Everybody thinks differently at 40 than they do at 20. Unfortunately, changing your attitude from "I don't need a man. I don't want to get married. I am a strong, independent woman" at 20 to "I want to be married, I want someone to grow old with and I'm tired of being lonely" at 40 may be a case of too little, too late.
@chrzig554 some of them are, but those that do are usually the ones in their 40s who have been burned in bad marriages. I was Gung ho about marriage in my 20s. However, a horrible first marriage changed my perspective some.
I’m happy that my awakening happened at 24…..And shortly after I met Kevin , Candace owens, Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate all those changed my perspective on life etc I’m dating with intention and I can’t wait to finally settle down
Yeah they mind finally catches up to the reality of their purpose DONT be loose focus on being a wife get a husband and be covered cause being the single girl aka the harlot is played out but like you said it’s kinda too late you spend your twenties getting stretched out racking up bodies an you expect a man that’s stable looking for a decent woman to save you 😂 pls note to you woman focus on being a wife when your young DONT waist your youth who3 ing around it won’t profit you when you really need a sincere companion to build a real life with unless you plan on spending your later years with the cat an dog the bird an the Iizard🤣🤣🤣🤣
Chisha Zed made a point in one of his recent videos which I think is prudent to raise here, too. Self love and being comfortable in your own skin doesn't compensate for being single. It's *natural* to want companionship. The women pushing this as an alternative to meaningful relationships are selling a pipe dream.
You have to be comfortable and happy in your own skin to be in a healthy, functional relationship. Miserable and dysfunctional people make miserable and dysfunctional spouses
it amazes me how yall use one person to tell you who a whole group of women feel about something yet when someone does the same thing when it comes to men magically yall have the common sense to know that doesn't apply to the whole group smh
"hOoD aNd pAiD" - basically some Tyrone that sells little baggies out of his crusty pants because we all know there are no real hood CEOS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thats not paid lol and that tyron not making no money from them lil baggies. But they sleep with them because they curse, stank, walk around like monsters 😢
🤨In reference to that last clip about them not caring about marriage, yeah that's evident. The way they pop out children with zero commitment, told us that. They do that to only turn around and play victim years later. I caught on to that voluntary victimhood card YEARS ago.
Lots of women love to avoid responsibility by only telling half truths and living in the grey area so as to absolve themselves of all responsibility. Plausible denibality is their get out of jail free card, at least before they start name calling or redirecting.
This is why I will continue to love and carter and obey my husband I will continue to be submissive to my husband I will continue to allow him to lead the family because I’m happy as hell being married I’m happy exactly right where I’m at I’m 7 months pregnant right now and my husband been super super helpful I’m happy I have no time to think my husband is a big supporter I won’t trade my marriage to be no damn strong independent don’t need a man crew hell nah
I wish y’all a happy marriage, hopefully when I’m older I’m happy with a wife. Keeping God and having a relationship is key also and praying is important.
So everybody that says...."Im done!" are lying. Nobody wants to be alone. They just mean that they are done for the moment. But if they are that frustrated about the dating scene; then they want a relationship eventually and they don't want to be alone regardless!
I'm a woman, going to be 63 yrs. old. Honest questions. Where did women get the delusion of getting married and living like a queen? What is a queen in their mind?
That's the power of lexicon. Stop using certain words, and they'll stop influencing certain behaviors. That's why the lgb council should've been fiercely combatted when they allied with females. Now, they in the schools perverting your children with their speech. That's the last line of defense. Y'all dudes better stand the fuck up.
Everyone wants to be with someone but not at the cost of everything, financially, emotionally, reputation, peace of mind, men young and old don’t want to give that up, why should we? We seen what our dads, uncles, neighbors, cousins, older coworkers what negative long term destruction women can do, we all want a partner right now the innocence stage about women is over
Y'all swear y'all the only ones that want peace but over half of relationships and divorces are initiated by women not men, and this is AFTER the woman has endured the relationship/marriage for years
I know so many females that will take these trips knowing the lights are gonna get turned off or they will have an eviction notice waiting for them when they get back. All to portray like they are living their best life
What is meant for you will come when you are vibrationally matched. This is why you keep running into the same situations with different dressings. This is what it means to work on yourself... It means to CHANGE YOUR MINDSET on everything, yourself, others, your role, their role, what you want, what you need, everything. Resistance is why you run into issues, find balance, learn detachment (not the same as not caring), just know what you want and deserve, and ALLOW it to happen whenever and however it happens. That is the biggest thing people are missing, its always got to be the way they see it happening in their head. There are infinite ways that you could get what you want. Let the universe give you what you want by letting go of how it has to happen. Love ❤ yall!
These men expecially black men think women should desperately choose any man that comes their way and will do anything to guilt trip a woman who wishes to wait
if you want to be happy in life at any age you need to set realistic standards about the man that you want to be with make the necessary sacrifices and trust me you will be happy stop day dreaming my fellow women....
I’m in my late 40’s and married a long time , I just feel so sorry for this new generation it’s as if love does not exist…we are all humans which means woman and man are meant to be together let’s stop this nonsense!!
Honestly as long as I’m making good money and my career is progressing and I can enjoy my hobbies I’m good. I have literally had the best years of my life once I finally got out of college and got a decent job. I’m 31 I don’t think being relationship could come close to the fun and joy I’ve experienced from ages 28 to 31 so far.
You're a man, most men are wired to think like this, money, career, and having sex leisurely until marriage which is very selfish by the way, but women aren't not designed to think like this
She didn’t lie but that doesn’t mean she told my truth. I love being single, and the longer I’m single the better it is. The more adapted to the lifestyle I’ve become.
Its crazy how a lot of dude's can live a boring life, but woman who can't not have fun under 30 get called more mature??? Bruh I stopped really going to the club at like 23 24. Same women in the club damn near weekly until the age of 30... Pretty much black out drunk...
The life I live is not boring, it's content, Fun modest and moral. I don't party, I don't drink, I'm not in the streets, I'm not going to strip clubs or any of that and I'm happy with that, and guess what, I'm married, my wife is happy with that too. We would rather lay up all day watching movies and doing what we do than be out and about. WE have fun just chilling OR going on vacation and chilling somewhere new. All we do for fun is hang out at food spots, vacation and chill, laugh and joke. My wife don't even have fun shopping and you know women love shopping lol I like shopping more than she do but I'm a "I know what I want I buy it and I'm out" type of dude. She's more of an online shopper. Tia the famous twins of Tia and Tamara is a classic example of someone who never grew up. Her Sister Tamara told her she don't think she can party with her because they're older and mom's now (implying she be doing too much) Tamara is still married and is more into her husband, we know Tia is divorced now and trying to run the streets a little. Tia's response is very telling of both men and women on this subject but mostly women. Tia said, "Just because I'm a mom that don't mean my life is over" Notice, she equates, clubbing, drinking, dancing etc with "Living life" as if that is the only thing people can do and that is the only way to have fun. THIS is pure foolishness and immaturity. A co-worker asked if I drink during a break, it was 4 of us at Applebees for lunch, I said nah, he responded "How do you deal with life then?" I said....I just do. It was a surprise to him. This tells you all you need to know about some people. Their mindset is that drinking, drugs, partying blah blah IS living life, fun or to cope with life and without it, they have no direction and think life is boring which is no where close to the truth at all.
Can't take women's advice. The one's made these days don't want a family. The truth will reveal itself. A man wants to protect what he loves. I'll keep my motorcycle 🏍 and roll out in the spring and summer stay up y'all 🙏🏽
I’m not particularly handsome & I swear that, women be waiting to get approached by men. Especially if you don’t be weird or ignore them. I’ll just speak to them & it’s a full conversation
The crazy part is she’s pretty and if you just met her at a local grocery story pre social media era she could easily be thought of as wifey material sad world we live in lol
@@Dil5150especially if you didn't rap,not in a gang/sold dope or had pro sports dreams. They had nothing for you unless you weren't in those 3 categories
False. The further you go back the less tolerant men were of certain mindsets and behaviors. There has always been a group of men that will wife up any pretty woman for sure, but the general male population was more masculine and less tolerable as you go back each decade or generation. Some man will see her as wifey material because she's pretty and maybe she'll even have an OK personality. But many other men would only see her as pretty and that's that. Wifey material was never JUST pretty, it still isn't now, it's just that more men are much more tolerable of bad behavior and take a weak stance on gender roles and power dynamic of relationships. My stance is, all power lies with the man and he only gives up some power and cater to a woman that has proved her worth to him and earned it. That is not the stance of modern day dating thought. If men want good women, they need to become 100% traditional and reject all modern ideals unless a situation calls for it. For example, if you have a good woman and you both need to work to build a life, cool, that's not 100% traditional but long as she's under your guidance that's not an issue. Ultimately for me, my wife is not working anymore but that don't mean she has nothing to do and can't help out.
The chick at the 0:40 mark, “Glitz and glame”? Like when you get paid to fly out on yachts and eat poop? Or do you mean the drunken ratchet club scene?
that single life girl is talking truth, I've been single for almost 10 years and thought I was finally gonna be in a relationship this year just to be crushed, I applaud all the women that are truly happy single and looking or not, I'm very lonely but know that I'm not gonna just date any guy, I want someone that will treat me right not get into a relationship just to say I got someone
We see the results of the men and women who have this outlook on life when they get older all around us everyday. The great thing about life is we all have free will. I’m glad I found a wife and building a great life for our family. Aye at the end of the day do what makes you happy but remember only you are responsible for the results at the end of the day. And remember we’re not always gonna be this young and able. Be financially responsible and always be planning for your retirement. Don’t wanna be one of those old ladies/men greeting people at Walmart because the welfare and child support games ran out.
This is on the first female. She got more than enough men. In the friend zone that she could very well be with. She is just like all the rest, she wants the bad boy to be her one and only man. Lets not kid ourselves.
Humans are social beings. To be alone for too long you will lose it. Many in the last 15 years have traded real human interaction for social media after a while you notice that it is not as fulfilling as you thought.
It's gets frustrating and lonely sometimes oh yes... Some days are worse than others. Its dry outchea 😂🚮🚮 especially when you have all other thing figured out except the love department.
Women in the U.S. better start stepping up and asking men on dates. Every single guy I know has a GF in another country. And most of the married guys I know met their wife over sea's.
For the woman that was talking about single life was true but it would have been better if she said now she know what it feels like to be a man if she also put that in there it would have been better
She doesn’t know what it feels like to be a man. She’s still pretty and can get company any times she wants. She’s just tired of the bs. She wants something real
Charles the women i've known & no I didn't date all of them take trips, buy expensive shit, finance expensive cars then try to figure out how to pay for it later lmaoooo. Make it make sense
Relationships are like jobs not everyone is qualified to work for you and vice versa. When entering a relationship with someone, there must be a level of discipline that you must have in order to reach the levels of greatness in a relationship. You must be friends first until you can really reach any level of success. You have to be honest and intentional without having any expectations. You’re just in the interview stage in the beginning. Most relationships are destroyed within the first 90 days because of undisciplined behavior along with dishonesty. This is why you must be friends first due to low survival rates at the beginning of the relationship. You gotta be honest at all times because this will keep you vibrating on a high frequency. You receive what you put out into the universe.
A lot of these women can get on the net and front like their happy alone and being run through but we know it's cap they alone and miserable yeah the vacations, sneaky links and so called is fun until they alone at night in their bed.
I'll reserve credit to the first woman because I'll need some confirmation that what she's really tired of is paying for everything with her own money.
Nah man. I said i was done and i am done. I wanted to start with someone and make a life, not finish and let someone hop in. No thanks. This doesnt mean i want to be alone.
Peace is priceless! I'd rather be all alone with peace than with a wealthy controlling man without peace. Who'll inevitably try to ruin your entire life if you should ever try to escape...
Been 7 years since I’ve been in a relationship I’m 29 now I think my dating life is over I’m not a millionaire but I work almost 24/7 own place own car just working on myself but most likely will die alone iiwii they never think your enough anymore
hard being alone, looking after children, keeping up with the pressures and trying to juggle everything. been alone to long and less tolerant of b.s. dont want to be dominated by anyone. its a struggle to let anyone in now. it can get lonely but i prefer to make sure kids are good and well taken care of. hope that it works out in the future. the future is unclear
I always find it interesting how people are cool with saying you may feel. Fun: fact on this particular day I may have pretended to care about anything..
Any body say they wanna be single is cappin. No one wants to really be alone by choice. The fact you can't find some one for you and think everyone is the same after you get hurt is a problem for people who dont want to change.
Only a person who is comfortable in their aloneness man or woman can be present in any relationship. You have to love your solitude so that you can love being connected. Only the person who is still is connected, man or woman. As I grow I realize that I am fine enjoying my own company and of course the company of others when I want, it's really too simple. If you are alone it's because you want to be. You can be single with healthy relationships, we are all single and united. These concepts are simple.
The only lie shes telling is that its only a small part of her that feels lonely at times when it actually is worse than whats she's making it seem.....
I think this young lady was being real. But what she didn't say is there are probably several guys in or around her universe who would love to take her out or get to know her but would never get the chance. If any one of us kats watching this content tried to holla, she woukd first pull out her "99 point checklist" and then turn her nose up at us because no one would be good enough. They are always looking for the next best thing. They throw away the checklist when their looks change as they finally begin to look for love as opposed to looking for a lifestyle. Unfortunately by that time, it's bjust too dam late then they play victim and it's all our (men) fault.
Maybe because you don’t meet her standards. She doesn’t want to settle, and there is nothing wrong with that. She doesn’t want to lower her standards for anyone.
you get used to being alone once you see the true nature of people in general you'd see it's better to be alone than lay with snakes
Thank you!!
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Most likely you are also one of those people.
@@agreatmannamedlieu your point exactly?, It a statement of what I've observed
You have to be wise and attract better. GODs discernment is prominent when dating
Everybody thinks differently at 40 than they do at 20. Unfortunately, changing your attitude from "I don't need a man. I don't want to get married. I am a strong, independent woman" at 20 to "I want to be married, I want someone to grow old with and I'm tired of being lonely" at 40 may be a case of too little, too late.
Aren't men the ones saying that marriage is a trap...
@chrzig554 some of them are, but those that do are usually the ones in their 40s who have been burned in bad marriages. I was Gung ho about marriage in my 20s. However, a horrible first marriage changed my perspective some.
@@chrzig554the way it's setup right now it is a trap for men. It's a come up for women
I’m happy that my awakening happened at 24…..And shortly after I met Kevin , Candace owens, Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate all those changed my perspective on life etc I’m dating with intention and I can’t wait to finally settle down
Yeah they mind finally catches up to the reality of their purpose DONT be loose focus on being a wife get a husband and be covered cause being the single girl aka the harlot is played out but like you said it’s kinda too late you spend your twenties getting stretched out racking up bodies an you expect a man that’s stable looking for a decent woman to save you 😂 pls note to you woman focus on being a wife when your young DONT waist your youth who3 ing around it won’t profit you when you really need a sincere companion to build a real life with unless you plan on spending your later years with the cat an dog the bird an the Iizard🤣🤣🤣🤣
Chisha Zed made a point in one of his recent videos which I think is prudent to raise here, too. Self love and being comfortable in your own skin doesn't compensate for being single. It's *natural* to want companionship. The women pushing this as an alternative to meaningful relationships are selling a pipe dream.
I watched that too and agree.
Plus single women don’t do too well exhibiting self-love when they don’t have a man directing nor guiding. They end up self-destructing instead
You have to be comfortable and happy in your own skin to be in a healthy, functional relationship. Miserable and dysfunctional people make miserable and dysfunctional spouses
@@DarthFurieYes of course. But after doing all the internal work, after some time you would still want to have a good relationship. It's natural
it amazes me how yall use one person to tell you who a whole group of women feel about something yet when someone does the same thing when it comes to men magically yall have the common sense to know that doesn't apply to the whole group smh
She was genuine authentic and vulnerable.
She can marry the guys she friend zoned. But she wants a 6'4 man that makes 500k per year.
Too late I can't imagine how many good guys she played with, now she is hurting, I'm not sympathetic.
@@worldtraveler3560yall follow her?
@@MrNanah38 Awww let me guess your a "good man"
"hOoD aNd pAiD" - basically some Tyrone that sells little baggies out of his crusty pants because we all know there are no real hood CEOS 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thats not paid lol and that tyron not making no money from them lil baggies. But they sleep with them because they curse, stank, walk around like monsters 😢
@@jdagreat4595 Of course not, they are not paid, but they get what they get
@@joelsantiago9148 they dont make ish bro trust me. You gotta be the supplier to make real money, those dime
Bag hustle’s dont get no money
Yes there are. It's called a pimp. Best investors I've ever seen in my life
There’s definitely hood “CEO’s” they just end up in jail lol
Winter Has Arrived
🤨In reference to that last clip about them not caring about marriage, yeah that's evident. The way they pop out children with zero commitment, told us that. They do that to only turn around and play victim years later. I caught on to that voluntary victimhood card YEARS ago.
Lots of women love to avoid responsibility by only telling half truths and living in the grey area so as to absolve themselves of all responsibility. Plausible denibality is their get out of jail free card, at least before they start name calling or redirecting.
@@user-wj2sl1nd9w All facts! A trauma bond community they’ve built with the government and their sisterhood of unhealed single mothers.
Big bro at the end was preaching. “Hood and paid” is crazy the generational curses are strong with her.
This is why I will continue to love and carter and obey my husband I will continue to be submissive to my husband I will continue to allow him to lead the family because I’m happy as hell being married I’m happy exactly right where I’m at I’m 7 months pregnant right now and my husband been super super helpful I’m happy I have no time to think my husband is a big supporter I won’t trade my marriage to be no damn strong independent don’t need a man crew hell nah
I wish y’all a happy marriage, hopefully when I’m older I’m happy with a wife. Keeping God and having a relationship is key also and praying is important.
Amen
Stay blessed 🙏
Now that’s wassup!!
why so your not alone lol
So everybody that says...."Im done!" are lying. Nobody wants to be alone. They just mean that they are done for the moment. But if they are that frustrated about the dating scene; then they want a relationship eventually and they don't want to be alone regardless!
I'm a woman, going to be 63 yrs. old. Honest questions. Where did women get the delusion of getting married and living like a queen? What is a queen in their mind?
By looking at other ppl relationships comparing instead developing their own relationship.
the same place men got the delusion of getting married and living like a king. what is a king in their mind?
@@downbad2874 how is delusional ? Pay for y'all place to stay
@@mr.liggins9092Comparison is the thief of joy.
That's the power of lexicon. Stop using certain words, and they'll stop influencing certain behaviors. That's why the lgb council should've been fiercely combatted when they allied with females. Now, they in the schools perverting your children with their speech. That's the last line of defense. Y'all dudes better stand the fuck up.
SOMETIMES YOU ARE BETTER OFF JUST BEING BY YOUR SELF NO CAP
Especially if you are a man.
She’s beautiful if she’s humble as she is physically attracted she’ll find someone.
Look at everything you’ve stated , meaningless
She will attract the wrong ones, or she may like the rays-rays and the street guys.
Freedom comes at a price as well
She’s not lying at all
The wall remains undefeated .,
Fellas, we have our options too.
Get your passport 🛫
You can't have it all. Freedom and security are opposite. You have to compromise in order to get the best that you can....
She's right, she doesn't want the marriage. But she sure as hell wants an expensive wedding. 💍
Everyone wants to be with someone but not at the cost of everything, financially, emotionally, reputation, peace of mind, men young and old don’t want to give that up, why should we? We seen what our dads, uncles, neighbors, cousins, older coworkers what negative long term destruction women can do, we all want a partner right now the innocence stage about women is over
Y'all swear y'all the only ones that want peace but over half of relationships and divorces are initiated by women not men, and this is AFTER the woman has endured the relationship/marriage for years
There is no other way lol
I know so many females that will take these trips knowing the lights are gonna get turned off or they will have an eviction notice waiting for them when they get back. All to portray like they are living their best life
Factsssssss💯💯💯
Keep a long memory fellas. They’re disingenuous. They’ve shown their nature since Eve
Don't quote the Bible in your unloving nonsense comment, you don't even understand what you wrote
She’s honest and cute. That’s a good start in these times, hopefully she finds someone to try it again with !
What is meant for you will come when you are vibrationally matched. This is why you keep running into the same situations with different dressings. This is what it means to work on yourself... It means to CHANGE YOUR MINDSET on everything, yourself, others, your role, their role, what you want, what you need, everything. Resistance is why you run into issues, find balance, learn detachment (not the same as not caring), just know what you want and deserve, and ALLOW it to happen whenever and however it happens. That is the biggest thing people are missing, its always got to be the way they see it happening in their head. There are infinite ways that you could get what you want. Let the universe give you what you want by letting go of how it has to happen. Love ❤ yall!
Perfectly said
These men expecially black men think women should desperately choose any man that comes their way and will do anything to guilt trip a woman who wishes to wait
if you want to be happy in life at any age you need to set realistic standards about the man that you want to be with make the necessary sacrifices and trust me you will be happy stop day dreaming my fellow women....
If you are blessed to have a genuine god given spouse or even just a real honest relationship you should consider yourself one of the fortunate.
Lol this man said if Jesus can't save this blanks why are U trying to save these blanks and he's right.
i admire this girl right here, she just went against the grain
I like the new camera resolution and repositioning. Keep up the good work.
I’m in my late 40’s and married a long time , I just feel so sorry for this new generation it’s as if love does not exist…we are all humans which means woman and man are meant to be together let’s stop this nonsense!!
When love is not enough anymore…There’s nothing left.
Honestly as long as I’m making good money and my career is progressing and I can enjoy my hobbies I’m good. I have literally had the best years of my life once I finally got out of college and got a decent job. I’m 31 I don’t think being relationship could come close to the fun and joy I’ve experienced from ages 28 to 31 so far.
Me, currently
You're a man, most men are wired to think like this, money, career, and having sex leisurely until marriage which is very selfish by the way, but women aren't not designed to think like this
She didn’t lie but that doesn’t mean she told my truth. I love being single, and the longer I’m single the better it is. The more adapted to the lifestyle I’ve become.
Good for you I’ll stay married I love it here! ✌🏽
@@CircumstancesNeverMattersame.
Thank you, same here
@@CircumstancesNeverMatterenjoy your marriage
Its crazy how a lot of dude's can live a boring life, but woman who can't not have fun under 30 get called more mature??? Bruh I stopped really going to the club at like 23 24. Same women in the club damn near weekly until the age of 30... Pretty much black out drunk...
The life I live is not boring, it's content, Fun modest and moral. I don't party, I don't drink, I'm not in the streets, I'm not going to strip clubs or any of that and I'm happy with that, and guess what, I'm married, my wife is happy with that too. We would rather lay up all day watching movies and doing what we do than be out and about. WE have fun just chilling OR going on vacation and chilling somewhere new. All we do for fun is hang out at food spots, vacation and chill, laugh and joke. My wife don't even have fun shopping and you know women love shopping lol I like shopping more than she do but I'm a "I know what I want I buy it and I'm out" type of dude. She's more of an online shopper.
Tia the famous twins of Tia and Tamara is a classic example of someone who never grew up. Her Sister Tamara told her she don't think she can party with her because they're older and mom's now (implying she be doing too much) Tamara is still married and is more into her husband, we know Tia is divorced now and trying to run the streets a little. Tia's response is very telling of both men and women on this subject but mostly women. Tia said, "Just because I'm a mom that don't mean my life is over" Notice, she equates, clubbing, drinking, dancing etc with "Living life" as if that is the only thing people can do and that is the only way to have fun. THIS is pure foolishness and immaturity. A co-worker asked if I drink during a break, it was 4 of us at Applebees for lunch, I said nah, he responded "How do you deal with life then?" I said....I just do. It was a surprise to him.
This tells you all you need to know about some people. Their mindset is that drinking, drugs, partying blah blah IS living life, fun or to cope with life and without it, they have no direction and think life is boring which is no where close to the truth at all.
yOur Correct And if yOu have experienced That yOu Do nOt Ever Want TO Experience That Ever Again
Idk she can speak for herself! I removed social media. I focus on myself and enjoy being single. Btw I’m not against men
Same here
Men be tryna single shame women bc women are happier without their bs. 😂 It's a threat to them.
Can't take women's advice. The one's made these days don't want a family. The truth will reveal itself. A man wants to protect what he loves. I'll keep my motorcycle 🏍 and roll out in the spring and summer stay up y'all 🙏🏽
Pretty women mismanage their youth.
I’ve learned more about women in my 40s than my 20-30’s I’m good I’m a build me up before I build another woman up
I’m not particularly handsome & I swear that, women be waiting to get approached by men. Especially if you don’t be weird or ignore them. I’ll just speak to them & it’s a full conversation
Being single is fun when your young and like to party......
The crazy part is she’s pretty and if you just met her at a local grocery story pre social media era she could easily be thought of as wifey material sad world we live in lol
BW’s we’re stuck up in the 90’s.
@@Dil5150especially if you didn't rap,not in a gang/sold dope or had pro sports dreams. They had nothing for you unless you weren't in those 3 categories
@@Akronkangaroothat’s a lie ! My parents were together and had me in 99 and my dad started off working in a rehab center .
False. The further you go back the less tolerant men were of certain mindsets and behaviors. There has always been a group of men that will wife up any pretty woman for sure, but the general male population was more masculine and less tolerable as you go back each decade or generation. Some man will see her as wifey material because she's pretty and maybe she'll even have an OK personality. But many other men would only see her as pretty and that's that. Wifey material was never JUST pretty, it still isn't now, it's just that more men are much more tolerable of bad behavior and take a weak stance on gender roles and power dynamic of relationships.
My stance is, all power lies with the man and he only gives up some power and cater to a woman that has proved her worth to him and earned it. That is not the stance of modern day dating thought. If men want good women, they need to become 100% traditional and reject all modern ideals unless a situation calls for it. For example, if you have a good woman and you both need to work to build a life, cool, that's not 100% traditional but long as she's under your guidance that's not an issue. Ultimately for me, my wife is not working anymore but that don't mean she has nothing to do and can't help out.
Like we didn’t know this already 😂😂🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ We know most women 🧢’n with all that single by choice and happy bs
0:21
The way he said this made me chuckle.
In the heat of battle he don't miss!
Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” Now imagine what single women go through
Back in rotation!!!😂 bottom line, ACT RIGHT, stop being picky and looking at a dudes pockets!!!!!!😎
My brother was Preaching
The chick at the 0:40 mark, “Glitz and glame”?
Like when you get paid to fly out on yachts and eat poop? Or do you mean the drunken ratchet club scene?
FELLAS I NO HOW TO PUT A END TO THAT BS JUST GET YOUR PASSPORTS NO CAP
that single life girl is talking truth, I've been single for almost 10 years and thought I was finally gonna be in a relationship this year just to be crushed, I applaud all the women that are truly happy single and looking or not, I'm very lonely but know that I'm not gonna just date any guy, I want someone that will treat me right not get into a relationship just to say I got someone
Thank you. You can’t just get into a relationship because you don’t wanna be single
Correct, Yes
I understand black women these days…all you have to do is stay in shape and be nice and you can’t seem to do either 😂
We see the results of the men and women who have this outlook on life when they get older all around us everyday. The great thing about life is we all have free will. I’m glad I found a wife and building a great life for our family. Aye at the end of the day do what makes you happy but remember only you are responsible for the results at the end of the day. And remember we’re not always gonna be this young and able. Be financially responsible and always be planning for your retirement. Don’t wanna be one of those old ladies/men greeting people at Walmart because the welfare and child support games ran out.
Instead of asking..whst do men bring to the table..be the table that he wants to be atound...and cherish yall.
My bruha you're CORRECT, I'm 60 & BM, and All I want from a western women is CHEEKS!!!!!!
Sit your geriatric azz down somewhere. You should be telling these young men to work on bettering themselves….not for woman, but for themselves.🙄
Better to be alone and HEAL then to jump from person to person being toxic and ruining eachothers lives for the rest of your lives 😊
IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE IS TIRED OF GOING TO BED AT KNIGHT BY HER SELF NO CAP
This is on the first female. She got more than enough men. In the friend zone that she could very well be with. She is just like all the rest, she wants the bad boy to be her one and only man. Lets not kid ourselves.
Exactly 💯
Unfortunately she will
Humans are social beings. To be alone for too long you will lose it. Many in the last 15 years have traded real human interaction for social media after a while you notice that it is not as fulfilling as you thought.
It's gets frustrating and lonely sometimes oh yes... Some days are worse than others. Its dry outchea 😂🚮🚮 especially when you have all other thing figured out except the love department.
Her man most likely has come and gone many times.
Women in the U.S. better start stepping up and asking men on dates. Every single guy I know has a GF in another country. And most of the married guys I know met their wife over sea's.
Two damn hoochie mama's at the start of this video ! 🤣🤣🤣
If they wanna be at 304 let them go they belong to the streets👏👏👏
For the woman that was talking about single life was true but it would have been better if she said now she know what it feels like to be a man if she also put that in there it would have been better
She doesn’t know what it feels like to be a man. She’s still pretty and can get company any times she wants. She’s just tired of the bs. She wants something real
she has been HUMBLED
Charles the women i've known & no I didn't date all of them take trips, buy expensive shit, finance expensive cars then try to figure out how to pay for it later lmaoooo. Make it make sense
Facts, fake irresponsible ballers
You can be in a relationship and still be lonely.
That is evident
If young women appreciated the value of being loyal to one man while young, they wouldn't be at a loss for one man whose loyal to them when old.
Good for them
Relationships are like jobs not everyone is qualified to work for you and vice versa. When entering a relationship with someone, there must be a level of discipline that you must have in order to reach the levels of greatness in a relationship. You must be friends first until you can really reach any level of success. You have to be honest and intentional without having any expectations. You’re just in the interview stage in the beginning. Most relationships are destroyed within the first 90 days because of undisciplined behavior along with dishonesty. This is why you must be friends first due to low survival rates at the beginning of the relationship. You gotta be honest at all times because this will keep you vibrating on a high frequency. You receive what you put out into the universe.
A lot of these women can get on the net and front like their happy alone and being run through but we know it's cap they alone and miserable yeah the vacations, sneaky links and so called is fun until they alone at night in their bed.
This is life. No “do overs” once you’re 40 you’ll never be 20 again. Make wise choices in your youth or pay later
My man @6:57 has a Rizz level over 9000 for real! And he bagged an Emily! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes to all men focus on U and making money for U and getting the things U want. Do U and enjoy life to the fullest
I'll reserve credit to the first woman because I'll need some confirmation that what she's really tired of is paying for everything with her own money.
Nah man. I said i was done and i am done. I wanted to start with someone and make a life, not finish and let someone hop in. No thanks. This doesnt mean i want to be alone.
Peace is priceless! I'd rather be all alone with peace than with a wealthy controlling man without peace. Who'll inevitably try to ruin your entire life if you should ever try to escape...
Been 7 years since I’ve been in a relationship I’m 29 now I think my dating life is over I’m not a millionaire but I work almost 24/7 own place own car just working on myself but most likely will die alone iiwii they never think your enough anymore
LETS SEE IF SHE FEELS THIS WAY IN THE SUMMER
Relationship takes work.
People! For the love of life! Stop the bullsheet! Stop playing each other. Stop being scared to be yourself. Drop the front. Good things will happen.
Im 36 and i tried dating in my early 20s and it did not work out. Thank God.
hard being alone, looking after children, keeping up with the pressures and trying to juggle everything. been alone to long and less tolerant of b.s. dont want to be dominated by anyone. its a struggle to let anyone in now. it can get lonely but i prefer to make sure kids are good and well taken care of. hope that it works out in the future. the future is unclear
"Single Woman Reveals How Lonely Women Really FEEL But Lie!"
We already knew that and we are laughing...LOL! We don't want you.
I always find it interesting how people are cool with saying you may feel. Fun: fact on this particular day I may have pretended to care about anything..
You can't make this shut up!!! 😅
I know a lady that went to PRISON for a dude. Shid 🤣🤣🤣🤣
These modern women are entitled but take time to self improve !!! TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY life would be better!!!
Modern men want traditional women but aren't traditional themselves.
They don't provide, they sleep around and they're feminine and bitchy
So sad just feeling nothing much never talk about their character, behavior that extracts a structured man
Any body say they wanna be single is cappin. No one wants to really be alone by choice. The fact you can't find some one for you and think everyone is the same after you get hurt is a problem for people who dont want to change.
Only a person who is comfortable in their aloneness man or woman can be present in any relationship. You have to love your solitude so that you can love being connected. Only the person who is still is connected, man or woman. As I grow I realize that I am fine enjoying my own company and of course the company of others when I want, it's really too simple. If you are alone it's because you want to be. You can be single with healthy relationships, we are all single and united. These concepts are simple.
Very simple
Preach it baby!!! ❤❤❤❤ Big Facts!
That's the reality of today's times
Being single was a blast!! But I'm glad it ended in my late 30s. It is so much better being married. Rich or not it's better being married.
Hope you got tested
Okay simp
@@AAJ23801you out here playing with the homies 🥒 while you calling him a simp😂😂 that's rich😂😂
I just found you channel and I love it!
The only lie shes telling is that its only a small part of her that feels lonely at times when it actually is worse than whats she's making it seem.....
😂who was that brother preaching with the elephant noise in the back round.
I think this young lady was being real. But what she didn't say is there are probably several guys in or around her universe who would love to take her out or get to know her but would never get the chance. If any one of us kats watching this content tried to holla, she woukd first pull out her "99 point checklist" and then turn her nose up at us because no one would be good enough. They are always looking for the next best thing. They throw away the checklist when their looks change as they finally begin to look for love as opposed to looking for a lifestyle. Unfortunately by that time, it's bjust too dam late then they play victim and it's all our (men) fault.
Maybe because you don’t meet her standards. She doesn’t want to settle, and there is nothing wrong with that. She doesn’t want to lower her standards for anyone.
We know. Do they really think we fall for the bluff lol
That ship is about to sail shawty.