thanku for alerting me once again..❤️❤️❤️
This is the best explanation of of something that is so explainable.
I stopped chasing after opening up to you Pradnya!!!! 😇😇....so grateful to you for helping me feel peace 🙏🥰
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Thank you for the guidance. Really helpful 🙌
Love your channel. You tell it exactly how it is. Thank you beautiful lady ❤️
it was so magical with all the signs and synchronicities. i didn’t even want a romantic partner as i was only focused on my spiritual path. vibrating the highest that i ever have. then wham. there she was and i recognized her on a soul level. i then understood all the telepathy and pulling that i had felt. it was so magical yet we as each other’s ultimate mirrors opened up traumas and she ran. i chased like a foolish teenager. in hindsight, i saw that i came across as needy/codependent as i chased and who wants that? i chased, and it was a mistake even though telepathic communications were so clear and intense along with the feelings from out of the blue. i had to learn to see myself as my own divine being not needing striving to not even wanting. you may always feel them. and that magnetic pull you feel can be so strong. but just let go. surrender, let go, love all and live
Thank you thank you I have just discovered you a week back and I'm grateful to God...you are doing real real good work you are a healer thank you god bless you
Oh wow, this is me 😂😂😂I have a long way to go with my healing. I'm working on it 😊
I thought I'm the only person feeling like this but after watching your video i can analyse myself more tq for this useful info❤
OMG!! you just literally said everything Going on in my mind. I felt at some point of time he is a narcissist/ using me as a trash . He can come and go in my life whenever he wants. Actually everything is over between us , I just want to pursue my spiritual path and went on no contact mode , literally forgot him for 6 months - didn’t even think about him / all of sudden sending me some random message - but when i want to talk over the phone - he is gone now- again i’m suffering with pain. What I understand is we don’t have life together- he has his own life , i have my own as well, why can’t i just live my life and carry on with my spiritual journey and forget him for good!! he triggers me and that gives immense pain again and i take time to heal myself - that’s the hard part-
he comes in my dream and all of a sudden , i wake up and text him- which i regret a lot- there is always hurt after the contact
i have been following your videos for few days now/ it makes sense for me , after joining al the dots- But i’m very tiered of this journey- it’s been 7 years now - I want to quit but couldn’t - some external energy forces to contact him and reminds of him. Just surrendering to universe 🙏🙏
Yeh I understand. That energy you feel is "Third energy" that is the guiding star of this journey. (watch my third energy video.)
Accept him the way he is. Accept this journey. That will make a big shift.
Trust the process. Till the time you try and control you will get tired.
Beautifully explained Mam... Grateful for this guidance❤🌻
Thank you so much for your insight. I’m glad I was drawn to your page. I’m currently going through a twin flame journey and we are in a separation phase. Been in separation for 26 years. Over the years I’ve met him in my dreams and I’d wake up smiling and happy. But sad that I miss him. Then continue on with my day. I Have had 3 run ins with him over the years. 2 were chance run ins the 3rd he came to “rescue” me but I was married at the time. Well a few months ago he (his presence) came to me while I was awake. I was literally holding my husbands hand laughing and talking to my husband and it all of a sudden it felt like our hands got pulled apart and then I walked into a l imaginary wall. When I closed my eyes I saw him and heard him say, “where do you think you’re going?” And I’ve felt him with me ever since. I haven’t been eating, sleeping, I’m nauseous, have headaches, an dizzy and I am scratching the back of my knees till they bleed. The pull on my heart chakra was intense. I was dealing with it for months but I had to reach out to him to see if he was ok. Energy shifted and felt like he wasn’t ok. But I didn’t feel better talking to him. He is married now and almost made me feel like it was too late. I feel horrible. Mind you he did make me realize I am not happy in my marriage weather I end up with my TF or not. 🤷🏻♀️
I can relate to every bit if what you shared!! Their energetic presence is undeniable!
However I will suggest you to ponder more upon the non-physcial aspect as thats where your guidance ad progress lies!!
We keep feeling sad and bad and compare this connection to ifs and buts and marriage - because we are human beings and conditioned with those aspirations.
But there is something more to this connection, which is wanting to push you BEYOND your current understanding. Take the clues! :-)
Thank you for your guidance & wisdom, Pradnyaa 🙏🏼 May Universe always bless you 🌈
I am glad to see somebody expressing the Ego and Soul Space very well. Thank you.
Thank you Rentao!
I have faced all of it and now after watching your vedio I feel how much it taught me .. thank you for a such detailed vedio .🥰💝
Thank you so much. Just found your page, on the journey and this was so helpfull ❤
Where have you been my last two years 😍😊🙏
😄 everything is divine timing!!
I really love this video. When I feel the urge to contact him, or want to share an experience, I will shoot him an email. I might email once in a blue moon, nothing intense or overly emotional. I will just mention that I hope he does not mind if I shared this experience that I had with him. Most importantly, I always write in the email that i request that he not respond to the email and to just read it. I don't like the anxiety of waiting for a response. I feel so much better when I release the urge to contact him.
So true! I have followed the same.
I feel it is all about US!! How we are working around and managing our feeling without ego and expectation. It all works out well and eventually they too start releasing their anxiety related to it.
Thank you for explaining the differences in soul and ego. ❤. This is something I struggle with. Thank you so much.❤
You are so welcome!😊
There were times that i felt totally empty without her but now i feel i’m just more myself with her! maybe i’m hiding something from myself!
You are very wise and your info/perspective feels very good for me. Thank you 🙏
I have decided that I won't contact him. I'm sending him love and comfort though and telling him that I'm here when he's ready.
But you are totally right, the decision is ego. I promise that if at some point I get the feeling from my soul to contact him, I will.
But I feel I'm doing very well on my own, getting more and more out of my ego and more into listening to my soul ❤
each and every word resonates with me... chaser here, now in separations.
Omg it's been so tough. Every other week . I want to go a month. It's so hard not to reach out
in my next life i come back as my rottie , pure love no bullshit
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Me, too. Love my dogs!💕
Thank god I have outgrown this years ago
I guess I have stopped chasing my Tf completely and I am at peace, healing myself and waiting for my union under divine timing.I guess that would be considered as complete surrender to divine timing.🥰🥰🥰
Gratitude❤
for me, its the factor that my connection with source is much more strong than this twinflame connection. I would like to follow that and with the twinflame, its this part of always being ignored and snubbed because of contact earlier. I want to have peace and tranquility. I am sure that the divine has a plan to awaken my masculine. Let the divine take over and do whatever is necessary. I want to totally detach and move on with my career and life.
For someone who is thinking that - we never met., its important to awaken. I feel like i am overdoing things. It doesnt make me feel good when i contact him. I get triggered and go down emotionally, crying, hating, frustrated.. All by myself. Instead let me just work on getting detached and feeling at peace. Anyway, Now, after i initiated my own self love.. I can feel his energy around me more often.
Detachment is the key because any energy that is making you feel like you are desperate or doing more than required, could be codependent. DM is not a child, He knows what this is.
Yes that "feeling" in your heart is your most authentic guide, and it is important to follow it. So if it says not to contact then it is the direction you need to get on. That's what I mean when I say operate from your soul and not from your ego.
It is important to be able to dissect where the feeling is coming from. From the rest of getting hurt or from the soul.
Makes complete sense.
So much hurt, havoc and damage done between us, I really don't know what I would say to her anyway :( So for that reason, Ive decided to not reach out until I'm definitely coming from a better place inside. And I cannot even say that I will ever again be in a good place regarding this connection. There's just too much pain. I don't think I can heal it by myself, but I don't think she's capable of doing anything constructive that will not do even more harm.
You are not healing it, given is healing it. So don't worry. I do understand what u feel but this is only your current 'mental' state.
My TF bullied me and hated me from his core in the initial years. I was in his black list. I was not even his friend. There was nothing which will indicate what was there between us.
But when the time came it changed and things unfolded.
yep a merry go round.now I leave it to my spiritual team to advise me if I do or don't.
for now it's just wait....
Am 63 am tired finally fond him at 62 lost him at 4 mths
I know he is the one i never dared before to say with certainty.
I cant move on and wake up go to sleep with him in my mind i replsy our times together
Found out he is same but started new relationship i can tell he does not care for her facial and body language but i am done made my peace with God
Thank you for sharing all of this 😘
Beautifully explained 🙏
all arguments are valuables If the chaser is the awaken part of TF connection!
For the TF who met before 2016, yes, the chaser is the awaken twin, and yes, all your arguments match.
After 2016, is the Runner who recognize his twin, who understands, accepts and wants the connection and union…
I am the Yin polarity (Runner!) and I recognized myself in many points in your video, BUT I am the awaken one, my chaser (Yang polarity) can’t yet accept the TF’s connection, and still running from herself; still need to experience some 3d stuff, with another person, and denying all special state of soul and feelings between.
I just want you to understand that this dynamic can change…IF the twins connection happened AFTER 2016: they keep their polarity but is the runner the awaken twin, not the chaser as before.
And the runner understands that no way to run anymore, because we can’t run away from out soul!
And the chaser stays blocked in his mental ancient self, and run from his true self, even if the feelings are there.
I understand.
I feel running and chasing is a state of mind.
Even both twins can run at the same time.
So it is not related to their being yin or yang. Their state of mind will fluctuate time to time. You can not put runner label only on one person all the time permanently.
Why particularly after 2016? I would like to know.
I know there are waves coming by years but I do not think they related to switching running chasing in relation to yin or yang polarities.
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa no, twin’s polarity is in fact the (half) soul’s polarity and is determinate on birth moment (so reject wound for yin and abandon wound for yang).. they are completely different and identically in the same time but this different predominant polarity will never change… they can only work on themselves and balance; and together become hole, if they reunite in this journey.
sometimes yes, this role runner/chaser can switch, but just for a while, depending what moment of their journey/what must to heal and clean out.
it’s very complex, and is always more than a romantic relationship… is about self love, unconditional love and being One together.
And yes, nothing can BE if Ego still decides. 🙏🏻 And ego is because they must heal…still clean out all fears and limited beliefs,No more duality, just love and unity. 🌸😇
*try and check by yourself, if you have TF couples in consultation; you’ll see that after 2016 is the Divine Feminine polarity (yin) awaken and completely conscience about this connection… and recognized her twin. (before 2016, it was the DM/yang). I think the Source shows us that TF couples must reunite and the DF take the place She deserves. (DF and DM isn’t about sex/physical body, but soul energy!)
Perfect time having this dilemma currently regarding eid greetings
😊😇 well we all wish eid mubarak to even someone walking on the.street..why hold back when it comes to them
There was a point wherein i ignored my tf whenever i know i'll see him out in events, bec i dont want to appear that im obssessed, or that im recovering from my obssession, or i dont want to be obssessed anymore, like i just dont want to give my attention and energy to him and keep it to myself. Whenever i do this, i realized he was attentive of me, looking at me even when he was talking to my friend, etc. I thought i can handle this and have moved on. But one time he appeared when I didn't even expect him, he was dressed in women's clothes for this party that im attending and i completely laughed when i saw him. And we had a small talk. It's like the universe just broke this ice. But whenever i do see him out, i dont expect to talk to him much as I also try not to linger too much.
Wow! This video resonated so much and I stumbled upon it literally at the right time... thank you :) I was ghosted by this person 8 months ago; we were communicating via text and then they just abruptly stopped responding. No idea why. My ego definitely got in the way and said that I will not be contacting this person ever again until I recently had a very positive dream about them and now I am feeling this strong/magnetic pull again. The energy has been so intense lately that I just keep looking for signs/answers on what to do, and everything points in the same direction that you mentioned... "go with the flow of life." I know this is not the right time for me but I anticipate reaching out very soon...
This person is the same gender as me (first time ever feeling this way) and it's amazing that I was drawn to this literature after such a short span of time "meeting" with them... how do you know for sure you've met your twin-flame, and how can I know for sure that they feel the same way? Especially after abruptly cutting communication when they had just said "of course we can stay in touch." So confusing...
Share you my experience...my twin said we will follow no contact after hearing my emotions.. I wrote to him with apologies and explaining all the things that happened...
He responded...but now I learn to balance... U can try writing ...to sort out the matter ...as in why they said that abrupt things...coz they get overwhelmed...as he too has said to me..
They can't digest these emotions..after he told me give me space..he stills responds when i wrote...but again few days back...he said there is no future...n again ghosted. M just waiting for signs..think we just need to follow soul...n say gratitude to them for responding n understanding by maintaining little distance n balancing our emotions...hope this helps . If anyone can add a bit. Take care
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Thank you for hearing that
How beautifully you put it👌
Wonderfully explained ❣️❣️
I am following the same thing.
Ma'am please make a detail video about repeated numbers that one see during this journey.
Thank you so much 🙏❤️ this was helpful 🙏
Thank you 🌈
Thank you mam🙏❤
great content and observations of a twin flame relationship. I listened to the other video as well, about the reasons behind a runner running. There's just one thing that makes absolutely no sense to me - in both videos you seem to imply that the twin flame is not a spouse or a future spouse. How can anyone have an honest relationship with someone else's spouse?! That is so bizarre!
That's the whole point we all are coming to!! If you ask this question, WHY anyone is meeting this person even after being married, even when one is not looking for love, outside their marriage and why this person is challenging and turning things upside down in your life --?
The answer to this WHY lies in its main purpose - the twin flame mission!!
And the main core mission of twin flame connection is to come out of conditional relationship templates!
If you look at 'marriage" - it is based on give and take, karmic. Based in fear, insecurity and certain rules. If one does not follow those rules, marriage ends.
This connection is above and beyond where the divine is teaching us to raise ABOVE what we already feel love is all about ( marriage). There is more to love and relationships and we all are getting there to understand it slowly.
I have explained this a bit more in detail - in my video - twin flame mission part one and two!
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa really interesting. i will look at those videos. i agree that marriage has a give and take in it, based on all kinds of expectations and obligations, and it becomes impossible to maintain the relationship if one party doesn't hold up their end of the deal. And i have wondered if it's possible to have a relationship that is completely FREE with No obligations and expectations, but each person simply wants to give freely to the other, because it brings them so much fulfilment to make the other person happy.
Spot on! TF connection shows you a tailor of this template - how will it be when you function from pure love and release expectations(made out of insecurity and fears) - build relationships only with love and freedom.
As we all are deeply conditioned by the society - we are trying to measure and understand everything through a template of marriage. Twin flame experience opens our eyes to new realities.
Amazing perspective
Thanks ma'am, this is helpful. 🌼
Thank you 😊
Thank you i appreciate your videos are so helpful ❤️
On 1.1 I likes!😊
I started off as a runner, but I can’t get rid of all of these powerful feelings for her, idk what to do. I was disgusting by who she was, then after a year and a half of not speaking, I’m actually really proud of her, I discovered that for myself. I can’t get her out of my mind, no matter what I do or whatever techniques I use, it’s impossible. I got sick of who she was, but now I don’t care, because I know I’ll never have a connection like this ever. This is not something I can magically wish for and it happens the next day, like I’m ordering off Amazon, but I fucking wished there was a way, to meet this person again. I know their full name, but I’m too scared of even looking at their social media. All I can use is my email, as this was the only thing I could use when I blocked her. All this makes me look so pathetic, ik hahaha, it’s funny hahaha. But every day I just get these moments by myself when the emotions for her r too powerful and I have to distract myself, sometimes with alcohol or dating some one else. I don’t know what to do at this point, I thought that me blocking her and ceasing all contact would end it and I could move on from my life, but I can’t. So shall I become a chaser? What do I do? I’ve sent an email, so ik she won’t reply, I’m thinking if I send another, she will think otherwise.
Idk what to do - these feelings r too powerful and I wished it would end - since my heart really wants to get back with her. But my rational brain is telling me, it’s impossible and there is no use and I’m just stuck in the past - unwilling to move on. Even my brain is telling me that I need to get back to her, because in reality I’ll never meet some one who I’ve connected with on a deep level like this. She’s moved to another country, but what I want is different to how I feel and how I feel as at home with this individual. I know she’s a good person and will understand me/has a good heart, but at the same time, I also fear I’ll be compared to her first ex who is a stalker.
Maybe it is good that I live my own life without her. But I look like such a clown as I have all of these feelings I’ve never had before meeting her. I didn’t even speak with her for that long when it happened as well, she introduced me to this world, and now it’s had it’s negative impact on me. She is like the opposite form of depression - thoughts of her follow me where ever I go, but instead of feeling depressed/sad, I feel wonderful. Is it good to look back at this person and not let go of that past?
If there was a way to get back, I’ll choose to get back in touch with her, but there isn’t. She is in another country and I’ve lost her old phone number, all I have is an email. I’m worried if I contact her, it will scare her and she won’t have the same feelings for me. I’m worried she will just think I’m a shitty person when when I look back, it was so stupid and pointless why things ended.
Update: as soon as I started reaching out to people to help me, the day after, I literally completely let go and no longer think of her, like this person was a terrible person and that she was using me as a way to soak all of her issues. And I understand she was really lonely in this situation and had nowhere else to go, but now that I look back, I recognise how much of a narcissist she is/was. I’m happy I don’t have to think of her all the time, like this person would fix all my issues.
Idk if this is coincidence/a synchronicity, but after that day, when I let go, I could go to a club and resonate/vibe/connect with people, it felt great, then the day after, something really bad happened, where I became very alone and depressed. Infact, I almost kms, like idk, this person as I think of it, has been a curse and I think with them, I’m a worse off person and I’m open to the idea that this is not my tf. Like yes, finding a person who can resonate with u on every level is really rare, but I’d rather become some one powerful and can work on my own shit/passions/hobbies and feel proud of how far I came. Maybe I’m an asshole, idk, but atleast I love what I do and am happy about it. It’s my own thing
I don’t want my “twin flame” anymore if that’s even a real thing. I think I was delusional but this idea of some one people can resonate is a part of 21st century lifestyle I guess… looking at this critically. Ik there r better people out there who I can connect with, even if they r rare, cuz I have met some.
Thank you so much for your clarity on these situations. Can you please do a video on Twin Flames that have passed over
My TF passed last year. I have shared my experience and how he started communicating with him in a special episode -
ua-cam.com/video/eUaYPo5qyfY/v-deo.html
Yes I will be doing more videos on this topic. Let me know if you have any specific questions.
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa Thank you so much. Mine did too, I’m still confused if he really is my TF or not but since he passed I started being able to communicate with spirits and I guess I just still feel a lot of pain and guilt from his passing and I can’t help but wonder if he will come back as a walk-in.
@@3KALI3MA3 Please do watch the link I shared with you, you will get a lot of insight from my experience.
He does not need to come here as a walk in - thats our human desire.
There is a reason why he was here in human body till the point of his death and there is a reason why he left. You need to understand the deeper truths here and work on yourself.
This experiences pushes all of us to look beyond the physcial, which is more magical and amazing than the physcial. Don't waste your time and energy in anticipating a walk-in. There could be something else, more magical waiting for you on this journey.
thank you ❤. Do share about the last phase nearing union ...how does that happen .....what makes the runner turn around ....how does it happen.....how does clarity emerge ...what steps are taken and by whom and how. thank you ❤
I have shared it in some of the videos, though I do plan to make more videos on Union.
This is what you can watch - I
Illumination Stage - (Bridge between surrender and Union) - ua-cam.com/video/izFb5scoYIc/v-deo.html
Understanding Union - ua-cam.com/video/-X3sjgcuu1I/v-deo.html
what makes the runner turn around - their own progress + your progress
how does it happen - surrender + inner work + divine timing
How did your tf realize the situation meant something to him?
How did you finally know he is aligned with your intuition?
Best ADVICE!
It is so accurate...
They always know it, but their journey to become aware of it varies case to case. There is no set pattern to their being aware of the connection.
I have always been very expressive with my TF, even when we were in no talking and separation. Fortunately I always managed to operate from the soul almost every time. :-)
Thank you
Thankyou ❤
I have seen ur synchronicity video from memory box. I loved that episode. I eager to know ur journey after that. Plz share ur story. It will be Motivational. I eager to know what happened when u both talked after so many silent years. Actually me my twin flame seperated 8 yes ago. That time i was 20 . And now I am 28.He was silent through out these years. I feel connection ur story and my story.
Thank you for your feedback Runti.
Here is another video from memory box - When I received a direct message from higher realms for the first time. - ua-cam.com/video/-6kKykIl3OY/v-deo.html
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Though I plan to share more aspects of my story sooner or later, I have shared my story in brief on a Podcast interview - you can listen to it here -
open.spotify.com/episode/7uy7aOvL3vIlH7AORmdm9U
Just a few weeks back I shared my journey of last year - in a special episode of the segment of this channel Empower Hour - watch it here:
open.spotify.com/episode/7uy7aOvL3vIlH7AORmdm9U
444th thump up
All well deserved
Thanks for those preciois tips/reminders 🙏
Have you ever felt the soul of an unborn child (between you and your twin) wanting to be born? If so, can you do a video on this please?
Yes yes yes
I have.
@@radheradhekrishna7144 were they eventually born? Did you know who the father was? Was it your TF?
Oh my gosh!
That's BRILLIANT!
Anything we decide is coming from ego space!
So...ALLLLLLLL this time...
(I am weeping with gratitude and joy!)
ALLLLLLLLLLLLLL
this time...when my DM has boasted his free will, and I have felt this nagging intuitive feeling that he is in ego...I've been RIGHT!
Wowwwwwww
It has just bugged me SO much and I have felt so deeply confident that I was in the space of Higher Self, but because his "free choice" seemed to be winning out, it was making me doubt myself.
So I have been doing right by going by my intuitive feelings and not making a choice to do this or that, but rather to allow myself to be Divinely guided!
Wowwwwwwwwww
I needed this SOOOOO
desperately!
Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
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😄😅 oh! that's amazing!😇
Yes your intuition will always guide you perfectly. 🥰
@@AwakenwithPradnyaa
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Me and my twin flame communicate telepathically. Well my twin is my cousin.
Im from quora app pradnyaa.
I will waiting for ur next clip for how to handle with their family in this connection ^_^
Most of the tf coaches say that the chaser has to completely stop chasing the runner physically as well energetically.Is having thoughts about the runner a form of energetic chasing?Some say that the df should feel the dm within oneself to end the illusion of separation.But isn't feeling the dm within the df's soul,a sort of energetic chasing will be pull the dm further away?
I am the runner
I'm confused because it was my understanding that the chaser was supposed to learn to not reach out. That the runner needs to come to us first after we grow, heal and realize what's going on. Otherwise we are still chasing by initiating.
One very important point i want to mention here -
[because it was my understanding that the chaser was supposed to learn to not reach out. ]-----
Here you are navigating your journey according to the LABEL. What the chaser is "supposed" to do.
There is nothing which is "supposed" here.
YOU are exploring your path and there is nothing right or wrong.
Somewhere unknowingly we start buying into these labels runner-chaser - so much so that we forget to follow our heart. The place where the true guidance comes from.
If you heart is telling you to reach out - you need to reach out.
This is what my inner guidance has always told me. and I have followed it. And looking back I am glad that I always did when i felt it strongly.
ANOTHER IMPORTANT THING:
Runner - or Chaser - is NOT a person.
it is a state of mind.
Both twin flames can run at the same time.
Putting the label of being a chaser onto yourself - also kind of closes the possibility of inner contemplation of - what might be making YOU run. Because there are many twin flames who consider themselves as chasers, but are actually running from the connection.
I have explained it in this video =
ua-cam.com/video/c8tN5VI-FJw/v-deo.html
Good Day. I had a question. Im currently in the separation stage and my twin flame and I are on good terms, but here lately he has started the romantic talk and on this journey I am determined to stay focus on me, so I told him that I just wanted to keep it on the friendship level on because it was begining to throw me off. My question is, by me telling him that did I cause any harm or delay in my journey, I just felt in my heart that was something I had to do.
Thank you
What if he contacts off and on but with random ques/statements but for a very brief moment with some msgs from both sides shared and ends the contact on whatsapp with a smiley emoji and then no msg for a long time.
It is so weird….. I used to read your answers on Quora and today god showed me your video. I feel hurt and delighted at the same time.
I always wanted to leave him, but I couldn’t and same with him. There have been so many synchronicities all the time that it feels like god is confirming my connection. Why do I feel that twin-flames are not meant to be together.
Send me.your email, I will mesg you in detail - awakenwp@gamail.com
If the chaser after getting ghosted by the runner,chooses to stop chasing physically by completely refraining from any attempt to initiate contact on any platform & a no contact zone arises.The chaser realises that it was the runner who had always tried to maintain distance in the connection & he was the only one who had been trying to maintain the connection.As a result of this,for his own peace,the chaser never initiates any contact & the runner also remains in his/her 3d life which he/she considers comfortable,safe & convenient.Will the connection on 3d level be over for good in such case ?Would the runner ever return?What are the chances that the runner may return in this lifetime?
Now you tell me
و اللة كنت قاعدة لا بيا و لا عليا ولا توامة ولا دماغ فاضية
Hi pradnyaa
Why I don’t see any dreams of my TF ,though he remained in my mind 24/7 , unable to forget him for a second .
There is a possibility that you don't remember your dreams. Many don't.
It is perfectly alright.
There is nothing be bothered about.
Some people receive guidance through dreams some don't. Everyone's channel of receiving guidance can be different.
Also tf dreams don't come randomly. And if they don't come that is perfectly fine.
Thanks 🙏 for your reply.