Caroline's Cancer Journal - Episode 1
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- Опубліковано 9 січ 2024
- How else to describe this.. Caroline, feral kitten to Elder Stateswoman of our home is dying. The circumstances threw us for a serious curve, went from a viable pathway to powerlessness in the blink of an eye.
And so here we are, with a bunch of bad choices to pick from, trying to balance what she wants, what we want for her... and I just decided to share the whole trip with you. I'll post as often as I can.
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I so admire a man who is not afraid of showing his feelings for his pets. ❤
I agree with you!!
Oh absolutely. My Sister always said the loving bond between animals and humans can sometines be stonger than our love for our fellow human beings, sorry if anny spelling erroers i dont have my glassses onxx
SO very true. makes for a great man.
Companion animals
It says a lot about a person's character and true feelings in life. I never trust a person who is negative or cruel towards animals.
I can imagine how difficult this is for you. Thanks for the transparency. We are holding you up spiritually and giving you strength through her and your transition.
Thank you
No matter which way this goes sending peace and love for you all😢❤
Prayers said for healing for Caroline and you and your wife. ❤
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Dear Jackson, I understand how difficult this is, that's why I can tell you this, follow your heart and what your sweet girl tells you. You know her like no other... I wish you lots of strength and wisdom in your decision and outcome.
kind regards Mai
The worst part of grieving is the quiet. Where it feels like no one knows or cares what you are going through. By sharing this journey, you help others who are grieving from similar situations feel a little less alone. Thank you.
Very true. The key word for me is quiet. I lost my 16 year old female kitty to mammary cancer a week ago. I am single and live alone. Quiet at home, quiet at work. I am living through this grief alone. It sucks and I feel numb.
Yes!!, exactly!!, it was heartbreaking when mine passed after a decade. 🥺💔
I have not yet watched to see Caroline's story and the details of her particular cancer . But I will as sad as I already feel at the thought of doing so . The most beautiful blessing for both of you is to go tbrough this together . So many beloved of the animal creation are alone without the love and care and closeness each one of them deserve always , and even more so when they are ill and dying. Love to you both , we all die , everyone of us who has ever been created , and I hope with all my heart that all those who have been special to each other in this life , will indeed find another life somewhere over the rainbow , together , forever .
I’ve had 6 humans and 4 beloved pets pass away in 10 years. The last 2 were my 19 yo tortie who was my best friend and then my 14 yo pupper. I haven’t been able to sleep without something playing on my phone. Sometimes I even need a dim light. Hyper vigilant is the new me.
“Avoiding things “ the way Caroline looks up at you, “You got this daddy” ❤
Caroline points her ears towards you as you dpeak and gazes at you with such sweet eyes -- she loves you, & knows you love her. Prayers and blessings for you both ❤️
She absolutely does. She looks at him with total love and attention. 🐈🙏
Jackson, I understand you well, I am crying here, because I’ve been there and I made the same choice. We would never make our angels suffer. I support you.
I miss my Sophie-girl every damn day. Am I sad? Hell yeah! Am I sure I did my due diligence and made the right decision for her? Yes! My grief is not tinged with doubt - it's pure grief: pain, anger sadness, denial, and, finally, acceptance. I know it will be the same for you and yours. What little comfort I can offer you is yours, freely. My solace came by making sure my best friend Did.Not.Suffer. I wish you Peace.
@@kathyjones3586 good for you! You said it all, same here for Fiona.
very true. we had to let our beloved ginger floof Hobbes go, years past. he was only 5, but the tumour that started behind his eye just grew and grew, and the vet told us that it was not operable. we took him home, and he told us when it was time, and we held him as he went. peace and love to Jackson, Caroline, and you also.
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9:58 she’s been looking at you the whole time “saying” Dad don’t be sad, I’ve got you. I’ll take care of you and we’ll see this through. Like she’s taking care of you psychologically/emotionally even though she’s the patient! She’s simply a gorgeous spirit 💕💕💕
Saw that too ❤
Beautifully said
Cats are the best 😢❤
This hits home hard. The way she’s looking at Jackson is a testimony to how much she’s bonding to him and how hard this loss will be.
I feel this and have been here.
Don’t be angry at the radiologist for being human. This happens all the time and your anger at loss is being misdirected. The body is hard to see in imaging.
That’s why surgery needs to be done for the doctor to go in and look at what’s really going on.
I remember my first cat died of stomach cancer and it destroyed me. My second cat died of kidney failure and I was giving him IV bags (sub Q) of fluids, reglan sub q for his nausea, and other treatments. I finally surrendered when he had a blockage and was septic by the time we found him. He was too mentally sensitive to leave alone at the vet and continue with the stress of a procedure I didn’t feel would help because of his overall condition. And we could no longer put him through what we knew was a literal hell for him. And yes, every cat, and every situation is different. And everyone knows what their own pet can handle. I was also afraid he might die alone and with strangers and without me by his side.
I had him in my lap when he passed.
And although he wasn’t a cat, my beloved thoroughbred was rushed to the equine hospital with colic. I remember him coming out of the trailer in septic shock. I was prepared to spend an excess of 25 thousand dollars to save him with colic surgery. Unfortunately his stomach had ruptured en route to the hospital and he was already dying. I immediately approved his euthanasia.
I stood next to him as they put him to sleep.
There is nothing worse than seeing your 1500 pound horse that you have loved more than everything else and dreamed of having since you were a little girl, slam to the ground when his heart stops. It’s not gentle, like a small cat or dog. It’s dramatic and very traumatizing.
But I want every single animal I love to see me and hear my voice and know I’m right there as they go into the next realm. I always tell them I’ll be there to see them soon. And I can’t wait to see them again.
Thank you so much for loving them.
Sad to hear , ☹️
I was with my horse when he was out down too. I’m still traumatized. Hugs ❤️
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We just found our cat passed this morning. Her name was Lil Bit. It was out of the blue, we think it was a heart attack. Her mom had heart problems. My mom won’t answer. I’m grieving with you. I didn’t want to grieve by myself. My husband wants to be alone, which I get. this video gave me comfort.
Rest in peace. Your husband should be w you in 24 n ik this. Don’t be too mad at him tho but don’t accept that your the woman he should do his “be alone” stuff another time wtleast that’s what my dad taught me. I feel fkr your loss for your cat I lost my mom and my cat the same month to cancer. The cat laid w mom until the last moments then I payed w the cat for its last moments too.
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Your beautiful fur baby looks at you with soo much love. Thank you for sharing this personal journey. We just lost our fur baby little Red one week ago today from cancer. We had him since he was a kitten. This year he would have turned 13. Lost his brother 8 years ago. House is so lonely without them. Your video is so helpful and appreciated. Thank you for sharing 😢❤
Look how Caroline is looking at Jackson, her eyes at him. Almost listening to everything he is saying. Total trust and love. So Beautiful. Bless you Little Girl. 🙏🐈💗🇦🇺
She knows he is doing what is best for her. She doesn’t understand pain & suffering as animals live in the moment - do not worry about past or future.
@@catherinebreitfeller669 Yes I am so certain you are absolutely right. 🐈💗🙏
@@catherinebreitfeller669yes, animals can teach us a lot. We should really learn their lessons.❤😊
Seriously it's so beautiful and it's tugging...no no, YANKING on my heart strings big time 😢
Someone once said unsolicited advice is just criticism. You are absolutely doing what is best for Caroline.
Lol I agree with that. Sadly advice is TYPICALLY unsolicited
I am so so sorry. I just lost 2 15 year olds, brother and sister, to intestinal cancer. I can't stop crying watching this video 😢 i hope the best for you all...
I'm so sorry for your loss, @siobhanclifford7647. It's very hard.
I once heard a phrase that I will always remember: You die when the last person who remembers you dies.
Can you imagine, with your gratitude sharing this journey, how many people will know and remember Caroline?
She knows. They know when the end is approaching and they accept it without feeling sad for themselves and with a wisdom that we do not yet understand.
And knows how much you love her, and she knows that you are the best parent she could have had.
Sending you all the positive energy and big hug ❤
Peoples grief for their animals is so often underrated. All my best to you all 🙏💜
My Maggie crossed the rainbow bridge in October of last year, she was 16 years old, but loved her very much, she had a lot of things wrong with her, I pray that she gets better🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
It often surpasses the amount of grief felt over family members passings.
Jackson, I have been living with cancer for 20 years. I was 24 at diagnosis, and it’s terminal. I feel so much love and gratitude to you for sharing Caroline’s journey with us. Anger is a natural part of grieving and cancer definitely makes me angry at times. I choose to try and grow out of my experiences with dealing with death and terminal illness. Please be gentle with yourself now.
Thinking of you and your courage. I cannot imaging facing what you have been facing for two decades. You are an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your story and taking the time to reach out with kindness and wisdom. 🙏🙏
@@debbabe2254 thank you for your kindness!
I'm grateful for this comment. ❤
I am sorry to hear that you’re terminal, but amazed that you have lived 20 years with cancer. Do you have any advice for me? Your comment gives me hope. I am currently fighting this cruel disease. ❤ Wishing you all the best. 😊
I am in awe of you. May you find safety and peace in the loving arms of Jesus and rest knowing He deeply, deeply loves you.
Kitties are notorious for not showing symptoms until things are bad. I’m so sorry, Jackson! I will be keeping you and your family in my prayers!
I can’t believe anyone would question your decision. There’s NO ONE that cares more for their companions than you.
So sorry, Jackson. I can hear the pain in your voice. Screw everyone. You know what's best for Caroline and for your family. Lots of us are here to support you guys and are sending our love and prayers.
Anger is alright Jackson. Feel what you need to feel emotionally. We’re learning from you as well. Grateful you’re willing to Vlog. Courageous man. You have a beautiful generous heart Jackson Galaxy. Your love for Caroline goes deep. God Bless ❤
We love u, Jackson❤
I’ve lost 2 cats to cancer…I was devastated. So many emotions. That’s because we love them. They are family! ❤😿🐈
I wish this on no one. It’s a gut-wrenching pain that only pet lovers can understand. Prayers to you. I can’t imagine how hard it was to film this. The way she looks at you with such love broke me. Seeing your distraction and the emotional swings speaks to your pain 😔
As parents, NO ONE! Knows our kids the way we do. You do what your heart tells you. Sending you and the baby lots of love ❤️
You can see the love in her face as she looks at Jackson. Im so sorry, I had a our 19 year old cat put to sleep in my arms when he had a mass around his kidneys, It was let him suffer and live a little longer or put him to sleep and ease his pain…We put him to sleep while in my arms purring. We are all sending love and support for you. Sweet Caroline is in the best hands with Jackson as a Cat Parent !
Oh my goodness those eyes! She has absolute heart eyes 😻 for Jackson
@@lizzieb6311 yes, she just looks at him with so much love as he does her
I don’t know where did you find the strength for that… Huge respect and so sorry for your loss
I am so sorry for your loss. I have a similar experience with my 19 year old cat two years ago. It was so sad, but in my heart I felt peace, so I knew it was the right thing to do.
She looks at you with so much love. She knows you have cared for her and loved her and are doing right by her.
I lost my father back in May of 2023. He was 73 and I was 29. Both of us were too damn young. Thank you for sharing your grief.
My friend, Wally, wrote a song about his dad's passing ... "My dad he died ... Too young ... Not young for him, young for me."
My dad passed away in May of 2019, he was 70 and I was 30.
The similarities in the ages caught my attention.
I lost my dad in July 2023, he was a month shy of his 73 birthday. I was 46…..f..k cancer!
Caroline is beautiful!!! My baby Penny died in November 2023 of cancer. She was a calico also. She was perfect! I miss her so much!!!😭 Take lots of videos and photos of Caroline. I am sorry for you and I. I am 64 years old and I was closer to Penny than anyone since I was born.
My calico Minky died of bladder cancer in November 2023 as well. She was 21 years and 4 months old. Had her since I was 10 years old. She was a true fighter, I miss her so much.
My Tigerlily also died of cancer last November 2023 at only 12 years - by the time I had seen any concerning signs, the cancer had already metastisized (it was in nodules all over the liver, it was on the pancreas, and there was another mass on one of the lymph nodes nearby - so we didn't even know where the cancer had even started in the first place) and my city doesn't even a veterinarian oncologist nor have the equipment for radiation therapy - the nearest ones are in the next province over - so even just finding out which cancer it was and even attempting radiation treatment was completely out of the question (of all things - and we're not a town or even a small city, we're a medium sized city ffs). Out of all the pets I've had, losing her was the hardest because she had seen me and gotten me through the roughest times in my life of the past decade, she had been my rock and kept me going. And at the time she got sick and passed, someone who was supposed to be my best friend of 2 decades had just betrayed me in a major way and put me through even more BS than I already had to deal with on top of losing the one baby who had been my rock that kept me going.
Sorry for the ramble, I just meant to say that I totally understand and I feel for Jackson right now too. Watching this brought back memories of having to treat Tigerlily in palliative care.
With every cat I've called family, I dread the day I will have to say goodbye. The pain never gets easier, yet in time I realize I've given the creature a great home, a great life and the best care I could have, and then I do it all over again. You're a cool cat Mr. Galaxy. Good vibes to you.
Our little Roxie was diagnosed with being pancreatic. We were shown the x-ray. She lived with us for over 11 years. She hated receiving any medicine. We did not want her to suffer. A vet came to our home. They specialized and our little girl died in my arms. I will always recall her tail swishing. I don't know where my strength came from. She knew and totally relaxed. She was so loved. She would sleep over my husband's left shoulder. Even though it happened April, 2019. I am bawling. Our furry babies are family. .We adopted a tuxedo 9/9/2019. She is a stinker and sleeps on my side of the bed. She was not to popular at the shelter. She was dumped at their door. Long story short, she will be our last due to our age.
My baby died in my arms too. I feel you regarding having to make that incomprehensible choice to not let them suffer. You’re in my prayers
All my babies, dog and cats have died in my arms. I still cry for them. I have a Christmas ornament that has a drawing of me from behind and my lovely fur family with angel wings. It says, “I still talk about you”. Then there is a bubble above them that says, “We know”. It has each of their names.
@@MplsMaven"I still talk about you. We know." That is so sweet , thanks for sharing. My husband and I still talk about all our kitties.❤😻 I have painted a portrait of all of them.
@@MplsMaven that’s so cute and sweet ❤
Tuxedo cats are the best ❤ my fav type of cat
I believe you absolutely know what is right to do, not to say it’s the easy way but Caroline is safe in your care💔
F***K CANCER
Jackson, thank you for your vlog about Miss Caroline. She is such a wonderful, sweet girl. It's okay to be upset. There are those of us like you who aren't afraid to be upset about their furry children
This is helpful. I am sitting with my 22-year-old tortie, who is nearing the end of her journey on this plane. We are going day by day, sometimes hour by hour.
Sending you both ❤
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Lots of love and light to you both ❤ 🐈
22 years is remarkable - you have been an exceptional companion to be with her for so long. ❤to both of you.
We said goodbye to our girl Felix when she was 22, it's so hard. Much love to you ❤
5 days since my 16 year old Cushy crossed over. Trust me, this is so supportive. Thank you. I appreciate u holding space for anyone having to say goodbye to our fur babies.
So very sorry- you will miss her❤
Five days. Omigosh. It's still so raw. I'm so sorry, but I think you will meet again in Heaven. I believe it. 💗
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I just got a 9 year old, Chocolate brown, big boned boy. He has FID, is full of love and would write nurse an his resume. I don't know how old he will get but he has our hearts wrapped around his paw. I feel so bad for your girl. No one should get cancer. Huggs from all of us.
My heart breaks for you all. 💔 I'll be praying for Caroline. My mom also died of cancer, colon cancer, when she was 54. Cancer sucks man, I hate it. 😭
Making a tribute for a pet you love is never silly, wrong, or not worth your time. It’s really hard to say goodbye to our furry friends. They are only here for a moment in our lives, so it’s nice to have some permanence about this connection, and the love we shared. This is very sweet of you.🥰 I’m so sorry that you’re losing your precious pet.💕
Very well said!
@@paulmoreno6735 Thank you so much Paul!🥰
Hey Jackson ... in the earlier part of the video, I couldn't help but notice the way Caroline gazed at you from under the turtle tank with such love and calm. We entered hospice care with our eldest, Kira (she is 18) yesterday. All empathy, understanding, sympathy for what you're going through. It's hard, man. It's so, so hard. I hope your video remains posted at least through tonight so that my husband can hear your words, as they validate so much of what we've been feeling and struggling with since about Thanksgiving. You and Minoo and Caroline will be in my thoughts as you traverse the next 48 hours and beyond. I believe that our cats show us the way. Sending love to your bipetual family.
Thanks all, for sharing so many Likes on my comment. We said goodbye to Kira this morning … she was on my husband’s chest with her head curled under his chin, and a paw around his neck, the whole time. We will remember her as Family and Beloved Teacher. We are better humans for having shared time with her. Rest in Eternal Love, Kira - she was the kindest soul.
So sorry for your loss, Colleen.
A friend once told me the sadness we feel when losing someone is emblematic of the love that was shared while they were around. There are plenty of memories to cherish with our pets and truthfully we can never have enough time with them.
My cat JC was a ragdoll rescue. I had him for 19 years. He was beautiful. He developed squamus cell cancer with a tumor growing on his tongue. I didn't realize he was sick until very late. People told me that he was beginning to look bad. I just didn't see it. He was beautiful to me. I was devastated when he died. It still hurts several years later. I am sad for you and your family. Prayers.
I love the way she looks at you. Its like she is telling you, "Its ok, Dad. I will let you know when its over." I have a 14yr old furball who has develop several health issues this past year. He was a traveler too! He's in retirement now. LOL. He prefers to stay home these days and I respect that. I always look at his quality of life. Beau is doing well under treatment and maintaining his routine.. He reminds me when its time for meds and treatment. Of course, treats are involved. Until he tells me otherwise, we will continue do "our" thing. I am his guardian and he knows I have his back..
My 16 yearold kitty changed in one week. I SAW THE SIGNS and decided not to shove medicine in her as her vet recommended. We gave her hospice care and she held on until the day after Christmas. My heart goes out to you Jackson and your families both
Four pawed and two pawed. I am with you Jackson. You are doing right for Caroline. Aloha from Hawaii.
Dude this was raw. I really appreciate it. I will NEVER say anything ignorant about other people's choices regarding medical crises of beloved fur family again.
To watch you with Caroline is so heartwarming. There are no words needed from you to know the love you two share. She looked up at you with such love and she knows the love you have for her ❤️ I lost my cat after 10 years to liver disease and it broke my heart. Thank you for sharing Caroline's story with us. To the people who think you'd let her suffer, they need to look into Caroline's eyes when she looks at you. She knows you'll do the best for her, and that's all that matters. Hugs to you both and the rest of your family xoxo
We’ve held our babies while they crossed the rainbow bridge. It was heart breaking. You are hurting already but bravely sharing your journey with Caroline. Thank you.
These videos are so important and so appreciated. Ten years ago, when our 7 year old kitty was diagnosed with cancer, there was no real support for the trauma we went through with her during her care and grieving her death. Everyone, family included, gave us the “it’s just a cat” line. I am so grateful for your honest, raw videos. It’s horrible, we are not alone, and they ARE our babies ❤❤❤ Thank you JG Fam.
I'm sorry you all went thru this alone
There's no such thing as just a cat. If you feel that way it's because you don't care. If you care you love and you grieve and you never forget them
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I'm so sorry - you are definitely not alone!
I'm sorry sorry for what you and the family are going through. As a former pet parent I know how hard these decisions are and screw anyone who gives unsolicited advice. I'm glad you're in a position to have options and I wish you the best outcome for Caroline and her journey ❤❤
It hit hard when you said "never say goodbye on their worst day". That's exactly when I had to say goodbye to my dog of 15 years, because a vet made me feel like she was fine when I knew she wasn't. I appreciate your anger, you don't get angry about things that you don't care about. Prayers for sweet Caroline and the rest of the family.
I love how you both reassure each other. Shes definitely saying it's ok dad . We got this
Thank you so much everyone for your support ❤ We are also in this same situation with Our Kitty Jonesy who has lived through Two cancers but this time we know he won’t be with us for long But it has been 14 weeks since diagnosis and every minute he’s happy and eating and pooping is special The extra effort is very tough some days
Sending you prayers for strength and endurance to help your baby cross the rainbow 🌈
So sorry 😢
I’m sorry
The thing about animals is that they know who they are, they know where they come from and they aren’t afraid of death. You are doing an amazing job of being an animal ambassador. Hugs to you during this difficult conclusion with Caroline 🐾💗
You are justified in being angry and upset that a Radiologist missed the cancer . So sorry for your baby and so sorry for your family. Eating is always a good sign !❤ The hardest part of having our beloved pets , is someday losing them. Prayers ❤
They didn't miss it, they thought it was on a different organ.
Caroline looks at you with such perfect love. May her trust in you give you strength.
Thanks for sharing, Jackson. It's really brave of you to go public about it. But you are *our* cat daddy, and you've helped up all so any times over the years. You've responded to our calls about our cat concerns and now you're sharing yours. You really are a wonderful person, and Caroline has lived a fantastic life. My heart goes out to you and your cat family at this difficult time.
I lost my baby a year ago yesterday. Mary, beautiful, loving, intelligent, all black sweet cat. I miss her dearly. I'll see her again on the Rainbow Bridge ❤
7 years ago today for my beloved Moo.
The amount of emotion I felt. To me this is the hardest thing to deal with. I lost my baby at 19years old about 4 months ago. And let me tell you this video hit home. Thank you for sharing. I felt your pain more than you know. Stay strong. Love you Caroline ❤
It’s so clear in how you and Caroline look at each other that you deeply love each other. My heart goes out to you.
You can certainly see the love ❤️
Yes! It's palpable ❤
This is an INCREDIBLE post! I urge everyone to listen! We will ALL arrive at Caroline’s stage- within ourselves or alongside someone else’s journey.
I helped my girl over the bridge just over a year ago, she was 16, she found me when she was around 7 weeks old. im still grieving for. The loss and pain is real. Im sending you lots of love
I'm so glad she had you ❤
@@gwynnie_bird Thank you. I think it was the other way around, she never left my side when I was having treatments and operations for cancer. I never let her down with her heart and in her last 4 years, thyroid problems. I love her so much, she will always be my baby girl
Thinking of you, it is so hard, they love us so unconditionally ❤
We lost our cats best friend in September last year very upsetting as that was the last part of her they were always together even on her last day with us he stayed with us alot and that hlept with the loss of our cat he was also chilling at other 2 houses but stayed alot with us , 😢
I recently lost my oldest cat of 14years too. We rescued him next to the highway as someone just dumped him there in a trash bag. Till the very last day, he was deathly afraid of trash bags. How can human kind be so cruel i will never understand. But I digress...
We sadly made the decision to put him to sleep after weeks of watching him not being able to move anymore due to joint pain. He lost a ton of weight due to his teeth falling out, too. He was just skin and bone even after trying everything to get him fed.
My dad was broken as they bonded very tightly, so i can understand the heartbreak.
My heart goes out to you and your family. Our furbabies are sometimes all we have to keep us grounded.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and Caroline.
Oh look at how Caroline gazes at you… your heart must be breaking 💔
Sending you lots of hugs …
For most of November and December, we watched our 17 year old cat decline. Last Friday, we had to let her go peacefully. We can so relate so much to what you are going through right now. We lost a dear friend and loving companion.
We lost our boy Xerxes at 17, and we feel your grief for Miss Caroline.
Thank you, and I'm sorry for your loss of Xerxes.❤🩹
Big snuggles and warm cuddles baby Caroline Bless you little sweetheart ..Jackson follow your heart and no regrets ..All Love light and Mojo to ya and of course Big hugs for you, your wife and family ❤
The most challenging part of pet parenthood-making difficult end of life decisions. Sending you all my ❤ and support.
What a beautiful life you gave her. Look at that adoring gaze she has for you. She loves you and trusts you to do what's best.
The way she looks at you. The purest of love and affection there could ever be ❤
So sorry, Jackson.
We knew the certainty of this journey when we took them into our hearts.
Caroline knows with the same certainty how greatly you love her.
Such joy and comfort these beautiful life-companions willingly give us.
May your time together be blessed.
Caroline is so precious, I love how she stares at you, she truly feels your love. This video is so authentic and necessary for us all to hear. I hope it is therapeutic for you, and I appreciate your authenticity and humility. Praying for good news from your next video, but also praying for strength and peace for you and your family and comfort for sweet Caroline. 💗 Lots of love
I'm glad you did share this. My dog had pancreatic cancer. It's hard. I'm just glad that Caroline has the best parents any cat could have. ❤
My vet told me that it was hard to treat cats for many different illnesses because science is guided by $$ and there wasn't enough money in treating cats to do the research. My cat is currently getting meds that is intended for dogs because there is NOTHING available for cats. It totally irks me to no end. Thank you for sharing this video. It is real and very touching. I wish you peace, and love to Caroline.
May I ask what ailment your cat has please?
I'm so glad they are trying something. My sweet Briana passed, it will be 5 years in July and granted she was about 15 yrs old (I adopted her from a cat place and they guessed). She had cancer, the vet said they couldn't do anything and we needed to let her go. Omg you never get over it, I'm crying while telling you this. I wish someone could have done something for her.
My dog Herbie had gotten advanced stage 4 stomach cancer and we(me, Mom, and Sandi) had only 3 days of happiness with herbie.
@@NoKillAnimalAdvocacy I got her from a shelter where she had been for 2.5 years and she has many chronic illnesses. One is a skin allergy problem and she 'mows' all the fur off her chest, belly and legs. There is nothing available for cats that do this. She also has URI and a drippy eye. She has constant sneeze attacks and the results are sometimes a little bloody. I figured out on my own that she has food allergies and that has helped some but it isn't cheap.
😢 I had the same trouble with one of my cats, the meds were for dogs and not cats. Irks me also that there is not enough research for cats and illnesses
I’ve never had an animal before in my life until a black cat with beautiful green eyes and thumbs kept coming up to me outside of my house. He’s here with me now. This video is tearing me to pieces. I am so so so sorry. What a precious baby you’ve got. Thank you for being so raw and sharing Caroline’s story with us.
I know how that goes; I've also got a house panther with green eyes and thumbs, and she's going on twenty and is on thyroid meds. Every day is a gift; and I worry.
No one can imagine what the other person is going through everyone handles grief differently than the other
I am sitting watching this video with 3 of my 4 babies. I'm looking at my calico, Athena. She is our oldest at about 11. She was a stray cat that we adopted. I can't imagine your pain. My heart and my prayers go out to you.
I just lost my precious furry love, Miss Butters, yesterday from cancer. This hurts beyond words. Listening to your voice, words, thoughts and feelings regarding your journey with Caroline makes me feel not so lonely in my journey through the grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you and with everyone who has had to deal with this. They bring such joy, laughter, and unconditional love into our lives. Thank you for sharing and I feel for everyone and your family.
So feel for you, I'm with you on this, sending love and hugs xx
Sincerest condolences, sorry for your loss. Not easy, maybe one of the most difficult things ever.. Know that you are not alone, every animal lover knows EXACTLY how you feel, BLESS...💛😾✨
@@jmonteith4868thank you for your response. You consoled me beyond words . In a time when I felt isolated, your kind words have made me feel a part of something important. Sincerely appreciated.
@@lesliecleary9197thank you for your words of support. I think all of us who love our pets have to go through this at some point in our lives. People like you give more support than you may realize. I just thank you for your kind words. It is a soothing balm to my spirit.
May Almighty God be your comfort and companion as you walk through this season of loss and grief. Peace be with you.
I lost my 17 year old baby 🐈⬛after 10 months of struggling with cancer. I’m still heartbroken but I’m so grateful for every single moment spent with her. Sending lots of love and hugs ❤ 🤗
My husband had his pup and I had my kitty when we blended our family. Many years later, our beloved fur babies passed within a few weeks of one another. Our pup had the tumor journey your baby is having. We make our choices based on our families. Nothing but LOVE for you and yours.
I have sobbed through this whole video. 😿😿😿
Jackson may you experience tenfold all the love, wisdom and support that you have given to all of us over the years❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ With gratitude and love, Darlene
The way she gazes at you 🥺❤️
I noted that as well. If I were able to paint that would be my subject. Looked like pure, heaven sent love didn't it? Jackson is so precious and needed to many in this world. Laid his heart out for all to see. Sending love back to him. God Bless
Lost my vibrant 17 year old soul cat a year and a half ago from a sudden stroke. I was NOT expecting such an immediate goodbye. I'm so sorry. Thank you for being vulnerable. We don't have enough of this raw reality on platforms in the pet community.
❤️🩹sorry to hear that! I know what you’re going through… Our 14 year old muted calico Penny has a cancer and it’s not curable. She has a huge open wound on her stomach and the vet sends us home suggesting , not even to cover that wound. We don’t know what to do. Penny is acting normal, eating, sometimes playing, jumping up and down, like nothing happened. But she is very skinny
I'm so sorry! I lost my Cat to cancer 1 year ago. Her name was Luna e she looks just like your Caroline, it's umbelievable. I have other animals, but is very hard to deal with cancer. Luna had 3 surgeries and 11 quimiotherapy. At the end I choose euthanasia. She was very strong but she fight for so long... She died at 16. I'm crying right now, because I'm remembering everything we've passed throw. I pray for Caroline and I hope she will have the best days with your family. I can see you really love her. Love from Rio, Brasil. 😻
THANK YOU for posting this. I lost my 12 year-old cat, Eevie, last week under similar circumstances. Sudden onset kidney failure after many years of slow and manageable kidney disease. Our lives changed in one phone call. And seemingly impossible decisions needed to be made immediately. Eevie's last day was filled with so much love, cuddles, a warm bed, her favorite foods, and so much gratitude for the joy she brought to our lives. Sending so much love and support to you, Caroline, and your family. The grief is so hard, but it's a powerful reminder of how deep our love is for these wonderful little beings. Thank you for all you do, Jackson.
Your post is sad. But so lovely, besutiful and heartwarming. Eevie was so fortunate to have had you.
My sincere condolences at the loss of lovely Eevie- what a pretty name ❤
I've lost senior babies. It's so very hard. All you can do is give her lots and lots of love, make her comfortable and prepare yourself. I'm praying for strength for ya'll.
I'm so sorry, I know this video was so hard to make, but I'm thankful you shared it with us.
Sobbing my eyes out for this situation. My Heart goes out to all of you. 😢
I've been in your shoes,
There are no words,
Sending numerous, DEEPLY heartfelt prayers 🙏🙏🙏🐾
I absolutely echo your sentiment.
As hard as this video was for you to make please know it does help us to know we arent pet parents alone in our joy and even our pain. Thank you!
I just lost my kitty sister to stomach cancer this past November, following our mom being told she was officially breast cancer the August prior. She was only 8. I feel everything you are feeling. Love light and hugs to the whole family
I’m so sorry that you are experiencing this. It is so hard every time. Thank you for expressing your vulnerability, and it is so admirable that you are sharing your journey with Caroline. You are a true light in this world and so loved by everyone. Sending love and comfort to you and Caroline 🙏🏻🤍
A gentle jaw rub to caroline and a warm hug to you.
I’m so sorry to hear that Caroline has had this diagnosis. As a fellow lifelong cat person, I am all too familiar with the pain and stress of dealing with a very sick fur baby. Sending you and Caroline a virtual hug.
My heart goes out to you. There is nothing more beautiful than love, and nothing harder than saying goodbye. I don’t know your personal religious or spiritual beliefs, but believe me when I say that this is from a place of love, and kindness and positivity, you, Caroline, and all of your family are in my prayers. Whether she lives by your side another few days or another few years she is blessed for all the time she has had with you and your love, and I am certain she will be waiting to greet you on the flip side!
Let me leave you with this- “death cannot stop true love, only delay it a little while”- the princess bride
Caroline is so beautiful. They are so worth the heartache of losing them. Oh God it hurts, it really hurts to see them ill, it hurts to lose them. Huge sigh. The love in her eyes when she looks at you and vice versa, what else is there that really matters? You will provide her with so much love during her transition. An ear scritch for lovely Caroline, a bear hug for Jackson and a tasty munchable for adorable Sammy. Thanks for sharing your journey, opening up and sharing reminds us that we are the same all superficial difference aside. ❤
"Let's be brave and find out." You have my support, 100 percent, all the way. I'll be thinking of Caroline, and wish you guys nothing but love, light, and all the positive vibes. Keep sharing your truth, man. Your vulnerability is truly appreciated here.
For every unkind word you hear, I hope you have 10 times, 100 times more positive words. You've been a rock for so many of us, educating us on our own journeys with our own families when we were scared or uncertain. My heart breaks for your and your family that this is a journey you all are facing. In the moments when you wonder and worry, I hope you remember not only to you have your loved ones (human and animal) you have this community of people you've cultivated through kindness, curiosity, and love. Mr. Galaxy, you're our teacher, our friend, our hero. That even through this scary experience, you're sharing yourself and your family with us shows, to me anyway, that you (and Caroline) are truly remarkable.
I don't know if you'll see this, Jackson, but I'm sending so so so much love to you right now. I lost my heart girl in June of last year to pancreatic cancer that was...very much a shock. She was 14. The vet first thought it was diabetes. Insulin made her crash one day, which made me rush her to the ER vet, where they ultimately found the mass on her pancreas, where it was so large they were able to see it on an ultrasound. They told me she had days to weeks, so I scheduled a vet to come to our house that weekend. It was the hardest day of my life. If I could have fought for Fiona, I would have, but I didn't have anywhere near the resources that you have. Just sending so so much love to you and your wife, and wishing for all the success for Caroline. It would be amazing to see a kitty beat pancreatic cancer in some way.
Thank you for sharing... Warmest support from Ukraine🙏 Here we also love our pets and care for them with so much love😍
Bless your precious heart.😢 We just had a 2 yr. old die from cancer and it was soul wrenching. I am praying for you brother.
That's terrible, I'm so sorry!
So sorry for the loss of your fur baby
I'm so sorry. It's particularly hard when they're just babies.
Your video does help....😢
It's devastating at any age, but at just two years is especially so. Condolences.
I really hate when people offer their opinions on such personal and delicate matters, especially when they state their opinions as facts. No one knows what they would do unless they were in your shoes with full knowledge of your 15 years together. Whatever you decide will be the right decision. And, personally, there is a lot of merit in what you said about her passing peacefully. Sending my love, hugs and prayers for the best outcome for all involved. ✌️💚❤️💜💡
Two thumbs up for "Whatever you decide will be the right decision". Love to you, Jackson and Caroline. ❤❤
@@c.a.parker5036 Thank you, Jackson and Caroline. I'm glad to come back here and see that so many people feel the same way we do.
I’m so sorry, Jackson. My cat Gouda had a very rare nasal cancer when she was 8. I was devastated when I found out. I read all the medical journal articles (there were only 5) available and we did radiation treatment at CSU in Fort Collins, and she made it to 14 years old even with all her other health problems. She was the best cat ever. My heart is with you.
My Michael died of cancer 13 months ago. It was awful he was only five and we found an inoperaperable tumor. He made me a better cat owner but man did it suck. Blessings
did you get a new cat or pet after this amount of time? i know it´s a very individual thing but i would like to know if you dont mind
@DraconiInfernalus yes we got two more about a month later. They are insured and I'm much better at recognizing when something may be wrong now. Still miss Michael terribly but so many need homes, I made the mistake of going on pet finder a little too soon. My advice is wait a little longer then I did however because I've become a bit of a cat hypochondriac
@@mamafiyatarotMay I ask what a cst hypochondriac is? Like is it excessive fear of just cats or are you meaning you are like a hypochondriac when it comes to your cats' health? Sorry I missed your meaning. 😂😊
@@Iva.the.Southern.Appalachian yeah I freak over little things whenever something happens with the cats health :)
I had to say goodbye to my 14 year old baby a few years ago. She was the best cat. She survived the first cancer and sadly the 2nd got her. Much love and hugs. Sitting here watching this in tears.
I too am crying
This hits close to home. My 18.5 year old cat, Miller, has a tumor in his bladder and due to his age and other health issues, there isn't anything I can do. He's still vibrant and enjoying life for the time being. I'm just trying to enjoy every day I have left with him. I was told he wouldn't live long because of his FIV diagnosis, so I'm hoping he'll continue to defy the odds. Sending love to you and your family, Jackson.
Thank you for sharing that you have an 18.5 year old cat with FIV. I have had three FIV positive cats; they were all unrelated strays who showed up at different times to adopt me. One was a classic apple head Siamese, one a marble coat tabby and the other a longhaired lavender point Siamese. My feline-practitioner vet was astounded that three FIV positive cats would show up at one person's home over a span of years. They were all amazing and thanks to the education my vet gave me regarding FIV all lived full lives but none of them came anywhere near the age of your Miller. Still, I am thankful for the years I had with them and miss every one of them to this day. I just wish more people were not afraid of adopting FIV positive cats and I anguish to think how many are put to sleep by shelters because they are the least likely to be adopted. More power and health to Miller for defying the odds and all the best to you for being his best friend :)
I had a cat called Miller too! Sadly he got a cancerous growth in his paw at 10 years old. I’m pleased your Miller has lasted longer and I hope you still have a good while with him yet 🖤🤍
Caroline is in my thoughts and prayers....🐾🫶🏾 May her days be filled with love, cuddles and sweet memories.🙏🏽 Also praying fo your strength in this very hard moment.
I’ve lost two cats over the last year and a half, now my two cats are probably sick of how much attention they get. The worrying doesn’t stop. Thank you for sharing this, and being vulnerable ❤
It’ll definitely help someone.