One of the best videos I've ever seen! So full of great information and ways to handle a difficult subject... emotional attachment. It's so helpful that you're totally honest in your advice. Many of us need to hear it but few influencers are kind ( brave) enough to tell it like it is. 👍☺️
I had some jewelry of my mom's I could not part with so I made them I to Xmas tree ornaments. It gave them a purpose, I still get to enjoy them and they are not clutter anymore.
my Mom pins her brooches to the backs of the pretty covers she puts over her dining room chairs when she hosts the dominoes ladies at her house. she said they thought she was so clever!
We are going through my mother in laws items today as I type this. I couldn’t believe when I checked the date on this that it’s a brand new video. God knows what you need at just the right timing too. The timer is a great idea btw. It will help me finish my own mothers items. (Gone a year and a half now) I sure wish you lived nearby! 🤗 Thanks so much for sharing!! Great info and I love your stories too!! Thanks for all the resources.
Norrine, I love your videos. I finally got around to clear out my papers. I emptied five binders, which leaves me with five binders, one topic for each. Those five binders will be a home for crafting material. I also cleared one of my small closets, two drawers and a double door below. The other has three drawers and three doors, which will need to be done when the temperatures drop below 90 F. It's currently near 100 degrees F. And then there are doors four and five of my big closet in my bedroom. I think you put a real meaning in Marie Kondo's idea of sparking joy. I used to be on the cultural level of hunter/gatherer, in the last six years I did learn to decide not to pick up something just because I liked it, but only if it has a dedicated use. It's a toughie to kick that habit, I do have relapses, however, the relapses occur two or three times a year instead of every month. I will carry on. Thank you for your compassionate videos.
Norrine, I liked this video very much. First of all, I love when you mention your wild hair! My niece has hair like yours so I know what you mean... Secondly, if you can believe this, I buy vintage photos from antique stores, like your aunt did. I see these beautiful photos and want them to have a home again. Lastly, I adored the ring story, so special. ❤️
You do that too?!?! That's awesome! Just do your family a favor and write "Purchased photo" on the back. LOL I love the ring story too..... it genuinely became my most prized possession. Thanks for watching and commenting 💜💙💜
When my mom passed away I got the contents of her safe deposit box. There was jewelry in it that I had appraised. Some of it was fake. But if my mom put it in the safe deposit box it had value to her. But no one in the family recognized any of it. But I couldn't get rid of it because I might find an old picture with great uncle so-and-so wearing this tie tack! So, to make sure my girls didn't face this problem in the future, I took out all my jewelry and wrote notes on each piece of who gave it to me, when, and why. I always had my girls decide between themselves which pieces went to each of them and wrote that on the note as well.
I just discovered your channel today, and I love your content! Dealing with emotionally charged items proved most difficult for me. When my mother passed a few years ago, my dad packed up her craft room contents and brought it to me. It made me so sad that all her beautiful fabric, laces, ribbons, etc. were sitting in boxes in my closet. Then, I stumbled upon Junk Journaling. I created keepsake books out of her items for myself and my sisters to enjoy. Afterwards, I was able to donate the remaining items without guilt or remorse.
My daughter rented an old farmhouse from the surviving children of an artist. Unbelievably, they did not want any of her craft tools, equipment, and art! My daughter called me and said the children were going to throw it all away if she didn't want it, So of course I came right over and got a huge easel, fabric, notions, tools, and paints. also some of her art work.
Off topic. I used your 15-minute system today. I had so many small messes to clean up and was feeling so overwhelmed. I tried it today and was pleasantly surprised at how many of those projects I cleaned up today. I have a swollen leg challenge and got my breaks in between to elevate my legs. It felt so good. You’re a great influence on me.
YAY!!!!!! I love that!!!!! I've had major health issues in the past - the 15-min method was one of the few things that worked for me. Knowing it was only 15-min allowed me to 'push' myself. Then I'd either be shocked that the task was done and I'd go on or I'd go rest. I am so glad it's working for you too. xoxoxo
I also wanted to let you know I've filled out a small calendar with craft things to do.... One day each week for scrapbooking, making cards, work on kits and days for does and stamps... Thanks for your help
my first shadow box was for my Daddy with his high school football teams awards and mascot. Mom said he showed it to everyone. then I made one for my husband of military and police die cuts as I had no actual items to put in it. but I left room for him to add medals, etc as he found them in his boxes.
Oh this is an awesome video...I have some things I need to take with history.... I have done this with the salt and pepper shakers from my mom.... I got some tags with strings on them...I put a brief history on it and hang out on the item....
Hey Norrine....girl, you provided a wealth of information in this tutorial, as well as some cute stories. If I can help you convince anyone to store their valuables in leak-proof boxes, let me just add this: many years ago, my husband and I separated and my 2 kids (1 was just a baby) and I went to stay with my Mom for a brief time. Long story short, I stored a lot of my cardboard boxes in her old garage where they would stay over the winter months. When I went to move about six months later, almost everything was completely destroyed, either rotted or moldy. Now not that I had a lot of valuable items by any stretch, but what was valuable and irreplaceable were my photographs, and to this day I don't have any baby pictures of my oldest child. I was completely heartbroken and still am to this day whenever I think about it. Anyway, I so appreciate you sharing, Norrine and have yourself a wonderful day!
Thank you! I should have focused more on that.... as we just had another flood in our garage this last winter, and I lost a few of the kids things. If you can't invest in a good leak-proof box, at LEAST put whatever you are storing inside a large plastic bag and label it, so it's protected and you know what is inside of it!
Be sure to check with close friends and relatives for photos. Don't count on them knowing that you have none of her. You need to tell people. They also loved your baby girl and might have pictures THEY took of her. Tell them "No rush, but please keep it in mind." An example: My grandmother was on a church mission 55 years ago in Texas. She took tons of photos while there of the people they served. One of the Texas families moved to Utah where grandmother returned after her mission. When my grandmother died 25 years ago my mom found among grandmother's things a photo of the Texas family. Grandmother never thought to give it to them. But my mom did. She took it to the one person in that family who was still in the area. Tears came to his eyes when he saw it. He confessed that his dad had gotten rid of all the photos of his mom and he didn't have one of her. He was so grateful. So, sometimes people who you barely knew may even have photos. If you want a photo badly enough, brainstorm with your friends and relatives for other people to check with who were your associates at the time.
Thanks, this has always been a problem for me. Now that I'm older and having health issues, I'm panicking about it even more. I don't want post it notes on everything, but I don't want my kids to just Chuck things that have family hx. either. I think I might start a notebook dedicated to these things. I might take pix on my phone to supplement it then tell each one of them where the notebook is. I could even make suggestions as to who might want it or what might be done with it ie Aunt Sandy might want pic of her kids, or the church I grew up in might like pix of christenings in the old church and it's long ago Pastors from the 1940s or ducks unlimited might want antique hand made decoys. etc. Thanks for the inspiration.
This was an amazing video.... Brain is overwhelmed with ideas........I love the idea of stories to go with the items... I'll have to watch this again.... So many good ideas
I used a lot of my parents and families old pics and love letters on dressers with clear coat. Even used my grandparents wall paper on some kitchen chairs and an initial G for my office these memories love em
I have been thinking recently about adding the story to a few items. I have been going through Grandma's items and wondering why did she keep this or that. Thanks for encouraging me to leave the stories.
My mom too i think she had every bank statements for the last 10 years and she had looked at then until they were falling apart and i was taking care of her finances so there was no need. She always was a bit obsessive
This was a wonderful segment. I am at that point in my craft room purge and I was stuck. Thank you so much for the steps to help me decide what to keep and what to purge.
Going through memory bins is hard to do. I really need to do it. I have way to many bins of things and it’s time to reorganize and get rid of some stuff 😊! It’s just finding the time. Setting a timer is probably the only way I’m going to be to get anything done😁. Thank you for sharing and helping us💗🤗!
Love your videos real need this just moved from our home 5 bedroom bigger lovely memories. It's been so hard just moved to Apt. So small lol. You are so right. Ty u
I have used the timer for years! I have the hate chores, and the love to do things. Depending on my emotional state, I set the time for 10 minutes of the hated things to do, and 15 minutes of the reward thing to do. I get so much more done this way! Sometimes the times are even, and sometimes the hated is longer--Again, the time depends on my emotional state at the time.
This video got me teared up. I’m going through things and being forced to get rid of 95% of our items & some are treasures! Love the idea of attaching a note! And boxing up some together. What I’ve done with the notes that came with flowers, chocolate covered strawberries etc. the become book marks in my cook books & some to recipes that we love!! Thank you! My MIL also bought-I called garage sale people!! And occasionally show family photos to see if the recognize anyone!
This will be my reminder.. Lol i have been wanting to make a t-shirt quilt with some of my younger son's clothes from when he was younger. now i live in an RV making it difficult to really be crafty. But i was thinking recently that maybe i can hand sew the pieces.. But that might take me another 18 years to complete 😂 sooo i think that will be on hold again🤦😂
Reaching this great video... A couple years ago i went thru my salt and pepper shakers collection and put little tags on each one for when and why i bought that set
My Dad passed away 7 yrs ago. My brother 10 yrs ago. Don't ask me why I was holding on to some jackets from his closet. Absolutely No Valid Reason. Got rid of 6. Yes 6! I still held on to the one that he wore to town every time I took him and 1 my brother wore all the time. I still like to look at them when I open my closet. They do bring me Joy. Someone else can get rid of those if there still here when I go. I'm ok with that😁. Thanks for all the stories here Norrine. They were great and so are you .. gt 💜
New to your channel. 1) Thank you so much for that donations list!! 2) You mentioned setting a timer. Either I blinked or this is something you've covered before. How long do you recommend to get started? (I mean, I can decide for myself, but I'm all up for suggestions. Our basement is in NEED and husband and I have been avoiding it so so long. Now we want to move; procrastination time is over.
What a great video with excellent suggestions! (Funny story too😁) Ref the digitizing photos - I don’t disagree, but want to share what I heard recently. It was a PBS interview with archivists preserving everything related to NASA and our space missions. They are collecting objects and docs from people who worked in all aspects of the various missions as well as from family descendants of those people. He emphasized that they do not want digitized material. They want tangible documents and memorabilia. He said because formats change, discs, flash drives and such would be useless because there may not be a way to read them in the future. That makes me view my boxes of CDs full of photos with some trepidation. I have to wonder if they’ll end up in a landfill down the road. Printing them out just creates more problems. Catch 22!
Honestly I’m a bit surprised at this. As long as you don’t store digital files in proprietary formats you should be able to transition documents and photos to new formats as long as you keep up with the changes. It sounds like a lot but it is mostly physical digital formats and software that change but the files on them should be fine and the changes aren’t that frequent. I’m still using an external drive I bought 15 years ago, just make sure you back up the drive and store one outside your home in case you have fire/water or other damage. Cloud backup could work for this too.
My item that I want to move along is a piano. I noticed that you have music instruments on the list, but don't see a piano on the list. Do you know of a foundation or service which would benefit from one.
Piano's are hard - due the their weight and cost to have it tuned after moving. I'd check with local churches and senior homes. My Aunt has a piano at her Senior Living, and it's so awesome to hear it played by the residents. It may be an investment the church or home is willing to take, if the piano itself is free.
Hi Mary, If you would really like to give away your piano, you should thoughtfully consider paying moving men to take it to the place that can use it: like a school, a social center, etc. It will be expensive, but it will be out of your house and at a place where it will make music again! Maybe you could write off the moving expenses as a donation (for tax purposes) but check with IRS about this (I am not an accountant). Hope I was helpful 🌸.
I need so much help ororganizing I am lost. When my dad died, I got a lot of his stuff, a year later my father in law, followed by mother in law. 8 years later was my mom and husband a year later. I have a large house full of everyone else's stuff and all my stuff was put in a storage shed when my husband and I got married. Now, I have 2 large storage sheds full as well as my house. I literally have to step over stuff when I walk around my house. My father had a lot of valuable memorabilia and I am so overwhelmed and cannot afford to hire help. Any advice on how to deal with 6 different deceased people's stuff????
Reverse thinking. Because you have so many things to go through, choose the important items YOU WANT - and let the rest go. One donation pick up at a time. Don't let the idea of the item's 'value' steal any more of your energy. ❤️
Nancy Noel, I am so sorry for all your losses! You can only do a little at a time. I would start with the storage units if you are paying rent on them. If not, start sorting near the front door area and put the items in boxes for keeping, selling, donating . Keep next to the door the donations and take out 1 box every time you go run errands and drop off at the nearest center. When I schedule a pickup from Salvation Army I find I am motivated to add much more at the last minute before they come to pick up. I inherited my best friend's vast collection of art, china, etc. She had inherited her mom's and grandmothers as well. The probate attorney told me to get rid of as many inexpensive or everyday items first in garage sales (I had 3), then sell expensive items on Ebay, eTsy, etc. which I did. the rest, he said I should donate to charities, or if a historical item, to a museum. then give away the rest or keep for myself. I had to try to liquidate the estate to distribute money to the beneficiaries as I was the executrix for her estate. I had to keep exact records of all sales. I now know more about probate than I ever wanted to! she had a huge amount of stuff including paperwork she would stash inside teapots, vases, etc. she had fought cancer for 4 years and really didn't care anymore. I had 8 huge trash bags full of paperwork I gathered before I even set about trying to sort it all out for probate purposes. My entire garage and most of my house was packed with all her belongings. After all the sales, I told my family and friends to come over with trucks and vans and start taking furniture, clothes, jewelry, knickknacks , etc. If you came over, you had to leave with something! I donated huge amounts to Salvation Army every few months for years. She passed away in 2003 and in 2021 I am still finding boxes shoved in the back of the garage with her things.
Good morning! Just found your video! (Liked and subscribed!) I'm wondering about items that have some monetary value . . .I have a collection of "demitasse" cups that were my grandmother's. I have the memories of them from years ago and then after my dad passed away, it took a year, but I finally did get them in my possession - long, sad story. They gave me joy at one time, and now I'm ready to let them go to give others joy. What do you recommend for finding a collector or a value? I'm not looking to make money, but I don't want to give them away either - unless it's to a good cause. Thank you! JoAnne
I'd see if you can find a group on Facebook of demitasse collectors.... see if anyone would like to buy them. Then you know it's a group who loves and appreciates the collection.
B., What I have done in the past, is take a sample of my vintage item to antique dealers and ask them if they would like to buy them from me. I usually go to the stores I like to shop at. They don’t pay you a lot because they need to make a profit, but at least I know the item will be sold to someone who will love and enjoy it. Hope this helps.🌺
I want to say yes.... but technology is ever changing. I will have to mention that in the future - however you digitize, it WILL need to be updated! I just converted some pictures from old floppy disks for my Dad. Thanks, Annie!
Well, you've done it again ! You are always amazing & I'm not sure why I'm surprised-lol. Your info is perfectly timed & so useful. Going through bins as this video appeared. I talked my husband into watching it w/me. He's not usually interested in content related to organizing. He agreed that this was so helpful. Thank you so much! Hugs!
I forgot to tell you that you look fantastic w/the fan! You should do that w/every video! I can relate to the curly hair woes though-lol. You always look beautiful :). Hugs
SC, wow! Your husband is a good guy, to watch this video 👏🏼 Norrine has GREAT IDEAS and for you to share her ideas with your husband, is smart. Happy organizing wishes to you and your helper husband! 😎
@@dianaredflowers7928 -Yes, I'm so grateful he's helping, especially, w/some of the things for our 10 year old. Her ideas make it easier for both of us! What did any of us ever do w/out her-lol! Wishing you organizing success too :)! Hugs
Digitize yea, but I would never throw away the actual item. The way to retrieve the items from a chip or drive can be lost, but the item is there once we are long gone. I can see a future of tons of chips and drives and no way to retrieve them.
If you have a smart phone, you can actually just take a photo.... of the photo! It will put it in a .jpg format. Then you can safely store it on your computer or external drive. I may do a video showing how to do this.
The hardest for me to get rid of r my kids stuff with my daughter she lives with me and helps me with her stuff but my sons stuff it is much harder. He passed away in 2013 his stuff still makes me cry.
I TOTALLY get that - and I would wait on those things. Focus on the items you can easily make decisions on.... those things are fine, and do not need to be gone through yet. 💙
@@TheCraftyOrganizer he had been gone for almost 7 years so its time.. My daughter keeps saying what James want he loved u he would want the best for u and she is right but it is still hard
you have gotten me to think. I am VERY sentimental. I have things..crafting sewing etc from my mom. I have her mink jacket for years, still don't know what to do with it. I have my dads special jacket from bowling. it meant alot and special to him. don't know what to do with it. one of my son's has taken his bowling bag and balls. it's spook card for me to get rid of things, but I appreciate video in how it could be done. I will have to get myself to separate from the items.. isles me cry just to say that.. wow how bad I'm I ?..thanks for your videos..
Not bad at all! Completely normal!!! Just remind yourself the 'item' isn't honoring your loved one... the memory is. So, if you're not using it - letting someone else LOVE it is doing the greatest honor. ❤️
I agree. The memory is everlasting. The item can be used and enjoyed by someone else. For example: I have bought vintage silverware flatware (not matching) from antique stores, thrift shops, eBay, etc. I USE THEM EVERYDAY for meals. I absolutely love my silverware! I like to think that some woman from 1910, 1925, 1950...bought them brand new as a newlywed...and now they are mine and they are loved. ❤️ Hope this helps.
@@dianaredflowers7928 never really thought of it that way. thanks. that will be in the back of my mind too, cause I like going to second hand places. special one up north, you pay what you think it's worth, and the monies go towards Ambulance service. and it's that type of items I get. you know what I'm trying to say lol hopefully. thanks again
I hope tons of people read your comment, ABQdianne! This is EXACTLY what I mean. You are using and loving these items that would otherwise be sitting in a box. Well done!
Not sure if you will see my comment unless I tell you it is there. I replied to Nancy Lynn who had no baby photos of her oldest child. Her post was a year ago, so about Feb 2020.
I think... unless UA-cam has changed things... that she will get a notification that someone replied to her comment. 💜 But, just in case... Nancy Lynn! You have a message :)
Thanks for watching!!! Here are the links - you can also find them in the description. xoxox Links: Call Clutter Fairy Donation List: www.callclutterfairy.com/downloads-and-checklists-.html Memory Box - Taking Care of Monkey Business: takingcareofmonkeybusiness.com... Passive Purging Video: ua-cam.com/video/sW074tmMCwY/v-deo.html
Hi ms Norrine, I hope you and your son are feeling well. I know you did a video for us clutter bugs in pain but, im still having a hard time just getting the energy to get started and the stamina to stay motivated bcus on top of pain and trying to get started, this is SO overwhelming. Its at extreme hoarder level. I will be getting an aide soon but, i still gotta put in the work bcus she doesnt know me. I will be stocking up on boxes just to get started bcus buying permanent storage containers will only be more clutter at this time. Can you do another video for us plz? Thank you for all you do!
Oh my gosh!!! Thank you for catching this! Not sure what happened... but here is the working link: www.callclutterfairy.com/downloads-and-checklists-.html
I'm not ready to be on camera but i would love to do a collaboration with you!! I love your creativity!! We have emailed, but if you don't remember me , i understand and will give you my email or email you again!
You have a very melodious, calming voice & it feels as though we're having a conversation! New subscriber here, binge watching your videos! Thanks!
Welcome to the Group, Plantitude!!! Thanks for the kind comment. Hope to see you here in the comments again soon!
Omg!! I'm an emotional mentalist if that's a word!! Lol definitely need to mentally prepare myself for some things.
One of the best videos I've ever seen! So full of great information and ways to handle a difficult subject... emotional attachment. It's so helpful that you're totally honest in your advice. Many of us need to hear it but few influencers are kind ( brave) enough to tell it like it is. 👍☺️
Thank you so much, Sandra! I am so glad it was helpful. xoxox
You are as much a life coach as an organizer....as you realize all of the feelings involved in this purging process ....much appreciated!
I have been saying, a place for everything, everything in its place," for many years. I love that someone else uses it as I don't hear it anymore.
I had some jewelry of my mom's I could not part with so I made them I to Xmas tree ornaments. It gave them a purpose, I still get to enjoy them and they are not clutter anymore.
What a lovely idea!!!! Would you mind sharing a picture?? I'd love to see them next time you have them out!!!!
my Mom pins her brooches to the backs of the pretty covers she puts over her dining room chairs when she hosts the dominoes ladies at her house. she said they thought she was so clever!
I loved your stories today! ♥️ I also really like the idea of writing the stories down for future generations to appreciate. Thank you, Norrine!
🌺🌿 Thanks, Anne!!!!
We are going through my mother in laws items today as I type this. I couldn’t believe when I checked the date on this that it’s a brand new video. God knows what you need at just the right timing too. The timer is a great idea btw. It will help me finish my own mothers items. (Gone a year and a half now)
I sure wish you lived nearby! 🤗
Thanks so much for sharing!! Great info and I love your stories too!! Thanks for all the resources.
Norrine, I love your videos. I finally got around to clear out my papers. I emptied five binders, which leaves me with five binders, one topic for each. Those five binders will be a home for crafting material. I also cleared one of my small closets, two drawers and a double door below. The other has three drawers and three doors, which will need to be done when the temperatures drop below 90 F. It's currently near 100 degrees F. And then there are doors four and five of my big closet in my bedroom.
I think you put a real meaning in Marie Kondo's idea of sparking joy.
I used to be on the cultural level of hunter/gatherer, in the last six years I did learn to decide not to pick up something just because I liked it, but only if it has a dedicated use. It's a toughie to kick that habit, I do have relapses, however, the relapses occur two or three times a year instead of every month. I will carry on.
Thank you for your compassionate videos.
Isabella, I am so proud of your progress!!!! Don't lose your momentum - and keep me posted!! Way to go!
Norrine, I liked this video very much. First of all, I love when you mention your wild hair! My niece has hair like yours so I know what you mean... Secondly, if you can believe this, I buy vintage photos from antique stores, like your aunt did. I see these beautiful photos and want them to have a home again. Lastly, I adored the ring story, so special. ❤️
You do that too?!?! That's awesome! Just do your family a favor and write "Purchased photo" on the back. LOL I love the ring story too..... it genuinely became my most prized possession. Thanks for watching and commenting 💜💙💜
When my mom passed away I got the contents of her safe deposit box. There was jewelry in it that I had appraised. Some of it was fake. But if my mom put it in the safe deposit box it had value to her. But no one in the family recognized any of it. But I couldn't get rid of it because I might find an old picture with great uncle so-and-so wearing this tie tack! So, to make sure my girls didn't face this problem in the future, I took out all my jewelry and wrote notes on each piece of who gave it to me, when, and why. I always had my girls decide between themselves which pieces went to each of them and wrote that on the note as well.
Great job!! Sounds like you're a pro at this! ;)
Great video & tips.
I especially like the one about writing down about the memory for each item.
That was so funny about the ring.😀
I just discovered your channel today, and I love your content! Dealing with emotionally charged items proved most difficult for me. When my mother passed a few years ago, my dad packed up her craft room contents and brought it to me. It made me so sad that all her beautiful fabric, laces, ribbons, etc. were sitting in boxes in my closet. Then, I stumbled upon Junk Journaling. I created keepsake books out of her items for myself and my sisters to enjoy. Afterwards, I was able to donate the remaining items without guilt or remorse.
What a beautiful solution!!! I love that you got to make keepsakes, and, in a sense, spend more time with her while making them. 💚🌿
My daughter rented an old farmhouse from the surviving children of an artist. Unbelievably, they did not want any of her craft tools, equipment, and art! My daughter called me and said the children were going to throw it all away if she didn't want it, So of course I came right over and got a huge easel, fabric, notions, tools, and paints. also some of her art work.
Omg!! That's true love... Priceless!!!😚😢tears of joy
Off topic. I used your 15-minute system today. I had so many small messes to clean up and was feeling so overwhelmed. I tried it today and was pleasantly surprised at how many of those projects I cleaned up today. I have a swollen leg challenge and got my breaks in between to elevate my legs. It felt so good. You’re a great influence on me.
YAY!!!!!! I love that!!!!! I've had major health issues in the past - the 15-min method was one of the few things that worked for me. Knowing it was only 15-min allowed me to 'push' myself. Then I'd either be shocked that the task was done and I'd go on or I'd go rest. I am so glad it's working for you too. xoxoxo
That story about the ring was so sweet!! 🥹
Aweee I love the ring story! So sweet! Great advice. 💜
I also wanted to let you know I've filled out a small calendar with craft things to do.... One day each week for scrapbooking, making cards, work on kits and days for does and stamps... Thanks for your help
my first shadow box was for my Daddy with his high school football teams awards and mascot. Mom said he showed it to everyone. then I made one for my husband of military and police die cuts as I had no actual items to put in it. but I left room for him to add medals, etc as he found them in his boxes.
Oh this is an awesome video...I have some things I need to take with history.... I have done this with the salt and pepper shakers from my mom.... I got some tags with strings on them...I put a brief history on it and hang out on the item....
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Awww my nephew was just confirmed on Sunday!! ☺
Hey Norrine....girl, you provided a wealth of information in this tutorial, as well as some cute stories. If I can help you convince anyone to store their valuables in leak-proof boxes, let me just add this: many years ago, my husband and I separated and my 2 kids (1 was just a baby) and I went to stay with my Mom for a brief time. Long story short, I stored a lot of my cardboard boxes in her old garage where they would stay over the winter months. When I went to move about six months later, almost everything was completely destroyed, either rotted or moldy. Now not that I had a lot of valuable items by any stretch, but what was valuable and irreplaceable were my photographs, and to this day I don't have any baby pictures of my oldest child. I was completely heartbroken and still am to this day whenever I think about it. Anyway, I so appreciate you sharing, Norrine and have yourself a wonderful day!
Thank you! I should have focused more on that.... as we just had another flood in our garage this last winter, and I lost a few of the kids things. If you can't invest in a good leak-proof box, at LEAST put whatever you are storing inside a large plastic bag and label it, so it's protected and you know what is inside of it!
Be sure to check with close friends and relatives for photos. Don't count on them knowing that you have none of her. You need to tell people. They also loved your baby girl and might have pictures THEY took of her. Tell them "No rush, but please keep it in mind." An example: My grandmother was on a church mission 55 years ago in Texas. She took tons of photos while there of the people they served. One of the Texas families moved to Utah where grandmother returned after her mission. When my grandmother died 25 years ago my mom found among grandmother's things a photo of the Texas family. Grandmother never thought to give it to them. But my mom did. She took it to the one person in that family who was still in the area. Tears came to his eyes when he saw it. He confessed that his dad had gotten rid of all the photos of his mom and he didn't have one of her. He was so grateful. So, sometimes people who you barely knew may even have photos. If you want a photo badly enough, brainstorm with your friends and relatives for other people to check with who were your associates at the time.
@@marilyncarlson7097 great idea
Thanks, this has always been a problem for me. Now that I'm older and having health issues, I'm panicking about it even more. I don't want post it notes on everything, but I don't want my kids to just Chuck things that have family hx. either. I think I might start a notebook dedicated to these things. I might take pix on my phone to supplement it then tell each one of them where the notebook is. I could even make suggestions as to who might want it or what might be done with it ie Aunt Sandy might want pic of her kids, or the church I grew up in might like pix of christenings in the old church and it's long ago Pastors from the 1940s or ducks unlimited might want antique hand made decoys. etc. Thanks for the inspiration.
That's a great idea, Susan. Still conveys the memory and history of the item. :)
I like the notebook and cell phone photo ideas!
This was an amazing video.... Brain is overwhelmed with ideas........I love the idea of stories to go with the items... I'll have to watch this again.... So many good ideas
Thank you for the tears. I love your ring story as that is very similar to my husbands grandparents wooden clock.
I used a lot of my parents and families old pics and love letters on dressers with clear coat. Even used my grandparents wall paper on some kitchen chairs and an initial G for my office these memories love em
COOL!!!! Can you share a picture?? CallClutterFairy@gmail.com
I have been thinking recently about adding the story to a few items. I have been going through Grandma's items and wondering why did she keep this or that. Thanks for encouraging me to leave the stories.
It changes the sentimental value of things... when there is a story with it. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
My mom too i think she had every bank statements for the last 10 years and she had looked at then until they were falling apart and i was taking care of her finances so there was no need. She always was a bit obsessive
Thank you! This is the toughest thing for me. I'll be trying again very soon.
I can relate on the memories.. I have some great and some not so great.
These are some really great ideas for what to do with sentimental items.
Thank you. Just... thank you!
Great idea. I have been keeping things just because. Now is the time to purge
Good ideas. Nice to see you back.
Thank you so much
This was a wonderful segment. I am at that point in my craft room purge and I was stuck. Thank you so much for the steps to help me decide what to keep and what to purge.
Thank you for this video! Obligation is no fun.
Oh my gosh.. This is a wonderful video...i Loved the stories..... Wonderful
Going through memory bins is hard to do. I really need to do it. I have way to many bins of things and it’s time to reorganize and get rid of some stuff 😊! It’s just finding the time. Setting a timer is probably the only way I’m going to be to get anything done😁. Thank you for sharing and helping us💗🤗!
Love your videos real need this just moved from our home 5 bedroom bigger lovely memories. It's been so hard just moved to Apt. So small lol. You are so right. Ty u
I have used the timer for years! I have the hate chores, and the love to do things. Depending on my emotional state, I set the time for 10 minutes of the hated things to do, and 15 minutes of the reward thing to do. I get so much more done this way! Sometimes the times are even, and sometimes the hated is longer--Again, the time depends on my emotional state at the time.
Good for you!!!! I love hearing people find what works for them. Way to go!
Just what I needed in my moving process thanks for the support
Such wonderful stories and ideas...doing some purging and " Swedish death cleaning" don't want my kids to have to shift through our "stuff"😀
This video got me teared up. I’m going through things and being forced to get rid of 95% of our items & some are treasures! Love the idea of attaching a note! And boxing up some together.
What I’ve done with the notes that came with flowers, chocolate covered strawberries etc. the become book marks in my cook books & some to recipes that we love!!
Thank you!
My MIL also bought-I called garage sale people!! And occasionally show family photos to see if the recognize anyone!
I love that!!!! Garage sale people!! Great idea on the book marks ❤️
I love that idea about using the cards as bookmarks... We all need bookmarks, right? 🤗
Thank you! Those were great ideas. I really like you reminding me to set a timer. The shadow boxes were a great idea.
Oh so sweet great picture
Thanks!
Thanks for sharing! Great tips!
Great ideas! Thank you ❤
You are so welcome! :D
Well done video!
Thank you I really love your videos.🦋🌸
Omg !! You just inspired an idea that i hope i will follow through with.. Re: a blanket!!
I hope so too!!!! Please keep me posted! 💜
This will be my reminder.. Lol i have been wanting to make a t-shirt quilt with some of my younger son's clothes from when he was younger. now i live in an RV making it difficult to really be crafty. But i was thinking recently that maybe i can hand sew the pieces.. But that might take me another 18 years to complete 😂 sooo i think that will be on hold again🤦😂
So many great ideals ty
Great advice thanks so much
Love this video gives me lots of ideas to make with my moms things. It's getting easier to do my craft room. Thank you so much.
Reaching this great video...
A couple years ago i went thru my salt and pepper shakers collection and put little tags on each one for when and why i bought that set
Great tips! Thanks!
Love your videos
You are great
Thanks, Pam xoxox
Love the stories and the ideas! Great inspirations. Now, where is that timer ? ⏲...
Very informative. Loved it!!
Thanks for sharing ❤️
My Dad passed away 7 yrs ago. My brother 10 yrs ago. Don't ask me why I was holding on to some jackets from his closet. Absolutely No Valid Reason. Got rid of 6. Yes 6! I still held on to the one that he wore to town every time I took him and 1 my brother wore all the time. I still like to look at them when I open my closet. They do bring me Joy. Someone else can get rid of those if there still here when I go. I'm ok with that😁. Thanks for all the stories here Norrine. They were great and so are you .. gt 💜
I'm glad you kept the jacket that brings you joy! We all deserve things that make us smile 💜
New to your channel. 1) Thank you so much for that donations list!! 2) You mentioned setting a timer. Either I blinked or this is something you've covered before. How long do you recommend to get started? (I mean, I can decide for myself, but I'm all up for suggestions. Our basement is in NEED and husband and I have been avoiding it so so long. Now we want to move; procrastination time is over.
Start with 15 - 30 min. Then take a well deserved break. If you can do another session - go for it!!! :D
@@TheCraftyOrganizer Excellent, thank you!
Yay, welcome back
What a great video with excellent suggestions! (Funny story too😁) Ref the digitizing photos - I don’t disagree, but want to share what I heard recently. It was a PBS interview with archivists preserving everything related to NASA and our space missions. They are collecting objects and docs from people who worked in all aspects of the various missions as well as from family descendants of those people. He emphasized that they do not want digitized material. They want tangible documents and memorabilia. He said because formats change, discs, flash drives and such would be useless because there may not be a way to read them in the future.
That makes me view my boxes of CDs full of photos with some trepidation. I have to wonder if they’ll end up in a landfill down the road. Printing them out just creates more problems. Catch 22!
Interesting - it IS a catch 22!!!
Honestly I’m a bit surprised at this. As long as you don’t store digital files in proprietary formats you should be able to transition documents and photos to new formats as long as you keep up with the changes. It sounds like a lot but it is mostly physical digital formats and software that change but the files on them should be fine and the changes aren’t that frequent. I’m still using an external drive I bought 15 years ago, just make sure you back up the drive and store one outside your home in case you have fire/water or other damage. Cloud backup could work for this too.
My item that I want to move along is a piano. I noticed that you have music instruments on the list, but don't see a piano on the list. Do you know of a foundation or service which would benefit from one.
Piano's are hard - due the their weight and cost to have it tuned after moving. I'd check with local churches and senior homes. My Aunt has a piano at her Senior Living, and it's so awesome to hear it played by the residents. It may be an investment the church or home is willing to take, if the piano itself is free.
Hi Mary,
If you would really like to give away your piano, you should thoughtfully consider paying moving men to take it to the place that can use it: like a school, a social center, etc. It will be expensive, but it will be out of your house and at a place where it will make music again! Maybe you could write off the moving expenses as a donation (for tax purposes) but check with IRS about this (I am not an accountant). Hope I was helpful 🌸.
Cat’s out of the bag on the ring now. 😆
They are in heaven now..... they know. ;)
I need so much help ororganizing I am lost. When my dad died, I got a lot of his stuff, a year later my father in law, followed by mother in law. 8 years later was my mom and husband a year later. I have a large house full of everyone else's stuff and all my stuff was put in a storage shed when my husband and I got married. Now, I have 2 large storage sheds full as well as my house. I literally have to step over stuff when I walk around my house. My father had a lot of valuable memorabilia and I am so overwhelmed and cannot afford to hire help. Any advice on how to deal with 6 different deceased people's stuff????
Reverse thinking. Because you have so many things to go through, choose the important items YOU WANT - and let the rest go. One donation pick up at a time. Don't let the idea of the item's 'value' steal any more of your energy. ❤️
Nancy Noel, I am so sorry for all your losses! You can only do a little at a time. I would start with the storage units if you are paying rent on them. If not, start sorting near the front door area and put the items in boxes for keeping, selling, donating . Keep next to the door the donations and take out 1 box every time you go run errands and drop off at the nearest center. When I schedule a pickup from Salvation Army I find I am motivated to add much more at the last minute before they come to pick up. I inherited my best friend's vast collection of art, china, etc. She had inherited her mom's and grandmothers as well. The probate attorney told me to get rid of as many inexpensive or everyday items first in garage sales (I had 3), then sell expensive items on Ebay, eTsy, etc. which I did. the rest, he said I should donate to charities, or if a historical item, to a museum. then give away the rest or keep for myself. I had to try to liquidate the estate to distribute money to the beneficiaries as I was the executrix for her estate. I had to keep exact records of all sales. I now know more about probate than I ever wanted to! she had a huge amount of stuff including paperwork she would stash inside teapots, vases, etc. she had fought cancer for 4 years and really didn't care anymore. I had 8 huge trash bags full of paperwork I gathered before I even set about trying to sort it all out for probate purposes. My entire garage and most of my house was packed with all her belongings. After all the sales, I told my family and friends to come over with trucks and vans and start taking furniture, clothes, jewelry, knickknacks , etc. If you came over, you had to leave with something! I donated huge amounts to Salvation Army every few months for years. She passed away in 2003 and in 2021 I am still finding boxes shoved in the back of the garage with her things.
This was a great video. Tfs
Good morning! Just found your video! (Liked and subscribed!) I'm wondering about items that have some monetary value . . .I have a collection of "demitasse" cups that were my grandmother's. I have the memories of them from years ago and then after my dad passed away, it took a year, but I finally did get them in my possession - long, sad story. They gave me joy at one time, and now I'm ready to let them go to give others joy. What do you recommend for finding a collector or a value? I'm not looking to make money, but I don't want to give them away either - unless it's to a good cause. Thank you! JoAnne
I'd see if you can find a group on Facebook of demitasse collectors.... see if anyone would like to buy them. Then you know it's a group who loves and appreciates the collection.
B.,
What I have done in the past, is take a sample of my vintage item to antique dealers and ask them if they would like to buy them from me. I usually go to the stores I like to shop at. They don’t pay you a lot because they need to make a profit, but at least I know the item will be sold to someone who will love and enjoy it. Hope this helps.🌺
Great tip, ABQdianne!
Wouldn't storing photos on the cloud avoid having the problem of having photos on outdated storage devices?
I want to say yes.... but technology is ever changing. I will have to mention that in the future - however you digitize, it WILL need to be updated! I just converted some pictures from old floppy disks for my Dad. Thanks, Annie!
Well, you've done it again ! You are always amazing & I'm not sure why I'm surprised-lol. Your info is perfectly timed & so useful. Going through bins as this video appeared. I talked my husband into watching it w/me. He's not usually interested in content related to organizing. He agreed that this was so helpful. Thank you so much! Hugs!
I forgot to tell you that you look fantastic w/the fan! You should do that w/every video! I can relate to the curly hair woes though-lol. You always look beautiful :). Hugs
SC, wow! Your husband is a good guy, to watch this video 👏🏼 Norrine has GREAT IDEAS and for you to share her ideas with your husband, is smart. Happy organizing wishes to you and your helper husband! 😎
@@dianaredflowers7928 -Yes, I'm so grateful he's helping, especially, w/some of the things for our 10 year old. Her ideas make it easier for both of us! What did any of us ever do w/out her-lol! Wishing you organizing success too :)! Hugs
Digitize yea, but I would never throw away the actual item. The way to retrieve the items from a chip or drive can be lost, but the item is there once we are long gone. I can see a future of tons of chips and drives and no way to retrieve them.
What programs do you use for photos
If you have a smart phone, you can actually just take a photo.... of the photo! It will put it in a .jpg format. Then you can safely store it on your computer or external drive. I may do a video showing how to do this.
The hardest for me to get rid of r my kids stuff with my daughter she lives with me and helps me with her stuff but my sons stuff it is much harder. He passed away in 2013 his stuff still makes me cry.
I TOTALLY get that - and I would wait on those things. Focus on the items you can easily make decisions on.... those things are fine, and do not need to be gone through yet. 💙
@@TheCraftyOrganizer he had been gone for almost 7 years so its time.. My daughter keeps saying what James want he loved u he would want the best for u and she is right but it is still hard
you have gotten me to think. I am VERY sentimental. I have things..crafting sewing etc from my mom. I have her mink jacket for years, still don't know what to do with it. I have my dads special jacket from bowling. it meant alot and special to him. don't know what to do with it. one of my son's has taken his bowling bag and balls. it's spook card for me to get rid of things, but I appreciate video in how it could be done. I will have to get myself to separate from the items.. isles me cry just to say that.. wow how bad I'm I ?..thanks for your videos..
Not bad at all! Completely normal!!! Just remind yourself the 'item' isn't honoring your loved one... the memory is. So, if you're not using it - letting someone else LOVE it is doing the greatest honor. ❤️
I agree. The memory is everlasting. The item can be used and enjoyed by someone else.
For example: I have bought vintage silverware flatware (not matching) from antique stores, thrift shops, eBay, etc. I USE THEM EVERYDAY for meals. I absolutely love my silverware! I like to think that some woman from 1910, 1925, 1950...bought them brand new as a newlywed...and now they are mine and they are loved. ❤️ Hope this helps.
@@dianaredflowers7928 never really thought of it that way. thanks. that will be in the back of my mind too, cause I like going to second hand places. special one up north, you pay what you think it's worth, and the monies go towards Ambulance service. and it's that type of items I get. you know what I'm trying to say lol hopefully. thanks again
@@TheCraftyOrganizer thanks again. :)
I hope tons of people read your comment, ABQdianne! This is EXACTLY what I mean. You are using and loving these items that would otherwise be sitting in a box. Well done!
Plagiarised name?
Not sure if you will see my comment unless I tell you it is there. I replied to Nancy Lynn who had no baby photos of her oldest child. Her post was a year ago, so about Feb 2020.
I think... unless UA-cam has changed things... that she will get a notification that someone replied to her comment. 💜 But, just in case... Nancy Lynn! You have a message :)
Thanks for watching!!! Here are the links - you can also find them in the description. xoxox
Links:
Call Clutter Fairy Donation List: www.callclutterfairy.com/downloads-and-checklists-.html
Memory Box - Taking Care of Monkey Business: takingcareofmonkeybusiness.com...
Passive Purging Video: ua-cam.com/video/sW074tmMCwY/v-deo.html
Hi ms Norrine, I hope you and your son are feeling well. I know you did a video for us clutter bugs in pain but, im still having a hard time just getting the energy to get started and the stamina to stay motivated bcus on top of pain and trying to get started, this is SO overwhelming. Its at extreme hoarder level.
I will be getting an aide soon but, i still gotta put in the work bcus she doesnt know me. I will be stocking up on boxes just to get started bcus buying permanent storage containers will only be more clutter at this time. Can you do another video for us plz?
Thank you for all you do!
The Call Clutter Fairy link doesn't work.
Oh my gosh!!! Thank you for catching this! Not sure what happened... but here is the working link: www.callclutterfairy.com/downloads-and-checklists-.html
Yes!! Hope your aide coming helps you, Aqua Fina. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@@TheCraftyOrganizer , me too. Im nervous and embarrassed bcus its a lot.
I'm not ready to be on camera but i would love to do a collaboration with you!! I love your creativity!! We have emailed, but if you don't remember me , i understand and will give you my email or email you again!
YES! I am so bad with emails.... I have so much going on that it takes the lowest slot on visiting.
I’m having a hard time with books, cd, dvds, and games!!!!