"Yes, I am Nakhat Khan" I Khushbu Sundar on her abusive father, being muslim & leaving Congress
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
- Barkha Dutt speaks to actor-turned-politician, BJP leader and National Commission for Women (NCW) Member Khushbu Sundar in the 30th episode of our podcast 'Inside Out'.
Khushbu makes a shocking revelation saying she was sexually abused by her father and he also tried to sell her sexually to film producers for an amount of Rs. 25,000 for one night. Khushbu says she was only 16 then.
She also spoke about her political stint with the DMK, Congress and now in the BJP. Khushbu talks about working in films as a child actor, her association with Hema Malini, 46 police cases against her news article, being in love, relationships, her husband and daughters, and also - for the first time- opens up on the biggest regret of her life.
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Chapters:
00:00 Promo
1:07 Khushbu on facing 46 police cases over an op-ed
7:50 When Kamal Hassan asked Khushbu to surrender
9:08 “I still speak my mind”
9:37 Khushbu on her religious identity and parents naming her Khushbu
12:17 Khushbu takes on trolls
14:24 Khushbu on BJP & ‘Love Jihad’
17:05 Khushbu on her childhood and film debut
19:51 Khushbu on working in movies
22:18 Khushbu breaks silence on sexual abuse
23:36 “My father tried to sell me to film producers”
26:55 Khushbu on child abuse in India
29:00 Khushbu’s political career
30:51 Khushbu on Congress and Rahul Gandhi
36:39 Cinema & politics: What’s tougher for women?
38:40 Khushbu on her relationship with Prabhu
43:12 Khushbu on her daughters
46:17 The only Regret of Khushbu Sundar
48:08 Credits
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I'm 5th generation Malaysian of Indian ancestry. My mom is catholic from a staunch christian family, dads a hindu from a staunch hindu family. They got married early 80s with resprctive families approval and neither converted. They brought me and my younger sister up with the freedom to choose our religion we felt comfortable with (both of us finally chose to be hindus in our 20s eve though were much closer to mom's side of the family ). We grew up celebrating every hindu and christian religious festivals. My mom despite not a hindu did all the religious preps for hindu festivals like ponggal, deepavali, karthigai deepam etc even when dad was working overseas for a couple of years when we were young. Dad loved buying and decorating christmas trees and buying presents for all the children in moms extended family. Feel very blessed to have progressive parents like mine.
Thank God for sensible comments!
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻those days never interfered with other religions. Even my mama(uncle) married a Christian girl and my grandma in those days late 70s never forced my aunt to change anything, though she did change her name from Dorothy to Nandita . But my mother and respective aunts and cousins all of us would call her Dorothy aunty and my grandma never objected. She was the only one calling her by Hindu name but never ever forced my aunt to do any rituals or visit temples and all that
BTW Khushboo would be knowing my cousins though now her remembrance might be hazy. She used to live in Andheri, Bombay
Dear friends
It looks sensible, peaceful and reasonable not to hurt or convert. Yes one has to respect the other faiths. But in a family mother and father are from different religious backgrounds that situation is lukewarmness in their respective faith. Faith is something one has to be focussed and sincere. Honoring and compromising are different. One has to stick to their faith if they know it's the Truth without any compromise. One can compromise on any other issues but never when it comes to faith and God. It's the ultimate one and decides the destiny of the Spirit. So, I am sorry for this family. Father is Hindu and mother is a catholic. Children are something. Religion or God must be the priority in anyone's life. We honor but never compromise in selecting the partner. Partner should be of same faith.
If you are hurt by my comment please excuse me friends. But it's the truth Truth is absolute not relative.
Please tell me how many cases in reverse have you seen? The truth is if a Hindu women marries a non Hindu conversion is not a choice
That’s the beauty of marrying Hindu ,your not forced to convert
They respect your religion equally
agree. Her brother converted to Christianity but she did not have to.
Really? It all depends on the individual. Many have married a Muslim and not converted like gauri khan. Please don’t bring religion into it. Religion is not wrong it’s the people who misinterpreted it and changed it.
@@1FizZeelol don't ur religion say all non muslims will go to hell, other religions are kafirs and try to bring them in path of real god Allah
Whenever the maulanas do conversions they first brainwash them by badmouthing other religions..
Even there are thousands of videos for evidence in yt itself...
So don't try to play victim card now..
And please don't give examples of celebrities..
@@1FizZee That's the single example muzlims keep copy pasting everywhere. We can give 1000s of examples where women were forced to convert to izlam. Do you deny that it's CLEARLY mentioned in quran that the girl has to convert for it to be called a marriage?😒😒😒
How frequent a practice is certainly matters.....
Barkha very smartly diverted the discussion when she became critical of the congress while not asking Khushboo what made her join the BJP!
But she did ask several times!
Barkha is the guarding dog of congress
She has changed parties frequently. Not long before she leaves BJP.
as usual 😂
Very true . How swiftly she changed the topic from politics to personal. Viewers are not fools not to notice .
Barkha should understand the fact that no Hindus force anyone to convert. But if a Hindu girl mara Muslim, the girl would be forced to convert. Admit this publicly, Barkha.
You mean Barkha should accept your baseless claims as facts. Why would she do that ?
Then Barkha would be called senseless like you. Keep your baseless theory to yourself.
@@chrisneel5298 aapko kyon mirchi lagi. The comment you made shows your lack of internet etiquette.
Also Christians, to marry they convert, too
@@Trollika_DeviBaseless claims? Haha open your eyes and mind. It's not too late.
Kudos to Khusboo on her bravery!! She mastered her own destiny and hopefully this story will help other survivors to come out in the open with their story and start the healing. The abuser with their weak weapon of blackmail can then rot in their moral turpitude
I’m so glad this episode popped out of nowhere! Khushboo loved your honesty and positive attitude! Wishing you & your family all the best 👍🏻
if you pay enough, she would be more REVEALING (literally🤑)
Burkha you dont have to repeat her pain 4 to 6 times.
Stop repeatedly saying and asking you were sexually assaulted.
Yes brake is a ...
Like that
even i felt the same burka is so insensitive
Burkha bharkha
Barkha being her disgusting self, milking someone's tragedy to sensationalize her piece.
Absolutely😡
I am from Kerala. I feel happy that she clarified about Love Jihad as a Muslim.
Im Hindu and from Kerala. And I know it's BS because thousands of Malayali girls are not being coerced to convert to Islam as Khusbhoo's party is claiming. It's a lie and you know it. If you're basing this on the fact that there women who are asked to convert to Islam post marriage, there are women from all faiths who face this regardless of what the faith of their husbands is . Welcome to the patriarchy.
Hindus as a community never ever forcibly convert anyone against their wishes. It’s a fact.
But she came to cinema from redlight area. From Mumbai by a tamil producer 😂 acting that she is perfect 😂😂😂😂😂
Khushboo comments have always been promuslim and anti Hindu so now this makes everything clear
Khushbu was born as Nakhat Khan on 29 September 1970 into a Muslim family in Mumbai, Maharashtra, India. Her parents gave her the stage name Khushbu when she started her career as a child actress.
Indian Muslim families from India Kerala Hyderabad sell their daughters to Arabs since centuries
What a greatest human being you are !
She has fabulous command over English. Wonder how..
And she seems very honest talking about her mistakes and tough times. Kudos!!
They hire english nannies / tutors .
Beautiful and honest interview.She truly declared she didn't convert but her brother did😊
That's his choice. He found it better.
They do force fully i know
I've never really formed an opinion about Kushboo. She's an actor, and I enjoyed her movies. However, I'm truly impressed by her honesty! In many Asian cultures, people tend to boast about themselves while avoiding unpleasant details due to concerns about prestige and fear of social exclusion. She displays a broad-minded and mature perspective. 👏👏👏
Kushbu speaks better English than the host in burkha
And she never completed her schooling, kudos to her
Khushboo speaks better English than people like me who are citizens of America and Canada.
She lived in Mumbai in her younger days
@@kksainimal4324 She had to communicate in English more while working with South in the beginning of her work in South Cinema's. Most of the actor she work with they're also fluent in English like Actor Nagarjun, Actor Kamal Hassan, Actor Suresh, Ect more on.
She is very good in tamil also.
Hats off to Kusboo.❤No words to express how much I was amazed with her interview.
From where and how these dark skin with Dravidian facial, features fake " KHANS" of India are coming from? Please stop calling yourself Khans . You are neither a Pashtun/Pathan of Pakistan nor an Afghan race.
Did you gone through her past history of anti national ideology??, you will be shocked if you know about it
I will go thru that soon. Thxs dear
I had a friend whose father forced himself on her and eventually, she had no choice but to run away from home at an early age....But She did not speak about this for many many years...Such ppl suffer differently...Very sad
Muzlim Lady has no any kind if happiness in their society
Not even 1% muslim women can talk like khusboo,i became a fan of her n enjoyed her interviews n her opinions made me glad.
Did you do a survey of Muslim women? 😅
Zeenat Aman Waheed rehman mumtaz Parveen Babi etc great speakers in English language Muslim women don't generalize
Waheeda Rehman did not speak English. She spoke in Hindi even at Simi Garewal show. Not saying that English language decides something about you. But Muslim girls and women are kept away from the education and they lack many opportunities in life. Zinnat Aman’s mom was Hindu. That is the reason why she got modern upbringing. She was not kept behind hijab.
I’ve a confession to make: while I’ve always admired Kushboo’s mental & emotional strength, I’ve always had this niggling thought at the back of my mind about her having been a home breaker (& I’m not being sexist - I’ve always thought Prabhu ought to shoulder a bigger share of the blame as he was the one who was married). But the moment Kushboo openly admitted that she had been wrong, I felt goosebumps. Well done - it takes a lot of courage & character to do that. And a huge hug to Mr Sundar C : what a man👏👏
Exactly right.. the moment someone truly realizes their mistakes and sincerely regret that amd openly apologizes for that, the WRONG becomes the RIGHT. But thats not what usually is done by the guilty party. They either hide their mistake in shame or defend themselves out of ego. My opinion about Kushboo completely changed too. I feel good.
A home can’t be broken from outside. She might have regrets but it wasn’t her responsibility to keep his family together.
@@saish12 of course it is Prabhu's. I dont mean to blame Kushboo. But she realizing her mistake has to be appreciated and honesty women in general wouldn't care to disturb a married man, the mistake happened and both the parties should own it. Atleast she did, Which is appreciated.
she also acknowledged the emotional shaming the man must have gone through@@KIDS-BLISS
She was involved with Jayaram too . He got her a bungalow in Boat‘ club are
such an amazing woman. Loved every word she spoke, brave and so transparent.
Khushbu is an amazing woman! So articulate, confident, accomplished. Lovely interview. Glad Barkha just nudged her and let her talk.
Not many will understand what is it to have toxic parents.
Devi Saraswati’s father is Brahma and Devi Saraswati’s husband is Brihaspati. To question the past you need to understand the scriptures,to understand the scriptures you need to learn the language in which text it s written.
Yes toxic parents are a reality.
@user-bg6dc9mv7j who is zainab mama and who is zainab hubby
Hint : pedo, schizophrenic warlord, hoor broker, from desert
Common I gave u so many clues
There has been an undercurrent of agreements between RSS and Muslim league for so long.. So much for the sanatani's muslim hate.. Sab kuch hypocrisy hain bhai in sanghiyon ka😂😂😂
@user-bg6dc9mv7jwasn't Ayesha 9 y/o.. playing with toys .. when a 55 smthing married and consummate the marriage
Her clarity of thoughts, boldness and outspoken on various issues is extraordinary
Muzlim Lady has no any kind if happiness in their society
Barkha takes sadistic pleasure in keeping on repeating Khushboo aunty's pain of sexual assault. Women are their own worst enemies.
Aunty? How weird of you to call her aunty. Say Shreemati Kushboo or Ms Kushboo
@@Geniere10 If a female has a nephew or a niece, she is an aunty. I became an uncle at 13.
@@SodiumSyndicate the niece or nephew are supposed to call them uncle or aunty, not a random individual such as yourself
@@Geniere10 Why not?, it is a sign of respect, you don't like respecting others?
@@SodiumSyndicate you want to be called aunty or uncle? Shreemati, ji, Ms etc are signs of respect, sodium syndicate aunty/uncle
Thanks that I watched this episode coz I could understand her better as a person. It's more of women power and the situation they go through. My respect towards you increased to another level. Thankyou for this podcast. Learnt a lot ❤
What made this interview so lovely to watch was how authentic both the interviewer and Khushbu are. Sincerity is a beautiful thing.
Pure gift of gab but a very hollow sickening theme
Interviewer sincere ?
U must be very naive to believe everything what she says. Years ago in a Tamil interview, she was praising her dad to be the best dad ever!
Well said
Ws@@Realist839
Burkha .. are you happy now ? Take a breath .. she is not converted .. khushboo’s true colors !!
Why should she convert ? She has no obligation to do that .
😂😂😂😂
@@Trollika_Devi unless one is married to a muslim or christian, none has obligation to convert in this country you fool.
Acceptance of a mistake is a GENIOUS WAY OF LIFE
I don’t think I have ever heard Hindus asking their non Hindu partners to convert. I don’t think the conversion concept exists in Hinduism as you are born into the faith. Whether you practice or not, you are still a Hindu. I am a non-practicing Hindu. The religion doesn’t spit me out for not following the customs/beliefs.
Are you sure ? It is pretty clear that You LACK A LOT Of Knowledge .... I Mean A LOT
@@afroj.a1Wow! Please teach us what Hinduism is, O' scholar of Quran and Hadiths. 😅
@afroj.a1 you sound like a very pathetic person blinded by your own faith.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🔱
@@afroj.a1yes we r sure. There is no process of dharm parivartan. Many xtians in west practise Hindu way of life when going into the process of any conversion.
Ghar Wapsi term means revert back to ur ancestral way of life as we know well how most of u got converted under fear of swords and tax.
This is so horrible and sad, Her own father abused her and tried to sell her😮Brave women to talk about it publicly hats off to Khusboo.
Khushbu has such lovely grace and elegance about her, wish she gets more opportunities in the public life. Lovely interview Barkha
What a combination of courage,dignity & honesty,Khushboo is❤
Observe how Burkha doesn't continue on Love Jihad or adress any points or don't follow up the question like she generally does on other questions when Khushbu said Love Jihad is real and it's about force conversation, not BJP propaganda. 😂
Also observe how she changed the topic from politics to personal.
Isn't Burqha herself a Muslim? She had surely married some Islamic men.
This is the boldest and best interview I have even seen of anyone❤
Love you Khushbu ... What a women. This is what we call a women of substance. ❤❤❤
This one of the most authentic interviews i hv seen from a south indian lead actress from the 80's/90's
Knowing Khushboo from 1987 Ranadheera Kannada movie, I have learnt so much about her from this interview. Glad that I watched this interview. Thanks for uploading.
I loved every bit of this wonderful interview. As a child I remember watching her Tamil movies but I never knew there is so much behind this beautiful face. What a woman of strength and resilience ❤ The way she speaks is impeccable. Absolutely loved it.
Hats off to Khushbu... Inspiring personality. 👏🏻👏🏻
Lots of respect and love to you kushboo for realising your mistake and acknowledging it…..you are true star❤
I salute Khusboo's, honesty. I also salute her courage in acknowledging the realization that she's wronged and hurt the other family and apologised for it publicly. Speaks volumes for all concerned about them all being friends now. It takes a lot of courage for Mrs P to forgive and have a cordial relationship with Khusboo and her children. Very very rare.
Absolutely! Self awareness and forgiving people understanding nature at greatest levels.
This was a fab interview❤ she is bold & well spoken. Her mind is beautiful!
Khushboo is so gracious and beautiful. She is well spoken and sounds intelligent. Never knew she went through so much hardship in life. Amazing person
Kushboo is blessed with a good husband who respects her!
My respect for her has increased many folds.
I think one shd get beyond the shackles of religion and discover oneself.
Kushboo, is a person of substance which life had given to her thru experiences🙏🏽
Only abrahamic religions are religions
Khushbu - a truly honest and refreshing interview coming from an actor and a politician I must say …I am so impressed and inspired … u must try and be a chief minister or a union minister … you are a true Muslim Indian and the Proof of the secularism that exists in India and in Hindu families who do not try and convert … u are such a strong woman and a inspiration to young kids and girls
So true about the insecurities of men that cannot accept a strong woman ever. Thats the Indian way of life. We blame the women for everything and dont even realise how in each and every day we continue to put them down in order for us to feel important. Shame on all of us. Thank you for your refreshing honesty Khushboo. You are a brave, honest, intelligent, grounded woman. We need more like you in the country to change the blatant sexism so rooted in us that we no longer see as a problem. My appreciation also goes to the interviewer!
As if women can tolerate a handsome husband even talking to a pretty woman.
Men have been the bread winners for ages nd sacrificed for familiesnd others but never complained but the moment a woman starts earning it is all hers, it is about her nd become selfish . This is the truth about women 🙏🏽
Just wow, to the clarity with which she speaks ❤
Formidable woman! Her experiences have shaped her and will take her much further.
It is good to have seen the courage to tell the ugliest truth of one's life & share it in public domain from Ms.Khusboo.Thanks a lot for conducting such an interesting interview to Ms Barkha , in her podcast- interview.Keep it up.
She is a shining example of how Indian Society should be. Truth be told much of the problem lies when people start associating themselves with foreigners
She is very intelligent and eloquent. Very interesting interview.
What a lovely confident humble woman she is . She was a star & a bigger one now.
I loved Khushboo then and even now, great fan of yours. I really enjoyed listening to your interview, raising from being an actress to entering politics it’s quite remarkable. I like what you stand for women and their rights which is much needed in India. I appreciate your openness and vulnerability and even saying that you’re sorry for your past relationship. I myself went through a very abused marriage suffered immensely and loosing my children for over a decade. Through this process of pain, agony no where to turn too I realized if I cannot fight this out by myself nobody can really help. I must say that through the pain and trauma I have become a strong and courageous person I don’t fear to speak and stand for the truth. As you know when you speak the truth it sets you free. So keep up your good work wishing you and your family loads of happiness and blessings. ❤
Hats off to her honesty and the ordeals she has gone through at such an young age and to come out of it.
Thank you so much Barkhaji for such a lovely interview
Courageous woman ❤
Madam khushboo Sundar is frank,honest and straight to the point,she has great clarity of thought that makes her conversation very intresting.
She speaks her mind good for u. I like the way she thinks. Freedom of speech 😍🙏🎊🎉🙌
So well spoken, Hats off Kushbhu. You remained true to yourself. Continue to stay strong and speak your mind.
Great! This program inside out is in real..feel proud & respect🙏💐 for rarest of the rare woman khushboo..hat's off to you💖💐👏
Tough life. Numerous girls still living in that dark world. These men will kill own daughters and sisters if they try to escape.
Great interview!
Beautiful and inspiring story! The first interview of Khushboo I had chamce to listen. A role model for the youth and adults alike! The honesty and purity of thought and expression are truly refreshing! Kudos and congratulations on your successes Kushboo ji💐🙏
Namakkal was a transport hub for India and every house hold there is atleast 1 driver work in transport industry. I am also from same district and I have also lost some of my relatives for HIV. Now situation is for better in that district.
Wonderful i have so much respect for her bold ness and being honest
Great interview
Im absolutely amazed and astonishing the honesty, n bold speech given by a most known star..❤🔥🌟
She is so articulate
After seeing for 1 minute I couldn't see further. It's really sad. I am father of a daughter and I always wanted a daughter. I am really shocked. I enjoy the clips of father and daughter on Facebook
I am almost ashamed I didn't know of this amazing woman. I wish she rises up the ranks of her party and leads from the front
Nice to see her, bold, honest, beautiful. I was listening to her for the first time. She is of my era. happy to see her successful.
I adore Khushboo from my childhood and now even more.. ❤
Amazing interview. You have always been my favourite female start and will always be ❤
Amazing story. Khushbu is very intelligent , tough lady!!
To go through so much and yet find the courage to come out with it..hats of to her..❤
What she went through, oh God
Incredible ❤
This interview just reminds me of Former TN CM Jayalalitha’s interview with simmy garewal. That was a phenomenal interview and this one added a cherry on top it. Both the women are super strong, can easily call as iron ladies of India. Hats off to the courage and command in the language they got. Super proud ❤of
Just goes to.prove that its not about the political party but the character of the candidate !
Superb !
One of the light minded individuals .. Khushbu Mam.. Fighting personality ..with Always smile on the face. Speaking her mind ..in today's world where everything is so dramatised and scripted .
That's a very strange question Barkha... It's not at all a strange thing for one person to have two or more names ... When most of us are used to nicknames and pseudonyms, what's the big deal?
My God what a lady.❤❤
Kudos to you Khushboo. It takes a lot of courage to be straight forward and talk straight.
Omg I hv fallen in love with khushboo after this interview, just so open n honest, it's a rarity
I am so proud of you , you are truly an inspiration 🙏🙏
Beautiful wonderful video khushboo speech is amezing..clap for her courage 👏👏
Best interview of khushbu ever❤❤❤❤
Lovely interview! Kushbu is very well spoken lady and honest!
In the context of Love Jihad , one needs to understand that the two religions are different . Hinduism in inclusive - there is no hate for other religions .In Islam there is no question of believing in anyone but Allah. So marriages into either of the two faiths would have different consequences.
My friend told me now a days ExMuslim movement is in full swing in entire world... ExMuslim Sahil, Adam ( greatest religious scholars in the world, noone can beat them) , Asad Noor of Bangladesh, Asgar Ali , Amina Sardar ( Afghan Swedish), Harris sultan ( pakistan british), Nuriyah khan ( Pakistan, Saudi British) and hundreds of channels ... He told there is a sunami of muslims ( mainly women) leaving islam to become ExMuslim... It's really shocking..
Is it real or just fake ?
@@isshiomi6364 lol then you must also know how there is also a tsunami of people converting to Islam recently. More and more people are joining Islam than leaving! 😊
@@Abeliever125 it's confirmation bias, u will see what u want to see, n then youtube starts showing similar videos, I have seen all kinds literally, muslim to ex muslim, muslim to Christian, Christian to athiest, athiest/ Christian to muslim, I don't care much though, whatever floats ur boat, or brings happiness n meaning to ur life, imo religion is not for everyone, I have seen ex muslims thriving after leaving their religion, n some people thriving after becoming muslim, just dont shove ur beliefs/ ideologies down other people's throat, be tolerant n respect freedom of speech, human rights based on secular humanist principles.
@@hebahamid884 Why are you so annoyed by the comment I made? are you an ex Muslim or a fake account by Muslim Name. Anyway the truth will prevail whether we like it or not. Peace!
And by the way in our religion is the same there is no hate for other religions.
For you is your religion, and for me is my religion.
Quran:109:6
She spoke
Good
To point
Elegant ❤
Enjoyed the conversation
One of the best interviews I've come across 👏
God help this lady 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Khusboo is beautiful, inside out. Plus she has courage and conviction.
Excellent discussion
Hatts off Kushboo Mam for very honest speech❤
Married to muslim man I dont think the same reception would be received ..
In a country like India, it is not easy for anyone to speak of such things even today. Just look at the comment section and the judgement.
As a man, I respect her. Kudos 👏
Did you actually read the comments? I only see supportive comments, have been scrolling down, none bad so far
Only you are negative here judgement about India . Not 140 crores people have same mindset and they surely have different opinions on any issue.
Interesting discussion, I appreciate this actress's insights about movie industries and politics
What an amazing interview- Khushbuji you are one hell of a woman👌👌👌
Absolute respect to Kushboo.
So glad she spoke so favourably for BJP being a Muslim. We all know this reputation of BJP being anti Muslim is politically motivated.
Fascinating interview, thanks my dear Sourabh, Adil sir
It is so clear here if someone marries a Hindu they can continue their own religion practices. But if someone marries a Christian and Muslim, they hv to get converted. Her brother is baptised!