The same people online are the same people you see in public. Dating offline doesn’t mean you won’t meet a psychopath. EDIT: It’s weird that some of you are trying to debate 🧐. People with common sense know there’s a risk dating anyone no matter where you meet them.
She went to lunch with him after he threatened to kidnap her son and kill her family 😳. When someone shows you who they are believe them. I’m happy that young lady survived.
She was probably petrified and thought that if she met with him before he left the state that it would maybe calm things down and stop him from harassing her. I'm sure that was her thought process.
@@kristenlawrence4657 I said the same thing. She probably thought that meeting him like he wanted would calm him down, and then she could just stop talking to him and everything would be fine.
That's exactly what happened. She was desperate for partnership. I bet she blamed herself when he go irate. His inability to handle rejection turned into her being at fault for not giving him a chance.. completely flipping the script. Men like him are good at being an emotional manipulator and preying on those who have a stable life situation just to hijack it. A few people in my life mothers had a boyfriend who moved into the house. They were losers that never had a stable life and pretty much a rolling stone. Didn't get along with the mothers' kids either and wanted to act like he runs the house.
mz morton id say, I wish more young ladies understood how to say “Nope” when, (out of what feels like nowhere) a man u thought was starting to care about you as a woman and a person says something completely off the wall and beyond. These chemicals that are happening in our brains when romantic stuff is happening are very primitive sometimes; they tell us to chill and relax and things will be okay. (That means don’t make him mad.) Unfortunately they are primitive in that don’t tell us to automatically go “Nope” and disappear ourselves out of his life. And yeah those primitive chemicals kept this woman alive. So in that way they did save her. I still hate thinking like potential prey while dating. Anyone else think it’s bs that women have to think like potential prey, when we are actually on our way to hopefully being someone’s special one? No wonder make us mad to see this.
@@johannahhuttenstone1 believe me when I say I been thru similiar situations and some how God managed to get me away cause it is hard it really is ...sometimes we think these guys will change and everything will get better but in reality things won't get better just worst ...they did in my case and what's crazy about it I met him online also
Social media is the internet corral for rubes. And they squeeze every last drop of blood out of you, by selling your info to everyone and anything. Everybody's a "cash cow" on those 'services' And don't forget: FaceBook + Instagram = FBI
I remember when I was about 17 I met this guy in my neighborhood and I got a certain Vibe about him. He seemed like a dude that would like sell drugs or something but I was trying to see past what I thought was judgement. So I went to his house cuz he invited me and we were just sitting there watching a movie and my instincts were going off like an alarm and it was literally telling me to leave get out of there or you're going to die. The feeling kept getting stronger and stronger and it was so strong to the point to where I could no longer ignore it so I told him I had to leave. Shortly after I had left gunman bust into his home and shot him dead. It just goes to show you that when your instincts are telling you something listen. Thanks for reading.
Thank god you're okay. Always trust your gut. I have a similar story. There was this guy who I was friends with. After about like 2 years of me knowing him we started sleeping together which made us friends with benefits lol. I would go over his house like 2 or 3 times a week to chill. Sometimes we'd have sex and sometimes we'd just watch movies and discuss life.(everything I just said is irrelevant to the story but whatever lol) Anywho, Regardless of what we did I'd always end up spending the night. Well, this one particular night after we'd finished doing our business I got this uneasy feeling and I had to go, I was so uncomfortable being in his home I even asked him to come stay at my house for the night because I just knew something bad was gonna happen. He thought I was tripping and needless to say, he didn't come with me. The next day a friend of mine called and told me that some guys broke into his home, robbed him, and shot him. He survived though, thank god. Always, always trust that gut feeling.
Thanking the most high for sparing her life to warn others what could possibly happen. Online people are the same folks walking in public. Be attentive. We thank you for your strength and courage to share your story. That part “it never goes away” gave me chills. I hope and pray that feeling lessens.
This is why it’s called the patriarchy. Men, particularly abusive men continue to support men and minimise the danger to women. The word of a pathologically lying man is worth more than the word of an honest woman. I’m sure some kid is gonna reply to this saying ‘not all men…
adoretay It is unfathomable to think that you can wait until you are engaged with someone to introduce them to your children. That is stupid because then you don't know how they will get along with your child before you are engaged to that person and ready to get married.
It's not the dating app, you could meet the same person in a club, grocery store, mall, etc....You just have to be more on top of who you let in your life . PERIOD! FACTS..💯💯💯
The dating app is just worse because people can make all kinds of fake lives and profiles, they can even use fake pictures and when you meet them in person you will see the dark side of them and it's over, and won't nobody know who the real monster is, women seem to let their guard down more because online it can make you feel as if you've known them for a long time while knowing nothing about them, in person dating you'll at least get some signs right off and see awkward behavior that can warn youz though some can hide all that and be completely charming for a longer period until you see some signs, I just rather date in public vs through apps on any given day. I actually rather be single for now than date at all. Women should get their license to carry, the media also doesn't make black women aware of the amount of serial killers in our own communities, I have talk to plenty of black folks who swear serial killers are majority white when that isn't true and been changed over the last 60 years.
@@terrencerandall3127 Yes she definitely did and it is scary because these girls that get on these sites that think they are looking for love they have no idea these people have bad intentions some are even kidnappers and people that are wanted by the police. One of my friends actually was on that exact website but she learned her lesson when she found out the person she was talking to was in court for sexually assaulting his ex girlfriend when she found out she blocked him and deleted the app.
🤦🏻♀️ Whoever came up with that charge is an idiot. I’m sorry to say that, but where is the justice for this beautiful young lady? That’s not justice! That my dude is ATTEMPTED MURDER!!!! The American Justice System is beyond flawed 🤦🏻♀️
Its not dating apps. He is a sociopath/ narcissist. You can meet a psycho anywhere: work, grocery, church...You just have to trust your instincts, meet/talk to their friends/family, background checks, and pray he/she is not going to snap one day.
La' Vy Very true. It's like an epidemic. The symptoms are always the same. My son's father left him while in utero. He even threatened to quote rip that baby
La' Vy yes I agree but you can’t do all that checking if you don’t meet them face to face. Meeting folks online is just too vague for me. Half of em use a false name anyway. Can’t background check that. When are you gonna have opportunity to talk to someone’s friends and family and you met them online? Shoot friends and family might be crazy too.
No you shouldn't be dating somebody on a dating app anyway cuz you don't know exactly who they are this person you know this particular person there's women like that too so we can't justify because you know an individual wants to be on there you know that's just the it's like that's justified in the your own personal self not blaming anything on anybody but we can't justify people forget what kind of time we're in so that's no the heat he looks very nice clean needed intelligent he looked up he he said all the right things played the part well exactly exact you know look like you had a little money and all the things you looking for on those type of things you know he's nice looking we just want some company we want to you know what other kind of company you know be with somebody and all that and yeah she I'm sure she was thinking the same thing so those type of places are not good and healthy to be finding anybody you can't justify
Like someone said you meet psycho anywhere,what Ive been through Im done with dating.I had a man tell me I know how to get to you through your kids. I snapped, let's say I put the fear in him
deestefmorr cops don’t do shit, my sis friend called the cops on her bf cause he pulled out a gun on her and threatened to kill n her kids, cops came & the bf was still there,,all they said was “we’ll handle it” ...they let him walk off , cops left..bf came back and started beating her, then she called her brother & the cops. Brother fucked the bf up & when the cops arrived the 2nd time, they arrested her brother bc the bf looked beat up & lied and said the brother tried to kill him....cops believed it cause he actually did get beat up...but it was cause he put his hands on the boy sister and the first cops that came didn’t do shit. Now then brother been locked up since march & on a bail of $50k
The first sign that someone is a narcissist is when they contact you SEVERAL TIMES in a row without you replying even once. If you get with one of these, remember this advice. You block them and they will call you from an unknown number. If they text you or call you five times and you have not reciprocated at all, even once, red flag! It doesn't matter if it's five times over 2 weeks, the idea that they are still persistent in this scenario shows you the type of harassing behavior that you are about to endure. They do not take no for an answer and they become obsessed with you, which usually doesn't end well. Narcissists are almost always stalkers.
I really would like to talk with him to understand why he behaves as he does. I hate to say, but a lot of these young men with these kind of dispositions have troubled childhood without a doubt. He's no younger than 25. He's a baby. So, he is only acting out for what he missed in his life. Either way, his behavior may be a result of misplaced need fulfillment. His mother may not have given him what he need now he's trying to make up with the women he abuses. What would his mother say. What would his grandmother say. So sad.
The red flag was when he threatened her son then asked her to go to the park. Ladies notice the red flags immediately and get cameras around your home or let your family or friends know your in danger. You can meet a crazy person in person or online. I advise women delay meeting these people in person and talk and get to know them first. Never tell them where you live or ride in their car or let them ride in yours. Meet in a public place only!
I don't understand why some women will forgive or overlook a threat to their children. I can forgive threats against me but if someone threatens my child, there is no way in this system of things that I will even have a hello for that person. I was watching a true crime on ID. The lady stayed with the man after he tried to drown her son right in front of her. He ended up murdering both boys.
Yep, but most importantly, get guns ladies, and kill these bastards. Answer questions later. These judges and DA's or even cops aren't going to protect you. They're playing games letting these repeat offenders on the streets because they're in your neighborhoods, not theirs. Shoot first, answer questions later.
The apps the people on them could be looking to do exactly what those evil sadistic men did this makes it a little more available to do harm two others they become friends before they even speak to them in person so they think they're friends with a lot in common have to be careful regardless where you meet someone or how you meet them
No, the point is dating agencies are profit driven and don't care who puts up accounts on their sites, people are not vetted or even forced to identify their real selves.
your not saying it right ... evil can be disguised as good or evil can be disguised by a handsome face .. there is nothing evil about being handsome but evil can use a handsome face as its disguise
I believe those 3 men were angels sent by God to save this woman. Thank god she is alive and her son. Be very careful ladies when dating, never rush, take your time and when you see someone reveal themself believe it!
No. They were good samaritans who assisted a woman in distress on the street. That literally happens every hour of every day on this earth. Over 50,000 children starve to death everyday and yall wont give God credit for that but the SECOND a human does a good deed its "Praise God". Get help.
This is her story, her truth. This has happened to others as well. She is so blessed to have made it out of the situation alive and her son is safe also. Not once did they say this only happens on dating sites and apps. This disgusting man likely harmed women through multiple routes.
@@skydelight The only reason daring apps are being scapegoated in this situation is because dating has revolved it around non social behavior. This society is very closed off and people don’t meet in open ways. Western societies have dating coaches for males. If it was other countries this wouldn’t be the case because they are more open like Brazil. Also women are empowered with a lot of things and Me Too doesn’t help the average guy. This story adds fuel to a closed off non outlet society which hides psychopaths to good dudes who might be lame in women’s eyes. But over the years this westernized American society has become more closed off.
Cuz it's the easiest way for people to get raped in Murder cuz all your information is on these they don't do background checks or anyting I don't think dating sites should be out there
So she didn't believe his threats over the phone, he had to make her a believer huh, smh. She's lucky cause a lot of women don't get a 2nd chance after encountering a male like this. Respect to the guys who helped her instead of looking away, glad she's alive 💯
They did a very nice thing, above and beyond...but that's not a measurement of their manhood. If they would've stayed out if it, maybe just call 911, that doesn't mean they're not "real men".
@@anjistone2946 How tf do know what a real man is, as a woman? Well then, as a man, I say you're not a real woman because you're trying to insult a man, and not staying in your place. A real woman knows to stay in her place. You don't have those real woman instincts though.
Narcissists and sociopaths are very good at projecting the "image" to draw in their victims. They are 10-15% 0f the population and are responsible for most abuse in relationships.
As a gay man this is why I gave up dating all together. They use apps to lure people in and these psychos don't show that they are crazy till they got you. I was raped by a guy I met online... Pray that this family is recovering and doing better.
@@hildamoe5874 Thank You ❤, its gotten a little bit easier since I told my family what happened and opened up more but still struggle with it everyday, def changed me for life but it taught me to not trust & that I'm a survivor. Take care as well 💙
@@KainegotgameUnfortunately I'm anti-gun lol I hate them 😕 and legally can't own because of suicide attempt. I carry a knife and pepper spray, may get a taser as well thats about the most I can do. My middle name is Devante haha
I think all those dating apps should be illegal unless every person with an account has a full background check and is cleared of any sexual or physical violence
It's not the sites fault. There are evil people out there. It's a risk that you just have to take. And take your own precautions. I met my x wife on POF
Not everyone with a criminal background is a horrible person. I met someone who made mistakes and I have as well. They had nothing to do with harming another person. Criminal history or not.. a person can be dangerous either way.
i can’t stand people like this no common sense the man threatened your son and family. you allowed him to see your son and still went to go see him after the threat. yet you want to live for your son, dumb ass you put yourself in that situation
He already broke her down enough to where she would try to negotiate with him after he did harm to her. Its almost as if she excused his behavior because she “upset” him. It’s really sad.
When you are being mentally, emotionally, physically abused by a psychopath, narcissist, sociopath, etc… it is common to not be able to see things clearly. They essentially mind @!&%# you.
I’ve had my fair share of dating apps & by the grace of God I can say I’ve never had any bad run ins… if I get any type of red flag or sketchy behavior from the guy I go M.I.A! But online dating is not for the weak… if you’re desperate, lonely or gullible, I definitely do not recommend trying those apps out because you will become an easy target & those typically seem like the ones who go through the worst experiences, unfortunately.
WingsOf a Phoenix yesssssss I have male friends who tell me the stories. Funny thing is even men have a pattern of picking crazy women or violent women. If every woman you've dated ends up pouring antifreeze in your gas tank it's time to look 👀 inside yourself.
@@silversage1626 what the hell do you mean except black women??? Black is the first race, black is gorgeous, black is beautiful, black is talented and that's why everyone on the planet Earth tries to hate and mostly imitate black queens because anything we do, you and the world become jealous because you want to be a black queen ALSO.
Never let someone know where you live until you know them well. Never introduce your children to a stranger online until you feel safe to do so. I recommend having cameras at your front door, Back door, Garage . And let a friend you trust have access to the footage so if something happens they will know and help. What ever you do, Do not tell the spouse about the cameras This is for you and your family's safety.
But this is the thing though, how do we EVER really know someone? Some folks have been married for years with children and one day they snap and kill their whole family. IMO there is always a risk when being in relationships with people. We just have to try to use our discernment as much as possible.
@@hebrewprincess9687 i recommend having a video camera installed at front doors back doors and any garage. One hidden in you're home that your spouse knows nothing about. Have it linked to the cell phone so that you can see whats up when your not around. Or if something happens like what happened to Shanann Watts in 2018. If she had video footage at the garage we would know what he did to her and them babies 😢
@@nurdytyrd3816 You mad she said something about God, but she can say that and you can choose to ignore it and go on about your day. Get mad about something else and not someone's elses faith which doesn't effect you way or the other. And by the way, God still LOVES your miserable behind.
I'm working on that right now. All online dating accounts are closed. I tried online dating. I'm sure the guys were cool for other people, just not for me. I lost interest when little red birdies started doing acrobatic break dance moves around red flags.
Wait a minute so he calls her threatening to kill her son and her family, then the next day she meets up with him at a park because he was going to California?
French Vanilla Exactly! You have him on a recording stating that he will kill your son. She's the doorway to her own demise and needs to learn what's inside of her that will allow her to be with a man like this.
Pete THE REAL Relentless Well she doesn't need to be dating anyone if she's willing to put her child in danger. She probably had him babysit her child as well. You know these women are always leaving their children with men they just met.
Background checks are good. But you never really know what stage of lunacy a person is going through when they meet U. They can get evil years down the line.
Phillip : This is very true, ppl. can change fior the worst...I believe today, things happen much to fast... Ppl. meet todaay and chat, and tomorrow they having sex, this won`t work, it`s only for pleasure...It`s also good, to meet the mans family sometime soon...
freda jordan the only problem i got with bringin in family members is that you are responsible for who you select as a partner. So if your partner that you chose is crazy & ends up killing one or more of your family members, & you survive,then you will be accountable.
I'm sorry she's an idiot. The moment he threatened my child=immediate restraining order, I'm relocating, but most OBVIOUS- I'm never contacting or meeting this man ever again! Why would she agree to meet him after he blatantly threatened her child and family? Ladies use some sense please! 🤦🏾♀️
MiVidaBellisima i would have have been too. After he threaten my son off to police I go. Some women and men think that person is the one they met on line and kept that image. No the first time you threaten me-restraining order and police car outside my door.
Thank God she is still alive, but the moment he started sleeping outside her house is when she should've called the police or had her cousins put him to sleep.
Okay I thank God he didn’t kill her, the day before you calling me threatening to kidnap my son, kill him & me. I’m not meeting your ass nowhere I am reporting yo ass immediately. Ladies please take those threats seriously when the crazy talk starts run and stop giving up your address off the bat!🙏🏾💯
Everyone saying the same thing 😂 why would she go and have lunch with someone who threaten to kill her son and her family... we ALL have the same question
Ppl talking about dating apps as if crazy ppl don't walk around the streets and meet u any other way lol trust me dating apps is not the problem the guys u pick to date and trust even when signs are there is the problem but let's keep putting this on online dating lol smh
Cynthia Powell Amen. I met my husband online and he’s the sweetest man I’ve ever known. People just wanna have sex and ignore the red flags then turn around and blame someone/something else!
GIRL. you said you were scared of him so scared that you drove him to a park after he threatened to kill your family? WHAT? I know you're 27 but really. You can't be that naive` Your son was almost motherless. GOD certainly was protecting you that day.
I’ve been there (except threatening my nephew as I do not have kids) at a certain point us survivors do what we can to survive so our families can survive.
I used dating apps in the past, here are some tips for anyone using or planning to start using dating apps: 1 - Always ask for a voice call/facetime, Make sure no one is catfishing you, report their account if they are and immediately block that number. 2 - If you are going out on a date, always alert a close friend or family member where you are going and give them updates on how your doing and if your safe or not in case if their is an issue. If your in danger have that close friend or family member alert the cops if possible. 3 - And this is extremely important, always trust your gut. If you feel like this certain person is not the one or if you think that they are sketchy or dangerous, simply do not go out with that person and block all contact with them, there are some terrible and horrendous people on there. Hope these help any of you in some way. Stay safe!
Go slowly ladies. Don't be intoxicated by the attention and validation so that you lose your watchful eye and protective instincts. Just one red flag is enough to run from a guy: . He seems too good to be true . Promising gifts & trips when you just met . Promising a future together & you just met . Immediately pulling you away from family and good friends . Catching him in little lies . Jealousy . Controlling you in little ways . There's something odd about his sexual behavior, or a weird way that he kisses you or holds you that makes you feel uneasy. . He's very vain . He ignores your boundaries. . He starts trying to change you. Your hair, clothes, personality, job, hobbies, etc... . You feel like you're not quite good enough around him. . Your good friends get a bad vibe about him . Claims to have a fantastic sounding past . Tricks you into paying for dates or Ubers . Can't take any criticism at all. . Insults you, disguised as jokes . Punishing behaviors . Silent treatment and coldness . Anger after you say NO or make him wait about ANYTHING, not just sex. . Moving too quickly . You feel a quick shudder of fear sometimes around him without knowing why . He wants you to tell him everything but he tells you very little. . You get a general bad feeling about him . Something about him seems gross or disgusting, but you can't tell what it is . His words don't match his actions. LET HIM GO! AND LIVE TO FIND A BETTER MAN.
First Rule of Online Dating: Pof is literally filled with some of the worst dating prospects you will ever find. Second Rule: If you get incessant messages from a prospect, without you responding to his/her messages, you have a nutjob on your hand. Courage to the beautiful woman.
So after he told her, he would kidnap her son, kill her and her family, put a ladder up to her window, standing in front of her house, texting her crazy shit, she never call the police and still went to lunch with him and had him in her car? That makes no sense what so ever. And dating apps dont make people crazy, they crazy before they got on the app.
When those three men showed up to save her, that was the Grace of Almighty God! I pray that she realizes that it was Jesus that rescued her through those men! Thank you lord that they were willing vessels.
@@shamiramiller5716 KJV Acts 4 12 Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. (The name of Jesus, Amen.)
Jedidja B I totally agree. I watch the show Catfish and I swear so many fake profiles on POF. I'm divorced and I'll stay that way before I go online. People are crazy.
When mental illness and hyper masculinity become unspoken truths the results are tragic. I’m just so happy this young lady was able to survive and tell her story, and may God be with all the families affected by these acts of crime.
Patti Carey hey cutie. You are very preety. Do you wanna meet up? I like short haired naughty milfs. Maybe we could have some fun together.. hit me up if you are interested m'lady ❤💋
@@michellehubbard8865 Yes. Their PROFESSIONALS Manipulators. Just remember only LOSERS criticize and insult you. WINNERS are too busy enjoy their lives.
I’m sorry, but after he threatened your child and your family there should be no reason to meet or continue the conversation. And then you got in the car with him alone. 🤦🏾♀️
Y’all don’t know the effects of an abused woman and how they act. She was trying to protect her family. Males will never know, that’s why y’all will victim blame when it’s completely inappropriate.
Because of my ex husband's craziness, I'll remain single. People are crazy. I met him and thought wow what a gentleman, but the devil is a deceitful being. I'll just use toys. Thanks
@Toni Martin No he wasn't perfect but she said he presented himself as such. This type of behavior is typical of sociopaths especially when it comes to online behavior. They present themselves as everything they feel you want and then quickly shift to apathetic or violent behavior. People should be mindful...in no way was he perfect and that's my point. BE AWARE.
“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” Ephesians 6:12 NIV
The same people online are the same people you see in public. Dating offline doesn’t mean you won’t meet a psychopath.
EDIT: It’s weird that some of you are trying to debate 🧐. People with common sense know there’s a risk dating anyone no matter where you meet them.
Painfull truth😕
True, but online dating makes it exponentially easier for psychopaths.
Exaaaaaaactly!
Creepily true
@@TheAfrodziak Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer were very successful gaining victims without a dating app 🤷🏽♀️
If someone threatens to do harm to my child, there's no way I would see that person again, EVER!
What if your ex spouse new boyfriend threatens you?
@@elindigeno1215 of course I would get a restraining order and stay far far away from him.
@@heythere432 working on it.
Facts
I just said this !
Dating apps aren’t the problem. Murderers and rapist use all forms and methods to prey on individuals.
B Black stop judging off of looks
No you crazy weird rude American male's are the problem. My non American husband is wayyyyy better
Amber Osburn ???? Stop putting everyone that's in America that's a male in the same category... not all is bad ..
Weak ones
Nick Davis ,girls online make it easy.
She went to lunch with him after he threatened to kidnap her son and kill her family 😳. When someone shows you who they are believe them. I’m happy that young lady survived.
My exact thoughts
She was probably petrified and thought that if she met with him before he left the state that it would maybe calm things down and stop him from harassing her. I'm sure that was her thought process.
@@kristenlawrence4657 I said the same thing. She probably thought that meeting him like he wanted would calm him down, and then she could just stop talking to him and everything would be fine.
Exactly! I wouldn't have met him at all!🤦🏽♀️
Exactly
I don't get why he was wandering in the streets while he murdered a 29 year old nurse...Justice is failing us!
I guess there was no probable cause unfortunately.
@@Steve0686 well we can't condone his actions, he should be removed from the society!
She’s a black woman so this is a low priority to law enforcement.
@@aphiwemagaya3279 I agree but what can courts can do when the da doesn’t do the job properly.
Where was the nurse family and were they trying to find her killer?
Dating online is only dangerous because DATING is dangerous. Doesn't matter where or how you meet. Anybody can hide their scary side.
Damn right!!
Yep..
I totally agree
But, dating is somewhat safer when you get an introduction from someone who knows the person. Meeting a total stranger is playing Russian Roulette.
@@brianjackson5732 True, but I can only remember once in my life being introduced to a guy by friends...and that was decades ago.
The first problem was seeing him off after he threatened to kill your son smh
MsBaileyLayne exactly my thoughts
Thank you
When that bitch ass nigga was waiting outside threatening I would have been boiling a pot of grease
Not just her son but blatantly said I’ll kill your whole family! I’m saying to myself she’s gotta be a idiot!
Keylah Huff or GRITS!! 😂😂
Don’t let your loneliness cloud your judgement. After threatening her son and her family she should have left him alone. Glad she survived
True facts
Your loneliness is actually a need for The God of the Holy Bible not other human
loneliness
@@angelaspringfield5584 thanks for the correction
That's exactly what happened. She was desperate for partnership. I bet she blamed herself when he go irate. His inability to handle rejection turned into her being at fault for not giving him a chance.. completely flipping the script. Men like him are good at being an emotional manipulator and preying on those who have a stable life situation just to hijack it. A few people in my life mothers had a boyfriend who moved into the house. They were losers that never had a stable life and pretty much a rolling stone. Didn't get along with the mothers' kids either and wanted to act like he runs the house.
I would of never gave his ass a ride after he had already threatened my child and my life...that was a mistake
mz morton id say, I wish more young ladies understood how to say “Nope” when, (out of what feels like nowhere) a man u thought was starting to care about you as a woman and a person says something completely off the wall and beyond. These chemicals that are happening in our brains when romantic stuff is happening are very primitive sometimes; they tell us to chill and relax and things will be okay. (That means don’t make him mad.) Unfortunately they are primitive in that don’t tell us to automatically go “Nope” and disappear ourselves out of his life. And yeah those primitive chemicals kept this woman alive. So in that way they did save her. I still hate thinking like potential prey while dating. Anyone else think it’s bs that women have to think like potential prey, when we are actually on our way to hopefully being someone’s special one? No wonder make us mad to see this.
@@johannahhuttenstone1 believe me when I say I been thru similiar situations and some how God managed to get me away cause it is hard it really is ...sometimes we think these guys will change and everything will get better but in reality things won't get better just worst ...they did in my case and what's crazy about it I met him online also
mz morton Right! Things with that person will get worse not better. I work to not be so forgiving that I overlook being treated like trash by someone.
mz morton yup 👌
@@sallyevans5734 bofl😂😂😂ikr
Social media is the devils playground for predators.
Yes ma'am. I almost met my demise from a crazy mutherfucker off of Facebook
Amen Amen 🙏🏽
Elaine Bruner wow, please share
Social media is the internet corral for rubes. And they squeeze every last drop of blood out of you, by selling your info to everyone and anything. Everybody's a "cash cow" on those 'services'
And don't forget: FaceBook + Instagram = FBI
@valerie george Big Facts💯
I remember when I was about 17 I met this guy in my neighborhood and I got a certain Vibe about him. He seemed like a dude that would like sell drugs or something but I was trying to see past what I thought was judgement. So I went to his house cuz he invited me and we were just sitting there watching a movie and my instincts were going off like an alarm and it was literally telling me to leave get out of there or you're going to die. The feeling kept getting stronger and stronger and it was so strong to the point to where I could no longer ignore it so I told him I had to leave. Shortly after I had left gunman bust into his home and shot him dead. It just goes to show you that when your instincts are telling you something listen. Thanks for reading.
SO VERY THANKFUL you listened to the urgings of the Holy Spirit, got out of there in time & lived to share your story, you're welcome & THANK YOU!!!!
DeAnn X shit
@DeAnn X wow thats crazy! thats why if i happen to arrange with someone meet in public . call me paranoid
DeAnn X don’t ignore your gut!
Thank god you're okay. Always trust your gut. I have a similar story. There was this guy who I was friends with. After about like 2 years of me knowing him we started sleeping together which made us friends with benefits lol. I would go over his house like 2 or 3 times a week to chill. Sometimes we'd have sex and sometimes we'd just watch movies and discuss life.(everything I just said is irrelevant to the story but whatever lol) Anywho, Regardless of what we did I'd always end up spending the night. Well, this one particular night after we'd finished doing our business I got this uneasy feeling and I had to go, I was so uncomfortable being in his home I even asked him to come stay at my house for the night because I just knew something bad was gonna happen. He thought I was tripping and needless to say, he didn't come with me. The next day a friend of mine called and told me that some guys broke into his home, robbed him, and shot him. He survived though, thank god. Always, always trust that gut feeling.
Thanking the most high for sparing her life to warn others what could possibly happen. Online people are the same folks walking in public. Be attentive. We thank you for your strength and courage to share your story. That part “it never goes away” gave me chills. I hope and pray that feeling lessens.
Even if the judge didn't know about his previous charges, he STILL attacked her and tried to kill her, why tf would you let him out?!!!!
Exactly 🤦🏾♀️
That judge needs to be judged...
Because the safety of Black women is low on the priority list as it relates to domestic squabbles
This is why it’s called the patriarchy. Men, particularly abusive men continue to support men and minimise the danger to women.
The word of a pathologically lying man is worth more than the word of an honest woman.
I’m sure some kid is gonna reply to this saying ‘not all men…
This was NY right ? Because NYC has a horrible mayor who allows criminals to walk free.
NEVER show your date where you live. And DON’T introduce him to your kids till MONTHS into the relationship.
rvpstudioscanada exactly
She had been dating him six months.
adoretay It is unfathomable to think that you can wait until you are engaged with someone to introduce them to your children. That is stupid because then you don't know how they will get along with your child before you are engaged to that person and ready to get married.
Years into the relationship..u never kno how long a mf can act!!
Months ishhh years if that
WHY GO MEET A MAN. AFTER HES THREATENED TO HARM YOU AND YOUR CHILD HE TOLD YOU WHAT HE WOULD DO...BELIEVE IT!
Because she's stupid as hell.
That's what I dont get
Notthefather RIGHT.DUDE WAS CRAZZY!
Maybe that was after she got suspicious and she broke it off.
It’s that 🍆
It's not the dating app, you could meet the same person in a club, grocery store, mall, etc....You just have to be more on top of who you let in your life . PERIOD! FACTS..💯💯💯
The dating app is just worse because people can make all kinds of fake lives and profiles, they can even use fake pictures and when you meet them in person you will see the dark side of them and it's over, and won't nobody know who the real monster is, women seem to let their guard down more because online it can make you feel as if you've known them for a long time while knowing nothing about them, in person dating you'll at least get some signs right off and see awkward behavior that can warn youz though some can hide all that and be completely charming for a longer period until you see some signs, I just rather date in public vs through apps on any given day. I actually rather be single for now than date at all. Women should get their license to carry, the media also doesn't make black women aware of the amount of serial killers in our own communities, I have talk to plenty of black folks who swear serial killers are majority white when that isn't true and been changed over the last 60 years.
U right
"The common denominator in these cases was dating sites"
No sir, the common denominator was an evil man.
Right!!
IKR wtf
On a dating site dummy and that’s where they usually are at
@@thorndriscoll4577 thank you! She missed the point smh
@@terrencerandall3127 Yes she definitely did and it is scary because these girls that get on these sites that think they are looking for love they have no idea these people have bad intentions some are even kidnappers and people that are wanted by the police. One of my friends actually was on that exact website but she learned her lesson when she found out the person she was talking to was in court for sexually assaulting his ex girlfriend when she found out she blocked him and deleted the app.
*"Second degree strangulation" shouldn't even be a thing. That was ATTEMPTED MURDER! Especially after hearing that phone call!!*
Not to mention he killed people before.
Right!
The Justice system is non existent.
🤦🏻♀️ Whoever came up with that charge is an idiot. I’m sorry to say that, but where is the justice for this beautiful young lady? That’s not justice! That my dude is ATTEMPTED MURDER!!!! The American Justice System is beyond flawed 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly 💯...
Its not dating apps. He is a sociopath/ narcissist. You can meet a psycho anywhere: work, grocery, church...You just have to trust your instincts, meet/talk to their friends/family, background checks, and pray he/she is not going to snap one day.
I met my ex at work. He asked me to have a baby with him even after only dating for a couple of months. Lol 😂
La' Vy Very true. It's like an epidemic. The symptoms are always the same. My son's father left him while in utero. He even threatened to quote rip that baby
La' Vy right out of your belly. And it was during Sandy Hook. Anyway. I agree. 😐💙
La' Vy yes I agree but you can’t do all that checking if you don’t meet them face to face. Meeting folks online is just too vague for me. Half of em use a false name anyway. Can’t background check that. When are you gonna have opportunity to talk to someone’s friends and family and you met them online? Shoot friends and family might be crazy too.
Good point! Psycho people existed before dating apps and will after
He’s killed 6 girls before this she truly truly beyond blessed to have gotten away
Let’s not blame a dating site for this mans actions.
Ted bundy didn’t have an account. This man was able to get caught better/sooner thanks to POF.
VERY TRUE.. BUT DON'T FORGET ABOUT THE SON OF SAM, RICHARD RAMIREZ, THE BTK-KILLER, MR/MRS.CARSON'S.. I MEAN, THE LIST GOES ON AND ON!😨💯💯💯
Facts
No you shouldn't be dating somebody on a dating app anyway cuz you don't know exactly who they are this person you know this particular person there's women like that too so we can't justify because you know an individual wants to be on there you know that's just the it's like that's justified in the your own personal self not blaming anything on anybody but we can't justify people forget what kind of time we're in so that's no the heat he looks very nice clean needed intelligent he looked up he he said all the right things played the part well exactly exact you know look like you had a little money and all the things you looking for on those type of things you know he's nice looking we just want some company we want to you know what other kind of company you know be with somebody and all that and yeah she I'm sure she was thinking the same thing so those type of places are not good and healthy to be finding anybody you can't justify
Did we have dating apps then?
There's a lot of cases like this from dating apps though
He threatened to murder your child n you went to see him off???
IKR how desperate Is she my God 🤦🏿♀️ smh
Right recorded calls and videos and did not go to the police. It woulved been a call to police or family members
I know right. I hope she wasn't playing the Stockholm syndrome hoping that she can change this to arrange young man.
Agreed.....that is crazy. The only 'I'm seeing you soon' is seeing you being handcuffed!
Like someone said you meet psycho anywhere,what Ive been through Im done with dating.I had a man tell me I know how to get to you through your kids. I snapped, let's say I put the fear in him
As soon as he threatened to kidnap my son...i would have called the police.
I thought that was why she was recording the call...not getting ready to give him a ride to the park.
Police now days won’t do anything unless the person actually does something smh
deestefmorr cops don’t do shit, my sis friend called the cops on her bf cause he pulled out a gun on her and threatened to kill n her kids, cops came & the bf was still there,,all they said was “we’ll handle it” ...they let him walk off , cops left..bf came back and started beating her, then she called her brother & the cops. Brother fucked the bf up & when the cops arrived the 2nd time, they arrested her brother bc the bf looked beat up & lied and said the brother tried to kill him....cops believed it cause he actually did get beat up...but it was cause he put his hands on the boy sister and the first cops that came didn’t do shit. Now then brother been locked up since march & on a bail of $50k
Anybody threatening me or my child, why would you meet up with him.
Righttt i dont see how she can see him after tht
The first sign that someone is a narcissist is when they contact you SEVERAL TIMES in a row without you replying even once. If you get with one of these, remember this advice. You block them and they will call you from an unknown number. If they text you or call you five times and you have not reciprocated at all, even once, red flag! It doesn't matter if it's five times over 2 weeks, the idea that they are still persistent in this scenario shows you the type of harassing behavior that you are about to endure. They do not take no for an answer and they become obsessed with you, which usually doesn't end well. Narcissists are almost always stalkers.
*slowly deletes tinder*
Fay lol
Lol
Lol
Lol
Why not swiftly?
Do not ever let him back out into society
Don't worry he gonna be fleece johnsons girlfreind now!!! LOL
I really would like to talk with him to understand why he behaves as he does. I hate to say, but a lot of these young men with these kind of dispositions have troubled childhood without a doubt. He's no younger than 25. He's a baby. So, he is only acting out for what he missed in his life. Either way, his behavior may be a result of misplaced need fulfillment. His mother may not have given him what he need now he's trying to make up with the women he abuses. What would his mother say. What would his grandmother say. So sad.
R Anthony Nigga you on crack. No matter what happened to you in childhood you don't get to hurt women.
The red flag was when he threatened her son then asked her to go to the park. Ladies notice the red flags immediately and get cameras around your home or let your family or friends know your in danger. You can meet a crazy person in person or online. I advise women delay meeting these people in person and talk and get to know them first. Never tell them where you live or ride in their car or let them ride in yours. Meet in a public place only!
I don't understand why some women will forgive or overlook a threat to their children. I can forgive threats against me but if someone threatens my child, there is no way in this system of things that I will even have a hello for that person. I was watching a true crime on ID. The lady stayed with the man after he tried to drown her son right in front of her. He ended up murdering both boys.
ua-cam.com/video/jHfeb1q84e4/v-deo.html HE RAPS
Why would she meet with him again
The red flag was striking a conversation too fast and everyday.
That's the biggest Tell sign of narcissists and psychopaths.
Yep, but most importantly, get guns ladies, and kill these bastards. Answer questions later. These judges and DA's or even cops aren't going to protect you. They're playing games letting these repeat offenders on the streets because they're in your neighborhoods, not theirs. Shoot first, answer questions later.
Why she agreed to meet this psycho is beyond me!!! Thank God for those three men!
It's not the app.....its the PERSON. Charles Manson, Ted Bundy, and Jeffery Dahmar didn't use apps and look what they did.
okay? your point??? the app just makes it easier now for these people
The apps the people on them could be looking to do exactly what those evil sadistic men did this makes it a little more available to do harm two others they become friends before they even speak to them in person so they think they're friends with a lot in common have to be careful regardless where you meet someone or how you meet them
No, the point is dating agencies are profit driven and don't care who puts up accounts on their sites, people are not vetted or even forced to identify their real selves.
Solarlandlord Vauban Schwarzwald
Yup I agree u just have to be. A Lil more careful
I hate that people only name those. There were way worse killers lol 🙄🙄
You almost wish he were ugly. But, great lesson here, evil can be cute, pretty, handsome, etc.
your not saying it right ... evil can be disguised as good or evil can be disguised by a handsome face .. there is nothing evil about being handsome but evil can use a handsome face as its disguise
Star Brand 💯
Star Brand hmmm that’s what hurts
"But I am not surprised! Even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light." -- *2 Corinthians **11:14*
Read your bible baby Satan doesn't disguise himself as an angel he is an Angel. The morning Star.
I believe those 3 men were angels sent by God to save this woman. Thank god she is alive and her son. Be very careful ladies when dating, never rush, take your time and when you see someone reveal themself believe it!
That's nice. I believe it was a coincidence but an extremely lucky one at that
This is why women use to bring these men to meet their family so that they can get as much info about them as possible. Always do background checks!
Yes indeed,I immediately said the same...1 for the father,1 for the son, and 1 for the holy spirit she's beyond BLESSED
Or maybe they were just there & it had nothing to do with God? Did" God " not want to save the other women?
No.
They were good samaritans who assisted a woman in distress on the street. That literally happens every hour of every day on this earth.
Over 50,000 children starve to death everyday and yall wont give God credit for that but the SECOND a human does a good deed its "Praise God".
Get help.
The most “perfect” man I met was at work. Now he’s on the run and the FBI is looking for him. The dating apps are not the problem.
@UV actually I ended up marrying someone who is really good to me. You just have to weed through a lot of bad apples to find your person.
Why are we blaming dating sites? That’s like blaming a gun when the real perpetrator is a person. People can be dark and evil-that is the issue here.
This is her story, her truth. This has happened to others as well. She is so blessed to have made it out of the situation alive and her son is safe also.
Not once did they say this only happens on dating sites and apps. This disgusting man likely harmed women through multiple routes.
@@skydelight The only reason daring apps are being scapegoated in this situation is because dating has revolved it around non social behavior. This society is very closed off and people don’t meet in open ways. Western societies have dating coaches for males. If it was other countries this wouldn’t be the case because they are more open like Brazil. Also women are empowered with a lot of things and Me Too doesn’t help the average guy. This story adds fuel to a closed off non outlet society which hides psychopaths to good dudes who might be lame in women’s eyes. But over the years this westernized American society has become more closed off.
I totally agree.
Cuz it's the easiest way for people to get raped in Murder cuz all your information is on these they don't do background checks or anyting I don't think dating sites should be out there
Fuckin thank you! All the "dating apps are bad uwu". Well who tf is forcing you to use a dating app? 😆
So she didn't believe his threats over the phone, he had to make her a believer huh, smh. She's lucky cause a lot of women don't get a 2nd chance after encountering a male like this. Respect to the guys who helped her instead of looking away, glad she's alive 💯
Young men and women: a pretty face don't mean a pretty heart....
So true
That's so true!!
True! Very true!
Facts
Satan knows the power of beauty...
A background check should be given on all dating sites for all members
She was so lucky. Thank god those men helped her. Respect to them for being real men. There's a lot of people won't get involved.
Precisely
yup !! and thats the scary part
They did a very nice thing, above and beyond...but that's not a measurement of their manhood. If they would've stayed out if it, maybe just call 911, that doesn't mean they're not "real men".
@@charlescarter4608 Sorry, I don't agree. Real men have automatic instinct's to protect females. I'm guessing you don't have those instinct's.
@@anjistone2946 How tf do know what a real man is, as a woman? Well then, as a man, I say you're not a real woman because you're trying to insult a man, and not staying in your place. A real woman knows to stay in her place. You don't have those real woman instincts though.
“The perfect guy” is a sociopath.
Narcissists and sociopaths are very good at projecting the "image" to draw in their victims. They are 10-15% 0f the population and are responsible for most abuse in relationships.
Yes they are charming when they like you.
Learned that by watching Joe on "You"
This is the type woman go for?💀💀💀
good guys can be deadly men for the most part.women need to get off dating apps for good,because they don't know what will happen.
Ain’t no meeting for chipotle when you threaten my child..Instantly blocked, ignored and restraining order put on you
Smart woman👍 when you see the red flag it's time to go.
He looks like he likes Boys on the down low
msalohakitty hell im moving if I can fuck that that he already tried coming in
Exactly hell no
911 is in order also
Thank God she and her son is ok. And I hope she gets the therapy she needs. Rip to the women that didn't make it.
Thank the good Samaritans
As a gay man this is why I gave up dating all together. They use apps to lure people in and these psychos don't show that they are crazy till they got you. I was raped by a guy I met online... Pray that this family is recovering and doing better.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. Please take care of yourself❤. Although it's hard to believe, there are good people out there.
@@hildamoe5874 Thank You ❤, its gotten a little bit easier since I told my family what happened and opened up more but still struggle with it everyday, def changed me for life but it taught me to not trust & that I'm a survivor. Take care as well 💙
Invest into a firearm and a liscence to carry .
@@KainegotgameUnfortunately I'm anti-gun lol I hate them 😕 and legally can't own because of suicide attempt. I carry a knife and pepper spray, may get a taser as well thats about the most I can do. My middle name is Devante haha
Omg im sorry to hear this 😔
I think all those dating apps should be illegal unless every person with an account has a full background check and is cleared of any sexual or physical violence
It's not the dating sites that are bad coz u could meet a killer offline too in your city 🏙️. It the person. But I agree should be background check ✅.
I agree! People pose as whatever they think would attract. Fake people fake profile .the too good to be true can mean life is over. Take precautions
Agree but people could get a friend to make their profile for them.
It's not the sites fault. There are evil people out there. It's a risk that you just have to take. And take your own precautions. I met my x wife on POF
Not everyone with a criminal background is a horrible person. I met someone who made mistakes and I have as well. They had nothing to do with harming another person. Criminal history or not.. a person can be dangerous either way.
She saw him again after he told her that he would kill her son? Unbelievable.
She was in love... dont u get it
Couldn't be me! 🤢🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
i can’t stand people like this no common sense the man threatened your son and family. you allowed him to see your son and still went to go see him after the threat. yet you want to live for your son, dumb ass you put yourself in that situation
He already broke her down enough to where she would try to negotiate with him after he did harm to her. Its almost as if she excused his behavior because she “upset” him. It’s really sad.
When you are being mentally, emotionally, physically abused by a psychopath, narcissist, sociopath, etc… it is common to not be able to see things clearly. They essentially mind @!&%# you.
I’ve had my fair share of dating apps & by the grace of God I can say I’ve never had any bad run ins… if I get any type of red flag or sketchy behavior from the guy I go M.I.A! But online dating is not for the weak… if you’re desperate, lonely or gullible, I definitely do not recommend trying those apps out because you will become an easy target & those typically seem like the ones who go through the worst experiences, unfortunately.
I met my husband online. He wasn’t crazy. Apps are not the problem. Just use common sense.
I met mines in their also
On
That means you actually went for someone worth a damn, good for you.
Common sense isn't common. She didn't think he was a psychopath. It wasn't tattooed on his forehead.
I met mine on okcupid
These kind of men are also on facebook. Everyone please be careful.
Totally agree.
At church too. Library. School. Gas station. Neighbors cousins uncles smh
You mean Instagram
peaceluv True
WingsOf a Phoenix yesssssss I have male friends who tell me the stories. Funny thing is even men have a pattern of picking crazy women or violent women. If every woman you've dated ends up pouring antifreeze in your gas tank it's time to look 👀 inside yourself.
ATTENTION Beautiful Women:
LOVE YOURSELVES!
Yes beautiful queens, love yourself!!! 💜💓💖💕💗 Jesus loves you!!!
Excatly
Except black women. Praise the lord hallelujah!
@@silversage1626 what the hell do you mean except black women??? Black is the first race, black is gorgeous, black is beautiful, black is talented and that's why everyone on the planet Earth tries to hate and mostly imitate black queens because anything we do, you and the world become jealous because you want to be a black queen ALSO.
Is not just girls ,woman is also boy ,men
I deleted Plenty Of Fish a couple of months ago. I kept meeting mentally ill men and depressed men.
Never let someone know where you live until you know them well. Never introduce your children to a stranger online until you feel safe to do so. I recommend having cameras at your front door, Back door, Garage . And let a friend you trust have access to the footage so if something happens they will know and help. What ever you do, Do not tell the spouse about the cameras
This is for you and your family's safety.
But this is the thing though, how do we EVER really know someone? Some folks have been married for years with children and one day they snap and kill their whole family. IMO there is always a risk when being in relationships with people. We just have to try to use our discernment as much as possible.
@@hebrewprincess9687 You're right.
@@hebrewprincess9687 i recommend having a video camera installed at front doors back doors and any garage. One hidden in you're home that your spouse knows nothing about. Have it linked to the cell phone so that you can see whats up when your not around. Or if something happens like what happened to Shanann Watts in 2018. If she had video footage at the garage we would know what he did to her and them babies
😢
Who’d thought that a camera would solve domestic violence, you’re a genius!
It had been 6 months....
The red flags was the perfection in everything he was doing and saying IN THE BEGINNING.
Thank God you survived sweetie, God bless you
@@nurdytyrd3816 You mad she said something about God, but she can say that and you can choose to ignore it and go on about your day. Get mad about something else and not someone's elses faith which doesn't effect you way or the other. And by the way, God still LOVES your miserable behind.
I can't believe she met him at the park after threatening to KILL her child. 😪
This is why I keep to my damn self!!!!!!
WISDOM4LIFE and I thought I was the only one that like 2 stay 2 myself that's the best way 2 be.
WISDOM4LIFE. Ur BRILLANT!!!
Thats Right!
WISDOM4LIFE facts
I'm working on that right now. All online dating accounts are closed.
I tried online dating. I'm sure the guys were cool for other people, just not for me. I lost interest when little red birdies started doing acrobatic break dance moves around red flags.
Demonic spirits are real people .. stay prayful
They definitely are! I see them all the time, the good and the evil.
ATrueClassyLady yes your right about this! Check out my book Invasion of Privacy
Amen!
Ain’t dat the dame truth! U got to stay prayed up. A lot ppl think evil is not real. Yes it exist!
He clearly said it but they ignored it and put him in jail where demons dwell.
The judge who released him made a grave mistake!!! 😭😭😭
No mistake , a bad decision
No they like people like him out on the streets
People, if you're hearing voices in your head telling you to do something you know if wrong, seek help ASAP!!!
Wait a minute so he calls her threatening to kill her son and her family, then the next day she meets up with him at a park because he was going to California?
Women logic... cant explain it.. lmao
French Vanilla Exactly! You have him on a recording stating that he will kill your son. She's the doorway to her own demise and needs to learn what's inside of her that will allow her to be with a man like this.
To pacify him like if i do this he’ll leave
L. R Yeah it's scary that someone can threaten to kill her son, and she still met up with him at a park by herself 🤦🏼♀️
Pete THE REAL Relentless Well she doesn't need to be dating anyone if she's willing to put her child in danger. She probably had him babysit her child as well. You know these women are always leaving their children with men they just met.
Two words: Background Check!!!!
Background checks are good. But you never really know what stage of lunacy a person is going through when they meet U. They can get evil years down the line.
Phillip : This is very true, ppl. can change fior the worst...I believe today, things happen much to fast... Ppl. meet todaay and chat, and tomorrow they having sex, this won`t work, it`s only for pleasure...It`s also good, to meet the mans family sometime soon...
freda jordan the only problem i got with bringin in family members is that you are responsible for who you select as a partner. So if your partner that you chose is crazy & ends up killing one or more of your family members, & you survive,then you will be accountable.
Hello!!!!
M Alexander + Background checks don’t always work because not everyone gets caught.
I'm sorry she's an idiot. The moment he threatened my child=immediate restraining order, I'm relocating, but most OBVIOUS- I'm never contacting or meeting this man ever again! Why would she agree to meet him after he blatantly threatened her child and family? Ladies use some sense please! 🤦🏾♀️
MiVidaBellisima yes she is an idiot
*common sense
She was stupid and dumb for that.
The heart wants what it wants.
MiVidaBellisima i would have have been too. After he threaten my son off to police I go. Some women and men think that person is the one they met on line and kept that image. No the first time you threaten me-restraining order and police car outside my door.
This is so sad that this happened to her. That man is a monster. He needs to be in prison for life.
It's nice sad she's has low self esteem desperate for an man
But this man,is ohh my,good in bed,I want him
Thank God she is still alive, but the moment he started sleeping outside her house is when she should've called the police or had her cousins put him to sleep.
Facts!!
Amen!
PREACH
Yasss yasss let me introduce to his lunatic to the cousins hunny🤗🤗🤗 Oh yea the ones who were doing life as well....his ass will get it in there to!
Me: I'm lonely I might download tinder.
Me after watching this: never mind it'll happen when it happens. I'll just get a cat and dog.
I got back on POF and after watching this I rehid my profile
Briana Cherry lmao
#dead. LOL
Adopt a cat and dog!
Rite
Okay I thank God he didn’t kill her, the day before you calling me threatening to kidnap my son, kill him & me. I’m not meeting your ass nowhere I am reporting yo ass immediately. Ladies please take those threats seriously when the crazy talk starts run and stop giving up your address off the bat!🙏🏾💯
Vicky Barnes They dated 6 months
Ladies... ALWAYS do a background check on any guy you're about to start dating. It's really not expensive to do online, and it could save your life
Eyes are the windows to the soul. He looked evil.
That's exactly what I noticed right away, his crazy eyes. Wow!!
U can see his lack of consciousness.. emptiness
Right...those eyes...
This is true.
HE LOOKS CRAZY😒
I learned my lesson years ago grateful to God for being alive
Glad you are ok ‼️ when you know better u do better ‼️👍🎉
WHAT HAPPENED?
I did as well, God bless you
I was thought about you so I don’t need you to
While God y'all believe allows death of the other women.
Everyone saying the same thing 😂 why would she go and have lunch with someone who threaten to kill her son and her family... we ALL have the same question
Nora Peace period
😂😂😂 and it's still unanswered! Like wth what is wrong with her is she THAT insecure?
Now that's what bothers me the most. U don't break bread with your enemy... PERIOD!
Nora Peace Maybe she gave him the benefit of a doubt or maybe she feared him.
Nora Peace maybe she gave him the benefit of a doubt or maybe she feared him.
She was STUPID to agree to see him AFTER threatening to kill her son! What a desperate, foolish woman
Literally smh
Dating is just not like it use to be. People are just to evil these days.
Right. It needs to go back to times where people met normally in person, not on dating sites, cell phones and everything else. It's truly sad.
Can't Claim Beauty for real
Right smh this why im loving my single life dont gotta deal with craziness like this
So True!
@@XxBabyGurlLovexX Ted Bundy didn't have dating app tech, nor did Jeffery Dahmer. Evil people will still be evil regardless of technology.
Ppl talking about dating apps as if crazy ppl don't walk around the streets and meet u any other way lol trust me dating apps is not the problem the guys u pick to date and trust even when signs are there is the problem but let's keep putting this on online dating lol smh
Cynthia Powell Amen. I met my husband online and he’s the sweetest man I’ve ever known. People just wanna have sex and ignore the red flags then turn around and blame someone/something else!
Cynthia Powell Amen!!!
Cynthia Powell Exactly right Lady
Cynthia Powell I agree, its not the app its the person.
I agree.. I met my now husband on a dating app 11 yrs ago.. Crazy people can show up anywhere, even in the most unlikely of places..
You threaten my child....I would not meet u even if it meant saving u. That is a major indication that he is dangerous
God bless those men who came to help her.
Crazy shit like this, makes me blessed to be single.
Same!
Keep telling yourself that 😂
@@XxchampaignxX i do. I dont need a corona divorce either..
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Same!
@@chrissystewart6268 Hell yeah!
No dating sites for me, I don’t care who makes fun of me for being single at the moment🤷♀️
Me 2
Amen Amen Amen
Just worry about your self, take care of your self
Yeah dating sites are pretty dangerous I rather date for real then on some stupid website
And don't worry sweetie you'll find somebody someday just not online
GIRL. you said you were scared of him so scared that you drove him to a park after he threatened to kill your family? WHAT? I know you're 27 but really. You can't be that naive` Your son was almost motherless. GOD certainly was protecting you that day.
I’ve been there (except threatening my nephew as I do not have kids) at a certain point us survivors do what we can to survive so our families can survive.
@Goody two shoes I bet u would let him harm u and ur son too huh?
She simple as hell for that
@@jameswilliams4003 Like most naive women do....
@Goody two shoes 😂 hilarious
I used dating apps in the past, here are some tips for anyone using or planning to start using dating apps:
1 - Always ask for a voice call/facetime, Make sure no one is catfishing you, report their account if they are and immediately block that number.
2 - If you are going out on a date, always alert a close friend or family member where you are going and give them updates on how your doing and if your safe or not in case if their is an issue. If your in danger have that close friend or family member alert the cops if possible.
3 - And this is extremely important, always trust your gut. If you feel like this certain person is not the one or if you think that they are sketchy or dangerous, simply do not go out with that person and block all contact with them, there are some terrible and horrendous people on there.
Hope these help any of you in some way. Stay safe!
That was a demon.
Brianna C change your pic.... you look like a blowfish.
M. R. You I'm dying😂😭😂😭😂💯💯💯💯😂😭😂😭😂
You hit the nail on the head.
Joy Wilburn you why your head look like that tho 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sis, are BW going to wake up
1) Bruh pored accent on sis face
2) through off the building
3) set on fire
4) Now they going on dating apps
#BWGTOW
Go slowly ladies. Don't be intoxicated by the attention and validation so that you lose your watchful eye and protective instincts. Just one red flag is enough to run from a guy:
. He seems too good to be true
. Promising gifts & trips when you just met
. Promising a future together & you just met
. Immediately pulling you away from family and good friends
. Catching him in little lies
. Jealousy
. Controlling you in little ways
. There's something odd about his sexual behavior, or a weird way that he kisses you or holds you that makes you feel uneasy.
. He's very vain
. He ignores your boundaries.
. He starts trying to change you. Your hair, clothes, personality, job, hobbies, etc...
. You feel like you're not quite good enough around him.
. Your good friends get a bad vibe about him
. Claims to have a fantastic sounding past
. Tricks you into paying for dates or Ubers
. Can't take any criticism at all.
. Insults you, disguised as jokes
. Punishing behaviors
. Silent treatment and coldness
. Anger after you say NO or make him wait about ANYTHING, not just sex.
. Moving too quickly
. You feel a quick shudder of fear sometimes around him without knowing why
. He wants you to tell him everything but he tells you very little.
. You get a general bad feeling about him
. Something about him seems gross or disgusting, but you can't tell what it is
. His words don't match his actions.
LET HIM GO! AND LIVE TO FIND A BETTER MAN.
Damn so basically men in general I’ll pass on dating
I literally just dumped a guy like this...wow...dodged a bullet
Yes, all this! You only need one red flag
Wow I hope you followed this advice when if come to dating.
This described narcissists and I was with one - they’re vile wicked and evil devils
First Rule of Online Dating: Pof is literally filled with some of the worst dating prospects you will ever find. Second Rule: If you get incessant messages from a prospect, without you responding to his/her messages, you have a nutjob on your hand. Courage to the beautiful woman.
Thank you for your advice!
Oh wow!
I thought that too.
You should write a book or a guide on how women can avoid pitfalls of dating predators etc. You seem to have a good heart.
Roberto Masensi
Great advice, Sir! Very well said!
"No red flags" *we saw each other every single day for 6 months* lol
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Honestly ‘Plenty of Fish’ (a telling name in itself) should be renamed ‘Plenty of Predators’
Tony Gaskins calls it “Plenty of Sharks.” Haha
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Plenty of discarded Vienna sausages
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“Plenty of Felons” is what my friends call it
So after he told her, he would kidnap her son, kill her and her family, put a ladder up to her window, standing in front of her house, texting her crazy shit, she never call the police and still went to lunch with him and had him in her car? That makes no sense what so ever. And dating apps dont make people crazy, they crazy before they got on the app.
@Shandra9000mail yea, u dont go to lunch with the person stalking u. Just crazy to me
This is a desperate woman looking for love and hoping he would change.
That's an insecure bitch
Most women think they can change a grown a$s man but it never happens. Others just want drama so they can join the famous man bàshing club.
hahahahah
Ladies you all please be safe. The world is not the same
Quinn Shaw It's the same. Social media makes it easier to acknowledge.
Ive watched this a few times over the years, i find this woman’s strength so amazing. My God anyone can use the internet.
When those three men showed up to save her, that was the Grace of Almighty God! I pray that she realizes that it was Jesus that rescued her through those men! Thank you lord that they were willing vessels.
Shamira Miller preach
@Shamira Miller Amen
Or a higher power that can't be personified...
Ashley Moore Absolutely and his name is JESUS ❤️
@@shamiramiller5716 KJV Acts 4
12 Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved. (The name of Jesus, Amen.)
Pof is the new Craigslist! Be careful. Most creeps are on there
Jedidja B I totally agree. I watch the show Catfish and I swear so many fake profiles on POF. I'm divorced and I'll stay that way before I go online. People are crazy.
Jedidja B 🤣😂😂😂😂
Creeps are everywhere
Jedidja B I agree
Stay off POF.
When mental illness and hyper masculinity become unspoken truths the results are tragic. I’m just so happy this young lady was able to survive and tell her story, and may God be with all the families affected by these acts of crime.
Indeed!
Thank you for pointing this out!
Mental illness is very real .. there needs to be better help for those dealing with these issues
Tommy Arrington Bless you and your family Sir. Well spoken.
Tommy Arrington im happy shes alive
This doesn’t happen when dating apps too, situations like this happens everywhere. At home, school, outside, park, store, mall, and etc. Sad truth
Lock him up and throw away the key. Bad seed. No place in society for him.
legendary_ cheez3: My Man...hahaha
Patti Carey
Well said.
Patti Carey yep
legendary_ cheez3 😂😂😂😂😂
Patti Carey hey cutie. You are very preety. Do you wanna meet up? I like short haired naughty milfs. Maybe we could have some fun together.. hit me up if you are interested m'lady ❤💋
WHY WOULD YOU MEET SOMEONE WHO IS THREATENING TO KILL YOU AND YOUR SON??? Ladies. First Red Flag. Run. Stop making excuses.
Exactly
ua-cam.com/video/jHfeb1q84e4/v-deo.html HE RAPS
She's crazy, I would never
Ive been abused by a narcissist before. They make you feel like it's all your fault. I never thought my self-esteem was that low but it can happen.
@@michellehubbard8865 Yes. Their PROFESSIONALS Manipulators. Just remember only LOSERS criticize and insult you. WINNERS are too busy enjoy their lives.
The sad part is there still women who seen this and would still date this killer probably even put money on his books right now
Women love crazy bitches like this I guess lol
"I pity the fool."
Yes. You are right and that's such a sad truth.
Most likely a black woman
I would, just being honest
I’m sorry, but after he threatened your child and your family there should be no reason to meet or continue the conversation. And then you got in the car with him alone. 🤦🏾♀️
If he threatened her kid/family and she still went and met him it says a lot about both of them. That is very disturbing.
Rhiy Sunray That’s what I’m saying 😂
Y’all don’t know the effects of an abused woman and how they act. She was trying to protect her family. Males will never know, that’s why y’all will victim blame when it’s completely inappropriate.
@@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358 or maybe she's just dumb?
Fr, I would've showed up with the police and drove off once they got him
@@ejhdbegbeidishdj9358 “males will never know” you don’t sound any better.
A lot can be said about the eyes…he has crazy looking eyes.
Eyes are the windows to the soul.
Yes those dead eyes!
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I be telling ppl that. Look in the eyes !
He's a psychopath.
Yesssss!! It's always in the eyes
Because of my ex husband's craziness, I'll remain single. People are crazy. I met him and thought wow what a gentleman, but the devil is a deceitful being. I'll just use toys. Thanks
lol... I'll just use toys...lol
Very safe, and disease free...lol
@@johnbakasmoothhotchocolate ok, this is exactly what a crazy person would say...
No pun intended tho.. lol
P.S. You arent crazy, right??
Erica Dozier Yeah and under a video like this on top of it cud make one look suspect but ldk. Hope he finds love one day as long as he isnt dangerous.
Same with my ex!
TRUTH!!! I been there myself live and learn ....👏👏
Do not date online. Please. Don’t do it. To many predators.
Ladies the perfect guy is always a red flag watch out!!!! It's a game!!
So is the perfect woman!!!
@Toni Martin No he wasn't perfect but she said he presented himself as such. This type of behavior is typical of sociopaths especially when it comes to online behavior. They present themselves as everything they feel you want and then quickly shift to apathetic or violent behavior. People should be mindful...in no way was he perfect and that's my point. BE AWARE.
@@No12Talk2 I'm sure you're single for many other reasons smh
@@TheWinterShadow true too
Man you read my mind I was just going to say the same thing.
Life lesson #437: Never give your stalker a ride.
0 5 lmaoooooooooo
Omg help us Jesus
Yeah never fall for the lets go ride and talk. Nope. Cut off all contact
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@@mooret212 💯💯💯
So...agreed to meet up after him he threatened your son and the rest of your family. That was the sign. 🧐
Mon Cherie right? That was so scary listening to him threaten her son and family...i certainly wouldn't be meeting his crazy ass for lunch.
“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”
Ephesians 6:12 NIV