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Usually couples would not communicate at all, but this is a rare case of "communication is key"
I like how in this story there's actually a good ending and communication. That's sort of rare for an internet story and it's really nice to see that. Humans are good actually.
A healthy and good relationship where both sides are mature and know how to communicate and make things work. Something that feels like a fairytale these days, or at least on the Internet.
It was so easy to jump to conclusions in this story, shows the importance of communication and figuring out both sides
I'm glad everything worked out in the end for everyone, communication goes a long way. I also liked how Chuck handled the situation with maturity, he showed he cared about Em by giving her and the husband space by moving out and he didn't fight with the husband either.
The thing with friends like Chuck is that when they're single they want their friends to act as if they're single too. It's tricky because they don't mean to do something bad, they're just 'hanging with their bestie'.
Glad that Chuck is stronger now and told Em, so she doesn't need to try to overcompensate and make him feel loved by calling him her soulmate.
Yeah, he probably longs for affection and to feel cared about by her. Em was toxic in the situation but hopefully she will change, if she can admit she was wrong and needs help then maybe it will work out.
Now that you mentioned it I do believe some of this could have been stopped if he took action, but he's still more mature then most of the people in these stories. All that matters is that this had a happy ending on both sides. And hey, maybe all this happening was what they needed in their relationship to make it stronger.
I'm just glad they decided to work things out in the end, rather than jump to conclusions and end it all like a lot of other couples would have done. Amazing how communication (as some have indicated earlier) of one's feelings goes a long way towards resolving many issues.
Aweee, I'm so happy for them!!! Usually in these stories it ends terribly, but they communicated, and worked it out as true soulmates should. Also a totally relieving factor was that Chuck was understanding and his and Em's relationship was very healthy. Usually when I hear people say "he;s a great guy" I immediately think the worst, but this was just a bunch of normal, kind people going through their own personal things :) each of them are totally made for one another in their relationships and I genuinely wish them the best from here on out!!!!! 💞💞
8:56 real. I guess that shows where op's shutting down issue came through. It was worded improperly. Once again though, I'm happy this was resolved and had a happy ending! Misunderstandings/miscommunication is the bane of my existence even at 13 years old :(
You can have more than one soulmate, the same way you can have more than one bestie.
Exactly that
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The thing that gets me is the fact that she says that she was afraid that Chuck would try to hurt himself because he had suffered from suicidal thoughts after getting kicked out by his parents and that's why she was always around him...
Because as much as I can understand that and I get where she was coming from...
I can't help but feel like if I were her husband in this scenario prior to having this conversation _I_ probably would have started spiraling _WAY_ out of control and would quite possibly end up with suicidal thoughts as well. Because I'm the type to just bottle everything up until I just can't take it anymore and I completely self-destruct. I probably wouldn't act on it or anything because my self preservation instinct is strong enough that I'd probably be able to resist the urge but I _WOULD_ end up utterly destroying myself in other ways even if they wouldn't cause me physical harm.
Now don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to say that he was suicidal/would have become suicidal...and I'm not trying to blame her either. There's a chance that it could have gotten there had they not talked all of this out but it's not guaranteed...and on top of that the thought that her constantly hanging out with Chuck and not really spending time with her husband and her saying those things to her husband could be hurting him to such an extent that it could potentially end up severely damaging his mental health (and also potentially result in him becoming suicidal/borderline suicidal if things continued that way and got bad enough) likely never even crossed her mind because she was so preoccupied with taking care of her best friend and a lot of people aren't really good at thinking about those kinds of things when they're under a lot of stress. So while she did kind of mess up by blowing up at him/not communicating with him probably I can kind of understand where she was coming from because _I_ probably (actually _definitely_ considering my autism induced lack of social skills/awareness) wouldn't have really realized all of this in the moment if I were her.
So really I'm just glad they talked it out in the end because this could have ended _VERY_ badly.
I agree with you. This situation would've not ended well if it was me. If my husband did that to me, i would feel really hurt. Im the type of person that would bottled up too but when the pain is coming from someone i really love and it really hurts, my body somehow detached itself from my emotions. I became cold and robotic to that person. I also became emotionless until i eventually break up or cut off myself from that person. I'm guessing all of my childhood trauma has led to this.
It's probably not over - the drama concerning Em, her husband, and her friend Chuck.
Who knows, it could be
Probably not something as big as this though. Which means there wouldn't be a need for another post online about his story. They still have personal lives y'know.
@@xTsunamiix The more we learn about people the more we get surprised. I remember walking home from my school bus dropping me off one day back in 1950. I was reflecting on what happened in 5th grade class that day and how the behavior & reaction of some kids in the class was so different . . . to the same event. We are all pretty complex.
@@nemo227 what? Also if you were in 5th grade in 1950 you’d be 84 years old why are you on the internet 💀 also that had nothing to do with what I said. Stop trolling 😭
😀@@xTsunamiix 🙂Yeah, imagine that - old people using computers. My first computer was a Vic 20. My second computer was an Osborne I which ran on the CP/M operating system.
Soul mates can be many, platonic or romantic. Twin flames on the other hand is what people usually mean when they say soul mate
The accountability on both of their paths was everything. I’ve definitely read too much awful communication stories bc I feared she would gaslight him or grow defensive just as she did and that would be that. Glad they could talk it out and handle it themselves. And couples therapy is a gray idea after a fight like that they had that clearly affected both of them. Ironic how they have the same problem just on different sides of the coin. She acts out before she thinks, often rashly, and he just kept his mouth shut and let the problem fester until he blew up on her. But there’s a bright future ahead of them I’m sure
If she had just communicated her fears about her friend it would have taken away so much anxiety for OP. He could be more understanding of why they were hanging out so much. Instead she left him in the dark so he could fear the worst. And to have all those feeling confirmed when she said chuck was her soulmate. That’s messed up. It’s understandable that OP shut down, as you normally would if you don’t feel safe and secure with someone, it’s a way to protect yourself.
Reminds me of me and my bestfriend, I hate how people assumed that my best friend and I are dating just because I'm a guy and she's a girl. What is this, grade 5? Besides she's my sister. Well not my real sister but my parents practically raised her so we considered ourselves as siblings. Also I already have a girlfriend, so does my best friend, a girlfriend I mean, she has a girlfriend, she likes girls, she's a Lesbian. I had a feeling so I push her to come out as she can't be lying to herself. Now here is what I don't like, my girlfriend would often tease my best friend and her girlfriend for being Lesbians. Always making Lesbian jokes and calling them a couple of gay disasters whenever they are lovely dovey with each other. She usually only stops when I call her off and tell her to be nice to them, they are the only friends we have. But of course I never put my best friend first before my girlfriend. I like her very much but she's not my soul mate, my girlfriend is. My best friend is my sister, and just like sisters I love her even though she can be annoying.
You need to get your priorities straight. Sisters are for life, girlfriends are not
@@Revy2Handbl Of course but I still love my girlfriend. But no matter what I'll be there for my best friend... my sister too. But she's pretty good as far as I can tell.
@@hannahforeman Then I'll give you the short version. My best friend is a girl but my parents practically raised her that we considered ourselves as siblings. And she's a Lesbian. Got it?
@@Nameless82284 it was complicated but yep. Did read it all too
Nah. If your gf is being mean to your sister/bff, you don't have to accept it. You have the right to take your sister's side.
I still feel like they should wait a bit more before having a baby in the midst of all that. To me that cuddling and soul mate part was dodgy but the ending was beautiful. I hope they rebuild as well as muscles do when you work out to find themselves is a stronger relationship.
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Not gonna lie,I'd be gone.
Personally, I would be but if my partner was mature enough to apologise and grow as a person then maybe I would reconsider the relationship.
@@aliciax5854for me, it would be too late. I would be really hurt. Im the type of person that would shower someone i love with affection and love. If my husband did this, i would be too hurt and my emotion will detached itself from my body. I became a completely different person, more like a robot. Cold and emotionless. I've been through similar situation only that my ex gf wasnt mature enough to apologize. My chidhood trauma also led to me becoming like this.
Same...I consider my dogs my soulmates too!
i like how mature this story is to be honest. one thing though, soulmates isnt an inherently romantic thing. me & my best friend consider ourselves soulmates & everyone we know is aware of this. i am aromantic & asexual so ill never be in a romantic relationship & no one else really *can* assume im their soulmate. my best friend though wouldnt mind a relationship & wants kids. im so worried that im going to end up being no longer the soulmate. like thats not how it works & i trust my bets friend with my life honestly but im so scared that im gonna be pushed aside someday & romance will be on its usual pedestal ://
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lack of communication leads to separation
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8:18 I'm really glad they made up and worked it out, and honestly I feel bad for both of them; OP for having to deal with that and M for feeling so afraid for her best friend that she felt like she had to spend all that time with him and prioritize him over her husband. I also feel rlly bad for Chuck because he didn't deserve the stuff he went through :(
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I dont know if I would have been forgiving. I mean, it's one thing to be maybe spending a month to make sure everything was fine with Chuck, but 6 MONTHS?!!? what the hell?! And the guy wasnt desiringto kick Chuck out. He just wanted to feel included, and she blew up on him over that??? Im sorry, but I would have walked out. Like damn bitch...And she didnt even try to talk to Chuck whether or not he was fine until her husband started pulling away from her? That's kind of toxic behavior. Especially since she knows the husbands dad was abusive and would scream at him just like she did. And she called him horrible things too. Im sorry ,but i would not have accepted an apology so easily. If you didn't mean what you said, then you wouldn't have said it at all
Good on them for trying to work it out ,but I would definitely keep an eye on the wife.Husband better be prepared for something down the line in that relationship.
Very true, hopefully she will change for the better and they will set boundaries for each other.
True ,I would have been so crushes honestly, I'm very sensitive and bottle up my feelings too .
She wanted to prevent Her bsf from having suicidal thoughts but if I was her husband, probably I would have gotten those thoughts with the way she neglecting him
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That story was just- so sweet and hopeful. They really do have such a great relationship, not because it’s super flirty or perfect, but because both sides are willing to acknowledge they’re wrong and work on their issues together. And considering how many stories we’ve read on this channel where SO’s are narcissistic, controlling, stubborn, beauty/sex focused ect… this was a nice change of pace. It’s very rare for me to see or hear about a romantic relationship and say “oh wow, that sounds like a relationship I would like to have” but today I did! We need more couples like this in the world. 🩷
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3:20 no wonder you're single, Ellen!
she's completely right
@@mahekgaur1917 how so?
@@MyTurtleApril it is disrespectful
@@mahekgaur1917 how is it disrespectful?
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