A conversation that i was waiting to have…..🙏🏽
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- For my beautiful mum who will live in my soul forever ♥️
“ i thought you dying would be the worst part,
But i couldn’t survive you being forgotten”
#grieftalk
Ps - im not a trained professional, i have no intention to fix anyones mental health this is just to have a safe space to talk about grief and loss.
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When you really miss your mother but can't see her physically... I can relate to that grief... 😔
Take care sister ❤️
May your mother rest in peace. I wish all her loved ones happiness, healing and strength especially you. She's always watching over you and is soo proud of you. You're a part of her. Wishing the best for her beautiful soul and all her loved ones. Stay strong ❤
Totally relatable , same happened with me....like you said nothing make sense literally the world don't make sense and yes we want to talk about them but we don't get the chance to express our feelings...but I m glad that you are talking about this ❤
It was heartbreaking seeing you voice your grief - can relate completely with you as all of us have lost a parent , a dear friend or a cherished family member in our lifetime ! Totally agree with you about people saying it happens for a reason or it’s God’s will 😢 it actually makes one hurt more 😞 hang in there and enjoy those sweet memories of your dear mum 🤗give yourself time to heal and grieve - warm hugs and much love 🤗🤗 stay strong and take all the time you want - but her spirit will always be with you 🙏🏻🛐
Thank you so much Kanu!!! Finally someone spoke about this!!
What you say is absolutely true. Thre is none who can replace good parents where we have great memories and only time will smoothen the path but will never ever erase memories . We will feel very heavy hearted when we think of the incidents , feel a stone in our throats even if we cherish but gone is gone. SO MANY OF US RUN BEHIND THE UNREAL HAS TO REALIZE THAT BEING WITH PARENTS LOVED ONES PEOPLE WHO SACRIFICE FOR US , make them happy , make them smile , IS THE BEST LUXURY WHICH CANNOT BE EQUALLED BY 10 BEVERLY HILLS VILLAS , LONG ISLAND BUNGLOWS, OR PORSCHES . SO LIVE THE PRESENT IN THE PRESENCE , CHERISH THE MEMORIES OF THE GONE TILL OUR TIME COMES TO JOIN THEM . Life is as simple and light as this ...
Thanks for putting up this video sister...
What a heartfelt vlog ❤ totally relatable. Lost my husband 7 years back and it still feels so fresh . You never move on you just learn to live with your grief. Agree not many ppl have that sensitivity towards grievers.
Completely relate to you Ma'am. I've lost both my parents and wife. I live alone and even today after 10 years I still feel what you have stated. Feels like you spoke directly to me. I wish I had someone who understands the way you do. Thank you
Take care sir ❤
@@shivkumar36 Thank you for taking the time to read and reply to my post.
Means a lot Sir.
Same here Sir
It takes one to recognise another.
Stay blessed my friend.
May God give you strength Sir. Take care ❤
@@Shalini-e4c Thank you Ma'am.🙏
Thanks being vulnerable. I bown down to you in gratitude. 🌼🌼♥️♥️
I lost my mom after 3 months of severe illness of tuberculosis. She passed away from hepatic encephalopathy. This 28th April marks the first year since she's gone.
I'm healing slowly. Although surrounded with many support from family and relatives, but I still have a void within me. She is a wonderful mother and I miss her terribly.
You're absolutely great and please do continue with your work. I hope to collaborate someday with you too. ❤❤❤😅😊
Much love and strength to you sister ❤️
@@Sujen22 thank you so much for your kind support brother. ☺🙏
Dear...I watched this completely and I was crying I can't imagine losing my parents and I love them so much....I understand you.... Sending love and hugs my dear....
Yesterday I’ve been overthinking what would happen to me, my world when such things happen to me. Today I ve come across this video as a good answer to it. Yes, the tip at the end, record videos & photos. Yes, haven’t done it till today, will do it from tomow! Lovely video. Sensible. Thanks for this.
wow. i just saw this video. that was really heavy. but. thank You for sharing, and actually making this video. i am sure it wasn't easy. so for that, i really am grateful and happy for You and wish You great health and joy and everything You need, just enough!
also, thank You for doing this video in english, because this way i could understand. i am from europe, Hungary. :)
Very heartfelt felt video. There is no equivalent replacement but acceptance of the fact and memories are all tat one lives with as life hasn’t ended it’s changed and they are forever present in spirit which is a consolation as we pray their soul now rests in peace with their maker who has called them to their eternal destination. Condolences to you kanu may God give you peace as you go thru the joys of re-living memories with a Smile God Bless
Beautiful heartfelt words. Truly touching🙏
Hello Beti,
I’m so sorry for your loss. That is life. I lost both my parents at a very young age. Not a day goes by when I don’t think of them. I visualize them every time I listen to an old Kishore, Rafi, Lata and Mukesh’s song. I see them every time we eat a certain dish that was their favorite. I see them every time we go to a beautiful resort and every time we have a celebration at home. I often talk to them as if they are sitting in front of me. You’ll get past it but you’ll never get over it. We take 2 things for granted in life, it’s health and our parents. Those whose parents are alive should spend time with their parents.
Me too going thru same as my mom is strongest person in the family. Even i missing her lot and i feel that i have done justice to her as deserved.
So touching and kind of you to open up in such a raw and genuine way…. And thank you you for talking about your mama… what a beautiful woman she sounded to be…please do continue to follow your heart and continue to post more of these videos as well💐
God bless you, i am going through the same pain and understand how it feels. My mom was also a teacher and i also recorded her conversations..so it feels u r speaking my words..I feel exactly the same, everyone has a personal way of handling such painful emotions and its ok..Just hope n pray for healing
Really felt vv sad and am in tears right now while you spoke about your mother ,i still feel the tears when i think ofmy loving parents they were way ahead in their love snd forgiveness , stay strong and happy because thsts what your mother wants for you❤❤❤
Such needed reality that needed to be put back in perspective.
Even applies with general emotions.
Me too lost my loved one before 3 years...😢 Till now I stuck sometime n detached frm this world.... Anyhow ur words r soothing ❤ things will get better always so don't worry 😊
I lost 25 year old son 4 years back i was completly shattered becoz apart from being a son he was my soul mate friend love of my life i had been wanting to end my life but u know it is khel of karmas that u have to live
I am so sorry for your loss
You are very brave
Kanupriya ...just saw this video . Such very deep meaningful words . Sharing your feelings and the connection that happens is really really nice and felt . Loads of love ...mote power to you in this journey of your life.
Kudos Kanupriya ji! You are brave and strong, please stay that way. Thanks for sharing your experience. When I lost my father-in-law I had people tell me very very insensitive stuff. I could not overcome the grief even after an year. Even his own children felt I am over reacting!! What can I say ?? I had lost my best friend and it’s been 8 yrs now and even now I remember him everyday in some conversation or the other! People are weird 🤷🏻♀️
😢❤. Hugs and love.
They may be in a better place i believe that cause I believe in the divine. But I wouldn’t say that to a grieving person cause if that’s true or not , the loss of the person is profound either way. She sounds like an incredible woman thanks for telling us abt her. ❤
Very well said..i am on the same page as you lost my mum around the same time..the void will always remain..😢😢take care stay strong..love Cyrilla..Dubai..
I am someone who has lost both my parents and a very dear friend (more than a friend). And after hearing you today I felt like someone spoke my heart...Thanks
Thank you so much for this video. I lost an aunt few years back and I was totally lost when trying to talk to her daughters. I had absolutely no idea what to say especially since fortunately I never had to go through such trauma myself. I was being so careful not to trigger them or their thoughts about my aunt so much so that I would avoid the topic completely and try to keep them happy and engrossed in other thoughts. After hearing this I feel so bad and will certainly not make this mistake again.
Your UA-cam snippets are wonderful 🎉 both of you are charmers. May God give you strength to overcome your prrdonsl loss ❤
I totally agree with your thoughts!I lost my father father ,I was doing youtube channel ,I was working however this year my mother too diagnosed with serious medical conditions.So yes as you said ,that thought of loosing someone is always on my mind,I took decision to quit youtube recently as I was constantly under some stress.
So yes it do have huge impact on grieved ones
Thank You for these precious words Ma'm - I lost my Mother - 5 Years 4 Months without Her....:( - in every moment I think of Her !!! Mother is GOD !!! - Life is so different now
Kanupriya......you have touched the very core of my heart.
Your words have strengthened me and to hear from you about the recordings, makes me feel so good as I do it every vacation when I get to spend time with my parents, especially my ailing daddy.
Thank you so much. Stay blessed !❤
Yeah, I heard you till the end. Everything, word by word. And I feel sorry that you are in such a difficult situation. I can understand you. If you need to open up, there are some of us to hear you. Warm hugs and much love
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I'm gonna download this video and keep it in my phone forever.
Your words had hit me hard especially the last 1 min
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You dealt with it so nice n you shared with others
May God Bless You, and May God Bless your Mother’s spirit 🙏 We need to talk more about these things in our community, if we can cope with death, we will also be able to better cope with life. Your video made me remember my Grandfather, may God Bless his spirit 🙏
You are gem of a person ma'am only I say that because you atleast have a sensible mind to know the pain of grieving mind❤You should be proud of your parents because they raised you as a good human being ✨
Deepest Condolonces❤.
Beautiful content.. have watched a lot of ur funny cute reels and shorts.. this one vedio commends huge respect and hats off to you for being so real to help the community. Absolutely loved this clip.
I lost my father 2 yrs ago had to deal it alone due to pandemic I am still not over it
My condolances. Thank you for making the video. Actually it is a custom (perhaps being forgotten) to visit bereaved people and talk about the loss (far from 'helping to forget and move on' as some think). As the saying attributed to Africans goes "Every person dies twice: once when the body dies and second time people cease talking about the person. We dont want the later to happen at all.
You're a good therapist.
Take care.
I totally n completely empathize with your grief as i too lost my 27 year old son to Juvenile diabetes insulin dependent from past 18 yrs , suffered RIGHT HEART FAILURE , after 2years of RHF succumbed to CARDIAC ARREST ON 22.07.2021. My life has come to a stand still. After these two years of bed-ridden traumatic depression .. slowly started going back to my teaching profession from Jan 2023. Yet the grief, loss, sorrow trauma continues to linger within me parallelly , even though i continue with my normal routine . Whole day goes by.. but night time comes with same apathy n sorrow in the same measure as it is .. that same emotions, grief, sorrow comes back as it was on the day my son left me to his heavenly abode .. with no pain no ill health no sorrow.. 😓😓😓
I too lost my husband on the same day..cardiac arrest ..gone in a matter of minutes. Still trying to wade through the waters..much love to you
@@1968amita thankyou . Appreciated ur empathy .. much strength n love to you as well
💯 ❤ Very brave of you to talk about this. Good wishes to you.
I can connect very well with you
we are with you kaanu ... remember the best of all memories... she has given a wonderful person like you to this modern world...
Thanx ma'am
Love and Light to you..
💌 Thankyou so much for being Kanu
I was the one who didn't have any idea of what shall be done in such a case🥺
Thank you 🙏 ❤
Take care mam ❤ We all are with you 😊
I lost my papa, can relate every bit of your conversation, though it's been 15 years, I haven't come out of the grief, he still lives in me, stay strong Kanu dear, it's not easy but we have to.
Sorry for your loss. Grief is a feeling we all know yet how a person chooses to react to the harsh reality of loss might vary. Wishing you peace and strength.
Very touching video. Maybe I am guilty too about being insensitive to a grieving person. Both me and wife (we live in silicon valley) really enjoy your shorts. I want to recommend out of care pls pls do "shambhavi meditation from Isha". There are "technical reasons" for such deep connections and we (as in Indians Vs rest of the world) have deep methods and processes to handle such situations. Hope you find peace and happiness. God Bless
I lost my brother 6 years back . I am still not able to accept it and still get lost in thought why it happened.. Though life is irreversible the same is with some pain.
the best thing to tell a grieving friend is to say nothing at all, just hold their hands and remain silent.......simply dont distribute gyaan, and dont say words spontaneously that is supposed to make them feel good...because it creates the opposite result.
Loss could be even away from loved once’s due to n number of reasons that’s for even heavy feelings
Spot-on. Kanupriya, I lost my father more than 20 years ago, and I still feel the sting of it... and the joy of him. My mother will soon turn 90, and I feel both the fortune of still having her, and the anguish of what will be surely my future grief should the natural order of life transpire and I lose her, eventually. Like you, I have questioned what I did to deserve a mother so loving and a father so utterly remarkable, so brilliant, so strong. And, perhaps like you, perhaps not, I think myself unworthy of them --- particularly of my father, who is, and will always be, my Strength, but to whom I can never measure.
My heart goes out to you, for I have crossed that bridge with my father already, and am gearing to cross it once more with my beloved mother. All I can say, is "Stay Blessed; and may Wisdom and Grace continue to hold you close." Your idea for helping others in pain is a great one. I pray for all success for you in that purpose, as well as in every noble endeavor upon which you embark. And finally, thank you for sharing this most intimate part of your life with us. You give us heartfelt joy with your comedy. It should be nothing for us to share, if only a little, in your sorrow.
Quite a well articulated speech on such a sensitive topic.....
You are amazing ❤
You are good and great among youtube celebrities!
request you donate whatever receive from youtube out of such lovely message .and display proof to your viewers ..else people would take this as a publicity tool, to dig money out of your popularity ..and it wouldn't be wrong i!so let your message get flourished with the trust ❤
You and Rohit make most of people relieve from stress and from pain in their lives. So please continue the thing you’re doing and I hope all of them connect with you at one point or the other. This video is will realise to some who see only the funnier side of the videos you post and ignore the reality of life and feel depressed blaming why is my life always with no fun and joy like those who share posts of good things of life.
You are not only beautiful by looks, but equally beautiful at heart. You are an emotional and caring person. I am almost 50 and my best friend is my Mom, aged 77. We have detached ourselves from all friends and relatives and we focus on what we want from life while we are still breathing more than anything else. We learnt our lessons through bitter experiences and harsh fact is that people judge you from how much money you have. It's useless expecting emotional support from materialistic people.
Rather to spend time with nature, animals and gain happiness by helping the most neglected, weakest being around you without any publicity. Do try to connect with the higher dimensions and accept the fact that some day we all will need to leave, Detachment is the key.Also make the loved ones as comfortable as you can while they are still breathing and make them feel important, This will take away half the pain off your chest. Apologies if I am insensitive. Great regards
More love and power ❤
Coming out of grief is so hard.. its been 6 years i lost my mom but i still feel the sadness and pain inside me.. now m married, have 2 little adorable kids n a loving husband but losing my mom got a deep scar in me..somtimes i feel so numb..
Thanks alot for this video.. talking about it helps alot..
❤ Very brave of you to talk about this - lost my dad - can truly relate
Kanupriya, I am really very sorry for your loss, This video made me extremely emotional and equally feeling me insecure that someday I will also have to face the fact that whether we like it or not we will end up losing our loved ones. even the thought about it brings tears in my eyes, I am not emotionally so strong a person and I am not sure how will I deal with or cope with it.
Thank you for having made this video. I wish you a lot of happiness in life.
Kanupriya, I have an honest confession... I watch your funny videos pretty regularly, like they say looks could be very deceptive and I landed up being very judgemental about you, I had a totally different perception about you as a person looking at your videos but when I actually saw this video I could feel the real YOU. Sorry I was so wrong about you initially... my apologies.
Every word true ... relatable
Very well said. Kudos for bringing up this challenging topic
Kanupriya,
I am used to seeing your funny side, thanks for sharing your emotional feelings too. Sharing and talking about it helps us all. Dealing with loss of a loved one is not easy.
It's been almost two months since my dear mother passed away aged 85 in January this year. She had a medical condition for a few years, but she always had a smile despite her constant pain. Never a day has gone by without me remembering her. She never asked for anything much for herself. She just wanted her kids, grandkids, and great grandkids to be happy in life. Unfortunately, we were overseas when she left us, and that made the pain even more difficult to bear. Mum was special. She must have known the end was near for her as she asked to speak to everyone in the family a few days before and managed to speak to most of them. May your soul rest in peace, mum. We will always cherish your memory, remember your love, kindness, and smile and celebrate your life. We were blessed for you to share your life with us for the last six years in Australia, even though you so missed your motherland India. I am sorry I could not make your wish to go back home to India come true due to your poor health.
I want to say the same things to the world.
Iss duniya jitne chhote Baal aapke upar acche lagte hai wo kisi k upar nahi lagte. Baal hamesha asehi rakhna mam ❤🔥💫⭐
Didi you are so beautiful 😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤
TBH eventhough I've seen some of your couple shorts while randomly scrolling down UA-cam I'd shrug off as a cringe content. This is the first vedio I'm liking it whole heartedly ❤
More power and strength to you to spread emapthy. May your mother and her memories be part of your life for eternity
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🙏.... Keep up the good work..... Our tradition has a 10-13 days time... Ask that traditional values you will get answers. I guess 🙏
Kindly read Bhagavad Gita As It Is and chant Harekrishna Mantra daily. This will simplify your life.. No one in this world had a problem greater than Arjuna, no counsellor was better than Lord Krishna in guiding Arjuna.
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Just only answer for grief is love your loved ones
We can have a podcast soon. Let's come together with the like minded people.
Thanks, for making us realize our true wealth.❤
I can connect with you.,.don’t know how to share or with who to share…or may be I don’t want to share ..
Kanupriya wonderful
Very unique video
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Hi mam heartfelt condolences to u n family...I being a Muslim we believe in Quran which states every soul should taste death. Yes u r right to help every creatures which God almighty had made n look to those who have no one in this world I think u feel better..even I lost my parents as well..started to feel better now
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Hi Kanupriya, I am not your regular viewer but i watched this video till the end. I wished I could sit with you and hear everything you want to talk about your mom. When you cried I felt the pain and my eyes became wet too, which actually is strange bcz, up and till this point by God's grace I haven't encountered any loss. My loved one are all doing well and good.
But that's something I pray everyday that if something bad should happen, it should happen to me first, bcz I don't know how I will cop with the loss of people I love. I don't know if that's a selfish prayer. But one thing I believe is, Jesus who lived once on this earth and died, He still lives. Bcz as I pray to Him, all my prayers are answered till date. So one who believes in Him will never dies and definitely there is an after life for our dead ones. We don't simply vanish. Your mom would definitely be in the right place where God was planning to be. And if she is probably watching you or can see you from a different world, definitely she wouldn't wish you cry or bear the pain of loss in such a way it will affect your health and regularities. She would rather wants you to remember all the precious moments spend with her being her smart little girl and also would be wanting you to be happy and smiling and cheerful.. Trust God Kanu.. ! Surely God is good.
I don't know you will get time to read my long text but i really wanted to convey this that you should be happy and cheerful all the time and i am sure that is what your mom wished too.!
There could be another meaning to transitioned- upto almost end of the video, I thought she was talking about gender transitioning and I was wondering why she was saying everything she was saying, then I could understand everything she talked when I came to know she was talking about passing away.
This comment is not to hurt anyone- sorry, if you’re hurt.
The 2 sides to a coin: While Rohit has so much fun with her, he also has to undergo this painful therapy on a more regular basis
It takes time. Atleast 2 years from my experience. You want to avoid ppl who are trying to help or console. You feel you are all alone even though there are ppl around you. You feel empty. Nothing makes sense. You start to not believe in God. No matter where you go to avoid the thought you can't escape from it. Even do crazy stuff at times. But time will heal.
🙌GOD with us 🙌 urs 🙌shainee IMMANUEL 🙌 immanuel 🙌 country 🏳️
For me is just good deed n bad deed n then comes karma
To be honest … You can open a WhatsApp group where members only restrict to sharing what all turmoils are going in their lives and members should suggest ways on how to bring positivity in those situations.
Sometimes such a thing might turn out to be a game changer advice in other’s life.
And better would be to have meet-ups where members meet once in 3 months physically. In this ChatGPT world, there still exists things which require human touch
I also lost my dad 8 years ago. Not a single day goes by that I don't think about him. Thank you for sharing this very important message. ❤ let's always be kind to one another
Me too...
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My heartfelt condolences even if it has been more than a few months she passed away! A loss in the family like that of your Mother is really unbearable and it takes a ton of emotional health to recover from the loss! I never knew this is coming from one who makes us laugh through the reels! But I admire the fact that you have brought out your thoughtfull side while paying your due respects! I wish we could bring back our loved ones from the heavenly abode...But Death is the actual bitter truth of life we must admit just like life begins when a child is born! I watched your emotional confession till the end because it gives me a sense of inspiration of how we can keep ourselves up even when we know the loss of that ultimate person is never going to fill the void in our life! That's why I have always made it a point Kanu, to keep beautiful memories that I or my beloved ones could cherish if I die tomorrow or I lose someone very close to me! May God give us the strength we deserve to live with that void!😢
Rohit is such a lucky guy to have such a sensible wife!!
How sure are you? Do you know them personally?
They r not yet married...
@@chaitalik2500Then i am lucky❤
This proves u are jealous and sad in your life 🙃
@@chaitalik2500 its a fact and only 1% people know about it
More power to you. Also brave of you to show this side of yours as well! I have more respect and love towards you guys now. I'm very sure you both are going to do something great in the near future and I'm so happy that i found your channel in the growing stage! Lots of love 🤍
Brace yourself Kanu!! This is just the beginning, if you are planning to have kids, this pain multiplies, but it only makes you strong. There’s no one on earth that can relieve you from the pain, until you meet them on the other side once again. I go thru this pain time to time.
As a daughter, when I was a wife and now being a mother….nothing can and will relieve you. It will grow and it grows exponentially. The pain I mean.
But you strive, endure and you will love your life with that excess baggage. Good luck lady!
Lost my mother two years ago. What you have said, Kanupriya, is 100% true. Thank you for doing this.