I LOVE THIS!! I'm a young woman who is trying to be a virtuous woman and have a diligent life. I'm working on my purpose for the LORD AND SAVIOR and what GOD is putting me through on this journey. There were days when I lack motivation, with doubt and procrastination because I'm afraid that I will disappoint my family. Like if I don't make a lot of money, getting a good job, buy rich merchandise ect. I'm working on being a business women as well. And it's hard when I'm mostly soft spoken and fearful. But I have great intelligence to care for others and bringing people back to CHRIST, because he is AWESOME and HE will NEVER leave YOU!!! Your purpose is near and treasures are near ladies!!! I'm extremely hurt, afraid, concerned, and worried for millennials and this generation. I pray for me and pray for them all.
Heavenly Phoenix74 Fear is not from the Lord! You shouldn't be fearful, rebuke it in Jesus name and ask the Lord that you should only have fear of Him! God bless :) may He answer your prayers
The virtuous woman is a prayerful woman, she can stand for her man, even at the darkest moment of their life. She is the shining star that lights the whole family.
A Virtuous woman must also understand the Jezebel spirit so she is able to resist and never submit to it but to the will of the Most High according to Proverbs 31.
A great way for a woman to know the Jezebel spirit is messing with her, is that if she keeps asking her husband WHY he does things the way he does... he WON'T respond to this spirit, which can throw the wife into frustration, oppression, and depression... perfect to get her to act crazy (The way Jezebel would).
Track Peters That, and what one spouse does either has a profoundly negative or profoundly positive effect in the other, and they shall not want to be a stumbling block to the other, or do something wrong and the wife pays for what the husband did and vice-versa.
Be a virtuous woman for Christ first, then it will be easy to be one for your soon to be husband if he has not taken you already. And make sure if you are still single that the man you choose is a Godly man who don't compromise when it comes to God's word. A man who is loving, kind, humble yet strong, a leader, sober-minded, etc...God bless
SuperPunch76 yes I have been married for almost 3 years and I also help women become the women God has designed them to be. It also helps that my husband is a Godly man because we both are growing together in our faith and guiding our babies to know the Lord 💛
@On SB God didn't say *women are too stupid to lead,* YOU with your wicked heart put it up there. Godly women are wise to lead other women and they lead children too. *Different roles don't make others wise and others stupid.*
@On SB The reason you insist on your lie and stupidity is because you are of your father the devil. Children of satan don't have ears to hear God but their father satan only. *God said it and that's it. No negotiations or changing of His word of authority. If you don't like it, stay with your family of satan.*
Industrious...Nutritionally conscience.(yes and no)...Early riser (not too early, not too late), Entrepreneurial...physically fit...God help me! Please people...pray for me.
very well said. it is impossible for human to be near perfect because of our sinful nature. The only way is to try as hard as we can. I believe that one has sincere will do be a better person and is trying with all his/her heart and strength, God will take it from there.
Right on! Wanted to add that I am struggling with a disability and so I can't always keep the physical things, but I try. Please remember that true virtue is devotion to Christ and not everyone can physically do everything, even though we may desire to do so. I served children and adults with special abilities, for 30 years. Please pray for my physical health to be restored. Thank -you!
Trisha the Lord sees your limitations. Prayer is a powerful weapon. When we can do little else, we can always pray. If you can't move your lips, set your heart and mind on the things of God, and worship him and let your requests be known unto him. Father in the name of Jesus I pray that you continue to strengthen Trisha in her mind body and spirit. May the Holy Spirit fill her with peace and the knowledge of your love for her. I pray you continue to speak to her as she reads the Holy Scriptures. Also may you surround her with people who are also of the household of faith, brothers and sisters in Christ. Help her to identify the gift or gifts you have given her. Help her to use these gifts for for the building up of the body of Christ and to further the Gospel here on earth. In Jesus name I pray, amen✝️
Numerous scriptures talk about what roles, virtues, and qualities of Godly woman. Proverbs 14:1 Proverbs 31: 10-31 Titus 2: 3-5 1 Timothy 2: 9-11, 3:11, 5:10 1 Peter 3: 1-6
On TheEdge no real godly man thinks the way you described men... and secondly are you saying that the rest of the Bible is not inspired by God? That is a rebellious spirit. If you’re still in that state you need to repent.
On TheEdge On TheEdge first of all I never said men were superior nor do I believe so. Nor do I hate woman. Nor am I looking for a woman to worship me, God forbid. You need to stop bearing false witness, and judge righteous judgment. I believe the whole word of God, everything, and you should too if you really follow Jesus. We are both equals in value but not in responsibilities. That’s what you seem to not understand. God values us the same but He gave both genders different responsibilities. You say you only follow Jesus?? Yet ignore the rest of scriptures?? Do you not know that Christ Jesus is the word of God. You sound like a bitter woman. I don’t know if a man hurt you but you need to ask God to heal your heart and to remove from you that rebellious spirit. The LORD commands the woman to submit to the husband, and for the husband to love his wife. Men are not to be abusive to their wives. I understand some women have been abused by men who twist scripture to be cruel to woman. That’s not what God intended. A godly man is not going to abuse his wife. God made sure to use the apostle Paul to write a command for the husbands to protect the wives of men from being abused. It is the following (since you claim to only follow Jesus you should have no problem with this) Ephesians 5:25-33 KJVS [25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; [26] That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, [27] That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. [28] So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. [29] For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: [30] For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. [31] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. [32] This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. [33] Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband. James 3:13-18 KJVS [13] Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom. [14] But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. [15] This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish. [16] For where envying and strife is , there is confusion and every evil work. [17] But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. [18] And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
On TheEdge wow so you blaspheme the word of God? Truly it is God with whom you are against for He is the one who inspired the scriptures. We men have responsibilities that we ourselves don’t want to deal with, but we suck it up, and submit to God’s will. You need to repent. Genesis 3:13-19 KJVS [13] And the Lord God said unto the woman, What is this that thou hast done? And the woman said, The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat. [14] And the Lord God said unto the serpent, Because thou hast done this, thou art cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field; upon thy belly shalt thou go, and dust shalt thou eat all the days of thy life: [15] And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel. [16] Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. [17] And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life; [18] Thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth to thee; and thou shalt eat the herb of the field; [19] In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art , and unto dust shalt thou return.
@On SB I think you need to just sit down, actually read the Bible, and then come back. I'm a 16yo female, and God's structure and place of man and wife is wonderful! That's the way God designed it, and His judgments are pure. We humans make the errors. I also think that you got hurt, or that you didn't have a great example when you were a child. Ask God to show you why you are so aggressive, and a man hatter.. If a man is your enemy, God does says to love your enemy's...
As an older more mature woman I've learned that being a good woman is how God speaks of a woman in the Bible! The beauty of any human being is in the heart I think! I strive to be what God expects no matter what the world's standards are. Its not popular its all about following the laws of God! Not easy but one must practice. Keep striving because if you please God then he will find your mate
Titus 2:3-5 (NASB) Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored. 1 Peter 3:1-6 (NASB) 1 In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, 2 as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior. 3 Your adornment must not be merely external-braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses; 4 but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God. 5 For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; 6 just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.
Keeping focused on Jesus ... Running my race and being careful not to get side tracked... Keeping my heart from growing cold, Keeping my meditations on the things above, Thanking and spending time in communion with my Lord and Savior, Thanking God for all He has done and is doing and will do in my life, Singing to the Lord, rejoicing in all His gifts everyday that He gives... Sharing the Gospel when possible, He is worthy of all my attention... How much time do we have to speak of the wonder and majesty of our God? All Eternity!!!
31Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.I think this last verse is very encouraging but wasn't included in the teaching. You are an excellent teacher with a kind and encouraging presence. Thank you very much for this balanced and practical explanation of a virtuous woman. PS God is love.
Absolutely excellent teaching! The reason a virtuous woman is worth so much is because she is the most rare treasure in all the world! WHO CAN FIND ONE?? If you do, know that it was a miracle of the Almighty! I believe the reason the Apostle Paul said it’s better to remain single is because the overwhelming majority of the time a spouse is a detriment to the work of The Kingdom, but not if you find a truly virtuous woman!
Kim Johnson...I believe what the Bible is teaching us is not literally do what she does but focus on the character of the woman for example she loves God, seeks the welfare of her family..is industrious etc...these are things every woman can accomplish
shadowgovernment3000 You realize he's basically saying that where there are wicked men there will never be a righteous woman??? There MIGHT be one upright man but never an upright woman with that type of man. Read verse 26...context is important here. He's saying that among a thousand men he found only one who was not wicked, but the women who those men were hanging around were all wicked women. Read verse 29 as well: "This alone I found, only God can make a man upright". The connotation here is that if a righteous woman tries to make a wicked man upright it won't work. His wickedness will just pervert her too and she herself will become like him. Use understanding buddy: Rahab, Ester, Ruth, Judith, Virgin Mary, the widow of Zarephath.... If God thought that Mary was upright enough to give birth to the Christ, and Christ allowed Mary Magdalene to be one of his followers then that clearly means that God does NOT think all women are wicked. 🤔
im preparing my self to find and fall in love with a virtous woman hopefully. But these days most womans don't like Jesus teachings. they like facebook instagram and finding a boyfriend her girl friends would approve
Behold Eärendil To be fair, a lot of men don't like the Lord's teachings either. They want the woman to submitt to him but won't love her the way Christ loves His Church and gave His life for it. For one example, a lot of guys will try to pressure a woman into premarital and will break it off with her if she won't do it, turn around, and run if she ends up pregnant. Or, he'll have a woman sacrificing everything for him, yet he still looks at other woman or look at porn or something. If a man wants a Proverb 31 wife, then he needs to love her and cherish her the way Jesus would if he had a wife when He was in human formation. Jesus would not have looked at other women for one example...
I would never say most man. Yeah they're might be more than before , but thats why you don't "look to fall in love". Fall in Love with God and his word , he will help you paint a better picture of your life and give you everything you need . I'm speaking to myself too brother
@On SB I don't think you have a problem with men who think like Dan M7. I think you just just have a problem with these verses in the Bible as you stated in your last comment. I believe a lot of women in the church have issues with these verses because of their worldly definition and meaning of these verses.
The most well explained topic about a virtuous woman.. Brilliant and excellent given wisdom from God.. Thank you very much for your very nice message .. Praying, I would be like her .. A model in character as a woman of God... Godbless u always 😊🙏
I want to find a virtuous women as my wife :) one day it will happen through Christ.. but before I do so I must ponder my own life and establish my good ways
I always knew I was different. (in a good way) Being a teen I never dressed to get a guys attention, ect. Even as a teenage I always like up early to get my chores done. When my husband met we weren't looking to date. But 3 months later we started dating. 6 years later and as a mother and wife, (2year old and 3month old) I understand. I never knew how I view/what I do is related to this. :)
@On SB I'm a woman, not a man! I don't wear makeup because I feel like society sort of demands it, but that's only my choice. But if you want to wear makeup, that's fine. It's your choice. Men just aren't "expected" to. I strongly believe that women should be equal to men. Society puts so much emphasis on our appearance, not who we are or what we accomplish. I'm sorry if I confused anybody. I'm 64, and women are STILL being treated like objects and slaves. 😔
Thank You Pastor David, I have watched your videos and find them to be such an encouragement! I cant say enough how the points detailed reminds us the purpose of Male and Female role as God created it.
Thank you so much for your encouraging comment. We are so glad you are benefiting from the teachings. The most recent teaching is called How To Live Without Being Offended. This message very, very good. Strongly encouraging you to watch it. Blessings to you!
1 Peter 3:1-6 is the best description of the Godly woman, one who is quietly Godly, recognizes Godly authority in both her husband and in Christ. Submission to the word of Christ is key.
thanks, i have a burden for the young girls. They endure much pressure to compromise and please others.How wonderful if they would desire being virtous its more fulfilling. thank you
My current wife loves to scream so I just walk away or I keep a chair between us so she won't hit me. I also keep a serious face because she hates to see me smiling. In 4 years my son will be 16 so then I will leave & our son will decide who he wants to live with.
NothingButTheTruth The good news is that she just became polite. To stop her sex with-holding and silent treatment I cut trees for my customers and laid them down on our backyard 2 months ago. I also collected the furniture and metal that our neighbors threw out and put them in our backyard. Ana finally talked to me because the City of Deltona came by and told us to clean up our backyard by June 1st, 2017 or we would be fined. So Ana finally gave me what I needed and this week we will clean up our backyard. After 16 years I finally learned of a way to communicate with my bully wife. Yesterday she was helping me saw the tree branches into smaller pieces. I used the Fiskars small axe and she used the Katana Boy 500 made by Silky. I behave this way because Ana doesn't let the our children obey me. I believe children should do chores and Ana believes children are to be worshipped and to let the children spend hour after hour on the internet. When I told our daughter about 3 years ago to help me wash dishes after dinner Maya was about 13 years old and she just walked to her room and ignored me. I told Ana to help me and Ana said: "Leave her alone! She is a teenager." But Maya has been a bully to me since she was 5 years old. Usually Ana lies to the police and gets me incarcerated, but if she had called the police on me about the messy dead trees in our backyard and the rats or mice and the garbage furniture and metal then the police may have incarcerated me again but she still would have to pay someone to clean up our backyard. Also the police finally arrested Maya 2 years ago when she threw a Tupperware plastic container at me when I took away her phone so we have stopped calling the cops on each other since then. Of course the cops unfairly locked me up 3 times prior to Maya being arrested. Now as a man I know that I must have cameras to prove my innocence. The good news is that Ana will help me clean up our backyard and this is good marriage therapy. If she withholds sex or gives me the silent treatment or starts yelling or talking in a bad tone of voice at me then I'll just go cut down some trees and collect the furniture our neighbors throw out and place them in our front yard this time because I don't want to wait 2 months for sex again. Whichever neighbor called the city to report us did me a big favor. God finally gave me the wisdom I searched for so that I could communicate with my bully wife. I think she will become a Proverbs 31 Wife now. My grandpa was a rich man because as a child before he was given breakfast he had to feed the dog, the cat, and the horse. I believe children should be respectful to their parents. My grandpa got rich because he had self discipline. My grandpa was a worker bee. God taught me to be intelligent through Booker T. Washington's book Character Development. He said about Intelligence: "If the floor is dirty then sweep it, mop it, wash the mop, and put everything away. Nobody should have to tell you what to do every 2 minutes." "At this school we won't teach you the name of some mountain in Africa. Here we teach 3 things: Intelligence, Skilled Hands, and Morality." "Skilled hands: Carpentry, plumbing, electricity, cooking, bricklaying, farming, etc" "Morality: Don't steal. Don't smoke. Don't do drugs. Don't drink alcohol. Don't gamble. Don't go out at night. Don't go with a prostitute. Don't live in a city. The countryside is better. Do help somebody." So Ana doesn't want our son to learn to cook. I went away to college at 17 and I didn't know how to boil an egg because my mother had always cooked for me and she had forbidden me to touch her expensive pots and pans except to wash them. The college cafeteria was closed on Saturdays and Sundays and I had zero money or food. My son is 12 and doesn't want to learn to cook. I feed him before he drops, but when Ana cooks dinner I verbally bother Ana, my wife, until she finally tells our son to come help her make dinner. Ana doesn't want our kids to learn carpentry. I just built my first birdhouse. This was a huge achievement for me. I am teaching myself carpentry because I have been homeless 5 times because I didn't earn enough money at my jobs in the past and I noticed that carpenters have 2 cars and 2 or more houses. Ana helps me do carpentry sometimes and other times she hides my tools. The police man said that my wife did not have to obey me, but that my children do have to obey me so Ana helps me with carpentry because our kids don't want to learn and Ana wants me to leave our kids alone. I just want Ana and the kids to be successful adults. Ana refuses to read the bible so I have to be creative. 10 years ago our roommate moved out and his tv didn't fit into his car which was full of his things so he told us: "I'll be back in a couple of hours to pick up my tv," and Ana told him: "NO! YOU WILL TAKE IT NOW!" Then he said: "IF MY TV IS NOT HERE THEN I WILL BREAK YOUR MINIVAN'S WINDOW!" (And my thought was: "HOORAY! Someone finally stood up to Ana the bully) A few hours later he picked up his tv. A month later Ana's minivan's window was broken. I used to say to myself: "Ana just doesn't have any wisdom or politeness." I was a peacemaker and too polite. My brain at 40 was the polite and obedient brain of a 5 year old child. Lisa A. Romano on youtube explained how I was mentally abused as a child. My mother forbid me to make noise or ask her any questions. Also I was required to obey her instantly. Later the bullies noticed that I would obey them instantly without thinking. My first wife was a bully and told me when I moved in with her to not bring any books because she had asthma. So later she showed me her albums and then she told me to show her mine and I told her: "But you told me not to bring any books so I threw it away." Children must have an adult to teach them things. My dictator mother taught me to be ignorant and not to approach her. My grandpa, her father, had a look on his face that said: "How dare you look at me! Keep away from me." Also don't lie to children because it makes them less intelligent. I caught my mother telling lies to me and to other people and as a child I kept trying to believe her. I "voted against my conscience" again and again. I disobeyed my own beliefs and opinion and obeyed the bullies and everyone. Now I keep away from people and I limit my time with the bullies. I have boundaries. I do have friends, but they don't bully me anymore. God bless you and those that surround you.
It’s hard being a virtuous women when you’re busy getting rid of all the clowns and counterfeits. By the time my husband comes, I’m going to need him to carry me.
My church of Christ is very biblical, our only authority is the bible and not the pastor, and he himself says it. The only thing that you will hear there is the unaltered word of God. Well, one of my church sisters recently said to me that "every single church is misogynist, yeah, even our church. It's like we can only take care of our kids and do the housework". And I know more christian women who think the same way. "We can't even teach the bible to men", etc. They seem to only focus on what they can't do, they complain that in this day and age the church should change that to go along with the times, to which I always respond "it is the word of God, he has a different role for both of us, nobody is better than the other, we are just different and meant to do different things, ideally speaking. But they don't care, it's like they get triggered with what God says. Where do some women get the idea that the ideal christian woman is only allowed to take care of the kids and do housework anyway? Read proverbs 31:10-31, you women have a wonderful role in this world. God describe the perfect woman as someone not only loving and caring, but strong, hard working, smart, organizer, praised by her husband and kids, more valuable than a precious stone... I don't see anything wrong with any of that. I would love to marry someone like that and do my best everyday to be worthy of her love. I don't understand why some women say things like "I don't need no man, I'm better by myself". Well lady, maybe you had a bad experience before, but that doesn't mean you have to stay away from a healthy relationship. Personally, having a family is one of the things that I look forward the most after being born again 10 months ago.
Apparently, In Proverbs, the word virtuous was inserted instead of valiant because at the time theologians couldn't imagine women being valiant. I don't know if that is true because I heard this 40 years ago when feminism was in its infancy.
I was once told that the original word was not virtuous but valiant. Apparently, the Bible scholars didn't have the guts to insert that word because it went against their perception of women a the time of the translation. Nevertheless, virtuousness is not to be ignored. Any woman whether single, married, divorced or widowed can become Christlike as she follows Him.
I pray and hope that one day I'm completely transformed into the Virtuous Woman who is humbling, nurturing mother to my children loyal, hardworking, trustworthy, loving, motherly, praying partner, and an outstanding wife I speak this into existence through Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Amen🙏 Proverbs 31
sorry, but his interpretation of scripture is totally wrong... he is a false teacher.. ..He doesnt understand what is the true meaning of this scripture..it speaks of clothing herself with the blood of Christ, which is the scarlet robe, and with faith in God, who will protect her from cold winds, and she teaches this and plants seeds about God in her family, feeding her household with the word of God, which is the true bread of life, and is planted in the household hearts as a seed.. the interpretion is much longer than that..but i gave it as an example...the virtuous woman is not the one who goes and gathers money and looks after the whole family by material things etc etc... the meaning here is spiritual..she works with her hands..meaning she shares the word of God with others, this way making people to repent and come to the Kingdom of God..this way acumulating true riches in heaven, where thieves and volwes cant steal, where moth doesnt eat etc... The scripture here says, that she gets her food from afar!! Meaning her food is the Word of God!! and she lives by it, and her household..Yet, this man is saying she doesnt just get any food, but she gets the best of the best, who knows from where... like where do you get it, what kind of food is that???? what if i am poor and dont have the money for the best quality food??honestly... what this man is teaching here is wordliness...and we know that the world is an enmity against God...!!! Study the Word with a prayer, that the Lord would give you understanding! May Jesus bless you, and give you discernment, to discern false teachers from the true teachers! Amen
Thank you, so much! You saved my life, I feel like the whole world is against me. This virtuous women sounds like me :') thank you for providing the video :)
God bless you. You are not alone, there are more women realizing that a worldly lifestyle doesn't bring true happiness. I encourage you to keep your eyes on Christ and walk in His ways.
Why is it so hard for a virtuous woman to be equally yoked with a virtuous man? Why are virtuous man far and few between, or at least very hard to find or never find me?
I respect you for the enthusiasm you have for virtue sister. If you can, send me a friend request on facebook. This also goes out to all those who Lord Jesus here, my brothers and sisters. Facebook name: Sipho YahwehServant Michael. God bless
It's not easy to become a virtual women but god's in your side everything is possible just pray daily love god trust him and have faith I am living life of virtuous women departing me from world things and getting successful in the name of Jesus Amen
This comment might get some misunderstanding or hate, but when I read the video title (ideal, virtuous woman) and then looked at how the woman pictured had on her pierced earrings and low-scoop top, I didn't really want to listen to the message. Apparel, piercing the body, outward vanity, and wearing a biblical headcoverng, are issues within the "virtuous" subject. Ideal to whom - God or man? Does even one person reading this get it?
@Tracey Owen Hughes Seriously?? this is a false teacher! the whole understanding and teaching of the Word that he just did here is wrong...He doesnt understand what is the true meaning of this scripture..it speaks of clothing herself with the blood of Christ, which is the scarlet robe, and with faith in God, who will protect her from cold winds, and she teaches this and plants seeds about God in her family, feeding her household with the word of God, which is the true bread of life, and is planted in the household hearts as a seed.. the interpretion is much longer than that..but i gave it as an example...the virtuous woman is not the one who goes and gathers money and looks after the whole family by material things etc etc... the meaning here is spiritual..she works with her hands..meaning she shares the word of God with others, this way turning people to repentance and coming to the Kingdom of God..this way acummulating true riches in heaven, where thieves and robbers cant steal, and where moth doesnt eat etc... The scripture here says, that she gets her food from afar!! Meaning her food is the Word of God!! and she lives by it, and her household. Yet, this man is saying that she gets not just any food, but she gets the best of the best, who knows from where... like where do you get it, what kind of food is that???? what if i am poor and dont have the money for the best quality food??honestly... what this man is teaching here is wordliness...and we know that the world is an enmity against God...!!! Study the Word with a prayer, that the Lord would give you understanding! May Jesus bless you, and give you discernment, to discern false teachers from the true teachers! Amen
If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her. (Deuteronomy 22:28-29 NLT)
What if you are all this and the man never sees instead calls you a woman of no virtue ? The virtuous woman suffers in the hand of a wrong man . God help your people .
In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives,as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior. - 1 Peter 3:1-2 For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps, who committed no sin, nor was any deceit found in His mouth; and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to Him who judges righteously; - 1 Peter 2:21-23
Wow. I wish I was rich enough to consider a 5 carat emerald 'little'. That would be worth over 100,000 dollars. Guess that tells me everything I need to know about this particular preacher.
I have no problem being submissive to the word of God & my Hubby, but all the things this dude presents, there must be 35-40 hours in a day! Wake up early, have a job, cook, keep the house clean, work out, looks after the hubby and the kids, has her own business, shop for the food, make her clothes, gives to charity, dresses well, super confident, smart, prays (I guess that includes church)...You can tell this was written by a man. I GIVE UP!!!!
KIM JOHNSON You can't try to be this person you have to BE this kind of person or yes you will get tired. A woman does not complain and she is not set on her problems. She sets herself aside while and thinks of others
KIM JOHNSON She had servants. Lol. And her husband to be was a King. Lemuel. I'm glad his mother who taught him this about women was not my mother in law. Phew!
How can one woman do all that? She creates a business, she delivers to merchants, she bears children, she runs a full household, she cooks every meal, she makes her own fabric and creates clothes for herself and family, she stays up late and gets up bfore dawn, searches outside for the needy, cares for her children and husband, (child care is a full time job), she is a wise man because she still has time to study God's truth, she is an advisor, she never is idle! She brings in the money, and her husband gets to sit at the gates with the elders. Well, what does the husband do? Well??? This woman is doing everything. She might as well be the man of the family as she certainly is the one in charge. I want to see a better teaching on this. AND what is a virtuous man? How come no mention of that is here? The woman is the big time helper, but what is the man doing to help his virtuous, hard working, slave wife. Something is off in this teaching, not the scripture. Does anyone know where a better teaching is?
+ZSrz There is better teachings, but don't look in the Bible is my advice. btw, I agree. It always seems up to the woman to be "good". Exactly, what is a virtuous man? If men are immoral, that seems to be fine, they get a free pass. But Eve hands Adam an apple (of which he ate) and we're all doomed to hell.
I think it would be helpful to remember the scripture that begins with, "WHO can FIND a virtuous and capable wife?" implying that perfection is hard to find, but it can be pursued if someone (whether man or woman) is willing to fear God with all their heart. From my knowledge and understanding, the book of Proverbs is inspired by King Solomon, who happened to be a very prosperous king. The reason for that wealth was because he chose the "fear of the Lord" or "wisdom" above all things. Proverbs is all about wisdom. So I believe this passage was an analogy that he used to conclude what wisdom looks like when applied in a person's life.
first, buddy, you are wrong : WEAKER sesx don't mean weakness, it talks about the passitivity of the of the sexuality, passive . like strong sex is the active .... man....
The shock and trauma this culture imposes on our innocent young is HORRID . Poor , little defenseless souls being exposed to all manner of perversion and distortion . They need the fervent prayer of believers. God help us all...
If within the city a man comes upon a maiden who is betrothed, and has relations with her, you shall bring them both out of the gate of the city and there stone them to death: the girl because she did not cry out for help though she was in the city, and the man because he violated his neighbors wife. (Deuteronomy 22:23-24
Come to the new covenant of Yeshua and get a new teaching for SALVATION, not condemnation. A covenant about holiness, righteousness, faith, and being born again in the spirit. You can't be a christian and rape women because you are no longer controlled by the desires of the flesh but the spirit. God bless.
As the Wife submits to the authority of her Husband, the “True Church,” submits to the authority of Jesus Christ: Ephesians 5:23. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. The “True Church” submits to Jesus by, “Obeying ALL of His Word.” A part of His Word is to be, “Baptized in water,”..... Matthew 28:19. Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, BAPTIZING THEM in the NAME (Singular) of The Father and of The Son and of The Holy Ghost. Notice it is ONE name (Not two or three) which is the NAME (Singular) of The Father and of The Son and of The Holy Ghost. That NAME is “JESUS CHRIST” as we see being used in: Acts 2:38. Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of JESUS CHRIST for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Jesus had GIVEN Peter the keys to the Kingdom of Heaven: Matthew 16:19. And I will give unto THEE (Peter) the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven . On the day of Pentecost people are asking, “What shall we do?” and here stands Peter, the man with the keys, so he uses the keys to unlock the Kingdom of Heaven to them. The Lord Jesus Christ, stated that a man MUST be born of TWO things, “WATER” and “SPIRIT.” John 3:5. Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of WATER and of the SPIRIT, he cannot enter into the Kingdom of God. The Bride of the Lord Jesus Christ will gladly obey His Words, indeed, Jesus asks, Luke 6:46. And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and DO NOT the things which I say ? The submissive Bride will be taken in the Rapture, many will be left behind for the Great Tribulation Period. Furthermore, the Lord Jesus Christ stated that to, “Receive Jesus” a man MUST receive whomsoever Jesus sends..... John 13:20. Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that receiveth whomsoever I send receiveth me; and he that receiveth me receiveth him that sent me. In this day the Lord has sent His seventh and final Church Age Messenger, (To the Laodicean Church Age) William Marrion Branham. These and other “Prophetical scriptures” fulfilled: Malachi 4:5. Matthew 17:11. Revelation 10:7. Revelation 3:14. Revelation 1:16 - 20. Revelation 2:1. Revelation 3:1. Watch this amazing testimony on UA-cam: Ed Byskal - I am a witness (Testimony on William Branham)
A virtuous woman can only be led by God's teaching not the world. It is highly deciplined life with a lot of following standards from God, abiding the gifts of being virtuous what you do in deeds for everybody in this world, it is who you are not what you practice. When you ask God virtuous gifts, he will answer and you will become virtuous but it will be a commitment with you and God, and part of your life's journey. Enjoy God's blessings, blessings are more worth than gold.
Google "Strong's Concordance." Enter 1 Tim. 3. See verse 1: "if a man" G1536 ( Whosoever); "Bishop" G1984 (Office of an elder). V.2, "Bishop" G1985 (Bishoprick). V.1 is a position. V.2 is a person. Whosoever desires the Office of a bishop. Acts 14:23, "elders" G4245 (elder man, elder WOMAN). Acts 20:28, "overseers" G1985 (Elder of a Christian church). Bishops are overseers as pastors of Christian church. Holy women stand in office of bishop. Eph. 4:11, God gave some apostles, teachers, etc. Titus 1:5, "ordain elders in every city."
I LOVE THIS!! I'm a young woman who is trying to be a virtuous woman and have a diligent life. I'm working on my purpose for the LORD AND SAVIOR and what GOD is putting me through on this journey. There were days when I lack motivation, with doubt and procrastination because I'm afraid that I will disappoint my family. Like if I don't make a lot of money, getting a good job, buy rich merchandise ect. I'm working on being a business women as well. And it's hard when I'm mostly soft spoken and fearful. But I have great intelligence to care for others and bringing people back to CHRIST, because he is AWESOME and HE will NEVER leave YOU!!! Your purpose is near and treasures are near ladies!!! I'm extremely hurt, afraid, concerned, and worried for millennials and this generation. I pray for me and pray for them all.
Heavenly Phoenix74 Fear is not from the Lord! You shouldn't be fearful, rebuke it in Jesus name and ask the Lord that you should only have fear of Him! God bless :) may He answer your prayers
Heavenly Phoenix74 I am having trouble getting up in the morning. .. terrible sleep schedule. Any suggestions
A Woman who has some elegance & dresses modestly.
The virtuous woman is a prayerful woman, she can stand for her man, even at the darkest moment of their life. She is the shining star that lights the whole family.
Miriam Reyes
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As a woman, this is REFRESHING!
I don't quite posses all of this yet, but I'm really seeking to be Godly!
A Virtuous woman must also understand the Jezebel spirit so she is able to resist and never submit to it but to the will of the Most High according to Proverbs 31.
A great way for a woman to know the Jezebel spirit is messing with her, is that if she keeps asking her husband WHY he does things the way he does... he WON'T respond to this spirit, which can throw the wife into frustration, oppression, and depression... perfect to get her to act crazy (The way Jezebel would).
Track Peters
That, and what one spouse does either has a profoundly negative or profoundly positive effect in the other, and they shall not want to be a stumbling block to the other, or do something wrong and the wife pays for what the husband did and vice-versa.
My goal is to be a virtuous women for my soon to be husband. Lord help become this women that you have designed me to be in you.
Be a virtuous woman for Christ first, then it will be easy to be one for your soon to be husband if he has not taken you already. And make sure if you are still single that the man you choose is a Godly man who don't compromise when it comes to God's word. A man who is loving, kind, humble yet strong, a leader, sober-minded, etc...God bless
SuperPunch76 yes I have been married for almost 3 years and I also help women become the women God has designed them to be.
It also helps that my husband is a Godly man because we both are growing together in our faith and guiding our babies to know the Lord 💛
happy for you, god bless you both!
@On SB God didn't say *women are too stupid to lead,* YOU with your wicked heart put it up there. Godly women are wise to lead other women and they lead children too. *Different roles don't make others wise and others stupid.*
@On SB The reason you insist on your lie and stupidity is because you are of your father the devil. Children of satan don't have ears to hear God but their father satan only. *God said it and that's it. No negotiations or changing of His word of authority. If you don't like it, stay with your family of satan.*
its not an easy road to virtue ......all we can do is try to our hardest to follow the word our god....and ask forgiveness for our short comings
Well said, Daisy! I can see where I fall short. Pray for me.
Industrious...Nutritionally conscience.(yes and no)...Early riser (not too early, not too late), Entrepreneurial...physically fit...God help me! Please people...pray for me.
very well said. it is impossible for human to be near perfect because of our sinful nature.
The only way is to try as hard as we can. I believe that one has sincere will do be a better person and is trying with all his/her heart and strength, God will take it from there.
Daisy Valencia [ God ] not "god" please 😊
1. Trustworthy
2. Consistently Good
3. Industrious
4. Nutritionally Conscious
5. Early Riser
6. Cares for Others
7. Entrepreneurial
8. Physically Fit
9. Thrifty Shopper/Frugal
10. Protective
11. Works with her hands
12. Charitable & Generous
13. Prepared (thinks ahead of time)
14. Elegant & Modest Dresser
15. Helper to Her Husband
16. Self Employed
17. Honorable Woman
18. Full of Wisdom
19. Kind Woman
20. Family Focus
21. Diligent
22. Respectable
23. Fears the Lord
Wonderful teaching! Thank you for this!!
You did a really good job breaking this chapter down.
Great insight!! Lord I want to be a virtuous woman.
He will trust in him
+Some Jane Amen
Same! GOD BLESS
Karla Flores how can you tell the Scorpio see his gear is female size silver
Powerful word and a great blessing. Amen!!
My God bless all the virtuous women out there.
Thanks so much Pastor David for this insightful teaching😊
Right on! Wanted to add that I am struggling with a disability and so I can't always keep the physical things, but I try.
Please remember that true virtue is devotion to Christ and not everyone can physically do everything, even though we may desire to do so.
I served children and adults with special abilities, for 30 years.
Please pray for my physical health to be restored. Thank -you!
Trisha Whitehouse so very true!! Thanks for the input :)
Trisha the Lord sees your limitations. Prayer is a powerful weapon. When we can do little else, we can always pray. If you can't move your lips, set your heart and mind on the things of God, and worship him and let your requests be known unto him.
Father in the name of Jesus I pray that you continue to strengthen Trisha in her mind body and spirit. May the Holy Spirit fill her with peace and the knowledge of your love for her. I pray you continue to speak to her as she reads the Holy Scriptures. Also may you surround her with people who are also of the household of faith, brothers and sisters in Christ. Help her to identify the gift or gifts you have given her. Help her to use these gifts for for the building up of the body of Christ and to further the Gospel here on earth. In Jesus name I pray, amen✝️
Lord make me a True Living Virtuous Woman.
Numerous scriptures talk about what roles, virtues, and qualities of Godly woman.
Proverbs 14:1
Proverbs 31: 10-31
Titus 2: 3-5
1 Timothy 2: 9-11, 3:11, 5:10
1 Peter 3: 1-6
On TheEdge no real godly man thinks the way you described men... and secondly are you saying that the rest of the Bible is not inspired by God? That is a rebellious spirit. If you’re still in that state you need to repent.
On TheEdge On TheEdge first of all I never said men were superior nor do I believe so. Nor do I hate woman. Nor am I looking for a woman to worship me, God forbid. You need to stop bearing false witness, and judge righteous judgment. I believe the whole word of God, everything, and you should too if you really follow Jesus. We are both equals in value but not in responsibilities. That’s what you seem to not understand. God values us the same but He gave both genders different responsibilities. You say you only follow Jesus?? Yet ignore the rest of scriptures?? Do you not know that Christ Jesus is the word of God. You sound like a bitter woman. I don’t know if a man hurt you but you need to ask God to heal your heart and to remove from you that rebellious spirit.
The LORD commands the woman to submit to the husband, and for the husband to love his wife. Men are not to be abusive to their wives. I understand some women have been abused by men who twist scripture to be cruel to woman. That’s not what God intended. A godly man is not going to abuse his wife. God made sure to use the apostle Paul to write a command for the husbands to protect the wives of men from being abused. It is the following (since you claim to only follow Jesus you should have no problem with this)
Ephesians 5:25-33 KJVS
[25] Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; [26] That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, [27] That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. [28] So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. [29] For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: [30] For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. [31] For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. [32] This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. [33] Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
James 3:13-18 KJVS
[13] Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom. [14] But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth. [15] This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish. [16] For where envying and strife is , there is confusion and every evil work. [17] But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. [18] And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.
On TheEdge wow so you blaspheme the word of God? Truly it is God with whom you are against for He is the one who inspired the scriptures. We men have responsibilities that we ourselves don’t want to deal with, but we suck it up, and submit to God’s will. You need to repent.
Genesis 3:13-19 KJVS
[13] And the Lord God said unto the woman, What is this that thou hast done? And the woman said, The serpent beguiled me, and I did eat. [14] And the Lord God said unto the serpent, Because thou hast done this, thou art cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field; upon thy belly shalt thou go, and dust shalt thou eat all the days of thy life: [15] And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel. [16] Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee. [17] And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life; [18] Thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth to thee; and thou shalt eat the herb of the field; [19] In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art , and unto dust shalt thou return.
@On SB I think you need to just sit down, actually read the Bible, and then come back. I'm a 16yo female, and God's structure and place of man and wife is wonderful! That's the way God designed it, and His judgments are pure. We humans make the errors. I also think that you got hurt, or that you didn't have a great example when you were a child. Ask God to show you why you are so aggressive, and a man hatter.. If a man is your enemy, God does says to love your enemy's...
As an older more mature woman I've learned that being a good woman is how God speaks of a woman in the Bible! The beauty of any human being is in the heart I think! I strive to be what God expects no matter what the world's standards are. Its not popular its all about following the laws of God! Not easy but one must practice. Keep striving because if you please God then he will find your mate
A good word! Thanks :)
It is a beautiful thing to see the truth of God being taught for women. Thank you for being an inspiration!!
Thank you for your kind words of support!
Titus 2:3-5 (NASB)
Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good,
so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children,
to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.
1 Peter 3:1-6 (NASB)
1 In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives,
2 as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior.
3 Your adornment must not be merely external-braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses;
4 but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God.
5 For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands;
6 just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear.
That was lovely ❤ may the Lord lead me to become a virtuous woman..
This was such a helpful teaching! Thank you for this!
Keeping focused on Jesus ... Running my race and being careful not to get side tracked...
Keeping my heart from growing cold, Keeping my meditations on the things above, Thanking and spending time in communion with my Lord and Savior, Thanking God for all He has done and is doing and will do in my life, Singing to the Lord, rejoicing in all His gifts everyday that He gives... Sharing the Gospel when possible, He is worthy of all my attention... How much time do we have to speak of the wonder and majesty of our God? All Eternity!!!
Amen, this truths are so convicting
Thank you for speaking the Truth. In this day and age, TRUTH is very hard to find. Be blessed and continue using your mouth and words to Honor God.
I enjoyed listening to this. I AM A VIRTUOUS WOMAN
This is a wonderful teaching! Thank you!
Loved this !! God bless you for putting this out
Great and much needed lesson sister, May The Lord Continue to Bless your Household, heart, and soul
31Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.I think this last verse is very encouraging but wasn't included in the teaching. You are an excellent teacher with a kind and encouraging presence. Thank you very much for this balanced and practical explanation of a virtuous woman. PS God is love.
Excellent!!
Very informative. Very well explained.
The virtuous woman wears the righteousness of God and she have strength faith to our Lord Jesus Christ
This was helpful. Thanks👍👍
God bless you!
Absolutely excellent teaching! The reason a virtuous woman is worth so much is because she is the most rare treasure in all the world! WHO CAN FIND ONE?? If you do, know that it was a miracle of the Almighty! I believe the reason the Apostle Paul said it’s better to remain single is because the overwhelming majority of the time a spouse is a detriment to the work of The Kingdom, but not if you find a truly virtuous woman!
Kim Johnson...I believe what the Bible is teaching us is not literally do what she does but focus on the character of the woman for example she loves God, seeks the welfare of her family..is industrious etc...these are things every woman can accomplish
Ecclesiastes 7:28
"... I found one upright man among a thousand,
but NOT ONE UPRIGHT WOMAN among them all."
shadowgovernment3000
You realize he's basically saying that where there are wicked men there will never be a righteous woman??? There MIGHT be one upright man but never an upright woman with that type of man. Read verse 26...context is important here.
He's saying that among a thousand men he found only one who was not wicked, but the women who those men were hanging around were all wicked women.
Read verse 29 as well: "This alone I found, only God can make a man upright". The connotation here is that if a righteous woman tries to make a wicked man upright it won't work. His wickedness will just pervert her too and she herself will become like him.
Use understanding buddy:
Rahab, Ester, Ruth, Judith, Virgin Mary, the widow of Zarephath....
If God thought that Mary was upright enough to give birth to the Christ, and Christ allowed Mary Magdalene to be one of his followers then that clearly means that God does NOT think all women are wicked. 🤔
Well said
I really needed to hear that. thank you so much
im preparing my self to find and fall in love with a virtous woman hopefully. But these days most womans don't like Jesus teachings. they like facebook instagram and finding a boyfriend her girl friends would approve
Behold Eärendil
To be fair, a lot of men don't like the Lord's teachings either. They want the woman to submitt to him but won't love her the way Christ loves His Church and gave His life for it.
For one example, a lot of guys will try to pressure a woman into premarital and will break it off with her if she won't do it, turn around, and run if she ends up pregnant. Or, he'll have a woman sacrificing everything for him, yet he still looks at other woman or look at porn or something. If a man wants a Proverb 31 wife, then he needs to love her and cherish her the way Jesus would if he had a wife when He was in human formation. Jesus would not have looked at other women for one example...
I would never say most man. Yeah they're might be more than before , but thats why you don't "look to fall in love". Fall in Love with God and his word , he will help you paint a better picture of your life and give you everything you need . I'm speaking to myself too brother
@On SB I don't think you have a problem with men who think like Dan M7. I think you just just have a problem with these verses in the Bible as you stated in your last comment. I believe a lot of women in the church have issues with these verses because of their worldly definition and meaning of these verses.
Look for her in the right places😊
The most well explained topic about a virtuous woman.. Brilliant and excellent given wisdom from God.. Thank you very much for your very nice message .. Praying, I would be like her .. A model in character as a woman of God... Godbless u always 😊🙏
I want to find a virtuous women as my wife :) one day it will happen through Christ.. but before I do so I must ponder my own life and establish my good ways
Amen brother same here
Good one
Thank you . Love it . i learned a lot .
I love the message
good speech about virtuous woman! i hope i found one in some part of my life
As a black woman in America where we are considered the bottom of the totum pole,, I NEEDED this!! Thank you so much.
Wow l love your Speech 👏👏👏 God bless you too ❤❤
I always knew I was different. (in a good way) Being a teen I never dressed to get a guys attention, ect. Even as a teenage I always like up early to get my chores done. When my husband met we weren't looking to date. But 3 months later we started dating. 6 years later and as a mother and wife, (2year old and 3month old) I understand. I never knew how I view/what I do is related to this. :)
Amen. Now THIS is What SHOULD HAVE BEEN SAID Instead of Madonna & Miley Cyrus.
Bella Italia But wait! You're wearing a ton of makeup!!! Very pretty, btw.
@On SB I'm a woman, not a man! I don't wear makeup because I feel like society sort of demands it, but that's only my choice. But if you want to wear makeup, that's fine. It's your choice. Men just aren't "expected" to. I strongly believe that women should be equal to men. Society puts so much emphasis on our appearance, not who we are or what we accomplish. I'm sorry if I confused anybody. I'm 64, and women are STILL being treated like objects and slaves. 😔
Thank You Pastor David, I have watched your videos and find them to be such an encouragement! I cant say enough how the points detailed reminds us the purpose of Male and Female role as God created it.
Thank you so much for your encouraging comment. We are so glad you are benefiting from the teachings. The most recent teaching is called How To Live Without Being Offended. This message very, very good. Strongly encouraging you to watch it. Blessings to you!
1 Peter 3:1-6 is the best description of the Godly woman, one who is quietly Godly, recognizes Godly authority in both her husband and in Christ.
Submission to the word of Christ is key.
A virtuous woman is a rarity in the real world.
thanks, i have a burden for the young girls. They endure much pressure to compromise and please others.How wonderful if they would desire being virtous its more fulfilling.
thank you
wonderful video
Amen....am praying that the Lord will lead me to this Virtuous woman by His Grace..
My current wife loves to scream so I just walk away or I keep a chair between us so she won't hit me.
I also keep a serious face because she hates to see me smiling.
In 4 years my son will be 16 so then I will leave & our son will decide who he wants to live with.
Daniel Caron sorry to hear this. I wish I could do more to help those in need.
NothingButTheTruth The good news is that she just became polite. To stop her sex with-holding and silent treatment I cut trees for my customers and laid them down on our backyard 2 months ago. I also collected the furniture and metal that our neighbors threw out and put them in our backyard.
Ana finally talked to me because the City of Deltona came by and told us to clean up our backyard by June 1st, 2017 or we would be fined.
So Ana finally gave me what I needed and this week we will clean up our backyard.
After 16 years I finally learned of a way to communicate with my bully wife.
Yesterday she was helping me saw the tree branches into smaller pieces. I used the Fiskars small axe and she used the Katana Boy 500 made by Silky.
I behave this way because Ana doesn't let the our children obey me. I believe children should do chores and Ana believes children are to be worshipped and to let the children spend hour after hour on the internet.
When I told our daughter about 3 years ago to help me wash dishes after dinner Maya was about 13 years old and she just walked to her room and ignored me. I told Ana to help me and Ana said: "Leave her alone! She is a teenager."
But Maya has been a bully to me since she was 5 years old.
Usually Ana lies to the police and gets me incarcerated, but if she had called the police on me about the messy dead trees in our backyard and the rats or mice and the garbage furniture and metal then the police may have incarcerated me again but she still would have to pay someone to clean up our backyard.
Also the police finally arrested Maya 2 years ago when she threw a Tupperware plastic container at me when I took away her phone so we have stopped calling the cops on each other since then.
Of course the cops unfairly locked me up 3 times prior to Maya being arrested.
Now as a man I know that I must have cameras to prove my innocence.
The good news is that Ana will help me clean up our backyard and this is good marriage therapy.
If she withholds sex or gives me the silent treatment or starts yelling or talking in a bad tone of voice at me then I'll just go cut down some trees and collect the furniture our neighbors throw out and place them in our front yard this time because I don't want to wait 2 months for sex again.
Whichever neighbor called the city to report us did me a big favor.
God finally gave me the wisdom I searched for so that I could communicate with my bully wife.
I think she will become a Proverbs 31 Wife now.
My grandpa was a rich man because as a child before he was given breakfast he had to feed the dog, the cat, and the horse. I believe children should be respectful to their parents. My grandpa got rich because he had self discipline. My grandpa was a worker bee.
God taught me to be intelligent through Booker T. Washington's book Character Development.
He said about Intelligence: "If the floor is dirty then sweep it, mop it, wash the mop, and put everything away. Nobody should have to tell you what to do every 2 minutes."
"At this school we won't teach you the name of some mountain in Africa. Here we teach 3 things: Intelligence, Skilled Hands, and Morality."
"Skilled hands: Carpentry, plumbing, electricity, cooking, bricklaying, farming, etc"
"Morality: Don't steal. Don't smoke. Don't do drugs. Don't drink alcohol. Don't gamble. Don't go out at night. Don't go with a prostitute. Don't live in a city. The countryside is better. Do help somebody."
So Ana doesn't want our son to learn to cook. I went away to college at 17 and I didn't know how to boil an egg because my mother had always cooked for me and she had forbidden me to touch her expensive pots and pans except to wash them. The college cafeteria was closed on Saturdays and Sundays and I had zero money or food.
My son is 12 and doesn't want to learn to cook. I feed him before he drops, but when Ana cooks dinner I verbally bother Ana, my wife, until she finally tells our son to come help her make dinner.
Ana doesn't want our kids to learn carpentry. I just built my first birdhouse. This was a huge achievement for me. I am teaching myself carpentry because I have been homeless 5 times because I didn't earn enough money at my jobs in the past and I noticed that carpenters have 2 cars and 2 or more houses.
Ana helps me do carpentry sometimes and other times she hides my tools. The police man said that my wife did not have to obey me, but that my children do have to obey me so Ana helps me with carpentry because our kids don't want to learn and Ana wants me to leave our kids alone.
I just want Ana and the kids to be successful adults. Ana refuses to read the bible so I have to be creative.
10 years ago our roommate moved out and his tv didn't fit into his car which was full of his things so he told us: "I'll be back in a couple of hours to pick up my tv," and Ana told him: "NO! YOU WILL TAKE IT NOW!"
Then he said: "IF MY TV IS NOT HERE THEN I WILL BREAK YOUR MINIVAN'S WINDOW!" (And my thought was: "HOORAY! Someone finally stood up to Ana the bully)
A few hours later he picked up his tv.
A month later Ana's minivan's window was broken.
I used to say to myself: "Ana just doesn't have any wisdom or politeness."
I was a peacemaker and too polite. My brain at 40 was the polite and obedient brain of a 5 year old child.
Lisa A. Romano on youtube explained how I was mentally abused as a child.
My mother forbid me to make noise or ask her any questions. Also I was required to obey her instantly. Later the bullies noticed that I would obey them instantly without thinking.
My first wife was a bully and told me when I moved in with her to not bring any books because she had asthma. So later she showed me her albums and then she told me to show her mine and I told her: "But you told me not to bring any books so I threw it away."
Children must have an adult to teach them things. My dictator mother taught me to be ignorant and not to approach her. My grandpa, her father, had a look on his face that said: "How dare you look at me! Keep away from me."
Also don't lie to children because it makes them less intelligent. I caught my mother telling lies to me and to other people and as a child I kept trying to believe her. I "voted against my conscience" again and again. I disobeyed my own beliefs and opinion and obeyed the bullies and everyone.
Now I keep away from people and I limit my time with the bullies. I have boundaries. I do have friends, but they don't bully me anymore.
God bless you and those that surround you.
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what the hell was that all about?
@@kobethegoat2691 lol
It’s hard being a virtuous women when you’re busy getting rid of all the clowns and counterfeits. By the time my husband comes, I’m going to need him to carry me.
Hold fast to the faith
@@nbttnetwork Thank you 💕 Keep me in prayer.
She sounds just like me, so thankful again for making me feel better while the world is trying to make me change, e.g. Sexual harassment everyday.
Praise the lord Amen.
well said bro
what if my girlfriend only go to church, and doesnt read everyday the bible but she is a believer! is that right?
+Mikey 2015 I am guilty of the same thing. We all grow as believers. Support, love and encourage and demonstrate behavior and habits that are healthy.
Mikey 2015
Maybe read a chapter together each day you see or or talk on phone.
My church of Christ is very biblical, our only authority is the bible and not the pastor, and he himself says it. The only thing that you will hear there is the unaltered word of God. Well, one of my church sisters recently said to me that "every single church is misogynist, yeah, even our church. It's like we can only take care of our kids and do the housework". And I know more christian women who think the same way. "We can't even teach the bible to men", etc. They seem to only focus on what they can't do, they complain that in this day and age the church should change that to go along with the times, to which I always respond "it is the word of God, he has a different role for both of us, nobody is better than the other, we are just different and meant to do different things, ideally speaking. But they don't care, it's like they get triggered with what God says.
Where do some women get the idea that the ideal christian woman is only allowed to take care of the kids and do housework anyway? Read proverbs 31:10-31, you women have a wonderful role in this world. God describe the perfect woman as someone not only loving and caring, but strong, hard working, smart, organizer, praised by her husband and kids, more valuable than a precious stone...
I don't see anything wrong with any of that. I would love to marry someone like that and do my best everyday to be worthy of her love.
I don't understand why some women say things like "I don't need no man, I'm better by myself". Well lady, maybe you had a bad experience before, but that doesn't mean you have to stay away from a healthy relationship. Personally, having a family is one of the things that I look forward the most after being born again 10 months ago.
That was really good!
amen!
Apparently, In Proverbs, the word virtuous was inserted instead of valiant because at the time theologians couldn't imagine women being valiant. I don't know if that is true because I heard this 40 years ago when feminism was in its infancy.
wise words, what a gift it would be to have a woman like this! I know God has my future wife planned so I will be patient.
I was once told that the original word was not virtuous but valiant. Apparently, the Bible scholars didn't have the guts to insert that word because it went against their perception of women a the time of the translation. Nevertheless, virtuousness is not to be ignored. Any woman whether single, married, divorced or widowed can become Christlike as she follows Him.
I pray and hope that one day I'm completely transformed into the Virtuous Woman who is humbling, nurturing mother to my children loyal, hardworking, trustworthy, loving, motherly, praying partner, and an outstanding wife I speak this into existence through Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Amen🙏 Proverbs 31
The best I have heard taught on this chapter.. loved it.. thank you
sorry, but his interpretation of scripture is totally wrong... he is a false teacher..
..He doesnt understand what is the true meaning of this scripture..it speaks of clothing herself with the blood of Christ, which is the scarlet robe, and with faith in God, who will protect her from cold winds, and she teaches this and plants seeds about God in her family, feeding her household with the word of God, which is the true bread of life, and is planted in the household hearts as a seed.. the interpretion is much longer than that..but i gave it as an example...the virtuous woman is not the one who goes and gathers money and looks after the whole family by material things etc etc... the meaning here is spiritual..she works with her hands..meaning she shares the word of God with others, this way making people to repent and come to the Kingdom of God..this way acumulating true riches in heaven, where thieves and volwes cant steal, where moth doesnt eat etc...
The scripture here says, that she gets her food from afar!! Meaning her food is the Word of God!! and she lives by it, and her household..Yet, this man is saying she doesnt just get any food, but she gets the best of the best, who knows from where... like where do you get it, what kind of food is that???? what if i am poor and dont have the money for the best quality food??honestly... what this man is teaching here is wordliness...and we know that the world is an enmity against God...!!!
Study the Word with a prayer, that the Lord would give you understanding! May Jesus bless you, and give you discernment, to discern false teachers from the true teachers! Amen
Brother, what is your name? I need to give credit for one of your phrases that i will share on facebook.
David L. Johnston is teaching in this video.
Thank you very much
Thank you, so much! You saved my life, I feel like the whole world is against me. This virtuous women sounds like me :') thank you for providing the video :)
God bless you. You are not alone, there are more women realizing that a worldly lifestyle doesn't bring true happiness. I encourage you to keep your eyes on Christ and walk in His ways.
Leah1234580 sadly, most of the world is against the few of us that remain
YaY 🥰
Why is it so hard for a virtuous woman to be equally yoked with a virtuous man? Why are virtuous man far and few between, or at least very hard to find or never find me?
Hi
Love it!!!
I respect you for the enthusiasm you have for virtue sister. If you can, send me a friend request on facebook. This also goes out to all those who Lord Jesus here, my brothers and sisters. Facebook name: Sipho YahwehServant Michael. God bless
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It's not easy to become a virtual women but god's in your side everything is possible just pray daily love god trust him and have faith I am living life of virtuous women departing me from world things and getting successful in the name of Jesus
Amen
Agreeing with you!
the spirit comes FIRST!!!
This comment might get some misunderstanding or hate, but when I read the video title (ideal, virtuous woman) and then looked at how the woman pictured had on her pierced earrings and low-scoop top, I didn't really want to listen to the message. Apparel, piercing the body, outward vanity, and wearing a biblical headcoverng, are issues within the "virtuous" subject. Ideal to whom - God or man? Does even one person reading this get it?
S Helton I understand. Don’t totally agree.
Perfect!
This is MY goal
@Tracey Owen Hughes Seriously?? this is a false teacher! the whole understanding and teaching of the Word that he just did here is wrong...He doesnt understand what is the true meaning of this scripture..it speaks of clothing herself with the blood of Christ, which is the scarlet robe, and with faith in God, who will protect her from cold winds, and she teaches this and plants seeds about God in her family, feeding her household with the word of God, which is the true bread of life, and is planted in the household hearts as a seed.. the interpretion is much longer than that..but i gave it as an example...the virtuous woman is not the one who goes and gathers money and looks after the whole family by material things etc etc... the meaning here is spiritual..she works with her hands..meaning she shares the word of God with others, this way turning people to repentance and coming to the Kingdom of God..this way acummulating true riches in heaven, where thieves and robbers cant steal, and where moth doesnt eat etc...
The scripture here says, that she gets her food from afar!! Meaning her food is the Word of God!! and she lives by it, and her household.
Yet, this man is saying that she gets not just any food, but she gets the best of the best, who knows from where... like where do you get it, what kind of food is that???? what if i am poor and dont have the money for the best quality food??honestly... what this man is teaching here is wordliness...and we know that the world is an enmity against God...!!!
Study the Word with a prayer, that the Lord would give you understanding! May Jesus bless you, and give you discernment, to discern false teachers from the true teachers! Amen
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If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her.
(Deuteronomy 22:28-29 NLT)
why does a poor girl want to marry an abusive rapist?
What if you are all this and the man never sees instead calls you a woman of no virtue ? The virtuous woman suffers in the hand of a wrong man . God help your people .
In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives,as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior. - 1 Peter 3:1-2
For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps, who committed no sin, nor was any deceit found in His mouth; and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to Him who judges righteously; - 1 Peter 2:21-23
Wow. I wish I was rich enough to consider a 5 carat emerald 'little'. That would be worth over 100,000 dollars. Guess that tells me everything I need to know about this particular preacher.
He was calling it little in itself, only in comparison to the rubies.
*he wasn't
He is a preacher who owns a 5 carat emerald. My comment still stands.
Frugal Dreams my exact thoughts
How do you know if this Pastors ring wasn’t a gift or a heirloom? Not godly to judge what we don’t truly know as facts sir.
The virtuous woman is a hardworking badass!
She's can't be virtuos and bad at the same time, nor can she be an ass too, because she is wise. Hard-working, yes, absolutely.
Agree.. she speaks with wisdom in her mouth
This guy needs to dig deeper than the surface....
amen
I have no problem being submissive to the word of God & my Hubby, but all the things this dude presents, there must be 35-40 hours in a day! Wake up early, have a job, cook, keep the house clean, work out, looks after the hubby and the kids, has her own business, shop for the food, make her clothes, gives to charity, dresses well, super confident, smart, prays (I guess that includes church)...You can tell this was written by a man. I GIVE UP!!!!
KIM JOHNSON You can't try to be this person you have to BE this kind of person or yes you will get tired. A woman does not complain and she is not set on her problems. She sets herself aside while and thinks of others
KIM JOHNSON She had servants. Lol. And her husband to be was a King. Lemuel. I'm glad his mother who taught him this about women was not my mother in law. Phew!
Thank you for the insight. Dear Lord guide me enjoy the journey of becoming a virtuous woman as I wait on a husband you will choose for me-Amen.
How can one woman do all that? She creates a business, she delivers to merchants, she bears children, she runs a full household, she cooks every meal, she makes her own fabric and creates clothes for herself and family, she stays up late and gets up bfore dawn, searches outside for the needy, cares for her children and husband, (child care is a full time job), she is a wise man because she still has time to study God's truth, she is an advisor, she never is idle! She brings in the money, and her husband gets to sit at the gates with the elders. Well, what does the husband do? Well??? This woman is doing everything. She might as well be the man of the family as she certainly is the one in charge. I want to see a better teaching on this. AND what is a virtuous man? How come no mention of that is here? The woman is the big time helper, but what is the man doing to help his virtuous, hard working, slave wife. Something is off in this teaching, not the scripture. Does anyone know where a better teaching is?
+ZSrz There is better teachings, but don't look in the Bible is my advice. btw, I agree. It always seems up to the woman to be "good". Exactly, what is a virtuous man? If men are immoral, that seems to be fine, they get a free pass. But Eve hands Adam an apple (of which he ate) and we're all doomed to hell.
I think it would be helpful to remember the scripture that begins with, "WHO can FIND a virtuous and capable wife?" implying that perfection is hard to find, but it can be pursued if someone (whether man or woman) is willing to fear God with all their heart. From my knowledge and understanding, the book of Proverbs is inspired by King Solomon, who happened to be a very prosperous king. The reason for that wealth was because he chose the "fear of the Lord" or "wisdom" above all things. Proverbs is all about wisdom. So I believe this passage was an analogy that he used to conclude what wisdom looks like when applied in a person's life.
I like your comment. Than you.
Great comment. Thank you.
This is what I have been thinking myself. Everyone wants to put all the work on the women, what about the man
first, buddy, you are wrong : WEAKER sesx don't mean weakness, it talks about the passitivity of the of the sexuality, passive . like strong sex is the active .... man....
guide oh Lord the most high.
The shock and trauma this culture imposes on our innocent young is HORRID .
Poor , little defenseless souls being exposed to all manner of perversion and distortion .
They need the fervent prayer of believers.
God help us all...
I'm not a Christian but I and my boyfriend still follow these virtues.
If within the city a man comes upon a maiden who is betrothed, and has relations with her, you shall bring them both out of the gate of the city and there stone them to death: the girl because she did not cry out for help though she was in the city, and the man because he violated his neighbors wife.
(Deuteronomy 22:23-24
Come to the new covenant of Yeshua and get a new teaching for SALVATION, not condemnation. A covenant about holiness, righteousness, faith, and being born again in the spirit. You can't be a christian and rape women because you are no longer controlled by the desires of the flesh but the spirit. God bless.
As the Wife submits to the authority of her Husband, the “True Church,” submits to the authority of Jesus Christ:
Ephesians 5:23.
For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
The “True Church” submits to Jesus by, “Obeying ALL of His Word.”
A part of His Word is to be, “Baptized in water,”.....
Matthew 28:19.
Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, BAPTIZING THEM in the NAME (Singular) of The Father and of The Son and of The Holy Ghost.
Notice it is ONE name (Not two or three) which is the NAME (Singular) of The Father and of The Son and of The Holy Ghost.
That NAME is “JESUS CHRIST” as we see being used in:
Acts 2:38.
Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of JESUS CHRIST for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
Jesus had GIVEN Peter the keys to the Kingdom of Heaven:
Matthew 16:19.
And I will give unto THEE (Peter) the keys of the kingdom of heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven .
On the day of Pentecost people are asking, “What shall we do?” and here stands Peter, the man with the keys, so he uses the keys to unlock the Kingdom of Heaven to them.
The Lord Jesus Christ, stated that a man MUST be born of TWO things, “WATER” and “SPIRIT.”
John 3:5.
Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of WATER and of the SPIRIT, he cannot enter into the Kingdom of God.
The Bride of the Lord Jesus Christ will gladly obey His Words, indeed, Jesus asks,
Luke 6:46.
And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and DO NOT the things which I say ?
The submissive Bride will be taken in the Rapture, many will be left behind for the Great Tribulation Period.
Furthermore, the Lord Jesus Christ stated that to, “Receive Jesus” a man MUST receive whomsoever Jesus sends.....
John 13:20.
Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that receiveth whomsoever I send receiveth me; and he that receiveth me receiveth him that sent me.
In this day the Lord has sent His seventh and final Church Age Messenger, (To the Laodicean Church Age) William Marrion Branham.
These and other “Prophetical scriptures” fulfilled:
Malachi 4:5.
Matthew 17:11.
Revelation 10:7.
Revelation 3:14.
Revelation 1:16 - 20.
Revelation 2:1.
Revelation 3:1.
Watch this amazing testimony on UA-cam:
Ed Byskal - I am a witness (Testimony on William Branham)
A virtuous woman can only be led by God's teaching not the world. It is highly deciplined life with a lot of following standards from God, abiding the gifts of being virtuous what you do in deeds for everybody in this world, it is who you are not what you practice. When you ask God virtuous gifts, he will answer and you will become virtuous but it will be a commitment with you and God, and part of your life's journey. Enjoy God's blessings, blessings are more worth than gold.
Google "Strong's Concordance." Enter 1 Tim. 3. See verse 1: "if a man" G1536 ( Whosoever); "Bishop" G1984 (Office of an elder). V.2, "Bishop" G1985 (Bishoprick). V.1 is a position. V.2 is a person. Whosoever desires the Office of a bishop. Acts 14:23, "elders" G4245 (elder man, elder WOMAN). Acts 20:28, "overseers" G1985 (Elder of a Christian church). Bishops are overseers as pastors of Christian church. Holy women stand in office of bishop. Eph. 4:11, God gave some apostles, teachers, etc. Titus 1:5, "ordain elders in every city."
Where have all the good women gone? There are none, I haven't seen any single virtuous women except in a church.
Men likewise, the entire world lies in wickedness. There are not many women nor men that follow, JESUS CHRIST.