my advice to other fellow venus in scorpios is to be absolutely sure your love is reciprocated. if you fall for someone and they show signs they are not devoted. pull out . your gonna pay the price emotionally,not them. give your energy to someone who has proven to be a good friend and wont fk with your emotions ( you kno how we obsess).
It is really easy to make that assumption, but there are actually a few exceptions. They would definitely not like being lied to, but when it is what both parties want, they CAN find it fulfilling. I suppose they do prefer formal partnerships though... like poly relationships rather than just fooling around.
when we fall in love we are fkd basically. we lose our power. if that relationship fails it feels like a death. it takes years to get over. we crave and get off on intimacy. we generally dont like or care for a one night stand. its like brushing our teeth. we love and fight hard.
+Curious George yes when you come out of the pain and move on(away from psycho analyzing,obsessing,dreaming) thats when you are reborn. our emotions take a real hit if we fall hard. some signs can move on after awhile but we take longer to get over a heartbreak.
@@WeGetRealHere If you have enough aspects both in natal and synastry to enjoy, tolerate and be content with this kind of thing. Example: 2 Scorpios, both have Taurus cusping 4th house, one is completely goo-goo, ga-ga over everything they do and are, the other bored to tears, but soldiers on, but both could live and be quite comfortable around them and their interests.
That part about having an open relationship or accepting my partner having sex with someone elde didn't ring true at all. I can't have sex without deep emotional connection and wouldn't take that lightly if my partner did that. And I don't even have Venus in aspect to Pluto in my chart. If something like that happens, the damage is deep and permanent and I definitely can't think of anything else but revenge.
As a Venus in Scorpio, I would strongly recommend against using any form of sexual or emotional betrayal as a way to get a reaction out of a Venus in Scorpio. The first reaction might be competitive, to secure their position..... It will NOT ultimately help the longevity of the relationship and you are inviting disaster upon yourself. Don't do it.
What i do is I ignore a venus in scorpio when I feel offended and they seem to respond. Ok they are intense, attractive and everything but sometimes have daredevil behaviors taking you to the limit.
Andy LJ just be careful to eventually communicate with them. My ex would do the whole ignoring me thing and it was the reason I ended it. I'm all for not giving people undeserved attention especially if they are throwing a tantrum however just ignoring me when you feel offended is a big red flag reading passive aggressive tendencies.
@Nick Thank-you for speaking out and against using forms of sexual or emotional betrayal as a way to get someone's attention or reaction. I agree with you 100%.... It won't end well for them.
u did really good on explaining Venus in Scorpio. I actually thought u were Venus in Scorpio because everything u said was so accurate. Especially the intensity. I usually can't show how much I love someone because I'm afraid I'd scare them shitless. Also, so accurate with jealousy, obsession, and possession 😩
You should mention that a Venus in Scorpio has to go through the same burn down and transformation as any Scorpio sun sign. It is just in the realm of relationships. And This Venus transforms through pain and sometimes loss So there are young immature Venus in Scorpios and more evolved Venus in Scorpios. . I think that brings a more well rounded perspective about this sign.
coz i have my sun in sagittarius thats why its hard for me to have longer relationships but having venus in scorpio i can stay longer if i love the person more than she love me..
As a Venus in Scorpio, I think this video was a great education on what Venus and Scorpio's behaviors appear to be to an earth sign. It doesn't demonstrate understanding of the motives or perspectives or truth of the Scorpio, but it's really good for them to know how they come across. All that said, you factually nailed it. Terrible placement.
I highly enjoyed this! I really like all of your real-life examples and situations in this video. WE are intense, emotional, and deep magnetism in many ways. I love this
You forgot with all fixed signs its about Power. They are Possessive but not controlling. Cardinal Signs are Controlling. Mutable signs are low key and try to show they care by being helpful.
This was very accurate! I have Venus in Scorpio and I understood so much of this. Explains why I have had trouble in relationships. I just need to find a guy that can appreciate my intensity. ha ha Thank you!
as a venus in scorpio- I've been in open relationships, but it's been w people that I don't love love- more like someone that I get along w and maybe like.
Thank you for sharing! That is good to know. I knew a man with Venus in Scorpio who was doing that type of thing, but he didn't seem happy about it. His Venus in Gemini girlfriend seemed to be yanking him around. I think he thought he would feel bettee if they were both seeing multiple people. He was mesmerized by her though.
This is so accurate, holy shit. You're so intuitive. The only part that I did not agree with was in regards to the physicality of something. I mostly am afraid of emotional betrayal, so if someone said, "it was just physicality, not even attracted to them" that wouldn't make me feel bad. I get wrapped up in love, don't think its lust. It's on or off, and I'm not attracted to a lot of people
Holy. Shit. I have never heard something more accurate. Capricorn Sun, Capricorn rising, Aries Moon and Venus in Scorpio. This was so so so spot on, all of it.
As a Venus in Scorpio I have some tips and potential insights for you.....keep in mind that I am Sag, Leo Moon, Mars in Capricorn, Virgo Rising, Venus in Scorpio. 1. I am not even slightly afraid of love. At all. Maybe that is my Sagittarian brashness coming out, or the Capricorn determination in Mars, but there is no fear of love here. We are not timid. .....What you will find though is that we wait for the right timing and we probably won't admit deep feelings until we are sure you like us back. Being hesitant to share our deepest feelings, which may even be difficult to express, is not the same thing as a fear of the experience of love. 2. The idea that we like a challenge..... Stop it. You are challenging enough when you try not to be. You may be confusing a dislike for shallow and superficial connections with a desire for increased difficulty. Nope! We would love it if somebody we liked confessed to have had a crush on us for years and for them to throw themselves at us instantly with great passion and feeling as if they had been waiting for this moment all along. We don't like the lite shallow and flirty approach, like an airhead to takes it casually. It is not the difficulty that we want. I repeat, to Venus in Virgo, it is not the difficulty that we want. It is the intensity of feeling. Adding challenges and head games is NOT a replacement for depth of feeling. One more time for the people in the back, adding challenges and head games is not a replacement for depth of feeling. We may take our time, like a cat hunting prey.....but we can fall in love overnight IF* the intensity of feeling is there. We do not like being strung along. 3. I am not sure that desire for people who get lots of attention is a Venus in Scorpio thing. Are you sure that wasn't other influences in the chart? Even if that is the case, which has been for me less than half the time.....I am attracted to beautiful introverts sometimes who shun the attention.....We do not like it when you flirt. We do not respond to it like a Taurus who will fight harder. They are not the guilty ones, YOU are. Betrayal is not something to take lightly when there is any Scorpio influence. It's a big deal. Tread carefully with betrayal if you want a future with Venus in Scorpio. It's not a game and they will remember it for decades. Don't do it. And if you do, you might as well forget about the future. It might seem cool at first, but it will come up again.
pffff fuck relationships with people, I rather be in a relationship with food and traveling 😂. Venus in Libra, Mars Capricorn, Moon Taurus, Sun Virgo-Leo cusp, Rising Libra or Scorpio 😎👏✨👽🌈 I usually end up attracting Scorpio Venus or Mars folks and Gemini Venus folks as well as Aquarius risings (Platonic friends) .... it never ends well, too much bad friction. My moon in Taurus gets on well with moon in Aqua folks
Thanks for this insight! Very explaining. Virgo in Venus here dating a Sag sun, Scorpio Venus and Cap mars. I wondered if him moving soooo carefully if not slowly and unobtrusive (but didn't abandon me yet) meant he doesn't like me enough or he's just making sure he has trust and this thing under control. Do you guys like/wait for a girl to make first moves or you'd run for the hills? I don't know if I shall step in and open up first.. afraid of get hurt equally badly. I'm Leo sun.
***** how long have you two been dating? Capricorns do move slow they are cautious lovers. I'm usually hot and cold if I'm into someone - my Venus in Libra and Mars in Capricorn - so I'll be modest, random, confident, stalkerish, but pull a complete 360 become painfully shy, timid, avoident, cold, emotionless, lack of expression all out of nowhere even if the person is in my mind all the time! I suppose I act that way as a way to pull back, cover the fact I fancy the person because if he finds out I like him i will soon do everything I can to reverse my feelings for him so I won't have to deal with the embarrassment of him realizing I've a thing for him. All this translates to control. I have a need to take back control over a situation that was once a secret up till the guy picks up on my indirect clues of a crush. He'll start trying to be around me and that's when I can't deal with any of it. These scenarios mainly happen in work situations - I'm against dating in the work place so I have to play it cold and determined to reverse the attraction to avoid problems and keep it professional! But since you two are an item, its normal for Capricorns taking romance slowly - they out weight EVERYTHING because they are serious, planners, analyzers, and have a business mind so they may take relationships in formal manners as if it were a business.
I couldn't stop pinching myself. The way you go about your reacting translates to mine 100% Very useful to get to see myself from outside! I wasn't quite aware until your input. I myself a Cap Rising and act EXACTLY same way. Lastly tday I was called a cold unreadable emotionless poker-face when I felt I was approached by someone tooo friendly and was trying to fend him off :) .... We met only 4 times yet over the course of 1,5 m so you see.. he has no rush (well he's been away 2 times for a week each) And just like you, I too, would reverse my warm seducing demeanour into the detached and indifferent as soon as I feel myself revealed without certainty about the other's feelings. This seems is gonna be a challenge for us (me and him) to overcome. None wishes to pull down the guard 1st and so is dancing around hot and cold.. I also pull this trick whenever his actions suggest (probably imaginary) void of enough attention towards me and I would withdraw my emotions or literally any expression of them.. it 'hurts' so I act 'distant' back to pretend I don't care. BAD. Thank you for giving your perspective and experience, the knowledge is priceless bc then one can do something about it once it's processed. I think I'll be giving him time he needs and maybe have to open up myself 1st, and stop pulling a deadpan...yuck :D 2 scared goats on one meadow will only get to a dead end. One must be more flexible. At least I see how it might look from his POV now - no harm meant apart from just being slow and calculating our dating.
lol my husband is Venus in Scorpio and I'm Venus in Virgo, and what you stated is so true.. we've had many disagreements about "just stop cleaning and let's have sex" lol overall it works though because we balance each other.. going on 19,years together.. so also what you stated about Venus in Scorpio not really having casual sex is true too.. he locked sights on me at age 17 and he never let go.. you're very accurate!
This is very accurate! I'm a Scorpio Sun, Venus in Scorpio. I love hard. I'm in love with a Taurus man, Venus in Aries.....I feel like he isn't as in love with me and it kills me. We've been back and forth for almost 10 years! I think I need a personal love reading.
I resonate with this as a Scorpio moon. I used to hide and deny that I liked the person I crushed on while low key obsessing and romanticizing them. Just waiting for them to make a move on me, but even if they did I would die of embarrassment cos I hyped it too much up in my mind and kept it like a secret love (lmao granted this was me as an adolescent, and also I have descendant in pisces + Leo venus)
Sounds like a lot of mind games. Can't say at 61, I have that kind of mindset for anyone, never mind someone I love or have loved. You are describing a lot of very immature behaviors. Just my take on this information.
I’m a Venus in Scorpio and i honestly get offended at all the negative things said about us... we get jealous very easily and as a Venus in Scorpio with a friend who has the same placement I do know we like to compete in love (and we might not even know it) and only show interest when everyone else says it but we are not manipulative about it and don’t put down the others competing. We don’t treat the person we desire as a prey at all??? but we don’t make a move if we believe they will reject us.
Hey everyone! Unfortunately, I have been flagged by UA-cam for posting sexual content. I may have to remove these videos from UA-cam. I will try to make them available elsewhere, but if you are interested in this please make sure that you keep tabs on me through other social media. Edit: It took more than 2 years, but it seems like my channel is doing ok again. Thanks guys.
Yes, because I mentioned sex in the video and I put it in the tags. I don't want to remove the tags because they are an honest representation of what the video is about, but UA-cam has sort of shadow banned this content.
There needs to be giant warning ⚠️ pamphlet we could give others dating us. Warning 1: Trying to make me jealous is the biggest way for me to hate you not want you. ⚠️
Um, I actually wrote pamphlets! I swear I didn't post anything about it yet... weird that you suggested it! I first wrote down the material almost a year ago, and have been trying to figure out how to market them.
Whackowitch Astrology that is hilarious!! 😂 this was my first video of yours so I haven't seen mention of pamphlets. So brilliant I hope you come out with them soon!
We don’t lust. Once you’re accepted it’s on. Now we want the same level of depth of the love we are giving. Even if not, we want to make sure the person we get into is loyal.
I think for me, all of this is compounded by the fact that I feel like my emotional side is always at war with my rational side. I feel like sometimes in life you're supposed to listen to your heart, and sometimes you're supposed to do what makes more sense because you know that your emotions have led you stray before. How am I to know? I try to avoid being heartbroken as much as possible because it just breaks my soul down too much and it's a long road to get back to yourself. Scorpio sun/ aqua rising/ aqua moon/ venus in scorpio
This is tricky because listening to our heart and following our emotions is not the same thing. The heart is wise (intuition). Emotions are the result of usually unconscious beliefs. Emotions can tell us about the beliefs we have about ourselves or a situation that causes the feelings in the first place. They don't necessarily require us to follow them. The heart know the highest path to take - only after filtering through emotions to find the truth of what is happening within us. A closed heart is a heart that is broken. An open heart is working well, opens wider and wider with time and experience, and can bear anything. It feels like it's breaking but it's healing. Wholing. Thawing. Softening. And in this, sees clearer and clearer it's path and it's wholeness. XO
Most Venus in Scorpio men I know really never show their emotions, or act as if you love them more, and consciously don't give much effort. Are they secretly just extremely obsessive, and they'll never let you know how intensely their love burns?
@@Dzkhadouj While I made this comment many years ago, I've learned since that if a man doesn't make you feel loved, it doesn't matter what his venus sign is. He isn't worth it if he leaves you wondering where you stand with him.
Absolutely! Most people with grudges against Venuses in Scorpios have only encountered the snake side. But it's not good that the person making this video has generalized. One thing that is standard for all Venus in Scorpios though: they aren't looking for people with a loose attitude towards life and their partners. They are serious partners, and aren't into playing games. They are upfront and honest, and will do anything to make the relationship work.
sbh02 True!! Her interpretation is immature. Listen to Magic Mike by astrolada about astrology. He goes super deep and takes it to a shoe new level . Not all wines are aged the same 😉.
No psychological manipulation, passive aggressive mind games here. just be real.) as you can see I can't, nor will I ever tolerate the bs! I agree with everything, but I just cannot tolerate cheating, cheating revenge or open relationships of any kind! it's heartbreaking it's fucked up and its downright disrespectful! it's always, ALWAYS a 100% NO! of the highest order, no compromises whatsoever. I would never ever do any of those things to my partner and he can't and will not do them either! (I'm not trying to sound like my authoritarian, cold demanding Capricorn sun) but I can't have the cheating, playing mind games manipulation, seeing other people or even YES EVEN wanting a break! there are no BREAKS. either you are 100% in all the way or your out! there are no breaks and no compromises on that and no compromises for seeing other people, no open relationships ever! ((wanting a break and then thinking you'll actually come back to me after that since your bored, nope!)) if they ever want a break fine they'll get a break up! because wanting a break sound like a passive aggressive softer way of actually wanting to say that you want to see other people and since that's most likely the case, hell no! it's like don't ever expect to crawl your way back to me it's OVER! if they ever want a break, they'll only get a BREAK UP at best nothing more nothing less! that's it!
Moon/Venus/Mars/Jupiter in Scorpio, Capricorn sun, Pisces rising...Thank you so much, 100% spot on..hate myself for being that faithful to a cheater for 25yrs... I'm 45 now ...felt my life is so screwed up ...At times, I really hate myself...for not fucking around even I'm really want it...but simply can't bring myself to do it...why others can just simply fuck around feeling nothing....?
Well i have mostly fire and earth in the chart but also a scorpio rising and i am a mercurian, venusian and plutonian. If i love, i never cheat, not even in the mind. And i have a venus in gemini...just to say, i have known some venus in taurus who were cheating without major conscience problem.
u r funny! this is so good! libra sun venus scorpio moon aries rising sag! yes! water venus a must. your words are so clear. I love it. Virgo mercury :) thanks
They sound like someone who is trying to always have there way. By any means necessary. I feel sorry for someone who has to lie and deceive someone to get there way. just my thoughts
it's fear of death. But, it's death you must go through. A metaphorical one. Ego death. to the egomind, which most people believe is who they are (it isn't), letting go over control and letting the Soul lead feels like death. It's this death that scorpio placements do battle with.
Chanel Dencker Hmm... I don't think they deliberately try to get someone's attention most of the time. They are more subtle in checking to see if they already HAVE your attention. It'll be eye contact with you and sometimes talking with other people about you.
My bf is a libra w/his Venus in Scorpio. I’m a Cancer w/Venus in Taurus. He definitely wasn’t as good as a lover as me in the beginning. The good thing is he’s competitive like you mentioned and sex is much better. Oh and he was terrified of showing physical affection. Wonderful video. I’m glad I came across your channel. Wishing you the best. 💜😘
In the last 3 years I was so frustrated with the question why can't I get over a venus in Aquarius...I just can't explain it but he's the only one I can love...fuck my life
I’m a Sagittarius sun Leo moon Venus in Scorpio was dealing with a Sagittarius sun Capricorn moon Venus in Sagittarius. She was a player . She was so used to people chasing after her despite her doing them very dirty ,they would still try to be with her , maybe because they were all toxic and played games as well so that’s the energy she automatically attracts . Unstable relationships . She has Venus conjunction Pluto in Sagittarius so she was really magnetic and very attractive BUT I was her tower moment . I saw right through all that bullshit , her insecurities,everything ! When she cheated and played mind games I would physical fight her, we’ve gotten physical atleast over 10 times 🤷🏿♀️I never felt bad because she thought she could come into my life and do the same shit she did with others . My Leo moon was not having that shit . Me having libra Mars ,when I feel an injustice I snap . I like peace . She brung nothing but chaos and manipulation. Now that I’m moving on from her slowly but surely . I’m talking to a Leo sun moon in Aquarius Venus in cancer . Feels much better , and he didn’t rush like love bombing Venus in Sagittarius. She told me she isn’t dating anymore after me and I’m like 😈yeah cause you know you will never find someone else like me and I feel like I came into her life to give her a wake up call and slow down . To realize how unstable she was in her own life . I learnes some lessons aswell . Never hold on to someone who is obviously showing you that they don’t deserve you . Stop giving people the benefit of the doubt . Cause when they’re done using you they can easily leave and you would be left broken and having to pick up all the pieces .
I'm venus in scorpio, I like the video! involving money.. We just want to know that you don't have sticky fingers and are willing to sacrifice superficial nonsense such as wealth for something bigger.
My Venus was in retrograde at 27 degrees Scorpio. Have Neptune and Sun in Scorpio. I’m ruled by Mars as an Aries ascendant, but Venus is my soul planet. It trines mars, Saturn and sextiles moon so it is well aspected.
Thank you! love your videos because you add new informaion between the lines. I wanted to ask- what if Venus is in the 8th house in Taurus? How does it change the Taurus energy? I you find it intresting can you pleas do a video about this placement?
Hmm, okay - but how exactly would that work then, if you would kindly give an example? (paraphrasing here) Like when you say V in S is 'possessive' in an emotional way - would that mean that, neither people in the relationship are possessive of each other, but rather, the relationship is possessive of itself? How would you spin it?
Compatability Venus in Scorpio and Venus in:
15:15 Aries
16:16 Taurus
17:57 Gemini
19:07 Cancer
20:09 Leo
21:24 Virgo
22:13 Libra
23:18 Scorpio
24:06 Saggitarius
24:30 Capricorn
25:12 Aquarius
25:50 Pisces
I appreciate you
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my advice to other fellow venus in scorpios is to be absolutely sure your love is reciprocated. if you fall for someone and they show signs they are not devoted. pull out . your gonna pay the price emotionally,not them. give your energy to someone who has proven to be a good friend and wont fk with your emotions ( you kno how we obsess).
girllll I wish I read this a long time ago!! it would have saved me the pain I'm going through now
too true.
Thank you for helping people with your same placement! That is some excellent advice.
Well said.
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Venus in Scorpio and open relationships. NO WAY.
no fucking way lol
Agree . No FUCKING way ..
NO FUCKING WAY 😂😂
It is really easy to make that assumption, but there are actually a few exceptions.
They would definitely not like being lied to, but when it is what both parties want, they CAN find it fulfilling.
I suppose they do prefer formal partnerships though... like poly relationships rather than just fooling around.
Fucking way keep a good lover in bed on the side!
when we fall in love we are fkd basically. we lose our power. if that relationship fails it feels like a death. it takes years to get over. we crave and get off on intimacy. we generally dont like or care for a one night stand. its like brushing our teeth. we love and fight hard.
omg yes! everything yes. lol
Scorpio is a sign of death and life the pain is your death and after u get over the pain you become reborn I thought...
+Curious George yes when you come out of the pain and move on(away from psycho analyzing,obsessing,dreaming) thats when you are reborn. our emotions take a real hit if we fall hard. some signs can move on after awhile but we take longer to get over a heartbreak.
+skorpia g I know I have a Scorpio ascendant.
So damn true
what i got from this: i am not compatible with anyone
makes sense
the potato goddess I would go with Venus in Pisces or Cancer long term. :P Taurus only if you're daring.
Whackowitch Astrology okay.
thank you
Whackowitch Astrology what do you mean Taurus Venus if daring?
lmfaoooooo
@@WeGetRealHere If you have enough aspects both in natal and synastry to enjoy, tolerate and be content with this kind of thing. Example: 2 Scorpios, both have Taurus cusping 4th house, one is completely goo-goo, ga-ga over everything they do and are, the other bored to tears, but soldiers on, but both could live and be quite comfortable around them and their interests.
That part about having an open relationship or accepting my partner having sex with someone elde didn't ring true at all. I can't have sex without deep emotional connection and wouldn't take that lightly if my partner did that. And I don't even have Venus in aspect to Pluto in my chart. If something like that happens, the damage is deep and permanent and I definitely can't think of anything else but revenge.
That is also true for me.
As a Venus in Scorpio, I would strongly recommend against using any form of sexual or emotional betrayal as a way to get a reaction out of a Venus in Scorpio.
The first reaction might be competitive, to secure their position..... It will NOT ultimately help the longevity of the relationship and you are inviting disaster upon yourself.
Don't do it.
What i do is I ignore a venus in scorpio when I feel offended and they seem to respond. Ok they are intense, attractive and everything but sometimes have daredevil behaviors taking you to the limit.
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Andy LJ just be careful to eventually communicate with them. My ex would do the whole ignoring me thing and it was the reason I ended it. I'm all for not giving people undeserved attention especially if they are throwing a tantrum however just ignoring me when you feel offended is a big red flag reading passive aggressive tendencies.
@Nick Thank-you for speaking out and against using forms of sexual or emotional betrayal as a way to get someone's attention or reaction. I agree with you 100%.... It won't end well for them.
I just laughed at myself through this whole thing because of how true it is.
Well hopefully laughing with yourself. 😅 Self love is important.
u did really good on explaining Venus in Scorpio. I actually thought u were Venus in Scorpio because everything u said was so accurate. Especially the intensity. I usually can't show how much I love someone because I'm afraid I'd scare them shitless. Also, so accurate with jealousy, obsession, and possession 😩
You should mention that a Venus in Scorpio has to go through the same burn down and transformation as any Scorpio sun sign. It is just in the realm of relationships. And This Venus transforms through pain and sometimes loss
So there are young immature Venus in Scorpios and more evolved Venus in Scorpios.
. I think that brings a more well rounded perspective about this sign.
this is so true oh my gosh! like an ego death but for the venus for me in sign scorpio. (which is the realm of relationships just like u said!).
coz i have my sun in sagittarius thats why its hard for me to have longer relationships but having venus in scorpio i can stay longer if i love the person more than she love me..
Virgo sun, Pisces moon, Pisces rising, Venus in Scorpio here. AKA a motherfucking mess. My chart is almost 50 percent water. Hah.
+BrightestStarOfAll Water with a pinch of mud. :)
Hey, come join our pisces group on facebook called "pisces and 12th house culture"-btw i have pisces moon too 😀😀😀
Sun, venus, mercury, north node, jupiter and pluto in scorpio (first 4 are in 8th house) aquarius rising AKA a motherfucking mess aswell
Libra sun, Pisces moon, Pisces rising, Scorpio venus here! Also a damn well lol
christ, bless your heart
As a Venus in Scorpio, I think this video was a great education on what Venus and Scorpio's behaviors appear to be to an earth sign. It doesn't demonstrate understanding of the motives or perspectives or truth of the Scorpio, but it's really good for them to know how they come across. All that said, you factually nailed it. Terrible placement.
I highly enjoyed this! I really like all of your real-life examples and situations in this video. WE are intense, emotional, and deep magnetism in many ways. I love this
You forgot with all fixed signs its about Power. They are Possessive but not controlling. Cardinal Signs are Controlling. Mutable signs are low key and try to show they care by being helpful.
Free Reign Network fixed signs (especially Scorpio) are definitely controlling
This was very accurate! I have Venus in Scorpio and I understood so much of this. Explains why I have had trouble in relationships. I just need to find a guy that can appreciate my intensity. ha ha Thank you!
as a venus in scorpio- I've been in open relationships, but it's been w people that I don't love love- more like someone that I get along w and maybe like.
Thank you for sharing! That is good to know.
I knew a man with Venus in Scorpio who was doing that type of thing, but he didn't seem happy about it. His Venus in Gemini girlfriend seemed to be yanking him around. I think he thought he would feel bettee if they were both seeing multiple people. He was mesmerized by her though.
This is so accurate, holy shit. You're so intuitive. The only part that I did not agree with was in regards to the physicality of something. I mostly am afraid of emotional betrayal, so if someone said, "it was just physicality, not even attracted to them" that wouldn't make me feel bad.
I get wrapped up in love, don't think its lust. It's on or off, and I'm not attracted to a lot of people
Holy. Shit. I have never heard something more accurate. Capricorn Sun, Capricorn rising, Aries Moon and Venus in Scorpio. This was so so so spot on, all of it.
Thanks for commenting! I'm glad that you liked it.
As a Venus in Scorpio I have some tips and potential insights for you.....keep in mind that I am Sag, Leo Moon, Mars in Capricorn, Virgo Rising, Venus in Scorpio.
1. I am not even slightly afraid of love. At all. Maybe that is my Sagittarian brashness coming out, or the Capricorn determination in Mars, but there is no fear of love here. We are not timid. .....What you will find though is that we wait for the right timing and we probably won't admit deep feelings until we are sure you like us back. Being hesitant to share our deepest feelings, which may even be difficult to express, is not the same thing as a fear of the experience of love.
2. The idea that we like a challenge..... Stop it. You are challenging enough when you try not to be. You may be confusing a dislike for shallow and superficial connections with a desire for increased difficulty. Nope! We would love it if somebody we liked confessed to have had a crush on us for years and for them to throw themselves at us instantly with great passion and feeling as if they had been waiting for this moment all along. We don't like the lite shallow and flirty approach, like an airhead to takes it casually. It is not the difficulty that we want. I repeat, to Venus in Virgo, it is not the difficulty that we want. It is the intensity of feeling. Adding challenges and head games is NOT a replacement for depth of feeling. One more time for the people in the back, adding challenges and head games is not a replacement for depth of feeling. We may take our time, like a cat hunting prey.....but we can fall in love overnight IF* the intensity of feeling is there. We do not like being strung along.
3. I am not sure that desire for people who get lots of attention is a Venus in Scorpio thing. Are you sure that wasn't other influences in the chart? Even if that is the case, which has been for me less than half the time.....I am attracted to beautiful introverts sometimes who shun the attention.....We do not like it when you flirt. We do not respond to it like a Taurus who will fight harder. They are not the guilty ones, YOU are. Betrayal is not something to take lightly when there is any Scorpio influence. It's a big deal. Tread carefully with betrayal if you want a future with Venus in Scorpio. It's not a game and they will remember it for decades.
Don't do it.
And if you do, you might as well forget about the future. It might seem cool at first, but it will come up again.
pffff fuck relationships with people, I rather be in a relationship with food and traveling 😂. Venus in Libra, Mars Capricorn, Moon Taurus, Sun Virgo-Leo cusp, Rising Libra or Scorpio 😎👏✨👽🌈 I usually end up attracting Scorpio Venus or Mars folks and Gemini Venus folks as well as Aquarius risings (Platonic friends) .... it never ends well, too much bad friction. My moon in Taurus gets on well with moon in Aqua folks
Thanks for this insight! Very explaining. Virgo in Venus here dating a Sag sun, Scorpio Venus and Cap mars. I wondered if him moving soooo carefully if not slowly and unobtrusive (but didn't abandon me yet) meant he doesn't like me enough or he's just making sure he has trust and this thing under control. Do you guys like/wait for a girl to make first moves or you'd run for the hills? I don't know if I shall step in and open up first.. afraid of get hurt equally badly. I'm Leo sun.
***** how long have you two been dating? Capricorns do move slow they are cautious lovers. I'm usually hot and cold if I'm into someone - my Venus in Libra and Mars in Capricorn - so I'll be modest, random, confident, stalkerish, but pull a complete 360 become painfully shy, timid, avoident, cold, emotionless, lack of expression all out of nowhere even if the person is in my mind all the time! I suppose I act that way as a way to pull back, cover the fact I fancy the person because if he finds out I like him i will soon do everything I can to reverse my feelings for him so I won't have to deal with the embarrassment of him realizing I've a thing for him. All this translates to control. I have a need to take back control over a situation that was once a secret up till the guy picks up on my indirect clues of a crush. He'll start trying to be around me and that's when I can't deal with any of it. These scenarios mainly happen in work situations - I'm against dating in the work place so I have to play it cold and determined to reverse the attraction to avoid problems and keep it professional! But since you two are an item, its normal for Capricorns taking romance slowly - they out weight EVERYTHING because they are serious, planners, analyzers, and have a business mind so they may take relationships in formal manners as if it were a business.
I couldn't stop pinching myself. The way you go about your reacting translates to mine 100% Very useful to get to see myself from outside! I wasn't quite aware until your input. I myself a Cap Rising and act EXACTLY same way. Lastly tday I was called a cold unreadable emotionless poker-face when I felt I was approached by someone tooo friendly and was trying to fend him off :)
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We met only 4 times yet over the course of 1,5 m so you see.. he has no rush (well he's been away 2 times for a week each) And just like you, I too, would reverse my warm seducing demeanour into the detached and indifferent as soon as I feel myself revealed without certainty about the other's feelings. This seems is gonna be a challenge for us (me and him) to overcome. None wishes to pull down the guard 1st and so is dancing around hot and cold.. I also pull this trick whenever his actions suggest (probably imaginary) void of enough attention towards me and I would withdraw my emotions or literally any expression of them.. it 'hurts' so I act 'distant' back to pretend I don't care. BAD.
Thank you for giving your perspective and experience, the knowledge is priceless bc then one can do something about it once it's processed.
I think I'll be giving him time he needs and maybe have to open up myself 1st, and stop pulling a deadpan...yuck :D 2 scared goats on one meadow will only get to a dead end. One must be more flexible. At least I see how it might look from his POV now - no harm meant apart from just being slow and calculating our dating.
lol Hax .. can't tell you're a Virgo rising at all ;)
You described the complexity of Venus in Scorpio very well.
Best venus in scorpio video!
lol my husband is Venus in Scorpio and I'm Venus in Virgo, and what you stated is so true.. we've had many disagreements about "just stop cleaning and let's have sex" lol overall it works though because we balance each other.. going on 19,years together.. so also what you stated about Venus in Scorpio not really having casual sex is true too.. he locked sights on me at age 17 and he never let go.. you're very accurate!
I always have this attraction towards Venus scorpio women. They ooze sensuality it's cray
OH MY GOSH. YOU DESCRIBED ME SO WELL.
This is very accurate! I'm a Scorpio Sun, Venus in Scorpio. I love hard. I'm in love with a Taurus man, Venus in Aries.....I feel like he isn't as in love with me and it kills me. We've been back and forth for almost 10 years! I think I need a personal love reading.
Literally went off into the night the other day with my Venus in Pisces person.
I resonate with this as a Scorpio moon. I used to hide and deny that I liked the person I crushed on while low key obsessing and romanticizing them. Just waiting for them to make a move on me, but even if they did I would die of embarrassment cos I hyped it too much up in my mind and kept it like a secret love (lmao granted this was me as an adolescent, and also I have descendant in pisces + Leo venus)
This is me but that open relationship shit NEVER I’m a one woman type. Once I pick them I only want them.
Sounds like a lot of mind games. Can't say at 61, I have that kind of mindset for anyone, never mind someone I love or have loved. You are describing a lot of very immature behaviors. Just my take on this information.
The best way to beat the "competition versus in 🦂" is to be far better than them in every way..☀️♎🌙♒
Omg some of this stuff is delusional. Please everyone be your and let others be themselves.
this was a great video on Venus in Scorpio! Very informative, thanks! Love it :)
I’m a Venus in Scorpio and i honestly get offended at all the negative things said about us... we get jealous very easily and as a Venus in Scorpio with a friend who has the same placement I do know we like to compete in love (and we might not even know it) and only show interest when everyone else says it but we are not manipulative about it and don’t put down the others competing. We don’t treat the person we desire as a prey at all??? but we don’t make a move if we believe they will reject us.
Hey everyone!
Unfortunately, I have been flagged by UA-cam for posting sexual content. I may have to remove these videos from UA-cam. I will try to make them available elsewhere, but if you are interested in this please make sure that you keep tabs on me through other social media.
Edit:
It took more than 2 years, but it seems like my channel is doing ok again.
Thanks guys.
Yes, because I mentioned sex in the video and I put it in the tags.
I don't want to remove the tags because they are an honest representation of what the video is about, but UA-cam has sort of shadow banned this content.
censorship is complete bullshit
@@farseer402 I agree... thankfully UA-cam seems to be fixing the issue.
There needs to be giant warning ⚠️ pamphlet we could give others dating us. Warning 1: Trying to make me jealous is the biggest way for me to hate you not want you. ⚠️
Um, I actually wrote pamphlets! I swear I didn't post anything about it yet... weird that you suggested it!
I first wrote down the material almost a year ago, and have been trying to figure out how to market them.
...Or did I post of this somewhere and forget? xD
Whackowitch Astrology that is hilarious!! 😂 this was my first video of yours so I haven't seen mention of pamphlets. So brilliant I hope you come out with them soon!
In awe of how accurate this is...
So bloody accurate! Thanks for the video! Such awesomeness ^_^
We don’t lust. Once you’re accepted it’s on. Now we want the same level of depth of the love we are giving. Even if not, we want to make sure the person we get into is loyal.
I think for me, all of this is compounded by the fact that I feel like my emotional side is always at war with my rational side. I feel like sometimes in life you're supposed to listen to your heart, and sometimes you're supposed to do what makes more sense because you know that your emotions have led you stray before. How am I to know? I try to avoid being heartbroken as much as possible because it just breaks my soul down too much and it's a long road to get back to yourself. Scorpio sun/ aqua rising/ aqua moon/ venus in scorpio
Same except for the fact that I have Libra Venus and scorpio mars.
This is tricky because listening to our heart and following our emotions is not the same thing. The heart is wise (intuition). Emotions are the result of usually unconscious beliefs. Emotions can tell us about the beliefs we have about ourselves or a situation that causes the feelings in the first place. They don't necessarily require us to follow them. The heart know the highest path to take - only after filtering through emotions to find the truth of what is happening within us. A closed heart is a heart that is broken. An open heart is working well, opens wider and wider with time and experience, and can bear anything. It feels like it's breaking but it's healing. Wholing. Thawing. Softening. And in this, sees clearer and clearer it's path and it's wholeness. XO
You have a ton of insight, I loved this video!
my son has venus in scorpio and hes very demanding of my time and love which isnt easy since i have venus in gemini
Most Venus in Scorpio men I know really never show their emotions, or act as if you love them more, and consciously don't give much effort. Are they secretly just extremely obsessive, and they'll never let you know how intensely their love burns?
I mean the one's I've dated or who have said they have feelings for me, by the way.
I’m wondering too. Eagerly waiting an answer on this :)
@@Dzkhadouj While I made this comment many years ago, I've learned since that if a man doesn't make you feel loved, it doesn't matter what his venus sign is. He isn't worth it if he leaves you wondering where you stand with him.
Molly Mulheran of course.
She's only describing the snake side of Venus in Scorpio Not the Phoenix side of Venus in Scorpio.
Absolutely! Most people with grudges against Venuses in Scorpios have only encountered the snake side. But it's not good that the person making this video has generalized.
One thing that is standard for all Venus in Scorpios though: they aren't looking for people with a loose attitude towards life and their partners. They are serious partners, and aren't into playing games. They are upfront and honest, and will do anything to make the relationship work.
sbh02 True!! Her interpretation is immature. Listen to Magic Mike by astrolada about astrology. He goes super deep and takes it to a shoe new level . Not all wines are aged the same 😉.
Thanks for sharing!
Sunflowershowers i keep learning about astrology more and more everyday 😢😢😢😢
@@treeseer1573 hi. Can u share the link pls
No psychological manipulation, passive aggressive mind games here. just be real.)
as you can see I can't, nor will I ever tolerate the bs!
I agree with everything, but I just cannot tolerate cheating, cheating revenge or open relationships of any kind! it's heartbreaking it's fucked up and its downright disrespectful! it's always, ALWAYS a 100% NO! of the highest order, no compromises whatsoever. I would never ever do any of those things to my partner and he can't and will not do them either! (I'm not trying to sound like my authoritarian, cold demanding Capricorn sun) but I can't have the cheating, playing mind games manipulation, seeing other people or even YES EVEN wanting a break! there are no BREAKS. either you are 100% in all the way or your out! there are no breaks and no compromises on that and no compromises for seeing other people, no open relationships ever! ((wanting a break and then thinking you'll actually come back to me after that since your bored, nope!))
if they ever want a break fine they'll get a break up! because wanting a break sound like a passive aggressive softer way of actually wanting to say that you want to see other people and since that's most likely the case, hell no! it's like don't ever expect to crawl your way back to me it's OVER! if they ever want a break, they'll only get a BREAK UP at best nothing more nothing less! that's it!
Sag sun Gemini moon Pisces rising and Venus in Scorpio...
Okay, let’s be friends, you are me. Except I am libra rising
Yes that is so true about us venus in Scorpio. My sun sign is sag moon aries and venus scorpio
This is the first video about venus in scorpio that describes me... Big 👍
Is that a Venus in Scorpio trick, having your cat appear out of nowhere in your lap?...I have Venus in Scorpio and I want to learn that trick!!..: >)P
Virgo Woman with Venus in Scorpio! you described me to a T!!
My boyfriend's placement. Hehe
Same placements
never heard anyone nail it like you have
+Totally Obsessed Awh thank you. :)
The sex move is whats on your Mars I have Sagittarius ♐️ there.
Perfect explanation, you really did validate my feelings as a Venus in Scorpio, thank you
@@adammorrison9993 thanks for letting me know that. :)
Ugh I'm only 3 minutes into the video and this is sooooooo meeee
Moon/Venus/Mars/Jupiter in Scorpio, Capricorn sun, Pisces rising...Thank you so much, 100% spot on..hate myself for being that faithful to a cheater for 25yrs... I'm 45 now ...felt my life is so screwed up ...At times, I really hate myself...for not fucking around even I'm really want it...but simply can't bring myself to do it...why others can just simply fuck around feeling nothing....?
because most have fire and air in their chart 😂😂😂😂 its just a valid thought
Well i have mostly fire and earth in the chart but also a scorpio rising and i am a mercurian, venusian and plutonian. If i love, i never cheat, not even in the mind. And i have a venus in gemini...just to say, i have known some venus in taurus who were cheating without major conscience problem.
u r funny! this is so good! libra sun venus scorpio moon aries rising sag! yes! water venus a must.
your words are so clear. I love it. Virgo mercury :)
thanks
They sound like someone who is trying to always have there way. By any means necessary. I feel sorry for someone who has to lie and deceive someone to get there way. just my thoughts
Oh no ! The Capricorn sun in me will never quit. My job for a man.
@Ethan Johnson what’s your sun sign
How do you act if u have a crush ?
your beauty is hypnotic. by the way. and you are extremely accurate, it's a little strange
what about sagittarius/w cancer rising and venus in scorpio
omg, so so so true...why is vulnerability so scary?? lol
it's fear of death. But, it's death you must go through. A metaphorical one. Ego death. to the egomind, which most people believe is who they are (it isn't), letting go over control and letting the Soul lead feels like death. It's this death that scorpio placements do battle with.
How do you know when a Venus in Scorpio man is trying to get your attention?
Chanel Dencker Hmm... I don't think they deliberately try to get someone's attention most of the time. They are more subtle in checking to see if they already HAVE your attention. It'll be eye contact with you and sometimes talking with other people about you.
I'm a Venus in Sagittarius, but a Venus in Scorpio Sidereal & Draconic and YES. I relate to both sag & scorpio venus likEEE omg whatttt
It's all so spot on except the revenge :(
Nicole Mohs Well that is good then! :) They always say Scorpio can take on a few different roles, and the revenge-seeker is the low point of the sign.
Thank God. God bless u . U are mature
Love this, I have Leo Mars im Leo dom also, so my Venus in scopio literally makes me feel like a psychopath
best description i've ever seen of this placement
Venus in Scorpio- I will absolutely replace you, revenge maybe lol but it depends what happened
My bf is a libra w/his Venus in Scorpio. I’m a Cancer w/Venus in Taurus. He definitely wasn’t as good as a lover as me in the beginning. The good thing is he’s competitive like you mentioned and sex is much better. Oh and he was terrified of showing physical affection. Wonderful video. I’m glad I came across your channel. Wishing you the best. 💜😘
And ps I love your cat :)
What would happen if Venus in Scorpio was at 0 or 29 degrees?
Virgo with Venus in Scorpio?
In the last 3 years I was so frustrated with the question why can't I get over a venus in Aquarius...I just can't explain it but he's the only one I can love...fuck my life
I’m a Sagittarius sun Leo moon Venus in Scorpio was dealing with a Sagittarius sun Capricorn moon Venus in Sagittarius. She was a player . She was so used to people chasing after her despite her doing them very dirty ,they would still try to be with her , maybe because they were all toxic and played games as well so that’s the energy she automatically attracts . Unstable relationships
. She has Venus conjunction Pluto in Sagittarius so she was really magnetic and very attractive BUT I was her tower moment . I saw right through all that bullshit , her insecurities,everything !
When she cheated and played mind games I would physical fight her, we’ve gotten physical atleast over 10 times 🤷🏿♀️I never felt bad because she thought she could come into my life and do the same shit she did with others . My Leo moon was not having that shit . Me having libra Mars ,when I feel an injustice I snap . I like peace . She brung nothing but chaos and manipulation. Now that I’m moving on from her slowly but surely . I’m talking to a Leo sun moon in Aquarius Venus in cancer . Feels much better , and he didn’t rush like love bombing Venus in Sagittarius.
She told me she isn’t dating anymore after me and I’m like 😈yeah cause you know you will never find someone else like me and I feel like I came into her life to give her a wake up call and slow down . To realize how unstable she was in her own life . I learnes some lessons aswell . Never hold on to someone who is obviously showing you that they don’t deserve you . Stop giving people the benefit of the doubt . Cause when they’re done using you they can easily leave and you would be left broken and having to pick up all the pieces .
And this is why I'd rather just be all aloneeee.
19:00 ''Bastardess's''
Everything spot on except the open relationship can never do that 😅as a Scorpio Venus ! in the introduction part .
I'm a venus in scorpio and open relationships= NO WAY!!
I have this placement Venus in Scorpio in 8th House Conjunct Pluto in Scorpio in 8th House.
I'm venus in scorpio, I like the video! involving money.. We just want to know that you don't have sticky fingers and are willing to sacrifice superficial nonsense such as wealth for something bigger.
we're screwed
Karla Gómez I love y'all
Karla Gómez 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
sooo funny
Karla Gómez right
Thank God I Have My Sun in Libra and 4 planets in Virgo that makes me more practical!
Same 👏😎🌈✨ 😂😂😂😂😇 I'm a chill person thanks to my Taurus in moon and Venus in Libra 👏👏👏🌈
I have a Stellium in Scorpio of the 2nd House. Venus and Mercury Retrograde. Moon, Sun, and Pluto. Help.
Virgo and Venus in Scorpio and my crushes Venus is in Scorpio he's a Sagittarius
My Venus was in retrograde at 27 degrees Scorpio. Have Neptune and Sun in Scorpio. I’m ruled by Mars as an Aries ascendant, but Venus is my soul planet. It trines mars, Saturn and sextiles moon so it is well aspected.
Venus in gemini pleaseeeeeeeeeee !!!!!!!
Good job changing your eyebrows! you look gorgeous! :)
I am libra sun venus in scorpio in my first house also conjunct my scorpio ascendant
I personally think Venus in Scorpio is a curse. I wish I could just be content with people..
Thank you sooo much for this video! The best yet for me
The cat tail is so cuuute
what about aspects? my venus is in capricorn is sextile pluto and mars and opposite pluto and conjunct neptune
Cancer Ascendant, Virgo Sun, Taurus Moon, Virgo Mercury, Scorpio Venus and Scorpio Mars. lol
I’m a Venus in Scorpio and it’s though 🥺i wish I could find someone who appreciates me
Thank you! love your videos because you add new informaion between the lines.
I wanted to ask- what if Venus is in the 8th house in Taurus? How does it change the Taurus energy? I you find it intresting can you pleas do a video about this placement?
sag sun, aqua moon, venus in scorpio, SADISTIC? R WE NOW?
doris johns right lls
Libra sun, Virgo Moon, Venus in Scorpio. I both love and hate my venus sign for various reasons.
Scorpios have trust issues. They were betrayed in a past life.
It was very confusing....
Never ever would I ever seek revenge but I’m an all or nothing person
Does this also apply to venus in scorpio composite?
Yes, but of course it would be applied to the relationship itself rather than being the traits of a person.
Hmm, okay - but how exactly would that work then, if you would kindly give an example?
(paraphrasing here) Like when you say V in S is 'possessive' in an emotional way - would that mean that, neither people in the relationship are possessive of each other, but rather, the relationship is possessive of itself? How would you spin it?
Why would they stay friends with someone they used to talk to he used to call me his mini me. I’m completely lost with him