Being present in your family has more value than most people realize. You folks are not "just" homesteading, you are intentionally investing in your marriage, your children and their future. These family bonds are far stronger with all working together and providing for one another. Each family member can be confident in that they have had a part in what sustains you all. Thank you for allowing us along for the lessons. Blessings on your day Kiddos!🌻🐛💕
Little Buggy is so stinkin cute! And i love how she wants to be involved in everything and im so impressed, Ben with the patience you have while shes getting her time on camera. Lol😂 Great Daddy! ❤ love your whole family and id just like to say thank you for sharing your life teaching us. Bless you all. 🙏❤🥰
Sincere thankfulness to you ..the Hollar family..for sharing your truths with us..I hope we all get to live together in a big community in the sky someday..with me in my bare feet doin whatever..makin bacon..and music..and bein content..ty..xoxo.. blessings to y'all in every way ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes, I love that you don't use baby talk. You allow her in the conversation, and you also allow her independence in the background, too. She has awesome vocabulary learning words like Prosciutto and able to put full sentences together like she does. And she loves to help both of you.
I got to spend the day with my homesteading son today and he was telling me their ups and downs of that tough life, but he would not change it for anything. When he talks about their life and his small sawmill business along with it, his face lights up. Life can be challenging no matter what, but I would much rather be challenged in the country rather than the city.
You two have coffee time together to relax and talk, my wife and I took a boring chore and turned it into our time together and it is washing dishes, We took something that was boring by oneself and used it as time with each other and talk the days plans or accomplishments and sometimes old memories. It made the time go fast and satisfying, We have been married for 61 years and knocking on the door of 80 years old.
I am soooo happy about your pregnancy. As a mom of six grown children, I am sooo very glad that I had so many children. I can't imagine life without them. They are a blessing just as the Bible says.
I was telling my husband about you (I've watched for about 5 years now), and what I see that you have achieved most of all is a healthy family. You are all glowing! You have great relationships with your kids. Their faces light up when they talk about the food you prepare for them. This is a life well lived, and you created it. You are an inspiration!
Best move in our marriage we ever made was leaving city life. And with 7 children homesteading was the best move financially. I've spent most of the last 19 years in my kitchen and I don't regret it
It's the way I grew up, but we were called farmers back then! I remember a winter in the 70s, big ice storm, no electricity. 60 Holsteins to be milked twice/day. Frozen water, frozen everything! Dad and Mom did all the milking and 220 acres of fieldwork. We had a huge garden, growing and preserving most everything. And 100 chickens! Selling the milk and eggs was the income. I look back, sure it was work, but it was good, satisfying work. I wish i had stayed and taken it over. Good life! ❤❤❤❤❤
Ohh you were blessed ❤. I grew up on a fairly small vineyard/ farm. We were involved in everything also. Would love to be back in that time at my current age lol. Late hubby had absolutely no interest in it 😢👵🏻👩🌾❣️
Meg said it so perfect. I’m in my 70’s now, but have been homesteading since my early 20’s. Didn’t have many friends that understood why we lived the life we did when, as they said” u can just go to the grocery store & buy it”🤣. They just didn’t understand how good it feels to sit down to the table & know that everything u r eating u grew & raised. 👍. The sense of pride is fantastic. All the hard work is well worth it. Plus u get the benefit of it being healthier then anything u can buy. Keep going, all of u that r homesteading. I’m so glad that this type of life is making a comeback. 😜. The Hollers r a wonderful family to follow. 🥰
I just pictured her enthusiastically telling plants to "gwow" for 20 minutes. and it made me smile. I needed that! Also... Buggy talking about "Piscuto" Char-CUTE-rie! I can't take that much adorable.
I cannot eat at a restaurant any longer, after growing, preserving and cooking our meals from scratch every day....restaurant food has to be spectacular to compete . My husband and I pack a thermos of tea, 2 cups and go wandering the forest trails he's created each day....with a basket in case I find wild edibles along the way.
I just watched Becky and her sister take your hog butchering class. Becky and her sister raved about Meg's cooking, Ben's teaching skills and your whole life choices.😊
you forgot one very important thing..your children are going to reap the rewards of having their mother and father everyday..not coming home tired and grumpy from a hard days work. most kids are sent off to daycares and babysitters after being in school all day..your family is richer than most families these days..i have been watching for some time now..and still love watching your family daily routine
If you talk to your children like they are fully able to converse, you get children that communicate like Buggy. As a former Kindergarten Teacher Assistant, it is so wonderful. It is sad the children who have trouble because they are talked at, not talked to. So glad y'all are living the life you dream of. Did you trim your beard? 👍 love you Meg, your enthusiasm is contagious.
I like how you guys get everyone involved in working together. You are teaching skills for your children. Almost hundred years ago, men worked together and children saw their uncles, nephews and the boys learned how to be men. Then I see Buggy that she likes working in the kitchen and working with you. Ben. Solving problems on your homestead will help your children be able to learn to solve problems and be good husbands. To think outside the box. I salute to you and your wife of being a great team. Thank you for being an example for others.
I really like the coffee time idea. My husband and I have started praying for each other each night after going to bed. It is nice praying together and we've been having restful sleep. I would recommend it to everyone.
Being a homesteader the work is never done, but the food you put on your table is free from all the additives etc so you know what you and your children are eating. As a child of the 60's my father had an allotment so we always had fresh veggies and eggs from the chickens. My father ever the romantic bought my mother 2 piglets as a wedding present, 1 for them and the other one to sell!! His gifting never changed! All your hard work pays off..
Okay, I’m on my 2nd glass after a rough day🤪 I admire the two of you so much. I work in a car dealership. Enough said. I am the go to person when promises are not kept and folks are unhappy. It is truly therapeutic to me to be able to watch how you live, your humor, your creativity, the love of caring for family in every possible way, and your commitment to growing and raising your own food. I hope you know how much peace and comfort you bring to your viewers. It takes us away for a little while….a dose of humanity, a respite. Thank you for all you share and you generosity of spirit⭐️
I’m thinking that you are not only growing the food you eat but you are teaching your children to be creative, self sufficient and to think and work out side the box. With what and how you are teaching them, they can face whatever life has for them. 😊
Long time viewer ... really hit the spot, I needed this. Finally got my land in NC, miserable up north, I just want to go, don't even care about the $$ anymore. Kids are grown, doing great. Time for me I guess, to just do it. TY Hollar family, you give more inspiration than you could ever imagine.
I Love “coffee time” the idea of date night is very important in a marriage but for those of us out there that don’t really care for “town” being on your own property maybe walking along and sipping caffeinated nectar of joy sounds absolutely wonderful
lol I was waiting for Buggy to yell “lay flat bacon” lol. Like she does when she plants seeds, “grow!” She is such a smart girl for her age, because of her wonderful parents.
It is so good to hear that you are the happiest you've ever been! What a blessing. I remember a looooong time ago hearing your story of when Ben was working so many hours and "other issues." You are my children's age and I love seeing your successes and hard times too. I'm pulling and praying for you. Thanks for the tip on the pot stickers...mine always stick!
Buggy needs to have her own episode. She reminds me of when I was a little girl. It brings me so much joy and warms my heart to see her experience the beauty of the life you guys are creating. The way she looks at the world around her and her happiness are contagious.😊
Great show today. The love you show each other is wonderful to see. I’m so glad you guys decided to give your marriage a hard reset and do a homestead. Another benefit is I’m afraid to buy anything now. Bio engineered food is almost all we have. I’m 70 but wish I would have done this when is was younger. Second your little girl is so adorable she is not afraid to touch a pig leg in the fridge and salt it. I love it when she appears with her cuteness.
I'm 70 and as long as I can get out of bed every day, it's not too late to live the life you enjoy. Yes, every year gardening gets harder but one day in my garden is better that ten days in the city.
@@nancyseery2213Amen to that! I am 75 years young and gardening is a big part of what keeps me going. I am so blessed to be so active. Blessings on your 2024 garden season Kiddo!🥰🌻🐛💕
Buggy is beyond adorable! She reminds me of my daughter who grew up just like this and is now 12. Buggy could possibly change her mind about the animals though. We don’t have farm animals on our homestead but my daughter was always involved in the process after a deer was killed and we always visited the local farms that we have bought our meat from her whole life. She knows the farmers and she knew the animals that she was eating. And now although she will still eat meat (thank God!) she loves her deer that live on our land too much to even want to restock the freezer with venison.
There is a book I came across many years ago. Describing exactly the sentiments you’re trying to convey. I think I bought it at Baker Creek in 2010. It’s called The Have More Plan. It really got the gears churning in my head. You’re definitely on the right path, you both look so happy. Congratulations on all of your accomplishments.
My maternal grandma had quiet hour after lunch. Each child had to play, nap, read solo! I instituted it with 5 kids i babysat and the kids loved it. Each person needs time to be quiet and slow down. Coffee time is good!
I remember when the six of you were on the road looking for your homestead. You were in some RV Park and made your entire Thanksgiving meal in your camper. Then you set up table and chairs outside with lights. It was very, very touching. All of you just enjoyed that wonderful moment together. And now you have two more additions!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Of the two of you, I would have bet dollars to donuts Meg would be the one with a second channel! Never in a million years did I think Ben Holler would have two channels! Way to go!!
Love that you both set aside a few minutes every day to sit down together for coffee time or tea time!❤ It's healthy for your relationship! Dinner will be delicious! Winter cabbage and broccoli are so sweet and delicious! Soon you'll be slicing tasty bacon for the family. It's hard to beat good smoked bacon! You're my favorite family!❤
And you have Buggly following you around Ben ~ moments, days, weeks, months and years of bonding with her! What a gift!!!! KEEP HAVING COFFEE TOGETHER! So happy for you! There is nothing wrong with "a lot of work"! You are happy! You are working for yourselves! You are BLESSED!
What a good vid!! I’ve been with you guys since California & have watched the transformation from back yard to road trip to homestead! I’m 70 & did about 10 years off grid. It’s hard physical work under unpredictable conditions. What it boils down to is having a good partner. Good communication. Respect for each other. You have that. Carry on❤️
Becky from Acre Homestead came to learn about hog butchering. She posted some photos of her exciting trip with her sister. She speaks so highly of both you and Meg and she loved the. food which you prepared. I have followed Becky for a couple of years now and was delighted to know that she loves your channel as much as I do. She was so impressed by the reverence with which you care for your animals and the meticulous care you show when processing it.
Buggy's vocabulary is amazing for her age. Your broccoli is beautiful. Our greenhouse is doing well. We are getting cucumbers, tomatoes, all of the herbs, lettuce, kale, spinach, collards and broccoli. We have a heater in our greenhouse and it's worth it to be getting the fresh veggies right now. Unfortunately what we're seeing at the grocery store as far as fresh veggies go- they look pitiful and the price....forgetaboutit! lol. I joined your channel when you started your road trip and it's so good to see where you are now. May God bless you and your family.
I believe this to be true for so many of us. The backstories of our lives sometimes propel us to something better, more rewarding and infinitely more healthy. It’s lovely of you to remind us of those journeys. It’s definitely true for our family. Thanks again for being so very dear to so many of us. ❤️
Meg, I really admire how you take care of your family by providing home-cooked meals. You are a superstar in the kitchen and I admire the example you’re setting for women. I’d like to encourage you (all homesteading content creators) to ask yourselves this question: If you took UA-cam off the table, would it be worth it and could you provide for your family and animals? The truth is that homesteading costs money so you must have income of some kind. I haven’t see one single UA-camr admit that UA-cam is the only reason they can afford to homestead. Another truth is that homesteading is hard work and there’s a reason why people stopped doing it. It is incredibly rewarding, but no matter how much you love it, there are expenses that require your dollars. I just hate to see people get into it and then feel like they were sold a false bill of goods because they can’t figure out how make it work.
I'm pretty sure that most gardeners wear the sign "Will work for food" because we know the satisfaction that comes from it, plus all of the other benefits
@@bost3119check out the video on the new additions.... they are adding on to the house to make more room.... for another new addition LOL! It's worth a re-watch🌻🐛👍
What's the old saying...if your not working then your not productive. Homesteading, farming, gardening, ranching is hard work. The application of this hard work changed with world war 2 when everyone moved to the suburbs. Were producing our vegetables, and buying meat from a farmer who is a friend. We've been maintaining our property, and modifying more of it when we can to continue to grow more food. I would rather work for my food on my property than to work for someone else just for a paycheck, and a life of stress. HA....we both had a craving for Asian food. This evening I made chicken lettuce wraps and cucumber salad. I have to say all that bacon smoking smells good all the way over here in Oklahoma 😜
I watched you guys from the beginning leaving CA. Traveling around the US. Then settling on East Coast. Growing a garden, then animals. Awesome job..💯💯
The main thing is the homestead life is what you both want. I have a homesteaders heart and would love to have a homestead, however, it is not my husband’s desire at all, so I watch homesteaders like y’all instead. One can not do all the work homesteading requires all by themselves. It takes many hands and a mate that is willing to share in that homestead dream. I want to add to what Meg said that growing and cooking your meals from scratch you don’t have all them added chemicals fast food has in it. Keep living the good homestead life. You’re living my dream and I love watching how each day unfolds. 😊
Every time I see either one of you working with your children, I picture them as adults themselves, recounting to someone how they have the fondest memories of working side by side with their parents. They say that trauma can have generational impact, well, what you are doing is the exact opposite...positively impacting your children, their children and so on. The. Most. Important. Work. One. Does. Well done you two.
Jess from Roots N Refuge said it perfectly. "Store bought tomatoes taste like disappointment". Buggy's dissertation on prosciutto was amazing. What 3 year old even KNOWS the word prosciutto??? Seriously. Genius child. Absorbing from the brothers. Yay coffee time! Go solve the world's problems.
My daughter was around Brett's age when she bought the groucho glasses. Love it+ Mom and Dad do need time. My husband and I always took around 15 minutes by ourselves when he got home from work for mom and dad time. I think country living, no matter the acreage, is peaceful for the soul. I don't think it matters how much you grow or raise, get a little piece of land and see how your soul will find peace.+
I did this same thing yesterday, and was telling my cousin, it's a blessing to get dumplings from your house instead of a restaurant! Made my own ramen , with dumlings on the side w/dipping sauce Tommorrow will be pepper steak, Lo mein and dumplings
Buggy loves being with Dad when he’s working outside and she asks Ben questions while he’s filming and he always acknowledges her and lets her finish…so beautiful to watch💜! We can all tell how happy y’all are by the way Ben and Meg smile and look at each other as they are filming💜! Just know we love The Hollar Homestead more with each passing year🤗🤗🤗!
A famous Johnny Cash quote when asked what his definition of paradise was- “This morning, with her, having coffee.” He of course, was talking about the love of his life….his wife, June. ♥️
16:29 totally agree. I tried to convince my husband about just that. Working for self instead of working for others to pay for food. And enjoying growing processing instead of working with less enjoyment at a paid job.
When we moved to our homestead I worked for two years and made the decision to retire and homestead full time. Started with chickens and then goats. Went to you tube U and learned to make cheese and soap. Put in a garden raised a bunch of veggies. Then made the full leap and now have raised and processed four cows and two pigs. I've also processed a dozen are so chickens. I wouldn't trade my life now for any 9-5! And I am mentally and physically healthier. God Bless!
I've been watching your videos ever since you were on the road leaving California. I keep watching your videos because you not only show us what you're doing but you also take the time and explain how and why it's done. Thanks for going out your way to really help those of us who's still learning.
Meg with the amount of cooking you do, you need a dishwasher. Every couple needs time alone. When my grandchildren were young my daughter and son-in-law would load up the kids and go get coffee and go for a drive. They still carry on that tradition only now the kids are grown and they go alone. That communication is so important for a healthy marriage.
Look at the amazing adventures that your family has had. Not just the Hollar family, but any family that has tried any form of self sustainability...even if it doesn't end the way that you thought. You and your children have shared experiences that you wouldn't have had. Trying this lifestyle is NEVER A FAIL. You LIVE and you LEARN. That is life. If you don't step out at least once and expand your horizons, you never truly experience life.
@@donnamays24 thank you. My children lived for a time in a sporting camp...38 miles from the nearest phone pole... generator for electric during the day...homeschooled...flooded in for 3 months...tapped birch and maple trees to make syrup as part if their science, math and natural history classes...16 gallons by the way...they planted gardens.. ground deer meet for burger..it didn't last as long as I would have wanted, but they still treasure the memories. As do I.
Good for the kids too. Helps them learn lots. More responsibility, more patience, more learning about siblings. Maybe they could come up with their own lists.
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You have NOT ruined your choice of vegetables, you just found what real food taste like. Did you guys mention if you are having a boy or girl? Or did I miss it? I watch all your videos. Looking good Meg! You're glowing. My daughter is expecting her fourth child in June. You all are doing an awesome job.
I loved your explanation/thoughts on how living in general requires labour, and how choosing what sort is right for you is truly the key to a content life!
Putting the work in is hard, and we don’t have cows or pigs. Big garden, greenhouse, chickens and rabbits. Worth it, but we still work full time. Still have bills to pay. Love to watch you all. Miss Buggy makes my grandma heart 😊
I love your channel and love Buggy. Ben, you are a great Dad, she loves to be with you. Highlight of the channel always, Buggy and Ben. Well , actually , I love Megs cooking too...
I love the harsh reality that homesteading is. You guys do well showing what it's like without skipping the hard parts. And I don't know if you planned it, but it was nice to see, at the end of the video, how tasks (like smoking bacon) aren't done for the day just because dinner is done and you FEEL like relaxing. 😉
I came over after Becky from Acre Homestead visited you and filmed her hog butchering class with you. I hope you get a lot more subscribers coming over from her😊
I just love your approach on life, you’re doing what’s best for your family and it’s refreshing to see a homesteader actually growing and harvesting their own food. I applaud you both. ❤
I do burgers, sausage and bacon in the oven. Meg you should do a soap making and skincare product class, like the pig butchering class. So many people want to learn about it. Great video. As always.
Good video! It was nice seeing you talk about the depth of your relationship with each other. You are both doing a wonderful thing for yourselves and your family! Thanks!
Brassicas mellow and sweeten in cold temps. We always left Brussel sprouts on the stems through December in zone 6. Picked them in the snow.❄⛄⛄❄ So sweet!
I know in our first 3 houses when the kids were young I worked, my husband worked but I still came home every day and because I worked less hours I took care of the yard but I also cooked all our meals so that we sat down as a family at the dinner table. I think people don’t sit down at the dinner table anymore and talk and discusslike they used to everything is fast fast fast and especially fast food. I think it makes a big difference just that you know 45 minutes or an hour sitting at the dinner table discussing with your kids their day and your husband or your wife their day it doesn’t seem like a lot but it is a lot to the relationship of the whole family.
My grandchildren call me Nonna, not because we are Italian but because I love how they respect their food. They are artisans of everything … olives, grapes, cheese, meats, etc and they don’t rush things. You all are doing GREAT
Good afternoon. I recall you saying that you enjoyed the moving cow and milking time together because it gave you time for chatting over necessaries. Coffee or milking, it’s the time together that’s important. 💚
Well said, Meg! I think one of the best benefits of growing your own food that isn't spoken about enough is getting to let the garden make your meal plan! 🥦
Being present in your family has more value than most people realize. You folks are not "just" homesteading, you are intentionally investing in your marriage, your children and their future. These family bonds are far stronger with all working together and providing for one another. Each family member can be confident in that they have had a part in what sustains you all. Thank you for allowing us along for the lessons. Blessings on your day Kiddos!🌻🐛💕
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Little Buggy is so stinkin cute! And i love how she wants to be involved in everything and im so impressed, Ben with the patience you have while shes getting her time on camera. Lol😂 Great Daddy! ❤ love your whole family and id just like to say thank you for sharing your life teaching us. Bless you all. 🙏❤🥰
Agreed wholeheartedly‼️ You saved me from expressing his relationship with his kids…very tolerant as well his wife. Great family no deviances….
You took the words right out of my mouth!
She is adorable!
Sincere thankfulness to you ..the Hollar family..for sharing your truths with us..I hope we all get to live together in a big community in the sky someday..with me in my bare feet doin whatever..makin bacon..and music..and bein content..ty..xoxo..
blessings to y'all in every way ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes, I love that you don't use baby talk. You allow her in the conversation, and you also allow her independence in the background, too. She has awesome vocabulary learning words like Prosciutto and able to put full sentences together like she does. And she loves to help both of you.
Ben, Your Wife is beaming! She is totally Beautiful , Her eyes are Shinning . God Bless Your family and your love for each other.
I got to spend the day with my homesteading son today and he was telling me their ups and downs of that tough life, but he would not change it for anything. When he talks about their life and his small sawmill business along with it, his face lights up. Life can be challenging no matter what, but I would much rather be challenged in the country rather than the city.
You two have coffee time together to relax and talk, my wife and I took a boring chore and turned it into our time together and it is washing dishes, We took something that was boring by oneself and used it as time with each other and talk the days plans or accomplishments and sometimes old memories. It made the time go fast and satisfying, We have been married for 61 years and knocking on the door of 80 years old.
I am soooo happy about your pregnancy. As a mom of six grown children, I am sooo very glad that I had so many children. I can't imagine life without them. They are a blessing just as the Bible says.
I guess I missed the announcement. 🎉
ME TOO! @@karincartwright8752
I was telling my husband about you (I've watched for about 5 years now), and what I see that you have achieved most of all is a healthy family. You are all glowing! You have great relationships with your kids. Their faces light up when they talk about the food you prepare for them. This is a life well lived, and you created it. You are an inspiration!
Best move in our marriage we ever made was leaving city life. And with 7 children homesteading was the best move financially. I've spent most of the last 19 years in my kitchen and I don't regret it
It's the way I grew up, but we were called farmers back then!
I remember a winter in the 70s, big ice storm, no electricity. 60 Holsteins to be milked twice/day. Frozen water, frozen everything!
Dad and Mom did all the milking and 220 acres of fieldwork. We had a huge garden, growing and preserving most everything. And 100 chickens! Selling the milk and eggs was the income. I look back, sure it was work, but it was good, satisfying work. I wish i had stayed and taken it over. Good life! ❤❤❤❤❤
Ohh you were blessed ❤. I grew up on a fairly small vineyard/ farm. We were involved in everything also. Would love to be back in that time at my current age lol. Late hubby had absolutely no interest in it 😢👵🏻👩🌾❣️
Meg said it so perfect. I’m in my 70’s now, but have been homesteading since my early 20’s. Didn’t have many friends that understood why we lived the life we did when, as they said” u can just go to the grocery store & buy it”🤣. They just didn’t understand how good it feels to sit down to the table & know that everything u r eating u grew & raised. 👍. The sense of pride is fantastic. All the hard work is well worth it. Plus u get the benefit of it being healthier then anything u can buy. Keep going, all of u that r homesteading. I’m so glad that this type of life is making a comeback. 😜. The Hollers r a wonderful family to follow. 🥰
Well said 👍🤩🥰👵🏻👩🌾❣️
Buggy needs her own channel! "Growing up Hollar"!!
lol, I was thinking the same thing. She's something else.
I just pictured her enthusiastically telling plants to "gwow" for 20 minutes. and it made me smile. I needed that! Also... Buggy talking about "Piscuto" Char-CUTE-rie! I can't take that much adorable.
Thank y’all for being so real and not FAKE that’s why I’ve followed y’all from the get go.
I cannot eat at a restaurant any longer, after growing, preserving and cooking our meals from scratch every day....restaurant food has to be spectacular to compete . My husband and I pack a thermos of tea, 2 cups and go wandering the forest trails he's created each day....with a basket in case I find wild edibles along the way.
We are the same way now
I just watched Becky and her sister take your hog butchering class. Becky and her sister raved about Meg's cooking, Ben's teaching skills and your whole life choices.😊
Don't even start with the Becky comment bot crap, ok, thank you.
you forgot one very important thing..your children are going to reap the rewards of having their mother and father everyday..not coming home tired and grumpy from a hard days work. most kids are sent off to daycares and babysitters after being in school all day..your family is richer than most families these days..i have been watching for some time now..and still love watching your family daily routine
If you talk to your children like they are fully able to converse, you get children that communicate like Buggy. As a former Kindergarten Teacher Assistant, it is so wonderful. It is sad the children who have trouble because they are talked at, not talked to. So glad y'all are living the life you dream of. Did you trim your beard? 👍 love you Meg, your enthusiasm is contagious.
Plus no shots. No indoctrination by the public school system either. Where they teach you what to think not how to think.
That kind of coffee time is beautiful. Thank you for sharing that moment. You both really inspire me, even during my tough times.
I like how you guys get everyone involved in working together. You are teaching skills for your children. Almost hundred years ago, men worked together and children saw their uncles, nephews and the boys learned how to be men. Then I see Buggy that she likes working in the kitchen and working with you. Ben. Solving problems on your homestead will help your children be able to learn to solve problems and be good husbands. To think outside the box. I salute to you and your wife of being a great team. Thank you for being an example for others.
I really like the coffee time idea. My husband and I have started praying for each other each night after going to bed. It is nice praying together and we've been having restful sleep. I would recommend it to everyone.
Being a homesteader the work is never done, but the food you put on your table is free from all the additives etc so you know what you and your children are eating. As a child of the 60's my father had an allotment so we always had fresh veggies and eggs from the chickens.
My father ever the romantic bought my mother 2 piglets as a wedding present, 1 for them and the other one to sell!! His gifting never changed!
All your hard work pays off..
Your daddy was my kind of man. Too bad I never met my dream man. (Serious)
That would be a wonderful gift 🎁🐖 👩🌾👩🌾❣️
Nor me! Am 61 and still single. X
Okay, I’m on my 2nd glass after a rough day🤪
I admire the two of you so much.
I work in a car dealership.
Enough said.
I am the go to person when promises are not kept and folks are unhappy.
It is truly therapeutic to me to be able to watch how you live, your humor, your creativity, the love of caring for family in every possible way, and your commitment to growing and raising your own food.
I hope you know how much peace and comfort you bring to your viewers.
It takes us away for a little while….a dose of humanity, a respite.
Thank you for all you share and you generosity of spirit⭐️
I wish every family would sit around the table and eat! What makes is so special mom is a good cook,and all the kids enjoy being together!
I’m thinking that you are not only growing the food you eat but you are teaching your children to be creative, self sufficient and to think and work out side the box. With what and how you are teaching them, they can face whatever life has for them. 😊
Long time viewer ... really hit the spot, I needed this. Finally got my land in NC, miserable up north, I just want to go, don't even care about the $$ anymore. Kids are grown, doing great. Time for me I guess, to just do it. TY Hollar family, you give more inspiration than you could ever imagine.
I Love “coffee time” the idea of date night is very important in a marriage but for those of us out there that don’t really care for “town” being on your own property maybe walking along and sipping caffeinated nectar of joy sounds absolutely wonderful
lol I was waiting for Buggy to yell “lay flat bacon” lol. Like she does when she plants seeds, “grow!” She is such a smart girl for her age, because of her wonderful parents.
For the first few minutes, it's the Buggy Show😂
It is so good to hear that you are the happiest you've ever been! What a blessing. I remember a looooong time ago hearing your story of when Ben was working so many hours and "other issues." You are my children's age and I love seeing your successes and hard times too. I'm pulling and praying for you. Thanks for the tip on the pot stickers...mine always stick!
You nailed it! To live a happy, healthy life is why homesteaders do what they do.
I know it’s totally worth it! Buggys vocabulary is getting broad! She’s absolutely precious! Blessings guys❤
Buggy needs to have her own episode. She reminds me of when I was a little girl. It brings me so much joy and warms my heart to see her experience the beauty of the life you guys are creating. The way she looks at the world around her and her happiness are contagious.😊
the lady in the kitchen in these videos is the best cook of all the ladies on these type shows. She has style and grace and is also easy on the eye.
Great show today. The love you show each other is wonderful to see. I’m so glad you guys decided to give your marriage a hard reset and do a homestead. Another benefit is I’m afraid to buy anything now. Bio engineered food is almost all we have. I’m 70 but wish I would have done this when is was younger.
Second your little girl is so adorable she is not afraid to touch a pig leg in the fridge and salt it. I love it when she appears with her cuteness.
I'm 70 and as long as I can get out of bed every day, it's not too late to live the life you enjoy. Yes, every year gardening gets harder but one day in my garden is better that ten days in the city.
@@nancyseery2213Amen to that! I am 75 years young and gardening is a big part of what keeps me going. I am so blessed to be so active. Blessings on your 2024 garden season Kiddo!🥰🌻🐛💕
Buggy is beyond adorable! She reminds me of my daughter who grew up just like this and is now 12. Buggy could possibly change her mind about the animals though. We don’t have farm animals on our homestead but my daughter was always involved in the process after a deer was killed and we always visited the local farms that we have bought our meat from her whole life. She knows the farmers and she knew the animals that she was eating. And now although she will still eat meat (thank God!) she loves her deer that live on our land too much to even want to restock the freezer with venison.
Yes I love gardening and am active. I was talking about butchering your own meat that I wish I would have done in my younger years.
There is a book I came across many years ago. Describing exactly the sentiments you’re trying to convey. I think I bought it at Baker Creek in 2010. It’s called The Have More Plan. It really got the gears churning in my head. You’re definitely on the right path, you both look so happy. Congratulations on all of your accomplishments.
My maternal grandma had quiet hour after lunch. Each child had to play, nap, read solo! I instituted it with 5 kids i babysat and the kids loved it. Each person needs time to be quiet and slow down. Coffee time is good!
Thank you for that BEAUTIFUL INSIGHT that is your life. WOW!
The fact that you know what you are eating would make it worthwhile.
I remember when the six of you were on the road looking for your homestead. You were in some RV Park and made your entire Thanksgiving meal in your camper. Then you set up table and chairs outside with lights. It was very, very touching. All of you just enjoyed that wonderful moment together. And now you have two more additions!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
Lol I remember that also 😂👵🏻👩🌾❣️
Of the two of you, I would have bet dollars to donuts Meg would be the one with a second channel! Never in a million years did I think Ben Holler would have two channels! Way to go!!
Love that you both set aside a few minutes every day to sit down together for coffee time or tea time!❤ It's healthy for your relationship! Dinner will be delicious! Winter cabbage and broccoli are so sweet and delicious! Soon you'll be slicing tasty bacon for the family. It's hard to beat good smoked bacon! You're my favorite family!❤
Brett is hilarious! I hope he wears his disguise 🥸 frequently. You all rock!!
Much love from the Midwest US 💖
Can't wait to spot him. Like a Where's Waldo? LOL!! Love the humor of the family, and how everyone feels in a safe space to express themselves. 💜
@@journeywithnichole
That is SO important…the feeling of being in a safe place 😍👵🏻👩🌾❣️
And you have Buggly following you around Ben ~ moments, days, weeks, months and years of bonding with her! What a gift!!!! KEEP HAVING COFFEE TOGETHER! So happy for you! There is nothing wrong with "a lot of work"! You are happy! You are working for yourselves! You are BLESSED!
That frozen wood is the key to the cold smoke!😅
What a good vid!! I’ve been with you guys since California & have watched the transformation from back yard to road trip to homestead! I’m 70 & did about 10 years off grid. It’s hard physical work under unpredictable conditions. What it boils down to is having a good partner. Good communication. Respect for each other. You have that. Carry on❤️
Coffee date time ! Good on you two… its a luxury when you can kick the kids out for a minute or two ❤
Becky from Acre Homestead came to learn about hog butchering. She posted some photos of her exciting trip with her sister. She speaks so highly of both you and Meg and she loved the. food which you prepared. I have followed Becky for a couple of years now and was delighted to know that she loves your channel as much as I do. She was so impressed by the reverence with which you care for your animals and the meticulous care you show when processing it.
when i was watching that video i was thinking that was Becky...awesome....Love her Channel!!!
GTFO Becky bot ... nobody cares, you're using someone else's channel - scumbag move.
Buggy's vocabulary is amazing for her age. Your broccoli is beautiful. Our greenhouse is doing well. We are getting cucumbers, tomatoes, all of the herbs, lettuce, kale, spinach, collards and broccoli. We have a heater in our greenhouse and it's worth it to be getting the fresh veggies right now. Unfortunately what we're seeing at the grocery store as far as fresh veggies go- they look pitiful and the price....forgetaboutit! lol. I joined your channel when you started your road trip and it's so good to see where you are now. May God bless you and your family.
The 3 wives should do a similar video channel. They can share cooking/preserving/gardening tips, etc.
THAT IS A GREAT IDEA!!!!!!
I believe this to be true for so many of us. The backstories of our lives sometimes propel us to something better, more rewarding and infinitely more healthy. It’s lovely of you to remind us of those journeys. It’s definitely true for our family. Thanks again for being so very dear to so many of us. ❤️
Growing your own food is the best. I love gardening. So glad your having your coffee time.❤
I like your smoker! You have used what you had to create what you need. The very definition of "sustainability" and "homesteading."
Meg, I really admire how you take care of your family by providing home-cooked meals. You are a superstar in the kitchen and I admire the example you’re setting for women. I’d like to encourage you (all homesteading content creators) to ask yourselves this question: If you took UA-cam off the table, would it be worth it and could you provide for your family and animals? The truth is that homesteading costs money so you must have income of some kind. I haven’t see one single UA-camr admit that UA-cam is the only reason they can afford to homestead. Another truth is that homesteading is hard work and there’s a reason why people stopped doing it. It is incredibly rewarding, but no matter how much you love it, there are expenses that require your dollars. I just hate to see people get into it and then feel like they were sold a false bill of goods because they can’t figure out how make it work.
I think the word you're looking for is 'rewarding ' you're life and work is rewarding.
I'm pretty sure that most gardeners wear the sign "Will work for food" because we know the satisfaction that comes from it, plus all of the other benefits
Congrats on rhe new baby
Wait when was that announced I miss every thing when I listen n clean lol
@@bost3119check out the video on the new additions.... they are adding on to the house to make more room.... for another new addition LOL! It's worth a re-watch🌻🐛👍
What's the old saying...if your not working then your not productive. Homesteading, farming, gardening, ranching is hard work. The application of this hard work changed with world war 2 when everyone moved to the suburbs. Were producing our vegetables, and buying meat from a farmer who is a friend. We've been maintaining our property, and modifying more of it when we can to continue to grow more food. I would rather work for my food on my property than to work for someone else just for a paycheck, and a life of stress.
HA....we both had a craving for Asian food. This evening I made chicken lettuce wraps and cucumber salad.
I have to say all that bacon smoking smells good all the way over here in Oklahoma 😜
Buggy is so expressive. What a doll!
I watched you guys from the beginning leaving CA. Traveling around the US. Then settling on East Coast. Growing a garden, then animals. Awesome job..💯💯
The main thing is the homestead life is what you both want. I have a homesteaders heart and would love to have a homestead, however, it is not my husband’s desire at all, so I watch homesteaders like y’all instead. One can not do all the work homesteading requires all by themselves. It takes many hands and a mate that is willing to share in that homestead dream. I want to add to what Meg said that growing and cooking your meals from scratch you don’t have all them added chemicals fast food has in it. Keep living the good homestead life. You’re living my dream and I love watching how each day unfolds. 😊
Every time I see either one of you working with your children, I picture them as adults themselves, recounting to someone how they have the fondest memories of working side by side with their parents. They say that trauma can have generational impact, well, what you are doing is the exact opposite...positively impacting your children, their children and so on. The. Most. Important. Work. One. Does. Well done you two.
Don’t say they look ugly, Ben, leave that to us! But we don’t think they look ugly. They look delicious 😋
Meg is sooooo... right! The work doesn't stop! But the work doesn't stop you!
Jess from Roots N Refuge said it perfectly. "Store bought tomatoes taste like disappointment". Buggy's dissertation on prosciutto was amazing. What 3 year old even KNOWS the word prosciutto??? Seriously. Genius child. Absorbing from the brothers. Yay coffee time! Go solve the world's problems.
My daughter was around Brett's age when she bought the groucho glasses. Love it+ Mom and Dad do need time. My husband and I always took around 15 minutes by ourselves when he got home from work for mom and dad time. I think country living, no matter the acreage, is peaceful for the soul. I don't think it matters how much you grow or raise, get a little piece of land and see how your soul will find peace.+
We’ve been married 37 yrs. we have coffee every afternoon together. One of the best things for us.
I did this same thing yesterday, and was telling my cousin, it's a blessing to get dumplings from your house instead of a restaurant! Made my own ramen , with dumlings on the side w/dipping sauce Tommorrow will be pepper steak, Lo mein and dumplings
Coffee Time ☕️ is precious. Glad you remembered.😊❤
Buggy loves being with Dad when he’s working outside and she asks Ben questions while he’s filming and he always acknowledges her and lets her finish…so beautiful to watch💜!
We can all tell how happy y’all are by the way Ben and Meg smile and look at each other as they are filming💜! Just know we love The Hollar Homestead more with each passing year🤗🤗🤗!
A famous Johnny Cash quote when asked what his definition of paradise was- “This morning, with her, having coffee.” He of course, was talking about the love of his life….his wife, June. ♥️
I can’t take how cute and smart buggy is
OMG when Buggy says 'this is a pachootoe!" too cute!
16:29 totally agree. I tried to convince my husband about just that. Working for self instead of working for others to pay for food. And enjoying growing processing instead of working with less enjoyment at a paid job.
When we moved to our homestead I worked for two years and made the decision to retire and homestead full time. Started with chickens and then goats. Went to you tube U and learned to make cheese and soap. Put in a garden raised a bunch of veggies. Then made the full leap and now have raised and processed four cows and two pigs. I've also processed a dozen are so chickens.
I wouldn't trade my life now for any 9-5! And I am mentally and physically healthier. God Bless!
I've been watching your videos ever since you were on the road leaving California. I keep watching your videos because you not only show us what you're doing but you also take the time and explain how and why it's done. Thanks for going out your way to really help those of us who's still learning.
Meg with the amount of cooking you do, you need a dishwasher. Every couple needs time alone. When my grandchildren were young my daughter and son-in-law would load up the kids and go get coffee and go for a drive. They still carry on that tradition only now the kids are grown and they go alone. That communication is so important for a healthy marriage.
Look at the amazing adventures that your family has had. Not just the Hollar family, but any family that has tried any form of self sustainability...even if it doesn't end the way that you thought. You and your children have shared experiences that you wouldn't have had. Trying this lifestyle is NEVER A FAIL. You LIVE and you LEARN. That is life. If you don't step out at least once and expand your horizons, you never truly experience life.
Well ssid❤
@@donnamays24 thank you. My children lived for a time in a sporting camp...38 miles from the nearest phone pole... generator for electric during the day...homeschooled...flooded in for 3 months...tapped birch and maple trees to make syrup as part if their science, math and natural history classes...16 gallons by the way...they planted gardens.. ground deer meet for burger..it didn't last as long as I would have wanted, but they still treasure the memories. As do I.
@@donnamays24 subscribed hon.
Nothing beats the flavour of homegrown!
Good for the kids too. Helps them learn lots. More responsibility, more patience, more learning about siblings. Maybe they could come up with their own lists.
Soy Sauce Recipe Substitute
1 cup Beef Broth can be homemade
1/4 cup Apple Cider Vinegar
1 tablespoon Blackstrap Molasses
1/2 teaspoon Garlic Powder
1/4 teaspoon Ground Ginger
1 teaspoon Salt
Instructions
In a saucepan, combine the beef broth, cider vinegar, and molasses. Add in the garlic, ginger, and salt. Mix well. Let the entire mixture simmer on the stovetop over a medium-low heat for about 10 to 15 minutes or until the sauce begins to reduce. The best flavor is when you've let it reduce to about half of it's original volume. Store the finished sauce in an air-tight container
Thanks for this, I needed a GF recipe.
You have NOT ruined your choice of vegetables, you just found what real food taste like. Did you guys mention if you are having a boy or girl? Or did I miss it? I watch all your videos. Looking good Meg! You're glowing. My daughter is expecting her fourth child in June. You all are doing an awesome job.
I loved your explanation/thoughts on how living in general requires labour, and how choosing what sort is right for you is truly the key to a content life!
Hard work is a good life. I love your coffee time for two. Take care of your marriage. It is primary for you and happy children. God bless.❤
Putting the work in is hard, and we don’t have cows or pigs. Big garden, greenhouse, chickens and rabbits. Worth it, but we still work full time. Still have bills to pay. Love to watch you all. Miss Buggy makes my grandma heart 😊
I love your channel and love Buggy. Ben, you are a great Dad, she loves to be with you. Highlight of the channel always, Buggy and Ben. Well , actually , I love Megs cooking too...
I love the harsh reality that homesteading is. You guys do well showing what it's like without skipping the hard parts. And I don't know if you planned it, but it was nice to see, at the end of the video, how tasks (like smoking bacon) aren't done for the day just because dinner is done and you FEEL like relaxing. 😉
I came over after Becky from Acre Homestead visited you and filmed her hog butchering class with you. I hope you get a lot more subscribers coming over from her😊
I just love your approach on life, you’re doing what’s best for your family and it’s refreshing to see a homesteader actually growing and harvesting their own food. I applaud you both. ❤
I do burgers, sausage and bacon in the oven.
Meg you should do a soap making and skincare product class, like the pig butchering class. So many people want to learn about it. Great video. As always.
Good video! It was nice seeing you talk about the depth of your relationship with each other. You are both doing a wonderful thing for yourselves and your family! Thanks!
Brassicas mellow and sweeten in cold temps. We always left Brussel sprouts on the stems through December in zone 6. Picked them in the snow.❄⛄⛄❄ So sweet!
I know in our first 3 houses when the kids were young I worked, my husband worked but I still came home every day and because I worked less hours I took care of the yard but I also cooked all our meals so that we sat down as a family at the dinner table. I think people don’t sit down at the dinner table anymore and talk and discusslike they used to everything is fast fast fast and especially fast food. I think it makes a big difference just that you know 45 minutes or an hour sitting at the dinner table discussing with your kids their day and your husband or your wife their day it doesn’t seem like a lot but it is a lot to the relationship of the whole family.
Get some frost blanket. A couple of layers would have probably protected the winter veggies for the odd frigid nights.
Love your coffee time ritual. It’s so important to have your special adult/husband-wife time. You deserve that! ❤
So worth it. Your courage to make big changes when it was not the right life for you is an example to all. Well done all of you. 💕💕🌻🌻
Can’t eat takeout, makes me feel really bad. I cook from scratch every day. I think you guys are doing a wonderful job! God bless
My grandchildren call me Nonna, not because we are Italian but because I love how they respect their food. They are artisans of everything … olives, grapes, cheese, meats, etc and they don’t rush things. You all are doing GREAT
And you’re doing it ALL together
Congratulations on the new baby ❤ from Missouri
Did they say anything? I must have missed the announcement ? But it looks like congratulations might be in order. I’m so happy for everyone.
OMG, Brett, you took me back to my childhood! I bought some of those glasses when I was about your age! So fun! 🤣🤣🤣
Good afternoon. I recall you saying that you enjoyed the moving cow and milking time together because it gave you time for chatting over necessaries. Coffee or milking, it’s the time together that’s important. 💚
Well said, Meg! I think one of the best benefits of growing your own food that isn't spoken about enough is getting to let the garden make your meal plan! 🥦