0:00 don't fall in love-danko jones 3:22 don't wanna fall in love-green day 4:58 aromantic-moodboard 7:30 despair-LEO 10:23 heart heavy-mother mother 14:16 o my heart-mother mother 17:45 why can't we be friends-WAR 21:33 chloe moriondo-kalmia kid
recently realized that i’m probably aro after years of assuming i was bi or pan because everyone is cute but i don’t want anything past friendship with them. so hi lol
So hi lol. I thought that I was pan and demisexual for 3 years until I figured out why I kept loosing feelings during a relationship I had with a girl. And why every crush I had, I realized that they were fake ones. I just think that everybody is amazing and beautiful the way they are but I never wanted anything past a friendship with them either. And I’ve tried to be in relationships before and it never worked out. So, yeah. Happy pride month. Wilbur Soot and the band LoveJoy he leads are a pretty good band. Will is aromantic himself also :}
I recently started to notice how i felt disconected to other people when someone started talking about love. For a long time i had thought i was bi or pan because i felt unatracted to any gender, and i thought i was equally atracted, because i did not know i just was not. But because i am like, a disaster, i think a lot of things and overthink A FUCKING LOT, so i usually run away from my mind to avoid overthinking. But, recently, a friend of mine gave me a little note in class that read the following: "who is your crush? Do not say you dont have one." I always thought i was just not in love at the moment. But seeing how ALL of my friends jumped in and out of love from one day to other, and reading that note made me realize i was the only one that did not feel that way. "isn't this what she felt...?" I asked myself one day thinking about a character from my favorite manga. This character said she loved things that said things about love, such as songs, tv series, books... but that she herself never felt it. She knew what "love" was. But she did not have it. She never knew what it really was. Even knowing she was not able to feel it, she still wanted a connection. But it was impossible. Her story takes a turn, it separates from my experience. She found some one who found a key to her heart. My principal reference fell in love. She turned out demiromantic, wich is ok. But having this character change left me doubting even more. "Will my story become something like hers?" "How can someone not feel and then just feel suddently?" I was in pure confusion. Until i went back to the manga and read it again. There was another character that would be the answer to my crisis. He always watched people fall in and out of love like i did. He enjoyed the stories and had fun watching them like i did. But when someone fell in love with him, he decided to go away. He does not want to be loved or to love someone. By watching my similarities with him i realized how i enjoyed to see the people love and be loved, but still kept some things of the other character, like wanting a conection but being unable to get it. Friends, family, describe that love like a little spark that lives between two persons. Like magic. To me, that magic was something imposible. I always told my mother: "when i grow up your grandchildren are going to be cats." She replied: "maybe youll find someone who you want to love and grow old with, maybe you will have kids" No. Thats not it. That little spark of magic lives between friends to me. Between people i like but not in a romantic way. That magic is in my beloved books, in drawings, in music. But never in a partner. And that is okay. To shorten, here are some lyrics of a song i like, writen by an artist in the aro spectrum: "I can be myself without explanation" Thank you for reading, i like to write things like this :) the manga is bloom into you by nio nakatani. The story and art are pure gold, it is one of the best GL and romance manga, please give it a try, you wont regret it. The charactes are the protagonist: Yuu koito, and a secondary character: Maki (i don't remeber his last name lol, i think it was seiji?) The song is "advice" by cavetown. Also i liked despair before i knew i was aro. How tf did i not realize bruh
I may be aro but im also deeply affection/touch starved so im stuck in a constant loop of "omg i think im in love" anytime anyone gives me the slightest bit of attention but "ew wait i dont want to date them tho" anytime i get the vibe someone caught even slightest bit of romantic feels for me.
Omggg i feel the same, honestly i recomend getting a stuffed animal haha, i love mine, really helps with the touch starved thing, and its always available to cuddle with!! I also think that the "omg im in love feeling" is that you like the idea of someone caring about you and giving you the time of day, but wouldn't actually want it in a romantic way, and you could probably just want that in a friendship way where u have a friend who just wants to hang out with you and give u attention. However the sucky thing about this world is that not only is it hard to find friendships like that, but also that anytime someone new does do this, a lot of the time they just want to date you, and then you later possibly resent them or distance urself from them because you don't want the friendship to go in that direction. Or even you could possibly want a queer platonic relationship, which is like basically beyond and deeper than a regular friendship. But also here are some things that may help u with your journey, orchidromantic meaning that you can feel romantic feelings but do not wish to pursue or desire a romantic relationship. Also you could be purely aromantic and just another part sexual, meaning that you can feel any type of attraction to someone else, meaning that you find people attractive but you wouldn't want to pursue a romantic relationship with them. But also this is your journey so you don't have to take my advice, and also do research on different identities in the community both on the aromantic spectrum and sexual spectrum (asexual spectrum and also the regular spectrum like heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual)
I do feel love, but not romantic love. I can't feel romantic attraction towards someone, i only feel sexual attraction, only physical, but not romantically. I always thought i was a weirdo because of that, but not anymore, I honestly feel relieved that i do not need love to survive. You know like those people that think without a relationship or marriage they are going to be miserable forever. So I'm happy i do not have to depend on somebody else to feel happiness
@@yuckywormbug you can be gray-romantic and panromantic at the same time since gray-romantic is a way of loving people, it's not that I generate love in return panromantic yes
I remember my friend asking me if i'm inlove with someone in my class. And my Aromantic ass straight up said: " what's love? Is it eatable?" Like, i actually meant it-
I had the same situation where a friend asked if there was anyone I liked and I just choose the first person to came to mind at random because I thought it'd be weird if I didn't like someone, and I committed to saying I liked him for a solid two years until I forgot he existed. I never even had a conversation with this guy, how did I convince my friends I liked him? Idk but somehow they bought it
"I think that I'm in love, but only with the thought, oh, only with the thought." most relatable lyric ever. - a pansexual who's panicking over his sexual orientation so maybe aromantic but I've already changed my sexual orientation so much and changing it again will be annoying and ah- sorry for venting out my thoughts to strangers on the Internet okay bye 🙃
Omg MOOD💀 I've gone from label to label too, but I've eventually found labels that stick. Its a long journey and don't feel bad about finding what firs you
going from label to label is cool and recommended - a genderfluid (on a serious note, dont ever feel like you cant explore cause you changed your label too much, you dont have to wait a week for a new username, this is real life!)
I doubt im aromantic, deep down i would like a relationship with a partner but im too scared of that kind of relationship for various reasons, but these songs seem to describe exactly what im feeling. Apologies if I shouldn't even be here-- yall are amazing and im mostly here for the music.
In my opinion you don’t have to be aromatic or any specific to listen to a playlist ppl wouldn’t have shared songs if it weren’t for everyone to listen to
For me I used to want the romantic attention from people but any time I got anywhere close to it I felt so off and I start to wish nothing had ever happened between me and the person and the thing is, no one that I’ve been involved with has ever overstepped my boundaries or acted rude or mean to me so that’s how I realized it. And I still feel obligated to get into a relationship 😭😭
This is my favorite Aromantic playlist out there, and I was really excited to listen to it because I'm AroAce, but I just got invalidated BY ANOTHER AROACE. ... I DIDN'T THINK THAT WAS POSSIBLE-
Thank you so much for this playlist! It's pretty hard to find non-romantic songs, let alone outright "anti"-romantic ones, and there were a few here I didn't know about =D Especially Leo - Despair. I've never heard it before, but I was instantly charmed. Also I relate to it a lot, I've been having doubts that I might be demiromantic, because one of my friends, but calling that feeling love doesn't sit right with me. The song captured my feelings pretty dang well (even if it's not about a situation like mine)
I'm not only Aromantic and Ace, but also Aplatonic (unable to love platonically or get attatched to people), so i often don't get the appeal of ANY of this sex, love and friendship stuff 😭
@@kyapiloveless2217 no need to be sorry, I haven't just let loose for awhile like that (dancing, headbanging and other random stuff) I really like rocky-ish music!
The representation 😭❤️ I vibe with all of these. Really really love it! I think you've reintroduced me to a genre I didn't like before but now I think I really do!
This is such a good playlist! Lmao when the first song started I started singing "every one thinks they know the story..." idk why I thought that would be on an aro playlist tho In all seriousness tho every song on this playlist is banging
My Demiromantic Ass listening to aromantic playlist, because there are barely any playlist or songs about being demiromantic. But since I am part of the aromantic spectrum I guess that’s totally fine
that’s just how it is sometimes lmao, these songs hit a bit better than the demiromantic ones bc 9 times out of 10 im not liking anyone, as a demi-aroace
was having a shit day and all the sad/comfort songs i put on felt like they were just reminding me i don't have an s/o to comfort me so. this helps a lot, thank you
From an aroace person, for anyone who struggles romantically or are little to none aromantic, please PLEASE talk to your person about it. please talk to them early on so you can avoid hurting each other later. (also W playlist)
I don’t know if I’m aromantic or asexual or both or not. I’ve never experienced any crushes or romantic love. My friends all have, we’re at the age where we’ll (probably) be dating a lot more and eventually finding a serious relationship in the next few years. But I’ve never felt love. I’ve never been opposed to the idea of a marriage , and I do want children (although I won’t have any because I’d be a terrible parent) having a married partner sometimes just doesn’t sit right with me. Or having a dating partner - it just feels a bit weird to imagine myself with someone. And intimate acts - I don’t know, for those I have noncommittal feelings about. What I guess is more messed up is that I don’t really know what love as a whole feels like - I don’t know what platonic or familial love feels like. I have friends, yes, but I’ve never felt any strong emotions that I could feel and just say to myself, ‘That’s love.’ The concept just seems so foreign sometimes. So maybe I’m messed up or something or maybe I’m aromantic or asexual or a psychopath. I dunno
holy sholy i used to listen to kalmia kid a loottt and was like “ah nice song about love i think :D” but listening to it again with the context of this playlist,, i realize now that it’s not really /about/ that romantic love. and in it chloe sings that it’s still fine by her if she only feels love thru things other than people. and that sticks with me now. cuz i see so much romance in media (i especially love women, they are awesome and so pretty), i’m like “wowza that’s so cool i wanna be in a relationship that sounds so nice and sweet.” but i don’t, and i feel pressured to like.. “crush” on girls, or rather, to think the feelings i’m feeling are romantic , when they’re probably just platonic. i feel like i’m placebo’ing my self. anyway, sorry for the rant. the most recent wlw couple im obsessing over is lumity, like oh my stars they’re adorable. and i feel alone and so single. but maybe that’s ok. i still feel so much love for everything, everyone.. i love the world, i love people, i love nature, the universe, everything… and i should focus on what i have, not what i don’t have. i’ll be listening to this playlist , thank you kind person for this ♥️
Every aromantic playlist I've heard have made me realize that I might have been aromantic since I was 12 😭 bc i didn't even feel attracted to the ppl i was online dating, i just forced myself to do it to feel normal
so i just figured out im aroace because i kept breaking up with bfs and gfs bc of ‘emotional detachment’ but i really just didn’t like them. i’m still with my current partner just cuz he still loves me, and he’s perfectly fine with me being aroace, and he’s aware i don’t like him. so thank you for this playlist :)
I’m aromatic I love rock, pop, classical, 90s, 80s, and early 2000s music pop is my favorite music 🎵 I love dancing to music and listening to it while I read
Im a asexual but im questioning of im aroace but im in a relationship and i have never felt that connected to people even the person im with so i don’t know what to do
Only realized a few weeks ago I was aroace. Always assumed I was just pan ace, only realized when my ex told pe they found they were aroace that I finally figured it out (Honest question though, how do I tell my girlfriend I'm aroace)
Broo… dudeee… i feel bad for being Aromantic .. because dude. I don’t get it No now i know why i’m feeling this way: Feels like i can’t be just friends with someone. Like if i’ve gotten close to a person, something’s gotta happen. Like it’s either an expectation, a disappointment, or something else I feel so lonely
im technically nebularomantic but i call myself aro bc i dont rlly want a relationship, is that okay???? im literally so confused as to if im being rude to others
I am specifically Nebularomantic, but barely anyone knows what that is so when someone asks i often just say aro. I thought i was aro for a longgggg time
@@starzxspam Nebularomantic is from a person's Nerodivergency (ADHD, Autism, dyslexia, OCD. I have ADHD) basically, for me it's hard to tell the difference between platonic attraction and romantic attraction. So like if I wanna be friends with a person because they make me happy or I want to be romantically involved with them👍
I’m starting to get really confused with myself. I keep thinking I’m head over heels in love but loose feelings quickly and realize I just really admired and thought the person was cool and it wasn’t love. This keeps happening I dunno why I’m struggling so much 😰😰😰😰
Yoooo, my high s3x attracted but absolutely no romantic ass lovin this playlist!! But all things aside i've only ever felt either platonic love or i wanna do the devil's tango with you then go back to talking about our personal interestes w/o becoming "something more" bc i ain't interested but can't really do that bc finding ppl is difficult and in our culture hook ups don't exist unless you are in a commited relationship which i cannot be in but alas i try. One of these days tho i will find a friend with benefits and we will stay friends(btw im an afab gender- fluid bisexual with bearly any luck)lol Also amazing taste in music love (platonically)
I have so many photos, a radio, 19 CD’s a small percentage of them are Christmas music because I love Christmas I want ballet music, stuffed animals, a ton of books, a small collection of manga, too many movies 🍿 📚 🩰 🎄🎶 💿
Being Aromantic is so isolating sometimes. Don't get me wrong, I love being Aromantic! But sometimes it feels like all of your friends are going to find a person/people to date and then where does that leave you? Um anyways, definitely going to have to add these songs to a playlist on spotify!
Dating a girl, for the first time ever, and I think I might be aro. I love her, but I a friend way. I don't know. I'm scared. We used to hold hands and hug and share food and stuff all the time before we started dating, and I was fine. I was so happy, and I care about her so much. When we do those things now, I feel sort of sick. At first I attributed it to my being autistic, and as just a thing I get when I try new things, due to the new context of those things. It's become clear that isn't the case. I can't do it anymore. I don't like lying to her, but I'm terrified of hurting her and ruining one of my most important friendships. If anyone could offer some advice, I'd be more than willing to take it :')
I’m still not sure if I’m gray-romantic or aromatic but I never had a crush yet all my friends dated someone or loved someone but I think about having love but to me that’s hanging out with someone that’s special to you and being happy but idk
Hello! Can I ask, how do I really know if I'm aromantic? I've been asking myself about my sexuality. Normally I would have fall in love with someone but for some reason, during my time in a relationship... It suddenly felt like a chore, I forced myself to have a crush to find that love Ig- I'm still asking myself whether if I'm aromantic or not. Although I fall in love with fictional characters.
If you like the aromantic label - use it! Only you can decide if you're aromantic or not. A tip that might help you know if you feel romantic attraction is to imagine if you're really wanting to be in a romantic relationship with someone, or if you can only imagine the relationship going as far as friendship. If you only fall in love with fictional characters, you might consider the labels "fictoromance" or "fictosexual," which basically means you only really feel attraction towards fictional characters. Don't be afraid to do some research on the topic! The youtube channel Spacey Aces has some great videos that might help you understand what label works best for you, if you need a place to start. Hope this helps!
0:00 don't fall in love-danko jones
3:22 don't wanna fall in love-green day
4:58 aromantic-moodboard
7:30 despair-LEO
10:23 heart heavy-mother mother
14:16 o my heart-mother mother
17:45 why can't we be friends-WAR
21:33 chloe moriondo-kalmia kid
I rlly like the 1st one. And the last one ☆
recently realized that i’m probably aro after years of assuming i was bi or pan because everyone is cute but i don’t want anything past friendship with them. so hi lol
I thought I was lesbian 😅
The common pipeline 😭😭
This 😭😭 I dont know what to do with the bi flag my friend gave me 💀
@@thisisathreat4749 make a bi friend and give it to them
So hi lol. I thought that I was pan and demisexual for 3 years until I figured out why I kept loosing feelings during a relationship I had with a girl. And why every crush I had, I realized that they were fake ones. I just think that everybody is amazing and beautiful the way they are but I never wanted anything past a friendship with them either. And I’ve tried to be in relationships before and it never worked out. So, yeah. Happy pride month. Wilbur Soot and the band LoveJoy he leads are a pretty good band. Will is aromantic himself also :}
I recently started to notice how i felt disconected to other people when someone started talking about love. For a long time i had thought i was bi or pan because i felt unatracted to any gender, and i thought i was equally atracted, because i did not know i just was not. But because i am like, a disaster, i think a lot of things and overthink A FUCKING LOT, so i usually run away from my mind to avoid overthinking. But, recently, a friend of mine gave me a little note in class that read the following: "who is your crush? Do not say you dont have one."
I always thought i was just not in love at the moment. But seeing how ALL of my friends jumped in and out of love from one day to other, and reading that note made me realize i was the only one that did not feel that way.
"isn't this what she felt...?" I asked myself one day thinking about a character from my favorite manga. This character said she loved things that said things about love, such as songs, tv series, books... but that she herself never felt it. She knew what "love" was. But she did not have it. She never knew what it really was. Even knowing she was not able to feel it, she still wanted a connection. But it was impossible.
Her story takes a turn, it separates from my experience. She found some one who found a key to her heart. My principal reference fell in love. She turned out demiromantic, wich is ok. But having this character change left me doubting even more. "Will my story become something like hers?" "How can someone not feel and then just feel suddently?"
I was in pure confusion. Until i went back to the manga and read it again. There was another character that would be the answer to my crisis.
He always watched people fall in and out of love like i did. He enjoyed the stories and had fun watching them like i did. But when someone fell in love with him, he decided to go away. He does not want to be loved or to love someone.
By watching my similarities with him i realized how i enjoyed to see the people love and be loved, but still kept some things of the other character, like wanting a conection but being unable to get it.
Friends, family, describe that love like a little spark that lives between two persons. Like magic.
To me, that magic was something imposible. I always told my mother: "when i grow up your grandchildren are going to be cats."
She replied: "maybe youll find someone who you want to love and grow old with, maybe you will have kids"
No. Thats not it.
That little spark of magic lives between friends to me. Between people i like but not in a romantic way. That magic is in my beloved books, in drawings, in music. But never in a partner. And that is okay. To shorten, here are some lyrics of a song i like, writen by an artist in the aro spectrum:
"I can be myself without explanation"
Thank you for reading, i like to write things like this :)
the manga is bloom into you by nio nakatani. The story and art are pure gold, it is one of the best GL and romance manga, please give it a try, you wont regret it. The charactes are the protagonist: Yuu koito, and a secondary character: Maki (i don't remeber his last name lol, i think it was seiji?)
The song is "advice" by cavetown.
Also i liked despair before i knew i was aro. How tf did i not realize bruh
cats >>>> human children
cats are overall better, cuter, less expensive, and you don't have to spend as much time with them
Ah, Bloom Into You.
It's also my favorite manga/anime.
Bloom Into You))
I may be aro but im also deeply affection/touch starved so im stuck in a constant loop of "omg i think im in love" anytime anyone gives me the slightest bit of attention but "ew wait i dont want to date them tho" anytime i get the vibe someone caught even slightest bit of romantic feels for me.
Omggg i feel the same, honestly i recomend getting a stuffed animal haha, i love mine, really helps with the touch starved thing, and its always available to cuddle with!! I also think that the "omg im in love feeling" is that you like the idea of someone caring about you and giving you the time of day, but wouldn't actually want it in a romantic way, and you could probably just want that in a friendship way where u have a friend who just wants to hang out with you and give u attention. However the sucky thing about this world is that not only is it hard to find friendships like that, but also that anytime someone new does do this, a lot of the time they just want to date you, and then you later possibly resent them or distance urself from them because you don't want the friendship to go in that direction. Or even you could possibly want a queer platonic relationship, which is like basically beyond and deeper than a regular friendship. But also here are some things that may help u with your journey, orchidromantic meaning that you can feel romantic feelings but do not wish to pursue or desire a romantic relationship. Also you could be purely aromantic and just another part sexual, meaning that you can feel any type of attraction to someone else, meaning that you find people attractive but you wouldn't want to pursue a romantic relationship with them. But also this is your journey so you don't have to take my advice, and also do research on different identities in the community both on the aromantic spectrum and sexual spectrum (asexual spectrum and also the regular spectrum like heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual)
same, omg same
SAME FR 😭😭
I feel the same
SAMEEE
I do feel love, but not romantic love. I can't feel romantic attraction towards someone, i only feel sexual attraction, only physical, but not romantically. I always thought i was a weirdo because of that, but not anymore, I honestly feel relieved that i do not need love to survive. You know like those people that think without a relationship or marriage they are going to be miserable forever. So I'm happy i do not have to depend on somebody else to feel happiness
Listening to this while having an aromantic crisis and on a walk👍
I felt that
help is this a sign 😭😭😭 every single song is relatable asf
X2 😔
welcome to the no romo club
Welcome👁️👁️
welcome to the club buddy.
-asexual lesbian demiro who's also a dumbass what doesn't know their gender
My fear is being lonely forever 😵💫 but I don’t want a relationship
I'm not sure if I'm really aromantic, but I have rarely had any love attraction. My first one was platonic, mostly.
I think you are grey-aromatic/gris-aromantic since you rarely feel romantic attraction
@@kyapiloveless2217 maybe, I don't have much research on lgtbq but from what I know I might be panromantic? Not sure but we'll see.
@@yuckywormbug you can be gray-romantic and panromantic at the same time since gray-romantic is a way of loving people, it's not that I generate love in return panromantic yes
@@kyapiloveless2217 ah, I didn't know lol
seeing as this was a year ago, I'm curious if you have figured it out yet lol, it took me way too long to finally come to terms with being aromantic.
I remember my friend asking me if i'm inlove with someone in my class. And my Aromantic ass straight up said: " what's love? Is it eatable?" Like, i actually meant it-
So relatable
I had the same situation where a friend asked if there was anyone I liked and I just choose the first person to came to mind at random because I thought it'd be weird if I didn't like someone, and I committed to saying I liked him for a solid two years until I forgot he existed. I never even had a conversation with this guy, how did I convince my friends I liked him? Idk but somehow they bought it
"it is editable" im stealing that omg, im gonna use this response if someone asks if i'm in love with anyone.
@@warriorcatkitty do it. The look on their faces are always priceless.
Yeah I doubt you’re actually that stupid. There’s no way you didn’t grow up hearing everyone around you saying they love someone.
i rarely find any aro playlists that arent songs abt heartbreak so this a quality playlist
im not aromantic
but i do have a oc that is and i like to imagine animations that i will never make about him to these songs :p
edit: nvm i am aroace
AHHH SAME! (Exept i am aro lol)
The edit is killing me HAHA hope your discovery was nice!!
Lol the edit
Me fr except I basically realized I was aro ace pretty soon after I heard of it
Lol that update.
"I think that I'm in love, but only with the thought, oh, only with the thought." most relatable lyric ever. - a pansexual who's panicking over his sexual orientation so maybe aromantic but I've already changed my sexual orientation so much and changing it again will be annoying and ah- sorry for venting out my thoughts to strangers on the Internet okay bye 🙃
Omg MOOD💀 I've gone from label to label too, but I've eventually found labels that stick. Its a long journey and don't feel bad about finding what firs you
going from label to label is cool and recommended
- a genderfluid
(on a serious note, dont ever feel like you cant explore cause you changed your label too much, you dont have to wait a week for a new username, this is real life!)
I doubt im aromantic, deep down i would like a relationship with a partner but im too scared of that kind of relationship for various reasons, but these songs seem to describe exactly what im feeling.
Apologies if I shouldn't even be here-- yall are amazing and im mostly here for the music.
In my opinion you don’t have to be aromatic or any specific to listen to a playlist ppl wouldn’t have shared songs if it weren’t for everyone to listen to
For me I used to want the romantic attention from people but any time I got anywhere close to it I felt so off and I start to wish nothing had ever happened between me and the person and the thing is, no one that I’ve been involved with has ever overstepped my boundaries or acted rude or mean to me so that’s how I realized it. And I still feel obligated to get into a relationship 😭😭
This is my favorite Aromantic playlist out there, and I was really excited to listen to it because I'm AroAce, but I just got invalidated BY ANOTHER AROACE. ... I DIDN'T THINK THAT WAS POSSIBLE-
sadly it's very possible 😭it's happened to me before hghfghv
Oh-
Probs because a lot of us have such different experiences, there's like at least a hundred flavours of aroace
As an aromantic this is FUCKING cool
Not even aro, I just love you guys’ taste in music-
OMG, THIS PLAYLIST IS TOO GOOD I--
Thanks!
As an aromantic lesbian I love this playlist sm!!!🫶🫶🫶
lmao wasn’t expecting why can’t we be friends
this playlist is great and so relatable which is very cool hehe thank you!
Thank you so much for this playlist! It's pretty hard to find non-romantic songs, let alone outright "anti"-romantic ones, and there were a few here I didn't know about =D
Especially Leo - Despair. I've never heard it before, but I was instantly charmed. Also I relate to it a lot, I've been having doubts that I might be demiromantic, because one of my friends, but calling that feeling love doesn't sit right with me. The song captured my feelings pretty dang well (even if it's not about a situation like mine)
I'm not only Aromantic and Ace, but also Aplatonic (unable to love platonically or get attatched to people), so i often don't get the appeal of ANY of this sex, love and friendship stuff 😭
Yikes bro you got the whole pack!
AAA battery in an unconventional way lol
the first two songs slap so fuckin hard!
I'm sorry, it's that I always put the songs that I like the most at the beginning and well my taste is a bit of rock and pank
@@kyapiloveless2217 no need to be sorry, I haven't just let loose for awhile like that (dancing, headbanging and other random stuff) I really like rocky-ish music!
The kitten is so cute!
My aro self loving this music
The representation 😭❤️
I vibe with all of these. Really really love it!
I think you've reintroduced me to a genre I didn't like before but now I think I really do!
This playlist is really good! May just be me, but despair(7:30) has demiromantic vibes imo- /pos
Squish vibes fit better I think
-AAA battery any pronouns you can’t mess this up
This is such a good playlist!
Lmao when the first song started I started singing "every one thinks they know the story..." idk why I thought that would be on an aro playlist tho
In all seriousness tho every song on this playlist is banging
My Demiromantic Ass listening to aromantic playlist, because there are barely any playlist or songs about being demiromantic. But since I am part of the aromantic spectrum I guess that’s totally fine
that’s just how it is sometimes lmao, these songs hit a bit better than the demiromantic ones bc 9 times out of 10 im not liking anyone, as a demi-aroace
I had to pause the playlist part-way through to collect myself because I have never found so many songs that could be so relatable
I ADORE this playlist !! Also adore the picture
Im not aromantic but this playlist is really nice :)
Thanks! :D
Same
was having a shit day and all the sad/comfort songs i put on felt like they were just reminding me i don't have an s/o to comfort me so. this helps a lot, thank you
Thank you so much for this. I have been trying to find an aromantic playlist that contains the music style I actually like ☺️
this is a really good playlist!!! i vibed with it on a cosmic level
hahaha i recently fount out i am aromatic... and "why cant we be friends" hits soooo different
From an aroace person, for anyone who struggles romantically or are little to none aromantic, please PLEASE talk to your person about it. please talk to them early on so you can avoid hurting each other later. (also W playlist)
I remember commenting like 1 year ago wondering if I was aromantic. Lol yeah, I am
Now that goes straight to my playlists playlist
Romantic Love? Never heard of it
THIS PLAYLIST ROCKS THANK U
hugs you and wishes you a great day/evening/night platonically because this rocks and this is awesome
After years of thinking I was bi I actually realized I was aro and graysexual
the first song is my anthem!!! ✊
GREEN DAY??? OH THIS IS THE GREATEST PLAYLIST IVE *EVER* HEARD
I'm somehow a mix of Asexual And Hypersexual but i am definitely sure I'm aromantic, and the only times i act romantic is when i use sarcasm tbh
Same. I hope your doing alright
I'm a aro surrounded by love, and it makes no sense to me, so I've become so obsessed with it trying to understand it
And playlists like this calm that obsession down so much
You either feel it or you don’t. Peoples love isn’t your cringe science experiment. Shove off.
I don’t know if I’m aromantic or asexual or both or not.
I’ve never experienced any crushes or romantic love. My friends all have, we’re at the age where we’ll (probably) be dating a lot more and eventually finding a serious relationship in the next few years.
But I’ve never felt love. I’ve never been opposed to the idea of a marriage , and I do want children (although I won’t have any because I’d be a terrible parent) having a married partner sometimes just doesn’t sit right with me. Or having a dating partner - it just feels a bit weird to imagine myself with someone. And intimate acts - I don’t know, for those I have noncommittal feelings about. What I guess is more messed up is that I don’t really know what love as a whole feels like - I don’t know what platonic or familial love feels like. I have friends, yes, but I’ve never felt any strong emotions that I could feel and just say to myself, ‘That’s love.’ The concept just seems so foreign sometimes. So maybe I’m messed up or something or maybe I’m aromantic or asexual or a psychopath. I dunno
You def sound aro or aroace ua-cam.com/video/O1DQ_x_mxV4/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared
I’m somehow bisexual but also aroace, Thank u for the playlist man ❤
Finally! I have been searching for this playlist for too long :,D
holy sholy i used to listen to kalmia kid a loottt and was like “ah nice song about love i think :D” but listening to it again with the context of this playlist,, i realize now that it’s not really /about/ that romantic love. and in it chloe sings that it’s still fine by her if she only feels love thru things other than people. and that sticks with me now. cuz i see so much romance in media (i especially love women, they are awesome and so pretty), i’m like “wowza that’s so cool i wanna be in a relationship that sounds so nice and sweet.” but i don’t, and i feel pressured to like.. “crush” on girls, or rather, to think the feelings i’m feeling are romantic , when they’re probably just platonic. i feel like i’m placebo’ing my self.
anyway, sorry for the rant. the most recent wlw couple im obsessing over is lumity, like oh my stars they’re adorable. and i feel alone and so single. but maybe that’s ok. i still feel so much love for everything, everyone.. i love the world, i love people, i love nature, the universe, everything… and i should focus on what i have, not what i don’t have.
i’ll be listening to this playlist , thank you kind person for this ♥️
I'm not aromantic but y'all have a good taste in music
Thanks for this playlist!
Currently questioning my sexuallity because I saw a realllllyyyy cute goth girl sitting next to me
romance is BORINNGGG
You're pouting in your sleep, I'm waking, still yawning
My favorite aromantic song is called yellow roses
Every aromantic playlist I've heard have made me realize that I might have been aromantic since I was 12 😭 bc i didn't even feel attracted to the ppl i was online dating, i just forced myself to do it to feel normal
I’m Demi romantic gay, non-binary/trans and repulsed ace :]
Sooooo- I was first bi, then lesbian, then pan, then lesbian again, now I’m aro- help
I thought I was bi or pan til I found out I'm aro ace lol
@@localdragonpuppeteer This is the pipeline lol
I managed to skip it by watching that jaiden video
Omg thank you so much😭🙏(i'm Aromantic)
so i just figured out im aroace because i kept breaking up with bfs and gfs bc of ‘emotional detachment’ but i really just didn’t like them. i’m still with my current partner just cuz he still loves me, and he’s perfectly fine with me being aroace, and he’s aware i don’t like him. so thank you for this playlist :)
HAPPY ARO SPEC AWARENESS WEEK MY FELLOW AROSSSS 🧄🍞
this is absolutely great
Woah this playlist was made exactly a year ago
I’m aromatic I love rock, pop, classical, 90s, 80s, and early 2000s music pop is my favorite music 🎵 I love dancing to music and listening to it while I read
Im a asexual but im questioning of im aroace but im in a relationship and i have never felt that connected to people even the person im with so i don’t know what to do
I agree with the first ones. I don’t wanna fall in love
Only realized a few weeks ago I was aroace. Always assumed I was just pan ace, only realized when my ex told pe they found they were aroace that I finally figured it out
(Honest question though, how do I tell my girlfriend I'm aroace)
Happy pride month 🏳️🌈
Omfg i love this playlist
I am aroace flux so any asexual playlists do 😂
Cute cat
The 3rd song hits too close to home.
Broo… dudeee… i feel bad for being Aromantic .. because dude. I don’t get it
No now i know why i’m feeling this way:
Feels like i can’t be just friends with someone. Like if i’ve gotten close to a person, something’s gotta happen. Like it’s either an expectation, a disappointment, or something else
I feel so lonely
Womp womp
I've watched this... I can't count that high, sorry. Anyways, UA-cam knows that if I come on UA-cam I most likely want to watch this video.
WOOOO
Everytime I type “ despair animatic “ I keep seeing romantic animatics. It’s a bit disturbing
im technically nebularomantic but i call myself aro bc i dont rlly want a relationship, is that okay???? im literally so confused as to if im being rude to others
I am specifically Nebularomantic, but barely anyone knows what that is so when someone asks i often just say aro. I thought i was aro for a longgggg time
Explainnnnnnn
@@starzxspam Nebularomantic is from a person's Nerodivergency (ADHD, Autism, dyslexia, OCD. I have ADHD) basically, for me it's hard to tell the difference between platonic attraction and romantic attraction. So like if I wanna be friends with a person because they make me happy or I want to be romantically involved with them👍
@@zoedaniels ooooooooohhhh, sounds like me lol-
I’m aromantic, and all I ever really wanted was either a platonic relationship or a casual relationship. Nothing more imao 🤷♀️
finally my community :sob:
Love is too depressing. This is a nice break away from it.
I’m starting to get really confused with myself. I keep thinking I’m head over heels in love but loose feelings quickly and realize I just really admired and thought the person was cool and it wasn’t love. This keeps happening I dunno why I’m struggling so much 😰😰😰😰
Yoooo, my high s3x attracted but absolutely no romantic ass lovin this playlist!! But all things aside i've only ever felt either platonic love or i wanna do the devil's tango with you then go back to talking about our personal interestes w/o becoming "something more" bc i ain't interested but can't really do that bc finding ppl is difficult and in our culture hook ups don't exist unless you are in a commited relationship which i cannot be in but alas i try. One of these days tho i will find a friend with benefits and we will stay friends(btw im an afab gender- fluid bisexual with bearly any luck)lol
Also amazing taste in music love (platonically)
wow demiromantic ppl are included. I'm welcomed :0000
just realized that i may be aromantic + lithosexual
WHAT DO I DO WITH THE ROBLOX BISEXUAL ITEMS I HAVE IN MY INVENTORY????
I have so many photos, a radio, 19 CD’s a small percentage of them are Christmas music because I love Christmas I want ballet music, stuffed animals, a ton of books, a small collection of manga, too many movies 🍿 📚 🩰 🎄🎶 💿
HELL YEAH ADDiNG THIS TO MY PlaYLISt
Being Aromantic is so isolating sometimes.
Don't get me wrong, I love being Aromantic! But sometimes it feels like all of your friends are going to find a person/people to date and then where does that leave you?
Um anyways, definitely going to have to add these songs to a playlist on spotify!
Im aroace I love this🙏🙏
same
Dating a girl, for the first time ever, and I think I might be aro. I love her, but I a friend way. I don't know. I'm scared.
We used to hold hands and hug and share food and stuff all the time before we started dating, and I was fine. I was so happy, and I care about her so much.
When we do those things now, I feel sort of sick. At first I attributed it to my being autistic, and as just a thing I get when I try new things, due to the new context of those things. It's become clear that isn't the case.
I can't do it anymore. I don't like lying to her, but I'm terrified of hurting her and ruining one of my most important friendships.
If anyone could offer some advice, I'd be more than willing to take it :')
This playlist slaps harder than my responsibilities
Update: I figured out I'm not aromantic, I just hate amanormativity- But I still like to interact with y'all
I’m still not sure if I’m gray-romantic or aromatic but I never had a crush yet all my friends dated someone or loved someone but I think about having love but to me that’s hanging out with someone that’s special to you and being happy but idk
Dunno if "I dont feel romantic attraction. " Counts me 2 be here ToT
What is love? Baby don’t hurt me no more
every Aro are here, huh? so there I am 😁
Thank you
So we all thought we were bi/pan before realizing we were aromantic 😅
Yup 😂
Hello! Can I ask, how do I really know if I'm aromantic? I've been asking myself about my sexuality. Normally I would have fall in love with someone but for some reason, during my time in a relationship... It suddenly felt like a chore, I forced myself to have a crush to find that love Ig- I'm still asking myself whether if I'm aromantic or not. Although I fall in love with fictional characters.
If you like the aromantic label - use it! Only you can decide if you're aromantic or not. A tip that might help you know if you feel romantic attraction is to imagine if you're really wanting to be in a romantic relationship with someone, or if you can only imagine the relationship going as far as friendship.
If you only fall in love with fictional characters, you might consider the labels "fictoromance" or "fictosexual," which basically means you only really feel attraction towards fictional characters.
Don't be afraid to do some research on the topic! The youtube channel Spacey Aces has some great videos that might help you understand what label works best for you, if you need a place to start.
Hope this helps!
@@maryterribilini6520 I appreciate the help 😊
I think I’m aromatic but I’m pansexal 😶